探寻人生巅峰风雨：清、静、敬，打造和调生活

Seeking the Summit of Life Amidst Storms and Rain: Purity, Tranquility, and Respect – Crafting a Harmonious and Balanced Life

1. 你愿意做俯贴大地的小草，还是要做高高在上的参天大树你愿意做默默无闻的啄木鸟，还是要做展翅翱翔的雄鹰要我说，做什么都是一种生活态度，只要认真去做，去努力，去探索，你会发现生活是多姿多彩的。

1. Would you rather be a humble grass that touches the ground, or a towering tree that reaches the sky? Would you rather be a默默无 fame woodpecker, or a majestic eagle soaring in the sky? I would say, whatever you choose to be is a way of life. As long as you do it seriously, put in effort, and explore, you will find that life is colorful and diverse.

2. 博学的人，知识满箩。懒散的人，力气蛮多。正直的人，双脚不会哆嗦。堕落的人，眼睛到处搜索。做人就要做个好人，不要做个坏人。

2. The learned person has a basket full of knowledge. The lazy person has plenty of strength. The upright person's feet will not tremble. The fallen person searches everywhere with their eyes. One should be a good person, not a bad person.

3. 结局和过程都有了，再去纠缠，连自我都觉得贪婪。

3. With both the outcome and the process in place, to continue to nitpick would even make one feel greedy towards oneself.

4. 如果我们只是一味地放纵春天中蓬勃的自我，而不去固守秋天中应有的深沉，那我们很难越过生命的雨季和青春的泽沼地。

4. If we merely indulge in the vigorous self of spring without adhering to the required profundity of autumn, it will be hard for us to cross over the rainy season of life and the marshlands of youth.

5. 告诉自己明天太阳依旧灿烂，生活却要华丽转身。

5. Tell yourself that tomorrow the sun will still shine brightly, but life needs to make a grand turn.

6. 阳光温暖，风中自有花香，曾经的彷徨，偶尔还有淡淡的回忆，可是时光继续着，一切都好。生活在激情与平淡间辗转浮沉，人生在梦想与现实间和谐共存。

6. The sun is warm, and there's the scent of flowers in the wind. There are moments of confusion from the past, and occasionally, faint memories linger. Yet, time continues on, and everything is fine. Life fluctuates between passion and tranquility, and existence harmoniously coexists between dreams and reality.

7. 一个放弃了名誉的人就等于放弃了生命。--阿雷蒂诺

7. A person who abandons their reputation is akin to one who abandons their life. --Aretino

8. 在生命潮起的巅峰，享受它，让我知道自己的高度；在生命潮落的低谷，忍受它，让我知道自己的韧度；高潮和低谷，两者皆使我收获和喜悦！

8. At the peak of the surge of life, enjoy it, let me know my height; at the trough of the life surge, endure it, let me know my resilience; both peaks and troughs bring me harvest and joy!

9. 成熟是一种明亮而不刺眼的光辉，一种圆润而不腻耳的音响，一种不再对别人察言观色的从容，一种不理会闹哄的微笑，更是一种大气而并不陡峭的高度

9. Maturity is a bright yet not dazzling glow, a round yet not cloying sound, a composed demeanor that no longer reads others' expressions, a smile that ignores the hustle and bustle, and even a dignified height that is not steep.

10. 不劳则懒，过劳则贪。故人分四种：懒，贪，不懒不贪，又懒又贪。人天性不懒即贪，而懒则无修，贪则失养，无修损性，失养伤命，故智者不懒不贪。

10. Lazy without work, greedy with overwork. Therefore, people can be divided into four categories: lazy, greedy, neither lazy nor greedy, and both lazy and greedy. People's nature is either greedy without being lazy, or lazy without improvement. Greed leads to neglect of nourishment, lack of improvement damages one's nature, and neglect of nourishment harms one's life. Hence, the wise are neither lazy nor greedy.

11. 无瑕的名誉是世间最纯粹的珍珠。--莎士比亚

11. A spotless reputation is the purest pearl in the world. -- Shakespeare

12. 真理往往简洁明了，也许一群蚂蚁，就诠释了生命和团结的伟大;也许一个微笑，就包含着自信和善良的力量;也许一抹云彩，就彰显了生活与自由的美好。

12. Truth is often concise and clear, perhaps a swarm of ants embodies the greatness of life and unity; perhaps a smile contains the power of confidence and kindness; perhaps a patch of clouds reveals the beauty of life and freedom.

13. 荣誉就象河流：轻浮和空虚的荣誉浮在河面上，学生的和厚实的荣誉沉在河底里。--培根

13. Honor is like a river: light and hollow honor floats on the surface, while the serious and substantial honor sinks to the bottom of the river. -- Bacon

14. 人活一世很辛苦，快乐就好；人活一生很无奈，开心就好；人生一辈子很艰难，潇洒就好；人生一世很短暂，珍惜才好！

14. Life is hard for a person to live through, but happiness is what matters; life is无奈 for a person to endure, but joy is what matters; a lifetime of life is tough, but elegance is what matters; a person's life is short, and it is only worth cherishing!

15. 酒，少喝开胃。事，多管遭罪。烟，多吸伤肺。茶，多饮火退。话，少说就对。做人，默默无闻最可贵。

15. Wine, a little is good for the appetite. Matters, too much involvement brings suffering. Smoking, too much can harm the lungs. Tea, too much drinking can reduce heat. Words, less said is better. As for being a person, being默默无闻 (not seeking attention or fame) is the most valuable.

16. 晚上笑一笑，睡个美满觉;早晨笑一笑，全天工作有情调;工作之余笑一笑，满堂欢喜又热闹;烦恼之时笑一笑，一切忧愁全忘掉--祝你每天都在笑笑笑!

16. A smile at night brings a peaceful sleep; a smile in the morning makes the whole day work with charm; a smile during work brings joy and liveliness to the whole hall; a smile during烦恼 brings all worries to forget--Wishing you laughter every day!

17. 智慧是什么智慧是积极的人生态度，也是独立自主的人格;是宽容豁达的胸怀，也是坚韧不屈的品质;是对事业的追求，也是对家人的关爱;是激情中不乏沉静，也是平淡中不乏惊喜;是理智中不乏幽默，也是据理力争不乏计谋。

17. What is wisdom? Wisdom is a positive attitude towards life and an independent and autonomous personality; it is a broad and generous heart, as well as a resolute and unyielding character; it is the pursuit of one's career, as well as the care for one's family; it is calm amidst passion, as well as surprise amidst the ordinary; it is humor amidst reason, as well as strategic argumentation.

18. 其实，两个人在一起最主要的就是理解和包容。在婚姻生活中，两个人组成了一个家庭，但男人在做你的丈夫的同时也是一个独立的人，他有他独立的人格和尊严。在家庭生活中女人不能一味的让男人付出，总是对丈夫提出过高的要求和标准，去刻意刁难或者为难丈夫。也不要总是揪着丈夫的一个小缺点不肯撒手。

18. In fact, the most important thing for two people to be together is understanding and tolerance. In a marriage, the two of them form a family, but at the same time, the man is not only your husband but also an independent individual with his own personality and dignity. In family life, women cannot always expect men to make sacrifices, always imposing excessive demands and standards on their husbands, deliberately being difficult or putting pressure on them. Also, do not always hold onto your husband's minor flaws and not let go.

19. 时间是链子，快乐是珠子，用链子串上珠子，挂在胸前就可以幸福一辈子；幸福是石子，烦恼是沙子，时间是筛子，用筛子漏掉沙子，石子就会陪你一辈子！

19. Time is a chain, happiness is a bead, string the beads on the chain and hang it around your neck, and you can be happy for a lifetime; happiness is a stone,烦恼 is sand, time is a sieve, sieve the sand through the sieve, and the stones will accompany you for a lifetime!

20. 生命短暂，来不及活得好，犯傻的人才会想要提早去报到。悲伤很难熬，但终归会过去，就像快乐也留不住。春天总会重回人间，然后是秋尽冬来，没有永远的圆满，却也没有永远的失望。只有活着，才可以学会潇洒地活，才能够把所有的苦涩化作微笑。

20. Life is short, and there's no time to live well; only fools would want to check in early. Sadness is hard to bear, but it will eventually pass, just as happiness cannot be held on to. Spring will always return to the world, followed by the end of autumn and the coming of winter. There is no eternal perfection, nor is there eternal disappointment. It is only by living that one can learn to live carefree, and only then can all bitterness be transformed into smiles.

21. 知识是掌握的，智能是运用的，创造是超越的。可见创造高于智能，智能高于知识。一个具有创造力的人，一定会比只掌握知识的人，事业要成功得多。

21. Knowledge is acquired, intelligence is applied, and creation is transcending. It is evident that creation surpasses intelligence, and intelligence surpasses knowledge. A person with creativity will undoubtedly achieve greater success in their career than someone who merely masters knowledge.

22. 晚上笑一笑，睡个美满觉；早晨笑一笑，全天工作有情调；工作之余笑一笑，满堂欢喜又热闹；烦恼之时笑一笑，一切忧愁全忘掉祝你每天都在笑笑笑！

22. A smile at night brings a peaceful sleep; a smile in the morning makes the whole day filled with charm; a smile during work brings joy and bustle; a smile during trouble helps forget all worries. May you laugh every day!

23. 你可以委屈可以痛哭但不要让所有人都看到你的脆弱

23. You can feel upset and cry, but don't let everyone see your vulnerability.

24. 水静极则形象明，人静极则智慧生。

24. When water is extremely still, its images become clear; when a person is extremely still, wisdom arises.

25. 一个人人的尊严并非在获得荣誉时，百在于本身真正值得这荣誉。--亚里士多德

25. The dignity of a person does not lie in the acquisition of honor, but in the fact that they are truly worthy of that honor. --Aristotle

26. 小丽结婚10年，做了全职妈妈6年，最近她发现自己的丈夫越来越不愿意和自己讲话，越来越爱晚回家，她知道这是自己几年没出去上班，和社会脱离了，和自己的丈夫也没话说了。如今孩子6岁了也上小学了，她决定重新出去工作，提升自己。

26. Xiao Li has been married for 10 years and has been a full-time mother for 6 years. Recently, she has found that her husband is increasingly reluctant to talk to her and tends to come home late more often. She knows this is because she hasn't worked outside for several years, has become disconnected from society, and has run out of things to talk to her husband about. Now that her child is 6 years old and has started primary school, she has decided to go back to work and improve herself.

27. 不洗澡的人，硬擦香水是不会香的。名声与尊贵，来自真才实学有德自然香。

27. For those who do not bathe, merely rubbing on perfume will not make them smell fragrant. Reputation and honor come from genuine talent and virtue, and one naturally exudes an aroma of virtue.

28. 你没有摘到的，只是春天里的一朵花，整个春天还是你的。

28. What you haven't picked is just a flower in the spring, the whole spring still belongs to you.

29. 如果说两个人的相处就像绷橡皮筋一样，一拉紧双方都在用力；一松弛，肯定有一方在相让。那么，还不如双方共做一条橡皮筋，松紧自弛，岂不快哉！

29. If it is said that getting along with two people is like stretching a rubber band, when it's pulled tight, both parties are exerting force; when it's relaxed, there's definitely one party giving in. Then, why not make one rubber band together, allowing it to stretch and relax on its own, wouldn't that be more enjoyable!

30. 人生箴言1、亲戚朋友的话，多数是让你成为平凡的人。

30. Life Proverb 1: Most of what relatives and friends say is to make you into an ordinary person.

31. 轻轻把烟灰弹到地上，掉下的是灰色的回忆，一阵风掠过，什么都没有学会忘记，学会放弃，我们的生活可以少一些后悔，少一些遗憾。

31. Gently flicking the ash to the ground, what falls is a gray past. With a breeze sweeping past, nothing is learned but to forget, to give up. Our lives can then have fewer regrets and fewer regrets.

32. 这次争吵让老刘把20几年的压抑一次性抒发了出来，不顾家人的反对，坚决和妻子离了婚。

32. This argument allowed Old Liu to vent his accumulated frustrations of over 20 years all at once, regardless of his family's opposition, and he firmly decided to divorce his wife.

33. 24我们一生所寻求的，不外乎就是有人在乎，有人懂，眼中有笑，心中有暖。

33. 24 What we seek throughout our lives is nothing more than someone who cares, someone who understands, someone whose eyes are smiling and whose heart is warm.

34. 和你在一起的每一秒都是快乐的，即便伤心也是心甘情愿的

34. Every second spent with you is joyous, even the moments of sadness are willing.

35. 生活中，我们学习用收藏家的眼光，以独到的角度，看见别人看不到的优点；接受赞美的一方，会因为你的细心与体贴，觉得温暖而感动。

35. In life, we learn to see the hidden merits with the eyes of a collector, from a unique perspective that others cannot perceive; the recipient of praise will feel warmth and be moved by your attention to detail and care.

36. 感动，是一个扣人心弦的故事，是一场激烈无比的球赛，是一段迂回曲折的人间真情。学会感动，能让平凡人拥有生活的精彩，能让失败者拥有前进的动力！

36. Touched by emotion, it is an intriguing story, an intensely fierce match, and a winding path of heartfelt human feelings. Learning to be touched by emotion allows ordinary people to experience the wonders of life, and gives those who have failed the drive to move forward!

37. 清理人生路上丛生的杂草，留下鲜花和绿树，那么，无论何时回首，看到的总是美丽和阳光。爱情只是生命的插曲，不是生命的唯一，更不是生命的全部。生命，永远高于爱情。请珍惜生命，不要为情所困。

37. Clear away the weeds that grow along the path of life, leaving behind flowers and green trees, and no matter when you look back, you will always see beauty and sunshine. Love is just an interlude in life, not the only thing, let alone the whole of life. Life is always greater than love. Cherish life and do not be trapped by emotions.

38. 时间是链子，快乐是珠子，用链子串上珠子，挂在胸前就可以幸福一辈子;幸福是石子，烦恼是沙子，时间是筛子，用筛子漏掉沙子，石子就会陪你一辈子!

38. Time is a chain, happiness is a pearl. String the pearls on the chain and wear it around your neck, and you can be happy for a lifetime; happiness is a pebble, worries are sand, time is a sieve. Filter out the sand through the sieve, and the pebbles will accompany you for a lifetime!

39. 该干时会干是一种能力，不该干时不干是一种智慧，知道什么时候该干什么时候不该干是一种成熟；该靠前时靠前是一种派头，不该靠前时不靠前是一种知趣，知道什么时候靠前什么时候不靠前是一种修炼；能当狮子是一种威仪，能当狐狸是一种谋略，知道什么时候该当狮子什么时候该当狐狸，是一种素养。

39. Being willing to act when needed is a skill, refraining from action when not necessary is wisdom, understanding when to act and when not to is maturity; stepping forward when appropriate is a demeanor, not stepping forward when inappropriate is good taste, knowing when to step forward and when not to is cultivation; being able to be a lion is a display of dignity, being able to be a fox is a sign of cunning, knowing when to be a lion and when to be a fox is a reflection of character.

40. 我是你转身即忘的路人甲凭什么陪你蹉跎年华到天涯

40. You are just a passerby that I forget as I turn my back, so why should I waste my time with you until the ends of the earth?

41. 荣誉使艺术盛兴，一切有志于钻研的人，无不受着荣誉感的激动。--西塞罗

41. Honor enlivens art, and every one who is eager to delve into it is stirred by the excitement of a sense of honor. -- Ciceron

42. 盛怒下识为人，患难中见真情，败事之路顺溜溜，成事之路弯曲曲。说说笑笑散散心，不说不笑要生病;笑口常开，青春长在;遇事不恼，长生不老。

42. In great anger, one's true nature is revealed; in adversity, one's true feelings are shown. The path of failure is smooth, while the path to success is winding. Talk and laugh to relax your mind; without talking and laughing, you will get sick. A smile on your lips, youth will last; not getting angry at things, will make you live a long, long life.

43. 记住一个人，只记住他的好处，议论一个人，只议论他的优点。包容别人的缺点与错误，快乐就会天天围绕你。

43. Remember a person for their good qualities only, and talk about them only for their virtues. Tolerate others' flaws and mistakes, and happiness will surround you every day.

44. 老刘和妻子都已经50岁了，他们的独生女也快大学毕业了，按理说应该过着舒心的生活，可是老刘却无时无刻想着逃离这个家庭，逃离妻子的监管。

44. Lao Liu and his wife are both 50 years old, and their only daughter is about to graduate from university. According to reason, they should be living a contented life, but Lao Liu can't stop thinking about escaping from this family and from his wife's supervision.

45. 所以，50岁男人的实话，女人身上如果没有理解体谅男人和一颗上进的心，夫妻的感情会变得越来越淡。

45. Therefore, the truth is that for a 50-year-old man, if a woman does not understand and empathize with a man and does not have an ambitious spirit, the couple's feelings will grow increasingly faint.

46. 你愿意做俯贴大地的小草，还是要做高高在上的参天大树？你愿意做默默无闻的啄木鸟，还是要做展翅翱翔的雄鹰？要我说，做什么都是一种生活态度，只要认真去做，去努力，去探索，你会发现生活是多姿多彩的。

46. Would you rather be a humble grass lying flat to the ground, or a towering giant tree? Would you rather be a quiet woodpecker, or a majestic eagle soaring in the skies? In my opinion, being anything is a lifestyle. As long as you approach it with seriousness, effort, and exploration, you will find that life is colorful and diverse.

47. 老是望着验证消息，想你回来认错了，却发现次次都是群消息。

47. Constantly checking the verification messages, hoping you would come back to apologize, only to find that it was group messages every time.

48. 不是在最好的时光遇见了你，而是正因有你在，我才有了最好的时光。

48. It's not that I met you at the best time, but rather because you are there, I have the best time.

49. 遇到的困难越多，得到的荣誉也越大。--西塞罗

49. The more difficulties one encounters, the greater the honor one earns. -- Ciceron

50. 也不是不曾想过回头也不是没有设想如果但都只收获一把辛酸泪煲的酒。

50. It is not that I have never thought of turning back, nor have I not envisioned if, but all I have gained is a pot of wine brewed with a bitter tears.

51. 比如你生活在一个垃圾堆里面，情绪就会非常糟糕，思维也比较紊乱，心态也不会好，人生的方方面面当然也好不起来。

51. For example, if you live in a garbage dump, your mood will be very poor, your thoughts will be rather disorganized, your mindset won't be good either, and of course, all aspects of your life will not improve either.

52. 多想一不小心与你白头到老，只是我们相爱的时光太短暂

52. How I wish that I could accidentally grow old with you, but the time we spend loving each other is just too short.

53. 荣誉就像萤火虫，远看闪闪发光，近看既不发热，也不怎么亮。--约翰·韦伯斯特

53. Honor is like a firefly, bright and twinkling from a distance, neither hot nor very bright when approached. -- John Webster

54. 与其抱怨命运，不如从当下开始修炼自己，逆天改命。

54. It's better to cultivate oneself from the present rather than complain about destiny and alter one's fate against the heavens.

55. 我给你在我心里留了一个位置，这个位置叫路人。

55. I have reserved a place in my heart for you, and that place is called a passerby.

56. 我以为终有一天，我会彻底将爱情忘记，将你忘记。

56. I thought that one day, I would completely forget about love, and forget about you.

57. 欣赏是一种给予一种馨香一种鼓励一种赞赏一种温暖一种沟通与理解，一种信赖与祝福。用心欣赏生活，你会觉得更有乐趣！

57. Appreciation is a gift of fragrance, encouragement, praise, warmth, communication and understanding, as well as trust and blessings. Appreciate life with all your heart, and you will find it more enjoyable!

58. 看到有人那么喜欢你、真的该替你高兴、可是却笑不出来、因为那个位置曾经是我。。。

58. Seeing someone that likes you so much should make you happy, but I can't help but smile, because that position used to be mine....

59. 如果说生活是大海，那么平凡琐事就是一滴滴的水；如果说人生是崇山峻岭，那么琐屑之事就是一颗颗沙砾。所以，要想懂得生活，就要学会品味平凡。

59. If life is the ocean, then trivial matters are like drops of water; if life is the towering mountains, then trivial things are like grains of sand. Therefore, to understand life, one must learn to appreciate the ordinary.

60. 我不喜欢喝酒但是如果心痛了我愿意把它当水喝即使我酒量不好

60. I don't like drinking alcohol, but if my heart aches, I would be willing to drink it like water, even though I'm not good at drinking.

61. 幸福就像自来水，平日喝在口中没有特别的滋味，一旦失去却痛不欲生；当你用幸福的眼光来看待这个世界和自己的生活时，你会发现幸福竟然无处不在。

61. Happiness is like tap water; it tastes ordinary when drinking it every day, but it's excruciatingly painful once lost; when you view the world and your life with the eyes of happiness, you'll find that happiness is actually everywhere.

62. 不管是男人还是女人都是一个独立的个体，他们都需要自己的生活圈子。有太多的女人婚后放弃了自我，天天围着老公孩子转，做起了家庭主妇，到随着孩子长大，丈夫事业稳固，女人好像变的就多余了。

62. Whether it's men or women, they are all independent individuals and they all need their own circle of friends. There are too many women who abandon themselves after marriage, spending every day around their husbands and children, becoming housewives. As the children grow up and their husbands' careers stabilize, the women seem to become redundant.

63. 对于一个男人来说，漂亮的女人会让他心动，但想让两个人的婚姻幸福、美满、长久。一个温柔、善良，理解和体谅男人，并且不断自我上进的女人，可能会更加让你的丈夫迷恋你一辈子。

63. For a man, a beautiful woman may captivate his heart, but to ensure a happy, fulfilling, and lasting marriage for two, a gentle, kind woman who understands and empathizes with men, and who constantly strives for self-improvement, might be the one who makes your husband be enchanted by you for a lifetime.

64. 如今，女儿长大了，马上也要工作了，老刘也已经是快50岁的人了，他做最后的努力，送给妻子一件心仪已久、价格不菲的礼物，希望妻子能变得理解和包容他，一起走过余生的日子。可令老刘没想到的是，送礼物的举动让妻子更加怀疑他，说他在买面做了亏心事故意来讨好她。

64. Now, with their daughter grown up and about to enter the workforce, and with Lao Liu approaching 50, he made a final effort to give his wife a long-desired, expensive gift, hoping she would become more understanding and包容 him, and spend the rest of their lives together. However, what Lao Liu didn't expect was that the act of giving the gift only made his wife more suspicious of him, with her accusing him of buying noodles with a guilty conscience and deliberately trying to flatter her.

65. 26在意，却不刻意；珍惜，却不痴迷。若有若无的联系，是一份随意；或深或浅的交集，是一份默契。可肆意畅谈，也可默然相对；可紧密相连，也可疏于不见。

65. 26 is mindful, but not deliberate; cherishes, but not obsessed. A connection that is there and not, is a matter of spontaneity; a meeting that is either deep or superficial, is a matter of默契. It can be engaging in free and easy conversation, or silently facing each other; it can be closely connected, or loosely unseen.

66. 如果真的有人让你难以忘记，去找他，一颗心吊着，比一颗心死了还要难受。

66. If there really is someone who makes you unforgettable, go find them. It's harder to bear a heart hanging by a thread than a heart that has died.

67. 物尽其用不得浪费，人尽其才不得偷懒。节约成宝，勤劳致富。浪费是一种损失，偷懒等于埋葬了前程。

67. Make full use of what you have and avoid waste; utilize each person's abilities and do not be lazy. Frugality is a treasure, and hard work brings wealth. Waste is a loss, and laziness is akin to burying one's future.

68. 在生命潮起的巅峰，享受它，让我知道自己的高度;在生命潮落的低谷，忍受它，让我知道自己的韧度;高潮和低谷，两者皆使我收获和喜悦!

68. At the peak of the surge of life, enjoy it, let me know my height; at the trough of life's surge, endure it, let me know my resilience; both the peak and the trough, both bring me harvest and joy!

69. 生命，就像流水一样一去不返；人生，终要像燃烧的蜡烛那样灰飞烟灭。拥有一个淡泊的心情，普通的丰衣足食就可以了，何必去追求那些虚华的东西呢？

69. Life, like flowing water, can never return; human life, in the end, must burn out like a candle, leaving ashes and smoke. With a tranquil and indifferent heart, it is enough to have a simple life with enough food and clothing. Why should one pursue those fleeting things?

70. 结语：懂得包容和理解的女人，一定不会吃亏的。但在做到理解的同时一定要不断的提升自我，让自己跟得上老公的步伐。我相信这样有魅力的女人肯定会受到丈夫的宠爱。

70. Conclusion: A woman who understands tolerance and empathy will never be at a disadvantage. But while practicing understanding, one must also continuously improve oneself, keeping up with the pace of their husband. I believe such a charming woman will definitely be cherished by her husband.

71. 我所希冀的名声只是让人知道我曾安静地度过一生。--蒙田

71. The fame I wish for is merely to let people know that I have lived a quiet life. -- Montaigne

72. 盲人为什么耳朵特别灵敏？因为他们在用心听；耳聋者为什么注视你的嘴唇便知道你在说什么？因为他们在用心看。做人之根本，在于用心。

72. Why are the ears of the blind especially sensitive? Because they listen with their hearts; why can the deaf understand what you are saying by watching your lips? Because they observe with their hearts. The essence of being a human being lies in using one's heart.

73. 有些伤口，无论过多久，依然一碰就痛;有些人，不管过多久，也还是一想起就疼。

73. Some wounds, no matter how long it's been, still hurt when touched; some people, no matter how long it's been, still ache when remembered.

74. 因为心中有爱，才能被人爱。爱，它是创造奇迹的力量源泉！即使没有回报，也能温暖净化我们的心灵。

74. It is because of love in our hearts that we can be loved by others. Love, it is the source of power to create miracles! Even without any return, it can warm and purify our souls.

75. 如果一个女人只有美丽的容貌，但性格上存在着很大的缺陷，比如多疑、暴躁、懒惰、邋遢，你就没办法让一个男人的心永远停留在你的身上，两人的感情只会变得越来越淡，因此有可能就会导致婚姻出现问题，甚至结束婚姻关系。

75. If a woman only has a beautiful appearance but has significant character flaws such as being suspicious, irritable, lazy, and untidy, you won't be able to keep a man's heart with you forever. The couple's feelings will only grow weaker, which may lead to problems in the marriage, or even the end of the marriage relationship.

76. 欣赏是一种给予、一种馨香、一种鼓励、一种赞赏、一种温暖、一种沟通与理解，一种信赖与祝福。用心欣赏生活，你会觉得更有乐趣!

76. Appreciation is a gift, a fragrance, an encouragement, an admiration, a warmth, a communication and understanding, a trust and a blessing. To appreciate life with all your heart, you will find it more enjoyable!

77. 正确地做事固然重要，但更重要的是要做正确的事。

77. While doing things correctly is important, it is even more crucial to do the right things.

78. 愿我们都不会把所有别人对我们的好，视为理所当然。因为知足，会更接近幸福。

78. May none of us take for granted all the kindness others show us. For contentment brings us closer to happiness.

79. 20时间回不到开始的地方，对于已经错过的，不用再试着去挽留，错过了就错过了。有些东西原本就是让我牵挂而不是获取的。难忘的人，做过的梦，有过的期待，走过的路，有一些自己认为该珍惜的，现在又如何呢！收拾一下心情扔掉旧的才能有地方放新的！一段情散了，就忘了吧！再美好的回忆也只是昨天。

79. It's impossible to go back to the starting point in 20 years. For what has been missed, there's no need to try to hold on to it any longer; it's missed, and that's it. Some things were meant to be cherished rather than possessed. Unforgettable people, dreams I've had, expectations I've had, paths I've walked, there are some things I think I should treasure. But what about now? Tidying up my feelings and discarding the old makes room for the new! If a relationship has ended, just forget about it! No matter how beautiful the memories, they are only from yesterday.

80. 充实的思想不在于言语的富丽，它引以自傲的是内容，不是虚饰。这就需要多阅读，多交流，你我正在进行后者，所以此刻我感到充实!

80. Rich thought does not lie in the splendor of words; what it boasts is content, not decoration. This requires extensive reading and communication, and we are engaged in the latter at this moment, so I feel fulfilled!

81. 如果说两个人的相处就像绷橡皮筋一样，一拉紧双方都在用力;一松弛，肯定有一方在相让。那么，还不如双方共做一条橡皮筋，松紧自弛，岂不快哉!

81. If the interaction between two people is like stretching a rubber band, when it's pulled tight, both are exerting force; when it's loose, there's definitely one party giving in. Then, why not make one rubber band together, allowing it to stretch and relax at will, wouldn't that be more enjoyable!

82. 幸福说：饿的时候有饭吃，渴的时候有水喝，困的时候有床睡，累的时候有家归，这就是幸福！其实我从未远离，只是你从未发觉。

82. Happiness says: When I'm hungry, there's food to eat; when I'm thirsty, there's water to drink; when I'm tired, there's a bed to sleep in; when I'm exhausted, there's a home to return to – this is happiness! In fact, I have never been far away, it's just that you never noticed.

83. 所谓最难忘的，就是从来不曾想起，却永远也不会忘记。

83. What is called the most unforgettable is something that has never been remembered but will never be forgotten.

84. 咱们最之后到以前憧憬的年纪，却发现已经有人订婚有人结婚有人出国有人生活顺利有人坚持梦想有人碌碌无为……就像是一个分水岭，毕业时的那个蓝天早已消失不见，那个和你在操场边说着要一齐走到未来的人，也早就不知道去了哪里。看着窗外的天，突然就黑了，感觉像咱们的青春，突然就没了。

84. We finally arrive at the age we had always dreamed of, only to find that some have already gotten engaged, some are married, some have gone abroad, some are living a smooth life, some are holding on to their dreams, and some are aimlessly wandering... It's as if a dividing line has appeared; the blue sky at graduation has long vanished, and the person who used to walk with you on the playground, talking about walking into the future, has long since disappeared. Looking out the window at the sky, it suddenly grew dark, and I felt like our youth had suddenly vanished.

85. “竭诚则胡越为一体，傲物则骨肉为行路。”

85. "With sincerity, the Húyu region becomes one with the rest; with arrogance, even blood relatives become strangers."

86. 藏风聚气，则人丁兴旺。

86. To accumulate the essence of the Tibetan style, people will thrive and flourish.