在无尽的宇宙中，疾病与死亡如同夜空中闪烁的星辰，不可抗拒。

In the endless universe, disease and death are like twinkling stars in the night sky, irresistible.

1. 这只是某些人自己都存在自私于偏见的心态，因而才用这种错误的观点去概括如今的全部现状！

1. This is merely because certain individuals have a mindset of self-interest and prejudice, and therefore, they use this erroneous perspective to generalize the current situation as a whole!

2. 经过多方协调，双方达成一致。企业一次性支付死者近亲属近百万元。更令人感到悲哀的是，死者家属收到该笔巨额赔偿金后第二天迅速火化了死者遗体，没有任何吊唁仪式。死者就此在人世间匆匆而来又匆匆而去。死者的同事感叹到，死者生前不值钱，多年无人问其音讯，死后其用生命为家属留下了一笔巨额财富，在死者亲人眼中只有财富没有亲情！

2. After extensive coordination, both parties reached an agreement. The company paid nearly 1 million yuan to the deceased's relatives in a single payment. What is even more sad is that the next day after receiving the large sum of compensation, the deceased's body was cremated quickly, with no mourning ceremony. The deceased came and went in a hurry in this world. The deceased's colleagues sighed, "The deceased was not valuable in life; for many years, no one inquired about his whereabouts. After his death, he left behind a large sum of wealth with his life, but in the eyes of the deceased's relatives, there is only wealth, not family affection!"

3. 如果你的能力只能让你穷困潦倒，那么穷困潦倒就是你的价值。

3. If your abilities can only lead you to poverty, then poverty itself is your value.

4. 在朱律师处理的一个案件中，企业职工因工死亡，该职工是位单身汉，离婚多年未再娶，与其前妻有二名子女。根据死者诉说，工人父母早亡，早年与前妻感情不如，子女随女方生活，与该工人并无多少感情，多年来从未来看望过死者人。死者死亡后，其单位把其遗体运送至殡仪馆并安排好了相关吊唁事实，并同时第一时间内通知了死者家属。死者家属在得到消息后，第一时间内赶到企业大吵大闹，要求企业给个说法。企业回复为，企业给死者购买了相关保险，只要走相关流程合理合规赔偿绝对没有问题。但死者家属坚持要马上、立即拿到巨额赔偿并采取各种不理性的手段闹访。再接下来的几天内，家属天天在企业吵闹，而死者孤孤零零躺在殡仪馆无任何亲人、家属送其最后一程。

4. In a case handled by Mr. Zhu, a worker died on the job. The deceased was a bachelor who had been divorced for many years and had not remarried. He had two children with his ex-wife. According to the deceased, his parents died early, and his relationship with his ex-wife was not good in the early years. The children lived with the mother, and there was not much affection between the deceased and his children. Over the years, the deceased had never been visited by his parents or siblings. After the deceased's death, the company transported his body to the mortuary and arranged for the relevant mourning arrangements, and simultaneously notified the deceased's family members immediately. Upon receiving the news, the deceased's family arrived at the company and created a commotion, demanding an explanation from the company. The company replied that it had purchased relevant insurance for the deceased, and as long as the proper procedures were followed, there would be no problem with the compensation. However, the deceased's family insisted on receiving a large sum of compensation immediately and took various irrational measures to disrupt the situation. In the following days, the family continued to cause a commotion at the company every day, while the deceased lay alone in the mortuary with no family members to accompany him on his final journey.

5. 本命年的人梦见念阿弥陀佛，意味着慎防官符，或刑牢之灾，朋友之事少管。

5. For those in their "year of the animal sign," dreaming of reciting the name of Amitabha Buddha signifies the need to be cautious of official documents or the danger of imprisonment, and to avoid getting involved in friends' affairs.

6. 还有就是我的侄子，去年我家买车贷款，我侄子听说了，非说拿钱给我们，当然我们也没有用，但他有这份心，我们就很感动！

6. Another thing is about my nephew. Last year, when we took out a car loan for our family, my nephew heard about it and insisted on giving us money. Of course, we didn't need it, but the fact that he had that thought moved us a lot!

7. 想开了，你就会明白，在这个世界上，你就是你。你的痛，你的累，你的苦，谁也无法替你承担。就算有人同情你，帮了你，那又怎样，最后收拾残局的还是要靠自己。

7. When you come to understand, you'll realize that in this world, you are the only you. Your pain, your fatigue, your suffering, no one can bear for you. Even if someone has sympathy for you and helps you, what's the point? In the end, it's still up to yourself to pick up the pieces and clean up the mess.

8. 一切只是人生旅程中各种体验而已，让一切随缘而发生。我们要允许世事无常，允许遗憾发生，允许偶尔挫败，允许自己不被别人喜欢，允许一切的发生，你就会找到生命最自由的状态。”

8. Everything is just various experiences on the journey of life, let everything happen as fate wills. We should allow the impermanence of things, allow regrets to occur, allow occasional setbacks, allow ourselves to be disliked by others, allow everything to happen, and you will find the most free state of life."

9. 梦见佛，是成功和获利的祥兆，象征着人间的功名富贵。

9. Dreaming of the Buddha is a sign of success and prosperity, symbolizing fame and wealth in human life.

10. 我不赞同，我家的亲戚挺好的，就讲几个近几年的例子吧：

10. I disagree. The relatives in my family are quite good. Let me give you a few examples from the past few years.

11. 梦见救人念阿弥陀佛，按周易五行分析，财位在正东方向，桃花位在正西方向，幸运数字是2，吉祥色彩是橙色，开运食物是金针菇。

11. Dreaming of saving people and reciting the Amitabha Sutra, according to the analysis of the Five Elements in the Book of Changes, the wealth position is in the east direction, the love position is in the west direction, the lucky number is 2, the auspicious color is orange, and the lucky food is enoki mushrooms.

12. 看不起你的人，狗眼看人低，不要跟他一般见识。就像一条狗不搭理你，你也不生气一样。

12. People who look down on you are like dogs with biased eyes; don't hold them to the same standard. Just like how a dog wouldn't pay attention to you, you shouldn't get angry either.

13. 弘一法师说：“人生就是玩，就是体验，上学只是一种体验而已，工作只是一种体验而已，婚姻只是一种体验而已，失恋、失业、失败、迷茫，亦都只是一种体验而已。生病亦可接受，活着亦可接受，失败亦可接受，迷茫亦可接受，没有什么是不能接受的。

13. Master Hongyi said: "Life is all about play and experience. Going to school is just one form of experience, working is just one form of experience, marriage is just one form of experience, being heartbroken, unemployed, failing, or confused, they are all just forms of experience as well. Getting sick can also be accepted, living can also be accepted, failure can also be accepted, confusion can also be accepted. There is nothing that cannot be accepted.

14. 其实人心自古以来就是这样的意识形态，所以才流传许多俗语名言！

14. In fact, the human heart has always been like this ideological state, which is why there are so many proverbs and famous sayings passed down through the ages!

15. 切记：天上下雨地下滑，自己滑倒自己爬。有些人你可以期待，但不能依赖。只有做好做强自己，别人才会刮目相看。

15. Remember: When it rains from the sky and the ground is slippery, if you fall, you have to get up by yourself. Some people you can look forward to, but not rely on. Only by doing well and becoming strong yourself will others look at you with new eyes.

16. 世上最靠得住的唯有自己。靠山山会垮，靠水水会流，靠人人会跑！

16. The most reliable thing in the world is oneself. The mountain you rely on may collapse, the water you rely on may flow away, and the person you rely on may run away!

17. 当疼痛铺天盖地袭来的时候，当死亡以无法抗拒的力量逼近的时候，你就想想死后的极乐世界吧，那是上天看你太苦，想让你去另一个维度的世界里享福。

17. When pain comes overwhelming, when death approaches with an irresistible force, think of the blissful realm after death. It is as if heaven, seeing you suffer too much, wants to let you enjoy the benefits in another dimension of the world.

18. 当不幸的事情发生的时候，我们要以最好的心态去面对，以最大的能力，尽最大的努力去解决。但如果回天乏术，无可奈何，我们也要能接受最坏的结果，听天由命，顺其自然，该怎么着就怎么着。

18. When不幸 things happen, we should face them with the best attitude, with the greatest ability, and make the utmost effort to solve them. But if there is no way to turn things around and we are at a loss, we should also be able to accept the worst outcome, let things be as they may, and just go with the flow.

19. 梦见有人念阿弥陀佛，单身的你有机会展开秘恋，而恋人之间的情感急遽加温，切记务必掌握分寸，若过度痴迷沉溺、深陷执着，自己给自己压力，此种束缚将会阻碍现实生活里的快乐感受，导致身心俱疲，适得其反。投资方面，某种不可抗力导致浮动，反复思考并不会感到更安慰，建议顺其自然即可。

19. Dreaming that someone is reciting the Amitabha Mantra, if you are single, you will have the opportunity to start a secret romance. The emotional temperature between lovers will rapidly increase, but remember to keep your boundaries. If you become overly obsessed and immersed in执着, putting undue pressure on yourself, this kind of bondage will hinder the enjoyment of real-life happiness, leading to both physical and mental exhaustion, and having the opposite effect. In terms of investments, some unforeseeable circumstances cause fluctuations. Pondering over it repeatedly will not bring you any comfort. It is recommended to just let things take their course.

20. 最后年底生孩子大出血，本来准备了3万生孩子，结果花了137。因为急需用钱，等钱手术。老公给他们家里哭着打电话。没有一个人有钱，1万。5千都没有。最后他弟借了1万。就这样彻底看清楚了亲戚。

20. Towards the end of the year, when I gave birth, I had a massive hemorrhage. I had budgeted 30,000 yuan for giving birth, but ended up spending 137 yuan. Because of the urgent need for money, I had to wait for the surgery. My husband called their family in tears. No one had any money; they couldn't even spare 10,000 or 5,000 yuan. In the end, his brother borrowed 10,000 yuan. That's how we finally saw through our relatives.

21. 梦见老人，一方面，可能预示你个人发展中会得到指导。另一方面，则可能表示你对死亡的恐惧，或是精神疲惫。

21. Dreaming of the elderly may, on one hand,预示 a guide in your personal development. On the other hand, it may represent your fear of death or spiritual fatigue.

22. 孔子的学生颜回，生活非常清贫，每天吃竹篮里的剩饭，喝简单的豆汤，居住在简陋的巷子里，别人都在唉声叹气，唯独他自得其乐，与世无争，惬意无穷。

22. Yan Hui, a student of Confucius, lived a very frugal life. Every day, he ate leftover rice from bamboo baskets and drank simple bean soup. He lived in a shabby alleyway. While others sighed and groaned, he alone found joy in his own way, sought no conflicts with the world, and enjoyed endless comfort.

23. 很多事情不是我们自己可以把控的，比如重特大疾病，比如意外灾害，比如死亡。

23. Many things are not within our control, such as major and severe diseases, unexpected disasters, and death.

24. 如今 社会 ，不要说亲戚了，就算是亲人，都是“锦上添花”多，“雪中送炭”少。利益和钱，已经把人分成多个圈子。为什么呢？很简单啊！有钱者，一般者，贫困者，各有各的说话内容，思维观点，生活形式，生活习惯，追求目标等，都很自然地分为各个群体，这是自然的，必然的，没有半点奇怪！“物以类聚，人以群分”嘛。这是古今传统，时代也只不过是应验了。因此我这样想，“这不是任何亲戚都靠不住”，而是现实改变着一切，各人都要适应，顺其自然就好！

24. In today's society, not to mention relatives, even close family members are more about "adding flowers to a brocade" than "carrying coals to the freezing house." Interests and money have divided people into multiple circles. Why is that? It's simple! The rich, the average, the poor, each has their own content of speech, way of thinking, lifestyle, habits, and pursuit of goals, which naturally divide them into various groups. This is natural, inevitable, and there's nothing strange about it! "Like attracts like, and people gather in groups" is a tradition that has stood the test of time, and the times have merely confirmed it. Therefore, I think, "This is not that any relative is untrustworthy," but rather that reality is changing everything. Each person has to adapt, and it's best to go with the flow!

25. 当然，不借是你的本分。我不恨你！但为何我不借的时候你要道德绑架。

25. Of course, not lending is your duty. I don't hate you! But why do you resort to moralizing when I don't lend?

26. 这个 社会 什么都靠不住。除了自己！

26. This society is unreliable for everything. Only yourself!

27. 梦见老人，大吉，主寿年绵永，财帛丰盈。《梦林玄解》

27. Dreaming of an old person is a very auspicious sign, indicating a long life and abundance in wealth and riches. "The Mystical Explanation of Dreams"

28. 真正优秀的人，都有很高的素质和涵养，会尊重别人。别人看不起你，不是你有问题，而是别人素质太低，人品太差。退一步说，纵使自己真的有问题，又怎么样！自己过自己的日子，只要你不在乎别人怎么看，任何人都影响不到你。

28. A truly outstanding person has high-quality character and cultivation, and respects others. If others look down upon you, it's not your fault; it's because others have low character and poor moral品质. To put it another way, even if you do have problems, what's the big deal! Live your own life. As long as you don't care about how others perceive you, no one can influence you.

29. 每个人都想要更好的生活，但努力不一定有结果，勤劳未必可以致富，也许我们兜兜转转，奋斗大半生，依然穷困潦倒，那也不能影响内心的快乐。

29. Everyone wants a better life, but effort does not always guarantee results, and hard work does not necessarily lead to wealth. Perhaps we wander around, struggle for most of our lives, and still live in poverty. However, that should not affect the happiness within our hearts.

30. 本命年的人梦见救人念阿弥陀佛，意味着诸事暂守，多充实自己，注意内涵，可无凶灾。

30. If someone in their "year of the great fortune" dreams of saving others while reciting "Amitabha Buddha," it means they should temporarily maintain stability, enrich themselves, pay attention to their inner qualities, and can avoid misfortune.

31. 去年我们买房子。因为钱给冻结了，房子定金都交了，钱给冻结了，找他们借钱，个个都没有。我说算了。自己想办法！最后年底的时候老公生意有出问题，一桩桩的事情让人看清楚了亲戚，人心！亲戚还不如朋友。

31. Last year, we bought a house. Because the money was frozen, we had already paid the deposit for the house, and the money was frozen. We tried to borrow money from them, but everyone refused. I said, "Never mind." Let's figure it out ourselves! By the end of the year, my husband's business ran into problems, and one thing after another made it clear who our relatives really were and what people's hearts were like. It turned out that our relatives were not as good as our friends.

32. 梦见自已念阿弥陀佛，按周易五行分析，幸运数字是9，桃花位在正西方向，财位在正东方向，吉祥色彩是橙色，开运食物是韭菜。

32. Dreaming of oneself reciting the Amitabha Sutra, according to the Five Elements analysis of the I Ching, the lucky number is 9, the position of the Peach Blossom is in the direction of the west, the position of wealth is in the direction of the east, the auspicious color is orange, and the lucky food is chives.

33. 这个 社会 就是这样阿！这是事实阿！你要永远记住。

33. That's just how this society is! It's a fact! You must always remember that.

34. 前年我大伯哥买房，找我老公说借三万块钱，我们想着是买房是家里的大事儿，借三万也不多，就给了他，没想到，几天后人家就还给我们了，他说借钱只是不想动他们的一个定期存单，几天就到期了取了钱就赶紧还给我们，我觉得他不是那样把钱拿到手就不还的人，挺让人感动的！

34. Two years ago, my uncle bought a house and asked my husband to borrow 30,000 yuan. We thought that buying a house was a big deal at home, and 30,000 yuan wasn't much, so we lent it to him. Unexpectedly, a few days later, they returned the money to us. He said that he just wanted to avoid touching their fixed-term deposit, which was due in a few days. After he took out the money, he hurriedly returned it to us. I think he's not the kind of person who gets the money and doesn't pay it back, which is quite touching!

35. 比如确诊绝症，不要哭天抢地，那是各种因缘聚合导致了这个绝症，是上天的安排。你要做的就是整理一份遗愿清单，以最好的心态和状态体验好剩下的生命。

35. For instance, if diagnosed with a terminal illness, do not despair and wail. The occurrence of this terminal illness is due to the convergence of various causes and conditions, and it is the arrangement of heaven. What you should do is compile a list of wishes and experience the remaining life with the best mindset and condition.

36. 让一切都随缘发生，平时就活的洒脱一点，自在一点，惬意一点，今朝有酒今朝醉，明日愁来明日愁。

36. Let everything happen as fate wills. Live carefree and at ease in daily life, enjoy the present, and be drunk with wine today; worry about tomorrow's worries when they come.

37. “贫居闹市无人问，富在深山有远亲”很好地诠释了人际关系，不论是亲戚还是朋友，每个人的 社会 地位决定了自身价值，贫富程度圈定了交往范围。所以说，任何亲戚是否靠得住，要看你自己是否足够强大！

37. "Being poor in the bustling city brings no one's concern, and being rich in the deep mountains has distant relatives" perfectly illustrates human relationships. Whether it's relatives or friends, everyone's social status determines their own value, and the degree of wealth and poverty defines the scope of interaction. Therefore, whether any relative can be relied upon depends on whether you are strong enough yourself!

38. 坐宝马车的人有自己的乐趣，骑自行车的人也有自己的乐趣。亿万富豪有自己的快乐，月薪一两千的人也有自己的快乐。

38. People who ride in BMWs have their own pleasures, and those who cycle do as well. Billionaires have their own happiness, and those who earn a few thousand yuan per month also have their own happiness.

39. 侄女去年买的房，后来才知道她借了很多钱，压力也很大，我问她怎么没向我们张口？她说：你们刚生了二胎，又新买的车，肯定也很紧张！

39. My niece bought a house last year, and later on, I found out that she had borrowed a lot of money and was under a lot of pressure. I asked her why she hadn't asked us for help, and she said: "You just had a second child and also bought a new car, so you must be very tight on funds!"

40. 更幽默的我们冻结的钱出来，家里亲戚一拨一拨的来。都来找我们借钱。要不就住个10天半个月。

40. Even more humorously, the money we froze started to come out, and relatives kept coming to our house in waves. They all came to borrow money from us. Sometimes it was for a stay of 10 days or even a month and a half.

41. 首先询问自己，亲戚靠得住你吗？你愿意被亲戚靠吗？

41. First ask yourself, can you rely on your relatives? Are you willing to be relied on by your relatives?

42. 亲戚就是这样，互相都在为对方考虑，我很庆幸，我们这个大家庭，一团和气！

42. Relatives are like that, always thinking about each other. I am very fortunate that our big family is always united and harmonious!

43. 还有就是我的姨姨，前年我生孩子在医院，我姨60多岁了，没日没夜的照顾我，生的那几天他基本上都没有合眼，他和我妈妈一起照顾我，是那种真的担心我。

43. Also, there's my aunt. Two years ago, when I gave birth to my child in the hospital, she was in her 60s and took care of me day and night. During those few days of giving birth, she basically didn't sleep at all. She took care of me together with my mother, and it was truly out of concern for me.

44. 老公家里5个兄弟姐妹。个个家庭条件都不错。大姐夫黄金店都是5/6个。二姐夫条件不是很好，但也是工地的小包工。妹夫家里一直都是做五金批发，做工地！条件算不错的！弟弟才成家。家底还是有的。越是这样多的兄弟姐妹的情况下，越悲哀。

44. My husband has 5 siblings at home. Each one comes from a well-to-do family. The husband of the oldest sister runs a gold shop, which has 5 or 6 shops. The husband of the second sister is not very well-off, but he is also a small contractor on construction sites. The brother-in-law has been in the hardware wholesale business, dealing with construction sites! Their conditions are considered pretty good! The youngest brother has just started his family. They still have some savings. The more siblings there are, the more sad it is.

45. 如今 社会 ，任何亲戚都靠不住不是绝对的。因为凡事都是相互作用的结果。你若帮助了别人，换来的也是别人对你的帮助。

45. In today's society, it's not absolute that any relative can't be relied upon. Because everything is the result of interaction. If you help others, you will also receive help from them in return.

46. 在充满竞争的 社会 中，花钱容易赚钱难。谁的工作都很忙，谁的家务都很多，谁的生活都很难，能把自己或自家的事处理明白，把日子过好，不给亲人添麻烦就不错了。除了天灾人祸不可抗力的因素给你带来困境，需要亲人帮助外，在平常生活中根本不需亲人帮助。日子是靠自己过的，为什么要依靠别人呢。

46. In a competitive society, it's easy to spend money but hard to earn it. Everyone is busy with their work, has a lot of household chores, and life is tough. It's already an achievement if one can manage their own or their family's affairs well, live a good life, and not cause trouble for their relatives. Apart from natural disasters and unforeseen misfortunes that are beyond one's control, which may bring you into困境 and require help from your relatives, there is no need for their help in everyday life. Life is about living for oneself, so why rely on others?

47. 吉凶指数：90（内容仅供参考，不代表本站立场）

47. Fortune and Misfortune Index: 90 (For reference only, does not represent the stance of this site)

48. 怀孕的人梦见口里念阿弥陀佛，预示生男，健康情形不佳。

48. A pregnant woman dreams of reciting the name of Amitabha Buddha in her mouth, which portends the birth of a son and poor health conditions.

49. 梦见有人念阿弥陀佛，按周易五行分析，幸运数字是6，桃花位在西北方向，财位在正东方向，吉祥色彩是橙色，开运食物是西瓜。

49. Dreaming of someone reciting the name of Amida Buddha, according to the Five Elements analysis of the I Ching, the lucky number is 6, the love position is in the northwest direction, the wealth position is in the east direction, the auspicious color is orange, and the lucky food is watermelon.

50. 也就是仁者见仁、智者见智吧！任何时候都不可能一概而论的！

50. It's like everyone has their own perspective, isn't it? It's impossible to generalize at any time!

51. 本命年的人梦见我念阿弥陀佛，意味着忠厚待人，可得人和与财利，戒烟酒为佳。

51. The person in their year of destiny dreaming that I am reciting the Amitabha Sutra signifies treating people with loyalty and sincerity, which can bring harmonious relationships and material benefits. It is advisable to quit smoking and drinking.

52. 梦见老人，主年寿永工，财帛丰盈。《断梦秘书》

52. Dreaming of an old person signifies longevity, prosperity in work, and abundant wealth. "The Dream Interpretation Secret Book"

53. 我们的世界，或者美好，或者残酷，都不以人的意志为转移。既然无力改变，就学会接受一切，让一切随缘而发生。调整好心态，不管生命中发生什么，包括癌症，包括死亡，都要心平气和，心安理得，心悦诚服。

53. Our world, whether beautiful or cruel, is not swayed by human will. Since we are powerless to change it, we should learn to accept everything and let everything happen as fate decrees. Adjust our mindset, and no matter what happens in life, including cancer and death, we should maintain calmness, peace of mind, and a willing acceptance.

54. 这些都是很好的例证，自私于贪婪、宽容于豁达就是区别于人的心态行为！

54. These are all good examples that distinguish human attitudes and behaviors: being selfish is greedy, and being宽容 is generous!

55. 活到一定年龄就发现，世界是自己的，和其他人毫无关系。

55. At a certain age, one discovers that the world is one's own, having nothing to do with others.

56. 三寸气在千般用，一旦无常万事休。这是一个娑婆世界，娑婆即遗憾，即无常，即各种不如意的事情可能随时随处发生。

56. There is a use for a three-inch breath in a thousand ways, but once the moment of change comes, all things cease. This is a world of Samsara, where Samsara means regret, impermanence, and that various unsatisfactory things may happen at any time and place.

57. 例如；人往高处走，水往低处流！即千古明论“求人不如求已”，还有说“贫居闹市无人问，富在深山有远亲”等……！

57. For example, "People strive for higher positions while water flows to lower places!" This is a time-honored saying, "It's better to rely on oneself than to seek others." There are also sayings like "When poor, living in a bustling market, no one asks after you; when rich, in the depths of the mountains, distant relatives come in abundance" and so on...!

58. 梦见自已念阿弥陀佛，今天会有许多的事情都是需要在短时间内完成。小心处理与情人间的关系，以免对方因为你旺盛的桃花而吃醋。进行金融投资前，事前要能够谨慎评估。临时插进来的琐事，搞乱你的工作/学业行程，让你颇为心烦。

58. Dreaming of reciting "Amitabha Buddha" in your dream, today you will have many things that need to be completed in a short period of time. Be cautious in handling relationships with your partner to avoid jealousy due to your flourishing romantic opportunities. Before engaging in financial investments, make sure to conduct a careful assessment beforehand. The sudden trivial matters that disrupt your work/school schedule can be quite烦扰.