在探寻顶尖格局的奥秘中，我们如同破晓的曙光，仰望星空，脚踏实地。放下束缚，拥抱变化，智慧之光在探索中闪耀。

In seeking the mysteries of the top-level pattern, we are like the dawning light of dawn, looking up at the stars while firmly planting our feet on the ground. We release the constraints, embrace change, and the light of wisdom shines in the exploration.

1. 13人生至少有一次，为了某个人丢掉矜持，放下自尊，毁掉自我的全部原则。

1. At least once in life, one must lose one's pride, abandon self-respect, and destroy all of one's own principles for someone else.

2. 3哪条路最好走，你总要多走几次才知道，哪双鞋最合脚，你总要多试几双才选择，无论有多困难，都要坚强。

2. Which path is the best to take, you always have to walk it several times to find out; which pair of shoes fits best, you always have to try several pairs to make a choice. No matter how difficult it may be, you must be strong.

3. 16我认为爱不是互相喜欢对方，而是你犯下天大的错误，那个人也会原谅你，这是一种释然，一种爱的释然。

3. 16 I believe that love is not just liking each other, but when you make a huge mistake, that person will also forgive you. It is a kind of relief, a relief of love.

4. 好的爱情是你透过一个男人看到世界，坏的爱情是你为了一个人舍弃世界。

4. A good love is one where you see the world through a man, and a bad love is one where you forsake the world for a single person.

5. 15放松点，看淡点，做完，放下，不再去想，不要去比较，你便释然。

5. Relax a bit, take it easy, finish it, put it down, don't think about it anymore, don't compare, and you will feel at ease.

6. 16自我，终究是个闯入者，仅有尘封的窗户和孤独的树影是自我的配角，庆幸它们没有生命，否则，也会离我而去罢。

6. 16 The self, after all, is an intruder; only dusty windows and solitary tree shadows act as its配角 (supporting actors). I am grateful that they are without life, otherwise, they might have left me too.

7. 34要让心冷漠些，坚硬些，无谓些，麻木些，才能抵得住绝望和伤害，流年的等候，刹那的回眸，可是，能不能做到，苦不苦，哭不哭，仅有自我知道。

7.34 To make the heart colder, harder, indifferent, and numb, it can withstand despair and hurt, the waiting of the passing years, the fleeting glance. However, whether one can do it, how bitter or whether one cries, only the self knows.

8. 佛曰：缘为冰，我将冰拥在怀中；冰化了，我才发现缘没了。

8. The Buddha said: "The cause and condition are like ice. I hold the ice in my arms; when it melts, I realize that the cause and condition are no more."

9. 72泰山崩于前而色不变，麋鹿兴于左而目不瞬，然后可以制利害，可以待敌。

9. Even when Mount Tai collapses in front of him, his expression remains unchanged; when a deer rises on the left, his eyes do not blink. Only then can one control gains and losses, and wait for the enemy.

10. 多少英雄豪杰，无论多牛，多厉害，多了不起，最后都变成了尘土。无论多么辉煌的功业，多么了不得的大事，现在一点痕迹都没有。

10. How many heroes and great men, no matter how extraordinary or formidable, eventually turn to dust. No matter how splendid their achievements or how momentous their deeds, not a trace remains today.

11. 人生在世，不过沧海一粟，宽容别人，就是宽容自己，与人方便，就是与己方便，渡人就是渡己。

11. In the vastness of life, each person is but a grain of sand in the sea. To be tolerant of others is to be tolerant of oneself; to make life easy for others is to make it easy for oneself; helping others is helping oneself.

12. 24我很怕我一松手这个人就从我的这个世界上消失了。

12. 24 I am so afraid that if I let go, this person will disappear from my world.

13. 28如果有一天，我变得冷漠了，请记得，我以往要人陪的时候你也只说忙；如果有一天，我变得目中无人了，请记得，以往也没有人把我放心上；如果有一天，我不再在乎你了，请记得，以往也没人听过我的心事；如果有一天，我不再对你笑了，请记得，你以往也没问我过的快不快乐。

13. 28 If one day I become indifferent, please remember that when I needed company before, you only said you were busy; if one day I become self-centered, please remember that no one had me in mind before either; if one day I stop caring about you, please remember that no one had ever listened to my troubles before; if one day I stop smiling at you, please remember that you never asked me whether I was happy or not.

14. 11做你想做的梦吧，去你想去的地方吧，成为你想成为的人吧，因为你只有一次生命，一个机会去做你所有想做的事。

14. Dream the dreams you want to dream, go to the places you want to go, become the person you want to become, because you only have one life and one chance to do all the things you want to do.

15. 一个人懂得看开，放下和释怀，也就悟到了生命的真谛，撑起了人生最顶级的格局。

15. A person who understands to let go, let be, and let it go has also realized the essence of life and has set up the most superior structure of life.

16. 世事如棋，人生如梦。生活里有许多相似但不尽相同的经历，有痛苦、有快乐、有泪水也有喜悦，时光在悄然之中一去不复返，很多的人，很多的事，弹指之间就成为了回忆。走在这个淡然的人间，需要的是一份平和，还有平静。急什么。慌什么。世界也没改变什么。

16. The world is like a game of go, life is like a dream. Life is filled with many similar yet not entirely identical experiences, with pain, joy, tears, and happiness. Time quietly slips away and never returns. Many people, many things, become memories in the blink of an eye. Walking through this serene world requires peace, and stillness. Why be in a hurry? Why be anxious? The world hasn't changed much.

17. 真爱就像幽灵，人人都谈论它，可却从未有人真正见过它。

17. True love is like a ghost; everyone talks about it, but no one has ever truly seen it.

18. 当你手中抓住一件东西不放时，你只能拥有这件东西，如果你肯放手，你就有机会选择别的。人的心若死执自己的观念，不肯放下，那么他的智慧也只能达到某种程度而已。

18. When you hold onto something tightly in your hands, you can only possess that thing. If you are willing to let go, you have the opportunity to choose something else. If a person's heart is stubbornly attached to their own ideas and is unwilling to let go, then their wisdom can only reach a certain level.

19. 13善良是一种智慧，是一种远见，一种自信，一种精神力量，是一种文化，一种快乐。

19. Generosity is a form of wisdom, foresight, confidence, a spiritual strength, a culture, and a source of joy.

20. 4成功没有奇迹，只有轨迹；成功不靠条件，只靠信念！不管你相不相信，这世界上最富有的人，是跌倒最多的人，这世界上最勇敢的人，是每次跌倒都能站起来的人。而这世界上最成功的人，是那些每次跌倒，不单单能站起来，还能够坚持走下去的人！

20. There are no miracles to success, only paths; success does not rely on conditions, but on belief! Whether you believe it or not, the wealthiest people in the world are those who have fallen the most, the bravest people in the world are those who can stand up every time they fall. And the most successful people in the world are those who not only stand up every time they fall, but also can persist in moving forward!

21. 14失去一切并不可怕，怕只怕我们抵抗可是回忆。

21. It's not可怕 to lose everything, what's可怕的是我们抵抗可是回忆。

22. 不管你拥有多少东西，功名富贵，名利权势，最后都不属于你。人不带来，死不带走，来时两手空空，走时一丝不挂。又有什么放不下的呢？

22. No matter how much you possess, whether it's fame, wealth, power, or status, in the end, none of it belongs to you. You don't come with anything, and you don't take anything away. You come with empty hands, and you leave without a thing. So, what is there to be unable to let go of?

23. 49爱是一种信念是一种力量，鼓舞我战胜一切。

23. 49 Love is a belief, a force that inspires me to overcome everything.

24. 67叹气是浪费时间的事情，哭泣是浪费力气的行径。

24. 67. It is a waste of time to sigh, and it is a waste of energy to cry.

25. 22如果生活一定要取悦一个人，我们最应该取悦的是自己，随着心的方向走，看到别人的光芒，也知道自己的耀眼。不负青春，不负自己。

25. 22 If life must please someone, we should first please ourselves. Follow the direction of our heart, see the brilliance in others, and also recognize our own shine. Do not squander our youth, do not betray ourselves.

26. 24原来你早就已经看穿了我自以为是的伪装。可是，此刻的我，早已忘记了快乐的模样。

26. 24 You had already seen through my self-righteous disguise a long time ago. But now, I have long forgotten what joy looks like.

27. 30后来，我也不知道我是在找对象，还是在找你的影子。

27. Later, I'm not sure if I'm looking for a partner or just your shadow.

28. 21人的一生，没有谁事事得意，处处风光，淡然一些，看开一点。学会珍惜每个今天，才能拥有无悔的明天，在生活的过程中，保持一种平常的心态，淡然而简单，你就会愉快！

28. In the life of 21 people, no one can be successful in everything and be glamorous everywhere. Be indifferent and open-minded. Learn to cherish every day, and you will have a regret-free tomorrow. In the process of life, maintain a normal attitude, be indifferent and simple, and you will be happy!

29. 22人就是在不停地释然释然释然中，忘掉了自己的初衷，淡化了自己的美梦。

29. In the endless letting go, 22 people forgot their original intention and blurred their beautiful dreams.

30. 当你知道迷惑时，并不可怜，当你不知道迷惑时，才是最可怜的。

30. It is not pitiful when you know delusion, but it is the most pitiful when you do not know delusion.

31. 47跌跌撞撞的此刻，唤不回深爱的你。日子过得很快，快乐的时光难以留下来，回忆过去幸福，守着此刻的日子，追逐未来的执子之手，与子偕老。在我们有生之年的日子，我不敢奢求的太多。

31. At this moment, struggling and faltering, I cannot call back the deeply loved you. Time passes quickly, and happy moments are hard to hold on to. Recalling the past happiness, cherishing the present days, pursuing the future hand in hand, and growing old together. In the days of our lifetime, I dare not ask for too much.

32. 真理真相搞清楚，叫看破；做事圆圆满满，心里干干净净，叫放下。

32. Clarifying the truth and facts is called "seeing through"; accomplishing things smoothly and cleanly in one's heart is called "letting go."

33. 也就是说：过去的'就让它过去吧，耿耿于怀，不如一笑而过，放手释怀；如今的杂乱，也暂且先放下吧，苦苦纠缠，不妨顺其自然，善待成全；未来的生活，也不用太担忧，常常抱怨，不如真心祝愿，尽心铺垫。

33. That is to say: for the past, let it be and don't let it linger in your mind; it's better to laugh it off and let it go; for the current chaos, let it be for the time being as well, don't纠缠不清, instead, go with the flow and be kind to fulfill it; as for the future, there's no need to worry too much and constantly complain; it's better to sincerely wish and fully prepare.

34. 很多时候，我们苦，烦，累，就因困于心境，败给情绪，造成了更大的损失和挫败。

34. Many times, we are troubled, frustrated, and exhausted because of our inner turmoil, succumbing to emotions, which leads to greater losses and defeats.

35. 18若能表达，爱也好，恨也好，都是一件多么快乐的事。

35. If it could be expressed, whether it is love or hate, it is such a joyful thing.

36. 你过不去的坎，都是心坎，你绕不开的事，都是心事，你解不开的结，都是心结。修炼好自己的内心，不纠缠，不计较，不在乎，不拧巴，那么，没有任何人和事可以伤害到你。

36. The obstacles you cannot overcome are all emotional barriers, the things you cannot bypass are all matters of the heart, and the knots you cannot untie are all heartstrings. Cultivate your inner self, do not entangle yourself, do not calculate, do not care, do not twist and turn, and then, no person or matter can harm you.

37. 6生活如茶不仅要懂得如何去泡制，更要懂得如何品尝。

37. 6 Life is like tea; not only do you need to know how to brew it, but also how to savor it.

38. 生活的一粒灰，落在个人头上，可能就是一座山。而我们就败给了这粒灰尘，究根求底是格局太小，心态不好。

38. A speck of dust from life, falling on an individual's head, may be a mountain. And it is this speck of dust that we have been defeated by, fundamentally due to our limited perspective and poor mindset.

39. 62人要懂得感恩，心态好，就什么都好，知足而又努力，常乐。

39. 62 people should be grateful, have a positive attitude, and then everything will be fine. Being content yet striving, they will always be joyful.

40. 13不管遭遇多大的苦难，不管陷入多悲惨的状况，如果能够一笑，就会有重新充电的感觉。

40. 13 Regardless of the great sufferings encountered or the悲惨 situations one may fall into, if one can smile, there will be a sense of being recharged.

41. 13遇事沉着冷静，一定要淡定！！我这瞎激动的毛病老是改不掉。

41. When faced with things, stay calm and composed, always be cool and collected!! This habit of mine, getting overly excited without reason, is something I can't seem to shake off.

42. 人生，总需要经历过一些事情，才能够明白珍惜的重要性。但人总不能活在过去，人还是要往前看的。

42. Life requires experiencing certain things in order to understand the importance of cherishing them. However, one cannot live in the past; people must look forward.

43. 45喜欢一个人真累，还是乖乖的等别人来喜欢我吧。

43. 45 It's really tiring to like someone, so I might as well wait for someone to like me instead.

44. 21不让无穷的欲念攫取己心，”够用就好”也是不错的生活态度。

44. Do not let the infinite desires seize your heart; 'enough is enough' is also a good attitude towards life.

45. 14有缘分，不拒绝，无缘分，不奢求。来的，欢迎，去的，相送。随缘不变，不变随缘。随遇而安，自在安然。

45. With destiny, accept without resistance; without destiny, do not seek excessively. Those who come, welcome; those who leave, farewell. Go with the flow, remain unchanged; remain unchanged, go with the flow. Embrace the present, live in peace and tranquility.

46. 人生不仅要摆正自己的心态，还要练就自己对人生和世界的格局，人有多大的格局，才能走多远的路。

46. Not only is it important to align one's own mindset, but also to cultivate one's own perspective on life and the world. The larger one's perspective, the farther one can travel on the path of life.

47. 在生活中，有多少人，有一点成就就漂了，没有一点矜持，这样很快就把得到的东西又还回去了。

47. In life, how many people become proud at the first sign of achievement, lacking any modesty, and thus quickly lose whatever they have gained.

48. 20养狗的男人有活力，养猫的男人有定力，养女人的男人有财力，养老婆的男人有魅力。

48. A man who keeps dogs is energetic, a man who keeps cats is steady, a man who keeps women has wealth, and a man who keeps a wife has charm.

49. 63活得越久越相信命运，生命中的种种偶然、必然，或许都应该豁然、释然。

49. The longer one lives, the more one believes in fate. Perhaps all the chances and necessities in life should be accepted with a relaxed and serene attitude.

50. 2虽然有些事肯定会过去，但却避免不了重蹈覆辙。

50. 2 Although some things will definitely pass, it is unavoidable to repeat the same mistakes.

51. 命运给你什么你就接受什么。

51. Accept whatever destiny gives you.

52. 苏轼不仅是诗人，还是美食家，他的诗词闻名天下，美食也被人传承。

52. Su Shi was not only a poet but also a gourmet. His poems are renowned throughout the world, and his culinary expertise has been passed down through generations.

53. 55阴影也是自己的一部分，挥之不去就用正面去面对！

53. 55 The shadow is also a part of yourself, if it cannot be banished, face it positively!

54. 看淡了，是是非非也就无所谓；放下了，成败得失也就那么回事。面对得失，有些人内心豁达，不会纠结很久，遇到什么都能随遇而安，心安了也就自在了；有些人则耿耿于怀，难以面对，要么愤世嫉俗，要么自暴自弃，给自己和他人都带来了困扰。所以，外境好坏并不是苦乐的来源，真正的始作俑者，是我们的心。

54. When we let go of attachments, right and wrong become insignificant; when we let go of wins and losses, they are just as they are. In the face of gains and losses, some people are broad-minded and do not dwell on them for long, can be at ease with whatever comes their way, and when their hearts are at peace, they feel at ease; while others hold onto grievances and find it hard to face them, either becoming cynical or self-abandoning, bringing distress to both themselves and others. Therefore, the quality of external circumstances is not the source of happiness or sorrow; the real culprit is our own hearts.

55. 你硬要把单纯的事情看得很严重，那样子你会很痛苦。

55. If you insist on taking simple matters too seriously, you will only suffer a great deal.

56. 8钱可以帮穷人解决问题，却帮富人制造问题。

56. 8 cents can help solve problems for the poor, but it can create problems for the rich.

57. 永远不要去羡慕别人的生活，即使那个人看起来快乐富足。永远不要去评价别人是否幸福，即使那个人看起来孤独无助。幸福如人饮水，冷暖自知。你不是我，怎知我走过的路，心中的乐与苦。

57. Never envy someone else's life, even if that person appears to be happy and prosperous. Never judge whether someone is happy or not, even if that person seems lonely and helpless. Happiness is like drinking water, one knows its warmth and chillness by oneself. You are not me, how can you know the path I have walked, the joy and pain in my heart.

58. 世上所有的问题都有解决之道，这个解决之道就是抓住问题的关键。有些事看起来之所以很难，是因为我们被问题的表面现象所迷惑了，没有抓住问题的关键所在。

58. There is a solution to all the problems in the world, and that solution is to grasp the key to the problem. Some things seem difficult because we are confused by the superficial phenomena of the problem, not having caught hold of the key point.

59. 8所有的风景都会拒绝一部分人，偏爱一部分人，而我，可能就是被你错爱的那一部分。

59. 8 Every landscape rejects some people and favors others, and perhaps I am the part of you that you mistakenly love.

60. 用平常心来生活，用惭愧心来待人，心来处事，用菩提心契佛心。

60. Live with a calm and ordinary mind, treat others with a heart of humility, handle matters with a heart of wisdom, and connect with the Buddha's heart through a bodhicitta.

61. 68我突然就豁然的笑了，这个等字终于解释了所有！天空很蓝，太阳很耀眼，我很释然。

61. 68 I suddenly burst into a bright smile, as this word "wait" finally explained everything! The sky was very blue, the sun was dazzling, and I felt at ease.

62. 75如今的我，总爱说释然了，但是，释然了不代表忘却了，忘却了不代表放下了，放下了，亦不代表不爱了。

62. Now, I often say that I have let go, but letting go does not mean forgetting, forgetting does not mean letting go, and letting go does not necessarily mean ceasing to love.

63. 别人能帮的了你一时，但帮不了你一世。在这个世界上，只有一个人能真正帮的。了你一世，这个人就是你自己。遇到困难时，不要轻易向别人求助，要学会靠自己救助自己。谨记：求人不如求己。

63. Others may help you for a while, but they cannot help you for a lifetime. In this world, only one person can truly help you for a lifetime, and that person is yourself. When faced with difficulties, do not easily turn to others for help; learn to rely on yourself to save yourself. Remember: asking others is not as good as asking yourself.

64. 17既然无处可逃，不如喜悦。既然没有净土，不如静心。既然没有如愿，不如释然。

64. 17 Since there is nowhere to escape to, it's better to be joyful. Since there is no pure land, it's better to calm the mind. Since things don't turn out as desired, it's better to let go.