在浩瀚的生命长河中，我们怀揣着“释放执行意念，拥抱自由”的信念，探寻着最美的生活哲学。今日，让我们共同开启这扇通往心灵深处的门，去发现那些照亮人生的智慧之光。

In the vast river of life, we hold the belief of "releasing the will to execute, embracing freedom," and seek the most beautiful philosophy of life. Today, let us共同open this door to the depths of the soul together, to discover the wisdom that illuminates life.

1. 世上有两样东西不可直视，一是太阳，二是人心。——东野圭吾

1. There are two things in the world that cannot be directly looked at: the sun and people's hearts. -- Keigo Higashino

2. 看到一段很有道理的话：女人的老去，是从她着急嫁人开始的吗？当然不是，一个女人的老去，是从她越来越宅，越来越不想出门开始的。所以有些人到六十岁还没老，有些人才毕业就开始老了。年轻是一种孜孜不倦的心态，就是要不断地探索和不断地变更好。女人永远新鲜的唯一秘诀，就是在不断地改变。

2. I saw a very sensible statement: Does a woman's aging start when she becomes anxious to get married? Of course not, a woman's aging starts from when she becomes more and more宅, and less and less willing to go out. Therefore, some people haven't aged at the age of sixty, while some people start to age as soon as they graduate. Youth is a tireless state of mind, which means constantly exploring and improving oneself. The only secret for a woman to remain fresh is to keep changing.

3. 人生如一列列车，把曾经抛在脑后把未来放在前方。它载着不同的人与你同行又与你分离，开始是父母，而后是爱人，孩子，最后只剩下自己一个独自漂流。在这一段旅途中，我们感叹它载入太多自己不爱的人却载走了自己爱的人。当身上的伤痕越来越多时，看途中风景的心情就越来越坏。当无情的岁月又一次在脸上划开一道伤口时，你会发现曾经变得越来越长未来越来越短。人生就是如此吧？在我们为终点越来越近起点越来越远而悲痛时，有没有想过其实途中的景色也很不错？

3. Life is like a train, leaving the past behind and placing the future ahead. It carries different people with you and separates from you, starting with your parents, followed by your loved ones, children, and eventually, you are left alone, drifting. During this journey, we lament that it carries too many people we don't love, while taking away those we cherish. As the scars on our bodies accumulate, our mood in appreciating the scenery along the way grows increasingly gloomy. When the relentless years once again carve a wound on your face, you'll find that the past is becoming increasingly longer and the future increasingly shorter. Isn't life like that? When we are sorrowful over the approaching end and the ever-distant beginning, have we ever thought that the scenery along the way is also quite beautiful?

4. 爱，不只是对视，而是往一个方向看去；爱，不是往一个方向看去，而是想法也是一致。

4. Love is not just about looking in the same direction; it is about looking in the same direction together. Love is not about looking in the same direction; it is about having the same thoughts as well.

5. 你是否和我一样，说过很多决绝的话，做过很多心软的事？

5. Do you, like me, have a habit of saying many decisive things while also doing many soft-hearted deeds?

6. 如果有一天，我忍不住问你，你一定要骗我。就算你心里多不情愿，也不要告诉我你最爱的人不是我。

6. If one day, I can't help but ask you, you must lie to me. Even if you are very unwilling in your heart, do not tell me that the person you love the most is not me.

7. 抽刀断水，断不了。举杯浇愁，愁更愁。

7. Cutting the water with a knife, it cannot be cut off. Pouring wine to ease sorrow, sorrow becomes even greater.

8. 很多事情，当经历过，自己知道就好，很多改变，不需要说出来的，自己明白就好。所有的日子，都会到来，所有的日子，又都会过去，一切仿佛发生了，又仿佛一切没有发生。

8. Many things, once experienced, it's enough to know it yourself; many changes, they don't need to be spoken out, just understood by yourself. Every day will come, every day will pass, as if everything has happened, yet as if nothing has happened at all.

9. 生活的原貌是五彩缤纷的，赤橙黄绿青蓝紫是并存的。

9. The original form of life is colorful, with red, orange, yellow, green, blue, indigo, and purple coexisting.

10. 拥有了一颗赤城的心，便拥有了朋友;拥有了一颗善良的心，便拥有了友爱。不要悲观地认为自己很不幸，其实比你更不幸的人还很多;不要乐观地认为自己很伟大，其实你只是沧海之一粟。

10. With a sincere heart, you gain friends; with a kind heart, you gain love. Do not be pessimistic about thinking you are very unfortunate, for there are many people who are even more unfortunate than you; do not be optimistic about thinking you are great, for you are just a tiny grain in the vast ocean.

11. 与其在意别人的背弃和不善，不如经营自己的尊严和美好。

11. It's better to focus on cultivating one's dignity and beauty than to worry about others' betrayal and unkindness.

12. 拍照的好处，是可以在人生微凉时，用回忆取暖。

12. The benefit of taking photos is that one can use memories to warm themselves during the cooler moments in life.

13. 相信未来是不确定的，但你是可以朝它走过去的，可以不断地接近它；第

13. Believe that the future is uncertain, but you can walk towards it, and can continuously approach it.

14. 欲求文明之幸福，不得不经历文明之痛苦，这个痛苦就叫做革命——中孙中山道出了监制陈可辛最感动的对白；一个女人的时间花在哪里是看得见的。

14. To seek happiness in civilization, one must undergo the pain of civilization, and this pain is called revolution – this is the most moving dialogue that监制Chen Kexin (Stephen Chow) portrayed from Dr. Sun Yat-sen; where a woman spends her time is something that can be seen.

15. 我善良，但不及天使;我有罪，却并非魔鬼。我是我，不容复制。

15. I am kind, but not as kind as an angel; I have sins, but I am not the devil. I am me, and I am not to be replicated.

16. 爱一个人，其实很简单。他让你流泪，让你失望，尽管这样，他站在那里，你还是会走过去牵他的手，不由自主。

16. To love someone is actually very simple. They make you cry, they disappoint you, yet despite this, you still go to him, reaching out to hold his hand, uncontrollably.

17. 当别人说你看起来总是那麽平静与淡然，只有你自己心里知道，而今的平静与淡然是用多少眼泪学回来的；此时此刻的波澜不惊，又是曾被多少波澜几乎淹没过。生命中所有的挫折和伤痛、所有的经历，都是为了造就你和锻链你。不要总说岁月残忍，它其实温柔了你。

17. When others say you always seem so calm and indifferent, only you know in your heart that today's calm and indifference are learned with how many tears; and this moment's tranquility is once again overwhelmed by how many storms. All the setbacks and injuries, all the experiences in life, are to shape and temper you. Don't always say that time is cruel, for it has actually softened you.

18. 作为一个女人，一定要有让自己过好日子的能力。不牵绊，不依附，定然动人。

18. As a woman, it is crucial to have the ability to live a good life for oneself. Unburdened and independent, one is bound to be charming.

19. 平淡却是一种生活状态。是那种“清水出芙蓉，天然去雕饰”的自然本色，毫无做作之心。不慕权势，不贪富贵，不爱奢华。该怎样就怎样。平凡人不一定有惊涛骇浪的壮举，却完全可以在平凡的岗位上，凭着一颗凡而不淡的心，珍惜光阴、执着追求、矢志不渝，朝着理想的方向奋进，“秀”出自己的精彩。

19. Blandness is a state of life. It is that natural essence of "crystal water brings out the lotus, and nature strips away adornment," without any artificiality. It does not yearn for power, does not crave wealth and fame, and does not love luxury. It is as it should be. Ordinary people may not have grand gestures like mighty waves, but they can certainly excel in their ordinary positions, relying on a heart that is ordinary yet not indifferent, valuing time, persistently pursuing, and remaining steadfast. They can move forward towards their ideals, "showing" their own brilliance.

20. 自己的伤痛自己最清楚，自己的哀叹自己最明白，自己的快乐自己最感受。也许自己眼中的地狱，却是别人眼中的天堂；也许自己眼中的天堂，却是别人眼中的地狱。生命就是这般的滑稽。一个人有一个人的活法，关键在于心态的调整。

20. One knows their own pain the best, understands their own sighs most clearly, and feels their own happiness the most. Perhaps what seems like hell to oneself is heaven in the eyes of others; perhaps what appears as heaven to oneself is hell in the eyes of others. Life is just that absurd. Each person has their own way of living, and the key lies in adjusting one's mindset.

21. 缺乏物质的生活会将相爱的两个人打的丑态百出，如果你爱一个人，就要拼命的努力，丰腴的物质是维持爱情美感的最好方式。

21. A lack of material comfort can reduce the lovers to their most unattractive forms. If you love someone, you should strive with all your might, as abundant material wealth is the best way to maintain the beauty of love.

22. 早安心语：每个你认为幸福的回忆，其实都带着伤。只有在一个人旅行时，才听得到自己的声音。它会告诉你，这世界比想象中的宽阔。你的人生不会没有出口，你会发现自己有一双翅膀，不必经过任何人同意就能飞。

22. Morning inspirations: Every happy memory you think of actually carries a wound. It's only when you travel alone that you can hear your own voice. It will tell you that this world is broader than you imagine. Your life will not be without an exit, and you will find that you have a pair of wings that can fly without needing anyone's permission.

23. 桃花流落处，不见你来时的踪迹，不见那些双栖双飞的往事，也不见那一直想要留住的时光，空余自己的孤影在苍凉的月下飘零，剪切成凌乱不堪的碎片，在浩渺的天际间，如丝如缕，侵了心伤，在心间，淡了又浓了洗涤我的心事，如诗如画！

23. Where the peach blossoms fall, I see no trace of your arrival, no recollection of those past times when we soared together, nor the moments I longed to hold onto. Only my own solitary shadow drifts amidst the desolate moonlight, sliced into chaotic fragments. In the boundless sky, they weave like threads, piercing my heart with sorrow. In my heart, they fade and deepen, washing away my troubles, like poetry and paintings!

24. 最理想的生活状态：工作女强人，生活小女人。

24. The ideal state of life: a career-oriented woman at work, and a gentle woman in life.

25. 所谓艺术的生活，则是那种享受点滴趣味的心情，是否有心情为一幅心仪的油画停下匆忙的脚步，是否有心情去聆听一场邂逅的音乐会，是否有心情去享受那一瞬间照耀在脸上的阳光味道？

25. The so-called life of art is a mood of enjoying trivial pleasures: Do you have the mood to stop in your hurry for a painting that catches your eye, do you have the mood to attend a chance encounter concert, do you have the mood to savor the taste of the sunlight shining on your face at that moment?

26. 朋友就是一层云，聚了，散了。闲愁就是一壶酒，醉了，醒了。寂寞就是一颗星，闪了，灭了。孤独就是一轮月，升了，落了。死亡就是一场梦，累了，睡了。

26. A friend is a layer of clouds, gathering and dispersing. Leisurely worries are a jar of wine, getting drunk and waking up. Solitude is a star, twinkling and extinguishing. Loneliness is a moon, rising and setting. Death is a dream, being tired and falling asleep.

27. 那些你刻意制造出来的快乐，都不是真正的快乐，无论照片里看起来笑的多开心，不要刻意去营造假象，要用心去感受生活。

27. The happiness you刻意 create is not true happiness. No matter how joyful you may appear in photos, don't刻意 fabricate illusions; instead, use your heart to experience life.

28. 既然无能为力，不如放下；既然没有净土，不如净心；既然未能如愿，不如释怀。

28. Since there is nothing that can be done, it's better to let go; since there is no pure land, it's better to purify one's heart; since one cannot achieve one's desires, it's better to let go of one's attachments.

29. 人生中遭遇的各种各样的事，无论幸运也好灾难也好，都看作上苍对我们的考验。当考题是“幸运”时，我们要说一声谢谢，由衷感激，不得意忘形，不失谦虚之心，再接再厉，继续努力；当考题是“灾难”时，不悲叹，不怨恨，不消沉，不灰心，不牢骚满腹，开朗达观，一味努力向前，做好该做的事。——稻盛和夫

29. In the various events that we encounter in life, whether they are lucky or disasters, we should regard them as the tests from the heavens. When the test is "luck," we should say a thank you, with a sincere sense of gratitude, not become overconfident, not lose our modesty, and strive even harder, continue to work hard; when the test is "disaster," do not lament, do not harbor resentment, do not become despondent, do not lose heart, do not抱怨满腹，be cheerful and optimistic, and keep working hard, doing what needs to be done. – Kazuo Inamori

30. 有一个人，你总是忍不住对他歇斯底里，你不知道为什么，你肆无忌惮，我想说，因为你骨子里知道他是那样的爱你。仿佛最美好的风景只在彼岸，而此岸只是一种过渡，因此我们对沿途的风景常常忽视。其实，生命中绝大部分的风景都是在途中，活着是为了经历，经历就是修行，也许它是平凡的、琐碎的、漫长的，要学会享受奋斗途中的快乐！

30. There is a person who you can't help but lose your temper with, and you don't know why. You act without restraint. I want to say that it's because deep down, you know that he loves you so much. It's as if the most beautiful scenery is only on the other side, while this side is just a transition, so we often overlook the scenery along the way. In fact, most of the scenery in life is on the journey. Living is about experiencing, and experiencing is a form of cultivation. Perhaps it is ordinary, trivial, and long, but you should learn to enjoy the happiness on the path of struggle!

31. 知道自己会弹琴，或会造房子，使我们有一种活力感，一种逼人的独立感。然而，由于渴望心理上的安全感而强调了能力，这是摒弃了充实的生活。

31. Knowing that one can play the piano or build houses gives us a sense of vitality and a compelling sense of independence. However, by emphasizing abilities due to the desire for psychological security, we abandon a fulfilling life.

32. 幸福的距离，有时近，有时远，以为就在咫尺，转眼却还在天涯。平静的生活就像一杯白开水，喝起来淡而无味，却不知道正是它的纯净无暇才让我们的生命幸福，懂得生活的人才会在平淡中品出甘甜和幸福。

32. The distance of happiness is sometimes near and sometimes far; we think it's just around the corner, but in a blink, it's still at the ends of the earth. A peaceful life is like a glass of plain water, tasteless and bland to drink, yet it is its purity and flawlessness that make our lives happy. Only those who understand life can taste the sweetness and happiness in the plainness.

33. 我们可能无法改变自己的命运，但可以改变自己对待命运的态度，心平气和接受生命中发生的一切，乐观豁达面对当下的生活。

33. We may not be able to change our fate, but we can change our attitude towards it. We can calmly accept everything that happens in life and face the present with optimism and openness.

34. 所有男孩子在发誓的时候，都是真的觉得自己一定不会违背承诺；而在反悔的时候，也都是真的觉得自己不能做到。所以誓言这种东西无法衡量坚贞，也不能判断对错；它只能证明，在说出来的那一刻，彼此曾经真诚过。

34. All boys truly believe that they will never break their promises when they are taking an oath; and when they regret, they also genuinely feel that they cannot fulfill it. Therefore, oaths cannot measure fidelity or determine right and wrong; they can only prove that at the moment they were spoken, both parties were sincere.

35. 常常给我抱怨生活中的不如意，却是一个永远带给我积极影响和正能量的人。爱你。

35. Often complain about the frustrations in life, yet you are always someone who brings me positive influence and positive energy. Love you.

36. 有人说：“因为无能为力，所以顺其自然，因为心无所恃，所以随遇而安。上天给你什么，你就享受什么，上天拿走什么，你就接受什么，上天懒得理你，你也别去理它。”

36. Some say, "Since one is unable to do anything about it, one might as well go with the flow. Since one has nothing to rely on in the heart, one must be content with what comes along. Whatever the heavens give you, enjoy it; whatever the heavens take away, accept it; if the heavens neglect you, don't bother to pay attention to it either."

37. 道理都懂，但该怨的还是会怨，该骂的还是会骂，该哭的也还是会哭，毕竟心里的难受不是道理所能释怀的。

37. We all understand the道理, but we will still complain about what we should, still scold what we should, and still cry when we should, because the inner pain cannot be comforted by mere reasoning.

38. 有些话，适合藏在心里，有些痛苦，适合无声无息的忘记，有些回忆，只适合偶尔拿出来回味。

38. Some things are meant to be kept in the heart, some sorrows are best forgotten silently, and some memories are only suitable for savoring occasionally.

39. 你若爱，生活哪里都可爱。你若恨，生活哪里都可恨。你若感恩，处处可感恩。你若成长，事事可成长。不是世界选择了你，是你选择了这个世界。既然无处可躲，不如傻乐。既然无处可逃，不如喜悦。既然没有净土，不如静心。既然没有如愿，不如释然。

39. If you love, there is beauty everywhere. If you hate, there is恨 everywhere. If you are grateful, there is gratitude everywhere. If you grow, there is growth in everything. It's not that the world has chosen you, but you have chosen this world. Since there is nowhere to hide, might as well be happy. Since there is no place to escape, might as well be joyful. Since there is no pure land, might as well calm your mind. Since things don't turn out as you wish, might as well let go.

40. 人的毕生中总有一些难以言说的机密，无奈逆转的懊悔，无可企及的幻想以及难以忘记的爱恋。

40. Throughout one's life, there are always some unspoken secrets, unavoidable regrets, unattainable dreams, and unforgettable loves.

41. 请你记得时刻都要快乐着，幸福着。有一种追求，明明是失望，却不愿回头。有一种努力，明明是失败，却不愿停止。有一种喜欢，明明是错误，却不愿松手;有一种美好，明明是幻想，却不愿醒悟。

41. Remember to be happy and contented at all times. There is a pursuit that is clearly disappointing, yet one is unwilling to turn back. There is an effort that is obviously a failure, yet one is unwilling to stop. There is a liking that is clearly wrong, yet one is unwilling to let go; there is a beauty that is obviously a fantasy, yet one is unwilling to awaken.

42. 主动久了会很累，在乎久了会崩溃，沉默久了会受罪，想念久了会流泪。结果，如此狼狈。

42. Being proactive for too long can be tiring, caring too much can lead to collapse, being silent for too long can suffer in silence, and missing someone for too long can bring tears. In the end, such a mess.

43. 就是这些害怕，从侧面暴露了作家们对爱的无限饥渴。写书的人假正经，看书的人最无情。其实本质上作家是奶牛，读者们要的是牛奶。如果读者可以多给奶牛一点爱，有情一些，奶牛们的心情也许会好一点，高高兴兴为你们继续产奶。

43. It is these fears that indirectly reveal the infinite thirst for love that writers have. Those who write books are pretentious, and those who read them are the most merciless. In essence, writers are like cows, and what readers want is milk. If readers could show a bit more love and kindness to the cows, perhaps their moods would improve, and they would happily continue to produce milk for you with joy.

44. 不同的人，为你做同一件事，你会感到天壤之别。因为我们在意的，往往不是人做的事，而只是做事的人。

44. People of different kinds doing the same thing for you will evoke a world of difference. Because what we often care about is not what people do, but who is doing the deed.

45. 如果可以选择的话，不要用恨来结束一段爱。写法汇总

45. If possible, do not end a love with hate. Summary of writing.

46. 如果相爱，最后却不能相守，不要躲在无人的地方伤怀，天长地久不是爱的全部，试着退回原地，为对方送上真诚的祝福，就会感觉快乐从心中缓缓流出。

46. If you love but cannot keep each other, do not hide in a desolate place to sorrow. Eternity and duration are not all of love. Try to return to the original place, offer sincere blessings to the other, and you will feel joy slowly flowing from your heart.

47. 曾经我也深以为能和你在一起很久。但是那日，你不挽留，我没回头。我没有饮过最烈的酒但我放弃了曾最爱的人。我给你全部自由，当作我最后的温柔。从此，我也学做：一沾着枕头就能安睡的人和那些决心放手之后就从不回头的人。

47. Once, I deeply believed that I could be with you for a long time. But that day, you didn't hold on, and I didn't turn back. I haven't drunk the strongest wine, but I have given up the one I loved the most. I gave you all the freedom, as if it were my last gentleness. From then on, I also learned to be: someone who can fall asleep as soon as they touch the pillow, and those who never look back after deciding to let go.

48. “如果没有你，我仍旧可以生活得很好，但我却愿意跟你在一起，这才是爱情。”爱情的本质，就是情愿。情愿为你做很多事，情愿放下一切为你，情愿妥协，情愿再风雨兼程也要共度一生。

48. "Even without you, I can still live well, but I choose to be with you, and that is what love is." The essence of love is willing. Willing to do many things for you, willing to let go of everything for you, willing to compromise, and willing to walk through storms together for a lifetime.

49. 既然选择了，就不要后悔！纵使失败了，也要笑着面对！生活就是这样，你不去做，总有人会去做，就算错了，也要勇敢的面对！为自已而活，为自已负责！

49. Since you have made your choice, don't regret it! Even if you fail, face it with a smile! Life is like that; if you don't do it, someone else will, and even if it's wrong, you should face it bravely! Live for yourself and take responsibility for yourself!

50. 想要得到，必然先要付出。帮助他人，为他人带去价值，你就会得到最好的回报。

50. To receive, one must first give. Help others and bring value to them, and you will receive the best rewards.

51. 如果你留在这里，这里就变成你的现在，不久以后，你就会开始想象另一个时代才是黄金时代，这才是现实，不尽如人意，因为生活本来就是不尽如人意的。

51. If you stay here, this place becomes your present; not long after, you will start to imagine that another era is the golden age, that is the reality, not as one would wish, because life itself is never as one would wish.

52. 没有羽翼，只能自己学会奔跑吧。没有后盾有自己，别寄予别人希望，否则将是失望。所以呢凡事多投资自己一点，会更实际，自己想要什么的生活，自己为自己努力营造才是实际真实的生活。凡事看开得失，执念不要那么重。阿弥陀佛。

52. Without wings, one must learn to run on their own. With no support but oneself, don't place hope in others, or it will only lead to disappointment. So, invest more in yourself in everything, which is more practical. The life you want is the one you strive to create for yourself, and that is the real and actual life. Look at gains and losses with an open mind, and don't hold onto attachments so heavily.阿弥陀佛.

53. 教育与知识的价值是无法估量的。但我们有必要无所不知吗？面对这个复杂的世界，我们有可能无所不知吗？我的意思是，"不知道"也是一种明智的选择。这就好比清除掉抽屉里的杂物，放进一本书。但是，如果不腾出一点空间的话，这本书是放不进去的。

53. The value of education and knowledge is immeasurable. But do we need to know everything? Faced with this complex world, is it possible for us to know everything? What I mean is, "not knowing" can also be a wise choice. This is like clearing out the clutter in a drawer and putting a book in it. However, if we don't make some space, the book won't fit in.

54. 时间，不一定能证明许多东西，但一定会看透许多东西。

54. Time may not always prove many things, but it will definitely reveal many things.

55. 记住你的年龄，没必要考虑超越自身年龄段应该考虑的事；第

55. Remember your age; there's no need to consider matters that should not be on your agenda beyond your age group.

56. 开在尘埃里的花，更灿烂。伫立在尘埃里微笑，更从容。

56. Flowers blooming in the dust shine even more brilliantly. Standing in the dust with a smile, one is even more composed.

57. 人生就是从烦恼走过，去寻找人生的智慧，揭示人生的真谛。没有缺点的人生，只是一个童话。

57. Life is about traversing through烦恼 (troubles), seeking the wisdom of life, and uncovering the true essence of existence. A life without flaws is merely a fairy tale.

58. 如何遇见不要紧，要紧的是，如何告别。有些人，没有在一起，也好。当回忆时，心里仍旧生出温暖，那终究是一场“善缘”。

58. It's not important how you meet, what matters is how you part. Some people, it's fine if they don't end up together. When you recall the moments, warmth still fills your heart, and that's because it was a "good connection" in the end.

59. 我以为一个人的生活很是潇洒自由，错了，那是一种无能无奈的体现。

59. I thought a person's life was very carefree and independent, but I was wrong. It's actually an expression of helplessness and frustration.

60. 抽刀断水水更流，举杯消愁愁更愁。 人生在世不称意，明朝散发弄扁舟。

60. Cutting the water with a sword makes it flow even faster, lifting a cup to dispel sorrow brings more sorrow. In life, when things do not turn out as desired, tomorrow I will let my hair down and sail a small boat.

61. 你迟早会牵着别人的手，吻着别人的唇，抱着别人入睡，我也迟早会戴着别人给的戒指，穿着别人订的婚纱，挽着别人的手成为别人的新娘，也许你会在亲吻别人脸庞时突然想起我的模样，我或许也会在依靠别人肩膀时眼前浮现你的笑脸，但这一切都与你我无关了,也许这就是青春的残忍吧。

61. You will eventually hold someone else's hand, kiss someone else's lips, and hold someone else close as you fall asleep. I will also eventually wear a ring given by someone else, wear a wedding dress arranged by someone else, and hold someone else's hand to become someone else's bride. Perhaps you might suddenly remember my appearance when you kiss someone's face, and I might also see your smiling face in my mind's eye when I lean on someone else's shoulder. But all of this has nothing to do with us anymore, maybe that's the cruelty of youth.

62. 弘一法师说过：“在人生中，没有什么是无法放下的。无论是邻里之间的争执还是生死之间的挣扎，无论你选择放下还是坚持，结局都不会有太大改变。唯一的区别只在于放下的人能够获得轻松和快乐，而固执不放的人只能背负包袱终身，无法获得幸福。”

62. Master Hongyi once said, "In life, there is nothing that cannot be let go. Whether it is a dispute between neighbors or a struggle between life and death, no matter whether you choose to let go or hold on, the outcome will not change significantly. The only difference lies in that those who let go can gain ease and happiness, while those who stubbornly hold on can only carry burdens for life and cannot achieve happiness."

63. 人生一个小小的变数，就可完全改变选择的方向。如果彼此出现早一点，也许就不会和另一个人十指紧扣，又或者相遇的再晚一点，晚到两个人在各自的爱情经历中慢慢地学会了包容与体谅，善待和妥协，也许走到一起的时候，就不会那么轻易的放弃，任性地转身，放走了爱情。

63. A small change in life can completely alter the direction of one's choices. If we had appeared earlier, perhaps we wouldn't have been so tightly intertwined with another person's fingers, or if we had met a bit later, late enough for both of us to have slowly learned tolerance and understanding, kindness and compromise in our own love experiences, perhaps when we finally came together, we wouldn't have so easily given up, turned away capriciously, and let love slip away.

64. 真正的人生需要磨炼。面对挫折，如果只是一味地抱怨、生气，是一种消极、愚蠢的表现，最终受伤害的也只有你自己。在顺境中，微笑是对成功的嘉奖;在人性中，微笑也就是对自爱的认同。

64. True life requires tempering. Facing setbacks, if one merely complains and gets angry, it is a negative and foolish manifestation. Ultimately, the only one who gets hurt is yourself. In favorable circumstances, a smile is a reward for success; in the essence of human nature, a smile is also an acknowledgment of self-love.

65. 从今天起，我只想做好自己，只想让自己的生活单纯美好，干净自然。从今天起，我不要抱怨身边任何一个人，做默默无闻的自己，安安静静的做自己喜欢做的事情，清清凉凉的享受生活，不会被外界与身边的吵吵闹闹，不安与犯愁所干扰，因为我只想过我自己想要的生活。

65. From today on, I only want to be the best version of myself, to live a simple and beautiful life, clean and natural. From today on, I will not complain about anyone around me, I will be the unassuming self, quietly doing what I like, enjoying life cool and refreshing, not disturbed by the noise and chaos of the outside world and those around me, or by restlessness and worry, because I only want to live the life I want for myself.

66. 我想，我们之间就这样吧。我以后还是会一个人过着悠闲平淡的小日子。一个人做饭，一个人吃饭，一个人品茶，一个人听歌，一个人出街，一个人欢乐与忧伤。没有你出现在我的生活中，就如同我们从未相遇过似的，真奇妙。又可能，很久以后，我会再为一个人做饭，同一个人吃饭，携一个人品茶，共一个人听歌，伴一个人出街，不再一个人欢乐与忧伤。但真到那时候，我一定已经和一个不是你的人天长地久了。所以，我想我和你就这样吧。就当，从未在彼此的生活中出现过吧。

66. I think we can leave it at that between us. I will still live a leisurely, ordinary life alone in the future. Cooking alone, eating alone, sipping tea alone, listening to music alone, going out alone, experiencing joy and sorrow alone. Without you in my life, it's as if we have never met, truly fascinating. Or perhaps, much later, I will cook for one person, eat with the same person, enjoy tea with one person, listen to music with one person, go out with one person, and no longer experience joy and sorrow alone. But by then, I am sure I will have been in a long-term relationship with someone who is not you. So, I think we can leave it at that between us. As if we have never appeared in each other's lives.

67. 不能实现梦想的人都有一个共通之处，那就是，想要一样东西，却怎么也不愿意为之付出。

67. People who cannot realize their dreams all share a common trait: they want something, yet they are unwilling to pay the price for it.

68. 俗话说，人心不足蛇吞象。欲望过多就会让自己难以满足，甚至会憎恨别人的拥有，或忌妒别人拥有的更多。欲望太多，其实就是"心里贫穷"。

68. As the saying goes, "A greedy person can swallow an elephant." Excessive desires can make one difficult to satisfy, and even lead to resentment of others' possessions, or jealousy of others who have more. Too much desire is essentially "poverty of the heart."

69. 我们在大多数时间里都是没有表现力的，不露真情，不可信赖，难以捉摸，含糊其辞，障碍重重，扭扭捏捏。

69. For most of the time, we lack expressiveness, hide our true feelings, are unreliable, elusive, vague, beset by obstacles, and hesitating.

70. 冰面下，鱼也能游泳;暴雪中，梅花也准备盛开;沙漠中 ，人类会找到绿洲的影子;绝望中，对人生的执着会找到希望。

70. Below the ice surface, fish can also swim; in the midst of heavy snow, plum blossoms are ready to bloom; in the desert, humans will find the shadow of an oasis; in despair, the perseverance for life will find hope.

71. 既不回头，何必不忘。既然无缘，何须誓言。今日种种，似水无痕。明夕何夕，君已陌路。

71. If you're not turning back, why not forget? Since there's no destiny, why make promises? All that happened today is as fleeting as water leaving no trace. What night will it be from now on? You've already become a stranger on the path.

72. 人就这么一辈子，做错事不可以重来，碎了的心难以再愈合，所以你一定不能后悔。人就这么一辈子，过了今天就不会再有另一个今天，一分一秒都不会再回头，所以你一定要珍惜每分每秒。

72. Life is just one lifetime, and you can't redo a mistake. A broken heart is hard to heal again, so you must never regret. Life is just one lifetime, and once today passes, there will be no other today. Not a single second can be turned back, so you must cherish every moment and every second.

73. 有一种凝视叫作冷眼傍观，有一种无视叫作冷静眷注。有的时辰，我们每每觉得我们错过的是时刻，着实是感受。没有过不去的坎，但假如你本身自己就是一道坎的话，你就会陷入本身的争斗。统统城市已往，万万别跟本身过不去，自由善待本身，你才气跟本身的魂灵合一。

73. There is a type of gaze called a cold, aloof observation, and a type of disregard called a calm, loving attention. At times, we often feel that what we miss is time, but in reality, it is feeling. There is no insurmountable obstacle, but if you yourself become an obstacle, you will be trapped in your own struggle. Everything will pass, so please don't fight against yourself. Be kind to yourself freely, and only then can you unite with your soul.

74. 对的人是磨合出来的，跟你绝配的爱人，并不是天然产生的。你们一见钟情的，并不代表会相处融洽。相处融洽的，不一定会忠心耿耿。真正绝配的爱人，其实都靠打磨。你改一点，他改一点，虽然大家都失去点自我，却可以成为默契的一对。相爱和相处是两回事。相爱是吸引，而相处是为对方而改变。

74. The right person is polished, and the perfect lover for you is not naturally born. Just because you fall in love at first sight doesn't mean you will get along well. Getting along well doesn't necessarily mean being loyal. The truly perfect lover actually needs to be polished. You change a bit, he changes a bit; although everyone loses a bit of themselves, they can become a well-matched couple. Loving and getting along are two different things. Loving is about attraction, while getting along is about changing for the other person.

75. 慢慢懂得太多，开始摒弃那些庸俗的东西，然后认为自己可以享受更高雅的美好，之后发现并没得到，反而再也接受不了原本现实的生活。这就是孤独。

75. Gradually understanding too much, I started to discard the trivial things, and then believed that I could enjoy a more refined beauty. However, I later found that I hadn't gained anything, and instead, I could no longer accept the original reality of life. This is loneliness.

76. 我没想过要变得多强大，我只希望自己成为那种姑娘，不管经历过多少不平，有过多少伤痛，都舒展着眉头过日子，内心丰盛安宁，性格澄澈豁达。偶尔矫情却不矫揉造作，毒舌却不尖酸刻薄，不怨天尤人，不苦大仇深。对每个人真诚，对每件事热忱，相信这世上的一切都会慢慢好起来。

76. I never thought of becoming extremely strong, I only hope to become that kind of girl who, regardless of how many injustices she has experienced or how much pain she has suffered, lives with a relaxed expression, filled with inner richness and peace, and with a clear and open character. She may occasionally be sentimental but not overly melodramatic, sarcastic but not overly sharp and cutting, not blaming others for her misfortunes, and not harboring deep resentment. She is sincere to everyone and passionate about everything, believing that everything in this world will gradually improve.

77. 工作遇到挫折，你退缩了，说难;生活遇到困难，你抱怨了，说苦;总是怨天尤人，整日的唉声叹气，羡慕别人的成就，悲观了自己的路。其实工作不如意，可以慢慢来，因为经验需要积累;生活不开心,别着急,生活本就是大杂烩别人今天成功,是他的过去所成就的,你今天虽不如意，但是你年轻，你还有未来。

77. When you encounter setbacks at work, you retreat and say it's difficult; when life presents challenges, you complain and say it's bitter. You always blame others and sigh all day long, envying others' achievements and being pessimistic about your own path. In fact, when work is not going well, you can take it step by step, because experience needs to be accumulated; when life is not pleasant, don't hurry, because life itself is a hodgepodge. Today's success of others is the result of their past achievements. Although you may not be doing well today, but you are young, and you still have a future.

78. 有时候想想，最大的悲哀莫过于长大。从此，笑不再纯粹，哭不再彻底

78. Sometimes, when I think about it, the greatest sorrow is growing up. From then on, laughter is no longer pure, and crying is no longer complete.

79. 千万要对老婆好，因为有一天，当你躺在病床上时，主宰你生命的不一定是医生，不是你花天酒地的哥们儿， 也不是那些小三小四， 而是你太太，只有她有权签字“继续抢救”或“放弃治疗”！

79. You must always be good to your wife, because one day when you lie on your sickbed, it is not necessarily the doctor who controls your life, nor your酒肉朋友, nor those third and fourth mistresses, but your wife, and only she has the right to sign "continue to resuscitate" or "abandon treatment"!

80. 生活中怎么能少了一份深爱、一份执着，对人或对事都是。如果没有了深爱和执着，那么生活就如一潭死水，心也会成为一片荒芜之地。

80. How can life be without a deep love and a sense of dedication, whether it's towards people or things? Without deep love and dedication, life becomes like a still pond, and the heart becomes a barren land.

81. 生活太匆忙，不妨慢下来，看几页书，发一会呆，早睡一会早起一点，你会发现另一种美好。

81. Life is too hurried; why not slow down, read a few pages of a book, daydream for a while, go to bed a bit earlier and wake up a bit later. You will find another kind of beauty.

82. 小孩子才会问你为什么不理我了，成年人都是默契地相互疏远。

82. Only children would ask why you're not talking to me; adults just默契地疏远彼此.

83. 年轻时总以为能遇上许许多多的人。而后你就明白，所谓机缘，其实也不过那么几次。

83. In youth, one always thinks that one will meet countless people. Later on, you come to understand that so-called opportunities are actually just a few times.

84. 人生最怕什么都想计较，却又什么都抓不牢。失去的风景，走散的人，等不来的渴望，全都住在缘分的尽头。何必太执着，该来的自然来，会走的留不住。放开执念，随缘是最好的生活。

84. The greatest fear in life is wanting to haggle over everything but never being able to hold onto anything. The lost scenery, the people who have drifted apart, the unattainable desires, all reside at the end of fate. Why be too attached? What's meant to come will naturally arrive, and what's meant to leave cannot be held back. Letting go of attachments and going with the flow is the best way to live.

85. 凡事不论成败，只要经历。这一生，本就是为了不输给自己而已。

85. Whether it's success or failure, what matters is the experience. This life is all about not losing to ourselves.

86. 很多人的失落，是违背了自己少年时的立志。自认为成熟、自认为练达、自认为精明，从前多幼稚，总算看透了、想穿了。于是，我们就此变成自己年少时最憎恶的那种人。

86. Many people's disappointment comes from going against their resolutions when they were young. They think they are mature, they think they are sophisticated, and they think they are smart. They were so naive before, and now they finally see through it, understand it. As a result, we become the kind of person we most disliked when we were young.

87. 时间都是往前走，钟也不可能倒着转，所以一切事只要是过去，就再也不要去悔恨埋怨。

87. Time always moves forward, and clocks cannot turn backward. Therefore, for any matter that has passed, there is no need to regret or complain anymore.

88. 岁月，就像一本笔记簿，里面写左好多难以忘怀的记忆、和记录了以往的快乐痛苦，不过在我的笔记簿度，痛苦就多过快乐了。

88. Years, like a notebook, are filled with many unforgettable memories and records of past joys and sorrows, but in my notebook, the sorrows outweigh the joys.