在纷繁复杂的人生旅途中，我们都在寻找着一种至高无上的生活智慧。今天，让我们揭开“绝情：揭秘最高效的人生策略”的序幕，一同探寻那些引领我们走向成功与幸福的秘密。

Amidst the intricate journey of life, we are all seeking a supreme wisdom of living. Today, let us unveil the curtain on "Absolute Detachment: Unveiling the Most Efficient Life Strategy," and embark together on a quest to discover the secrets that guide us towards success and happiness.

1. 13别人不明白的时候你明白了，别人明白的时候你行动了，别人行动的时候你成功了，别人成功的时候你富有了。这就是：超常思维，先见之明！

1. When others do not understand, you do; when others understand, you act; when others act, you succeed; and when others succeed, you become wealthy. This is what it means: extraordinary thinking, foresight!

2. 智慧由听而得，悔恨由说而生；没有口才又不守沉默的人，会有大不幸。君子话简而实，小人话杂而虚。不必说而说，这是多说，多说要招怨；不当说而说，这是瞎说，瞎说要惹祸。多思考，少发言。勿过于依赖语言的功能，却忘了沉默的力量。说话出自天性，沉默出自智慧。

2. Wisdom comes from listening, regret from speaking; those who lack eloquence and do not observe silence will suffer great misfortune. A gentleman speaks simply and sincerely, while a small person speaks with confusion and insincerity. It is unnecessary to speak when not required, for that is talking excessively, and excessive talking will attract resentment; it is inappropriate to speak when it is not meant to, for that is idle talk, and idle talk will bring trouble. Think more and speak less. Do not over-rely on the power of language while forgetting the strength of silence. Speaking comes from nature, while silence comes from wisdom.

3. 生活不是用来妥协的，你退缩得越多，能让你喘息的空间就越有限；日子不是用来将就的，你表现得越卑微，一些幸福的东西就会离你越远。在有些人前，不必一而再的容忍，不能让别人践踏你的底线。只有挺直了腰板，世界给你的回馈才会多点。

3. Life is not meant for compromise; the more you retreat, the less space you have to breathe; days are not for making do; the more humble you act, the farther some happiness will be from you. In the presence of some people, you don't have to tolerate repeatedly, and you should not let others trample on your bottom line. Only by standing up straight can the world offer you more returns.

4. 大地说，是河流给了我生命和活力；河流说如果没有森林，也许我早就被湮没了，森林说，是大地母亲养育了我。

4. The earth says, it is the rivers that gave me life and vitality; the rivers say that without the forests, perhaps I would have been buried long ago; the forests say, it is the nurturing mother earth that raised me.

5. 21学会一笑置之，超然待之，懂得隐忍，懂得原谅，让自己在宽容中壮大。

5. Learn to laugh off things, stay aloof, understand patience, understand forgiveness, and let yourself grow strong in tolerance.

6. 5当所有人都拿我当回事的时候，我不能太拿自己当回事。当所有人都不拿我当回事的时，我一定得瞧得上自己。这就是淡定，这就是从容。

6.5 When everyone takes me seriously, I cannot take myself too seriously. When no one takes me seriously, I must have self-esteem. This is composure, this is ease.

7. 26过去的事无论苦还是乐都已消失了，未来的事，无论是乐或苦，此刻并不存在。有些事情本身我们无法控制，只好控制自我。爱情不能天长地久，只能朝生暮死，青春不会天长地久，只会转瞬即逝。透支了眼泪，我们便会没心没肺的笑。如果有人能够依靠，谁会愿意独立。

7.26 Whatever happened in the past, whether it was bitter or sweet, has already disappeared. As for the future, whether it brings joy or sorrow, it does not exist at this moment. There are some things we cannot control, so we can only control ourselves. Love cannot last forever, it can only bloom in the morning and wither in the evening. Youth cannot last forever, it can only pass in a flash. If we exhaust our tears, we will laugh carelessly. If someone can rely on, who would want to be independent.

8. 同伴，不一定非要走到最后，某一段路上，对方给自己带来的朗朗笑声，那就已经足够。

8. Friends, it's not necessarily a must to walk all the way to the end. As long as there's a stretch of road where the laughter they bring to you is clear and joyful, that is already enough.

9. 其实，人都是很贱的，爱你宠你的人你不稀罕，对你冷若冰霜的却是穷追不舍。最后搞的遍体鳞伤的还是自己。

9. In fact, people are all quite贱. You don't cherish those who love and spoil you, but those who treat you coldly are the ones who chase you relentlessly. In the end, the one who ends up wounded all over is yourself.

10. 对生活不满可有怨言，但不可有怨气；对朋友不满可以批评，但不可以诽议；对自己不满可以自责，但不能自弃。

10. You can have complaints about life, but not resentment; you can criticize friends, but not slander them; you can hold yourself responsible, but not abandon yourself.

11. 12我的对手只有自己，要想爬得更高，只应该自己往上走，而不应该把别人往下压。

11. 12 My opponent is only myself. To climb higher, one should only move upwards on their own, rather than pushing others down.

12. 高洋说，乱无头绪，斩断即可，何必纠结迟疑，徒然内耗。

12. Gao Yang said, when things are chaotic and without direction, it's best to cut them off immediately. Why should one linger and hesitate, only to waste internal energy?

13. 等待，是最坚固的牢。自己不走出去，别人走不进来。

13. Waiting is the most solid prison. If you don't go out yourself, others cannot come in.

14. 3平平淡淡才是真，远离世外的纷争与世俗，让你的心静下来，去享受平淡的人生，去感受人生的真，让你的心得到一方净土，做下深呼吸，感受生活的律动。

14. Simplicity is the truth; distance yourself from the turmoil of the world and the mundane, let your heart settle, and enjoy the simplicity of life. Feel the truth of life, let your heart find a pure haven, take a deep breath, and feel the rhythm of life.

15. 生命中令人悲伤的一件事是你遇到了一个对你来说很重要的人，但却最终发现你们有缘无份，因此你不得不放手。

15. One of the saddest things in life is when you meet someone who is very important to you, only to eventually realize that you are not meant to be together, and thus you have to let go.

16. 不管你是穷还是富，你的身上总有让别人值得和你交往的东西。不管你是什么样的人，你都有让别人忌惦的东西。

16. Whether you are rich or poor, there is always something about you that others find worth associating with. No matter who you are, there is something that others are envious of.

17. 爱，从来就是一件千回百转的事。不曾被离弃，不曾受伤害，怎懂得爱人？爱，原来是一种经历，但愿人长久。

17. Love has always been a thing of endless twists and turns. How can one understand how to love if they have never been abandoned or injured? Love, it turns out, is an experience, and I wish it to last forever.

18. 永远追求于理想，必会得到幸运女神的眷顾；但也不可为追求一个所谓的理想，而丧失许多，甚至失去别的志向。

而 18. Persevering in the pursuit of ideals will inevitably attract the favor of the goddess of fortune; however, one should not lose much, or even lose other aspirations, in the pursuit of what is所谓的 ideal.

19. 喜欢一个人没有错，错就错在喜欢一个不喜欢自己的人。

19. There is nothing wrong with liking someone, the mistake is in liking someone who does not like you back.

20. 13生活不是用来妥协的，你退缩得越多，能让你喘息的空间就越有限；日子不是用来将就的，你表现得越卑微，一些幸福的东西就会离你越远。在有些人前，不必一而再的容忍，不能让别人践踏你的底线。只有挺直了腰板，世界给你的回馈才会多点。

20. Life is not for compromise; the more you retreat, the less space you have to breathe; days are not for settling; the more humbly you behave, the farther away some happiness will be from you. In front of some people, you don't need to tolerate repeatedly; you can't let others trample on your bottom line. Only by standing tall can you expect more feedback from the world.

21. 16活着一天，就是有福气，就该珍惜。当我哭泣我没有鞋子穿的时候，我发现有人却没有脚。

21. Living for just one day is a blessing, and it should be cherished. When I cry because I don't have shoes to wear, I realize that there are some people who don't even have feet.

22. 走坎坷，历风雨，坦然面对每一天，让风雨浅释岁月美丽；听花开，看雨落，用一颗纯澈的心，感悟流年婉转，时光变迁；静待花开，情亦温暖。似水流年，捻一指微笑如花，静候岁月美丽。做自己该做的事情，不生事，不惹事，不多事，看好自己的门，走好自己的路，做好自己的事！

22. Treading through hardships and enduring the storms, face each day with composure, allowing the风雨 to gently reveal the beauty of the years; listening to the blooming flowers, watching the rain fall, with a pure and clear heart,感悟岁月的婉转，时光的变迁；patiently waiting for the flowers to bloom, the emotions also warm. As the years flow by, twirl a finger with a smile like a flower, calmly waiting for the beauty of time. Do what you should do, do not create trouble, do not cause trouble, do not meddle in others' affairs, watch over your own door, walk your own path, and do your own things!

23. 和喜欢的女子分别，柳永愁绪满怀，肝肠寸断，写下：“多情自古伤离别，更那堪冷落清秋节。”

23. Separating from the woman he liked, Liu Yong was overwhelmed with sorrow and his heart was broken, writing: "Since ancient times, the affectionate have been hurt by parting, let alone the desolate and clear autumn."

24. 11不管怎样，生活还是要继续向前走去。有的时候伤害和失败不见得是一件坏事，它会让你变得更好，孤单和失落亦是如此。每件事到最后一定会变成一件好事，只要你能够走到最后。

24.11 In any case, life must continue to move forward. Sometimes, harm and failure are not necessarily bad things; they can make you better, and loneliness and loss are the same. Everything will eventually turn into something good, as long as you can reach the end.

25. 36千万不要把自我的软弱展现给别人看；千万不要把自我的狼狈述说给别人听。因为没有人多少人会觉的你很可怜而同情你，只会觉得你很无能很没用。什么事情都要学会自我一个人承担，因为没有人多少人会帮你。什么事情都要学会自我一个人坚强，因为凡事都靠自我。

25. 36 Never show your own weakness to others; never recount your own predicaments to others. Because few people will feel sorry for you and empathize with you, they will only think you are incompetent and useless. Learn to bear everything on your own, as few people will help you. Learn to be strong on your own, because everything depends on yourself.

26. 人的一生中，最光辉的一天并非是功成名就那天，而是从悲叹与绝望中产生对人生的挑战，以勇敢迈向意志那天。

26. The most brilliant day in a person's life is not the day of achieving fame and success, but the day when, emerging from sorrow and despair, one dares to challenge life and bravely moves towards one's will.

27. 世界上最心痛的感觉，不是失恋，而是我把心给你的时候，你却在欺骗我。

27. The most heart-wrenching feeling in the world is not heartbreak, but when I give you my heart, and you are cheating on me.

28. 心如水，而性则可能是盐、是糖、是茶、是咖啡……这样，心境不同时，心性也会异样。佛性则是人性的慧根。

28. The heart is like water, but its nature can be salt, sugar, tea, coffee, and so on... Therefore, when the mood changes, the nature of the heart will also differ. The Buddha nature is the wisdom root of human nature.

29. 心真的很小，幸福只可以一心一意，温暖也只能是一生一世。努力向着前方，什么距离都将不会是距离。一辈子，好短。真的需要好好的疼自己，你的世界，有了自己的那束阳光才更加的耀眼。

29. The heart is really small; happiness can only be wholehearted, and warmth can only be eternal. Strive towards the front, and no distance will be a distance. A lifetime is too short. It's truly necessary to take good care of yourself. Your world becomes even more dazzling when it has its own ray of sunshine.

30. 每个人的故事里都有精彩温馨的片段，也有起起伏伏郁闷无趣的时候。你所要做的无非是用最大的勇气，过你最想要的生活。

30. Every person's story has both wonderful and heartwarming moments, as well as ups and downs, moments of depression and boredom. All you need to do is to live the life you most want with the utmost courage.

31. 对错过的爱情，我们永远傻傻分不清；是因为遗憾，所以美好，还是因为美好，所以遗憾。

31. For the love we missed, we can never tell the difference between right and wrong; is it because of regret that it is beautiful, or because it is beautiful that it becomes regrettable.

32. 22笑一笑没有什么事情过不了！明天又是新的开始！

32. 22 A smile can get you through anything! Tomorrow is a new beginning!

33. 你走的那天，我决定不掉泪，迎着风撑着眼帘用力不眨眼。

33. On the day you left, I decided not to shed tears, holding my eyelids tightly against the wind, trying not to blink.

34. 没有风的日子，云是雨的守望；没有梦的日子，等待会荒废时光。这个世界上，谁也不是谁的永远，就去唱哪一曲风花雪月，吟那一阕岁月静好，烟火、流年、红尘、沧桑，浅浅遇，淡淡忘。

34. On days without wind, the clouds are the guardians of rain; on days without dreams, waiting can waste time. In this world, no one is forever for anyone else, so why not sing a song of wind, flowers, snow, and moon, recite a verse of peaceful years, smoke, years gone by, dust of the world, vicissitudes, a shallow encounter, a faint forgetfulness.

35. 策划阶段人生，可以有两种实施的方案，一种是有目标的积累，一种是没有目标的积累，就看你的选择和期许程度。

35. When planning the course of life, there can be two implementation plans: one is targeted accumulation and the other is untargeted accumulation. It depends on your choice and the extent of your expectations.

36. 27当你每一天晚上拖着疲惫身体回到家时，应当感到十分幸运和幸福，因为你还活着，而这一天很多人早上离开家后却永远不能回来。你不要计较一天里的得与失，好好休息一下，因为有些人已经到了另一个世界。-

36. When you come home each evening, dragging a weary body, you should feel extremely lucky and happy, because you are still alive, whereas many people left their homes that morning and will never return. Don't worry about what you gained or lost during the day; take a good rest, because some people have already reached the other world.

37. 在你我心灵的深处，同样有一个无线电台，只要它不停地从人群中，从无限的时间中接受美好、希望、欢欣、勇气和力量的信息，你我就永远年轻。

37. Deep within our souls, there is also a radio station, as long as it continuously receives messages of beauty, hope, joy, courage, and strength from the crowd, from the infinite time, we will remain forever young.

38. 17因为我穷！所以要奋！因为我穷！所以有志！因为我穷！所以坚强！

38. 17 Because I am poor, so I must strive! Because I am poor, so I have ambition! Because I am poor, so I am strong!

39. 一个人事业的边界在内心，要想保证你事业的边界不断增长，就必须扩大你心灵的边界，因此，学习是唯一的途径！

39. The boundary of a person's career lies within their heart. To ensure that the boundary of your career keeps growing, you must expand the boundaries of your mind, and therefore, learning is the only path!

40. 爱情因着两情若是久长时，又岂在朝朝暮暮的那份倾心。或是因着无论身在何方、发生任何事都能感受到的，在这个世界上的某个角落，还有人会关注你、倾听你的那份感动。

40. Love is because if the two hearts are long-lasting, why does it matter whether it is morning or evening that they are deeply in love. Or because no matter where you are or what happens, you can always feel that somewhere in this world, there is someone who cares about you and listens to your feelings.

41. 20逃来逃去还是逃回这里，爱来爱去还是爱你。

41. Whether running away and coming back, loving and hating, it's still loving you.

42. 人世间，比青春再可宝贵的东西实在没有，然而青春也最容易消逝……谁能保持得永远的青春的，便是伟大的人。

42. In the human world, there is nothing more precious than youth, yet youth is also the easiest to fade away... Who can preserve eternal youth is a great person.

43. 5原来人生就是一场无奈的轮回，从幼稚到成熟，成熟到老去，谁也无法阻止，谁也无法挣脱，只能随着时间落幕，然后化为尘埃。

43. 5 Life is originally a cycle of futility, from innocence to maturity, and from maturity to old age, which no one can stop or escape from; one can only follow time to its conclusion and then dissolve into dust.

44. 我爱你！如果有一天，我化作一杯黄土，这黄土上长出的春草也是为你而绿，这黄土上开出的花朵也是为你而艳。

44. I love you! If one day, I turn into a heap of loess, the spring grass growing on this loess will also turn green for you, and the flowers blooming on this loess will also be beautiful for you.

45. 我真的爱你，闭上眼，以为我能忘记，但流下的眼泪，却没有骗到自己。

45. I really love you, and I thought I could forget by closing my eyes, but the tears that fell were not deceiving myself.

46. 15路是靠自己走出来的，虽然路上有许多风风雨雨艰难困苦，但只要坚定信心，一定会成功。

46. Line 15 has been forged through its own efforts. Although there have been many hardships and challenges along the way, as long as one has unwavering confidence, success is inevitable.

47. 9无论什么时候，记住尊严这两个字，做人是要有尊严，有原则，有底线的。否则，没有人会尊重你。

47. 9 At any time, remember the words "dignity." To be a person is to have dignity, principles, and底线s. Otherwise, no one will respect you.

48. 那个人在你青春的日子里写满了你们故事，但你们的故事以分开为结局。还有另一个人没曾来过你的青春，但却在往后的岁月里续写更加幸福的故事，请好好珍惜！

48. That person filled your youth with the stories of you two, but your story ended with separation. There is another person who never came into your youth, but has continued to write a more joyful story in the years that followed. Please cherish it well!

49. 命由己造，相由心生，世间万物皆是化相，心不动，万物皆不动，心不变，万物皆不变。

49. One's destiny is shaped by oneself, and one's appearance is a reflection of one's heart. All things in the world are mere manifestations. If the mind remains unchanged, all things remain unchanged. If the mind remains unaltered, all things remain unaltered.

50. 识人不必探尽，探尽则多疑。知人不必言尽，言尽则无友。责人不必苛尽，苛尽则众远。敬人不必卑尽，卑尽则少骨。让人不必退尽，退尽则路寡。

50. It is not necessary to fully understand a person; if you do, you will be filled with doubts. It is not necessary to fully know a person; if you do, you will have no friends. It is not necessary to be overly critical of a person; if you are, many will distance themselves. It is not necessary to be excessively humble towards a person; if you are, you will lose your backbone. It is not necessary to always give in to others; if you do, you will have few allies.

51. 把爱情断掉绝对不是绝情无义，跟诸位讲穿了，你那个爱情是假的，不是真的，是骗自己又骗别人，虚情假意。

51. Cutting off love is by no means unfeeling or ruthless. To tell you the truth, your love is fake, not real; it's deceiving yourself and others, a pretense of affection.

52. 24你必须要很努力很努力，才能做到看起来毫不费力，带着梦想去闯，不要随梦而飘。你不对自我狠，生活就会对你更狠。生活不易，还得且努力，加油！

52. 24 You have to work very, very hard to appear effortless. Go after your dreams with passion, but don't let them carry you away. If you're not tough on yourself, life will be tougher on you. Life isn't easy, so keep striving, keep pushing!

53. 一个有事业追求的人，可以把“梦”做得高些。虽然开始时是梦想，但只要不停地做，不轻易放弃，梦想能成真。

53. A person with a career pursuit can make their "dream" higher. Although it starts as a dream, as long as they keep pursuing it and do not easily give up, their dream can come true.

54. 人活在世界上，最重要的并不完全在于接纳被爱，而是具备爱人的能力。我们不懂得去爱，又如何了解被爱的滋味？

54. To live in the world, the most important thing is not entirely about being loved, but rather about having the ability to love. If we don't know how to love, how can we understand the taste of being loved?

55. 我的少年的日子是寂寞的，寂寞的让我现在想起来都心冷，只有单调的影子与我一起看流岚，听松风，闻花香。

55. My youthful days were lonely, so lonely that it still chills me to think of them now. Only the monotonous shadows were with me to watch the misty mountains, listen to the wind in the pines, and smell the fragrance of flowers.

56. 别人，删你的时候，系统不会告诉你，因为怕你伤心；你删别人的时候，系统会问你确定吗，因为怕你后悔。

56. When someone deletes you, the system won't inform you because it fears you will be heartbroken; when you delete someone, the system will ask you if you are sure because it fears you might regret it.

57. 人年轻时都是在用加法生活，但是到一定层次时，要学会用减法生活。你的心灵如果被所得堆满，最后就会累于得。

57. When people are young, they live life through addition, but at a certain level, they need to learn to live life through subtraction. If your soul is filled with what you have gained, you will eventually grow tired of acquiring more.

58. 4世界没有悲剧和喜剧之分，如果你能从悲剧中走出来，那就是喜剧，如果你沉缅于喜剧之中，那它就是悲剧。如果你只是等待，发生的事情只会使你变老了。人生的意义不在于拿一手好牌，而在于打好一手坏牌。

58.4 The world does not have a distinction between tragedy and comedy. If you can walk out of a tragedy, it becomes a comedy; if you immerse yourself in comedy, it becomes a tragedy. If you merely wait, the things that happen will only make you older. The meaning of life does not lie in holding a good hand of cards, but in playing a bad hand well.

59. 一直认为，自己没有看到心中的风景，像是一种错觉，并非是故意，生活里，慢慢的变成一场追寻。寻找自己，心便开始了一场旅行。从哪里开始呢，行走有我，路上有你，而我却在找你。我们在不同的时间里，抹去岁月的伤痕，在不一样的风景里，寻找自己。回首岁月，人间无我。

59. Always believed that not seeing the scenery in my heart was like an illusion, not intentional. In life, it gradually became a quest. In search of myself, my heart embarked on a journey. Where to start? There's me in the walking, you on the path, yet I am searching for you. In different times, we erase the scars of years, searching for ourselves in varied landscapes. Looking back on the years, there is no me in the world.

60. 23人生不易，不要笑话别人。家家都有难念的经，人人都有难唱的曲。再风光的人，背后也有寒凉苦楚；再幸福的人，内心也有无奈难处。谁的人生都不易，笑人等于笑己，尊重别人就是尊重自我。最穷无非讨饭，不死总会出头。谁的人生十全十美，谁的生活没有薄凉，谁敢保证一向都是人生得意。

60. Life is not easy for 23-year-olds, do not mock others. Every family has hard-to-say prayers, and everyone has difficult songs to sing. No matter how glamorous a person may seem, there is also coldness and bitterness behind them; and no matter how happy a person may appear, there is also helplessness and difficulty within them. No one's life is easy. Laughing at others is like laughing at oneself; respecting others is the same as respecting oneself. The poorest one can do is beg, but as long as one does not die, there will always be a time when one will rise. No one's life is perfect, no one's life is without its hardships, and who can guarantee that life is always joyful?

61. 26你想要到达明天，那此刻就不要停下脚步。

61. 26 If you want to reach tomorrow, don't stop stepping forward now.

62. 什么叫快乐？就是掩饰自己的悲伤对每个人微笑。

62. What is happiness? It is to smile at everyone while concealing one's own sadness.

63. 没有完美，更没有常开不败的花。总会在适时转换一下自己的角色。无论是在工作中，还是在人生的前行阶段。角色的转换虽有些无奈，甚至有些伤感，但是我们无法阻挡。只有在平和的心态中不断调整自己，接受与以往不同的现实，才能在过往与今昔的交错中学会了坦然而淡定。

63. There is no perfection, and there are no flowers that always bloom. There will always be a time for a change in one's role, whether it's in work or at any stage of life. The transition of roles may be somewhat无奈 and even a bit melancholic, but we cannot stop it. Only by continuously adjusting ourselves in a peaceful mindset, accepting the different reality from the past, can we learn to be serene and composed in the intersection of the past and the present.

64. 所谓最难忘的，就是从来不曾想起，却永远也不会忘记 。

64. What is deemed the most unforgettable is that something never comes to mind, yet it will never be forgotten.

65. 当你获奖的时候，妻子要你的奖状，情人要你的奖金。当你失败的时候，妻子递给你一块手帕，情人给你一个耳光。

65. When you win, your wife wants your certificate, and your lover wants your prize money. When you fail, your wife hands you a handkerchief, and your lover gives you a slap.

66. 即使自己变成了一撮泥土，只要它是铺在通往真理的大道上，让自己的伙伴们大踏步地冲过去，也是最大的幸福。

66. Even if I turn into a heap of dust, as long as it is spread on the path leading to the truth, allowing my companions to stride past it with ease, it is the greatest happiness.

67. 路再长也会有终点，夜再长也会有尽头，不管雨下得有多大，总会有停止的时候。乌云永远遮不住微笑的太阳！

67. No matter how long the road is, it will eventually end, and no matter how long the night is, it will have an end. No matter how heavy the rain falls, there will always be a time when it stops. The dark clouds will never obscure the smiling sun!

68. 许多人向往水晶般的爱情——晶莹剔透没有一点瑕疵。更多人拥有的却是玻璃般的爱情——同样透明但容易破碎。

68. Many people aspire for a crystal-like love – clear and transparent without a single blemish. More people, however, have a glass-like love – just as transparent but fragile and prone to shattering.

69. 习惯真是一种顽强而巨大的力量，它可以主宰人生。因此，人自幼就应该通过完美的教育，去建立一种好的习惯。

69. Habit is truly a tenacious and immense force that can dominate one's life. Therefore, from a young age, one should establish good habits through perfect education.

70. 如果这一生我可以有999次好运，我愿意把997次都分给你，只留两次给自己：一次是遇见你，一次是永远陪你走！

70. If I could have 999 strokes of good luck in this life, I would like to give 997 of them to you, keeping only two for myself: one is to meet you, and the other is to walk with you forever!

71. 路漫漫我们需“上下而求索”；诱多多我们需走好每一步；事烦琐我们要学会忙里偷闲；景旖旎我们要好好欣赏。

71. The road is long, and we must "seek the way both upwards and downwards"; with numerous attractions, we need to take every step carefully; with intricate matters, we must learn to steal a moment of leisure amidst the hustle; with beautiful scenery, we should appreciate it fully.

72. 30生活本来就不容易了，还有那么多的灾难和疾病，所以想做什么就赶紧做吧，做自己，开心就好。

72. Life is already not easy, with so many disasters and diseases, so do what you want to do as soon as possible, be yourself, and be happy.

73. 凡事要有自己的主见，用自己的大脑来判断事物的是非，千万不要随波逐远，人云亦云。追随别人只能迷失自己。

73. Always have your own opinion and use your own brain to judge right from wrong. Never follow the crowd or parrot others. Following others can only lead to losing yourself.

74. 因为过于多情，柳永一直疾病缠身，不断精神内耗。

74. Because of his excessive sentimentality, Liu Yong has been plagued by illness, constantly耗损精神.

75. 生命最好的状态是情绪稳定，情绪稳定的表现就是绝情，不管遇到什么事情，都心如止水，岿然不动，稳如泰山。如果有一天，没有什么能让你心动，没有任何人和事可以牵动你的情绪，你眼里只有生活，安安静静，无风无浪，过好每一天，那你才是自己人生真正的王者。

75. The best state of life is emotional stability, and the manifestation of emotional stability is decisiveness. Regardless of what happens, your heart remains as still as water, steadfast and unmovable, as solid as Mount Tai. If one day, nothing can stir your heart, and no person or thing can affect your emotions, your eyes see only life, peaceful and tranquil, without any storms, living each day well, then you are truly the king of your own life.

76. 心若亲近，言行必如流水般自然； 心若疏远，言行只如三秋之树般萧瑟。 不怕身隔天涯，只怕心在南北！

76. If the heart is close, words and actions will be as natural as flowing water; if the heart is distant, words and actions will only be as desolate as a tree in autumn. It is not the distance that matters, but the separation of the heart!

77. 人生不过是一场旅行，你路过我，我路过你，然后各自向前，各自修行。

77. Life is just a journey, you pass by me, and I pass by you, and then we both move forward, each pursuing our own path of self-improvement.

78. 我想知道，你会如何回忆我，带着笑或是很沉默，还是你会忘了，忘了在你的流年里，有我这样一个人也曾来过。

78. I want to know, how would you remember me, with a smile or very silent, or would you forget, forget that in your years flowing by, there was someone like me who also came to be.

79. 9风铃又响了起来，我心中已坦淡，心灵仿佛被洗礼过，我笑了。平淡是美的，热闹也是美的。平淡能使人反省，能让人感悟热闹中的点点滴滴；热闹能让人欢乐，能让人不至窒息于那平淡中。平淡与热闹应共存，电脑前的你认为呢

79. The wind chimes rang again, and I felt at ease in my heart, as if my soul had been purified. I smiled. Simplicity is beautiful, as is the hustle and bustle. Simplicity can lead to introspection, allowing one to appreciate the nuances within the commotion; the hustle and bustle can bring joy and prevent one from feeling suffocated by the simplicity. Simplicity and hustle should coexist. What do you think, sitting in front of your computer?

80. 一个人太寂寞，他独上高楼，想念喜欢的女子：“衣带渐宽终不悔，为伊消得人憔悴。”

80. A person feels too lonely, so he goes up a high building alone, missing the woman he likes: "The belt grows wider, yet I never regret it; for her, I have wasted my youth and become emaciated."

81. 一个人，先得受伤才能明了，先得跌倒才开始成长，先得丢失才会有收获。 很多时候，就是在跌跌拌拌中，我们学会了生活。

81. A person must first be hurt to understand, must first fall to begin to grow, and must first lose in order to gain. Often, it is through our stumbles and falls that we learn to live.

82. 23宁愿选择跌跌撞撞过一辈子，也不平平凡凡混一辈子。

82. 23 Would rather stumble through life than blend into an ordinary existence.

83. 集中你的精力去学习一件小事，而成功一名专家；比你分散精力去学习许多小事要更加节省时间，而且容易成功。

83. Focus your energy on learning one small thing and becoming an expert in it; it will take less time and be easier to succeed than to scatter your energy across learning many small things.

84. 思念一个人的滋味，就象是喝了一杯冰冷的水，然后一滴一滴凝成热泪。

84. The feeling of missing someone is like drinking a glass of cold water, then condensing it drop by drop into hot tears.