在悠悠岁月的长河中，青春的帆船正扬起风帆，驶向未知的海洋。中国少年的目光里，既洋溢着对未来的憧憬，也充满着探索人生新天地的热望。在这充满希望与挑战的时代，我们怀揣着梦想，勇敢地迈向人生的新篇章。

In the long river of time, the youth's sailboat is hoisting its sails, setting sail towards the unknown ocean. The eyes of Chinese youth are brimming with aspirations for the future, and filled with the longing to explore new horizons in life. In this era filled with hope and challenges, we carry our dreams in our hearts and bravely stride towards the new chapter of life.

1. 什么是职业化呢？职业化就是工作状态的标准化、规范化、制度化，即在合适的时间、合适的地点用合适的方式说合适的话、做合适的事，使知识、技能、观念、思维、态度、心理等符合职业规范和标准。“在每个行业里，都有很多出色的人才，他们之所以能存在，是因为比别人更努力、更智慧、更成熟。但是，最重要的是，他们比一般人更加职业化！这就是为什么我现在能当你老板的原因。一个人仅仅专业化是不够的，只有职业化的人才能飞在别人前面，让人难以超越！”不要以为我们现在已经生存得很安稳了。对于毕业5年的人来讲，一定要认清即将面临的五大挑战。

1. What is professionalization? Professionalization is the standardization, normalization, and institutionalization of work status, which means saying the right things and doing the right things in the right time and place in the right way, so that knowledge, skills, concepts, thinking, attitudes, and psychology meet professional norms and standards. "In every industry, there are many outstanding talents, and they exist because they are more hardworking, smarter, and more mature than others. However, the most important thing is that they are more professional than the average person! That's why I can be your boss now. It's not enough to be specialized; only those who are professional can fly ahead of others and make it difficult for others to surpass them!" Don't think that we are already living in a stable state now. For those who have graduated for 5 years, it is essential to recognize the five major challenges that are about to face us.

2. 毕业这几年，不能没有追求和探索，不能没有理想和目标。人生如逆水行舟，不进则退。甘于现状的生活就是不再前行的船，再也无法追上时代前进的步伐。一定要抓紧每一秒钟的时间来学习，要明白学习不是学生的专利。小聪明的人最得意的是：自己做过什么？大智慧的人最渴望的是：自己还要做什么？

2. Over these years since graduation, one cannot be without pursuit and exploration, without ideals and goals. Life is like rowing against the current; if one does not move forward, one will regress. To be content with the status quo is like a boat that has stopped moving, no longer able to keep up with the pace of the times. One must grasp every second of time to learn, and understand that learning is not the exclusive domain of students. The most pride of the clever people is: what have I done? The most desire of the wise people is: what else do I still need to do?

3. 如何从面相看一个人的一生 如何看面相面相十观

3. How to look at a person's life from their facial features - How to observe the ten aspects of facial features

4. 头圆的女人生性乐观，思想积极，擅长表现自身优势，再加上前额饱满、宽圆适中、无痣无纹，便是荣华富贵的象征。同时这类人也非常精明能干，能够协助老公成就事业，做一个标准的贤内助。

4. Women with round heads are naturally optimistic, have positive thinking, are good at showcasing their strengths, and with a full, moderately wide forehead, free of moles and blemishes, they symbolize wealth and honor. At the same time, such individuals are also very astute and capable, able to assist their husbands in achieving their careers and becoming the epitome of a model supportive wife.

5. 如何从面相看一个人的财运 从面相看一个人的财运的方法，首先看耳朵，耳朵是福气的象征代表一个人的财运，好运常落有福之人，所以耳朵或耳垂摸起来要厚实，圆而有肉，轮廓分明，这是比较好的耳相容易有偏财。然后看眉毛，眉毛要顺不能杂乱，更不能散，眉毛散的话代表少年不聚，就是指30岁前没有偏财运，且也表示心绪易起伏，有好运气也不能理智判断，反而会失去机会，眉毛要清秀根根见底，柔顺顺着同一个方向生长，眉尾不散有收，上扬微下弯，这便是最好的眉相，财运会很旺。眼睛无论大小最主要的是眼睛要有神要黑白分明，要清澈见底，不漏光，便是为有财的相。看一个人的财运最主要的是看鼻子，鼻子要有肉且饱满，自古以来看一个人有没有财都是首先看一个人的鼻子，鼻子代表人的财运与官运，好的鼻相，一生多财气，生活很富裕。鼻子生得高挺且直，鼻头有肉，鼻翼饱满，两金甲有力，鼻孔有收，便是为好的鼻相，财运甚好。最后看一个人的财运要看人的嘴巴，嘴巴要大要棱角分明要有收，唇红齿白为佳相，俗语说嘴大吃四方，嘴巴大才能吃住四方财，也代表此人有发财的基本运气，或是保持双唇红润，笑口常开，也有助于财运旺。

5. How to look at a person's fortune through their facial features: The method of looking at a person's fortune through their facial features starts with examining the ears. The ears symbolize blessings and represent a person's fortune. Good fortune often favors the fortunate, so the ears or earlobes should feel thick, round, and fleshy with clear contours, which is a good ear shape that is likely to bring in side income. Then, look at the eyebrows. The eyebrows should be smooth and not chaotic, and they should not be scattered. If the eyebrows are scattered, it represents that one does not accumulate wealth in youth, meaning before the age of 30, there is no side fortune, and it also indicates that one's mood is prone to fluctuations, making it difficult to make rational judgments when good fortune comes, and one may miss opportunities instead. The eyebrows should be delicate, with each hair visible at the root, growing smoothly in the same direction, with the end not scattered and well-contained, slightly upturned with a slight downward curve, which is the best brow shape, indicating a strong fortune. As for the eyes, regardless of their size, the most important thing is that they should have a lively spirit and clear black and white colors, be transparent to the bottom, and not leak light, indicating a prosperous fortune. The most important indicator of a person's fortune is the nose. The nose should be fleshy and full. Since ancient times, whether a person has wealth has always been determined first by looking at the nose, which represents a person's fortune and official fortune. A good nose shape means a life full of wealth and prosperity. A high, straight nose with a fleshy tip, full nostrils, strong wings, and a well-contained nostril is a good nose shape, indicating a very good fortune. Finally, to look at a person's fortune, one should also look at the mouth. The mouth should be large with clear angles and be well-contained. A red mouth and white teeth are considered a good sign. The saying goes, "a big mouth can eat from all directions," meaning that a large mouth can hold on to wealth from all directions, and it also represents that this person has the basic luck to get rich. Or, if the lips are kept rosy and the smile is always open, it also helps to boost fortune.

6. 可以对着镜子，想象一条直线把整个头部从中间分成两半，最好的情况是左右脸部非常匀称。当然极少有人是完全对称的，但至少不要相差得太多。此外，有些人眼睛一大一小，这种眼叫雌雄眼，非但不会减弱财运，甚至还会带来意外之财。

6. You can stand in front of a mirror and imagine a straight line dividing the entire head from the middle into two halves. The best scenario is when the left and right sides of the face are very symmetrical. Of course, very few people are perfectly symmetrical, but at least the difference should not be too great. Moreover, some people have one eye larger than the other, which is called a "hermaphroditic eye." Not only will it not weaken one's wealth, but it may even bring unexpected wealth.

7. 在毕业这几年里，你要是能做到比别人多付出一分努力，就意味着比别人多积累一分资本，就比别人多一次成功的机会。

7. In these few years since graduation, if you can put in one more bit of effort than others, it means you accumulate one more unit of capital than them, and you have one more opportunity for success.

8. 给别人留余地就是给自己留余地，予人方便就是予己方便，善待别人就是善待自己。

8. Giving others room is also giving oneself room; making it convenient for others is also making it convenient for oneself; being kind to others is being kind to oneself.

9. 一位哲人说：“人生就是一连串的抉择，每个人的前途与命运，完全把握在自己手中，只要努力，终会有成。”就业也好，择业也罢，创业亦如此，只要奋发努力，都会成功。你是不是准备把生命的承诺全部都交给别人？

9. A philosopher said, "Life is a series of choices, and each person's future and destiny are completely in their own hands. As long as one works hard, success will eventually come. Whether it's about employment, choosing a career, or starting a business, the same principle applies. As long as one is determined and works hard, success will be achieved. Are you preparing to entrust the commitment of your life entirely to others?"

10. 颧骨的高低对偏财运的影响也不小，两颧平陷的人即使能获得大笔财富，然而也占不住，守财能力有欠缺。

10. The prominence of the cheekbones also has a significant impact on one's luck in wealth, and individuals with flat or sunken cheekbones may accumulate substantial wealth, but they struggle to hold onto it; their ability to retain wealth is lacking.

11. 眉毛的末端有聚财的能力，越是聚拢，越表明能积攒钱财。假如眉尾疏散，表示这个人情绪容易波动，判定能力不够，心智不够成熟，三十岁以前没有偏财运。此外，眉毛不能向下倾斜，压住眼部，否则会挡住财运。

11. The ends of the eyebrows have the ability to accumulate wealth. The more they are gathered together, the more it indicates the ability to accumulate money. If the ends of the eyebrows are scattered, it shows that this person is emotionally volatile, lacks judgment ability, and is not mentally mature. There is no good fortune in the fortune-telling before the age of thirty. Moreover, the eyebrows should not slope downwards and press on the eyes, otherwise, it will block the wealth luck.

12. 左右脸大小对称，双耳不一高一低，左右眉不一长一短

12. The left and right cheeks are symmetrical in size, the two ears are uneven in height, one higher and one lower, and the eyebrows are also uneven in length, one longer and one shorter.

13. 面相咋看出财运好坏：具体看哪个部位 看手相能看出身体好坏，面相能看出财运旺衰，痣相看出一个人的压力大小和官运，只有八字才能全方位准确预测人的一生好坏福和祸。

13. How to determine one's fortune from facial features: Which specific part should be examined? Palmistry can reveal the health of one's body, facial features can indicate the prosperity or decline of one's fortune, mole characteristics can show the level of stress a person experiences and their official luck, only through the eight characters (BaZi) can one accurately predict a person's entire life in terms of fortune, misfortune, blessings, and disasters.

14. 小张和小李能力平平，嬉皮笑脸，工作不上进，吃喝玩乐一条龙。小唐来自农村，每个月除了生活费，大部分工资都寄回农村老家，舍不得跟同事们吃喝玩乐，渐渐的淡出了他们的圈子。

14. Xiao Zhang and Xiao Li are average in ability, always acting carefree and cheerful, not ambitious in their work, and indulging in eating, drinking, and entertainment. Xiao Tang comes from the countryside, and every month, except for his living expenses, most of his salary is sent back to his hometown in the countryside. He is unwilling to join his colleagues in eating, drinking, and entertaining, and gradually faded out of their circle.

15. 那么我们如何去改变自己的现状，进而改变自己的命运呢？

15. So how do we change our current situation and, in turn, change our destiny?

16. 福德宫是看女性的机会、财运与福气，以及能否得到老公疼爱的部位。完美的福德宫要肉厚骨实，滋润饱满，气色清明，无纹。有此面相的女人天生有福有缘，有德有财，既能得到老公的疼爱，自身的财运也非常好，可旺夫旺家。此外，因为此处靠近迁移宫，因此福德宫生得好的人能够在异乡发达，并常有贵人照顾。

16. The Fu De Palace is associated with opportunities to see women, wealth luck, and fortune, as well as the likelihood of receiving one's husband's affection. A perfect Fu De Palace should be well-muscled and bony, moist and plump, with a clear complexion, and free of any lines. Women with this facial feature are naturally blessed with good fortune and destiny, virtue and wealth; they can receive their husband's love and also have excellent personal wealth, which can bring prosperity to their husband and family. Moreover, as this area is close to the migration palace, those with a well-developed Fu De Palace can thrive in a foreign land and often have the favor of VIPs.

17. 毕业这5年里，我们既有很多的待定，也有很多的决定。

17. In the past five years since graduation, we have had many things pending as well as many decisions made.

18. 此类型相貌的女性对丈夫及子女的健康非常有利，丈夫及子女一生不会有大病。健康、安泰永伴，是旺夫的典型面貌。

18. Women with this type of appearance are very beneficial to the health of their husbands and children, ensuring that neither the husband nor the children will suffer from serious illnesses throughout their lives. Health and safety will always accompany them, which is a typical feature of a prosperous and supportive wife.

19. 放下对身外之物的执着，不在乎任何人的眼光，一事无成反而轻松自在，默默无闻反而踏实安全。人到中年一事无成，其实是上天在保护你。

19. Let go of your attachment to external things, don't care about anyone's gaze, and it's actually easy and carefree to be without any achievements, and to be obscure brings a sense of stability and safety. Reaching middle age without any achievements is actually a sign that heaven is protecting you.

20. 不要活在别人的嘴里，不要活在别人的眼里，而是把命运握在自己手里。

20. Do not live in others' mouths, do not live in others' eyes, but hold your destiny in your own hands.

21. 几年后，办公室主任出缺，小唐认为非自己莫属。可最后的任命通知，是小张当办公室主任，小李当财务科长，小唐仍然是大头兵。小唐找局长理论，讲了自己的功劳，苦劳和才干，局长却意味深长的说道：

21. Several years later, when the position of the office director became vacant, Xiao Tang believed it was his for the taking. However, the final appointment notification named Zhang as the office director and Li as the finance department head, while Xiao Tang remained a lowly soldier. Xiao Tang confronted the director to argue his merits, hardships, and abilities, but the director responded with a meaningful look, saying:

22. 其实，没有钱、没有经验、没有阅历、没有社会关系，这些都不可怕。没有钱，可以通过辛勤劳动去赚；没有经验，可以通过实践操作去总结；没有阅历，可以一步一步去积累；没有社会关系，可以一点一点去编织。但是，没有梦想、没有思路才是最可怕的，才让人感到恐惧，很想逃避!

22. In fact, not having money, not having experience, not having a background, and not having social connections are not可怕的. Without money, one can earn through hard work; without experience, one can summarize through practical operations; without a background, one can accumulate step by step; and without social connections, one can weave them bit by bit. However, not having dreams and not having a clear path is the most可怕, it is what causes fear, and makes one want to escape!

23. “起得比鸡早，睡得比狗晚，干得比驴多，吃得比猪差。”这是很多刚刚毕业的人喜欢用来调侃自己生活状态的话。虽然有点儿夸张，但是，他们中的很多人的确一直都被灰色心情所笼罩——心里永远是多云转阴。记得有位哲人曾说：“我们的痛苦不是问题本身带来的，而是我们对这些问题的看法产生的。”换个角度看人生，是一种突破、一种解脱、一种超越、一种高层次的淡泊与宁静，从而获得自由自在的快乐。

23. "Rise earlier than the chickens, sleep later than the dogs, work harder than donkeys, and eat worse than pigs." This is a phrase that many recent graduates like to use to joke about their own lifestyle. Although it's a bit exaggerated, many of them are indeed always shrouded in a sense of gloom — their hearts are always overcast with clouds turning into rain. Remember, a philosopher once said, "Our suffering is not brought by the problems themselves, but by our views of these problems." To view life from a different angle is a kind of breakthrough, a kind of liberation, a kind of transcendence, a high-level indifference and tranquility, thus obtaining the joy of freedom and ease.

24. 经历了这几年社会生活，你应该明白：这个世界上有富也有贫，有阴也有亮，有丑也有美，到底看到什么，取决于自己是积极还是消极。在年轻时学会勤勉地工作，用一种光明的思维对待生活，那么，只要张开手掌，你就会发现，里面有一片灿烂的人生。

24. Having experienced these years of social life, you should understand that in this world, there is both wealth and poverty, both darkness and brightness, both ugliness and beauty. What you see ultimately depends on whether you are positive or negative. If you learn to work diligently in your youth and approach life with a positive mindset, then just by opening your palm, you will find that it contains a brilliant life.

25. 小公司与大企业都有生存之道，没有好坏之分，但对一个人不同阶段的影响会不同。

25. Both small companies and large enterprises have their own ways of surviving, with no inherent good or bad, but the impact on an individual will differ at different stages of life.

26. 又过了十年，小张做了局长，小李做了副局长，小唐人到中年，还是没有一官半职。

26. Another ten years passed, and Xiao Zhang became the director, Xiao Li became the deputy director, and Xiao Tang, now in middle age, still had no official position.

27. 不少刚刚毕业的年轻人，总是奢望马上就能找到自己理想中的工作。然而，很多好工作是无法等来的，你必须选择一份工作作为历练。职业旅程中的第一份工作，无疑是踏入社会这所大学的起点。也许你找了一份差强人意的工作，那么从这里出发，好好地沉淀自己，从这份工作中汲取到有价值的营养，厚积薄发。千里之行，始于足下，只要出发，就有希望到达终点。

27. Many young graduates who have just graduated always have the ambition to find their ideal job immediately. However, many good jobs cannot be awaited, and you must choose a job as a form of experience. The first job in one's professional journey is undoubtedly the starting point for entering the university of society. Perhaps you find a job that is not up to your expectations, but from here, take the opportunity to properly settle down, draw valuable nourishment from this job, and accumulate and then give full expression. A journey of a thousand miles begins with a single step; as long as you start, there is hope of reaching the destination.

28. 能吃亏是做人的一种境界，是处世的一种睿智。

28. Enduring loss is a level of being human, a form of wisdom in dealing with the world.

29. 在这个世界上，既有大人物，也有小角色，大人物有大人物的活法，小人物有小人物的潇洒，每个人都有自己的生活方式，谁也勉强不了谁。但是，小聪明只能有小成绩和小视野，大智慧才能有大成就和大境界。小企业看老板，中企业看制度，大企业看文化。

29. In this world, there are both big figures and small roles. Big figures have their own way of living, and small figures have their own elegance. Everyone has their own lifestyle, and no one can force someone else. However, small wisdom can only achieve small achievements and limited horizons, while great wisdom can lead to great achievements and broader perspectives. Small enterprises rely on their leaders, medium-sized enterprises depend on their systems, and large enterprises depend on their culture.

30. 女人面相看事业运势好不好 手相中 坎位的线直上到离位上 即是坎冲离宫

30. The woman's facial features can reveal her career fortune. If the line in the hand's Kan position extends straight up to the Li position, it is said to be a Kan attacking the Li palace.

31. 人必须有一个正确的方向。无论你多么意气风发，无论你是多么足智多谋，无论你花费了多大的心血，如果没有一个明确的方向，就会过得很茫然，渐渐就丧失了斗志，忘却了最初的梦想，就会走上弯路甚至不归路，枉费了自己的聪明才智，误了自己的青春年华。

31. A person must have a correct direction. No matter how spirited you are, no matter how wise and resourceful you are, and no matter how much effort you put into it, without a clear direction, you will live in confusion, gradually lose your fighting spirit, forget your original dreams, and may even take a wrong or a one-way road, wasting your intelligence and youthful years.

32. 鼻子对财运影响很大，相书上说“问财看鼻”：看鼻相可以晓得一个人富不富有。鼻相好的人，一生多财气、生活很富裕。那要如何才称得上是有偏财运的好鼻相呢？首先鼻洞不能一大一小，或是鼻翼两边大小不一，否则恐怕与偏财运无缘。此外，鼻子要长得好，鼻头有肉、鼻翼饱满（招财鼻），即使无法拥有这样的先天优势，也要切记保持鼻子的光滑清洁，勿令其长痘或受伤，也不要穿洞戴环的，否则会破坏财库，另财气散去，偏财好运当然不聚。

32. The nose has a significant impact on wealth, as the book of physiognomy says, "To inquire about wealth, look at the nose": by observing the nose, one can tell whether a person is wealthy or not. People with a good nose shape tend to have a lot of wealth and live a prosperous life. So, what qualifies as a good nose shape for having lucky side wealth? Firstly, the nostrils should not be of different sizes, nor should the nostril flares be uneven, otherwise, it may indicate a lack of side wealth. Moreover, the nose itself must be well-shaped, with a fleshy tip and full nostril flares (attracting wealth), even if one does not have such natural advantages. It is also important to remember to keep the nose smooth and clean, not allowing it to get acne or injuries, and not to pierce it or wear rings, as this may damage the treasure house, causing wealth to scatter, and certainly not accumulating lucky side wealth.

33. 我想，刚刚毕业几年的你，一样胸怀大志，一样想成为一匹被人赏识、驰骋沙场的千里马吧？那么，就好好沉淀下来。低就一层不等于低人一等，今日的俯低是为了明天的高就。所谓生命的价值，就是我们的存在对别人有价值。能被人利用是一件好事，无人问津才是真正的悲哀！

33. I think, having graduated just a few years ago, you too have grand ambitions, just like wanting to be a highly valued, untamed horse that gallops across the battlefield. So, take the time to settle down well. Taking a lower position does not mean being inferior to others; today's low position is for tomorrow's higher position. The value of life is that our existence has value to others. Being able to be utilized is a good thing, while being ignored is truly a tragedy!

34. 在面相中，眼睛和眉毛之间的部位被称为田宅宫，掌管人的不动产及人缘、声望及公共关系等。假如女人的田宅宫生得宽阔明润，丰满有肉，无杂毛(要修)，无凹陷疤痕的话，其人会有丰厚的身家，而且很会利用人际关系赚取财富。如果再加上双眼有神、黑白分明，则擅长利用公关机会吸引贵公子的注意，从而嫁入豪门，过上富贵的生活。

34. In facial characteristics, the area between the eyes and the eyebrows is known as the "Field and House Palace," which governs a person's real estate, social connections, reputation, and public relations. If a woman's Field and House Palace is wide and bright, full and plump, free of any stray hairs (to be trimmed), and without any indentations or scars, she is said to have a substantial fortune and is quite skilled at using interpersonal relationships to accumulate wealth. If, in addition, her eyes are lively and distinct with clear black and white, she is adept at capitalizing on public relations opportunities to attract the attention of wealthy young gentlemen, thus being able to marry into a wealthy family and lead a luxurious life.

35. 信念与心态。“有些人运气总是特别好”，你经常听别人这样说。但是，不知你是否想过，为什么这些人即使身处逆境，却仍能创造那么多的机会？不可否认，有的人就是天生好运，做起事来总是事半功倍，困难的时候总是有人相助，但这样的命好云也好的人，毕竟是凤毛麟角少之又少的，绝大多数人，并没有那么好的命运，因此要靠自己去争取，去努力，只有心怀正念，才能走得好，走得快，走得稳。除了那些天生的好命好运的人之外，走好运的人都有一个突出的特点，那就是：他们都知道如何吸引好运，如何激发别人帮助自己的热情。这些往往来源于其人的信念和心态，一个阳光积极快乐的人，身边总会有着一群人，愿意接近他，愿意帮助他，好事也愿意与之分享，而一个阴暗抱怨忧郁的人，身边的人会越来越少，没有人愿意整天听他的抱怨和牢骚，更不可能去忍受他的讽刺和刻薄，这样的人，往往路越走越窄。那么应该抱有怎样的心态坚持怎样的信念，就不言而喻了。

35. Belief and Attitude. "Some people always seem to have great luck," you often hear others say this. But have you ever thought about why these people can still create so many opportunities even when they are facing adversity? Admittedly, some people are naturally lucky, always making twice the effort with half the effort, and always having someone to help them in difficult times. However, such fortunate individuals are as rare as phoenix feathers, and the majority of people do not have such good fortune, so they have to rely on themselves to strive and work hard. Only with a positive mindset can one walk well, fast, and steadily. Apart from those naturally fortunate individuals, those who are blessed with good luck have a distinct characteristic: they all know how to attract good luck and how to inspire others to help them. These usually come from their beliefs and attitudes. A sunny, positive, and happy person always has a group of people around them who are willing to get close to them, help them, and share good things with them. On the other hand, a gloomy, complaining, and melancholic person will have fewer and fewer people around them. No one wants to listen to their complaints and grievances all day, let alone endure their sarcasm and sharpness. Such people often find their paths narrowing. Therefore, it is self-evident as to what kind of attitude and belief one should hold.

36. 有的人为生存而雀跃，目光总是停在身后，三天打鱼两天晒网，有始无终。

36. Some people are elated for survival, always keeping their eyes on the past, fishing for three days and drying their nets for two, starting and not finishing.