在喧嚣的都市中，生活如同一场精心编排的戏剧。而我，便是这场戏剧中名为“狼”的演员。在这面镜子前，我将揭开自己不为人知的一面……

In the bustling metropolis, life is like a meticulously staged drama. And I, I am the actor in this drama named "Wolf." In front of this mirror, I will unveil the unknown side of myself...

1. 做一个最好的你，首先要有一个良好的心态。大千世界，芸芸众生，真正能成就大事业，成为风云人物的毕竟是少数。作为一个小小的老百姓，要时刻想的开，对自己要求不要那么高。要知道，我们没有走得那么远、站的那么高，没有取得足够的成就让我们自豪，那是因为我们没有那么厚的基础，没有那么有力的支撑、没有适当的指引，没有良好的机遇。我们能做到今天这个地步，一直在自食其力，仍然在勤奋努力，已经是了不起。这样说，不为埋怨别人，只为理解自己。天生我才必有用，决定一个人的成败不是“尺寸”的大小，岗位的显赫卑微，关键是做一个最好的你

1. To be the best version of yourself, the first thing you need is a positive mindset. In this vast world, among the myriad of people, those who truly achieve great undertakings and become influential figures are indeed a minority. As an ordinary citizen, one should always be open-minded and not demand too much from oneself. It is important to recognize that we have not traveled far or reached great heights, nor have we achieved enough to be proud of. This is because we do not have a strong foundation, adequate support, proper guidance, or good opportunities. Being able to reach this point in life, relying on our own efforts, and still striving diligently is remarkable. By saying this, I am not complaining about others, but rather trying to understand myself. As the saying goes, "I was born with a talent that will surely be used for a purpose." It is not the size of one's "dimensions," the prominence or lowliness of one's position, that determines a person's success or failure; the key is to be the best version of yourself.

2. 最好的生活态度，就是狠。对自己狠起来，你才可以实现脱胎换骨的成长。对别人狠起来，能够消灭阻挡你成长的障碍，一往无前，所向披靡。

2. The best attitude towards life is to be fierce. When you are tough on yourself, you can achieve a transformational growth. When you are tough on others, you can eliminate obstacles that hinder your growth, advance without hesitation, and conquer all challenges.

3. 对别人狠一点，尤其对消耗你，伤害你的人狠一点，你才可以兵来将挡，水来土掩，一路凯歌。

3. Be a bit harsh to others, especially to those who consume you and harm you, so that you can meet soldiers with generals and deal with water with earth, and sing victory songs all the way.

4. 我们要战胜自己的欲望，尤其是要战胜懒惰拖沓的习惯。用知识武装自己的大脑，用认知提升生命的境界，严格的自律，让自己变得更加优秀和完美。

4. We must conquer our desires, especially the habit of laziness and procrastination. Arm our minds with knowledge, elevate the realm of life through cognition, practice strict self-discipline, and become more outstanding and perfect.

5. 物质的贫穷可以摧毁你一生的尊严，而精神的贫穷可以耗尽你几世的轮回。在自我成长这件事情上，绝对不能退缩，绝对不能松懈，绝对不能手软，没有千锤百炼的疼痛，就没有脱胎换骨的神奇。

5. Material poverty can destroy your dignity throughout your life, while spiritual poverty can drain your rebirths for several lifetimes. In the matter of self-growth, one must never retreat, never relax, and never show leniency. Without the pain of countless trials and refining, there can be no miraculous transformation of the soul.

6. 对自己狠一点，尤其在自我成长的事情上狠一点，你才可以化腐朽为神奇，创造滴水穿石的奇迹，

6. Be harsh on yourself, especially harsh on matters of self-growth, and only then can you turn the decayed into the magical, creating the miracle of water滴穿石.

7. 狼行千里吃肉，狗行千里吃屎。

7. Wolves can travel a thousand miles and still eat meat, but dogs can travel a thousand miles and still eat feces.

8. 刘震云说：小时候，对不起，换来的是没关系。长大后，没关系，换来的，却是对不起。烟搭桥，酒铺路，色作乐，财挡灾，慷慨送礼后门开。

8. Liu Zhenyun said: When I was young, saying "Sorry" brought about "It doesn't matter." As I grew up, it's "It doesn't matter" that brings "Sorry" in return. Cigarettes build bridges, alcohol pave the way, pleasure comes from desire, wealth wards off disasters, and generous gifts open the back door.

9. 做一个最好的你，就要善待身边的每一个人。在生活中，我们常常遇到一些令自己头痛，难以接受的人。其实，你大可不必为此而烦恼，每个人都有这样那样的缺点，或许就是这些地方令人难以接受，然而，人无完人嘛。你不妨换一个角度去看待他们，不论他们多么令人厌恶，他们总有可爱的一面，总有善良的一面。你不妨静下心来想想，或许，你已经改变一定对他们的看法。人与人相处或交往中，难免产生这样那样的不快或过结，宽容与忘记是最好的良方。怀着一颗感恩的心来面对生活，面对你身边的每一个人。生活就像一面镜子，你善待你身边的每一个人，那么每一个人都会以同样的方式来善待你。你向身边的人敞开心扉，真诚与之交往，对方一定会把心交给你，相信“投之以桃，抱之以李”的古谚。

9. To be the best version of yourself, you should treat everyone around you kindly. In life, we often encounter people who cause us headaches and are difficult to accept. In reality, you don't have to worry about this. Everyone has their own flaws, and it may be these very flaws that are hard to accept. However, no one is perfect. Why not view them from a different angle? No matter how much they may be disliked, they always have a lovable side, a kind side. Take a moment to think calmly, perhaps you have already changed your perspective towards them. In the interaction between people, it is inevitable to encounter various unpleasantnesses or conflicts. Patience and forgiveness are the best remedies. Face life and everyone around you with a grateful heart. Life is like a mirror; if you treat everyone around you well, they will treat you in the same way. Open your heart to those around you and be sincere in your interactions; they will surely entrust their hearts to you, believing in the ancient proverb, "What you give, you will receive."

10. 这个世界上形形色色的人都会有，有时候不管你做的多么完美，总有人看你不顺眼。如果你总是表现的唯唯诺诺，谨小慎微，小心翼翼，伏低做小，别人非但不会买账，还会把你当做软柿子拿捏。就像一只蚂蚁，无论他多么善良或者诚实，总有人没有任何理由的就踩上一脚。

10. There are all kinds of people in this world. Sometimes, no matter how perfectly you do something, there will always be someone who dislikes you. If you always act in a timid and cautious manner, being overly careful and deferential, others not only won't appreciate it, but they will also take advantage of you, treating you like a soft persimmon to squeeze. Just like an ant, no matter how kind or honest it is, there will always be someone who steps on it for no apparent reason.

11. 做一个最好的你，就要真爱生命。组成我们生命的物质，早晚还要成为宇宙的尘埃。尽管科学发展到今天，无数的科学家在探索接受外星人信号的计划，希望在这么大的宇宙，能找到另一群生灵，可是直到今天，我们并没有在茫茫的宇宙中发现同类。作为我们每一个人，有幸成为宇宙的宠儿，来到人世间走过一遭，我们理应珍惜生命，爱惜身体。况且，我们为人子女，为人父母，还有沉重的家庭与社会责任。

11. To be the best version of yourself, you must truly love life. The substances that make up our lives will eventually become cosmic dust. Despite the advancement of science today, with countless scientists exploring plans to receive signals from extraterrestrial beings, hoping to find another group of creatures in such a vast universe, we have not yet discovered any in the boundless cosmos. As for each of us, being fortunate enough to be the favored children of the universe and to have taken a journey in the human world, we should cherish life and take care of our bodies. Moreover, as children and parents, we also have heavy family and social responsibilities.

12. 你有什么样的性格，决定了会拥有什么样的人际关系。你有什么样的心境，就决定了会拥有什么样的自我成长。

12. The kind of personality you have determines the kind of interpersonal relationships you will have. The kind of mindset you possess will decide the kind of personal growth you will experience.

13. 毫无原则的善良，只会让别人得寸进尺。没有边界的软弱，只会让别人步步紧逼。

13. Unprincipled kindness only allows others to take advantage and push their luck. Weakness without boundaries only leads others to press their advantage further.

14. 对你不好的人，该回怼就回怼，该反击就反击，你越是无所畏惧，别人越会尊敬你。

14. To those who are not good to you, you should retort and counterattack as needed. The more fearless you are, the more respect others will have for you.

15. 如果你不能成为大道，那就当一条小路；如果你不能成为太阳，那就当一颗星星；决定成败的不是尺寸的大小，而在于做一个最好的你。在生活中，决定你的成功与失败的不是你的能力的大小，而在于你是否做了一个最好的你!

15. If you cannot be the great path, then be a small road; if you cannot be the sun, then be a star; what determines success or failure is not the size, but being the best version of yourself. In life, it's not the magnitude of your abilities that determines your success or failure, but whether you have been the best version of yourself!

16. 刘震云说：“做人要像仙人掌，可以不去扎人，但身上必须长满刺，人在外面，该坏时坏，该善时善。遇佛上香，遇贼掏枪。软柿子当久了，谁都想来捏两把，面子给多了，狗都觉得自己是狮子。

16. Liu Zhenyun said: "To be a person, one should be like a cactus, not necessarily to prick others, but to be covered in thorns. When outside, one should act bad when necessary and kind when appropriate. Offer incense when you meet a Buddha, and draw a gun when you encounter a thief. If you are treated like a soft persimmon for too long, everyone wants to squeeze you a few times. If you give too much face, even a dog would think it's a lion."

17. 你如果不狠一点，就不能在这个强手如林的世界上找到一席之地，就无法反击别人的恶意，为自己争取到应有的生存空间。

17. If you're not ruthless, you can't find a place in a world where the strong are abundant, you won't be able to counter others' malevolence, and you won't be able to claim the survival space you deserve.

18. 做个狠人，一身钢筋铁骨，内心坚不可摧，我们才能在这个路遥马急的人世间，实现自己的价值，获得想要的生活。

18. Be a tough person, with steel and iron bones, and an unbreakable inner strength, only then can we realize our own value and obtain the life we desire in this world where the road is long and horses are fast.

19. 狭路相逢勇者胜。

19. Where there is a narrow path, the brave will prevail.

20. ​把钱和骨头，放在狗的面前，狗只会选择骨头，因为它不知道，钱也能买到更多的骨头。这是认知不够。”

20. Put money and bones in front of a dog, and the dog will only choose the bones because it doesn't know that money can also buy more bones. This is a lack of cognition."

21. 勤劳不一定能致富，努力不一定可以成功，所有的财富和成就都是认知的变现。我们只有不断提升自己的认知，打开格局，站在更高的思想维度上，才能够行稳致远。

21. Hard work does not necessarily lead to wealth, and effort does not always guarantee success. All wealth and achievements are the manifestation of cognition. We can only move forward steadily and far by continuously improving our own cognition, broadening our horizons, and standing on a higher level of thought.

22. 做一个最好的你，就要做好身边的每一件事。一个官员就应该牢记自己的职责，为官一任，造福一方；一个老师，就应上好每一节课，善待每一个学生；作为一个工人，在自己的岗位上就要尽职尽责；作为一个医生，就要救死扶伤，善待每一个生命；作为一个农民，就要珍爱土地；作为一个学生就应珍惜青春，多掌握为人民服务的本领。只有在工作中脚踏实地，尽心尽力才能利于不败之地。

22. To be the best version of yourself, you must do well in every aspect of your life. An official should always remember his duties, to govern a region and bring benefits to its people; a teacher should teach each class well and treat every student kindly; as a worker, one must be diligent and responsible in their post; as a doctor, one should save lives and treat every life with kindness; as a farmer, one should cherish the land; and as a student, one should treasure their youth and master the skills to serve the people. Only by working diligently and putting in one's best effort can one achieve lasting success.

23. ​人穷，少说话，因为没有人爱听，别多嘴多舌让人烦；人穷，少扎堆，因为人家不欢迎你，别给人家添堵添乱。”

23. When you are poor, speak less, as no one wants to listen, don't be overly talkative to cause annoyance; when you are poor, avoid gathering with others too much, as they may not welcome you, don't add to their troubles and disturbances.