拥抱着平凡，心无旁骛地走完一生，不再追求改变。

Embracing the ordinary, focusing solely on walking through life with a single-minded determination, no longer seeking change.

1. 不是生活赐予我什么不同，却仅仅是因为，在我胸襟之中，盈盈的盛满这么两个字：坦然。坦然，于是心美丽。心美丽，于是人生也跟着美丽。

1. It's not that life has given me anything different, but rather, it is simply because in my bosom, there is a fullness brimming with these two characters: calmness. Calmness, and thus, the heart becomes beautiful. With a beautiful heart, life itself becomes beautiful as well.

2. 静静地跌倒在千年的梦里，一袭青衫，叠过江南的水，温漉漉地在梦的长河里漫游，久远的儒雅。

2. Quietly collapsing into the dream of a millennium, in a robe of green, crossing the waters of Jiangnan, wandering gently in the long river of dreams, a distant elegance.

3. 人在某个阶段容易迷失自己，所以需要不断提高自我认知！人生是一场修行，每一个人都不完美，我们需要多一些包容和谅解，这样才会和谐！我们需要多一些帮助和用心，成就别人才会成就自己！

3. People are prone to lose themselves at certain stages, so it is necessary to continuously improve self-awareness! Life is a journey of cultivation, and no one is perfect. We need to show more tolerance and understanding, which will lead to harmony! We need to offer more help and care, because by helping others, we can also achieve our own success!

4. 在人的心脏上挖出一个又一个洞，然后埋进滴答滴答的炸弹。财富两级的迅速分化，活生生的把人的灵魂撕成了两半。

4. Carve out hole after hole in the human heart and then plant ticking bombs within. The rapid differentiation of wealth levels has literally torn the human soul in two.

5. 为了比别人多做一道题，我们宁愿熬夜不睡觉。第二天看着对方的黑眼圈说到昨晚的球赛真好看，大家笑笑彼此心照不宣。

5. In order to do one more question than others, we would rather stay up all night and not sleep. The next day, looking at each other's dark circles under the eyes, we commented on how great last night's football match was, and we all laughed, understanding each other without saying a word.

6. 如果你给予别人的爱，让那个人有压力，表明你对那个人的爱中，参杂了太多别的期望。

6. If the love you give to others puts them under pressure, it indicates that your love for that person is mixed with too many other expectations.

7. 人生就是这样，牵挂着、烦恼着、自由着、限制着；走出一段路程，回头一望，却也生动着、美丽着；有着你爱的人和爱你的人，有着你喜欢的事和需要你做的事，有着牵挂你的人和你牵挂着的人；人这一辈子是短暂的，所以要让自己健康着、开心着、幸福着，偶尔要醉着。

7. Life is like this, filled with concerns, worries, freedom, and restrictions; as you walk a path, looking back, it becomes vivid and beautiful; with people you love and who love you, things you enjoy and tasks that require your attention, people who care about you and those you care about; a person's life is short, so one should maintain health, happiness, and happiness, and occasionally get drunk.

8. 人生是一场修行，不必大喜亦不必大悲，生命太短暂，且行且珍惜！

8. Life is a journey of cultivation; there is no need to be overly joyful or overly sorrowful. Life is too short; let's cherish each step along the way!

9. 在茫茫人海中，爱与被爱，都是幸运的。如果彼此相爱，心有灵犀，就该珍惜每一次相遇，每一次心跳;如果是一相情愿，或者一方已没了感觉，就放手他(她)走，就当是过眼烟云，花开花落。

9. In the vast sea of people, both loving and being loved are fortunate. If both parties love each other and have a telepathic connection, one should cherish every encounter and every heartbeat; if it is one-sided or one party has lost feeling, let him or her go, treating it as a fleeting shadow and the blooming and withering of flowers.

10. 天气变得好快，寒流悄悄袭来，因为你的可爱，所以给你关怀，晚上毯子要盖，别把猪脚冻坏，没事刁根骨头，那样可以补钙，不要再骂我坏，祝你天天愉快！

10. The weather changes so quickly, a cold front sneaks in quietly. Because of your cuteness, I want to take care of you. Make sure to cover yourself with a blanket at night, don't let your pork feet freeze, and there's no harm in gnawing on a bone occasionally; that can help with calcium intake. Don't keep calling me a bad person, and wish you happiness every day!

11. 他说：你负责挥霍青春，嘻嘻哈哈；我负责赚钱养家，呵护备至。

11. He said: You are responsible for squandering your youth, laughing and chattering; I am responsible for earning a living to support the family, taking care of you with all my might.

12. 有一种情里裹着真诚，这是我对你的爱情，有一种恋里夹着甜蜜，这是我对你的迷恋，有一种物语伴着幸福，这是我对你的承诺，我爱你一辈子，愿陪你到白头。用浪漫点缀美妙的时光，用甜蜜包裹美好的生活，用幸福守望甜美的爱情，用真心倾诉真爱的誓言：亲爱的，爱你一辈子，永远不分离!

12. There is sincerity wrapped in this affection, which is my love for you; there is sweetness intertwined with this infatuation, which is my admiration for you; there is happiness accompanying this tale, which is my promise to you. I love you for a lifetime, and wish to accompany you to the end. Adorn beautiful moments with romance, wrap a sweet life in sweetness, guard a sweet love with happiness, and pour out the vow of true love with sincerity: Darling, I love you for a lifetime, and we will never be apart!

13. 人生是一场盛大的私人修行。行过一些路，走过一些桥，遇见一些人，做过一些事，然后逐一装订。没有无缘无故的爱，也没有无缘无故的痛。所有的挫折，都是用来成长，所有的磨难都是用来锤炼，迈过去，就是走向了成熟。

13. Life is a grand private spiritual journey. Traverse some roads, cross some bridges, meet some people, do some things, and then compile them one by one. There is no love without a reason, nor is there any pain without a cause. All setbacks are for growth, all hardships are for tempering, and by overcoming them, one moves towards maturity.

14. 找个爱人容易，但找个可以陪你好好过日子的人却难。因为爱情只需激情，而过日子却需要宽容、忠诚和坚持。所以结婚找老公，不要找偶像派，而要找实力派。偶像派让你开心一时，实力派才让你开心一世。

14. It's easy to find a lover, but hard to find someone who can live with you well. Because love requires passion, while living together requires tolerance, loyalty, and perseverance. Therefore, when getting married, don't look for a heartthrob, but a powerhouse. Heartthrobs may make you happy for a while, but only powerhouses can make you happy for a lifetime.

15. 或许，我们只有经过人生的荒凉，才能抵达内心的繁华。如果你不曾拥有，你永远也体会不到失去的心碎;如果你不曾失去，你便永远无法明白拥有的珍贵!

15. Perhaps, only after traversing the desolation of life can we reach the prosperity within. If you have never possessed, you can never comprehend the heartbreak of loss; if you have never lost, you will never understand the value of possession!

16. ⌒再爱我一次好吗？ 哪怕就这一次呢゛

16. Can you love me again, please? Even just this once would be fine.

17. 每 天，用 微 笑，面 对 命 运 所 安 排 我 的 生 活

17. Every day, face the life arranged by fate with a smile.

18. 时代的车轰轰地往前开，我们坐在车上，经过的也许不过是几条熟悉的街衢，可在漫天的火光中也自惊心动魄。可惜我们只顾忙着在一瞥即逝的店铺橱窗里，找寻我们自己的影子我们只看见自己的脸苍白渺小，我们的自私与空虚，我们恬不知耻的愚蠢。谁都一样，我们每个人都是孤独的。张爱玲

18. The car of the times roars forward, and we sit in it, passing perhaps only a few familiar streets. Yet, even amidst the fiery glow, we are awe-struck. Alas, we are too busy scanning the fleeting shop windows to find our own shadow. We only see our pale, small faces, our selfishness and emptiness, our shameless ignorance. It's the same for everyone; we are all alone. Zhang Ailing.

19. 我理解人生是一场修行，用心理学的话讲就是，觉知自己、治愈自己、改正形成更好的自己。修行，就是在旅途中发现（觉知）自己，从而修正，通过训练，形成更好的自己。

19. I understand that life is a journey of cultivation. In psychological terms, it means to be aware of oneself, to heal oneself, and to correct oneself to become a better version of oneself. Cultivation is about discovering (being aware of) oneself during the journey, thereby making corrections, through training, to become a better version of oneself.

20. 人生那就是一场修行，修的就是一颗心，心柔顺了，一切就完美了，心清净了，处境就美好了。人的这一辈子，不管活成什么样子，都不要把责任推给别人，一切喜怒哀乐那都是自己造成的。

20. Life is a journey of cultivation, and what we cultivate is a heart. When the heart is gentle, everything becomes perfect; when the heart is pure, the situation becomes beautiful. Throughout one's life, no matter how one lives, one should not shift the responsibility to others. All joys, sorrows, and delights are caused by oneself.

21. 青春，注定了要颠簸，要有眼泪和汗水，有委屈、不甘和失败。我为自己这样感到委屈，但是看看周围，想想，也许这正是最正确的生活，这样走的才会踏实。无论是鸡飞狗跳，还是躁动不安，青春都不属于安逸，安逸是一潭死水，跳进去就出不来。

21. Youth is destined to be turbulent, filled with tears and sweat, with grievances, dissatisfaction, and failures. I feel aggrieved by myself for this, but when I look around and think about it, perhaps this is the most correct way of living, and walking this path is the only way to feel secure. Whether it's chaos or restlessness, youth does not belong to comfort. Comfort is a stagnant pond, and once you jump into it, you can't come out.

22. 都说人生是一场修行，而修的就是一颗心。痛而不言、笑而不语、迷而不失、惊而不乱。

22. It is often said that life is a journey of cultivation, and what we cultivate is the heart. Suffering but not speaking, laughing but not uttering words, being lost but not confused, startled but not disordered.

23. 我真的开始享受走向三十岁的时光，终于觉得有底气来掌控自己的小日子，不再挥霍青春，而是开始坚实地站在大地上。终于经济独立、视野够宽，终于知道自己要什么。毕业后这几年好像比之前十几年加起来都长，我也改变了好多好多。

23. I really start to enjoy the time leading up to thirty, finally feeling confident to take control of my own little life, no longer squandering my youth, but instead firmly standing on the ground. Finally, I am financially independent, with a broad enough perspective, and finally know what I want. These few years after graduation seem longer than the previous ten or so years combined, and I have changed so much.

24. 每个人都是一座孤岛，谁都无法泅渡谁，只有你自己，才是自己的摆渡人。人生是一场独自的修行，脚下的路需要自己去走，无关他人。

24. Everyone is an isolated island, and no one can swim across for another. Only you can be your own ferryman. Life is a solitary journey of self-cultivation, and the path beneath your feet requires you to walk it alone, unrelated to others.

25. 愿我的心是一朵鲜花，盛开在您的天空下，为您的生活增添一点温馨的情调，为您的快乐增添一片美丽的光华！

25. May my heart be a flower, blooming under your sky, adding a touch of warmth to your life and a splendor of beauty to your joy!

26. 生命也像是在走钢索或凌空飞跃，在危险中锻炼了勇气，在失败中确立了坚强。

26. Life is also like walking on a tightrope or soaring in the air, exercising courage in danger and establishing strength through failure.

27. 我终于相信，每一条走上来的路，都有它不得不那样跋涉的理由。每一条要走下去的路，都有它不得不那样选择的方向。

27. Finally, I believe that every path one takes up has its own reasons for why it had to be traversed that way. Every path one is to follow has its own direction that it has to be chosen in that manner.

28. 不从泥泞不堪的小道上迈步，就踏不上铺满鲜花的大路

28. If you do not step onto the muddy path, you cannot walk on the road lined with flowers.

29. 其实人生是一场修行，每天争取成为更好的自己。心态各个方面。

29. In fact, life is a journey of cultivation, striving every day to become a better version of oneself in every aspect of mindset.

30. 总有那么几个睡不着的晚上有时候责怪生活毫无新意其实是自己缺少改变现状的勇气所以所有的事情就按部就班的进行着好像没有自己的期许和憧憬但是阿毕竟我们只会在深夜感慨自己有多不堪一觉醒来却一如既往的挥霍青春然后忘记昨晚强大的决心那么失眠又是何苦

30. There are always a few sleepless nights where sometimes we blame the lack of novelty in life, but it's actually a lack of courage to change our situation. So, everything proceeds in an orderly manner as if there are no expectations or dreams of our own. But after all, it's only in the dead of night that we feel our own inadequacies, and when we wake up, we continue to squander our youth as usual, then forget the strong determination we had last night. So, what's the point of insomnia?

31. 恋爱只是生活的一部分，不必一开始就考虑婚姻问题，而应是着重两个人灵魂的吸引力。

31. Love is just a part of life, and there is no need to think about marriage issues from the very beginning. Instead, it should focus on the soul attraction between the two individuals.

32. 他们说工作难找，我没有怕过;他们说房价太高，我没有怕过;他们又告诉我你将不再理我，我一下子就崩溃了。

32. They said it's hard to find a job, and I've never been afraid; they said the housing prices are too high, and I've never been afraid; and when they told me that you would no longer care for me, I collapsed all at once.

33. 从今天起，你要去做一个不动声色的人，不准情绪化，不准偷偷想念，不准回头看，去过自己另外的生活。你要明白，不是所有的鱼都会生活在同一片海里。

33. From today on, you must become a person who does not show any emotion, who does not secretly miss, who does not look back, and live another life for yourself. You must understand that not all fish live in the same sea.

34. 在等待的日子里，刻苦读书，谦卑做人，养得深根，日后才能枝叶茂盛。星云大师

34. During the days of waiting, strive to study diligently, be humble in demeanor, cultivate deep roots, and then you will be able to flourish with abundant branches and leaves in the future. — Master Hsing Yun

35. 爱到分才显珍贵，很多人都不懂珍惜拥有，直到失去才看到，其实那最熟悉的才是最珍贵的。

35. Love becomes precious only when it is divided, and many people don't understand how to cherish what they have until they lose it. In fact, the most familiar is often the most precious.

36. 爱闹情绪的人都渴望存在感，故意说反话就是想引起你的注意，你要知道，那些别扭又违心的嫌弃，都是说不出口的喜欢。

36. People who are moody all desire a sense of existence, and故意 saying things in reverse is just to draw your attention. You should know that those awkward and uncomfortable complaints are actually unspoken likes.

37. 人生是一场修行，每一个爱你的人，每一个恨你的人，每一个你爱的人，每一个你恨的人，无论是爱之深，抑或是恨之切，他们都是你人生中的一段经历，他们都在帮助你成就并且完全你自己晚安

37. Life is a journey of cultivation. Every person who loves you, every person who hates you, every person you love, and every person you hate—whether the love is deep or the hate is sharp—they are all chapters of your life's experience, and they are all helping you to achieve and become the complete you. Good night.

38. 生活，在喜怒哀乐之间走走停停，不知道会遇见什么，有时也不知道自己追求的是什么，只知道阳光这么好，别辜负了今天。

38. Life is a journey that stops and starts between joy, anger, sadness, and happiness, not knowing what one will encounter, and sometimes not knowing what one is pursuing either. All one knows is that the sunshine is so beautiful, and one should not waste today.

39. 向着目标奔跑，何必在意折翼的翅膀，只要信心不死，就看的见方向，顺风适合行走，逆风更适合飞翔，人生路上什么都不怕，就怕自己投降。

39. Run towards your goals, why worry about the wings that are broken? As long as your confidence does not die, you can see the direction. When the wind is in your favor, it is suitable for walking; when it is against you, it is even more suitable for flying. On the path of life, you should not fear anything, but only fear surrendering to defeat.

40. 每个人在成长中都会受很多伤，会哭泣悲伤，会觉得痛。许多事情，总是在经历过后才明白。痛过了，便坚强了；跨过了，便成熟了；傻过了，便懂得了适时的珍惜与放弃。总是在失去了什么，才能学会珍惜什么；总是在碰了壁，才能学会改变什么，放弃什么；总是在疼过之后，才能学会做一个全新的自己。

40. Everyone will suffer many injuries in the process of growing up, will cry and feel sad, and will feel pain. Many things can only be understood after experiencing them. After suffering pain, one becomes stronger; after overcoming obstacles, one becomes mature; after being foolish, one learns to cherish and let go at the right time. It is only after losing something that one can learn to cherish it; only after hitting a wall can one learn to change and let go of certain things; only after experiencing pain can one learn to be a new self.

41. 人生是一场修行，需要的是自我救赎而不是待他人普渡。好好生活，可以自我，但绝不自私。

41. Life is a journey of self-improvement, requiring self-redemption rather than helping others cross over. Live well, be yourself, but never be selfish.

42. 我们可以平凡，但是不能没有梦想，人生就是一场盛大的遇见，每一段经历注定珍贵。我们用眼泪冲刷生活的酸楚，有些东西有没有，不过只是时间问题。当懂得人活着的意义时，人生为时已晚。而许许多多的人还在这样做着，可笑的人，还为这个加上很多理由。

42. We can be ordinary, but we cannot do without dreams. Life is a grand encounter, and every experience is destined to be precious. We wash away the bitterness of life with our tears, and whether something exists or not is just a matter of time. When one understands the meaning of living, it is too late in life. And yet, so many people are still doing this, the ridiculous ones even giving themselves many reasons for it.

43. 男人最初爱上一个女人的时候，是因为她的温柔，她的多情，她的善解人意。渐渐的，他开始觉得她太纠缠，太依赖。最初让他爱上的那个女孩，不知什么时候被偷偷换掉了，留下的这个女孩只让他越看越厌。其实，被偷掉的是他原本爱她的那颗心。

43. When a man first falls in love with a woman, it's because of her gentleness, her passion, and her understanding nature. Gradually, he starts to feel she is too clingy and too dependent. The girl who first captured his heart is quietly replaced at some point, and the girl left behind only makes him more and more tired of looking at her. In fact, what was stolen was the heart that originally loved her.

44. 一段很喜欢的话：“经历过的事情越多，越喜欢简单的生活，干净的东西，清楚的感觉，有结果的事和说到做到的人。

44. A very favorite quote: "The more experiences one has, the more one appreciates a simple life, clean things, clear feelings, things with results, and people who do what they say."

45. 爱一个人最好的方式是经营好自己，爱人要有度，留一点自我，才会有自尊，你的付出才会有人重视。

45. The best way to love someone is to take care of yourself first. One must have a balance in loving, leaving a bit of oneself, which will lead to self-respect. Only then will your efforts be valued by others.

46. 懂了太多,看见太多,听得太多,忽然就觉得,好累好累

46. Having understood too much, seen too much, and heard too much, suddenly I feel, so tired, so tired.

47. 爱如果走进婚姻就会变得很现实，在现实中激情大多会慢慢被消磨掉，如若你理智明智、且豁达有情有义，爱会转变成亲情温情抱紧你;你若急躁无理、且小气不饶不让总想别人让你，爱会慢慢离你而去，最后只剩下相互厌倦和疲惫不堪而已。

47. Love, if it enters into marriage, becomes very realistic. In reality, passion is often gradually worn down. If you are rational, wise, open-minded, and affectionate, love will transform into亲情 warmth that embraces you; but if you are impatient, unreasonable, petty, and always want others to cater to you, love will slowly drift away from you, and in the end, all that remains is mutual exhaustion and boredom.

48. 一直想不通，22岁应该是个怎样的年纪？是肆无忌惮啃老挥霍青春，还是努力去做一些就现在的我而言很难的事？最近有人说觉得我不像一个在校生，好像我应该工作了好久，这样的评价不知道是好是坏。自己把自己逼的太紧了，对于太多事都太执着，太执念。然后却适得其反。无所谓了吧。

48. I've always been puzzled, what should be the age of 22? Should it be a time of carefree indulgence in my youth, or should I strive to do things that are difficult for me at present? Recently, someone said that they don't think I look like a student, as if I've been working for a long time. I'm not sure whether this evaluation is good or bad. I've been putting too much pressure on myself, being too fixated on too many things, and it has backfired. Who cares anymore.

49. 既不回头，何必不忘。既然无缘，何须誓言。今日种种，似水无痕。明夕何夕，君已陌路。

49. If you do not turn back, why should you forget? Since there is no connection, why make a vow? All things today are as fleeting as water leaving no trace. What night is tomorrow, when you have already become a stranger on the road.

50. 人生是一场修行，定会途遇悲喜苦乐，需潜心修行，做一个值得被认识，被喜欢的男人。

50. Life is a journey of cultivation, and one will inevitably encounter joys, sorrows, hardships, and pleasures. It is necessary to cultivate oneself with diligence and become a man worth knowing and loving.

51. 如果说人生是一场修行的过程，那么从见天地到见众生是一个不断向下走的过程，也是内敛锋芒的一个阶段。渐渐地懂得了卑微，慢慢地将自己的身段降低，甚至根植到泥土里去。这个阶段的人是谦和、淡然而又深邃的，他已经获得了内心自由，从心所欲而不逾矩。

51. If life is a process of cultivation, then from seeing the heavens and the earth to seeing all beings is a continuous downward journey, and also a stage of tempering one's sharpness. Gradually, one comes to understand humility, slowly lowering one's posture, even planting oneself into the soil. People at this stage are modest, serene, yet profound; they have already gained inner freedom, doing as they wish without exceeding the bounds.

52. 我们的爱情远远没有歌曲里写的那么浪漫，即使是受伤也是幸福那种境界；我们只是平凡的人，然后找一段平凡的感情，之后平凡的生活在一起，坐着摇椅慢慢变老。

52. Our love is far from the romanticism described in songs, even when we are hurt, it's a kind of happiness; we are just ordinary people, finding an ordinary relationship, and then living an ordinary life together, sitting on rocking chairs and growing old slowly.

53. 热恋中的人要彼此敞开心扉，如通常所说，互表衷肠，吐露自己的全部思想。在这里的隐讳、不坦率的行为，是自私的一种表现。

53. Those in a passionate love affair should open their hearts to each other, as it is commonly said, to express their innermost feelings and reveal all their thoughts. The reserve and unforthcoming behavior here is a manifestation of selfishness.

54. 永远有多远，天长地久有多久，我愿意做那个陪你一起永远到天成地久的人。

54. How far is forever, and how long is eternal? I am willing to be the one who accompanies you all the way to eternity.

55. 无心计划，又不愿苟且，可问题终将是要面对。忽然发现开始珍惜每一天的生活，这不意味着离开，只是明白在快节奏的城市里，值得珍惜的不仅仅是体验和锻炼岁月缱绻，忽然让自己决定的时候又变得那么狼狈不堪。什么是自由？自由应该是照顾好自己，肆无忌惮的挥霍青春，不被其他所羁绊！心无旁骛过每天！

55. Without a deliberate plan and unwilling to compromise, problems will inevitably arise. Suddenly, I realize that I start to cherish every day of life, which doesn't mean leaving, but rather understanding that in the fast-paced city, what is worth cherishing is not only the experience and the enduring of years, but also the moment when I decide to act, which can be so clumsy and ungraceful. What is freedom? Freedom should be about taking good care of oneself, carelessly squandering one's youth, and not being constrained by others! Devoting myself to each day with no distractions!

56. 你不快乐，谁会同情你的悲伤；你不努力，谁会陪你原地停留；你不珍惜，谁会和你挥霍青春；你不执着，谁会与你共同进退；无论如何选择，只要是自己的选择，就没有对错更无须后悔，若当初有胆量去选择，就应该有勇气承担后果。所谓成长便是敢于面对真实的自己和这个残酷的世界。

56. If you are not happy, who will empathize with your sadness? If you do not strive, who will accompany you to linger in place? If you do not cherish, who will squander youth with you? If you do not persist, who will share the ups and downs with you? No matter what choices you make, as long as they are your own choices, there is no right or wrong, nor is there any need for regret. If you had the courage to make choices in the past, you should also have the courage to bear the consequences. So-called growth is to dare to face the real self and this cruel world.

57. 人生是一场独自的修行，也许你需要一份鲜活的参考和榜样。

57. Life is a solitary spiritual journey, perhaps you need a vibrant reference and role model.

58. 人静而后安，安而能后定，定而能后慧，慧而能后悟，悟而能后得。

58. People can find peace when the world is quiet, can achieve stability with peace, can attain wisdom with stability, can gain insight with wisdom, and can achieve success with insight.

59. 你要做一个不动声色的大人了。不准情绪化，不准偷偷想念，不准回头看。去过自己另外的生活。你要听话，不是所有的鱼都会生活在同一片海里。

59. You need to be a grown-up who keeps calm and composed. Don't let emotions take over, don't secretly think of me, and don't look back. Live your own separate life. You must listen to me, not all fish live in the same sea.

60. 被建模虐了一天，本想晚上好好看看男神悠闲的玩会手机，看看书，结果男神不在，只留我自己在五楼挥霍青春，不开心_，看看刚淘来的书吧，缓解一下我那逐渐开始多疑的心理。

60. After a day of being tormented by modeling, I had planned to spend the evening enjoying my男神 casually playing with his phone and reading books. However, the男神 wasn't around, leaving me alone on the fifth floor to waste my youth, which was not enjoyable at all. Let's take a look at the new books I just bought to ease my increasingly suspicious mind.

61. 有些幸福，离不开执着;有些幸福，依赖于放下。万事无绝对。年轻的心，是一张老犁，默默耕耘，只为收获。然而不是每一粒种子都会发芽。要趟过多少山山水水，你才真正明白，放下与执着都是一种追求。追求，并不意味着一往无前。水流绕石而过的睿智，兰花洁身自爱的淡泊，都是追求。想要就追，无果则放。

61. Some happiness cannot be separated from persistence; some happiness depends on letting go. There is no absolute in all things. A young heart is like an old plow, silently tilling the soil, just for the harvest. However, not every seed will germinate. How many mountains and rivers must you cross before you truly understand that both letting go and persistence are forms of pursuit. Pursuit does not mean moving forward without hesitation. The wisdom of water flowing around a stone, the moderation of orchids loving their own purity, are all forms of pursuit. Pursue what you want, let go if there is no result.

62. 最浪漫是与你相牵，最暖心是有你相伴，最想见是你的笑脸，最难忘是你的容颜。没有你的我就像迷失了航线，此生请让我与你相伴永远。

62. The most romantic is holding your hand, the warmest is having you by my side, the most wanted is your smiling face, and the most unforgettable is your beauty. Without you, I feel lost like a ship without a compass, please let me be by your side forever in this life.

63. 人生是一场修行，不为做过的事后悔，只为未做过的事遗憾。命运发给你什么牌，你就只能尽力打好它。心灰意冷的时候，请盛装打扮。

63. Life is a journey of self-improvement, not regretting the things we have done, but regretting the things we haven't done. No matter what cards fate deals you, you can only do your best to play them well. When you feel disheartened, please dress up in your finest attire.

64. 没有什么是不可治愈的伤痛，没有什么是不能结束的消沉，所有失去的人或事，都会以另外一种方式归还给你的。

64. There is no pain that cannot be healed, no melancholy that cannot end, and all that is lost to you will be returned to you in another form.

65. 得之淡然，失之坦然，让生命中的每一天都充满着阳光，洋溢着希望。做好自己，无愧于心！

65. Gain it calmly, lose it calmly, let every day of life be filled with sunshine and brimming with hope. Do your best and have no regrets in your heart!

66. 有时候，听到一首歌，会突然想起一个人。有时候，走过熟悉的街角，突然想起一个人的脸；有时候，莫名的伤感，只想一个人静静的发呆。有时候，心里有很多话要说，却不知道怎样表达，有时候，发现自己一夜之间长大，突然找不到自己，把自己丢了。善待自己，丢了的自己，只能慢慢捡回来。

66. Sometimes, hearing a song can suddenly bring someone to mind. Sometimes, walking past a familiar street corner, a face of someone suddenly comes to mind; sometimes, feeling an inexplicable sadness, one just wants to sit alone and daydream. Sometimes, there are many things one wants to say in the heart, but doesn't know how to express them. Sometimes, one finds that they have grown up overnight, suddenly can't find themselves, and have lost themselves. Treat yourself well, and the self you've lost can only be slowly picked up again.

67. 人生是一场修行，我们所走的每一步，所吃过的每一分苦，最终都会照亮我们的路。

67. Life is a journey of cultivation, and every step we take and every bit of hardship we endure will eventually illuminate our path.

68. 拉环一直喜欢易拉罐，可是易拉罐的心里装着可乐，所以每当喝完可乐，请把拉环放入易拉罐，成全拉环的爱情。

68. The pull-tab has always liked the can, but the can's heart is filled with cola. So every time you finish drinking cola, please put the pull-tab back into the can, to fulfill the love of the pull-tab.

69. 你的笑容，刻在我的心里，永远清晰;你的柔情，锁进我的骨头里，永远甜蜜;你的一切，都装进我的脑子里，永远深刻。此刻我只想对你说：亲爱的，我爱你!

69. Your smile is etched in my heart, forever clear; your tenderness is locked into my bones, forever sweet; everything about you is seared into my mind, forever profound. At this moment, all I want to say to you is: Darling, I love you!

70. 年轻的时候为了一个人去上一所学校!为了一个人去学艺术！为了无目的的理想而放弃曾经我所追求的!这就是青春，有血有泪，挥霍青春的我正在为所做的事付出更辛苦的代价愿青春无悔。

70. In my youth, I went to a school for someone! I studied art for someone! I abandoned what I once pursued for an ideal without purpose! This is youth, filled with blood and tears. The wasteful me is paying a heavier price for what I am doing, hoping that my youth will be regretless.

71. 蚂蚁在地上爬，再小的石头都是障碍。老鹰在空中飞，再高的山峰也敢尝试！有高度的人不是没有困难，由于行走的高度不一样，做人的格局也不一样！我们每天要做的是如何提升自己的高度，而不是每天讲述自己的障碍和困难。心大了，事就小了！人生是一场自我修行，只有起点，没有终点，我们必需不断超越自我，绽放美丽的人生！感恩身边的每个人

71. Ants crawl on the ground, even the tiniest stone is an obstacle. Eagles soar in the sky, they dare to attempt even the highest mountains! People of great stature are not without difficulties; their way of being is different due to the different heights they walk in! What we need to do every day is to elevate our own heights, not to constantly narrate our obstacles and difficulties. The heart grows when we let go of the small things! Life is a self-cultivation journey, with no end in sight. We must constantly surpass ourselves and bloom into a beautiful life! Gratitude to everyone around us!

72. 世界那么大，你的野心再大，它也一定装得下。

72. The world is so vast, no matter how great your ambition may be, it is definitely capable of accommodating it.

73. 相爱，就是要感恩对方的优点，容忍对方的缺点，因为爱就是坚持在一起。

73. To love is to be grateful for each other's virtues, to tolerate each other's shortcomings, because love is about sticking together.

74. 人活着没必要委屈自己去讨好任何人。做人其实很简单。只要你把我当回事，你的事就是我的事。如果你没把我当回事，你的事关我屁事。

74. There is no need to委屈 oneself to please anyone when living. Being a person is actually very simple. As long as you take me seriously, your matters are my matters. If you do not take me seriously, your matters are none of my business.

75. 各人有各人理想的乐园，有自己所乐于安享的世界，朝自己所乐于追求的方向去追求，就是你一生的道路，不必抱怨环境，也无须艳羡别人。

75. Each person has their own ideal paradise, a world they enjoy living in, and a direction they are happy to pursue. That is your path for life. There is no need to complain about your environment, nor to envy others.

76. 爱我，真的不需太多，八分就够了．少了，我会难过，说明我在你心里的分量不够，你还不够爱我；而多了，也会伤害到我，因为除了爱情，我们还需要生活和朋友，太多，会让我不知所措．爱我，只需八分，珍惜我，信任我，而我回报给你的也同样会是爱你，珍惜你，信任你！

76. Love me, truly, does not require too much; eight points are enough. If it's less, I will feel sad, which indicates that I am not as valuable to you in your heart, and you do not love me enough; yet if it's too much, it can also hurt me, because besides love, we also need life and friends. Too much can leave me at a loss. Just eight points of love are needed; cherish me, trust me, and in return, I will also love you, cherish you, and trust you!

77. 您知道我现在最想成为什么吗？我最想成为一只大鸟，好大好大的鸟，一飞就飞到您的身边。

77. Do you know what I most want to become right now? I most want to become a big bird, a very big bird, and fly right to your side.

78. 在真实生活之路的中途，我们被一缕绵长的愁绪包围，在挥霍青春的咖啡馆里，愁绪从那么多戏谑的和伤感的话语中流露出来。

78. On the path of real life, we are surrounded by a long-lasting sorrow, which reveals itself in the cafes where youth is squandered, through so many jests and melancholic words.

79. 经常对你指手画脚的人，大多不是真正关心你，他们只是想引起你的关注，显摆自己，所以，不必在乎他们对你的评价。真正关心你的人，往往是那些一直默默陪伴在你左右的人，不离不弃。

79. People who often gesture at you are usually not truly concerned about you; they merely want to draw your attention and show off. Therefore, you should not care too much about their opinions of you. Those who truly care about you are often the ones who silently accompany you, never leaving your side.

80. 守好自己的岗位，尽好自己的本分，拿好自己的工资，不羡慕别人身居高位，不哀叹自己一生平庸，不和任何人比吃比穿比住比成就，做好自己的小日子，做自己喜欢的事，见自己喜欢的人，简简单单，守心自暖。

80. Guard your own post, do your own duty, earn your own salary, do not envy others for their high positions, do not lament your own ordinary life, do not compare with anyone in terms of eating, dressing, living, or achievements. Make the most of your own little life, do what you enjoy, meet the people you like, live simply, and keep your heart warm.

81. 生活中沟，就会有坎；有挫折，就会有打击；有欣喜，就会有无奈；有成功，就会有失败。凡事淡然些，想开些，看开些，烦事自然会云开雾散，生活自然会无限美好！

81. In life, there will be valleys when there are gullies; there will be setbacks when there are frustrations; there will be helplessness when there is joy; there will be failure when there is success. With a calm attitude towards everything, being open-minded and optimistic,烦恼 naturally clears up, and life will naturally be endlessly beautiful!