在随缘自在的当下，追寻心灵的自由与最佳的体验。

In the present moment of ease and spontaneity, pursue the freedom of the soul and the best possible experience.

1. 64如果我放弃了不是因为我输了而是我懂了。

1. If I let go, it's not because I lost, but because I understood.

2. 假如你知道自己这样做并没有错的话，那么，你就继续做下去，不要理会别人会怎样地讥笑你。

2. If you are certain that what you are doing is not wrong, then continue doing so and do not pay any attention to others' sarcastic laughter.

3. 49因为我们无能为力，所以才会说顺其自然。因为我们心无所恃所以才会随遇而安。

3. 49 Because we are powerless, we say "go with the flow." Because we have nothing to rely on in our hearts, we can be content with whatever comes our way.

4. 你越是费劲心思的去取悦一个人，那个人就越有可能让你痛彻心扉。

4. The more you try to please someone with all your efforts, the more likely it is that person will hurt you deeply.

5. 和聪明人交流，和靠谱的人恋爱，和积极的人共事，和幽默的人随行。人生若能如此，就是最大的幸福。

5. Communicate with intelligent people, date those who are reliable, work with positive individuals, and travel with those who are humorous. If life could be like this, it would be the greatest happiness.

6. 24值得庆幸的是，自你走后，谁的离开我都能无所畏惧的接受。他们这些人往我心上捅的家伙，比起你当初给的那一刀来说，都太小菜一碟了。

6. 24. Fortunately, since you left, I can accept the departure of anyone without fear. The stabs they have given me to my heart are all much less severe than the first cut you gave me at the beginning.

7. 无论多难捱、寂寞、无望，你绝不可令自己变得廉价。情绪上的起伏只是暂时不适，乞讨与妥协常常是自我认知与人生价值崩坍的开始。

7. No matter how difficult it is to endure loneliness, hopelessness, you must never let yourself become cheap. Emotional ups and downs are only temporary discomforts, while begging and compromise are often the beginning of the collapse of self-perception and the value of life.

8. 人这一辈子，只要能躲过天灾，躲过人祸，不遇歹人，不生大病，就已经非常幸运了。要是还能家庭和睦，收入稳定，偶尔发点小财，三五好友，那就是天大的福泽。”

8. In a person's lifetime, if one can avoid natural disasters, avoid man-made calamities, not encounter evil people, and not suffer from serious illnesses, one is already very fortunate. If one can also enjoy a harmonious family life, stable income, occasionally make a little money, and have a few close friends, that is a great blessing indeed.

9. 避开无事时过分热络的友谊，这使我少些负担和承诺。我不多说无谓的闲言，这使我觉得清畅。我尽可能不去缅怀往事，因为来时的路不可能回头。任何一个双手插在口袋里的人，都爬不上成功的梯子。给人留下一个实在的形象，给自己的成功就增添一份夯实的基础。

9. Avoid overly friendly relationships during idle times, as this reduces my burden and commitments. I don't indulge in idle chatter, which makes me feel refreshing. I try not to dwell on past events, because the path taken cannot be retraced. Anyone who keeps their hands in their pockets cannot climb the ladder to success. Leave a solid impression on others, and you'll lay a firm foundation for your own success.

10. 记忆总是这个样子，在不该回忆处触碰了你的泪腺。体无完肤的爱和恨，肆虐了灵魂，感染了心肺。

10. Memory is always like this, touching your tear glands where it shouldn't. The love and hate that are unscathed, have raged through the soul, infecting the heart and lungs.

11. 47所谓看开、所谓乐观，所谓的顺其自然……其实说到底无非就是：给我死了这条心吧!

11. So-called "letting go," so-called "optimism," so-called "going with the flow"… In the end, it all boils down to: Give up this thought of mine!

12. 人生没有一定要实现的梦想，没有必须要抵达的远方。不管你多牛，多厉害，多了不起，还是你多怂，多软弱，多被人看不起，最后的结局都是一捧黄土，在死亡面前丧失了一切意义。生命只是一种感受，得失成败都只是一种感受，我们要在自己的能力范围之内，我感受一些生动的，精彩的，美好的，快乐的东西，放弃一切让自己感到痛苦的执念。

12. There is no dream in life that must be fulfilled, no distant place that one must reach. No matter how great or powerful or extraordinary you are, or how weak or timid or looked down upon by others, the ultimate outcome is a heap of dust, where everything is lost in the face of death. Life is merely an experience, and gain or loss, success or failure are all just experiences. Within the scope of our abilities, we should seek to experience the vivid, exciting, beautiful, and joyful things, and abandon all attachments that bring us pain.

13. 与其逃避现实，不如笑对人生。即使输掉了一切，也不要输掉微笑，微笑是缓解寂寞孤独的良治疗药，任何治愈心灵的病痛，都离不开一个诚恳的微笑，自己不喜欢的人，可以报之以沉默微笑；自己喜欢的人，那就随便怎么样了，由于你的喜爱会挡也挡不住地流露出来。

13. Rather than escaping from reality, it's better to face life with a smile. Even if you lose everything, don't lose your smile. A smile is a good medicine to alleviate loneliness and solitude. Any cure for the pain of the soul cannot do without a sincere smile. To those you don't like, you can offer a silent smile; to those you do like, well, there's no need to worry, as your affection will naturally overflow despite any attempts to contain it.

14. 35顺其自然，其实就是没有选择的选择，当你选择顺其自然的时候，你已经把事情的决定权让给了别人。

14. "35 Go with the flow" is essentially a choice without a choice. When you choose to go with the flow, you have already entrusted the decision-making power of the matter to others.

15. 38时间带走一切,长年累月会把你的名字、外貌、性格、命运都改变。

15. Time takes away everything; after many years, it will change your name, appearance, personality, and destiny.

16. 背叛过你的人就是掉地上的肉，不吃觉得可惜，吃了嫌恶心。但是肉还会再有，吃下去的恶心却永远都吐不出来。最好的办法是捡都别捡。

16. The person who betrayed you is like meat that has fallen to the ground. Not eating it feels like a waste, but eating it makes you feel sick. However, the meat will come again, but the nausea from eating it will never come out. The best approach is to not pick it up at all.

17. 34缘起缘灭顺其自然;爱与不爱顺其自然;不要去强求什么就让其随风而来随风而去。

17. Origin and extinction follow their natural course; love and non-love follow their natural course; do not strive for anything and let it come and go with the wind.

18. 67很多事好像都被向前推动着，没有佛系心态确实不行。虽然有时人间不值得，但你值得啊。

18. 67 Many things seem to be pushing forward, and having a Zen-like attitude is indeed a must. Although sometimes life on earth is not worth it, you are.

19. 61人间不值得，看看男朋友怀胎八月的肚子啥气也没有了，要和喜欢的人吃很多很多饭。

19. Life isn't worth it for 61 people, but when you see your boyfriend's belly that's pregnant for eight months, all the frustration disappears. You just want to eat a lot and a lot of meals with the person you like.

20. 16当疾病靠近，没有什么比健康更重要！当死亡靠近，没有什么比活着更重要！真正靠近死亡便能理解，所有的一切都不值得计较！一路走好。大姨夫。

20. When illness is approaching, nothing is more important than health! When death is approaching, nothing is more important than being alive! Only when you truly face death can you understand that everything is not worth计较! May you travel well. Uncle.

21. 漂亮的脸孔是给别人看的，而有智慧的头脑才是给自己利用的。

21. A beautiful face is for others to see, but a wise mind is for oneself to utilize.

22. 44在北京的日子太累，我想自自由由地放空几天，人间太累，不值得。

22. The days in Beijing were too tiring, I want to have a few days of freedom to unwind. The world is too tiring and not worth it.

23. 56真的佩服心态好，能够顺其自然工作恋爱开开心心度过每一天的人，真的很优秀。我做不到，日常人间不值得。

23. I truly admire those with a good attitude, who can work and love naturally, and happily spend each day. They are truly outstanding. I can't do that; everyday life in the world is not worth it.

24. 要始终保持敬畏之心，对阳光，对美，对痛楚。

24. Always maintain a sense of awe, towards the sun, towards beauty, towards pain.

25. 72活在当下，别在怀念过去或者憧憬未来中浪费掉你现在的生活。

25. Live in the present moment; don't waste your current life by reminiscing about the past or longing for the future.

26. 75只要持续地努力，不懈地奋斗，就没有征服不了的东西。

26. 75 As long as one continues to strive diligently and persistently, there is nothing that cannot be conquered.

27. 25我爱你，一切顺其自然，不管你是否相信爱情。

27. I love you, let things take their course naturally, whether or not you believe in love.

28. 一段非常通透的话：

28. A very transparent statement:

29. 52生活为其最难的，无非就八个字：顺其自然，随遇而安。体会人生百味，尝遍世间的酸甜苦辣。

29. The most difficult thing for 52 Life is simply eight characters: go with the flow, be content with what comes. Experience the myriad flavors of life, taste the sweetness, sourness, bitterness, and spiciness of the world.

30. 如果你并不是很想结婚，而且一定要等待爱情，那你内心要足够强大，要做好终身独身的准备，因为爱情发生的几率并不太高。李银河

30. If you're not very keen on getting married and are determined to wait for love, you need to be emotionally strong and be prepared for lifelong singleness, as the probability of love occurring is not very high. — Li Heping

31. 30有没有这么一个人，你无数次说的要放弃，但终究还是舍不得。

31. Is there someone who, despite you saying countless times that you want to give up, you still can't bear to let go.

32. 50我要戒掉一打开手机就各种寻找关于你的习惯

32. 50 I want to break the habit of searching for everything about you as soon as I open my phone.

33. 感情有时候只是一个人的事情。和任何人无关。爱，或者不爱，只能自行了断。

33. Sometimes, emotions are just a matter of one person and have nothing to do with anyone else. Whether to love or not to love, it is up to oneself to decide.

34. 54每次想找个人陪的时候，就发现有的人不能找，有的人不该找，还有的人找不到。

34. Every time I want to find someone to accompany me, I find that some people can't be found, some people shouldn't be found, and some people can't be found.

35. 14是个很没有安全感的人，只有自己会永远爱自己，开心点，人间不值得。

35. 14 is a very insecure person, the only one who will always love themselves. Be happy, this world is not worth it.

36. 68是个很没有安全感的人，只有自己会永远爱自己，开心点，人间不值得。

36. 68 is a very insecure person. Only oneself will always love oneself. Be happy, this world is not worth it.

37. 60这是最后一次为你流眼泪，向曾经的自己道歉，对不起让你受委屈了，一切都不值得，不再折磨自己、作贱自己、不好好爱自己，从现在起不再犯傻，一切重新来过，我可以的！

37. This is the last time I'll cry for you, apologize to the past version of myself, sorry for letting you suffer, everything is not worth it. From now on, I will no longer torment myself, degrade myself, or not take good care of myself. I will no longer be foolish, and everything will start anew. I can do it!

38. 你不得不走在那漫长幽暗的人生隧道里，隧道里回响着奇怪的声音，那些讨厌的人们的嘲笑声、喜欢的人们的欢笑声。你很冷，甚至想蹲下来大哭一场。哭完继续向前走，却不知道哪里是尽头。相信我，每个人或早或晚都要经历这样的孤独，在黑暗中久久徘徊，自我怀疑，不知所措，唯一有温度的是自己的眼泪。

38. You have to walk through that long, dark tunnel of life, where strange sounds echo, the mocking laughter of the讨厌 people, and the joyful laughter of the liked ones. You feel so cold that you even want to crouch down and cry your eyes out. After crying, you continue to walk forward, but you don't know where the end is. Believe me, everyone will experience such loneliness sooner or later, wandering in the darkness for a long time, doubting oneself, feeling lost, and the only thing with warmth is one's own tears.

39. 事在人为是一种积极的人生态度。如果人生只是一场梦，那么我们就能掌握自身的命运，而不是天定。如果人生只是一场梦，开始亦就是结束。只要其自身真的对应有的付出一切，那么最终的得与失何须看的那么重要。醒来亦是消散。

39. "Matters are in the hands of man" is a positive attitude towards life. If life is just a dream, then we can master our own destiny, not predetermined by fate. If life is just a dream, then the beginning is also the end. As long as one truly gives everything that is due, what is the need to place such importance on the ultimate gains and losses? Awakening is also dispersal.

40. 每个人都必须承认：很想念以前的样子，但是同时，你也必须接受了一切变了这个事实。

40. Everyone must admit: There is a longing for the old days, but at the same time, you also have to accept the fact that everything has changed.

41. 28不怕黑不怕冷不怕路远马亡只怕虚度了韶光枉费了年华

41. 28 Fear not the darkness, nor the cold, nor the distant road where the horse may fall, but fear the waste of youthful years and the squandering of one's prime.

42. 15我们的聊天记录，都是我厚颜无耻的问候。

42. 15 of our chat records are all my shameless greetings.

43. 35好像每次都是这样，没有例外。在我们最需要有一个人去依靠的时候，往往到最后都是自己一个人挺过去。

43. It seems like this is always the case, with no exceptions. When we most need someone to rely on, it often ends up that we have to go through it all alone.

44. 74有时候，坚持了你最不想干的事情之后，便可得到你最想要的东西。

44. Sometimes, after persisting in doing the thing you least want to, you can obtain what you most desire.

45. 爱，就是比谁更心软。在这一项面前，其他一切条件都注定是附属配件。真挚的感情，唯有在柔软的地方才可茂密生长。若遇上一个人，每遇争执总是比你心软。那么，这就是爱你的人。

45. Love is about who is softer-hearted. In this aspect, all other conditions are destined to be auxiliary accessories. Genuine feelings can only thrive in the soft places. If you meet someone who is always softer-hearted than you in disputes, then that person is the one who loves you.

46. 由于助人而受亲爱，由于柔和而有魅力，由于温和而为人所偏爱，由于有一切德而受尊重。

46. Beloved for helping others, charming for gentleness, favored for mildness, and respected for all virtues.

47. 33每个人都有自己的无奈，既然无力改变，那就顺其自然吧。

47. 33 Everyone has their own helplessness. Since we are unable to change it, let's just go with the flow.

48. 女孩子若对你宽宏大量，落落大方，那就是表示喜欢得你不够。亦舒

48. If a girl is generous and unassuming with you, it means she doesn't like you enough. — Eileen Chang