在追求独立、自强与自勉的道路上，我们如同攀登高峰的旅人，每一步都踏实地向着心中的理想迈进。在这条充满挑战与机遇的旅途中，我们不断修炼内心，磨砺意志，只为成就那个更好的自己。

On the path of pursuing independence, self-reliance, and self-encouragement, we are like travelers climbing to the peak, taking each step firmly towards the ideal in our hearts. On this journey brimming with challenges and opportunities, we continuously cultivate our inner selves, temper our willpower, all for the sake of becoming that better version of ourselves.

1. “苦的时候，没有人来哄我，我学会了坚强；怕的时候，没有人来陪我，我学会了勇敢；烦的时候，没有人来关心我，我学会了承受；累的时候，没有人可以依靠，我学会自强自立。

1. "When I was in pain, no one came to comfort me, so I learned to be strong; when I was afraid, no one was there to accompany me, so I learned to be brave; when I was troubled, no one cared for me, so I learned to endure; when I was tired, no one to rely on, so I learned to be self-reliant."

2. 在你获得成就的时候，不要指望别人赞美你，没有嫉妒就不错了。在你悲观失落的时候，不要指望别人共情你，不落井下石就不错了。

2. When you achieve something, don't expect others to praise you; not being envious is already good enough. When you are pessimistic and feel disheartened, don't expect others to empathize with you; not to stab you in the back is already quite good.

3. 就这样我找到了自己，原来我也很优秀，更可贵的是，世界上，我只有一个，只有一个这样的我。”

3. That's how I found myself, and I realized that I am also very outstanding. More valuable is that in the world, there is only one me, just one such as me."

4. 别人不会替你承受低谷和痛苦，也不会无缘无故帮助你，一个人最了不起的修行，就是放下对任何人的任何期待，依靠自己得到想要的精彩。

4. Others will not bear your lows and pain for you, nor will they help you without a reason. The most remarkable cultivation for an individual is to let go of any expectations for anyone, and rely on yourself to achieve the wonderful things you desire.

5. 我们追求的一切，在乎的一切，计较的一切，纠结的一切，最后都是一场空。所得所不得，不如心安理得；所愿所不愿，不如心甘情愿。

5. All that we pursue, all that we care about, all that we grudge, and all that we are entangled with, in the end, turn out to be empty. Whether we get what we want or not, it's better to be at peace with what is; whether we wish for something or not, it's better to be willing from the heart.

6. 不去想是否能够成功，既然选择了远方，便只顾风雨兼程；不去想是否能够赢得爱情，既然钟情于玫瑰，便勇敢的吐露忠诚；不去想身后是否会袭来寒潮冷雨，既然目标是遥远的地平线，留给世界的只能是背影。

6. Do not ponder over whether you will succeed, since you have chosen the distant horizon, you should only be concerned about braving the storms and journeying on; do not worry about whether you can win love, since you are smitten with the rose, you should boldly express your loyalty; do not worry about whether a cold wind and rain will come from behind, since the goal is the distant horizon, what you leave behind for the world can only be your silhouette.

7. 世界的本质就是欺软怕硬，当你弱小的时候，即便温顺得像只猫，别人都会嫌你掉毛。当你强大的时候，别人就会对你和颜悦色，甚至全世界都会给你让路。

7. The essence of the world is to bully the weak and fear the strong. When you are weak, even if you are as docile as a cat, others will still complain about your shedding fur. When you are strong, others will treat you with a friendly demeanor, and even the whole world will make way for you.

8. 人生就是百年孤独。

8. Life is but a hundred years of solitude.

9. 世界不是一马平川，人生不会一帆风顺。我们总会遇见各种各样的挫折，遭受一些委屈和痛苦，但我们一定不能放弃，不能气馁，不能懈怠，撸起袖子加油干，咬紧牙关往前走，以愚公移山的斗志，精卫填海的决心，滴水穿石的毅力，走出生活的荆棘迷雾，面朝大海，春暖花开。

9. The world is not a smooth plain, and life will not always be smooth sailing. We will always encounter various setbacks, suffer some injustices and pain, but we must never give up, never be discouraged, never be complacent. Roll up our sleeves and work hard, bite the bullet and move forward, with the determination of Yu Gong moving a mountain, the resolution of Jingwei filling the sea, and the perseverance of water dripping through stone, to walk through the thorny fog of life, facing the sea, where spring is warm and flowers are blooming.

10. 人性的弱点就是，嫌你穷，怕你富，恨你有，笑你无。你无论成为什么样子，别人都不会感到满意。无论任何时候，都不能把希望寄托在别人身上，凡事靠自己，一切依赖自己，如鱼饮水，冷暖自知。

10. The weakness of human nature is that people disdain you for being poor, fear you for being rich, hate you for having, and laugh at you for having nothing. No matter what kind of person you become, others will never be satisfied. At any time, you cannot place your hopes on others; rely on yourself for everything. Like a fish drinking water, you know its cold and warmth by yourself.

11. 非常有力量的一段话：

11. A very powerful statement:

12. ​我们不得不承认，时间改变了很多人，甚至很多事。时间会治愈悲伤，也会沉淀过往，会释怀别人，也会认清自己。

12. We have to admit that time has changed many people, even many things. Time can heal sorrow, settle the past, let go of others, and also understand oneself.

13. 所有的喜怒哀乐，酸甜苦辣，要由自己承担。美好的生活，要由自己的力量去争取。

13. All joys and sorrows, sweet and sour, bitter and spicy, must be borne by oneself. A good life must be pursued with one's own strength.

14. 所有的治愈，都是自愈。很多事情，当时心不甘，情不愿，恨不满，意难平，多年之后蓦然回首，不过是随手拂过的尘埃。

14. All healing is self-healing. Many things, at the time, are done with a reluctant heart, a disinclined sentiment, resentment, and a difficult-to-settle grudge. Years later, looking back all of a sudden, they are but dust that was casually brushed aside.

15. 生命是一条孤独的河流，只有自己才是人生的摆渡人。自立，自强，自愈，我们才能成为更好的人。

15. Life is an isolated river, and only you are the ferryman of your own life. By being independent, self-reliant, and self-healing, we can become better individuals.

16. ​人，确实经历一些事之后，我们悄悄的换了一种性格，久而久之，我们终会磨平棱角，学会与生活的一切，慢慢达成和解。”

16. Indeed, after experiencing certain things, we quietly change our personality. Over time, we will eventually smooth out our sharp edges and learn to slowly reconcile with everything in life.

17. 天行健，君子以自强不息，地势坤，君子以厚德载物。

17. The heavens are firm and unyielding; the noble man constantly strives to perfect himself. The earth is expansive and nurturing; the noble man carries with him a profound virtue.

18. 非常喜欢的一段话：“生活就是这样，你有你的困难，我有我的烦恼，各有各的辛酸。时间在走，年龄在增长，懂得多了，看得透了，快乐也随之减少。

18. A very likable passage: "Life is like this, you have your difficulties, I have my troubles, and each has our own sorrows. Time goes on, and age increases; the more we understand, the more we see through, and happiness diminishes accordingly.