探寻自我成长之路：自强不息，专注提升，成就卓越，逐梦前行。

Seeking the Path of Self-Growth: Perseverance, focus on self-improvement, achieve excellence, and pursue dreams with determination.

1. 各人自扫门前雪，莫管他人瓦上霜。别人的事和你无关，老天的事和你无关，你只用关起门来过自己的小日子，为自己的梦想而奋斗，为自己的生活而努力，为自己的家庭而负责。

1. Each person should clear the snow in front of their own door, and not worry about the frost on others' tiles. Other people's matters have nothing to do with you, and neither do the affairs of heaven. You only need to close your door and live your own little life, fight for your dreams, strive for your own life, and be responsible for your own family.

2. 人性的一个弱点就是欺软怕硬，大家遇见一只蚂蚁，总会下意识的踩上一脚，哪怕那只蚂蚁并没有招你惹你。如果你遇上一只老虎，你会远远躲开，如果是一只人工驯养的温驯的老虎，你会走过去表示亲密。如果我们在生活中碰见一个弱小的人，就会向他发泄情绪，让他给自己跑腿打杂，不允许他对自己发脾气。如果我们碰见一个强大的人，就会客气礼貌，甚至逢迎巴结，想沾他的光。

2. One of the weaknesses of human nature is the tendency to欺负弱者，怕强者. When people encounter an ant, they often subconsciously step on it, even though the ant has not bothered them. If you come across a tiger, you would instinctively keep a safe distance. If it's a tamed tiger, you would approach it to show affection. If we meet a weak person in life, we tend to vent our emotions on them, make them do errands and chores for us, and not allow them to show any anger towards us. When we encounter a strong person, we become polite and respectful, even flatter and fawn over them, hoping to benefit from their presence.

3. 人类的悲欢并不相同，你的喜悦和成绩，在别人看来，不过是一种炫耀，你的伤痛和委屈，在别人看来，不过是一种矫情。

3. The joys and sorrows of humans are not the same. Your happiness and achievements may seem like mere showmanship to others, while your pain and grievances may be perceived as mere melodrama.

4. 熬不住的时候，都想找个靠山靠一下，可怎么找都会发现，有的山长满荆棘，有的山全是野兽，所以你应该是自己的那座山。

4. When you can't bear it anymore, you all want to find a mountain to lean on, but no matter how you look for one, you will find that some mountains are covered with thorns, and some are full of beasts, so you should be your own mountain.

5. 我们曾如此渴望命运的波澜，后来才发现，人生最美丽的风景，是内心的从容不迫。我们曾如此期待别人的认可，后来才发现，世界只属于自己的感受，不属于其他任何人的看法。

5. We once longed so eagerly for the ups and downs of fate, but later we discovered that the most beautiful scenery in life is the composed calmness within. We once so eagerly awaited others' approval, but later we realized that the world only belongs to our own feelings, not to anyone else's opinions.

6. 你现在遭受的一切欺负，侮辱，委屈，不公平，根本原因只有一个——你不强大。

6. The root cause of all the bullying, humiliation, injustice, and unfairness you are now suffering is one and only—your lack of strength.

7. 所以我们要想生活的更好，强大自己才是唯一的出路。所有的成功背后都是苦行僧一样的自律，全力以赴的去奋斗，一步一个脚印的去行走，既然选择了远方，便只顾风雨兼程，目标是遥远的地平线，留给世界的就只能是背影。

7. Therefore, if we want to live better, the only way is to strengthen ourselves. Behind all success lies the ascetic discipline of self-discipline, to fight with all our might, to walk step by step, since we have chosen the distant horizon, we can only focus on the journey amidst winds and rains. The goal is the distant horizon, and what remains for the world is only our silhouette.

8. 最棒的活法，就是依靠自己，聚焦自己，强大自己。

8. The best way to live is to rely on oneself, focus on oneself, and become stronger.

9. 不要对任何人抱有任何形式的幻想和指望，没有人会无缘无故的帮助你，尤其是当你身处低谷，对别人没有利用价值的时候，一定是叫天天不应，叫地地不灵，如果不能依靠自己的力量站起来，注定只能彻底沉沦，万劫不复。

9. Do not have any illusions or expectations of anyone in any form. No one will help you for no reason, especially when you are at your lowest point and have no value to others. It will be a case of calling to heaven and getting no response, calling to the earth and getting no response. If you cannot rely on your own strength to stand up, you are doomed to sink completely and never recover.

10. 生命是一条孤独的河流，只有自己才是人生的摆渡人。

10. Life is a solitary river, and only oneself can be the ferryman of one's life.

11. 依靠自己，聚焦自己，强大自己！

11. Rely on yourself, focus on yourself, and become stronger!

12. 不要关注任何人的动态，不要揣测任何人的想法，不要去管任何人的生活里发生了什么，别人的生活和你毫无关系，不值得你浪费时间和精力去折腾，只用把所有的能量都聚焦在自己的生命之中，全力以赴提升自己，取悦自己，成全自己，让自己活的越来越好，才是最智慧的活法。

12. Do not pay attention to anyone's activities, do not guess anyone's thoughts, and do not interfere with what happens in anyone's life. Other people's lives have nothing to do with you, and it is not worth wasting your time and energy to bother about them. Instead, focus all your energy on your own life, give your all to improve yourself, please yourself, fulfill yourself, and live a better life. This is the wisest way to live.

13. 一段非常深刻的话：“依赖任何人都是在自杀，你一定要明白，大树底下无大草，能为你遮风挡雨，同样也会让你不见天日。

13. A very profound statement: "Relying on anyone is like committing suicide. You must understand that under the big tree, there is no big grass. While it can shield you from the wind and rain, it can also prevent you from seeing the sun."

14. 人情似纸张张薄，世事如棋局局新。

14. Human emotions are as thin as sheets of paper, and the world's affairs are as new as a chess game each time.

15. 努力是很难，但永远要记住，人生实苦，唯有自渡，如果不努力，就会一直很难，没有谁的幸运是凭空而来的，所谓的好运，不过是机会刚好遇到努力的你。”

15. Striving is hard, but always remember that life is indeed bitter, and only you can save yourself. If you don't strive, it will always be difficult. No one's luck comes from nowhere, and so-called good luck is just an opportunity that happens to meet the striving you.