逆境中，以善心为灯，顺境下，以宁静为舟。在这波澜壮阔的人生旅途中，让我们携手共渡，探寻内心的平和与美好。

In adversity, let kindness be our guiding light, and in prosperity, let tranquility be our vessel. On this grand journey of life, let us join hands and navigate together, seeking inner peace and beauty.

1. 许多的错与失，都是因为不努力，不坚持，不挽留。然后你就告诉自己一切都是命运。一辈子的爱，不是一场轰轰烈烈的爱情，也不是什么承诺和誓言。而是当所有人都离弃你的时候，只有他在默默陪伴着你。当所有人都在赞赏你的时候，只有他牵着你的手，嘴角上扬，仿佛骄傲的说，我早知道。

1. Many mistakes and losses are due to not trying hard enough, not persisting, and not holding on. Then you tell yourself that everything is fate. A lifetime of love is not a passionate romance, nor is it any promises or vows. It is when everyone leaves you, that he is the only one silently accompanying you. When everyone is praising you, it is only he who holds your hand, a smile on his lips, as if proudly saying, "I knew it all along."

2. 事物是辩证的，当你得到一些东西时，同时也会让你失去另一些东西;当你失去一些东西时，同时也会让你得到一些东西。

2. Things are dialectical; when you gain something, you also lose something else; when you lose something, you also gain something else.

3. 你的结局只有一个——不存在！

3. Your ending is only one - it does not exist!

4. 世界上没有什么过不去，只有自己和自己过不去。很多时候，回过头来看看这些让自己苦不堪言的郁闷、忧愁、纠结、焦虑，其实都是自己和自己在较劲。该来的总要来，该过去的总会过去，苦也是一天，乐也是一天。何必呢放过自己，其实也是一种放生。

4. There is nothing in the world that cannot be overcome; it's just that sometimes we struggle with ourselves. Often, when looking back at those bitter moments of frustration, sorrow, confusion, and anxiety, it turns out that we are just competing with ourselves. What is destined to happen will happen, and what needs to pass will pass. Whether it's suffering or joy, it's still a day. Why not let go of ourselves? In fact, it's also a form of liberation.

5. 得失如云烟，转眼风吹散。人生百年，转眼成空。生不带来，死不带去。一切邂逅，悲喜皆由心定。看得透，放得开，则一切如镜中花，水中月，虽然赏心悦目，却非永恒。不如开开心心，坦坦荡荡，不让自己在悲伤中度过，别让自己在徘徊中漫步，随缘起止，一切以开心为准则。人生一场，不过活一回心境。

5. Gain and loss are like mist and smoke, blown away in a blink of an eye. A lifetime of a hundred years, turns into emptiness in a moment. Not brought with birth, not taken with death. All encounters, joy and sorrow, are determined by the heart. If one can see through and let go, everything will be like flowers in a mirror, a moon in the water, though pleasing to the eyes, they are not eternal. It's better to be cheerful and honest, not letting oneself spend time in sadness, not letting oneself wander aimlessly, following fate's lead, making happiness the criterion for everything. In this life, it's just an experience of the mind.

6. 放不下，走不开，为难的那只是自己，捆绑的也只是自己，而对你等待的那个人来说，却是无关痛痒，毫无瓜葛。在有的时候，就去放手了，若你画地为牢，在错过朝阳之后，又将是会错过满天繁星。

6. It's only yourself who is troubled by not being able to let go and stay away, and it's only yourself who is bound by it. To the person you are waiting for, it is all trivial and unrelated. Sometimes, it's time to let go. If you create a prison for yourself, after missing the sunrise, you will also miss the entire sky full of stars.

7. 做自己的决定，然后准备好承担后果;不要随意发脾气，谁都不欠你的;你没那么多观众，别那么累;过去的事情可以不忘记，但一定要放下;别人说的记在脑袋里，而自己的，则放在心里;你永远没有你自己想象中那么重要;钱能解决的问题统统不叫问题;找点时间，单独呆会儿。

7. Make your own decisions and be prepared to take the consequences; don't lose your temper at will, no one owes you anything; you don't have that many spectators, don't be so exhausted; you can choose not to forget the past, but you must let it go; remember what others say in your head, but keep your own thoughts in your heart; you are never as important as you imagine yourself to be; anything that money can solve is not a real problem; find some time to be alone by yourself.

8. 要留住青春，最好的办法就是永葆年轻心态;要留住健康，最好的办法就是坚持锻炼身体;要保持快乐心情，最好的办法就是助人为乐;要保证不犯错，最好的办法是三思而后行。

8. The best way to retain youth is to maintain a youthful mindset; the best way to keep healthy is to keep exercising; the best way to maintain a happy mood is to take pleasure in helping others; and the best way to ensure not making mistakes is to think twice before acting.

9. 好好吃饭，好好睡觉，好好挣钱，好好花钱。不为不值得的人生气，不为不值得的事失眠。既然活着就好好活着，每分钟都为自己活着。

9. Eat well, sleep well, make money well, and spend money well. Do not get angry over things that are not worth it, and do not lose sleep over things that are not worth it. Since life is being lived, live it well. Make every minute count for yourself.

10. 一个对你不好的人，你一定要学会放下，不要为他的任何事情，任何言行而痛苦。你要想，如果他爱你，一定不忍心对你不好，所以结论就是，他不够爱你，或者他根本不爱你，对于一个不爱你的人，有什么必要为他烦恼，为他伤心呢，就是个路人甲罢了。

10. If someone is not good to you, you must learn to let go and not be in pain for any of his actions or words. You should think, if he truly loved you, he wouldn't want to be bad to you. So the conclusion is, he doesn't love you enough, or he may not love you at all. What's the point of worrying or feeling sad for someone who doesn't love you? They're just like a passerby.

11. 时间在变，人也在变。背不动的，要放下;伤不起的，要看淡;想不通的，可以不想;恨不过的，要抚平。人生，就是一个修炼的过程，何必用这一颗不平的心看待人和事，作践了自己，辜负了岁月。

11. Time changes, and so do people. That which you cannot carry, let go of; that which you cannot bear, learn to take lightly; that which you cannot comprehend, let it not occupy your thoughts; that which you cannot forgive, learn to smooth over. Life is a process of cultivation; why should you view people and things with an unyielding heart, mistreat yourself, and squander the years?

12. 有些人事，看不清会纠结，看清了会心痛。人生如一粒尘埃，表面是自己做主宰，实际上却被天地、人道主宰着。很多人事的变迁，你无法左右，只能随缘。要想活得快乐，要学会清醒地做事，糊涂地做人。本来就没有完美，什么都看清了，污点也昭然了。优点越多，污点越显得刺眼。活得太认真，所以很痛苦。

12. There are some matters in life that cause distress when they are unclear, and heartache when they are fully understood. Life is like a grain of dust, on the surface it seems that we are in control, but in reality, we are governed by the heavens, the earth, and human nature. Many changes in life are beyond our control, and we can only go with the flow. To live a happy life, one must learn to do things with clarity and be a person with a sense of confusion. Perfection does not exist; if everything is seen clearly, the flaws become evident. The more virtues there are, the more glaring the flaws become. Living with too much seriousness leads to great suffering.

13. 一个人越成长越觉得很多东西不必看得太重，比如外界对你的期望，比如无关紧要的人对你喜欢与否。过分看重就会让你迷失自我。为了讨好别人，踮着脚尖改来改去，而被别人绑架了人生。一路走下来，才明白真正的魅力不是你应该变成谁，而是你本身是谁。人的第一天职是什么答案很简单：做自己。

13. As one grows older, one increasingly realizes that many things do not need to be taken too seriously, such as others' expectations of you, or the likes and dislikes of those who are not important. Over-valuing these things can lead you to lose yourself. To please others, you tiptoe and change yourself, only to be hijacked by others' lives. Only after walking through life do you understand that the true charm is not who you should become, but who you are. The answer to what is the first duty of a human being is simple: be yourself.

14. 有时候莫名的心情不好，不想和任何人说话，只想一个人静静的发呆;有时候突然觉得心情烦躁，看什么都觉得不舒服，心里闷的发慌，拼命想寻找一个出口;有时候感觉自己与世界格格不入，曾经一直坚持的东西一夜间面目全非;有时候别人突然对你说，我觉得你变了，然后自己开始百感交集。

14. Sometimes, for no apparent reason, I feel down and don't want to talk to anyone; I just want to sit alone and daydream; sometimes I suddenly feel restless, and everything seems uncomfortable, feeling suffocated, frantically looking for an outlet; sometimes I feel out of place in the world, and the things I have always stood by are transformed beyond recognition overnight; sometimes someone suddenly tells you, "I think you've changed," and then you're left with a mix of emotions.

15. 人生万般皆由心起。人，因为看见而心生念想，得之则喜，不得则忧。小的愿望之后往往是越来越大的愿望，因为不知足。于是，越来越大的痛苦也伴随而来。知足者常乐，人生不过随心而起，随缘而息罢了。心灵保持宁静，人的生活才能纳入条理。

15. All things in life arise from the heart. People have desires in their hearts because they see, and they are happy if they get what they desire, and they worry if they do not. After small desires, there are often larger ones, due to the lack of satisfaction. Thus, larger and larger sufferings come along. The satisfied are always joyful; life is merely a matter of following one's heart in its rise and its rest by circumstances. Only when the mind is at peace can a person's life be organized and orderly.

16. 生气不如争气。愚蠢的人只会生气，聪明的人懂得去争取。人生中，处处皆有气，事事都有气。没有气的人生，那不是生活，是幻想中的乌托邦。人生不如意之事十有八九，学着莫生气，就是人生的另一个境界。生气，伤身又伤心，伤人又伤己。学着不生气、少生气，是一种成熟，也是一种智慧。

16. It's better to strive for success than to be angry. Foolish people only get angry, while wise people know to fight for it. In life, there is always something to be angry about, and every matter has its own grievances. A life without anger is not life; it's a Utopia in imagination. In life, there are more than 90% of things that are not as one wishes. Learning not to be angry is another level of life. Getting angry harms both the body and the heart, and it harms both others and oneself. Learning not to be angry or to be less angry is a sign of maturity and wisdom.

17. 别活得太累。应该学着想开、看开、看惯、看淡，学着不强求，学着深藏，学着随缘，适时地放松自己，寻找宣泄的方法，给疲惫的心灵解解压。人之所以会烦恼，就是记性太好，记住了那些不该记住的东西。忘记令你悲伤的事，忘记就是放下，放下就是轻松，就是解脱，要记住只记住那些快乐的事开心的事。

17. Don't live too tired. You should learn to be open-minded, relaxed, accustomed, and indifferent. Learn not to demand too much, learn to keep things hidden, learn to go with the flow, and relax yourself at the right time. Find ways to vent your emotions and relieve the pressure on your weary soul. People get troubled because they have a good memory, remembering things that shouldn't be remembered. Forgetting what makes you sad is letting go. Letting go means being relaxed and free. Remember to only remember the happy and joyful things.

18. 能够拥有一份美丽的心情，不是因为我们获得的颇多，而是我们计较的很少;我们深深懂得，多，有时也是一种负担，是另外一种失去;少，并非真正不足，而是一种隐形的有余。很多的时候，我们审时度势，选择了舍弃，学会舍弃并不意味着全然失去，而是一种更宽阔更博大的获得!

18. The ability to maintain a beautiful mood is not because we have gained much, but because we are not overly concerned about losing. We deeply understand that having more can sometimes be a burden, another form of loss; having less is not truly lacking, but rather a hidden form of abundance. Many times, we assess the situation and choose to let go. Learning to let go does not mean we have completely lost, but rather it signifies a broader and more generous acquisition!

19. 有时候，当我们觉得不快乐，不幸福了，也许是因为追求的不是幸福，而是比别人幸福所以，偶尔停下忙乱的步伐，好好看看身边，珍惜点点滴滴! 人生路其实不长，享受所拥有的一切快乐吧，让自己、幸福下去每天都要对自己说，今天、也要快乐的过!早安~

19. Sometimes, when we feel unhappy and not blessed, it may be because we are not chasing happiness, but rather the feeling of being happier than others. Therefore, it is good to occasionally stop and take a moment to look around, cherishing every little thing! The road in life is actually not very long, so enjoy all the joys you have. Let yourself continue to be happy every day! Tell yourself today that you will also be happy! Good morning!

20. 我们已于昨天过去了，只要过好今天，明天自然美丽。放弃可以说是件痛苦的事，因为对生活寄予太多的渴望，对未来秉持长久的梦想，许多东西不能割舍。但是，生活有时是低谷，深渊，过多的负重，可能加速坠落，带来精神的不堪。

20. We have passed through yesterday, and as long as we live well today, tomorrow will naturally be beautiful. Giving up can be a painful thing, because we have so many desires for life and long-held dreams for the future, and many things are hard to let go of. However, life can sometimes be in a valley, a abyss, with too much burden, which may accelerate a fall and bring spiritual hardship.

21. 要想走进一个女人的心里，光有喜欢和爱是不够的，你必须要懂她：要懂她逞强里的柔弱，给她精神上的支撑;要懂她快乐里的忧伤，给她心灵上的呵护;要懂她的蛮横不讲理，准确回应她眼中的期盼;要懂她心路走向何方，和她风雨中一起走她的要求其实也不多，她只是想找一个完全懂她的爱人。

21. To win a woman's heart, mere liking and love are not enough; you must understand her: understand her fragile vulnerability behind her逞强, and provide her with spiritual support; understand her sadness amidst her happiness, and nurture her soul; understand her unreasonable and domineering nature, and accurately respond to her expectations in her eyes; understand the direction of her inner journey, and walk through the storms with her. Her demands are not many; she merely wants to find a lover who completely understands her.

22. 人生就像乘坐一辆公交车：有的人行程长，有的人行程短;有的人很从容，可以欣赏窗外的景色;有的人很幸运，一上车就能落座;有的人不走运，即使全车的人都坐下，他还站着;有时别处的座位不断空出来，唯独身边的这个毫无动静;而当你下定决心走向别处，刚才那个座位的人却正好离开。

22. Life is like taking a bus: some people have a long journey, while others have a short one; some are very relaxed, able to enjoy the scenery outside the window; some are lucky, they can find a seat as soon as they get on; some are not so fortunate, even when everyone else has a seat, they still stand; sometimes seats become available elsewhere, but the one next to you remains untouched; and when you finally decide to move to another seat, the person who was just there happens to leave.

23. 太爱一个人，你会无原则地容忍他，慢慢地他习惯于这种纵容，无视你对他的付出。他会习惯你对他的好，而忘了自己也应该付出，忘了你一样需要得到回报，他完全被你宠坏了。不要以为你爱对方十分，他也会爱你十分。爱是不讲道理的，爱是不公平的。早安~

23. If you love someone too much, you might tolerate them without any principles, and slowly they get accustomed to this indulgence, ignoring your efforts for them. They'll get used to your kindness and forget that they should also contribute, forget that you too need to receive a return. They are completely spoiled by you. Don't think that if you love the person ten times, they will also love you ten times. Love is illogical, love is unfair. Good morning!

24. 活到了一定的年纪，就会发现，人根本就无法和自己的命运抗衡。

24. As one reaches a certain age, one realizes that it is impossible for a person to resist their own destiny.

25. 朋友是另外一个自己：和阳光的人在一起，心里就不会晦暗;和快乐的人在一起，嘴角就常带微笑;和进取的人在一起，行动就不会落后;和大方的人在一起，处事就不小气;和睿智的人在一起，遇事就不迷茫;和聪明的人在一起，做事就变机敏。借人之智，完善自己。学最好的别人，做最好的自己。早安~

25. Friends are another version of ourselves: being with sunny people, our hearts won't be dark; being with happy people, we'll often have a smile on our lips; being with ambitious people, our actions won't lag behind; being with generous people, we won't be stingy in dealing with things; being with wise people, we won't be confused when faced with difficulties; being with intelligent people, we'll become more agile in our actions. Borrowing others' wisdom to perfect ourselves. Learn from the best, and be the best version of yourself. Good morning!

26. 每当疲惫的时候，那就停下脚步，遥想追逐的远方，汲取力量再上路;每当困惑的时候，那就停下脚步，梳理纷乱的思绪，驱走迷茫再上路;每当痛苦的时候，那就停下脚步，抚摸流血的伤口，擦干眼泪再上路;每当放弃的时候，那就停下脚步，作出艰难的取舍，振奋精神再上路。我们停下脚步，其实只为走得更远。

26. Whenever you feel tired, stop and imagine the distant pursuit, gather strength and continue on your way; whenever you are confused, stop and sort out the tangled thoughts, drive away the confusion and continue on your way; whenever you are in pain, stop and caress the bleeding wounds, wipe away the tears and continue on your way; whenever you feel like giving up, stop and make the difficult choices, lift your spirits and continue on your way. We stop just to walk further.

27. 从今天起，做一个简单的人，踏实务实。不沉溺幻想，不庸人自扰。要快乐，要开朗，要坚韧，要温暖，对人要真诚。要诚恳，要坦然，要慷慨，要宽容，要有平常心。永远对生活充满希望，对于困境与磨难，微笑面对。多看书，看好书。少吃点，吃好点。要有梦想，即使遥远。早安~

27. From today on, be a simple person, down-to-earth and practical. Do not indulge in daydreams, and do not worry unnecessarily. Be happy, be cheerful, be resilient, be warm, and be sincere to others. Be honest, be serene, be generous, be tolerant, and maintain a balanced mindset. Always be hopeful about life, and smile in the face of difficulties and hardships. Read more, read good books. Eat less, eat better. Have dreams, even if they are distant. Good morning!

28. 生活现状：想过八戒般的生活，却承受着悟空般的压力，但只有沙僧的本事，还时不时能听到唐僧般的唠叨。生活从来不容易。当你觉得容易的时候，肯定是有人在替你承担属于你的那份不容易。

28. Current Life Status: Aspired to live like the pig Ba Jie, but bearing the pressure of Sun Wukong, yet only with the abilities of Sha Wujing, and occasionally hearing the nagging like Tang Sanzang. Life is never easy. When you feel it's easy, it's definitely because someone is taking on the hard part that should be yours.

29. 做一件事情，不管有多难，会不会有结果，这些都不重要，即使失败了也无可厚非，关键是你有没有勇气解脱束缚的手脚，有没有胆量勇敢地面对。很多时候，我们不缺方法，缺的是一往无前的决心和魄力。不要在事情开始的时候畏首畏尾，不要在事情进行的时候瞻前顾后，唯有如此，一切才皆有可能。

29. Whether a task is difficult or not, and whether it will have a result or not, these are not important. Even if there is a failure, it is not to be blamed. The key is whether you have the courage to free your hands and feet from the bonds, and whether you have the courage to face it bravely. Often, we are not short of methods, but we lack the determination and strength to move forward resolutely. Do not be hesitant at the beginning of a task, and do not look back and forth while it is being carried out. Only in this way can everything be possible.

30. 不要去试探爱情，因为爱情是不堪一击的。你要么就从头到尾相信，要么就别爱。一次次试探，是用欺骗来测试欺骗。反而会摧毁信任的基础。其实当你爱上一个人时，就意味着愿意去相信，虽然可能会受伤。但爱情，不就是把人生投入一场未知的赌吗时间才是爱情唯一的试探。

30. Do not test love, for love is fragile. You either believe in it from beginning to end, or you don't love at all. Each time you test it, you are using deception to test deception. This will instead destroy the foundation of trust. In fact, when you fall in love with someone, it means you are willing to believe, even though you might get hurt. But isn't love just about throwing yourself into a game of chance in life? Time is the only test of love.

31. 人生的很多时候，就如一场场战争，我们总是渴望胜利，但不要拒绝失败。输掉了感情，心情还在;破灭了理想，思想犹存;丧失了机遇，还有机缘。哪怕再痛苦的过去，也是我们活过的印记，我们无须忘记。伤口是不用给别人看的，刺的是别人的眼，痛的却是自己的心。要相信，只要坚持，我们就不可能完败。

31. Many times in life are like battles, where we always long for victory, but do not reject failure. Even if we lose emotions, our mood remains; if our ideals are shattered, our thoughts still exist; if we miss opportunities, there are still chances. Even the most painful past is a mark of the life we have lived, and we should not forget it. Wounds are not meant to be shown to others; they may prick someone's eyes, but they hurt our hearts. Believe that as long as we persevere, we cannot be completely defeated.

32. 普通人的生活都不容易，一边是肩头的责任，一边是过上更好生活的向往。为了碎银几两，为了三餐有汤，为了车，为了房，我们起早贪黑，艰难度日，做着牛马一样的工作，拿着微薄的工资，或许我们无法跟这样的生活作别，但我们唯一能做的，也是必须要做的，就是要修炼好自己的心态。不要被困难打倒，不要被生活的风霜雨雪搅弄得郁郁寡欢，我们要永远自信阳光，永远乐观豁达，永远蓬勃向上。

32. Life is not easy for ordinary people. On one side, there are responsibilities on our shoulders, and on the other side, there is the yearning for a better life. For a few ounces of silver, for having soup for every meal, for a car, for a house, we rise early and stay late, struggle through difficult times, working like oxen and horses, with meager wages. Perhaps we cannot bid farewell to such a life, but the only thing we can and must do is to cultivate a good mindset. Do not be defeated by difficulties, do not be despondent due to the storms, snows, and rains of life. We must always be confident and sunny, always optimistic and open-minded, always striving upwards.

33. 虽然我们不能决定自己生命的长度，但可以拓宽它的宽度;虽然我们不能改变容貌，但可以展现笑容;虽然我们不能控制他人，但可以掌握自己;虽然我们不能预知明天，但可以把握今天;虽然你不能样样顺利，但你可以事事尽力。

33. Although we cannot decide the length of our lives, we can expand its breadth; although we cannot alter our appearance, we can show a smile; although we cannot control others, we can master ourselves; although we cannot foresee tomorrow, we can grasp today; although you may not always have things go smoothly, you can always strive to do your best in everything.

34. 人生在世，要知足，要平凡，要感恩，不可以再任性强求。每个人都有伤心难过的时候，有时我们会惊奇的发现，每次在你难过时听你哭诉，陪你伤心的总是那么几个人。在你快乐时，他们也许不会出现，但当你难过时，他们总是第一时间出现在你身旁，好朋友是一辈子的事。

34. In life, one should be content, lead a plain life, and be grateful. One should not continue to be overly demanding. Everyone has moments of sadness and distress. Sometimes we are surprised to find that it is always the same few people who listen to us cry and comfort us in our sorrows. When we are happy, they may not be present, but when we are sad, they are always the first to appear by our side. Good friends are a lifelong endeavor.

35. 每一个人都拥有生命，却并非每个人都能读懂生命;每一个人都拥有头脑，却并非每一个人都能善用头脑。只有热爱生命，善于动脑的人，才算得上真正拥有生命。

35. Everyone has life, but not everyone can understand life; everyone has a mind, but not everyone can make good use of it. Only those who love life and are good at thinking can truly be said to possess life.

36. 没有过不去的事情，只有过不去的心情。很多事情我们之所以过不去，是因为我们心里放不下，比如被欺骗了，报复放不下;被讽刺了，怨恨放不下;被批评了，面子放不下。生活中的很多烦恼，就是源于我们不能体谅，过分在意了自己的主张，互不理解，互不相让，伤了彼此的心灵。

36. There are no insurmountable things, only insurmountable feelings. Many things we cannot get over are because we cannot let go of them in our hearts, such as holding onto revenge when deceived; holding onto resentment when mocked; holding onto pride when criticized. Many of the troubles in life come from our inability to understand others, from being overly concerned with our own opinions, from not understanding each other and not giving way, which wounds our hearts.

37. 手指脏了，大可不必把手指砍掉;帽子小了，大可不必把头削掉，证明鸡蛋是否变味，大可不必把它全吃掉;太阳不会因为你的失意，明天不再升起，月亮不会因为你的抱怨，今晚不再降落;蒙住自己的眼睛，不等于世界就漆黑一团，蒙住别人的眼睛，不等于光明就属于自己!早安~

38. 我们有时会错误地以为，得不到的，才是珍贵的，已经拥有的，都是廉价的。得不到的，因为缺少深入的了解，它只是一种美好的假象，展示给我们一个绚丽的外表。如果有那么一天，你距离它近了，知道了它的真相，你才发现，它和我们拥有的，竟是那么的相似。别把眼光停留在想象中，你拥有的，都是你的幸福!早安~

37. If your fingers are dirty, there's no need to cut them off; if your hat is too small, there's no need to shave your head; to prove if an egg has gone bad, there's no need to eat it all; the sun won't stop rising tomorrow because of your disappointment, and the moon won't stop setting tonight because of your complaints; covering your own eyes doesn't mean the world is pitch black, and covering someone else's eyes doesn't mean the light belongs to you! Good morning! 38. Sometimes we mistakenly think that what we can't get is precious, and what we already have is cheap. What we can't get is just a beautiful illusion, showing us a dazzling appearance due to a lack of in-depth understanding. If there comes a day when you get closer to it and know its truth, you'll find out that it's actually so similar to what we already have. Don't let your gaze linger on the imagination; what you have is all your happiness! Good morning!

39. 健康的才是美丽的，合适的才是最好的，常新的才是迷人的，平凡的才是伟大的，坚韧的才是长久的，真实的才是永恒的。

39. Health is beauty, suitability is the best, novelty is charming, the ordinary is great, perseverance is enduring, and authenticity is eternal.

40. 有的人改变了自己的命运，不过是天时地利人和综合因素的结果，也可以说是一种侥幸。很多人奋斗一生，全力以赴，也不能够撼动命运分毫。我们必须要和自己的命运和解，修炼一个非常强大平和的心态，面对生命中发生的一切。命运给你什么，你就接住什么。命运如果不给，就不要强求。

40. Some people change their destiny, which is the result of a combination of favorable timing, geographical advantages, and harmonious relationships. It can also be said to be a stroke of luck. Many people strive their entire lives, giving it their all, but are unable to budge their destiny by even a fraction. We must reconcile with our destiny, cultivate a very strong and peaceful mindset, and face everything that happens in life. Whatever destiny gives you, accept it. If destiny does not provide it, do not force it.

41. 最快的脚步不是跨越，而是继续;最慢的步伐不是小步，而是徘徊;最好的道路不是大道，而是小心;最险的道路不是陡坡，而是陷阱。

41. The fastest pace is not a leap, but to keep going; the slowest pace is not a small step, but to徘徊; the best path is not the main road, but to be cautious; the most dangerous path is not the steep slope, but the trap.

42. 一件事，就算再美好，一旦没有结果，就不要再纠缠，久了你会倦，会累;一个人，就算再留念，如果你抓不住，就要适时放手，久了你会神伤，会心碎。有时，放弃是另一种坚持，你错失了夏花绚烂，必将会走进秋叶静羌。任何事，任何人，都会成为过去，不要跟它过不去，无论多难，我们都要学会抽身而退。

42. If something is beautiful, do not dwell on it endlessly without a result. Otherwise, you will grow tired and weary over time; with a person, even if you are deeply attached, if you cannot hold onto them, you must let go at the right moment. Otherwise, you will become deeply saddened and your heart will be broken. Sometimes, giving up is a form of perseverance; if you miss the dazzling summer flowers, you will eventually walk into the tranquil beauty of autumn leaves. Everything and everyone will become the past. Do not let it linger, no matter how difficult it may be; we must learn to step back and withdraw.

43. 没有播种，何来收获；没有辛劳，何来成功；没有磨难，何来荣耀；没有挫折，何来辉煌。就算忙碌，就算焦虑，也要在空闲之余说一声我想你；就算疲惫，就算郁闷，也要在临睡的时候道一声晚安；就算生气，就算吵架，也要在第二天阳光依稀的早晨眯眼微笑；我们约定，一辈子就已足够。

43. Without sowing, how can there be a harvest? Without hard work, how can there be success? Without trials, how can there be glory? Without setbacks, how can there be brilliance. Even if busy, even if anxious, I still want to say "I miss you" in my leisure time; even if tired, even if upset, I still want to say "good night" before going to bed; even if angry, even if arguing, I still want to squint and smile in the morning with the faint sunlight. We have agreed, a lifetime is enough.

44. 你可以用投机的方式赚到财富，却无法从财富中获得满足;你可以用欺骗的方法获得女友，却无法从女友心中获得爱情;你可以用作弊的手段获取高分，却无法从书本中获得知识;你可以用金钱买到荣誉，却无法从百姓口中获得名声。

44. You can make wealth through speculation, but you cannot find satisfaction from wealth; you can win a girlfriend through deception, but you cannot find love in her heart; you can get high scores by cheating, but you cannot gain knowledge from books; you can buy honor with money, but you cannot earn a good reputation from the mouths of the people.

45. 心情闷了，就静一静，顺其自然；苦了倦了，就放一放，松一松心情；走的急了，就缓一缓，看看风景。”

45. When you feel down, take a moment to be still and let things be as they are; when you're weary and burdened, take a break and ease your mind; if you walk too fast, slow down a bit and take in the scenery."

46. 当我们总抱怨世界阴暗时，恰恰是自己内心蒙了很厚的灰尘。有智慧的人，从来不活在别人的嘴里，也不活在别人的眼里。识自本心，见自本性，不起妄缘，无心无为，自由自在，动静自如，冷暖自知，当下就是修行。人，不能做得太假，假了难以交心。世，不能看得太清，清了难以作为。

46. When we constantly complain about the world being dark, it is actually our own hearts that are covered with a thick layer of dust. Wise people never live in others' mouths or eyes. They recognize their own hearts and nature, do not indulge in false associations, are carefree and without purpose, and move effortlessly through activity and stillness, feeling both warmth and cold for themselves, realizing that the present moment is the practice of enlightenment. People cannot be too fake, for when one is fake, it is hard to form a heart-to-heart connection. The world cannot be seen too clearly, for when one sees too clearly, it becomes difficult to take action.

47. 每个人都有自己的个性，别把人生搞得太复杂，让一切变得简单些，喜欢了就争取，得到了就珍惜，错过了就遗忘。在历经许多偶遇和分离后，总会懂得，没有抓不住，皆是放不下，你认为快乐的，就去寻找;你认为值得的，就去守候;你认为幸福的，就去珍惜。你容得下世界，世界才会接纳你。

47. Everyone has their own personality. Don't make life too complicated. Keep everything simple. Strive for what you like, cherish what you get, and forget what you miss. After many encounters and separations, you will eventually understand that there is nothing that can't be grasped, it's just that you can't let go. Go and seek what you consider to be happy, wait for what you believe is worth it, and cherish what you think is happy. If you can accommodate the world, the world will embrace you.

48. 如果说人生是一首优美的乐曲，那么痛苦则是其中一个不可缺少的音符;如果说人生是一望无际的大海，那么挫折则是一个骤然翻起的浪花。如果说人生是湛蓝的天空，那么失意则是一朵漂浮的白云。

48. If life is a beautiful melody, then suffering is one indispensable note within it; if life is an endless sea, then挫折 is a sudden wave that rises; if life is a clear blue sky, then disappointment is a cloud that floats by.

49. 梦虽虚幻，却是自己的梦想;位虽低微，却是自己的岗位;屋虽简陋，却是自己的家;志虽渺小，却是自己的追求。

49. Dreams may be illusionary, but they are one's own dreams; the position may be humble, but it is one's own post; the house may be simple, but it is one's own home; the aspirations may be small, but they are one's own pursuits.

50. 你不知道，某些时刻，我有多么难过。你不知道，没有回应的等待，真的让人很累。你不知道，我是鼓起了多大的勇气，才敢念念不忘。又或者，你不是不知道，只是假装不知道。都说时光飞逝，其实只是自己的心在变，情在变。都说抵挡不过时间，其实是时间抵挡不过我们的善变。你那么自私，我那么傻。

50. You don't know how sad I am at certain moments. You don't know how exhausting it is to wait without a response. You don't know how much courage I had to gather to keep remembering. Or maybe, you're not really unaware, you're just pretending to be. They say time flies, but actually, it's just our hearts and emotions that change. They say we can't withstand time, but it's time that can't withstand our constant changes. You're so selfish, and I'm so foolish.

51. 红尘看破了，不过是浮沉;美丽看破了，不过是躯壳;生命看破了，不过是无常;爱情看破了，不过是聚散!人生也许有太多的为什么没有答案，也有太多的答案没有为什么，冥冥中一切皆有定数，你所需要做的就是以善心处于顺境，以静心安于逆境。

52. 人，活得再漂亮，也会有凄凉;路，走得再潇洒，也会有迷茫;再执着的未来，也会有以往;再潇洒的海鸥，也会有迷惘;再优美的旋律，也会有情殇;再期盼的目光，也会有失望;再低调的故事，也会有倔强;再纯净的文字，也会有悲伤;再动人的风花雪月，也等不到地久天长。所以，生活即要理性也要感性。

51. Once the dust and the world are seen through, they are just fleeting; beauty seen through is just a shell; life seen through is just impermanence; love seen through is just the coming and going! Perhaps in life there are too many 'why's without answers, and too many answers without 'why's. In the mystery of fate, everything is predetermined. What you need to do is to act with kindness in prosperity and find peace in adversity. 52. No matter how beautiful a person may live, there will always be loneliness; no matter how carefree a path may be walked, there will always be confusion; no matter how steadfast the future may be, there will always be the past; no matter how free-spirited the seagull may be, there will always be moments of confusion; no matter how beautiful the melody, there will always be heartache; no matter how hopeful the gaze, there will always be disappointment; no matter how modest the story, there will always be stubbornness; no matter how pure the words, there will always be sadness; no matter how touching the scenes of wind, flowers, snow, and moon, they will never wait for an eternity. Therefore, life requires both reason and emotion.

53. 如果你盼望明天，那必须先脚踏现实;如果你希望辉煌，那么你须脚不停步。

53. If you look forward to tomorrow, you must first step into reality; if you hope for brilliance, then you must never stop stepping forward.

54. 过于欣赏自己，就发现不了别人的优点;过于赞赏别人的优点，就会看不见自己的长处。

54. Overly self-admiring, one fails to notice others' strengths; overly admiring others' strengths, one fails to see one's own merits.

55. 所有的得失，趁你能放下的，就统统放下来，很多东西不过是过眼云烟，能陪你到终点的，廖廖数人而已。曾经的功败，你可以放弃时，就让它们全部过去，人生其实是看完一段风景，再让别人挤得水泄不通。无人左右逢源，无人花好百日。我们最大的幸福，是静享与人的温情;最好的成功，是踏实走自己的路!

55. All gains and losses, take them down as you can let go of them. Many things are just fleeting clouds, and only a few people can accompany you to the end. When you can give up the past failures, let them all pass. Life is actually about enjoying a scene and then letting others squeeze through it. No one is always successful, no one has a hundred days of good fortune. Our greatest happiness is to quietly enjoy the warmth of people; our best success is to walk our own path steadfastly!

56. 安全感和安慰都是自己给的，别人只会看热闹不嫌事大

56. Security and comfort are all self-provided; others will only gawk and not mind if the matter gets bigger.

57. 人的一生很像是在雾中行走;远远望去，只是迷蒙一片，辨不出方向和吉凶。可是，当你鼓起勇气，放下忧惧和怀疑，一步一步向前走去的时候，你就会发现，每走一步，你都能把下一步路看得清楚一点。往前走，别站在远远的地方观望!你就可以找到你的方向。

57. Life is much like walking through a fog; from a distance, it's just a blurred mess, and you can't discern direction or good or bad omens. However, when you gather courage, put aside fear and doubt, and take one step after another forward, you will find that with each step you take, you can see the next step a little clearer. Keep moving forward, don't stand far away observing! You can find your direction.

58. ​人生也许太多的为什么没有答案，也有太多的答案没有为什么，冥冥中一切皆有定数，你需要做的就是以善心处顺境，以静心安于逆境。”

58. Life may have too many 'whys' without answers, and also too many answers without 'whys'. In the unknown, everything is predestined. What you need to do is to be kind in prosperity and at peace in adversity.

59. 当你熬过最孤独的时候，就会觉得其实生活没有你想得多么难过，也就不需要别人陪伴了。无论你曾经多么期待有人疼有人爱，最后也觉得，算了不指望了，我一个人也很好。

59. When you get through the most lonely times, you'll find that life isn't actually as difficult as you thought, and you don't need anyone's company anymore. No matter how much you may have longed for someone to cherish and love you, in the end, you'll feel, well, forget about it, I'm perfectly fine on my own.

60. 如果一帆风顺，蒸蒸日上，那就多做一些善事，把自己的资源和其他人分享，赐福别人，才会让自己获得更多的福气。如果命运坎坷，处境艰难，那就独善其身，做好自己，不给世界添麻烦，不给自己寻烦恼。

60. If everything goes smoothly and you are flourishing, then do more good deeds, share your resources with others, and bestow blessings upon them, so that you will attract more blessings. If your destiny is fraught with difficulties and your situation is tough, then take care of yourself, do your best, do not cause trouble to the world, and do not create烦恼 for yourself.

61. 我对未来的构想大概是这样，家人安在，挚友一二，喜欢的人久伴不弃，对曾经不无后悔，对未来愈战愈勇。世界上，没有挤不出的时间，只有不想赴的约。每一个选择，其实都是内心所向。

61. My vision for the future is something like this: family members are well, with one or two close friends, cherished ones who accompany me without giving up, regrets about the past, and growing braver for the future. In the world, there is no time that cannot be squeezed out, only appointments that one is unwilling to attend. Every choice, in fact, is a reflection of one's inner desires.

62. 什么都藏不住，什么事情都忍不住要说出来，后来慢慢的发现，这样做真的好傻，安全感和安慰都是自己给的，别人只会看热闹不嫌事大。

62. I can't keep anything hidden, and I can't help but spill everything out. Later on, I slowly realized that this is really foolish. The sense of security and comfort comes from within myself, while others will just watch the chaos without caring about the severity of the matter.

63. 有时候不是不懂，只是不想懂;有时候不是不知道，只是不想说出来;有时候不是不明白，而是明白了也无能为力，于是就保持了沉默。有些话，适合藏在心里;有些痛苦适合无声无息的忘记;有些回忆，只适合偶尔拿出来回味。很多事，当经历过，自己知道就好;很多改变，无需说出来的，自己明白就好。

63. Sometimes it's not that we don't understand, but that we don't want to; sometimes it's not that we don't know, but that we don't want to say it; sometimes it's not that we don't comprehend, but that even though we do, we feel helpless, so we remain silent. Some things are better kept hidden in the heart; some sorrows are best forgotten quietly; some memories are only suitable for savoring occasionally. Many things, once experienced, only need to be known to oneself; many changes, it's enough to understand without having to be spoken aloud.

64. 在人生中，有时最好走的路不一定是大路，而是小路;在现实中，有时最便捷的路不一定是直路，而是折路。

64. In life, the easiest path is not always the main road, but rather the narrow path; in reality, the most convenient route is not always a straight one, but rather a winding path.

65. 做不了决定的时候，让时间帮你决定，如果还是无法决定，就先做了再说，宁愿犯错不留遗憾。别急，时间还早，终会有人疼你入骨，视你如命，思你至魂。

65. When you can't make a decision, let time help you decide. If you still can't make up your mind, just go ahead and do it first. It's better to make a mistake and not have regrets. Don't worry, it's still early, someone will eventually cherish you deeply, treat you as if you were their life, and think of you to the core of their soul.

66. 一段友情离开了就淡了，一段爱情分离了就散了，珍惜现在所拥有的，也许下一秒就不再属于你。没有能回去的感情，就算真的回去了，你也会发现，一切已经面目全非。唯一能回去的，只是存于心底的记忆，所以，我们只能一直往前。

66. A friendship fades when it leaves, and a love story dissolves upon separation. Cherish what you have now, for it might not be yours in the next second. There's no going back in feelings, and even if you did, you would find that everything has changed beyond recognition. The only thing that can return is the memory stored in your heart. Therefore, we can only keep moving forward.