释放自我，远离繁事；沉醉与忽视是无声的报复。

Set free your self, away from the complexities; indulgence and neglect are the silent revenge.

1. “任何消耗你的人和事，多看一眼都是你的不对。人生，最大的荒唐就是在烂人、烂事上纠缠，它能耗光你所有的正能量。”

1. "Any person or thing that consumes you, it is your fault to look at them one more time. Life's greatest folly is to纠缠 with bad people and bad things, which can deplete all your positive energy."

2. 人生路上，难免会遇到许许多多不尽人意的人和事儿，如何处理好这些烦心事？睿智的人会做出明确的选择，不在不值得的人和事上耗费精力！

2. On the journey of life, it is inevitable to encounter numerous people and things that do not meet one's expectations. How can we handle these troublesome matters? Wise individuals make clear choices and do not waste their energy on people and things that are not worth it!

3. 经历多了以后才会明白：人教人，教不会；事教人，才教得会。成年人的世界只能筛选，不能教育。试图去教育改变一个人，那就是枉费精力，到最后落的下场是自己付出了精力，别人不领情，甚至反咬一口！

3. Only after experiencing a lot can one understand: People cannot be taught by others; only things can teach people. In the world of adults, one can only screen but not educate. It is a waste of effort to try to educate and change a person. In the end, one may end up having put in effort without being appreciated by others, and even be bitten back!

4. 慢慢的我们就明白，一定要学会一种能力，一种让自己“看不到”、“听不到”的能力。这就是屏蔽力，排除身边的杂音，不被俗世所扰。

4. Slowly we come to understand that one must learn a certain ability, an ability to "not see" and "not hear." This is the ability to screen out distractions, to not be disturbed by the mundane world.

5. 在《善恶的彼岸》中，尼采写道：“与恶龙缠斗过久，自身亦成为恶龙。凝视深渊过久，深渊将回以凝视。”

5. In "Beyond Good and Evil," Nietzsche wrote: "He who fights with monsters should look to it that he himself does not become a monster. And if you gaze long into an abyss, the abyss will also gaze back into you."

6. 多去做那些快乐的让自己愉悦的事情，远离那些总是带给你负能量的人。不要惧怕孤独，也许我们每个人在自己的生命中，都有那么一段孤独的时候，这时候就是一个人提升最好的时候，多花些精力在自己身上，不纠缠烂人烂事，勇敢地走下去，你便能看见星辰大海。

6. Do more of those joyful things that make you happy, and distance yourself from people who always bring you negative energy. Don't be afraid of solitude, for perhaps each of us has a period of solitude in our lives, which is the best time for self-improvement. Spend more time on yourself, don't entangle yourself in trivial matters, courageously move forward, and you will see stars and the ocean.

7. 真正厉害的人从来不报复。因为所有报复最后都会伤害到自己。老子说：“吉事尚左，妇人左，失其左，夫亦不咎。”

7. Truly formidable individuals never seek revenge. Because all revenge ultimately ends up harming oneself. Laozi said, "In auspicious matters, the left is preferable; women favor the left; if one loses the left, one does not blame."

8. 意思是说，如果你能够做到对那些伤害你的人视若无睹，那你就已经超越了他们。

8. It means that if you can manage to turn a blind eye to those who have hurt you, then you have already surpassed them.

9. 经历过烂人烂事后，你会发现，你对一个人沉默，这个人被你彻底无视，你就知道他对你来说真的狗屁不是。这种无声的反击，超过了任何语言。

9. After going through bad experiences with bad people, you'll find that when you are silent towards someone and completely ignore them, you know that they really don't mean anything to you. This silent counterattack surpasses any words.

10. 沉默，不争、不辩、不理，才是对一个人最狠的报复。

10. Silence, not arguing, not debating, and not paying attention, is the harshest revenge against a person.

11. 以前任何事总是争个是非对错，一定要据理力争，一定要把对方给说服了，把道理给辩清楚了，才觉得自己不吃亏。

11. In the past, any matter always had to be argued to determine right from wrong, and one had to fight for the truth with all one's might. It was only after persuading the other party and clarifying the reasons that one felt that one had not lost out.

12. 后来才发现，很多时候，即使你是好心的为对方着想，对方也未必会相信你，甚至会嫌弃你多管闲事，会记恨你。

12. Later on, it was realized that many times, even if you are well-intentioned and thinking about the other person, they may not necessarily believe you. They might even think you are meddlesome and hold a grudge against you.

13. 所以，不争、不辩、不理，才是最高级的处世之道。

13. Therefore, not arguing, not debating, and not paying attention are the highest form of the art of dealing with others.

14. 当你选择无视的时候，你已经赢了。因为你不再给对方伤害你的机会。而且，对方也会因为得不到回应而感到挫败。他们可能会因此怀疑自己的言行，甚至反思自己的行为。

14. When you choose to ignore, you have already won. Because you are no longer giving the other person the chance to hurt you. Moreover, they will also feel frustrated for not receiving a response. They might even doubt their own words and actions, or reflect on their behavior as a result.

15. 不争，不是忍气吞声，而是不想与烂人纠缠；不辩，不是有理说不出，而是不想再浪费口舌；不理，不是没有脸面，而是不想让自己难堪。

15. Not to quarrel is not about swallowing one's anger, but about not wanting to纠缠烂人; not to argue is not because one can't express one's reasons, but because one doesn't want to waste words anymore; not to pay attention is not about losing face, but about not wanting to make oneself uncomfortable.

16. 一个真正清醒的人都明白，只有摒弃外界喧嚣，专注内心成长，才算是找到了生命的真正价值。

16. A truly awake person understands that only by shedding the noise of the outside world and focusing on inner growth can one find the true value of life.

17. 当你开始把所有注意力放在自己身上时，就会发现，周遭的烦心事不复存在了，那些让你内耗的事情也变得没那么重要了。气好像都变得顺了起来！

17. When you start to focus all your attention on yourself, you will find that the烦恼 around you no longer exist, and the things that drain you internally become less important. It seems like the air has become smoother!

18. 莫言一段令人大彻大悟的话：记住：永远不要试图去改变任何人，包括你的儿女伴侣、兄弟姐妹、父母。往往你越是为别人好，别人越讨厌你，很多东西是娘胎里自带的，非常顽固，偏执到骨髓。思想不在一个高度，不必说服，尊重即可。三观不在一个层面，不必理解，包容就好。一个人除非自己想改变，否则别人很难改变他。

18. Mo Yan once said a profound sentence: Remember: never try to change anyone, including your children, partners, siblings, or parents. Often the more you try to do good for others, the more they may dislike you. Many things are inherent from birth, very stubborn, and固执到骨髓. If their thoughts are not at the same level, there's no need to persuade; just respect them. If their worldviews are not on the same plane, there's no need to understand; just tolerate them. A person is only easy to change if they themselves want to change.

19. 我们无法改变任何人，不如先做好自己。当我们专注于提升自己时，会发现周围的世界也在悄然改变。要知道，最好的伴侣不是别人，而是自己。只有学会爱自己，才能更好地去爱别人。

19. We cannot change anyone else, so let's start by doing our best. When we focus on improving ourselves, we will find that the world around us is quietly changing as well. Remember, the best companion is not someone else, but ourselves. Only by learning to love ourselves can we better love others.

20. 当你越来越优秀，自然会吸引到优秀的人。当你越来越强大，那些曾经伤害你的人，也会变得不值一提。

20. As you become increasingly excellent, you will naturally attract outstanding individuals. As you grow stronger, those who once hurt you will also become trivial.

21. 1朋友不是先来的人或者认识最久的人，而是那个来了以后再也没有走的人。

21. 1 A friend is not the one who comes first or the one known the longest, but the one who comes and never leaves.

22. 2看透人生，是一种境界与豁然。涉世历事，有所为，有所不为，有所争，有所不争，有所求，有所不求。自身利益不轻丢，身外利益不强求。

22. 2 Seeing through life is a state of realization and sudden enlightenment. Engaging in the world and experiencing things, one does something and does not do something, competes and does not compete, seeks and does not seek. Do not lightly abandon personal interests, and do not strongly pursue interests beyond oneself.

23. 3人生不要被安逸所控制，决定你成功的，是奋斗;人生不要被过去所控制，决定你前行的，是未来;人生不要被别人所控制，决定你命运的，是自己。

23. Do not let comfort control your life; struggle is what determines your success. Do not let the past control your life; the future is what determines your progress. Do not let others control your life; it is yourself that determines your destiny.

24. 4能看到你笑容背后的忧伤，听到你沉默背后的呼唤，感受到你愤怒背后的爱意，这种人，才能执子之手，直到永久。

24. To see the sadness behind your smile, to hear the call behind your silence, to feel the love behind your anger—such a person is capable of holding your hand until forever.

25. 5为人不过六个字：看懂看透看破心累了，就用沉默代替一切。我，不会问，不会提，心累汤先生表情包亦不足以表达了。

25. The essence of being human can be summed up in six words: understand, see through, and break through. When one's heart is tired, replace everything with silence. I won't ask, I won't bring it up, and the 'Xian Laosi' emoji is also not enough to express it.

26. 7别说别人可怜，自己更可怜，自己修行又如何？自己又懂得人生多少？

26. 7 Don't say others are pitiful, you are even more pitiful. What good is your own cultivation? How much of life do you truly understand?

27. 8佩服自己以前是怎么看透一切的不烦不燥不哭不闹静如处子动如脱兔。

27. 8 admire how I used to see through everything without annoyance, impatience, tears, or tantrums, remaining as still as a maiden and as agile as a rabbit.

28. 9不执着于拿起，也就无所谓放下，人生有一种淡然的态度，叫“有亦可，无亦然”。

28. Not being attached to picking up means there's no need for letting go. In life, there is a serene attitude called "it's fine whether there is or not."

29. 10那些扬言要陪你走完一生的人，总是走到半途就迷路了，大概有些人就是这样，毫无征兆的说爱你，然后又悄无声息地离开。

29. 10 Those who boast about walking through life with you often get lost halfway, perhaps some people are like that, they say they love you without any warning, and then leave without a trace.

30. 11放下，想开，看透了，也就无所谓了，没有过不去的坎，一切随缘，人，活一世，开心就好，不要在乎别人怎么说，我活我的，跟别人没有关系，路在我脚下，我怎么走，只要我喜欢，我舒服就好。

30.11 Let go, be open-minded, see through it, and it won't matter anymore. There are no insurmountable obstacles, everything is up to fate. As humans, we live only once, so it's all about being happy. Don't care what others say. I live my own life, and it has nothing to do with others. The path is under my feet, and as long as I like it and feel comfortable, that's all that matters.

31. 12不要让人生充满遗憾，懂得了太多看透了世俗，徘徊犹豫，可能安逸了太久，觉得这一切都理所当然，留下的只有遗憾了。

31. Don't let life be filled with regrets. Knowing too much and seeing through the worldly vanities, hesitating and wavering, may have been too comfortable for too long, feeling that all this is natural and right, leaving only regrets behind.

32. 13看透一切，善待自己，每个人都曾经历过很多事，将来还要去做很多事，所以要学会看透一些过去的悲伤以及现在的烦恼，好好的珍惜现在。

32. 13 See through everything, be kind to yourself. Everyone has gone through many things and will have to do many things in the future, so one should learn to see through some of the past sadness and the present troubles, and cherish the present well.

33. 14切已成浮云只有回忆依然存在仿佛就在昨天昔日从未想相信今后就此分离心痛后悔泪水悔之晚矣。

33. The past is now like fleeting clouds, only the memories remain, as if they were just yesterday. Back then, I never thought we would part ways, and now, my heart is aching with regret, my tears flowing, and I wish I had known it was too late.

34. 15做女人一定要经得起谎言，受得起敷衍，忍得住欺骗，放得下诺言，最后用微笑来伪装掉下的眼泪，宁愿相信世界上有鬼，也不要相信男人的那张破嘴。

34. Being a woman, one must endure lies, bear with indifference, withstand deception, let go of promises, and finally, cover up the tears with a smile. It's better to believe in ghosts in the world than to trust the broken promises of men.

35. 16生气，是用别人的过错来惩罚自己的蠢行。夕阳如金，皎月如银，人生的幸福和快乐尚且享受不尽，哪里还有时间去生气呢？看开些吧！

35. Being angry is the foolish act of punishing oneself with others' faults. The setting sun is like gold, the bright moon like silver, and the happiness and joy in life are yet to be fully enjoyed. Where is there time to be angry? Lighten up!

36. 17生命，是互相矛盾的，是万幸的，也是不幸的，没尊严，未必出卖人格，没势力，未必没能力，多少的高瞻远瞩，多少的人穷是非多，看透了，一切都过去了。命运是一种看不见的字眼，也是一种斑斓如月的风景，爱也是等，等也是情，多少的失去，只是一个人的懂，多少的判断，只是一个人的怀疑。猜测也好，是非也好，总有人的辜负，也有人的凄凉，唯一的懂，是生命的奇迹，唯一的错，是人生的坎坷，读懂是一种伤害，错过是一种遗憾。

36. Life is contradictory, a blessing in disguise, and also a misfortune, without dignity, it doesn't necessarily betray one's character, without power, it doesn't necessarily lack ability. There are many with a far-sighted vision, and many who are surrounded by controversy. Once you see through it all, it's all over. Fate is a word that is invisible, and also a colorful landscape as bright as the moon. Love is waiting, and waiting is also a form of affection. Many losses are just a person's understanding, and many judgments are just a person's doubts. Whether it's guessing or judging, there are always some who are disappointed and some who are desolate. The only understanding is the miracle of life, and the only mistake is the坎坷 of life. Understanding is a kind of injury, and missing is a kind of regret.

37. 18受尽了生活的压迫，尝尽了爱情的不堪，看透了人心的险恶！这一切如果能挺过去，将是我人生走向成功的一大步！如果过不去，我的青春将断送在某人手中。

37. Endured the oppression of life, tasted the unbearable of love, and saw through the cunningness of human hearts! If I can get through all this, it will be a big step towards success in my life! If I can't, my youth will be wasted in someone's hands.

38. 19看透人生，应是心情上的纾解：人生如梦，当知天乐，对酒当歌，人生几何，遇饮酒时须饮酒，得高歌处且高歌。

38. 19 To see through life should be a relief of the heart: Life is like a dream, one should know the joy of the heavens, sing songs while drinking, what is the meaning of life? When there is an opportunity to drink, drink; when there is a place for a grand song, sing grandly.

39. 1在物质文明高度发展的今天，有多少人肯驻足凝望采菊东篱下，悠然见南山的那份闲适。

39.1 In today's world where material civilization has reached a high level of development, how many people are willing to pause and gaze upon the leisurely scene of picking chrysanthemums below the eastern fence, and casually seeing the southern mountain.

40. 2其实，每个人都想说点什么，只是经历的事多了，看过的人多了，然后就变得越来越沉默了，原来，我们都变得越来越成熟了，原来，我们都学会了用沉默代替一切!

40. 2 In fact, everyone wants to say something, but after experiencing many things and seeing many people, we become increasingly silent. Originally, we have all become more mature; originally, we have all learned to use silence to replace everything!

41. 3心小了，所有的小事就大了；心大了，所有的大事都小了；看透世事沧桑，内心安然无恙。

41. If your heart is small, all the trivial matters seem big; if your heart is big, all major matters seem trivial; if you see through the vicissitudes of life, your inner peace remains unharmed.

42. 4游鱼沉默于水中，野兽喧闹于大寺，飞鸟在空中歌唱。可是人啊，它具有海洋的沉默，大地的喧吵，与天空的乐章。

42. The swimming fish are silent in the water, the beasts are noisy in the great temple, and the birds sing in the sky. But humans, they possess the silence of the ocean, the clamor of the earth, and the melody of the heavens.

43. 5错的人就是错的人，从来不会因为能忍或者熬多点时间就变成对的人，心累了就用沉默代替一切，不用问也不用说

43. The person who is wrong is wrong, and they will never become right just because they can endure or last longer. When the heart is tired, use silence to replace everything. Don't ask and don't say.

44. 6人活在世，不需要急也不要太硬，学会柔软，学会不动声色，在安静中，才能显示人品的高贵，享受世界的美好。有的时候你觉得自己看透了一切，但是你要知道，你永远也猜透不了人心。社会残酷，世事繁杂，总有你想象不到的事物存在。

44. There are six people in the world. Don't be in a hurry, nor too rigid. Learn to be soft, learn to be unassuming, and in the quiet, you can show the nobility of your character and enjoy the beauty of the world. Sometimes you may think you've seen through everything, but you should know that you will never fully understand people's hearts. Society is cruel, and life is complex, there are always things that you can't imagine.

45. 7简单做人，洒脱自在。简单是一种平淡，却不是单调，简单是一种平凡，却不是平庸；简单是一种美，而且是一种原汁原味的美。

45. Live a simple life, carefree and at ease. Simplicity is plainness, yet not monotonous; it is ordinary, yet not平庸. Simplicity is a form of beauty, and more importantly, it is an unadulterated beauty.

46. 8身累了，用沉默去代替一切，或许会有所缓解;心累了，把一切归于沉默，或许会释放自我。人生，有所为有所不为;心情，有所谓也无所谓。

46. The body is tired, replace everything with silence, perhaps it will ease the burden; the heart is tired, let everything be silent, perhaps it will free oneself. In life, there are things to do and things not to do; in mood, there are things that matter and things that don't matter.

47. 9人生本来一场空，有无之间的更替便是人生，得失之后的心态决定苦乐。缘来不拒，境去不留，看透得失。

47. Life is originally empty for nine people. The alternation between having and not having is life itself, and the mindset after gains and losses determines happiness and suffering. Embrace what comes with good fortune, let go of what leaves, and see through gains and losses.

48. 10看透了一切那么就随处漂泊吧，也许有一天你会有一个可以让你感受到一丝丝温暖的地方，愿这个世界上不再有牵挂，不再有让我看到能感受到熟悉的地方。

48. Having seen through everything, then roam freely wherever you go. Perhaps one day you will find a place that can give you a touch of warmth. May there be no attachments in this world, no places that make me see and feel familiar.

49. 11幸福如人饮水，冷暖自知。心情不好，生活就会失去活力;心态不好，心情就是浮萍一片。我们自己的生活，要自己来做主。人生的道路曲折漫长，心累了，就用沉默代替一切

49. 11 Happiness is like drinking water, only the drinker knows its temperature. When one is not in a good mood, life loses its vitality; when one's mindset is not good, one's mood is like a floating lotus leaf. Our own life should be decided by ourselves. The road of life is winding and long, and when the heart is tired, let silence replace everything.

50. 12不管你经历了什么，不管你悲与喜，不管你变成怎么样，我一直都在，只是用沉默代替了一切。

50. 12 Regardless of what you have experienced, regardless of your sorrows and joys, regardless of how you have changed, I have always been there, just replacing everything with silence.

51. 13人生该来的总会来，该走的留不住，看明白了，看透了，看淡了，就好了！你无法改变外在的一切，只有通过外在的一切来改变内在的自己，万事万物总有它发展的规律，和因果关系，每个人成功的背后总有一部血泪史，你生命出现的每个人，都是该出现的，帮你，渡你，励练你，这就是你的命，常怀感恩之心，微笑着淡然面对，做最美最好的自己。

51. Life will bring what it should, and what should leave will not be retained. Once you understand, penetrate, and become indifferent to it, it will be all right! You cannot change everything external, but only change the inner self through everything external. All things and phenomena always have their own laws of development and causality. Behind every person's success there is always a history of blood and tears. Every person who appears in your life is supposed to be there, to help you, guide you, and train you. This is your destiny. Always keep a grateful heart, face it calmly with a smile, and be the best version of yourself.

52. 14抱最大希望，尽最大努力，做最坏打算，持最好心态，记住该记住的，忘记该忘记的，改变能改变的，接受成事实的，太阳总是新的，每天都是美好的日子。

52. With the utmost hope, exert the maximum effort, prepare for the worst, maintain the best attitude, remember what should be remembered, forget what should be forgotten, change what can be changed, accept what has become a fact. The sun is always new, and every day is a beautiful day.

53. 15活中，幸福的模样大同小异，唯有不幸的灵魂诉说着它的故事。生命呈现着不同的组合模式，我们往往身在其中忽视了他存在的本身的意义，一味的追求一些虚无缥缈的东西，当各种命运交织的那一刻，终于看透了也真正懂得了本身生活赋予生命的意义。豁然开朗，一切荣辱、一切贫富，和自己相差甚远，你只是整个宇宙中看不见的一颗尘埃。

53. In the 15 lives, the appearance of happiness is more or less the same, while only the souls of the unfortunate tell their stories. Life presents different combinations of patterns, and we often overlook the intrinsic meaning of its existence while immersed in it, blindly pursuing some elusive things. When various destinies intertwine, we finally see through and truly understand the meaning of life that our own lives bestow upon us. Suddenly enlightened, we realize that all honors and dishonors, all wealth and poverty, are far from us. You are just a tiny speck of dust that is invisible in the entire universe.

54. 16开拓者独辟蹊径，保守者因循守旧，探索者勇攀高峰，执着者勇往直前。

54. The pioneers blaze new trails, the conservatives adhere to the old ways, the explorers climb to the summits, and the persistent forge ahead resolutely.

55. 17穷在闹市无人问，富在深山有远亲。很多事情，等你缺一次钱你就懂了。人性就这样，看透了还得热爱生活，善待一切。

55. 17. When poor in the bustling city, no one asks; when rich in the remote mountains, distant relatives come. Many things, you'll understand after experiencing a financial shortage. Human nature is like this, you may see through it yet still need to love life and treat everything kindly.

56. 18看透一切，善待自己，每个人曾经都经历过很多事，将来还要去做很多事，所以要学会看透一些过去的悲伤以及现在的烦恼，好好的珍惜现在。

56. 18 Look through everything, treat yourself kindly. Everyone has experienced many things in the past and will have many things to do in the future, so learn to look through some past sadness and current troubles, and cherish the present well.

57. 19最好的生活就是不瞎想，做得多，要得少，常微笑，懂知足。

57. The best life is to not indulge in idle thoughts, to do more and desire less, to often smile, and to understand contentment.

58. 20简单的事，想深了，就复杂了。复杂的事，看透了，就简单了。有些事，笑笑就能过去。有些事，过一阵就能让你笑笑。

58. 20. Simple things become complicated when thought about deeply. Complicated things become simple when seen through. Some things can be gotten over with a smile. Some things will make you smile after a while.

59. 1人生过半，回头看一看，人海熙熙攘攘。谁为谁停留，日子起起落落。谁和谁相伴。真心不多，假意不少，看透了，就懂了。一切都强留不住，只有随缘，随心才最美妙。

59. Halfway through life, looking back, the sea of people is bustling and busy. Who stops for whom, days rise and fall. Who accompanies whom. True hearts are not many, false intentions are not few. Once you see through, you understand. Nothing can be forcibly retained, only following one's fate and heart can be the most wonderful.

60. 2笑着难过，自我惩罚，终止这一切挣扎，让沉默代替一切回答，嗯，拜拜。

60. 2 Weeping with laughter, self-punishing, ending all this struggle, letting silence replace all answers, huh, goodbye.

61. 3忏悔心谦卑心很重要，但是对自我的爱心更重要。

61. A humble and repentant heart is important, but loving oneself is even more crucial.

62. 4看透人生应是心态上的调整：人生在世，当解天律，生不带来，死不带去，万里长城今犹在，不见当年秦始皇。

62.4 Seeing through life should be an adjustment of mindset: In this world, one should understand the celestial law, life does not bring anything, nor does death take anything away, the Great Wall of China still stands today, but the First Emperor of the Qin Dynasty is no more.

63. 5热心肠很好，表达善意很好，乐于助人也很好，只是有一点要注意：别让别人以为，你的时间不值钱。

63. Being kind-hearted is good, expressing goodwill is good, and being willing to help is also good. Just one thing to note: don't let others think that your time is not valuable.

64. 7当看透一切时，面对沧海桑田，面对人生无常，懂得了如何取舍。面对看不惯的人，面对看不惯的事，都会轻轻地微笑。因为清楚，自己每天需要温暖和阳光，需要远离负能量。当看透了一切时，懂得了健康是第一位的，金钱地位等其他的东西都不那么重要。知道了爱惜身体，因为任何人任何事伤害了身体，最后谁都不会为你买单，负责任的只有自己。

64. 7 When everything is seen through, facing the great changes of life and the impermanence of existence, one learns how to make choices. Facing people or things one dislikes, one will gently smile. Because one is clear that daily one needs warmth and sunshine, and needs to stay away from negative energy. When everything is seen through, one understands that health is the most important, and that money, status, and other things are not as important. One knows to cherish one's body because no one else will pay for the harm to it from anyone or anything; the only one responsible is oneself.

65. 8我在努力变好学会包容学会心平气和学会看透一切学会无痛关痒学会倘若未闻。

65. 8 I am striving to become better, learning to tolerate, learning to remain calm, learning to see through everything, learning to be indifferent without any irritation, and learning to pretend as if I had never heard it.

66. 9没有人是不可代替的，没有东西是必须拥有的。看透了这一点，将来就算你失去了世间最爱的一切时，也应该明白，这并不是什么大不了的事。

66. 9 No one is irreplaceable, and nothing is indispensable. Understanding this, even if you lose everything you hold dearest in the world in the future, you should realize that it is not a big deal.

67. 10最佳的报复不是仇恨，而是打心底发出的冷淡，干嘛花力气去恨一个不相干的人。

67. The best revenge is not hatred, but a coldness that comes from the heart. Why waste energy hating someone who has nothing to do with you?

68. 11面对别人的夸赞，淡然一笑，面对他人的贬低，静若止水。心中是一种“看庭前花开花落，宠辱不惊；望天空云卷云舒，去留无意”的淡淡情怀。当看透了一切，心胸宽广了，性格豁达了。不再对一些事情耿耿于怀，不再对一点小事斤斤计较；不会沉浸在虚无缥缈的梦幻里做梦，不会在不必要的人或事情上浪费时间。远离虚伪，拥抱真诚，做真实而喜爱的自己。

68. 11 In the face of others' praise, a faint smile; in the face of others' belittlement, serene as still water. In the heart, there is a faint sentiment of "watching the flowers bloom and fall in front of the courtyard, unbothered by gains and losses; observing the clouds gather and disperse in the sky, without intention of staying or leaving." When one sees through everything, the chest becomes broad, and the character becomes open. No longer hung up on some things, no longer overly concerned about trivial matters; not immersed in the dreamlike illusion of daydreams, not wasting time on unnecessary people or things. Distance oneself from hypocrisy, embrace sincerity, and be the authentic and beloved self.

69. 12看开，看淡，看透。有些事不能如愿，有些人不能强留，好人一定要珍惜，坏人一定要记住，某事在人，成事在天，努力了就不会后悔，成功了也不要骄傲，顺其自然。看开了，心就不累了，看淡了，也就放下了，看透了，没有什么过不去的坎，只要心态乐观，一切都是简单。

69. 12 Let go, let it slide, see through. Some things cannot turn out as desired, and some people cannot be forcibly kept. Cherish the good people, remember the bad ones, it is in people's hands, but success is in the heavens. As long as you make an effort, you will not regret it, and even if you succeed, you should not be proud. Go with the flow. When you let go, your heart won't be tired; when you let it slide, you will also let it go; when you see through, there are no insurmountable obstacles. As long as you have an optimistic mindset, everything is simple.

70. 13佛说：来是偶然，走是必然，把一切看透，让一切随缘，顺其自然才是最好的活法。

70. The Buddha said: Arrival is accidental, departure is inevitable.穿透一切，随缘而动，顺其自然 is the best way to live.