1. 47与其你死我活，不如你活我也活。这就是双赢，是良性竞争。

1. It's better to live and let live than to fight to the death. This is a win-win situation, which is a positive form of competition.

2. 人生道路上的每一个里程碑，都刻着两个字起点。

2. Every milestone on the path of life is inscribed with two characters: "beginning."

3. 33毛遂自荐，好处多多。让别人看到你，知道你的存在，知道你的能力。

3. 33 Volunteer to step forward, and there are many benefits. Let others see you, know your presence, and know your abilities.

4. 朋友是财富，健康是本钱。

4. Friends are wealth, health is capital.

5. 不能用温情征服对方的人，用殴打也征服不了对方。

5. A person who cannot conquer others with affection cannot conquer them with beating either.

6. 就像风筝一样，逆风而上；不要学落叶，随风飘零。

6. Like a kite, soar against the wind; do not be like the falling leaves, drifting with the wind.

7. 一个篱笆三个桩，一个好汉三个帮。

7. As the saying goes, "As a fence requires three posts, so a hero needs three helpers."

8. 怀疑别人排斥，其实是不能接纳自己。

8. Suspecting others of exclusion is actually a reflection of one's inability to accept oneself.

9. 37认识并运用人性中的自私。不必在意别人的自私，应好好应对这些自私。

9. 37 Recognize and make use of the selfishness inherent in human nature. Do not be concerned about others' selfishness, but handle these instances of selfishness well.

10. 没有任何一个有钱人，可伟大到不需要朋友。

10. No wealthy person is so great that they do not need friends.

11. 我们现在的一切的，都是过去思想的结果。

11. Everything we have now is the result of past thoughts.

12. 53巧用致命的吸引力。男人温柔，女人撒娇。

克12. 53巧妙利用致命的吸引力。男人温柔，女人娇嗔。

13. ldquo;经验很多时候是人们对错误的称呼。

13. "Experience is often a euphemism for people's mistakes."

14. 说话的时候记得常用我们开头。

14. Remember to often use "we" as the subject when speaking.

15. 不要把过去的事全让人知道。

15. Don't let everyone know about the past.

16. 事情不用改变，只要我们改变。

16. The matter does not need to change; it is only us that needs to change.

17. 良言一句三冬暖，恶语伤人六月寒。

17. A kind word can warm three winters, while harsh words can chill a person in June.

18. 无德无才难做人，无德有才难做人，有德无才能做人，德才兼备。

18. It's difficult to be a person without virtue or talent, difficult to be a person without virtue but with talent, easy to be a person with virtue but without talent, and ideal to have both virtue and talent.

19. 16时时要有危机意识。别以为你命好运也好。

19. At 4 PM, you should be aware of the possibility of crises. Don't think that because you are lucky, everything will be fine.

20. 世上没有绝望的处境，只有对处境绝望的人。

20. There are no desperate situations in the world, only people who have become desperate about their situations.

21. 如果我们想法交朋友，就要先为别人做些事那些需要花时间、体力、体贴、奉献才能做到的事。

21. If we want to make friends, we should first do things for others that require time, physical effort, empathy, and dedication.

22. 17不要问别人为你做了什么，而要问你为别人做了什么。

22. Do not ask what others have done for you, but ask what you have done for others.

23. 做人，既不能像汽车喇叭，叫别人让路；也不能像足球一样，让别人踢开。

23. As a person, one should neither honk like a car horn to ask others to make way, nor be kicked aside like a football.

24. 做花要做傲霜菊，不俗不媚冬也春；做人要正直，不假不丑心自乐。

24. When making flowers, choose the frost-resistant chrysanthemum, which remains unpretentious and unobtrusive through winter and spring; in life, one should be upright, without pretense or ugliness, and find joy in one's own heart.

25. 自己打败自己的远远多于比别人打败的。

25. There are far more people who defeat themselves than those who are defeated by others.

26. 9套用别人的成功模式。别人的成功模式是一种指引，让你有方向可循。

26. 9. Copy others' successful models. Others' successful models serve as a guide, providing you with a direction to follow.

27. 14别让过去的失败绑住你的手脚。环境会变，人会成长，再度出击，可能就成功了。

27. 14 Don't let past failures tie your hands and feet. The environment changes, people grow, and if you give it another shot, you might just succeed.

28. 人字写起来简单复杂。做人难，做人难，做人难。

28. The character for "human" is simple to write but complex in meaning. It is difficult to be a person, difficult to be a person, difficult to be a person.

29. 人要像白云一样优雅而不轻浮；像花一样美丽而不娇嫩。

29. People should be elegant like white clouds without being trifling; beautiful like flowers without being delicate.

30. 显示出对别人的欢乐不屑一顾的样子，那是侮辱了别人。

30. To show a disdainful indifference to others' joy is to侮辱 them.

31. 做事可能会有下一次，做人则绝对没有下一次。

31. There may be another chance to do things, but there is absolutely no second chance to be a person.

32. 25勿满足于眼前的小小成就。你要问自己，我这辈子只有这样吗。

32. 25 Don't be satisfied with the small achievements in the present. Ask yourself, is this all I will have in this lifetime?

33. 自助天助者，佛渡有缘人。

33. If one helps oneself, heaven will help; the Buddha saves those who are destined.

34. 清清楚楚看昨天，扎扎实实抓今天，高高兴兴看明天。向昨天要经验，向今天要成果，向明天要动力。

34. Clearly see yesterday, solidly grasp today, and joyfully look forward to tomorrow. Seek experience from yesterday, seek achievements from today, and seek motivation from tomorrow.

35. 35以低姿态化解别人的嫉妒。嫉妒是一把烈火，会毁灭一个人。

35. Use humility to defuse others' envy. Envy is a fierce fire that can destroy a person.

36. 挑选朋友要慎重，更换朋友要更慎重。

36. Choose friends carefully, and be even more careful when changing friends.

37. 只要肯开口赞美别人，你将会是最大的赢家。

37. As long as you are willing to open your mouth to praise others, you will be the biggest winner.

38. ldquo;人的结构就是相互支撑，众人的事业需要每个人的参与。

38. "The structure of humanity is one of mutual support, and the cause of the people requires the participation of everyone."

39. 40精诚所至，金石为开。你的真心成意会在对方的感动中激起你的同情和不忍。

39. 40. Where there is sincerity, even gold and stone will yield. Your genuine intentions will stir up compassion and不忍 in the other person's heart through their feelings of being touched.

40. 可怕的还不是孤独和寂寞，而是你不得不同你不愿意交往的人打交道。

40. The可怕 thing is not loneliness and solitude, but rather having to interact with people you do not want to associate with.

41. 做人要活泼而不轻浮，严肃而不冷漠，自信而不骄傲，谦虚而不盲从。

41. A person should be lively but not flighty, serious but not cold, confident but not proud, and modest but not blind in following others.

42. 8控制自己的情绪。别让别人以为你还没长大。

42. Control your emotions. Don't let others think you haven't grown up yet.

43. 不要害怕拒绝他人，如果自己的理由出于正当。

43. Do not be afraid to refuse others if your reasons are justified.

44. 11弱者用泪水安慰自己，强者用汗水磨练自己。

44. The weak comfort themselves with tears, while the strong temper themselves with sweat.

45. 生命有价值，生活有品位。

45. Life is valuable, and life has taste.

46. 34很多事先天注定，那是命;但你可以决定怎么面对，那是运!

46. 34 Many things are predetermined by fate; that's destiny; but you can decide how to face them, that's luck!

47. 15不要有怀才不遇的想法，怀才不遇多半是自己造成的。

47. 15 Don't have the idea of not being appreciated for your talent, as being unappreciated is mostly caused by oneself.

48. 19勿轻易吐露你的失意，以免被人认为软弱无能。

48. Do not easily disclose your setbacks, or else you may be regarded as weak and incompetent.

49. 27作老二，不要作老大。老大没当好，会变成老三老四。

49. Be the second child, not the first. If the first child doesn't do well, they might become the third or fourth child.

50. 21善用见面三分情的中国人心理。你尊重对方，对方也会尊重你。

50. 21. Make good use of the Chinese psychological principle that "first impressions count for three parts of the relationship." Show respect for the other person, and they will also respect you in return.

51. 说话要学平面镜：如实反映；做人莫学哈哈镜：哗众取宠。

51. When speaking, learn from a flat mirror: Reflect the truth; when dealing with people, do not imitate a funhouse mirror: Seek to amuse and please the crowd.

52. 我可以平凡，但不能成长。

52. I can be ordinary, but I cannot stop growing.

53. 只要路是对的，就不怕路远。

53. As long as the path is right, one need not fear the distance.

54. 潜意识的力量是无穷大的，相信就是真理。

54. The power of the subconscious is infinite, and belief is the truth.

55. 不要等待机会，而要创造机会。

55. Do not wait for opportunities, but create them.

56. 要有一颗善良的心，它能给别人温暖，也能为自己赢得幸福。

56. Have a kind heart, which can bring warmth to others and also win happiness for oneself.

57. 不随便拒绝人，也不随便答应人。不许愿，不吊人家胃口，不在无谓的事情上炫耀自己的实力。

57. Do not casually refuse people, nor casually agree with them. Do not make promises, do not tantalize others, and do not show off your abilities in trivial matters.

58. 同事生病时，去探望他。很自然地坐在他病床上，回家再认真洗手。

58. When a colleague is sick, go to visit him. It's natural to sit by his bedside, and then carefully wash your hands before going home.

59. 小人做人敢为人先，做事敢为人后。

59. A small person dares to be the first in doing and the last in acting.

60. 做人既不傲慢，也不傲慢；既能在荣誉面前低头检查自己，又能在冷眼下昂首阔步前行。

60. A person is neither haughty nor proud; they can bow their head in humility to examine themselves in the face of honor, and they can walk with confidence and head held high under cold glances.

61. 若不给自己设限，则人生中就没有限制你发挥的藩篱。

61. If you don't impose limits on yourself, there are no barriers in life that restrict your expression.

62. 人，应当象人一样，永远向上而又双脚踏地。

62. People should always strive upwards like people, and at the same time, keep both feet firmly on the ground.

63. 在选择别人时，也要让别人要想选择自己，在考验别人时，也要让别人考验自己。

63. When choosing others, also let others want to choose you; when testing others, also let others test yourself.

64. 5别轻易转行。转行的风险很林，若无大决心，大魄力，最好不要轻率为之。

64. 5 Don't easily switch careers. The risks of changing careers are significant, and without great determination and strength, it's best not to act impulsively.

65. 永远不要以为任何你接触的人比你傻比你笨比你容易上套。

65. Never think that anyone you come across is dumber or more naive than you, or easier to manipulate.

66. 31正视你的弱点，躲避别人的陷井。光明正大，脚注踏实地，不痴心妄想，便可避免踏入陷阱。

66. Face your weaknesses and avoid others' traps. Be straightforward, walk firmly on the ground, don't have unrealistic dreams, and you can avoid stepping into traps.

67. 与人打的时，请抢先坐在司机旁。

67. When taking a taxi, please take the seat next to the driver first.

68. 做人行为端正，人生常现真祥；为人机算尽，必招百邪伐身。

68. Behave yourself with integrity, and your life will often appear auspicious; if you are overly cunning, you will inevitably attract all kinds of evil influences.

69. 用手写的信函比较有亲切感，给人的感受也不一样。

69. Handwritten letters have a sense of warmth and give people a different feeling.