狼狈活法，自视高人一等，他人非人。

A disheveled way of life, self-opinionated as superior to others, regarding others as not human.

1. 别人对你的价值，主要有三种作用：需要的作用，消耗的作用，没有作用。

1. The value others have for you mainly serves three functions: the need-based function, the consumption function, and the function of having no effect.

2. 哲学的最高境界是“无我”，不要太把自己当回事，甚至别把自己当人，只要可以实现自己的利益，达成一个理想的目标，吃点亏，吃点苦，丢点面子，都算不了什么事情。

2. The highest level of philosophy is "no self," don't take yourself too seriously, even don't treat yourself as a person. As long as you can achieve your own interests and accomplish an ideal goal, suffering some losses, enduring some hardships, and losing some face are not a big deal.

3. ​情深不寿，慧极必伤。大爱不爱，大情绝情，无爱方可破情局，而无情方可破全局，无爱无情是智者，无情无义破百局。”

3. Deep love is not eternal, extreme wisdom is bound to cause harm. Great love is not love, great emotion leads to insensitivity, only by having no love can one break the emotional trap, and only by being insensitive can one break the overall situation. Having no love and no emotion is the wisdom of the wise, and being insensitive and without principle can break through hundreds of situations.

4. “大恩之后必有大恨，大爱之后必有大怨；大善之后必是大恶；大喜之后是大悲；大怒之后是大哀；

4. "After great kindness comes great resentment, after great love comes great bitterness; after great goodness comes great evil; after great joy comes great sorrow; after great anger comes great despair."

5. 人与人之间没有永远的朋友，也没有永远的敌人，只有永远的利益。别人愿意和你相处，不是因为把你当做一个人，而是你可以提供他需要的东西。你主动和别人相处，也不是因为他是一个人，而是他可以满足你的需要。

5. There are no permanent friends between people, nor are there permanent enemies; only permanent interests. Others are willing to be with you not because they see you as a person, but because you can provide what they need. And when you主动 seek to be with others, it is not because they are a person, but because they can satisfy your needs.

6. 你越是骄傲自满，自以为是，觉得自己很厉害，很牛逼，很了不起，别人越是讨厌你，排斥你，冷落你，不喜欢跟你玩，你也将失去了机会和渠道。你越是谦虚低调，谨小慎微，觉得自己只是一个普通人，平平无奇，默默无闻，而你身边的人，却各自有着不同的优点，拥有值得自己学习的地方，那么别人就越是喜欢你，理解你，支持你，欣赏你，你就能够得到更多的资源和平台。

6. The more proud and self-satisfied you are, the more you think you are amazing, awesome, and extraordinary, the more others will dislike you,排斥你, ignore you, and not want to play with you, and you will also lose opportunities and channels. The more humble and modest you are, the more cautious and careful, the more you see yourself as an ordinary person, unremarkable and anonymous, while the people around you each have their own strengths and places worth learning from, then the more others will like you, understand you, support you, and appreciate you, and you will be able to gain more resources and platforms.

7. 把别人不当人，当自己不是人，其实就是进入一种“无我”“无他”的状态，解脱一切束缚，创造生命的价值和精彩。

7. Treating others as if they are not human, and seeing oneself as not human either, is actually entering a state of "no self" and "no other," freeing oneself from all constraints, and creating value and splendor in life.

8. 有些人可以给你营养，滋养你，帮助你，支持你，理解你，提升你，给予你功利价值或者情绪价值，那么他就是我们的营养。有些人可以消耗你，欺负你，霸凌你，拿捏你，看不起你，恶心你，那么他就是我们的障碍。有些人和我们大路朝天，各走一边，谁也不碍谁的事，甚至谁也不认识谁，这样的人，完全不用去管他。

8. Some people can provide you with nutrition, nourish you, help you, support you, understand you, uplift you, and offer you utilitarian or emotional value; they are our nourishment. Some people can deplete you, mistreat you, bully you, manipulate you, look down on you, disgust you; they are our obstacles. Some people and us have the road to the sky, each one goes their own way, no one interferes with each other's affairs, and even don't know each other. Such people don't need to be cared about at all.

9. 在这个纷繁复杂的人世间，我们必须拥有足够强大的内心世界，以及足够狠辣的手段，才能够屹立不倒，勇往直前。

9. In this complicated world, we must possess a sufficiently strong inner world and enough fierce methods to stand firm and move forward courageously.

10. 令人醍醐灌顶的一段话：

10. A mind-blowing paragraph:

11. 至人无己，神人无功，圣人无名。真正厉害的人，不会站在感情的角度审视问题，只会站在利害的角度权衡问题，杀伐决断，风风火火，敢想敢干，一往无前。

11. The great man has no self, the divine man has no merit, and the sage has no name. Truly formidable individuals do not view issues from the perspective of emotions; instead, they weigh issues from the perspective of benefits and losses, making swift decisions, acting boldly and energetically, daring to think and act, and advancing resolutely without hesitation.

12. 给你营养的人，多亲近，因为它可以让你更加强大和幸福，给你消耗的人，一定要远离，因为生命的能量有限，实在经不起多少消耗。

12. Those who nourish you should be cherished, as they can make you stronger and happier. On the other hand, those who drain you must be kept at a distance, because the energy of life is limited, and it can truly withstand only so much depletion.

13. 别人怎么看待你不重要，别人以不友好，或者恶意的眼神看你也不重要，关键是自己如何看待自己。成大事的人，都能够放下自己的姿态，取悦一切可以给自己带来资源的人，为自己缝上开路，遇水架桥，见招拆招。

13. It's not important how others perceive you, nor is it important if they look at you with unfriendly or malicious eyes. The key is how you view yourself. People who achieve great things are able to放下 their egos, please everyone who can bring resources to them, pave the way for themselves, build bridges over rivers, and meet challenges head-on.

14. “退休后才发现，什么同事、同学、朋友，都是人生过客，最终都会全军覆没，什么攀比、计较、面子，都越来越没有意义，都是些折磨人的东西。”

14. "Only after retirement did I realize that colleagues, classmates, and friends are all mere passersby in life, and eventually they all vanish. Comparisons, calculations, and face all become increasingly meaningless, and they are all things that torment people."

15. 一段令人深思的话：

15. A thought-provoking statement:

16. 一个人最大的忌讳，就是太把自己当回事。

16. The greatest taboo for a person is to take oneself too seriously.