在智慧的指引下，警察那些值得信赖的人，远离那些伤害你的痛楚……

Under the guidance of wisdom, the police, those trustworthy individuals, distance themselves from the pain that harms you...

1. 大多数的人一辈子只做了三件事；自欺、欺人、被人欺。

1. Most people do only three things in their lifetime: deceive themselves, deceive others, and be deceived by others.

2. 如果你真的爱他，那么你必须容忍他部份的缺点。

2. If you truly love him, you must tolerate some of his shortcomings.

3. 只有花掉的那部分钱才是真正属于你的财富，你就是家缠万贯，生时舍不得吃、舍不得穿，俩眼一闭，剩下的钱你知道谁花了才怪，冤不冤。还有那些省吃俭用的贪官，好好的高官不做，结果因贪返贫，一分钱没花着还搭上个人财产全部没收，惨不惨。千万不要贪那不义之财，如果你真的缺钱了，而你又有技能，做兼职赚点外快。

3. Only the money that you spend is truly your wealth. Even if you are rich beyond measure, holding back on eating and wearing nice clothes in life, when you close your eyes for the last time, who do you think spent the remaining money? Isn't that a injustice? There are also those corrupt officials who live frugally, not making good use of their high-ranking positions, only to become impoverished due to corruption. Not only do they not spend a single penny, but their personal assets are also seized, isn't that悲惨. Never crave for ill-gotten gains. If you truly need money and you have skills, why not take on a part-time job to make some extra income?

4. 根本不必回头去看咒骂你的人是谁？如果有一条疯狗咬你一口，难道你也要趴去反咬他一口吗？

4. It's not necessary to look back at who cursed you. If a mad dog bites you, would you also lie down to bite it back?

5. 来是偶然的，走是必然的。所以你必须，随缘不变，不变随缘。

5. Arrival is accidental, departure is inevitable. Therefore, you must, remain unchanging with circumstances, and be unchanging according to circumstances.

6. 不要常常觉得自己很不幸，世界上比我们痛苦的人还要多。

6. Don't always feel that you are unlucky, as there are still many people in the world who suffer more than us.

7. 遇事不要急于下结论，即便有了答案也要等等，也许有更好的解决方式，站在不同的角度就有不同答案，要学会换位思维，特别是在遇到麻烦的时候，千万要学会等一等、靠一靠，很多时候不但麻烦化解了，说不准好运也来了。

7. Do not rush to draw conclusions when faced with problems. Even if you have an answer, wait a bit, as there might be a better solution. Different perspectives lead to different answers. Learn to think from others' perspectives, especially when encountering difficulties. Learn to wait and rely on others. Often, not only can the trouble be resolved, but unexpected good fortune may also come along.

8. 你有你的生命观，我有我的生命观，我不干涉你。只要我能，我就感化你。如果不能，那我就认命。

8. You have your own view of life, and I have mine. I do not interfere with you. As long as I can, I will try to influence you. If I can't, then I accept my fate.

9. 做一个人生的观光客吧，说到底只要与人为善，以德服人，离是非远点，靠家人近点，便有了心安，有了惬意。乐观的心态来自宽容，来自大度，来自善解人意，来自与世无争。坏心情是失眠时折磨出来的，其实现实并没有你想的那样糟糕，生命有高峰也有低谷，根本没有一帆风顺的人生，邓小平怎么样，三起三落，最后还不是凡事他说了算。

9. Be a tourist in life, after all, as long as you do good to others, win people over with your virtue, keep a distance from right and wrong, and stay close to your family, you will have peace of mind and comfort. An optimistic attitude comes from tolerance, generosity, understanding people's feelings, and not competing with the world. Bad moods are tortures when you can't sleep, but in reality, things are not as bad as you think. Life has peaks and valleys, and there is no smooth-sailing journey through life. What about Deng Xiaoping? He rose and fell three times, but in the end, he was still the one who had the final say on everything.

10. 别人讲我们不好，不用生气、难过。说我们好也不用高兴，这不好中有好，好中有坏，就看你会不会用？

10. Don't get angry or sad if others say bad things about us. Don't get happy either if they say good things about us. There's good in the bad, and bad in the good; it all depends on how you use it?

11. 心中装满著自己的看法与想法的人，永远听不见别人的心声。

11. A person whose mind is filled with their own opinions and ideas can never hear others' voices.

12. 每一个人都拥有生命，但并非每个人都懂得生命，乃至于珍惜生命。不了解生命的人，生命对他来说，是一种惩罚。

12. Everyone has life, but not everyone understands life, nor does everyone cherish life. To those who do not understand life, it is a form of punishment.

13. 背后夸奖你的人，知道了要珍藏在心里，这里面很少有水分。当面夸奖你那叫奉承，再难听些叫献媚，你可以一笑而过，就当什么也没发生，也许不久就有求于你，对于那种当众夸奖你的人，就疏忽不得了，也许你转过身去,就用指头戳你，掌握一条原则：逢人多贬自己，少夸别人，选先评优的时候除外。

13. Compliments you receive behind your back should be treasured in your heart, as there is rarely any insincerity in them. Compliments given to you face to face are flattery, and even more so, flattery in disguise; you can simply smile and let it go, as if nothing happened. Perhaps soon, they may have a favor to ask of you. You cannot afford to neglect those who praise you in public; otherwise, when you turn around, they might poke you with their fingers. Remember a principle: when there are many people around, criticize yourself more and praise others less, except when it's time for selecting outstanding individuals.

14. 纵观生命的长度，只有三万多天，所以我们要努力活出生命的宽度。

14. Over the span of life, there are only about 30,000 days, so we should strive to live out the breadth of life.

15. 他的行为真的不可原谅吗？还是说其实并没有什么，你不到一个月就会忘记了？想一想到了明天早上，你还会为此而烦恼吗？这些只有你自己才清楚。

15. Is his behavior really unforgivable, or is it actually not a big deal, something you'll forget in less than a month? Think about it, will you still be troubled by it tomorrow morning? Only you can be clear about these things.

16. 不要刻意去曲解别人的善意，你应当往好的地方想。

16. Do not deliberately misinterpret others' kindness; you should think positively.

17. 不要刻意去猜测他人的想法，如果你没有智慧与经验的正确判断，通常都会有错误的。

17. Do not deliberately guess others' thoughts. If you lack the correct judgment of wisdom and experience, it usually leads to mistakes.

18. 只要自觉心安，东西南北都好。如有一人未度，切莫自己逃了。

18. As long as one feels at ease in their mind, it's good to be in any direction, east, west, south, or north. If there is someone who has not yet been saved, one should never escape on their own.

19. 不知道 听过

19. Don't know if I've ever heard of it.

20. 25不宽恕众生，不原谅众生，是苦了你自己。

20. Not forgiving others and not forgiving the world will only bring suffering to yourself.

21. 诚实的面对你内心的矛盾和污点，不要欺骗你自己。

21. Be honest with yourself about your inner contradictions and flaws; don't deceive yourself.

22. 与任何人接触时，要常常问自己，我有什么对他有用？使他得益。如果我不能以个人的道德、学问和修持的力量，来使人受益，就等于欠了一份债。

22. When interacting with anyone, often ask yourself what can I offer to be useful to him? To benefit him. If I cannot use the power of my personal morality, knowledge, and cultivation to benefit others, it is as if I owe a debt.

23. 活着一天，就是有福气，就该珍惜。当我哭泣我没有鞋子穿的时候，我发现有人却没有脚。

23. Living for a day is a blessing, and it should be cherished. When I cry because I don't have shoes to wear, I realize that there are some people who don't even have feet.

24. 同样的瓶子，你为什么要装毒药呢？同样的心理，你为什么要充满着烦恼呢？

24. Why do you put poison in the same bottle? Why do you fill your mind with烦恼 (worry/distress)?

25. 9心中装满着自己的看法与想法的人，永远听不见别人的心声。

25. A person whose heart is filled with their own opinions and ideas can never hear the voice of others.

26. 12不要在你的智慧中夹杂着傲慢。不要使你的谦虚心缺乏智慧。

26. Do not let arrogance be mixed with your wisdom. Do not let your humility lack wisdom.

27. 你目前所拥有的都将随着你的死亡而成为他人的，那为何不现在就乐施给真正需要的人呢？

27. All that you currently possess will become the property of others upon your death. So why not give joyfully to those who truly need it now?

28. 请你用慈悲心和温和的态度，把你的不满与委屈说出来，别人就容易接受。

28. Please express your dissatisfaction and grievances with compassion and a gentle attitude, and others will be more willing to accept them.

29. 其实当我们推开抱怨的窗，就可以看见外面射来的阳光，抱怨并不能改善我们所经历的事态，反而会带来听觉污染。

29. In fact, when we open the window of complaint, we can see the sunlight shining outside. Complaining does not improve the situations we experience; instead, it brings auditory pollution.

30. 同样的瓶子，你为什么要装毒药呢？同样的心理，你为什么要充满著烦恼呢？

30. Why do you put poison in the same bottle? Why do you fill yourself with烦恼 (worry, trouble) with the same mindset?

31. 记住该记住的,忘记该忘记的。改变能改变的,接受不能接受的。

31. Remember what needs to be remembered, forget what needs to be forgotten. Change what can be changed, and accept what cannot be accepted.

32. 与其说是别人让你痛苦，不如说自己的修养不够。

32. It's more accurate to say that it's your own lack of cultivation that causes you pain, rather than others making you suffer.

33. 吃了就一定要拉，人一定要学会随缘放下，否则就会便秘。

33. If you eat it, you must defecate. People must learn to let go with what comes naturally, otherwise, you will suffer from constipation.

34. 不要因为小小的争执，远离了你至亲的好友，也不要因为小小的怨恨，忘记了别人的大恩。

34. Do not distance yourself from your closest friends due to trivial disputes, nor forget others' great kindness because of minor grievances.

35. 永远不要浪费你的一分一秒，去想任何你不喜欢的人。

35. Never waste a single second of your time thinking about anyone you don't like.

36. 如果你能像看别人缺点一样，如此准确般的发现自己的缺点，那么你的生命将会不平凡。

36. If you can discover your own shortcomings as accurately as you see the shortcomings of others, then your life will be extraordinary.

37. 很多时候，朋友的人品比能力更重要，做人可以不优秀，但不能不善良，可以不出色，但不能永远给别人添麻烦。

37. Often, a friend's character is more important than their abilities. One can be not outstanding in their character, but one cannot be unkind; one can be not exceptional, but one cannot always cause trouble for others.

38. 我们生活中可以接受对方提出反对意见，毕竟每个人的思想都不可能统一，我们所经历的事情也不一致，可是却无法接受这种在背后捅刀子的人。

38. We can accept when others express their opposition in our lives, after all, everyone's thoughts cannot be unified and the experiences we have are also different. However, we cannot accept such a person who stabs us in the back.

39. 14忌妒别人，不会给自己增加任何的好处。忌妒别人，也不可能减少别人的成就。

39. 14. Jealousy of others does not bring any benefit to oneself. Jealousy of others also cannot reduce the achievements of others.

40. 我能为你煮东西，但我不能为你吃东西。各人吃饭是各人饱，各人生死是个人事。

40. I can cook for you, but I can't eat for you. Each person eats for their own satisfaction, and each person's life and death is their own matter.

41. 心大了，事就小了，心小了，事就大了。如果自己的心胸太过于狭隘，生活中的一点鸡毛蒜皮，就会让你惴惴不安，人生中的一点荆棘坎坷，就会让你愁容满面。

41. When the heart is big, matters seem small; when the heart is small, matters seem big. If one's own mind is too narrow, even trivial matters in life can make you uneasy, and even a slight thorn or obstacle in life can make your face full of worries.

42. 不会轻易原谅一个背叛过我的人，这样的人对我造成了很大的伤害，从肉体到心灵都是一种折磨，我会把它深深地记在心里，警醒自己要时刻远离这样的人！

42. I am not easily forgiving to a person who has betrayed me; such a person has caused me great harm, a torture from the physical to the spiritual level, and I will deeply remember it in my heart, warning myself to always keep away from such people!

43. 别人可以违背因果，别人可以害我们，打我们，毁谤我们。可是我们不能因此而憎恨别人，为什么？我们一定要保有一颗完整的本性和一颗清净的心。

43. Others may violate causality, others may harm us, beat us, and defame us. However, we cannot hate others because of this. Why? We must maintain a complete nature and a pure heart.

44. 愚痴的人，一直想要别人了解他。有智慧的人，却努力的了解自己。

44. The foolish man always wants others to understand him, while the wise man strives to understand himself.

45. 心是最大的骗子，别人能骗你一时，而它却会骗你一辈子。

45. The heart is the greatest liar; others can deceive you for a moment, but it will deceive you for a lifetime.

46. 常以为别人在注意你，或希望别人注意你的人，会生活的比较烦恼。

46. People who often think others are paying attention to them or wish others to notice them tend to live in more烦恼 (trouble or worry).