1. 3幸福，就是当激情退去容颜衰老，牵你的还是那双不怨悔的手;就是当财富散尽一无所有，陪你的还是那颗不回头的心;就是当灾难降临众生远离，暖你的还是那份不冷却的情。幸福很简单，就是找一个温暖的人共同燃烧此生，奢侈、富贵、炫耀只是一层包装，只要你觉得是幸福的，其它一切都无所谓。

1. Happiness is when passion fades and the face grows old, yet the hand that holds you is still unwavering and uncomplaining; it is when wealth is spent and you have nothing left, yet the heart that stays with you is unyielding; it is when disaster strikes and people turn away, yet the warmth that comforts you remains unfading. Happiness is simple; it is finding a warm person to burn with through this life. Luxuriousness, wealth, and showmanship are just a layer of packaging. As long as you feel happy, everything else is irrelevant.

2. 不要去打扰任何人，所有的打扰都是自取其辱，自讨没趣，自找苦吃。世间皆苦，悲喜自渡。有困难自己扛起来，有委屈自己咽下去，有梦想自己去打拼，有痛苦自己去承受。不要指望别人会来帮助你，因为你我只是普通之人，别人没有帮助你的价值。

2. Do not disturb anyone. All disturbances are self-inflicted耻辱, self-created boredom, and self-imposed suffering. The world is full of suffering, and joy and sadness are self-soothed. Bear your difficulties yourself, swallow your grievances yourself, strive for your dreams yourself, and endure your pain yourself. Do not expect others to come and help you, because you and I are just ordinary people, and others do not see the value in helping you.

3. 什么功名利禄，名利金钱，全部都是过眼云烟，什么别人的看法和眼光，统统都不值一提。不要跟命运较劲，不要跟世界为难，不要让任何人、任何事拉低自己的幸福感。以知足常乐的态度，过随遇而安的生活。

3. What are fame, wealth, and fortune? They are all ephemeral as clouds passing by. What others think and their gaze, all of them are not worth mentioning. Do not argue with destiny, do not make trouble with the world, and do not let anyone or anything lower your happiness. Adopt an attitude of contentment and joy, and live a life of ease and comfort with whatever comes.

4. 记住：当坚持之苦大过放弃之痛，是该放手的时候了。

4. Remember: when the pain of persistence is greater than the pain of giving up, it is time to let go.

5. 我们无法改变环境，但是可以改变自己对待环境的态度，以最好的心态接受生命中发生的一切。

5. We cannot change the environment, but we can change our attitude towards it, and accept everything that happens in life with the best mindset.

6. 爱一个人,便会忘记路之远近,甚至希望那条路永远不会走完,永远不用说再见。公路如此,情路如此,即使到了门口,也想继续,徘徊,不舍得说别离。

6. To love someone is to forget the distance of the road, even hoping that that road will never end, never to have to say goodbye. This is true for both highways and the path of love. Even when one reaches the doorstep, one wishes to continue, to linger, and to不舍得 say farewell.

7. 10你可以让女人哭，可以让她受委屈，但不要让她沉默无言，因为沉默是一种最深的伤痛，无言是一个女人最悲的哭声。你要知道，女人最爱倾诉，不管生活有多少苦难，无论她有没有心事，她都想和你讲述关于她的一切,这是她爱你的最好方式。如果有一天，她突然安静了，你便走到了后悔的边缘。

7. 10 You can make a woman cry, you can let her feel wronged, but do not let her be silent, for silence is the deepest hurt, and wordlessness is the saddest cry of a woman. You must know that women love to confide, no matter how many hardships life brings, and whether or not she has any secrets, she wants to tell you everything about herself. This is the best way she shows her love for you. If one day she suddenly becomes quiet, you have reached the edge of regret.

8. 人是为了活着而活，不是为了活着之外的任何事物而活。

8. People live for the sake of living, not for anything beyond the act of living itself.

9. 5在朋友和恋人之间叫你选择，你会选择哪一个其实这个问题是多余的。真正懂你的恋人，他们会体谅你的行为，如果不体谅你，因此失去也不必太在意。恋人是要互相帮助的，而不是硬性迁就。

9.5 If you are asked to choose between friends and a lover, which one would you choose? Actually, this question is redundant. A truly understanding lover will understand your actions. If they don't, and you therefore lose them, it's not something you should worry about too much. Lovers are meant to support each other, not to be forced into compromises.

10. 真心爱你的人，不会对你忽冷忽热；真心追你的人，不会跟你玩暧昧；真心要娶你的人，不会胡乱承诺。

10. A person who truly loves you will not treat you with alternating warmth and coldness; a person who truly chases you will not play with ambiguous affection; a person who truly wants to marry you will not make hasty promises.

11. 偷偷地看你，偷偷地想你，偷偷地爱你最后，偷偷地哭了

11.偷偷地看你，偷偷地想你，偷偷地爱你，最后，偷偷地哭了.

12. 假如忧伤，就努力低头望天空吧，它那么大，一定可以容纳我们一切的心情。

12. If you are sad, try to bow your head and look at the sky. It is so vast that it must be able to accommodate all our emotions.

13. 有些人的生命没有风景，是因为他只在别人造好的、最方便的水管里流过来流过去。你不要理那些水管，你要真的流经一个又一个风景，你才会是一条河。

13. Some people's lives lack scenery because they flow back and forth in the most convenient water pipes that others have built. You should not pay attention to those pipes; only when you truly pass through one scenery after another will you be a river.

14. 来了就来了，过了就过了。凡事都要一清二楚，最后痛苦的一定是自己，把格局打开，你会发现很多人和事不配影响你的情绪。”

14. "If it comes, it comes; if it passes, it passes. Everything should be clear-cut. Ultimately, the one who will suffer is yourself. Open up your perspective, and you'll find that many people and things are not worthy of affecting your mood."

15. 即使不开心也不要皱眉,因为你永远不知道谁会爱上你的笑容

15. Don't frown even if you're not happy, because you never know who will fall in love with your smile.

16. 我把我们的故事刻在被风化的山墙上、路人都看哭了。

16. I etched our story onto the weathered wall, and it brought tears to the eyes of every passerby.

17. 当真正喜欢上一个人的时候,你会发现自己不敢直视他的眼睛

17. When you truly fall in love with someone, you find that you dare not look directly into their eyes.

18. 感情有时候只是一个人的事情。和任何人无关。爱，或者不爱，只能自行了断。

18. Sometimes emotions are just a matter of one person. They have nothing to do with anyone else. Love, or not to love, can only be decided by oneself.

19. 明晓得那团体不值得却还是义无反顾，这就是爱情。

19. Knowing full well that the group is not worth it, yet going all out regardless, this is love.

20. 人生有很多事，需要忍；人生有很多欲，需要忍；人生有很多情，需要忍；人生有很多苦，需要忍；人生有许多痛，需要忍；人生有很多话，需要忍。人生有很多气，需要忍。忍，有时是环境和机遇对人性的社会要求，有时则是心灵深处对人性魔邪的一种自律。

20. There are many things in life that require tolerance; there are many desires that require tolerance; there are many emotions that require tolerance; there are many sorrows that require tolerance; there are many pains that require tolerance; there are many things that require tolerance in life. There are many frustrations that require tolerance. Patience, at times, is the social requirement of humanity imposed by the environment and opportunities, and at other times, it is a form of self-discipline from the depths of the soul against the evil tendencies of humanity.

21. 很多人希望自己成功，想选择一条别人没有走过的路，其实只要是路，就已经被人走过了，我们要做的，是应该在别人走过的路上，比别人走得更久，比别人走得更远，走得更久就能够走出别人没有走出的距离，走得更远就能够看到别人所没有看到的风景。

21. Many people wish to achieve success and want to choose a path that others have not taken. In reality, as long as it is a path, it has already been walked by others. What we should do is to walk longer and farther than others on the paths they have walked. Walking longer allows us to cover distances that others have not reached, and walking farther enables us to see landscapes that others have not seen.

22. 爱情需要忠诚，但并非是全裸。就爱情而言，忠诚不是什么都应该告诉对方，对方也没有权力必须知道所爱人的一切。否则就是掌控，一个被人掌控的人，是没有自己的私密、空间、自由、魅力、退路的。这样的爱情很难持久。一个想掌控别人的人不是爱情而是欲望膨胀。

22. Love requires loyalty, but it is not about being fully exposed. In terms of love, loyalty does not mean sharing everything with the other person, nor does the other person have the right to know everything about the beloved. Otherwise, it becomes control, and a person who is controlled has no privacy, space, freedom, charm, or retreat. Such love is hard to sustain. A person who wants to control others is driven not by love but by an inflated desire.

23. 真心爱你的人永远不会放你走，不论遇到多大的窘境

23. A person who truly loves you will never let you go, no matter what difficulties they encounter.

24. 8其实很想念曾经，关于那些人、那些事，不是说忘掉就能忘掉。想念我们曾经肆无忌惮的笑。想念我们曾经的喜怒哀乐。想念我们曾经天真的誓言。想念我们曾经一切的一切。只是，如今我已释怀。谁都不会是谁的谁。谁也不会一辈子陪在谁的身边。我只希望我们都好好的。好好的笑，好好的过，好好的一辈子。

24. 8 actually misses the past very much. As for those people and those things, it's not something that can be forgotten just like that. We miss the times when we laughed carefree. We miss our ups and downs, joys and sorrows in the past. We miss the innocent promises we made in the past. We miss everything we had in the past. However, now I have let go. No one is anyone's forever. No one will stay by someone's side for a lifetime. I only wish that we all do well. Laugh well, live well, and have a good life.

25. 找不到答案的时候，就独自出去看一看这个世界。

25. When you can't find the answer, go out alone to see this world.

26. 苏东坡是朝廷的高官，京城的才子，因为一场突如其来的乌台诗案，被贬谪到荒凉偏远的黄州。亲戚朋友不与他来往，当地官府时时监视，没有了经济来源，生活捉襟见肘，异常艰难。

26. Su Dongpo was a high official in the court and a talent in the capital. Due to an unexpected incident of the Wutai poetry case, he was demoted and exiled to the desolate and remote Huangzhou. His relatives and friends no longer kept contact with him, the local government constantly monitored him, and without an economic source, he struggled with a difficult life, barely making ends meet.

27. 不关注任何人的动态，不揣摩任何人的想法，不把时间和精力浪费在任何人身上，不打扰别人，也不让自己被别人所打扰，安安静静做自己想做的事情，从容不迫过自己喜欢的生活。

27. Pay no attention to anyone's activities, do not guess anyone's thoughts, do not waste time and energy on anyone, do not disturb others, nor allow yourself to be disturbed by others. Quietly do what you want to do, and calmly live the life you like.

28. 虽然我未蛮18岁，但终究挡不住爱情的来临。

28. Although I am not yet 18 years old, I cannot ultimately resist the arrival of love.

29. 浮华一生，淡忘一季。空有回忆，打乱缠绵。笑脸不见，落寞万千。弦，思华年。那些年华，恍然如梦。亦如，流水，一去不返。不泣告别，不诉终殇。

29. A life of splendor, a forgotten season. Only memories remain, disrupting the tender moments. No smiling faces, only countless loneliness. Strings, thinking of the good years. Those years, as if in a dream. Just like flowing water, once gone, never to return. No tears shed at parting, no sorrowful tales of the end.

30. 我能为你煮东西,但我不能为你吃东西。各人吃饭是各人饱,各人生死是个人了。

30. I can cook something for you, but I cannot eat it for you. Each person eats for themselves and each person faces their own fate.

31. 不要对任何人羡慕嫉妒恨，别人升职加薪了，别人买车买房了，别人风光无限了，那是别人的事情，和你毫无关系，没有必要眼红，破坏自己的心情。别人失业了，失败了，失恋了，也不要幸灾乐祸或者心生嘲讽之意，那样很不道德。

31. Do not envy or hate anyone. If someone gets a promotion or a raise, if someone buys a car or a house, if someone is in the spotlight, that is their own business and has nothing to do with you. There is no need to be envious and ruin your own mood. Nor should you be happy about someone else's unemployment, failure, or broken love, as that is very unethical.

32. 男人都喜欢笑着刺他一刀的女人,而不是哭着求他的女人、

32. Men all like women who stab them with a smile rather than those who beg for him with tears.

33. 锦绣的东西大多经不起摧残，譬如水晶，譬如水晶般的爱情

33. Most beautiful things cannot withstand destruction, such as crystal, or love as clear as crystal.

34. 虽然我未蛮18岁,但终究挡不住爱情的降临。

34. Although I'm not yet 18, I can't resist the arrival of love.

35. 明知道那个人不值得却还是义无反顾,这就是爱情。

35. Even though you know that person is not worth it, you still go all out without hesitation; this is love.

36. 不要计较任何事情，人生除了生死，没有一件大事！把格局打开，把心态修好，凡事顺其自然，人生自然可以云淡风轻。

36. Don't worry about anything; in life, there is nothing as important as life and death! Expand your horizons, cultivate a good mindset, let everything go with the flow, and life will naturally be carefree and light.

37. 孤单是你想约朋友逛街，结果发现朋友已经约了别的朋友，于是他对你说抱歉。孤单是你再也不会为一个人的生日而费尽心机地去挑礼物。孤单是你再不会因为书里的情节和自己的故事相似而大哭一场。孤单是我站在这条经线，而你站在那一条经线，我和你之间隔了几点几个时差。

37. Loneliness is when you want to invite friends to go shopping, only to find out that they have already made plans with other friends, and they apologize to you. Loneliness is when you no longer go to great lengths to choose a gift for someone's birthday on their own. Loneliness is when you no longer cry your eyes out because the plot in the book resembles your own story. Loneliness is when I stand on this longitude line, and you stand on that longitude line, and the distance between us is several points and several hours of time difference.

38. 9有多少人，明明分手了，却还爱着。有多少人，明明还爱着，却说放下了，有多少人，明明难过，却还微笑着说我很好。

38. How many people, even though they have ended the relationship, still love. How many people, even though they still love, say they have let go. How many people, even though they are sad, still smile and say, "I'm fine."

39. 我能为你煮东西，但我不能为你吃东西。各人吃饭是各人饱，各人生死是团体了。

39. I can cook for you, but I can't eat for you. Each person eats for their own fullness, and each person's life and death is tied together as a group.

40. 有时候，有些人不需说再见，就已离开了。有时候，有些事不用开口也明白。有时候，有些路不走也会变长。总望着曾经的空间发呆，那些说好不分开的人不在了，转身，陌路。熟悉的，安静了，安静的，离开了，离开的，陌生了，陌生的，消失了，消失的，陌路了。

40. Sometimes, some people leave without even saying goodbye. Sometimes, some things are understood without a word. Sometimes, some paths seem to grow longer without taking a step. Staring blankly at the space of the past, those who promised not to part are gone, and when I turn around, we are strangers. The familiar has grown quiet, the quiet has left, the departed has become unfamiliar, the unfamiliar has vanished, and the vanished have become strangers.

41. 苏东坡没有在窘境之中垂头丧气，更没有沉沦不起。他自己开荒种地，自给自足，到市场买廉价的猪肉，变着法做着吃，创造出了东坡肘子和东坡肉。闲暇的时候，就和邻居的老农民喝喝酒，聊聊天，有时候还在田间地头和老汉们讲讲鬼故事。他把自己当做一个真正的农夫，忘记了在朝堂之上位高权重的角色，完全融入了一个崭新的生活环境。

41. Su Dongpo did not lose heart or sink into despair in difficult circumstances. He himself cleared land and farmed, becoming self-sufficient. He would buy inexpensive pork from the market, cook it in various ways, and created Dongpo Braised Pork Leg and Dongpo Pork. In his leisure time, he would drink and chat with the old farmers in his neighborhood, and sometimes even tell ghost stories to the old men in the fields. He regarded himself as a genuine farmer, forgetting his powerful position and influence at court, and fully immersed himself in a brand new living environment.

42. 真心爱你的人永远不会放你走,不管遇到多大的困境

42. A person who truly loves you will never let you go, no matter how great the difficulties they face.

43. 其实，我很累了，我习惯假装坚强，习惯了一个人面对所有，我不知道自己到底想怎么样。有时候我可以很开心的和每个人说话，可以很放肆的，可是却没有人知道，那不过是伪装，很刻意的伪装；我可以让自己很快乐很快乐，可是却找不到快乐的源头，只是傻笑。

43. In fact, I'm really tired. I'm accustomed to pretending to be strong and to facing everything alone. I don't know exactly what I want. Sometimes I can talk to everyone happily, can be very unrestrained, but no one knows that it's just a facade, a very deliberate facade; I can make myself very happy, very happy, but I can't find the source of happiness, I just傻笑 (smile foolishly).

44. 生命是一条孤独的河流，只有自己才是人生的摆渡人。不要跟任何人走近，不要对任何人抱有心存幻想的期待和不切实际的妄想，人与人之间的关系，归根到底是利益关系。当你有用的时候，别人因为你的价值而来，当你没用的时候，没有人会愿意搭理你。

44. Life is a solitary river, and only oneself is the ferryman of life. Do not get too close to anyone, and do not hold any unrealistic expectations or illusions for anyone. The relationship between people is, at its core, a relationship of interests. When you are useful, others come to you because of your value. When you are no longer useful, no one will be willing to pay attention to you.

45. 非常有道理的一段话：“不要把什么都看得那么重，别人有的，你可能没有；你有的，别人也未必有。

45. A very sensible statement: "Don't take everything so seriously. You may not have what others have; and what you have, others may not necessarily have."

46. 耳。没有喧闹。眼。没有缤纷。嘴。沉默沉静不语。

46. Ear. No noise. Eye. No dazzling. Mouth. Silent and quiet, not a word spoken.

47. 即便不开心也不要皱眉，由于你永远不晓得谁会爱上你的愁容

47. Even if you're not happy, don't frown; you never know who might fall in love with your frown.

48. 锦绣的东西大多经不起摧残,譬如水晶,譬如水晶般的爱情

48. Most things that are beautiful cannot withstand destruction, like crystal, or like love as clear as crystal.

49. 有时候，面对着身边的人，突然觉得说不出话。有时候，曾经一直坚持的东西一夜间面目全非。

49. Sometimes, in the presence of those around, one suddenly finds oneself unable to speak. Sometimes, what one has always held on to can change beyond recognition overnight.

50. 人生最怕什么都想计较，却又什么都抓不住。凡事不必苛求，很多事，不是你想，就能做到的。很多人，不是你留，就能留住的。

50. The greatest fear in life is to want to nitpick about everything, yet to grasp nothing at all. Do not be overly demanding of things, as many things are not within your control, no matter how much you want them to be. Many people are not within your grasp, no matter how hard you try to keep them.

51. 一生至少该有一次，为了某个人而忘了自己，不求有结果，不求同行，不求曾经拥有，甚至不求你爱我，只求在我最美的年华里，遇到你。

51. In a lifetime, one should at least once forget oneself for someone, without seeking a result, without desiring to be together, without yearning for having had, even without asking for your love. Just to meet you during the most beautiful years of my life.

52. 男人都喜欢笑着刺他一刀的女人，而不是哭着求他的女人、

52. Men prefer women who stab him with a smile rather than those who beg him with tears.

53. 1一段路，每段情都会有回忆，每段路都会有记忆。当一条路没有走完时，若在中途看到岔路口，不要因一时好奇而转弯，到时发现自己走错了路，却已没有回头路可走在一段情还没有结束时，若看到一个转折点，不要因一时心迷而选择放弃，等到自己后悔之后再回头，却发现已无路可走。

53. 1 Every stretch of road carries memories, every journey holds its own recollections. When a path is not yet complete and you come upon a岔路口 in the middle, don't turn off because of a momentary curiosity; for when you realize you've taken the wrong route, it's too late to turn back. In a relationship that hasn't yet come to an end, if you encounter a turning point, don't give up impulsively due to temporary confusion; wait until you regret it and turn back, only to find there's no path left to walk.

54. 如果难过,就努力抬头望天空吧,它那么大,一定可以包容我们所有的情绪。

54. If you feel sad, try to look up at the sky, it is so vast that it must be able to embrace all of our emotions.

55. 作家林语堂这么评价：苏东坡是一个无可救药的乐天派！

55. The writer Lin Yutang evaluated him as follows: Su Dongpo was an incurable optimist!

56. 4恋爱虽然甜蜜，却也有太多的起落和烦恼。没有爱情的日子，是最无牵无挂的。一个女孩子，要好好珍惜爱情还没有来临的时光。爱情一旦来了，人生再不单纯。

56. 4 Love is sweet, but it also has too many ups and downs and troubles. Days without love are the most carefree. A girl should cherish the time when love has not yet come. Once love arrives, life will never be simple again.

57. 旋转木马是最残忍的游戏，彼此追逐却有永恒的间隔。

57. The carousel is the most cruel game, chasing each other yet with an eternal gap.

58. 走的最急的是最美的景色，伤的最深的是最真的感情～

58. The most beautiful scenery is the one that one walks through most eagerly, and the deepest injury is the one that comes from the most genuine feelings. ~

59. 2我们总是带着面具走进爱情的，总想展示自己最优越的一面，刻意隐藏着平凡普通的那部分。你要接受一个人，不只是接受他的优越，而是看清了他的平凡普通却仍然去深爱。事实经常是：我们走着走着，就感觉对方变了，其实我们并没有变，我们只是走进对方最真实的地方，然后迷失了自己。

59. 2 We always enter love wearing masks, always wanting to show our most superior side and deliberately hiding the ordinary and common part of ourselves. To accept someone is not just to accept their superiority, but to see their ordinariness and still deeply love them. The fact is often: As we walk along, we feel that the other person has changed, but in fact, we have not changed. We have just walked into the most genuine part of the other person, and then lost ourselves.

60. 最无私的阳光也照不到一个人的全身，有光有影，想晒前额时面对太阳，想晒后背时转过身来。不要太多埋怨，我们努力自己去适应。

60. Even the most selfless sunlight cannot shine on a person's entire body; there is light and shadow. When you want to bask in the sunlight on your forehead, face the sun; when you want to bask in it on your back, turn around. Do not complain too much; we should strive to adapt ourselves.

61. 6就算你瘦了，变好看了，你什么都好了，不爱你的人还是不爱你;即使你再胖，再难看，再怎么不好，爱你的人永远不会嫌弃你。

61. Even if you lose weight and become more attractive, you're still good at everything, but if someone doesn't love you, they still won't love you. Even if you gain weight, look ugly, or be however bad, the person who loves you will never discard you.

62. 当真正喜欢上一团体的时分，你会发现本人不敢直视他的眼睛

62. When you truly fall for a group, you'll find that you dare not look directly into their eyes.

63. 如果你真的深爱一个人,那麽就算换了时空,变了容颜,你也能从千百万人中认出那个熟悉的灵魂,然后再次地爱上他。

63. If you truly love someone deeply, then even if time and space change, and their appearance alters, you will still be able to recognize that familiar soul among millions, and fall in love with them all over again.

64. 他的世界没有她，她的世界只有他。世界就是这样，从来没有公平可言。这是一场没有时限的角力战，谁在乎的越多，就输的越惨。

64. His world without her, her world with only him. That's how the world is, it never speaks of fairness. This is a relentless battle without time limits, and the more one cares, the more惨 they lose.

65. 凡世的喧嚣和明亮，世俗的快乐和幸福，如同清亮的溪涧，在风里，在我眼前，汨汨而过，温暖如同泉水一样涌出来，我没有奢望，我只要你快乐，不要哀伤

65. The hustle and bustle, the brightness of the world, the secular joys and happiness, are like clear mountain streams, flowing past in the wind, before my eyes, gurgling, their warmth gushing out like spring water. I have no lofty aspirations, I just wish for your happiness, not sorrow.

66. 不一定要爱上一个漂亮的人，但要爱上一个使你的生活变漂亮的人。

66. It's not necessary to fall in love with a beautiful person, but you should fall in love with someone who makes your life beautiful.