在岁月的长河中，十四句人生箴言，字字铿锵，句句解忧。它们如灯塔，照亮你后半生的航程，顺风顺水，乘风破浪。

In the long river of time, there are fourteen life maxims, each word resounding, each sentence alleviating worries. They are like lighthouses, illuminating the journey of your latter half of life, sailing smoothly with the wind and surmounting waves.

1. 菇凉，要找一个能毁了你口红的人，而不是找一个会毁了你睫毛膏的人。

1. Girl, you should look for someone who can ruin your lipstick, not someone who can ruin your eyeliner.

2. 你走以后，那些思念，在每一个深夜、清晨、白昼、黄昏、就像一把尖锐的针，每想你一次，就深深的刺痛我一次。

2. After you left, those thoughts of you, at every midnight, dawn, daylight, dusk, they are like sharp needles, piercing me deeply each time I miss you.

3. 26我又双叒叕开始为了江山不夜流眼泪了，奈何作者连一粒尘埃都不愿意往坑里填。

3. 26 Once again, I'm shedding tears for the kingdom that never sleeps, but unfortunately, the author is unwilling to even drop a speck of dust into the hole.

4. 纠结郁闷为什么个性网表白的那么多怎么就没人跟我表白哪怕同名也好啊多浪漫啊!!

4. Why am I so troubled and upset? There are so many people confessing their love on social media, but why doesn't anyone confess their love to me, even if it's someone with the same name? How romantic would that be!!

5. 不知疲惫，不知困倦，只因归心似箭，与你相伴，因为你是那精神支柱。可是每个人得想法是不一样的，感受也不一样。这次的归来觉得自己并没有那么重要。我并不责怪，只是有些失落

5. Un weary, un tired, all because my heart is as swift as an arrow, desiring to be with you, for you are that pillar of spirit. However, everyone has different thoughts and feelings. This time, upon returning, I feel that I am not as important as I thought. I do not blame, but I am somewhat disheartened.

6. 如果世界只剩下十分钟，我愿意和你细数曾经的浪漫。如果世界只剩下一分钟我愿意说六十次我爱你。

6. If the world has only ten minutes left, I'm willing to recount the past romance with you. If the world has only one minute left, I'm willing to say "I love you" sixty times.

7. 10年纪大了就是微信里说话的永远都是那几个，出来玩的也是，在乎的也是，剩下的都是一粒尘埃罢了，何足挂齿。

7. At the age of 10, it's always the same few people you talk to on WeChat, the same few you go out to play with, the same few you care about; the rest are just a grain of dust, what is there to be concerned about?

8. 我把情话给了风，把爱慕给了雨，把热情给了太阳，把温柔给了月亮，独留一颗玻璃心在风中凌乱。

8. I gave my sweet words to the wind, my admiration to the rain, my passion to the sun, and my gentleness to the moon, leaving only a heart of glass to be chaotic in the wind.

9. 所谓爱，就是别人担心你会胖，我却担心你没吃饱。

9. What is love? It's that while others worry about whether you'll get fat, I worry if you've eaten enough.

10. 想喝水时，仿佛能喝下整个太平洋，这是热恋中的浪漫情态。真的喝起来，充其量只能喝两杯，这是婚姻中的现实

10. When one craves water, it seems as if they could drink the entire Pacific Ocean, which is a romantic gesture in the midst of passionate love. But in reality, one can only drink at most two cups, this is the reality within marriage.

11. 总是感慨时间的无情，却没有发现自己的无义；总是抱怨时间的不公，却没有发现自己的懦弱；总是无视时间的存在，却也没有发现自己的位置；当我们还在抱怨时，时间却悄无声息的走了，青春也随它远去。人一生有多少青春可以挥霍，又有多少时间可以消磨。当青春成为回忆，在我们记忆中又留下什么？

11. Always feeling the relentless nature of time, yet not realizing one's own meaninglessness; always complaining about the unfairness of time, yet not acknowledging one's own weakness; always ignoring the presence of time, yet not finding one's own position; when we are still complaining, time quietly slips away, and youth follows it into the distance. How much youth can one squander in a lifetime, and how much time can be wasted? When youth turns into memories, what do we leave behind in our memories?

12. 也许有一天你会发现其实自己并没有那么重要，如果太看重自己很容易就会受伤，但是自己要是看低自己这就不是受伤，而是受罪了！

12. Perhaps one day you will realize that you are not as important as you might think. It's easy to get hurt if you overestimate yourself, but if you undervalue yourself, that's not hurt, it's suffering!

13. 现在，既不光鲜也不鄙陋的我，开始觉得自己并没有那么重要和特殊，但也接受了自己的平凡，从前总爱无病呻吟，从今看到身边的亲人，我想要收起我的小矫情，因为长大了，就有更大的烦恼需要我一起去承担，生活就是跌跌撞撞的，懦夫到强者之前的转变可能就发生在一夜之间，希望我也能勇敢面对生活的挑战

13. Now, neither glossy nor shabby, I start to feel that I am not as important and special as I used to think, but I also accept my ordinariness. From now on, seeing my loved ones around me, I want to put away my little melodrama, because as I grow up, there are greater troubles that I need to bear together. Life is full of bumps and falls, and the transformation from a coward to a strong person may happen overnight. I hope I can also bravely face the challenges of life.

14. 如果你不珍惜我，没关系。当某天，你被伤害，想起我，你就会明白。

14. If you don't cherish me, it's fine. Someday when you're hurt and remember me, you'll understand.

15. 爱情羞闭的花瓣舒张，在人世显露丰满的娇艳。

15. The petals of love, previously shyly closed, now unfold, revealing their full, lush charm in the world.

16. 意想追求浪漫的情 君且当作不情之请。

16. If you seek a romantic partner, consider my request as an unwilling one.

17. 眼睛里是藏不住爱意的，一见到公子呀，小女子的眼里就有星星。

17. Love cannot be hidden in the eyes; upon seeing the young master, the eyes of this young maiden are filled with stars.

18. 人生有你，星空灿烂；人生有你，四季如春；人生有你，无所畏惧；人生有你，永远都有期盼。

18. With you in my life, the stars shine bright; with you in my life, every season is like spring; with you in my life, I have no fear; with you in my life, there is always hope.

19. 此岸彼岸，如隔一条沧海，我是一只蝶，纵然我有飞过沧海的勇气，可彼岸却没有了等待。只能站在渡口眼睁睁看着这一场离别，被风尘刻画成碑，伫立在渡口等待某一个归人。既然爱与不爱，来生都不再遇见，不如倚楼听风雨，淡看江湖路。转身，把快乐留给你，把悲伤赋予自已，默然葬心，寂静别离。

19. On this side and the other side, separated by a vast sea, I am a butterfly. Even though I have the courage to fly over the sea, there is no longer any waiting on the other side. I can only stand at the ferry terminal and watch helplessly as this parting scene unfolds, etched into a monument by the dust and wind, standing at the ferry terminal waiting for someone to return. Since love or not, in the next life we will no longer meet, it's better to lean against the tower and listen to the wind and rain, lightly watching the journey through the world. Turn around, leaving happiness to you, and bestowing sorrow upon myself. Quietly bury my heart, and silently part ways.

20. 只要能和你在一起，哪怕做最无聊的事情也感觉最浪漫、

20. As long as I am with you, even the most boring things feel the most romantic,

21. 突然觉得自己并没有想象中那么重要，而且结局是很惨烈的那种。

21. Suddenly felt that I am not as important as I thought, and the ending is going to be惨烈 (extremely fierce or tragic).

22. 如果所有的深爱都是秘密，那么只说给哪一个人听就好。

22. If all deep love is a secret, then it's enough to tell it to just one person.

23. 12当你因为我的离去而伤心落泪时，抬头看看那片曾经属于我们的天空。天依旧那么蓝，白云依旧那么潇洒，不要哭，因为我的离去并没有带走你的世界。

23. 12 When you are heartbroken and shedding tears because of my departure, look up at that sky that once belonged to us. The sky is still so blue, the white clouds still so carefree. Don't cry, for my departure has not taken your world away.

24. 2若为死，不要石沉大海，不要埋入黄土，惟愿做银河系里的一粒尘埃，不为地球引力所吸引，若有来世，便可不回地球不留人间不为人，没有七情六欲，没有这副矛盾的躯体。

24. 2 If I were to die, do not let me sink into the depths of the sea or be buried in the earth. I wish to be a speck of dust in the Milky Way, unattracted by the gravity of Earth. If there is a next life, I would not return to Earth, leave behind the human world, and not be a human being. Free from the seven emotions and desires, free from this contradictory body.

25. 浪漫会变质 美丽又常常会消失

25. Romanticism can deteriorate; beauty often fades away.

26. 无论世界怎么变，无论你的心还在不在，我都要告诉你：我依然爱你，你永远都是我心中最大的眷恋。

26. No matter how the world changes, no matter if your heart is still here or not, I have to tell you: I still love you, and you will always be the greatest affection in my heart.

27. 我的爱很简单，谁会牵着我的手看日出的浪漫。

27. My love is simple: who would hold my hand to watch the romance of the sunrise.

28. 13我知道我是这浩瀚世界的一粒尘埃，但确是不可或缺的一份子。

28. 13 I know that I am but a speck of dust in this vast world, yet I am an indispensable part of it.

29. 1足够用心才会足够特别，于千万人而言，你和我可能不过是芸芸众生中的一粒尘埃，不过你对于我而言，却是一颗闪耀星辰。

29. 1 It takes enough dedication to be truly special. To millions of people, you and I might just be a speck of dust in the crowd, but to me, you are a shining star.

30. 他不会跟我说太多暖心的话，他不会时不时的给我制造小浪漫，他不会逗我开心，但我还是会爱他。李彦胜我爱你

30. He won't say too many heartwarming things to me, he won't occasionally create little romantic moments for me, he won't make me happy, but I will still love him. Li Yan Sheng, I love you.

31. 17生命原本就是一个谜，而我们不必在行走的开始，就去猜测最后的谜底。只要循着春秋的印痕，将漫长的过程填充，来完成生活给予的使命。那么，纵然渺小得如一株草木、一只蝼蚁、一粒尘埃，也可以彻悟人生的主题。白落梅

31. Life itself is a mystery, and we do not need to guess the final answer to the mystery at the beginning of our journey. As long as we follow the imprints of spring and autumn, fill in the long process, and fulfill the mission given by life, then even though we may be as small as a plant, an ant, or a grain of dust, we can fully comprehend the theme of life. — Bai Luomei

32. 不要轻易去依赖一个人，它会成为你的习惯，当分别来临，你失去的不是某个人，而是你精神的支柱。无论何时何地，都要学会独立行走，它会让你走得更坦然些。宫崎骏

32. Do not easily depend on one person, as it may become a habit. When parting comes, what you lose is not just a person, but the支柱 of your spirit. At all times and places, learn to walk independently, which will allow you to move more comfortably. - Hayao Miyazaki

33. 风筝总会有断线的那一天，可只要我们一起守护，就永远不会断。

33. Kites will always have a day when the string breaks, but as long as we protect them together, they will never break.

34. 想要你陪我一起过结婚纪念日不喜欢情人节七夕各种节日也许不太懂浪漫或许太期待能够真真正正在一起的日子到

34. I want you to celebrate our wedding anniversary with me. I don't like Valentine's Day, Qixi Festival, or other holidays. Maybe I don't understand romance well, or perhaps I'm too much looking forward to truly being together on our special days.

35. 当看到在乎的人和别人玩得很嗨的时候,自己却被冷落在一旁,那种感觉真的很难受

35. It really feels terrible when you see someone you care about having a great time with others while you're left aside, feeling ignored.

36. 还记得那天你问我为什么喜欢下雪吗因为雪花飘落的时候就是最浪漫的时光

36. Do you remember asking me why I like snowing the other day? Because it's the most romantic time when the snowflakes are falling.

37. 我从来不屑于做对的事情，在我年轻的时候，有勇气的时候。年轻时并不知道自己要过什么样的生活，但一直清楚地知道我不要过什么样的生活。那些能预知的，经过权衡和算计的世俗生活对我毫无吸引力，我要的不是成功，而是看到生命的奇迹。廖一梅

37. I have never cared to do the right thing, when I was young and brave. In my youth, I didn't know what kind of life I wanted to live, but I was always clear about the kind of life I didn't want to live. The predictable, weighed and calculated secular life holds no attraction for me. What I seek is not success, but to witness the miracles of life. Liao Yimei

38. 爱情里，总有一个主角和一个配角，累的永远是主角，伤的永远是配角；有时，爱也是种伤害：残忍的人，选择伤害别人，善良的人，选择伤害自己；人生就是一种承受，需要学会支撑。支撑事业，支撑家庭，甚至支撑起整个社会，有支撑就一定会有承受，支撑起多少重量，就要承受多大压力。

38. In love, there is always a leading character and a supporting character. It is always the leading character who is tired, and the supporting character who is hurt. Sometimes, love can also be a form of harm: the cruel ones choose to harm others, while the kind-hearted ones choose to harm themselves. Life is a matter of endurance, and one needs to learn to bear it. This includes supporting one's career, supporting one's family, and even supporting the entire society. With support comes the need to endure, and the more weight one bears, the greater the pressure one must withstand.

39. 我想要喝热饮我想要喝红糖水我想要听你叫我不要吃冷的酸的

39. I want to drink a hot drink, I want to drink brown sugar water, I want you to call me not to eat cold and sour foods.

40. 爱你没有随时间流逝而飘移，爱的记忆却在渐渐清晰。只因爱你而无法忘记。时光荏苒，生命如歌，不变的是爱的永恒旋律和不朽岁月。爱上你已不想忘记。

40. My love for you does not drift away with the passage of time, but the memories of it grow clearer. It's because of my love that I can't forget. As time goes by, life is like a song, and what remains unchanged are the eternal melody of love and the timeless years. Having fallen in love with you, I don't want to forget.

41. 带点小浪漫的天秤座萌妮子喜欢看雨后粉紫色的天空旅行，忘记悲伤与不快

41. The romantically inclined Libra cute girl loves to gaze at the pink and purple sky after the rain, forgetting her sorrows and unpleasantness.

42. 才发现自己并没有那么重要，想象和现实终究还是有距离的，一切都说自己想的太天真，都说分手之后的复合，最后还是会以曾经的理由分手，大抵就是这样的，无需抱有太大的希望，因为时间久了就是绝望。

42. Only then did I realize that I am not as important as I thought, and there is always a gap between imagination and reality. Everyone says that what I thought was too naive, that a reconciliation after a breakup will still end in a breakup for the same reasons as before. It's probably like that, and there is no need to hold out too much hope, because after a long time, it will only lead to despair.

43. 越来越觉得我们不适合在一起，他很自私，不咋顾我的感受，可能我想多了，自己并没有那么重要，我很生气又很难过，这种难过已经不能意欲在脸上，哭不出来，很痛苦。不如哭一下，让自己有个释放，再也不会像以前那样爱的人离开哭的撕心裂肺了，。因为现在的难过已经哭不出来了。

43. I'm increasingly feeling that we're not a good match together. He's very selfish and doesn't much care about how I feel. Maybe I'm overthinking it, and I'm not that important after all. I'm so angry and so sad, and this sadness can no longer be concealed on my face. I can't cry, and it's extremely painful. Why not just let myself cry for a moment, to have some relief? I'll never cry my eyes out anymore like I used to when the one I loved left. Because the sadness I'm feeling now can't be cried out anymore.