沉沦金贵，心宽无碍，活出真我。

Luxuriate in gold, but keep an open heart, and live out your true self.

1. 余华说：“人和人交往还是少说话，克制表达欲，平静温和就行，不自卑也别炫耀。别为了获得共鸣，讲起过往没完没了。

1. Yu Hua said, "In interpersonal relationships, it's better to talk less, control the desire to express, and remain calm and gentle. Don't be self-deprecating or boastful. Don't keep talking about the past just to seek共鸣."

2. 无所顾忌，勇于前行，尽情的奔赴自己渴望的生，我们才能不负今生。

2. Without any reservations, dare to forge ahead, and fully pursue the life we yearn for, only then can we not squander this life.

3. ​无意间表现的品质，被对方发现才更招人喜欢，胜过千言万语。仔细想想，你哪次滔滔不绝后，带来的不是悔恨。”

3. Qualities displayed unintentionally are more endearing when discovered by the other party, outweighing a thousand words. Reflect on it, when was the last time your endless chatter did not bring regret?

4. 不要和重要的人说不重要的事，也不要和不重要的人说不重要的事。我们与别人打交道，除了必要的话，最好就别说话。克制自己的表达欲和炫耀欲，宁可让别人认为你是一个平平无奇之人，也不要没完没了地炫耀自己，招致别人的反感和厌恶。

4. Do not talk about unimportant matters to important people, nor to unimportant people about unimportant matters. When dealing with others, it is best to keep silent unless necessary.克制自己的表达欲和炫耀欲，宁可选择让别人认为你是一个平凡无奇的人，也不要不断地炫耀自己，以免引起别人的反感和厌恶。

5. 鲁迅先生说，沉默啊，沉默啊，不在沉默中爆发，就在沉默中灭亡。

5. Mr. Lu Xun said, "Silence, silence, if not bursting forth in silence, then one will perish in silence."

6. 世界是自己的，和其他人毫无关系。我们完全没有必要在意别人怎么看待自己，永远都不要通过语言表现自己，默默无闻，三缄其口，闷声发大财，才是最顶级的社交智慧。

6. The world is your own, having nothing to do with others. There is no need to care about what others think of us at all. Never express yourself through words; be modest, keep silent, and silently accumulate wealth. This is the highest form of social wisdom.

7. 人生除了生死，没有什么了不起的大事。有什么想法就去行动吧，失败了可以重头再来，不能从头再来，大不了甘于平凡。我们本来就一无所有，失败了仍然不过一无所有。

7. Apart from life and death, there is nothing great in life. If you have any thoughts, go ahead and act on them. If you fail, you can start over again; if you can't start over, at least be content with the ordinary. We were originally destitute, and failure still leaves us with nothing.

8. 人生短短几十年，况且不知道明天和意外哪一个先来，没有必要给自己这么多的压力，想做什么就去做，不要考虑代价和成本，也不要管别人会怎么想你看你说你。

8. Life is short, only a few decades, and we don't know which will come first, tomorrow or an unexpected event. There's no need to put so much pressure on yourself. Do what you want to do, without considering the cost and consequences, and don't worry about what others might think or say about you.

9. 没心没肺，活着不累。如果你特别在意命运的刁难，特别在乎世界的不公平，特别介意别人对你的看法，那么，无论你现在是什么样的处境，都会耿耿于怀，惴惴不安，郁郁寡欢，一直在痛苦里沉沦。

9. Being indifferent and carefree, life is not tiring. If you take the hardships of fate too seriously, are particularly concerned about the unfairness of the world, and are overly sensitive to others' opinions of you, then no matter what your current situation is, you will be troubled, anxious, and melancholic, constantly sinking into pain.

10. 作家冯唐说，一个人如果不想得癌，比如宫颈癌、乳腺癌、肝癌、肺癌、淋巴癌，那就一定要做一个内心特别强大的人，强大到混蛋，强大到无敌，强大到百毒不侵，强大到是可忍，孰不可忍，强大到别人把你当做神经病，那你大概率不会得什么病，一辈子都会过得特别好。

10. The writer Fengtang said, if a person does not want to get cancer, such as cervical cancer, breast cancer, liver cancer, lung cancer, lymphoma, then one must be an extremely strong person, so strong that they are indestructible, impenetrable by any poison, and capable of enduring what others cannot. If people treat you like a madman, then you are likely to avoid many diseases, and you will live a very good life throughout your life.

11. 如果命运把你捧上天，你就雄飞高举，如果命运把你打入低谷，你就做一颗青青小草。如果别人捧你，赞美你，你也不要飘飘然，如果别人骂你、诋毁你、看不起你，你也不要多在意。

11. If fate lifts you to great heights, soar high; if fate pushes you to the depths, become a vibrant little sprout. If others lift you up and praise you, don't let pride take hold of you; if others insult you, defame you, or look down on you, don't take it to heart too much.

12. 人生哪能多如意，万事只求半称心。什么都不在乎，那么什么都伤害不了你，什么都无所谓，那么你一定活得云淡风轻。

12. In life, how can everything go as one wishes? Seek only half of one's desires for all matters. If one cares for nothing, nothing can hurt you; if one is indifferent to everything, then you must live a carefree and tranquil life.

13. 一位重症监护室医生说，我见过这么多重病临死的人，从来没有谁因为做过什么事情而感到后悔，但几乎所有人都会因为没有做过什么事情而后悔不迭。

13. A doctor in the intensive care unit said, "I have seen so many critically ill patients on the brink of death, and no one has ever regretted anything they had done, but almost everyone regrets not having done something."

14. 一个人最无敌的活法，莫过于沉默是金，没心没肺，无所顾忌。当你的内心足够强大，当你的悟性足够高，就可以兵来将挡，水来土掩，所向披靡，无所畏惧。

14. The most invincible way to live for a person is to keep silent as gold, to be carefree and indifferent, and to have no reservations. When your inner strength is sufficient, and your insight is high, you can meet the enemy with the general, cover the water with earth, conquer all obstacles, and have no fear.

15. 人活一辈子，一定要痛痛快快，酣畅淋漓。用自己的智慧和力量，破除一切阻碍，消灭一切烦恼，屏蔽一切无关紧要的事情，自由自在地活着，才是最大的人间值得。

15. In a lifetime, one must live joyfully and fully. With one's own wisdom and strength, overcome all obstacles, eliminate all worries, block out all trivial matters, and live freely and carelessly – this is the greatest worth of life in the human world.