在纷扰的世界中，独处不孤独，淡然自得，远离喧嚣纷争。这是一个宁静的港湾，心灵的栖息地。

In a turbulent world, solitude is not loneliness, but a serene and contented state, far from the hustle and bustle of disputes. It is a tranquil haven, a sanctuary for the soul.

1. 别人说地球是长方形的，你微笑就好，别人提出一些是非不分、荒诞绝伦的观点，你也没有必要反驳，任何观点都改变不了什么，当你不认同别人的时候，心里清楚就好，没有必要在语言上逞一时之快。

1. When others say the Earth is rectangular, just smile; when they present some absurd and nonsensical views, there's no need to refute them either. No view can change anything. When you disagree with others, it's enough to be clear in your heart; there's no need to indulge in quick-witted language for a moment's glory.

2. 说话是银，沉默是金。别人怎么认识这个世界，和我们毫无关系，一定要学会稳住自己，不在语言上找存在感，不在面子上驳倒对方，让双方都有体面和尊严。不喜欢的人就静静的离开，不用激怒他。

2. Speech is silver, silence is gold. How others perceive the world has nothing to do with us. We must learn to keep ourselves composed, not seeking a sense of existence through words, not trying to win an argument on the surface, allowing both parties to maintain dignity and respect. If someone is disliked, simply leave quietly without provoking them.

3. 我们曾如此渴望命运的波澜，后来才发现，人生最幸福的状态，就是红尘烟火的安稳平和。我们曾如此期待别人的认可，后来才发现，我们只用过好自己的生活，不用在乎任何人的任何态度。

3. We once so eagerly yearned for the ups and downs of fate, only to find later that the happiest state in life is the peaceful stability of the bustling world. We once so eagerly awaited others' recognition, only to discover later that we only need to live our own lives well, and not care about anyone's attitude towards us.

4. 最明白的活法，就是不合群，不争辩，不社交。

4. The most straightforward way of living is to avoid mingling with others, to avoid disputes, and to avoid socializing.

5. ​​好朋友不是努力争取来的，而是在各自的道路上，努力奔跑时遇见的。人和人渐远时，都觉得是对方变了，考虑别人感受之前，不妨再考虑一下，别人有没有考虑你的感受。

5. Good friends are not earned by striving, but rather encountered when both are running on their respective paths. When people grow distant from each other, they often feel it's because the other has changed. Before considering the feelings of others, it may be worth considering whether the other person has taken your feelings into account.

6. 圈子不同，不必强融，三观不同，不必合群。当你通过努力才获得的人脉，一定是对你没用的，因为你身上没有别人看得上的筹码或者价值。真正的人脉是被你的价值吸引而来的，比如董宇辉可以为东方甄选创造营收价值，俞敏洪就需要这么一个人物。

6. Different circles require no forced integration; different worldviews, no need to fit in with the crowd. When you only acquire connections through hard work, they are undoubtedly useless to you, as there is nothing on you that others value or consider as a bargaining chip or value. True connections are attracted to you by your value, for instance, Dong Yuhui can create revenue value for Dongfang Zhenxuan, while Yu Minhong needs such a person.

7. 永远不要跟任何人唇枪舌剑，口水之争，没有任何意义，打嘴炮只会自取其辱。

7. Never engage in verbal disputes or口水之争 with anyone. It serves no purpose, and arguing only brings shame upon yourself.

8. 人生一世，草木一春。

8. Life is but a single lifetime, while nature's seasons come and go in cycles.

9. 让人瞬间醒悟的一段话：“真正的朋友一定会越来越少，不要在乎失去谁，你最应该在乎的还剩下谁。

9. A thought-provoking sentence that makes one suddenly awaken: "True friends will become fewer and fewer, don't worry about losing anyone. The most important thing you should care about is who is left with you."

10. 好朋友绝对不是争取来的，而是同频共振的人一见如故，贵人一定不是逢迎来的，而是被你拥有的价值吸引来。我们不要想着去合群，任何让我们感到不舒服的圈子都要断舍离，与其跟一些无关紧要的人周旋，不如全身心提升自己的价值。

10. A good friend is not something that is争取来的, but rather someone who resonates with you from the same frequency and becomes close at first sight. A贵人 is not someone who flatters you, but rather someone who is attracted to the value you possess. We should not think about fitting in with a group; any circle that makes us uncomfortable should be abandoned. It is better to focus on enhancing our own value rather than engaging in trivial matters with people who don't matter.

11. 我们不欠任何人，没有必要看任何人的脸色，我们不要依靠别人去追求一些身外之物，所以不必主动走近和讨好任何人。

11. We owe no one anything, there is no need to kowtow to anyone, and we should not rely on others to pursue material things beyond ourselves. Therefore, there is no need to actively approach or flatter anyone.

12. 每个人都是一个独立的灵魂，我们要合谁的群，跟谁合群？为什么要合群？我们不是奴隶，也不是任何人的附属品，不必在任何人的圈子之中委屈自己。

12. Everyone is an independent soul. Whose group should we join, and with whom should we associate? Why should we join a group? We are not slaves nor are we附属 to anyone; we do not need to endure any form of subjugation within anyone's circle.

13. 复旦大学陈果教授：“余生不要和任何人争辩，哪怕别人说1+1=

13. Professor Chen Guo from Fudan University: "The rest of my life, I won't argue with anyone, even if others say 1+1= "

14. 一位哲学家说，人与人之间没有永远的朋友，也没有永远的敌人，只有永远的利益。

14. A philosopher said, "There are no permanent friends between people, nor are there permanent enemies, only permanent interests."

15. 你都要笑着说是对的。心大了，事就小了，心宽了，烦恼就没有了。”

15. You should always smile and say it's right. When your heart is big, things seem small; when your mind is broad, worries disappear."

16. 赢得争论的唯一方式就是避免争论。

16. The only way to win an argument is to avoid it.

17. ​​作为成年人，从你不再依赖感情，不再相信道德，不再认可平等开始，内心才会真正强大。”

17. As an adult, it is only when you stop depending on emotions, stop believing in morality, and no longer recognize equality that your inner strength will truly be strong.

18. 不社交，过好自己的小日子，沉淀自己的价值，是一个人最大的清醒和自律。

18. Not engaging in social activities, living well in one's own small world, and accumulating one's own value are the greatest clarity and self-discipline for an individual.

19. 当你对别人拥有足够多的价值，别人自然会对你温柔以待，你如果只是一个泛泛之辈，没有什么实力，也没有过硬的本事和情商，狗都不搭理你。

19. When you possess enough value to others, they will naturally treat you kindly. If you are just an ordinary person with no real strength, no solid skills, and no strong emotional intelligence, even a dog wouldn't pay attention to you.