心绪决定生活品质，节拍生活，舒心每一天。

Mindset determines the quality of life, rhythm your life, enjoy every day.

1. 网上有人提问：“要如何强迫自己不断学习提升？”有个高赞回答写道：“看过更大的世界后就不再甘心留在原地，不甘心就是动力。”

1. Someone asked on the internet, "How can one force oneself to keep learning and improving?" A highly-upvoted answer wrote: "After seeing a bigger world, one no longer feels content to stay in place; the feeling of discontent is what drives you."

2. 人生不如意之事十有八九。常想一二，不思八九，方能事事如意。人这一辈子，你的心态所至，就是你的人生境界。

2. In life, there are nine out of ten things that are not as one wishes. If you often think of one or two positive things and don't dwell on the eight or nine negatives, then you can achieve success in everything. In a person's lifetime, it is your mindset that determines your level of life experience.

3. 点进去朋友圈，抱怨的女人大多一副愁容。越是觉得自己不幸福的人，日子就越是不顺心，外现在脸上就越是苦闷，这是一个负能量循环。

3. Click into the Moments section, and most of the complaining women look troubled. The more someone feels unhappy with their life, the less fortunate they seem to be, and the more gloomy they appear on their face. This is a negative cycle.

4. 心态不好的女人，被柴米油盐磨光了耐性，动不动就容易生气，整个人充满戾气，越是对家人越像只无时无刻都在进攻状态的刺猬，扎伤别人也弄疼自己，不知不觉竟成为了自己年轻时候最讨厌的市井妇人。

4. Women with a bad attitude, worn down by the mundane chores of life, easily become angry at the slightest provocation. They are full of bitterness, becoming like a hedgehog in a constant state of attack towards their family. They injure others and also hurt themselves, and without realizing it, they have become the kind of street-savvy woman they disliked the most in their youth.

5. 心态好，面对生活的难处能够始终保持优雅，面对人生的低谷懂得调整状态砥砺前行。

5. Maintain a positive attitude, always retaining elegance in the face of life's hardships, and know how to adjust one's state and forge ahead during the low points of life.

6. 生活不会亏待每一个努力向上的人，就看你怎么对待生活？只要你努力，踏实做好每一份工作，人生一定会给你褒奖。

6. Life will not let down every person who strives upwards, it depends on how you treat life? As long as you work hard and do every job diligently, life will definitely reward you.

7. 女人三十岁之前的容貌是爸妈给的，三十岁后的容貌是自己给的。决定你能否不惧岁月变迁，始终保持年轻优雅的最关键一点，就是心态。

7. The appearance of a woman before the age of 30 is given by her parents, but after 30, it is given by herself. The most crucial factor in determining whether you can fearlessly face the passage of time and always maintain a youthful and elegant demeanor is your mindset.

8. 人这一生中，自己才是自己的贵人，才是你最大的靠山！

8. In one's life, one is their own benefactor and the greatest support they can rely on!

9. 人生就像一场旅行，前路未知，无论风景如何，都要自己走下去。世界上没有不带伤的人，每个人都有自己难言的苦楚，岁月可曾饶过谁？当自己得不到别人认可的时候，要学会自己站直，自己给自己打气；当没有人的帮助时，自己鼓励自己，要靠自己的努力。

9. Life is like a journey, the path ahead is unknown, and no matter how the scenery may be, one must walk it alone. There is no one in the world without scars, everyone has their own unspoken sorrows, have the years ever sparing anyone? When one does not receive recognition from others, one must learn to stand tall on one's own, to boost one's own spirits; when there is no help from others, one must encourage oneself, to rely on one's own efforts.

10. 同样是操持家务，心态好的女人不会太执着，儿孙自有儿孙福，收拾家务也是哼着小曲乐乐呵呵，这样的女人就算五官不算很精致，长相也会让人觉得特别舒服。

10. Even in managing household affairs, a woman with a positive mindset will not be overly fixated. She believes that her children and grandchildren will have their own good fortune, and she will happily tidy up the house while humming a tune. Such a woman, even if her facial features are not particularly delicate, will still make people feel particularly comfortable in her presence.

11. 没有所谓的人生开挂，只有日复一日的日积月累，厚积薄发，他们坚持了别人所不能坚持的坚持，忍受了别人所不能忍受的痛苦，不要小瞧十年的积累，也不要小瞧一年的改变，专注于当下，专注于自己，你想要的都在路上！

11. There is no such thing as a life with a sudden boost, only the day-by-day accumulation, the thickening from the thin, the perseverance they hold on to that others cannot, and the pain they endure that others cannot bear. Don't undervalue the accumulation over ten years, and don't undervalue the change in a year. Focus on the present, focus on yourself, and everything you want is on the way!

12. 这世上真正能给你撑腰的，是丰富的知识储备、足够的经济基础、持续的情绪稳定、可控的生活节奏，以及那个打不败的自己。

12. The true support you can rely on in this world is a rich reserve of knowledge, a sufficient economic foundation, sustained emotional stability, a manageable pace of life, and that unbeatable self.

13. 女人拥有了用好心态面对生活的能力，再繁琐的事在她面前也会变得轻松简单，身边人在与她相处的时候，也会被岁月安稳的平和气场所影响。

13. When a woman possesses the ability to face life with a positive mindset, even the most tedious tasks become easy and simple in her presence. Those around her are also influenced by the serene and tranquil atmosphere of the passing years when interacting with her.

14. 她们家庭和睦，并非事事顺心，但总能坦然面对每一次的坎坷，心态越平和，糟糕的事情就越能尽快过去，这是一个正能量循环。

14. Their family life is harmonious, not everything goes smoothly, but they can always face each challenge calmly. The more peaceful their mindset, the quicker bad things can pass, creating a positive energy cycle.

15. 那些心态好的女人，往往都很幸福，而心态不好的女人，只会有越来越多的抱怨。

15. Women with a positive mindset tend to be very happy, while those with a negative mindset will only have more and more complaints.

16. 读书的意义大概就是用生活所感去读书，用读书所得去生活吧。

16. The significance of reading is perhaps to read with life's experiences, and to live with the insights gained from reading.

17. 人都会老，没有谁能永葆皮肤紧致，对于心态好的女人来说，皱纹不过是时光留下的印记，年龄越长内心越平和，就算是美人迟暮也同样眉眼温柔。

17. Everyone will grow old, no one can keep their skin taut forever. For women with a positive mindset, wrinkles are just the marks of time left behind. The older one gets, the more peaceful the inner self becomes. Even when beauty fades, their eyes and eyebrows remain gentle.

18. 好的心态，是一个女人家庭幸福，生活顺心的根本。

18. A good attitude is the fundamental basis for a woman's family happiness and a contented life.

19. 年纪轻轻有了白发，外表看上去比实际年龄老许多，照镜子看看自己，觉得特别心累。

19. At a young age, I have white hair, and I look much older than my actual age. Looking at myself in the mirror, I feel especially exhausted.

20. 永远保持善良之心，是难能可贵的品质。纵使人生坎坷多磨难，我们内心的真挚不可自减。当年老时回顾一生，会发现人生中所有的惊喜和好运其实都是平日里积累下的人品与善良。

20. Maintaining a kind heart forever is a rare and valuable quality. Even though life is fraught with difficulties and hardships, the sincerity within us cannot diminish. When looking back on one's life in old age, one will find that all the surprises and good fortune in life are actually the accumulation of character and kindness from everyday life.

21. 我们对待生活的心态，决定了我们每一天的生活。

21. Our attitude towards life determines our daily life.

22. 他们有目标，有追求，知道自己想要的是什么？朝着自己的方向一步一步在努力，虽然每天的进步很小，但水滴石穿，他们不受外界的声音所打扰，专注于自己的力量，一步一个脚印，不怕走得慢！

22. They have goals and aspirations, and they know what they want? They are striving step by step in their own direction, although the progress is small every day, but as the saying goes, "Drip by drip, the water carves a hole in the stone." They are not disturbed by external voices, focusing on their own strength, taking one step at a time, and not afraid of moving slowly!

23. 随着年岁增长，我们会更加明白，身体健康胜过万贯家财，心间安宁胜过未知快乐，家人平安胜过世间所有。当下的每一刻过好，就是弥足珍贵；身边的每个人都在，就是莫大幸福。

23. As we grow older, we come to understand more clearly that good health is more precious than a fortune, inner peace is more valuable than unknown joy, and the safety of our family is more important than anything in the world. Enjoying every moment of the present is extremely valuable; having each person around us is the greatest happiness.

24. 生活就像一面镜子，你热爱生活，生活也会回馈你很多！保持对生活的热爱，就像是在黑暗中点燃的烛火，能够照亮前行的道路，让整个旅程变得温暖而美好。

24. Life is like a mirror; if you love life, it will also repay you with much! Keep your love for life, as it is like a candle lit in the dark, which can illuminate the path ahead and make the whole journey warm and beautiful.

25. 幸福会眷顾每一个拥抱生活的人，而快乐只会降临在心态好的人身上。

25. Happiness will眷favor every one who embraces life, while joy will only descend upon those with a positive mindset.

26. 我们在岁月的长河中跋涉前行。回首过去，有欢笑，有泪水，有失去，有收获，有庆幸，有遗憾，有辉煌的成就，有惨痛的失败。无论是什么，都让我们得到了成长！人生就是在一次一次的跌倒中继续前行，昨天已成过去，如何把握好今天才是最重要的！

26. We trudge forward in the long river of time. Looking back, there have been laughter, tears, losses, gains, joy, regrets, brilliant achievements, and painful failures. No matter what, it all contributes to our growth! Life is about continuing to move forward through one fall after another. Yesterday is in the past, and how to make the most of today is the most important!

27. 面对生活，其实每个人都有不同的烦恼，而正是每个人的心态不同，所以烦恼多少也有不同。

27. In life, in fact, everyone has their own troubles, and it is because of the different attitudes of each person that the degree of their troubles also varies.

28. 经历多了以后，你会发现，人能依靠的只有了不起的自己！你自己不倒，别人推都推不倒你；你自己不站起来，别人扶也扶不起。人生是一场孤独的旅行，最终都要一个人单枪匹马，倘若无人依靠，就做自己的靠山。

28. After experiencing a lot, you will find that the only person you can rely on is the amazing yourself! As long as you don't fall, no one can push you down; if you don't stand up on your own, no one can lift you up. Life is a solitary journey, and in the end, you have to go it alone. If there is no one to rely on, be your own mountain.

29. 没有谁的生活永远是一帆风顺，我们没办法控制经历，但可以改变自我，人与人之间最大的区别就在于心态。

29. No one's life is always smooth sailing, and we cannot control our experiences, but we can change ourselves. The biggest difference between people lies in their mindset.

30. 其实越抱怨的人，就越是觉得自己不幸福，日子就越是不顺心，脸上就越是苦闷，这是一个负能量循环。

30. In fact, the more one complains, the more they feel themselves to be unhappy, the more their days are not going smoothly, and the more their faces show bitterness. This is a negative cycle.

31. 不要跟往事过不去，往事已经过去，不要跟未来过不去，因为未来还得继续。

31. Don't hold on to the past, as it has already passed. Don't hold on to the future either, because the future still needs to continue.

32. 积极生活的人，每天把自己安排的很充实，要运动，要健身，要锻炼，要读书，要学习，要提升自己，每天有很多的事要干，哪有什么多愁善感？

32. A person who leads an active life arranges their day to be filled with activities. They need to exercise, to stay fit, to train, to read, to learn, and to better themselves. There are so many things to do each day; where is there room for melancholy and sentimentality?

33. 生活其实就像一面镜子，你微笑它就回予你欢愉，你愤怒它就反馈给你尖锐，有什么样的心态，就有什么样的人生。

33. Life is actually like a mirror; it smiles back at you when you smile, and it reflects sharpness back to you when you are angry. The kind of attitude you have determines the kind of life you will have.

34. 清晨醒来，当第一缕阳光洒在窗前，当你呼吸着新鲜的空气走在大街上，你会发现生活如此美好！

34. Waking up in the morning, as the first rays of sunlight shine through the window, and as you breathe in the fresh air while walking on the street, you will find life to be so beautiful!

35. 心怀感恩，不忘生命中每一个帮助过我们的人；做人保持善良，做事才可能更加顺利。

35. Be grateful and never forget those who have helped us in life; maintain kindness in our character, and we can make things go more smoothly.

36. 一个家庭幸不幸福，与多高的收入、多大的房子并没有太大关系，真正能够决定一个家庭氛围是否轻松自在的，是家里人的心态。

36. Whether a family is happy or not has little to do with how much income they have or how big their house is. What truly determines whether the family atmosphere is relaxed and comfortable is the mindset of the family members.

37. 拥有幸福感的人，大多都能做到不攀比，爱惜自己，珍惜家人；不过分在乎他人看法，时间都花在最重要的事情上；不为细枝末节之事钻牛角尖，能认真完成自己想做的每一件小事；永远怀着感恩的心，永远向前，永远年轻。

37. People who possess happiness are usually able to avoid envy, cherish themselves, and treasure their family; they don't overly care about others' opinions and spend their time on the most important things; they don't get caught up in trivial matters and can seriously accomplish every small thing they want to do; they always have a heart of gratitude, always move forward, and always remain youthful.

38. 心态好的女人不会为了蝇头小利在菜市场斤斤计较，不会在与人交往时处处盘算得失，坦然豁达地面对一切，反而更容易收获到知己朋友和真心爱人。

38. A woman with a positive attitude will not haggle over trivial gains at the market, nor will she constantly calculate gains and losses in her interactions with others. She faces everything with an open and generous heart, and is thus more likely to gain close friends and a sincere lover.

39. 而心态好的女人，不需要有多注重保养，乐观就是她们最好的护肤品。

39. A woman with a positive attitude doesn't need to pay much attention to maintenance; optimism is the best skincare product for her.

40. 生活本就是一面镜子，你给它一张笑脸，它就会还你一个明朗的晴天，你对它抱怨，它就只能还你无尽的压抑。

40. Life itself is a mirror; if you give it a smile, it will return you with a clear, sunny day, but if you complain to it, it can only respond with endless oppression.

41. 真正热爱生活的人，不会沉溺于过去，因为他们懂得无论昨天发生了什么，好的坏的，但都已过去，都无法改变。唯有以崭新的心态面对今天，把今天过好，才是最重要的。

41. A person who truly loves life will not wallow in the past, because they understand that whatever happened yesterday, good or bad, it is all in the past and cannot be changed. The most important thing is to face today with a fresh mindset and live it to the fullest.