时光荏苒，时效已过。如何在朋友圈优雅地分享往事？

Time flies, and the deadline has passed. How can one elegantly share past memories on a social media timeline?

1. 一旦恋爱成为痛苦，那就是爱得过分了;如果和亲近朋友的谈话内容主要是关于他的话题，他的思想感情，那就是爱得过分了;如果不喜欢他的许多基本特点，道德观念、言行举止，但却仍能忍受，认为只要我们能有吸引力并给以足够的爱，他就会为我们而改变，那就是爱得过分了。

1. Once love becomes painful, it is too much; if the content of conversations with close friends is mainly about him, his thoughts and feelings, it is too much; if you don't like many of his basic characteristics, moral beliefs, behavior, but still endure it, thinking that as long as we have enough charm and give him sufficient love, he will change for us, it is too much.

2. 时间，带不走真正的朋友；岁月，留不住虚幻的拥有。时光转换，体会到缘分善变；平淡无语，感受了人情冷暖。

2. Time cannot take away true friends; years cannot hold onto illusionary possessions. As time changes, one realizes the variability of fate; in the quietness, one feels the warmth and coldness of human feelings.

3. 20只是因为太年轻，所以所有的悲伤和快乐都显得那么深刻，轻轻一碰就惊天动地。

3. 20 is only because of the youth that all sorrows and joys seem so profound, that a light touch can stir up a great storm.

4. 命运就像是掌中的手纹，无论它有多么的曲折，终究掌握在自己的手中。

4. Fate is like the lines on the palm of one's hand; no matter how winding it may be, it is ultimately in one's own hands.

5. 做一个淡淡的女子，不浮不躁，不争不抢，不去计较浮华之事。不是不追求，只是不去强求，淡然地过着自己的生活，不要轰轰烈烈，只求安安心心。

5. Be a gentle woman, not restless or aggressive, not striving for or competing for anything. Do not worry about trivial matters. It is not that I do not pursue, but rather I do not force myself to do so. Live life calmly, without any great fanfare, just seeking a peaceful and contented heart.

6. 原谅我盛装出席手握水笔眉头紧锁奋笔疾书只为帮学霸垫底。

6. I apologize for attending in full regalia, holding a fountain pen with a furrowed brow, diligently scribbling away just to help the top student bring up the bottom.

7. 小时候渴望大人的世界，以为自己可以拯救世界；长大了哀叹易逝的青春，发现什么都拯救不了。期待命运能够拯救自己，但愿自己能拯救生活。

7. As a child, I yearned for the adult world, thinking I could save the world; as I grew up, I lamented the fleeting youth, realizing that I couldn't save anything. I look forward to fate saving me, hoping to be able to save my life.

8. 7我不是个做大事的人，我能做到的，是在一件件微小的事之中，注入巨大的热爱。席滢

8. 7 I am not someone who does big things. What I can do is to pour immense love into every small matter. Xi Ying

9. 拍了拍相册,掉落出一堆旧照片。

9. Tapped the album, and a pile of old photos fell out.

10. 五月再见，六月你好！走过煎熬的五月，希望接下来的日子一天天会更好！

10. Goodbye May, hello June! Having gone through the tortuous May, I hope the following days will get better day by day!

11. 有舍就有得，如果你害怕失去等于放弃了拥有的权利，人生就失去了它本身的意义。

11. There is a gain in every loss, and if you are afraid of losing, it means you have given up your right to possess. In that case, life itself loses its meaning.

12. 有心的人，再远也会记挂对方;无心的人，近在咫尺却远在天涯。

12. The person with a heart will always cherish the other person even if they are far apart; the person without a heart may be close by, yet feel distant as if they were in another world.

13. 美好的日子，总是令人向往，过去的岁月，总是令人难忘，五月，在大家忙碌中，热情走过，六月，在大家期待中，坦然走来，在这送五迎六的日子里，心情分外激动。

13. Good days are always yearned for, past years are always unforgettable. May, amidst everyone's bustling, passes with enthusiasm. June, awaited by everyone, comes with ease. On these days of welcoming May and bidding farewell to June, one's heart is particularly excited.

14. 走过一些路，才知道辛苦。登过一些山，才知道艰难。趟过一些河，才知道跋涉。跨过一些坎，才知道超越。经过一些事，才知道经验。阅过一些人，才知道历练。读过一些书，才知道财富。过了一辈子，才知道幸福。

14. Only after walking some distance do you know the bitterness of hard work. Only after climbing some mountains do you know the difficulty. Only after crossing some rivers do you know the hardship of traveling. Only after overcoming some obstacles do you know the meaning of transcendence. Only after experiencing some things do you know the value of experience. Only after meeting some people do you know the essence of experience. Only after reading some books do you know the treasure. Only after living a lifetime do you know the meaning of happiness.

15. 能够说出的委屈，便不算委屈；能够抢走的爱人，便不算爱人。

15. If one can express their grievances, then they are not grievances; if one can steal away their beloved, then they are not truly loved.

16. 5好的爱情，其实最终得到的是心灵的休息，没有紧张、无须讨好、放掉面具，两个人都能踏实做自己，而且从不担心对方不能完全接纳自己真实的样子，在欣欣然的放松和喜滋滋的给予中，获得犹如充电般的爱的能量那是两颗互相懂得的心彼此找到了真正的归宿。

16.5 A good love is actually about finding a rest for the soul, without tension, without the need to please, shedding masks, where both can be themselves comfortably. They never worry that the other cannot fully accept their true selves. In the joyful relaxation and contented giving, they receive the energy of love that is like being recharged - that is the hearts that understand each other finding their true home.

17. 伤害你的不是对方的绝情，而是你心存幻想的坚持。

17. What hurts you is not the other person's ruthlessness, but your persistence in holding onto illusions.

18. 16寒城一以眺，平楚正苍然。——《宣城郡内登望》

18. From the city wall I gaze, the plain is lush and green. — "Ascending and Gazing in Xuancheng County"

19. 12出去走走，别让坏情绪迷乱了世界，慌乱了心。

19. Go out for a walk; don't let bad emotions confuse the world and扰乱 your heart.

20. 五月再见，六月你好，愿风里雨里，春风相伴，一路有你！

20. Goodbye May, hello June, may the spring breeze accompany you through rain and wind, and may you be with us all the way!

21. 11秋风吹白波，秋雨呜败荷。平湖三十里，过客感秋多。—— 元萨都刺《过高邮射阳湖杂咏九首》

21. The autumn wind blows the white waves, the autumn rain moans over the withered lotus. Thirty miles of calm lake, the traveler feels the abundance of autumn. — Yuan Sadu, "Nine Poems on Crossing Sheyang Lake at Gaoyou"

22. 六月要更加努力呀，为了想要的生活，为了人间的烟与火。

22. Work harder in June, for the life you desire, for the smoke and fire of this world.

23. 你说翻过这个五月，我会变得特别好。我说熬过这个五月，我希望我会变好。不要那么丧不要那么难。希望你会多给我安心，希望能够多有一点温暖。先说你好，未来的六月。

23. You said that by the end of this May, I will be especially good. I said that by enduring this May, I hope I will become better. Don't be so melancholic, don't be so difficult. I hope you can give me more peace of mind, and I hope there can be a bit more warmth. First say hello to the future June.

24. 我未曾见过一个早起、勤奋、谨慎、诚实的人抱怨命运不好。五月再见，六月你好！

24. I have never seen an early riser, diligent, cautious, and honest person complain about their bad destiny. Goodbye May, hello June!

25. 生命中总会有一些不期而遇的温暖，也会有些局中人的纠结，最好的状态，不畏将来，不念过往。五月再见，六月你好！

25. Life always brings unexpected warmth and also some entanglements for those involved. The best state is to be fearless of the future and not to dwell on the past. Goodbye May, hello June!

26. 时间，让更深的东西越来越深，让浅的东西越来越浅，看得淡一点，就会伤的少一点，时间过了，爱情淡了，也就散了。

26. Time allows deeper things to become ever deeper and superficial things to become ever more shallow. If you can take things lightly, you'll suffer less. As time passes, love becomes faint, and it eventually fades away.

27. 你别不要我，我不会自己回家。你对我的好，我会记得一辈子。对我的坏，我下一秒就会忘记。这样，你会不会永远爱我，就像我爱你一样？

27. Don't abandon me, I won't go home by myself. I'll remember your kindness to me for a lifetime. I'll forget your badness in the next second. So, will you love me forever, just as much as I love you?

28. 26其实，我们只是想找一个谈得来、合脾性，在一起舒坦、分开久了有点想念，安静久了想闹腾一下、吵架了又立马会后悔认输的人。爱情如此，友情同理。

28. In fact, we just want to find someone we can get along with, whose temperament matches ours, someone we feel comfortable being with, and who we miss a bit when we're apart for too long. Someone who wants to stir things up after being too quiet for a while, and who immediately regrets fighting and would rather give in. This is true for love, and also for friendship.

29. 17荒城临古渡，落日满秋山。——王维《归嵩山作》

29. The desolate city by the ancient ford, the setting sun fills the autumn mountains. — Wang Wei, "Returning to Songshan"

30. 你要抵达山川湖海，把沿途每一帧星芒收进满载痴梦的行囊，重逢之日，最玄妙的不是情话，是夕找孤烟，铁马冰河。五月再见，六月你好。

30. You are to reach the mountains, rivers, lakes, and seas, gathering every frame of starlight along the way into the backpack filled with foolish dreams. On the day of reunion, the most mysterious is not the words of love, but the evening seeking solitary smoke, the iron horse and the icy river. See you again in May, and hello in June.

31. 18常恐秋节至，焜黄华叶衰。——《汉乐府·长歌行》

31. Often fear the arrival of autumn, when the withered leaves turn yellow and fade. —— From the "Hanfu: Changge Xing" (The Song of Long Journey)

32. 你笑一次，我就可以高兴好几天；可看你哭一次，我就难过了好几年。

32. Your smile can make me happy for days, but seeing you cry can make me sad for years.

33. 发件箱里放满我对你的思念，已经承载不了，但我不会把它们删掉，我会再申请一个邮箱，直到你的回复。

33. My outbox is filled with my thoughts for you, and it can no longer bear the load. But I won't delete them; I will apply for another email account until I receive your reply.

34. 7秋在水清山暮蝉，洛阳树色鸣皋烟。____王昌龄《送狄宗亨》

34. In autumn, by the clear river and the mountains with evening cicadas, the trees in Luoyang emit a misty sound like the皋鸟's call. - Wang Changling, "Saying Farewell to Di Zongheng"

35. 13桂魄初生秋露微，轻罗已薄未更衣。——王维《秋夜曲》

35. The 13th moon rises in the autumn, the dew is faint, the thin silk is still too thin to change clothes. — Wang Wei, "Song of the Autumn Night"

36. 你是破晓清晨，星光的余晖；你是晚风渐息，耀阳的温存，我眼光绽放欢喜，都是因为有你。六月你好！

36. You are the dawn of the morning, the lingering glow of the stars; you are the late breeze gradually fading, the warmth of the setting sun. My eyes shine with joy because of you. Hello, June!

37. 你的人生永远不会辜负你，那些转错的弯，走错的路，流下的泪水，滴下的汗水，留下的伤痕。所有这些全都让你成为独一无二的自己！五月再见，六月你好！

37. Your life will never betray you, those wrong turns you took, the wrong paths you walked, the tears you shed, the sweat you dripped, and the scars you left behind. All of these have made you the unique individual you are! Goodbye May, hello June!

38. 延迟发送相册里的一些快乐碎片。

38. Delayed sending some happy bits from the album.

39. 她会很矜持，她会很骄傲，她会很冷淡，她总是嘴里说着你走开，心里却一直叫你留下。她从来不会真正去生你的气，因为她真的喜欢、在乎你。你认为她脾气不好，她认为你不够迁就她；你们总是冷战，你以为她不喜欢你，她以为你不在乎她最后。就这样莫名其妙地彼此错过。

39. She would be shy, proud, and cold, always saying "go away" with her mouth, but her heart has been calling for you to stay. She has never truly been angry with you, because she really likes and cares about you. You think she has a bad temper, while she thinks you're not accommodating enough. You both always have a cold war. You think she doesn't like you, and she thinks you don't care about her in the end. And that's how you miss each other for no apparent reason.

40. 你没来之前，我在这里，一直在这里，细数着光阴的岁月，安静地等待，你来之后，我依然停留在这里，微笑亭亭，在突起的唇角植一株相思的花，静静地为你盛开，悄悄地为你凋落。

40. Before your arrival, I was here, always here, counting the years of time, quietly waiting. After you came, I still stayed here, smiling gracefully, planting a flower of longing in the protruding corners of my lips, quietly blooming for you, and quietly withering for you.

41. 虽然经历了岁月的洗礼，但真挚的感悟没有磨灭，生命是短暂的，而爱情是永恒的。有一个可以思念的人就是幸福。

41. Although it has been tested by the passage of time, the sincere insights have not been erased. Life is fleeting, but love is eternal. Having someone to miss is happiness.

42. 走的最急的是最美的景色，伤的最深的是最真的感情。

42. The most beautiful scenery is that which is visited most eagerly, and the deepest hurt is that of the most sincere feelings.

43. 他若真爱你，你可以是任何一种女子。他若爱你不够，你才需要做一个全能的女子，美丽才气善良细腻，这是没有办法的事情。

43. If he truly loves you, you can be any kind of woman. If he doesn't love you enough, then you need to be a superwoman, beautiful, talented, kind, and delicate - there's no other way around it.

44. 17寂静在喧嚣里低头不语，沉默在黑夜里与目光结交，于是，我们看错了世界，却说世界欺骗了我们。

44. 17 In the midst of the hustle and bustle, silence bows its head in silence, and in the darkness, it meets the gaze in companionship. Thus, we have misunderstood the world, yet we claim that the world has deceived us.

45. 最好的温柔是不离不弃，最好的恋人是可以随时说话，最好的状态就是，两个人在一起，都很高兴。

45. The best gentleness is to never leave or abandon, the best lover is someone you can talk to at any time, and the best state is when both people are happy together.

46. 5秋萧索。梧桐落尽西风恶。——黄机《忆秦娥·秋萧索》

46. In the autumn, the trees are withered and the west wind is fierce. — Huang Ji, "Remembering Qin'e — Solitude in Autumn"

47. 13暗恋是见不到会想念，见到会羞怯，会找各种机会制造偶遇却不知道见面要说什么，为了难得可贵的偶遇在镜子中练了多少遍hi，在心目中排演了无数遍偶遇可能的场景。

47. 13 Secret love is something you miss when you can't see it, feel shy when you do, and seek every opportunity to arrange a chance encounter without knowing what to say upon meeting. You've practiced saying "hi" in the mirror countless times for those rare and precious encounters, and have rehearsed countless possible scenarios of a chance encounter in your mind.

48. 12人烟寒橘柚，秋色老梧桐唐李白《秋登宣城谢I北楼》

48. 12 people in a desolate land, the cold smoke of tangerines and pomelos, the autumn color fades on the ancient wutong tree. Tang Li Bai's "Autumn Ascending Xuancheng Shebei North Pavilion."

49. 12最伤情、送客咸阳，佩结西风怨。——吴文英《琐窗寒·玉兰》

49. The most poignant part is sending you off to Xianyang, adorned with a jade amulet, I complain under the west wind. — Wu Wengying, "Suo Chuan Han: Yu Lan"

50. 我们认为看电视的时候，人的大脑基本停止工作，打开电脑的时候，大脑才开始运转。五月再见，六月你好！

50. We believe that when watching TV, a person's brain basically stops working, and it starts to operate only when the computer is turned on. Goodbye May, hello June!

51. 15君问归期未有期，巴山夜雨涨秋池。——《夜雨寄北》

51. You ask when I'll return, but the date is uncertain. In the night rain over Bashan, the autumn pond swells with water. — From "A Letter Sent in the Rainy Night"

52. 决定嫁给一个人，只需一时的勇气;守护一场婚姻，却需要一辈子的倾尽全力。因为，从一开始，爱情就是一件浪漫的事，而婚姻，却是一件庄严的事。

52. It takes only a moment's courage to decide to marry someone, but it requires a lifetime of full dedication to maintain a marriage. Because from the very beginning, love is a romantic affair, but marriage is a solemn matter.

53. 18总觉得女孩子真正富足的状态应该是这样，见多识广朋友多，不缺吃穿也不缺钱，但仍会被一件漂亮的衣服哄得很开心，仍会因为吃到可口的美食而一扫阴霾，也会因为看了一部好**听了一首好歌原谅整个世界。不大惊小怪，却仍会为每一种细碎的美好感动。

53. 18 always thinks that the truly affluent state of a girl should be like this: knowledgeable, with a wide range of friends, not lacking in food and clothing, nor money, yet still delighted by a beautiful dress, still cheered up by delicious food, and can forgive the whole world after listening to a good song. She is not easily surprised, yet she is still moved by every tiny bit of beauty.

54. 19秋光一片，问苍苍桂影，其中何物？——赵秉文《大江东去·用东坡先生韵》

54. Amidst the autumn light, inquire of the ancient cassia shadows, what lies within?——Zhao Bingwen, "The Great River flows Eastward·Following the rhyme of Mr. Dongpo"

55. 一叶绽放一追寻，一花盛开一世界，一生相思只是为那一人。

55. A leaf unfolds, a pursuit begins; a flower blooms, a world is born; a lifetime of longing is for just that one person.

56. 拿得起是一种自信，放得下是一种解脱。拿得起放得下是做人的一种平衡。

56. Being able to pick up is a kind of confidence, and being able to put down is a kind of liberation. Being able to pick up and put down is a form of balance in being a person.

57. 如果时光可以重聚，我不愿在孤单的红尘里独醉；如果流年不再依旧，我宁愿在孤独的海洋里沉睡。

57. If time could be recollected, I would not choose to be drunk alone amidst the desolate dust of the world; if the flowing years no longer remain as they used to be, I would rather sleep in the lonely ocean.

58. 5渐霜风凄紧，关河冷落，残照当搂。——八声甘州>

58. The frosty wind grows colder, the pass and river desolate, the fading sunlight illuminates the eaves. —— "Ba Sheng Gan Zhou" (Eight Songs of Ganshu)

59. 21时间会告诉我们，简单的喜欢，最长远；平凡中的陪伴，最心安；懂你的人，最温暖。

59. Time will tell us that simple liking is the longest-lasting; companionship in the ordinary is the most comforting; and those who understand you are the warmest.

60. 人生没有折返的通道，只有努力才会改变，只要努力就会改变。为了心中的梦想，六月的第一天，请对自己说：我可以！

60. There is no turning back in life, only hard work can bring about change, and with effort, change will come. For the dreams in your heart, on the first day of June, please say to yourself: I can do it!