轻应对忙乱，让对方笑到疯掉：有效沟通术，开启心灵对话之门。

Tackle chaos with ease, make the other person laugh until they go crazy: Effective Communication Techniques, Open the Door to Heart-to-Heart Conversations.

1. 感到失望，各种原因的失望甚至可能只是姨妈期的不顺，感觉男朋友可以对自己再好一点，更好一点。

1. Feeling disappointed, disappointment of various reasons even might just be due to an irregular menstrual period, feeling that the boyfriend could be a bit better, a bit better to oneself.

2. 哥哥天天这么忙，真的好厉害哦，我天天除了想哥哥，就没别的事。

2. Brother is so busy every day, he's really amazing. Other than thinking about Brother, there's nothing else I do every day.

3. 见不到面，不能每天都见面的话，她偶尔也是会想你的，那没什么能比马上视频见到，更能安慰她的了。

3. If you can't see each other every day, she will sometimes miss you too. There's nothing that can comfort her as much as being able to see you on video immediately.

4. 我是89后宝妈晨意微凉，如果喜欢我的回答的话就点一个赞吧，关注我可以看更多精彩问答哦。

4. I am a mom after 1989 named Chen Yi Wei Liang. If you like my answers, please give me a like, and by following me, you can see more exciting questions and answers.

5. 回答女友“你有多想我”“你有多爱我”,我认为最机智的应该是霸气而温柔的吻，当然如果不是见面的时候问的，那就发视频聊天。

5. When your girlfriend asks, "How much do you miss me?" or "How much do you love me?", I think the most clever response should be a dominant yet gentle kiss. Of course, if the question is asked not when you're together in person, then a video chat would be a good alternative.

6. 与其他哺乳类动物不同，生物学上的因素并不是人类性别的决定性因素。因为有些女人先天性拥有非正常的荷尔蒙或染色体状况（比如先天性肾上腺增生症或者双性人），也有些女人后天进行性别重塑手术而缺乏典型的女性生理特征（跨性别女人或变性女人）。

6. Unlike other mammals, biological factors are not the decisive determinant of human gender. Some women are congenitally born with abnormal hormone or chromosomal conditions (such as congenital adrenal hyperplasia or intersex), and some women undergo gender reassignment surgery later in life and lack typical female physiological features (transgender women or transsexual women).

7. 雌激素赋予女人第二性征，比如乳房的丰满，月经按时来潮等等。也就是说，雌激素可以使皮肤中的水分保持一定含量，使皮肤看上去柔嫩、细腻。所谓更年期，就是雌激素的分泌量渐渐减少，到月经终止时降到最低，这个时候大约是女性50岁左右，此时的女性完全失去了生育功能。

7. Estrogen endows women with secondary sexual characteristics, such as full breasts, regular menstrual cycles, and so on. That is to say, estrogen can maintain a certain level of moisture in the skin, making it look soft and delicate. The menopause refers to the gradual decrease in estrogen secretion, which reaches its lowest point when menstruation ceases. This typically occurs around the age of 50 for women, at which time they completely lose their ability to bear children.

8. 忙到不回信息，是坟头信号不好吗?要不要给你烧个路由器。

8. So busy that you don't reply to messages, is the signal at the tombhead not good? Should I burn you a router?

9. 所以我认为，回答女友“你有多想我”“你有多爱我”,最机智的应该是霸气而温柔的吻，除非是奔着吵架来的，不然被吻完之后都是能安全过关的。

9. Therefore, I believe that the most clever way to respond to your girlfriend's questions like "How much do you miss me?" or "How much do you love me?" is with a dominant yet gentle kiss. Unless the intention is to start an argument, the kiss should safely pass the test after it.

10. 好久没见，天天见面好像不至于产生你有多想我的问题，既然好久没见当然是先吻再说。

10. It's been a long time since we last saw each other, but it's not like seeing each other every day would make you wonder how much I miss you. Since it's been a while, let's start with a kiss.

11. 我当初问老公这两个问题的时候，大多数就是5种情况，吻完之后会有那么几秒懵掉，这时候抱着然后马上转移话题，十几分钟后再回想，都不记得自己问过什么了，到现在都是这样。

11. When I first asked my husband these two questions, most of the time it was in five situations. After the kiss, there would be a few seconds of daze, at which point I would hold him and quickly change the subject. After ten or so minutes, when I thought back, I couldn't remember what I had asked. It's still like that to this day.

12. 女人要是想永葆青春的话，就得想办法保住渐渐减少乃至消失的雌激素，月经停止得越晚越好。

12. If a woman wants to maintain her youth, she needs to find ways to preserve the gradually diminishing and eventually disappearing estrogen, and the later the menopause, the better.

13. 女性是指雌性的人类，与男性，也就是雄性人类成对比。女性这个名词是用来表示生物学上的性别划分，同时亦可指文化上的性别角色。

13. Women refer to female humans, in contrast to men, who are male humans. The term "women" is used to denote the biological division of sex, as well as the cultural gender roles.

14. 领导日理万机吗？这么忙，麻烦给卑职一个明示。

14. Is the leader busy with countless matters every day? With so much on your plate, could you please give me a clear indication?

15. 生物学名词。人类两性之一。与男性相对，泛指女人。如：女性心理、女性生理。可与女子通用。

15. Biological term. One of the two sexes in humans. Opposite to male, generally referring to women. For example: female psychology, female physiology. It can be used interchangeably with "girl."

16. 作为已婚女人，我认为女友会问这两个问题有几种情况：

16. As a married woman, I believe there are several situations where the girlfriend might ask these two questions:

17. [The Female Sex]人类两种性别之一，以骨骼纤小、音调细润、皮下水分丰富、身体曲线优美和具有阴道、子宫及能产生卵子的卵巢为特征。

17. [The Female Sex] One of the two human sexes, characterized by slender bones, a delicate tone, abundant subcutaneous moisture, graceful body contours, and possession of a vagina, uterus, and ovaries capable of producing eggs.

18. 你已经忙到半天都没理我，天干物燥，小心我闹。

18. You've been so busy that you haven't paid any attention to me for half a day. With the dry weather, be careful I might cause a fuss.

19. 虽然很想你，但也怕打扰你，忙完了别忘回来接你的小宝贝。

19. Though I miss you very much, I'm also afraid of disturbing you. When you're done, don't forget to come back to pick up your little darling.

20. 是不是我聊得不够好，哥哥才要找借口去忙。

20. Is it because I didn't chat well enough that brother has to find an excuse to be busy?

21. 无聊，不做事或脑袋空闲的时候，但凡有事可做，白天上着班，晚上玩着游戏、看着小说，上厕所都可能很少能想起来，何况是男朋友。

21. When bored or not doing anything with an idle mind, there's always something to do. During the day, I'm working, at night, I'm playing games, reading novels, and even going to the bathroom might be infrequent, let alone thinking about my boyfriend.

22. 故意找茬，女友问这两问题也许是为了后面的话做铺垫，你要是想我（爱我）的话怎么没有······至于目的是想撒娇还是想吵架，那就看她当时的情绪了。

22. She might have asked these two questions deliberately to pave the way for what comes next. If you really want me (love me), then why not... As for whether she wants to be cute or start an argument, that depends on her mood at the time.

23. 忙到悄无声息，看来按目前的形式，我应该是失宠了。

23. I've been busy to the point of being silent, it seems that according to the current situation, I must have lost favor.