1. 知耻近乎勇。

1. Knowing shame is akin to courage.

2. 好言好语事事通。

2. Sweet words will get you through anything.

3. 礼貌建筑在双重基础上：既要表现出对别人的尊重，也不好把自我的意见强加于人。霍夫曼斯塔尔

3. Politeness is built on a dual foundation: it must show respect for others while also not imposing one's own opinions on them. Hofmannsthal

4. 礼貌像只气垫，里面什么也没有，却能奇妙地减少颠簸。约翰逊

4. Politeness is like a cushion, empty inside yet wonderfully capable of reducing bumps. - Johnson

5. 待富贵人，不难有礼，而难有体；待贫贱人，不难有恩，而难有礼。《史典》

5. It is not difficult to show politeness to the wealthy and powerful, but it is difficult to do so with dignity; it is not difficult to show kindness to the poor and humble, but it is difficult to do so with etiquette. — "The History Classic"

6. 不论你是一个男子还是一个女生，待人温和宽大才配得上人的名称。一个人的真正的英勇果断，决不等于用拳头制止别人发言。萨迪

6. Whether you are a man or a woman, being kind and generous towards others is worthy of the name of a human being. A person's true bravery and decisiveness never equals using fists to stop others from speaking. - Saadi

7. 礼貌是一枚假币，舍不得花它证明智力的贫乏。叔本华

7. Politeness is a counterfeit coin, one is reluctant to spend it to prove the poverty of one's intelligence. - Schopenhauer

8. 唯宽可以宽人，唯厚可以载物。君子以厚德载物。《易传》

8. Only breadth can tolerate others, and only depth can bear things. A gentleman bears things with his profound virtues. As stated in the Commentary on the Book of Changes.

9. 为善则预，为恶则去。

9. Plan for good, avoid evil.

10. 损坏你名声的不是别人的谗言，而是你自己的行为。

10. What tarnishes your reputation is not others' gossip, but your own actions.

11. 人无笑脸别开店。

11. If you don't have a smile on your face, don't open a shop.

12. 人无礼则不生，事无礼则不成，国无礼则不守。

12. Without propriety, a person cannot exist; without propriety, a matter cannot be accomplished; without propriety, a country cannot be maintained.

13. 火气甚大，容易引起愤怒底烦扰，是一种恶习而使心灵向着那不正当的事情，那是一时冲动而没有理性的行动。彼得阿柏拉德

13. One with a great temper is prone to anger, leading to restless turmoil, which is a bad habit that draws the mind towards unjust actions, being an impulsive and irrational act. - Peter Abelard

14. 手边留情花似锦，脚下留情草如茵！

14. Tend the flowers kindly, and they shall bloom like brocade; treat the grass gently, and it will feel like plush underfoot!

15. 在顺境中要节制，在逆境中要谨慎。

15. Temperance in prosperity, caution in adversity.

16. 如果把礼仪看得比月亮还高，结果就会失去人与人真诚的信任。培根

16. If etiquette is held in higher regard than the moon, the result will be the loss of sincere trust between people. - Bacon

17. 虚心使人进步，骄傲使人落后，咱们应当永远记住这个真理。

17. Humility fosters progress, while pride leads to regression. We should always remember this truth.

18. 礼貌和教养对于装饰人类或其他一切优良品质和天资，都是必不可少的。切斯特菲尔德

18. Politeness and breeding are indispensable to adorn human nature and all other excellent qualities and talents. — Chesterfield

19. 美德是无价之宝。

19. Virtue is an invaluable treasure.

20. 君子忍人所不能忍，容人所不能容，处人所不能处。马南

20. A gentleman endures what others cannot bear, tolerates what others cannot tolerate, and is in a place where others cannot be. Ma Nan.

21. 即使双腿能跨过方桌，粗心时也会被矮凳绊倒。

21. Even if you can step over the table with both legs, you may still trip over a low stool when careless.

22. 切忌浮夸铺张。与其说得过分，不如说得不全。列夫托尔欺泰

22. Avoid exaggeration and extravagance. It's better to say less than to overstate. Lev Tolstoy.

23. 存在着一种出自内心的礼貌。它是变换了形式的爱心。由此产生出一种外部表现出来的最适宜的礼貌。歌德

23. There exists a politeness that arises from the heart. It is love transformed into a different form. From this arises the most appropriate politeness that is manifested externally. – Goethe

24. 君子诚之为贵。

24. The sincere pursuit is what a gentleman values.

25. 有一种内在的礼貌,它是同爱联系在一齐的,它会在行为的外表上产生出最令人愉快的礼貌--[德]歌德(含蓄的表白)

25. There is an inherent politeness, which is associated with love, and it produces the most delightful politeness in the outward appearance of behavior. -- [German] Goethe (subtle expression)

26. 一个人可能在他的礼貌中消失得无影无踪。梭罗

26. A person may disappear into thin air in his politeness. - Thoreau

27. 利益，是聪明人想出来的与愚人保持距离的一种策略。

27. Profit is a strategy thought up by clever people to keep a distance from fools.

28. 吃多伤身，气大伤神。

28. Eating too much harms the body, and being overly angry harms the mind.

29. 吃亏不算傻，让人不算痴。

29. Suffering a loss is not foolish, and being naive about others is not stupid.

30. 理智要比心灵为高，思想要比感情可靠。高尔基

30. Reason is superior to the heart, and thought is more reliable than emotion. — Gorky

31. 山美不在高，而在景物;人美不在貌，而在思想。

31. Beauty of the mountains does not lie in their height, but in the scenery; beauty of a person does not lie in their appearance, but in their thoughts.

32. 有礼貌不务必总是智慧的标志，但是不礼貌总使人怀疑其愚蠢。兰道尔

32. Politeness is not necessarily a sign of wisdom, but impoliteness always makes one suspect its foolishness. Randall

33. 君子动口不动手。

33. A gentleman uses words, not hands.

34. 怀着善意的人，是不难于表达他对人的礼貌的。

34. It is not difficult for a person with good will to express his politeness towards others.

35. 一个人如果对陌生人亲切而有礼貌，那他务必是一位真诚而富有同情心的好人，他的心常和别人的心联系在一齐，而不是孤立的。---培根

35. If a person is kind and polite to strangers, he must surely be an honest and compassionate good man, whose heart is often connected with others', rather than isolated. --- Bacon

36. 礼貌是最容易做到的事，也是最珍重的东西。冈察尔

36. Politeness is the easiest thing to do and the most treasured thing. - Gonchar

37. 人们喜爱花，因为它无私地为美化人间而盛开；人们赞美花，因为它无畏地为人间丰收而自落。

37. People love flowers because they bloom selflessly to beautify the world; they admire flowers because they fall bravely for the abundant harvest of the world.

38. 青年人应当不伤人，应当把个人所得的给予各人，应当避免虚伪与欺骗，应当显得恳挚悦人，这样学着去行正直。夸美纽斯

38. Young people should not harm others, should give to each what they have received, should avoid hypocrisy and deception, and should appear sincere and pleasing. In this way, they should learn to act justly. - Comenius

39. 讲礼貌不会失去什么，却能得到一切。玛沃蒙塔古

39. Politeness does not lose anything, but gains everything. From Marvomontague.

40. 所谓良好教养它们在几乎所有国家中乃至于一个地区里，都不尽相同;每一个明辨事理的人都会模仿他所在之地的良好教养，并与之看齐。切斯特菲尔德

40. What is considered good breeding varies in almost every country, and even within a region; every sensible person imitates and aspires to the good breeding of the place where they are. Chesterfield

41. 蜜蜂从花中啜蜜，离开时营营的道谢。浮夸的蝴蝶却坚信花是就应向他道谢的。泰戈尔

41. Bees sip nectar from the flowers and thankfully buzz off when they leave. The extravagant butterfly, however, believes that the flowers should be thanking him. - Tagore

42. 礼貌使有礼貌的人喜悦，也使那些受人礼貌相待的人们愉悦。孟德斯鸠

42. Politeness pleases the polite and also brings joy to those who are treated with politeness. Montesquieu

43. 谦者众善之基，傲者众恶之魁。

43. Modesty is the foundation of all virtues, while arrogance is the source of many vices.