心软者常无福，难以轻易恨他人。世间纷扰，谁又能独善其身？

Those with a soft heart often lack blessings and find it hard to easily harbor恨 towards others. In the chaos of the world, who can truly live for oneself alone?

1. 人生之路是逼着走出来的。人生的轨迹不一定是按你喜欢的方式运行的。有些事你可以不喜欢，但不得不做;有些人你可以不喜欢，但不得不交往。当遇到那些自己不喜欢却又无力改变的事情时，我们唯一能做的，就是忍耐。

1. The path of life is something that you are forced to walk. The trajectory of life is not necessarily running in the way you like. There are some things you may not like but have to do; there are some people you may not like but have to interact with. When faced with things that you dislike and have no power to change, the only thing we can do is to endure.

2. 你的脸上云淡风轻，谁也不知道你的牙咬得有多紧。你走路带着风，谁也不知道你膝盖上仍有曾摔伤的淤青。你笑得没心没肺，没人知道你哭起来只能无声落泪。要让人觉得毫不费力，只能背后极其努力。我们没有改变不了的未来，只有不想改变的过去。

2. Your face is calm and serene, and no one knows how tightly you are clenching your teeth. You walk with a breeze, and no one knows that there are still bruises on your knees from past falls. You laugh with no care in the world, but no one knows that when you cry, you can only let tears fall silently. To make people think it's effortless, one has to work incredibly hard behind the scenes. We don't have an unchangeable future, only a past we don't want to change.

3. 民国李宗吾先生写了一本书，叫《厚黑学》，总结了古往今来成大事者的共同品质，就是厚与黑。厚就是脸皮足够厚，比城墙还厚，不在乎任何人对你的任何看法。黑就是心肠足够黑，比锅底还要黑，心狠手辣消除阻挡你的一切障碍。

3. Mr. Li Zongwu from the Republic of China wrote a book called "The Art of厚度 and 黑色," which summarizes the common qualities of great achievers throughout history and time, which are "thickness" and "blackness." Thickness refers to having a thick skin, thicker than city walls, not caring about any person's opinion of you. Blackness refers to a cruel heart, blacker than the bottom of a pot, ruthless and decisive in eliminating any obstacles in your way.

4. 幸福就是活在当下，过去的不想，明天的不愁，随时随地都可以转身、放下。

4. Happiness is living in the present, not dwelling on the past or worrying about the future. At any time and place, one can turn around and let go.

5. 唯有心静，身外的繁华才不至于扭曲和浮躁，才能倾听到内心真实的声音。

5. Only with a tranquil heart can the prosperity outside one's body avoid distortion and restlessness, and only then can one truly hear the voice within.

6. 了解一个人需要的不是时间，而是彼此撤去心防。

6. Understanding someone does not require time, but rather the removal of heart defenses.

7. 真正的幸福，不是活成别人那样，而是能够按照自己的意愿去生活。

7. True happiness is not about living like others, but about being able to live according to one's own wishes.

8. 其实，我们的问题也是两个字——贪和懒，因为贪，我们有过多不切实际的想法，稍不如意，各种嫉恨、负面情绪、负能量伴随而来，整日低落消沉；因为懒，我们总是没准备好，总是慢人一步，总是错过时机，总是不如意，是时候，不要任性了，要对自己狠一点了，你需要的是改变。

8. In fact, our problem also boils down to two characters - "greedy" and "lazy." Because of greed, we have too many unrealistic ideas, and whenever things don't go our way, jealousy, negative emotions, and negative energy follow, leaving us feeling down and despondent all day. Because of laziness, we are never prepared, always lagging behind, always missing opportunities, and always feeling dissatisfied. It's time to stop being capricious and be stricter with ourselves. What you need is change.

9. 努力才叫梦想，不努力只能叫空想，放弃了那只是妄想，遇到困难不要去抱怨，多想想解决的办法，做个积极阳光的人，你会发现自己会越来越幸运。

9. Only through efforts can dreams be called dreams; without effort, they are merely daydreams. Giving up is just delusion. When faced with difficulties, don't complain, but think more about ways to solve them. Be a positive and sunny person, and you will find that you will become luckier and luckier.

10. 命中注定要遇见，要倾心，要疯狂，要不顾一切，要跟你在一起。

10. Destined to meet, to fall in love, to be passionate, to be reckless, and to be with you.

11. 当我们老了，不用别人怜悯，不用孩子负担，生如夏花，死若秋叶。感恩岁月，给我们足够的勇气和沉静的资本。

11. When we grow old, we do not need others' sympathy nor the burden of our children, living like a summer flower, and dying like an autumn leaf. We are grateful for the years, which have given us enough courage and the capital of calmness.

12. 如果打算爱一个人，你要想清楚，是否愿意为了她，放弃如上帝般自由的心，从此心甘情愿有了羁绊。

12. If you intend to love someone, you must think it through clearly: are you willing to give up the freedom of a god-like heart for her, and from then on be willing to be bound to her?

13. 幸福不是一场辛苦，但是却一定会迎接辛苦，人生这一场风雨兼程，可以理解为一场领悟，如果把命运理解为一种思考和发现，那么更应该客观的认识自己，突破自我的成见，不辜负一场青春，活出自己人生的创意，快乐就是人生的一种健康形式。

13. Happiness is not a hardship, but it will definitely embrace hardship. Life's journey through storms and rains can be seen as a process of enlightenment. If we understand destiny as a form of thinking and discovery, then we should even more objectively understand ourselves, break through our own biases, not let a youth be in vain, and live out the creativity of our own lives. Joy is a form of health in life.

14. 不是在最好的时光遇见了你们，而是有你们在，我才有了最好的时光。当悲伤深入骨髓，人不是多话，就是沉默，人就是这样，痛过哭过，一切还得从头再来。人生最大的悲哀，并不是在于你得不到或者失去的，而是你根本不知道你自己要的是什么。

在最好的时光遇见你们，并不是事实，而是有了你们，我才拥有了最好的时光。当悲伤深入骨髓时，人不是多话，就是沉默，这就是人，痛苦过，哭泣过，一切还得从头再来。人生最大的悲哀，并不在于你得不到或者失去的，而在于你根本不知道自己想要的是什么。

15. 别人给的从来不叫安全感，勉强算是廉价的依赖。安全感基于独立，你赞扬一棵树迎风挺拔，却忘了它年复一年形单影只的孤苦。

15. Security never comes from others;勉强算是一种廉价的依赖。Security is based on independence, you praise a tree for standing tall against the wind, yet you forget its loneliness and suffering year after year.

16. 翅膀长在你的肩上，太在乎别人对于飞行姿势的批评，所以你飞不起来。

16. The wings are on your shoulders, but you are too concerned about others' criticism of your flying posture, so you cannot take off.

17. 女人最幸福的时刻，就是嫁对了老公，他纵容着你的习惯，爱着你的一切;女人最幸福的时刻，就是朋友的真心相对，快乐开导，真诚帮助，在你最无助时，伸出温暖的手;女人最幸福的时刻，就是无论长多么大，在父母那里，依然是孩子，陶醉在父母为你准备的一切，安心地享受着他们的唠唠叨叨!

17. The happiest moment for a woman is to have chosen the right husband, who indulges in your habits and loves every aspect of you; the happiest moment for a woman is when friends show their sincerity, offer guidance and joy, and extend a warm hand to help you in your moments of need; the happiest moment for a woman is that no matter how grown-up she may be, she remains a child in her parents' eyes, immersed in everything they prepare for her, comfortably enjoying their endless chatter!

18. 如果吴彦祖在楼下等你约会，你的拖延症立马就好了，如果手里有张无限透支的黑卡，你的选择困难症立马就好了，如果金灿灿的黄金堆成一面墙那么高，你的密集恐惧症立马就好了，如果别人送你一栋有两个大门的别墅，你的强迫症立马就好了。

18. If Aaron Kwok is waiting for you for a date downstairs, your procrastination will instantly disappear. If you have a black card with no spending limit in your hand, your difficulty in making choices will instantly resolve. If a wall as tall as a gold mountain shines before you, your fear of crowds will instantly go away. If someone gifts you a villa with two gates, your obsession with order will instantly be cured.

19. 认识一个人靠缘分，了解一个人靠耐心，征服一个人靠智慧，和睦相处靠包容。人，相互帮扶才感到温暖；事，共同努力才知道简单；路，有人同行才不觉漫长；友，相互记挂才体味情深。

19. Knowing someone depends on destiny, understanding someone requires patience, conquering someone relies on wisdom, and living harmoniously depends on tolerance. People feel warmth through mutual support; things seem simple when we work together; the journey does not seem long when someone walks with us; and friendships are felt deeply when we care for each other.

20. 放得下就不孤独，站得远些就清楚，不幻想就没感触，不期待就不在乎。

20. If you can let go, you won't feel lonely. Stand a little further and you'll see more clearly. Without daydreams, there will be no feelings. Without expectations, you won't care.

21. 一个人走，一个人睡，一个人思索，一个人沉醉,一个人忙，一个人累，一个人烦恼，一个人体会。人活着，其实就是一种心态，你若觉得快乐，幸福无处不在;你为自己悲鸣，世界必将灰暗。不管遇到什么样的困境，都要保持乐观向上的心情，试着给生活一个笑脸，要知道，困境是上天赐予我们的礼物，你只有微笑着去接受它，才能真正享受到上天的恩赐。

21. To walk alone, to sleep alone, to think alone, to be lost in intoxication alone, to be busy alone, to be tired alone, to be troubled alone, to experience alone. To live is essentially a state of mind. If you feel joyful, happiness is everywhere; if you mourn for yourself, the world will become dark. No matter what kind of predicament you encounter, you should maintain an optimistic and positive attitude, try to give life a smile, for you to know, adversity is a gift bestowed upon us by heaven, and you can only truly enjoy the grace of heaven by accepting it with a smile.

22. 愈是运气不好，愈要沉住气默默振作，静静熬过去，切勿扰攘，制造笑柄，留下后患。

22. The worse the luck, the more one should keep calm and silently gather strength, endure quietly, and never cause a stir or make a laughingstock of oneself, leaving potential problems behind.

23. 错过的人与事，不必频频回首；结痂的疤痕，无须反复触摸。

23. Do not look back too often at people and things you have missed; there's no need to keep touching the scabbed scars.

24. 太容易的路，可能根本就不能带你去任何地方。

24. The too easy path might not lead you anywhere at all.

25. 若我在你心上，情敌三千又何妨。人生充满了起起落落。关键在于，在顶端时好好享受;在低谷时不失勇气。不是山，却是需要攀登的是人生;不是渊，却是需要跨越的是自己。幸福就是，牵着一双想牵的手，一起走过繁华。

25. If I am in your heart, what's the matter with having three thousand rivals. Life is full of ups and downs. The key is to enjoy the peak when you are at the top; and not lose courage when you are at the bottom. It's not the mountain that needs to be climbed, but life itself; it's not the abyss that needs to be crossed, but yourself. Happiness is about holding the hands of those you want to hold, walking through prosperity together.

26. 明天再美好，也要等过了今天才会来；昨天再甜蜜，也不能拿今天的做交换。

26. No matter how beautiful tomorrow may be, it will only come after today is over; no matter how sweet yesterday was, it cannot be exchanged for today.

27. 对于别人的爱情，你我难免都有自己的解读及反应，有人总是友善祝福;而有人常常诅咒嘲讽。即使不看好，你我可以选择不祝福，如果辱骂诅咒，不一定能反应他们的幸福潜质，但一定反应出自己的内心本质。读他人的爱情，其实读的更是自己的内心。

27. Regarding others' love, it's inevitable that we both have our own interpretations and reactions; some people are always friendly and wish well, while others often curse and mock. Even if we don't approve, we can choose not to wish well. If we resort to骂骂咧咧和诅咒， it may not necessarily reflect their potential for happiness, but it certainly reflects our own inner nature. Reading about others' love is, in fact, more about reading our own inner selves.

28. 我们喜欢别人爱我们，听我们的话，接受我们的意见，服从我们的命令。喜欢别人和我们观念一致，思想一致，喜好一致，步调一致。如果他不肯，我们就千方百计改造他;再不肯，就千方百计压制他;再不肯，就千方百计消灭他。其实，生为人，自有人的尊严和价值，这是上天赋予的权力，无人能剥夺。杏林子

28. We like others to love us, to listen to us, to accept our opinions, and to obey our commands. We enjoy it when others share our beliefs, thoughts, tastes, and pace. If they refuse, we try every means to reform them; if they still refuse, we try to suppress them; if they still refuse, we try to eliminate them. In fact, as human beings, we naturally have human dignity and value, which is a power granted by heaven and cannot be taken away by anyone. - Xing Linzi

29. 有多大的手，端多大的碗。未曾拥有过的，谈不上错过;拥有过的已经错过了，也谈不上拥有，珍惜现在拥有的，是一种唯美的想法，当我们在为错过的东西惆怅时，真正永恒的美丽却正在从指间滑落到地上。

29. The size of your hand determines the size of your bowl. What you haven't possessed can't be considered a missed opportunity; what you have possessed and already missed can't be considered possession either. Cherishing what you currently have is a beautiful thought. When we are melancholic over what we have missed, the true eternal beauty is slipping through our fingers and falling to the ground.

30. 生命中，有些人来了又去，有些人去而复返，有些人近在咫尺，有些人远在天涯，有些人擦身而过，有些人一路同行。或许在某两条路的尽头相遇，结伴同行了一段路程，又在下一个分岔路口道别。学会沉淀。身在红尘中翻滚，心哪能没有浮沉。一桩未了的心愿，一段搁浅的感情，一个失散已久的音容

30. In life, some people come and go, some leave and return, some are close at hand, and some are far away at the ends of the earth. Some pass by each other, and some walk together all the way. Perhaps they meet at the ends of two paths, walk together for a while, and then part ways at the next fork in the road. Learn to be serene. In the whirlpool of the world, how can the heart not fluctuate? An unfulfilled wish, a love that has come to a standstill, a long-lost voice and face...

31. 也许一个人要走很长的路，经历过生命中无数突如其来的繁华和苍凉才会变的成熟。

31. Perhaps one must walk a long road, experiencing countless sudden splendor and desolation in life before one becomes mature.

32. 有许多人总是把双眼盯着远方的风景，往往却忽略了身边的精彩。生命有常，乃命由天定。生命无常，乃运靠人为!如果自己都放得下，还有什么比轻更重!生命轻，因为每个人都只有七两。生命重，因为每个人都痴长一堆烤肉而已!人生的最高境界：有酒成仙，有茶成佛!自得其乐是无上快乐!

32. Many people always keep their eyes fixed on the distant scenery, often neglecting the wonders right beside them. Life has its constants, and its destiny is predetermined by heaven. Life is unpredictable, and its fate depends on human effort! If one can let go of oneself, then what is heavier than that? Life is light because everyone only weighs seven liang. Life is heavy because everyone is just a pile of roasted meat! The highest境界 of life: with wine, one becomes an immortal; with tea, one becomes a Buddha! Self-satisfaction is the ultimate happiness!

33. 面对那些骂我的人，我哪里有时间停下来和对方吵架，或者是回头解释。我只能一直跑一直跑，跑远了，那些站在原处骂你的人声音就小了。也许前面还会有新的人骂你，但我还是相信越是前方，有功夫骂人的人越少，因为大家都在奔跑。

33. Faced with those who are cursing at me, where do I have the time to stop and argue with them, or to turn back and explain? I can only keep running and running, until I'm far away, and the voices of those standing in place cursing me will diminish. Perhaps there will be new people cursing you ahead, but I still believe that the further ahead, the fewer people there are who have the time to curse, because everyone is running.

34. 感觉累的时候，也许你正处于人生的上坡路。坚持走下去，你就会发现到达了人生的另一个高度。从今天开始，微笑吧，世上除了生死，都是小事。请不要说我变了，因为我没变，只不过懂得了，别人怎样对我，我就该怎样去对待别人。

34. When you feel tired, perhaps you are on the uphill climb of life. Persist and you will find yourself at another height in life. Starting from today, smile, for in this world, everything except life and death is trivial. Please don't say I have changed, because I have not changed, I just understand that how others treat me, I should treat others in return.

35. 做自己很难，但更难的是遇到能接受你做自己的人。

35. It's hard to be yourself, but even harder to meet someone who can accept you for who you are.

36. 曾经牵手、却未走到最后。想来这是多么让人心疼的一件事。原来生命中许多人，会突如其来的出现，教会你某个人生的真谛，从此又消失不见。爱情之所以短暂，是为了教会我们珍惜。

36. We once held hands, but didn't make it to the end. It must be a heart-wrenching thing to think about. It turns out that many people in life appear suddenly, teaching us the essence of life, and then disappear. Love is short-lived because it is meant to teach us to cherish.

37. 你以为，真心对待任何一个人，也可以换来每一个人的真心对待。拼了命地不让每一个人难过，却发现，最后受伤的原来总是你自己。经历了一些事，才知道自己真的好傻，真的爱你的人，请珍惜，不爱你的人，请远离。

37. You thought that treating anyone with sincerity could also earn everyone's sincerity in return. You tried your hardest not to make anyone sad, only to find out that in the end, the one who got hurt was always you. After experiencing some things, you realize how truly foolish you were. Please cherish those who truly love you, and distance yourself from those who don't.

38. 你是大人了，要对自己有一定的要求了，别太任性，偶尔软弱一下也不是不可以，但大多数时候你要懂事一点，别乱发脾气，也别总说别人令你失望，这世上原本啊也没有谁有义务承担你的期许。大家都是这么长大的，你肯定也没问题。

38. You are an adult now, and you should have certain expectations of yourself. Don't be too任性, it's okay to be soft sometimes, but most of the time, you should be more sensible. Don't lose your temper randomly, and don't always say that others have disappointed you. After all, no one in this world has an obligation to fulfill your expectations. Everyone grows up like this, you are definitely fine too.

39. 世界上没有破镜重圆之说，一旦失去，就意味着永远失去

39. There is no such thing as mending a broken mirror in the world; once lost, it means it is forever lost.

40. 怎么形容你和你朝思暮想的人在一起了的感觉你曾是我无法入睡的原因，而今是我不想起床的理由。

40. How can I describe the feeling of being together with the person you think about day and night? You used to be the reason I couldn't sleep, and now you're the reason I don't want to get out of bed.

41. 在任何事情上都不要觉得自己受了多大的委屈，哭哭啼啼和别别扭扭改变不了糟糕的现状。心子开一点，认真地该干啥干啥，反倒走得顺畅许多。扛得住多少东西，最后就会得到多少东西，大致就是这么个理儿吧。

41. Don't feel as though you're being extremely wronged in anything. Whining and being stubborn won't change the bad situation. Open up your heart a bit, seriously do what you should do, and you'll find things go much smoother. How much you can bear, that's how much you'll get in the end, more or less that's the way it is.

42. 关于分寸感的理解：有礼貌，尊重人，知道自己是谁，别蹬鼻子上脸。喜欢和有分寸感的人合作，无论朋友恋人还是工作。

42. Understanding of moderation: Be polite, respectful, know who you are, and don't push your luck. Prefer to work with people who have a sense of moderation, whether it's friends, lovers, or colleagues.

43. 似水流年才是一个人的一切，其余的全是片刻的欢娱和不幸。

43. The flowing years are everything to a person; the rest is all fleeting joy and misfortune.

44. 很多时候，心里明明不是那样想的，却控制不了自己而说出相反的话。究竟是我们太执着于所谓的自尊，还是我们都已经习惯了口是心非。

44. Many times, despite what we truly think in our hearts, we are unable to control ourselves and end up saying the opposite. Is it because we are too obsessed with what we call self-respect, or because we have all become accustomed to saying one thing while thinking another?

45. 毕业就是一窗玻璃，我们要撞碎它，然后擦着锋利的碎片走过去，血肉模糊之后开始一个完全不同的人生。

45. Graduation is like a pane of glass; we need to shatter it, then walk through the sharp shards, leaving our flesh and blood in a mess, and start a completely different life from there.

46. 很多时候，一个人的改变，是从另一个人的到来或离去开始的。

46. Often, a person's change begins with the arrival or departure of another person.

47. 只有经历人生的种种磨难，才能悟出人生的价值。

47. Only through experiencing the various hardships in life can one understand the value of life.

48. 文学和科学相比，的确没什么用处，但文学最大的用处，也许就是它没有用处。教育也如此，所谓的分数、学历、甚至知识都不是教育的本质，教育的本质是：一棵树摇动另一棵树，一朵云推动另一朵云，一个灵魂唤醒另一个灵魂。莫言

48. Compared to science, literature indeed has little practical use, but perhaps the greatest use of literature is that it has no use. Education is the same; the so-called scores, academic degrees, even knowledge are not the essence of education. The essence of education is: one tree moves another tree, one cloud pushes another cloud, and one soul awakens another soul. Mo Yan

49. 拍照的好处，是可以在人生微凉时，用回忆取暖。

49. The benefit of taking photos is that one can use memories to warm themselves when life is cool.

50. 幸福人生靠的就是一种心态。幸福只可以一心一意，温暖也只能是一生一世。努力向着前方，什么距离都将不会是距离。一辈子，很短。真的需要好好的疼自己，爱自己，你的世界，有了自己的那束阳光才更加的耀眼。

50. A happy life relies on a certain mindset. Happiness can only be wholehearted, and warmth can only be lifelong. Strive towards the future, and no distance will be insurmountable. A lifetime is short. It's truly necessary to take good care of yourself, love yourself, for your world will shine even brighter with your own sunshine.

51. 可能与不可能的区别就在于一个人的决心！生活的不如意，乃修行上的一点点精进，当你在遭遇厄运的时候，坚强与懦弱那就是成败的分水岭。一个在信念力量驱动下的生命即是可创造人间的奇迹。

51. The difference between possibility and impossibility lies in a person's determination! The dissatisfaction in life is a bit of progress in cultivation. When you encounter misfortune, strength and weakness is the dividing line between success and failure. A life driven by the power of belief can create miracles in the world.

52. 生当自勉，学习需坚持，从这一刻开始，我依旧是我，只是心境再不同。不论今后的路如何，我都会在心底默默鼓励自己，坚持不懈，等待那一场破茧的美丽。

52. Live with self-encouragement, and perseverance is key in learning. From this moment on, I am still me, but with a different mindset. No matter how the path ahead may turn out, I will silently encourage myself from the bottom of my heart, persisting with unwavering determination, waiting for that beautiful moment of breaking through the cocoon.

53. 两人相爱，不管时间久暂，有朝一日分手了，请不要互相怨恨，而应该感谢对方给了你一段美好的时光。有人说，对方其实并不真爱自己，只是利用和欺骗了自己。即使如此，你也不要怨恨，而应该蔑视。怨恨是强烈的感情，人生的重要原则是节省感情，蔑视就是不把感情浪费在不值得的人身上。周国平

53. When two people fall in love, no matter how long or short the time, if they eventually part ways, please do not hold each other in hatred. Instead, be grateful for the beautiful time the other person has given you. Some say that the other person never truly loved you, but only exploited and deceived you. Even so, do not hold a grudge but rather look down upon them. Hatred is a strong emotion, and an important principle in life is to save one's emotions. Disdain is not wasting emotions on unworthy people. Zhou Guoping

54. 爱一个人，就是在拨通电话时，忽然不知道要说些什么。才知道，原来只是想听听那熟悉的声音。

54. To love someone is to pick up the phone and suddenly not know what to say. You realize that you just want to hear that familiar voice.

55. 你无需告诉每个人，那一个个艰难的日子是如何熬过来的，但，总有一天你要向这个世界大声呐喊：我成功的走过了人生中灰暗的时光。

55. You don't need to tell everyone how you endured those difficult days, but one day you will shout to the world loudly: I successfully navigated through the dark times in my life.

56. 过去都是假的，回忆没有归路，春天总是一去不返，最疯狂执着的爱情也终究是过眼云烟。

56. The past is all false, memories have no return, spring always departs and never returns, and even the most wild and obsessed love is eventually just a fleeting cloud.

57. 坚强的人，并不是能应对一切，而是能忽视所有的伤害。

57. A strong person is not one who can cope with everything, but one who can overlook all the injuries.

58. 早安心语：要么有深度，要么有趣，要么安静。我们是活给自己看的，不必沉浸在他人的语言中，蜷缩于世外的阴影下。你若裹足不前，有人偷着笑；你若挣开束缚，前方春暖花开。

58. Morning inspirational quote: Be profound or amusing, or be quiet. We are living for ourselves; there is no need to immerse ourselves in others' words and shrink under the shadows of the world beyond. If you hesitate to move forward, someone will be secretly laughing; if you break free from the shackles, spring will be warm and flowers will bloom ahead.

59. 不要为咸鱼翻身，不要扶烂泥上墙，不要雕朽木，烫死猪。你如果轻易去扭转一个人的命运，那就是与天道作对，会耗损你自己的福报。

59. Do not try to turn a salted fish over, do not help to climb a mud wall, do not carve on rotten wood, or scald a pig to death. If you easily attempt to change a person's destiny, it is to defy the laws of nature, and it will consume your own blessings.

60. 在这个世界上，每个人都是一个角色扮演者，有的人是强者，有的人是弱者，一切都是天意，你改变不了，也无可奈何。顺应天意，不要可怜别人，千方百计强大自己，做自己生命的主角，才是自己最重要的事情。

60. In this world, everyone is a player in a role, some are strong, some are weak. Everything is predestined, and you cannot change it or have any power over it. Embrace the will of heaven, do not pity others, and try every means to strengthen yourself. Being the protagonist of your own life is the most important thing for yourself.

61. 容易发怒的人，情绪智商也不怎么高，是小人利用的对象。

61. People who are easily angry tend to have low emotional intelligence and are often targets for manipulation by cunning individuals.

62. 人永远不会珍惜三种人：一是永远不会离开的，二是轻易得到的，三是那个一直对你很好的。但是，往往这三种人一旦离开就永远不会再回来。

62. People never cherish three types of people: those who never leave, those who are easily obtained, and those who are always kind to you. However, it is often the case that once these three types of people leave, they will never return.

63. 看清了很多人，却不能随意拆穿；讨厌着很多人，却又不能轻易翻脸。有时候，生活就是要逼自己变得逆来顺受，宠辱不惊。

63. I've seen many people clearly, but I can't expose them at will; I dislike many people, yet I can't easily turn against them. Sometimes, life is about forcing oneself to become accommodating and unaffected by honor or disgrace.

64. 不要忽略身边的小事，其实，我们一直被世界温暖着！

64. Don't overlook the small things around you. In fact, we have always been warmed by the world!

65. 每个人都有自己的因果和命运，你如果随便可怜别人，就会沾染别人的因果，背负别人的命运，一生都变得非常被动。

65. Everyone has their own karma and destiny. If you feel sorry for others without thought, you may take on others' karma and bear their destiny, making your entire life very passive.

66. 人生的路，走走停停是一种闲适，边走边看是一种优雅，边走边忘是一种豁达。

66. In the journey of life, walking and stopping is a form of leisure, walking and looking around is elegance, and walking and forgetting is generosity.

67. 静坐流年里，捻一抹心香，携一抹阳光，醉看那所有的红尘过往。只要怀有一颗感恩的心，感恩生命，感恩生活，感恩关爱自己的每一个人，幸福就无处不在、无时不有。记住：我们追求的是自己的幸福，而不是比别人幸福!

67. In the flow of stillness, twirl a touch of heart fragrance, carry a touch of sunshine, and be drunk by watching all the past dust and chaos. As long as you carry a grateful heart, grateful for life, grateful for life, and grateful for everyone who cares for you, happiness is everywhere, all the time. Remember: What we pursue is our own happiness, not happiness compared to others!

68. 奔波的人生，我们已经用力，尽心，何必还去耿耿于怀。人生就不会事事如意，样样随心，学会宽慰自己，懂得安慰自己。世上就没有最好，何必要强迫自己，尽心了，无论结果如何都可以。

68. Life is full of hustle and bustle, we have already given our all and exerted our utmost. Why still hold on to the regrets? Life is not always about everything going as one wishes, nor is it always in one's favor. Learn to comfort yourself and understand how to comfort yourself. There is no such thing as the best in this world, so why must one force themselves? As long as one has given it their all, no matter the outcome, it's all right.

69. 容易被激怒的人，要么太弱小，要么太敏感，所以，要么自己强大， 要么学会无视。

69. People who are easily angered are either too weak or too sensitive. Therefore, one either needs to become strong oneself or learn to ignore.

70. 剪一段流年的时光握着一路相随的暖。把最平淡的日子梳理成诗意的风景。人生谁不曾伤过痛过执着过感怀过。岁月因为经历而懂得，生命因为懂得过而精彩。走过了才明白，往事是用来回忆的，幸福是用来感受的，伤痛是用来成长的。让心在繁华过尽依然温润如初。带上最美的笑容且行且珍惜。

70. Cut a segment of time's flow, holding the warmth that has been accompanying all the way. Arrange the most mundane days into a picturesque landscape. Who in life hasn't been hurt, felt pain, been obsessed, or felt nostalgic? Years come to understand because of experience, and life becomes colorful because of understanding. It's only after walking through them that we realize, past memories are for reminiscing, happiness is for experiencing, and pain is for growing. Let the heart remain as soft and gentle as it was in its prime. Wear the most beautiful smile, cherish the journey and go on.

71. 最先道歉的人最勇敢；最先原谅的人最坚强；最先释怀的人最幸福。

71. The person who apologizes first is the bravest; the person who forgives first is the strongest; the person who lets go first is the happiest.

72. 我们怎样对待生活，生活就怎样对待我们；我们怎样对待别人，别人就怎样对待我们。我们在一项事件刚开始时的心态决定了最后有多大的成功，这比任何其他因素都重要。

72. How we treat life, life will treat us in return; how we treat others, others will treat us in return. Our mindset at the beginning of an event determines how much success we will ultimately achieve, which is more important than any other factor.

73. 和一个人在一起，如果他给你的能量，是让你每天都能高兴得起床，每夜都能安心得入睡，做每一件事都充满了动力，对未来满怀期待，那你就没有爱错人。最隽永的感情，永远都不是以爱的名义互相折磨，而是彼此陪伴，成为对方的阳光。

73. Being with someone, if the energy he gives you is the kind that makes you look forward to waking up every morning, feel at ease every night when going to sleep, and be filled with motivation for every task you undertake, and be full of anticipation for the future, then you have not chosen the wrong person. The most enduring love is never about torturing each other in the name of love, but about being each other's companions and becoming the sunlight in each other's lives.