在25个人生大明白的指引下，我毅然踏上开往伦敦的列车，余生坦然，踏遍山河无阻。

Guided by the wisdom of 25 great sages in life, I resolutely boarded the train heading to London, living the rest of my life with ease and traversing mountains and rivers without any hindrance.

1. 为人处事当醉则醉，当醒则醒，才是大明白。酒醉心明白，该醒时，切莫真醉。

1. One should be drunk when it's time to be drunk, and sober when it's time to be sober; that is the essence of great wisdom. When drunk, the heart should remain clear. When it's time to wake up, do not truly become drunk.

2. 2当稥烟嗳丄ㄋ吙柴，紸啶哙被咜烧菿洃飞烟灭，魂飞魄潵。

2.2 When the reeds and twigs are ignited, the incense is burned to ashes and smoke, and its soul is scattered.

3. 喜欢一个人，就是在一起很开心；爱一个人，就是即使不开心，也想在一起。

3. Liking someone means being happy together; loving someone means wanting to be together even when you're not happy.

4. 也许有些人很可恶，有些人很卑鄙。而当我设身为他想象的时候，我才知道：他比我还可怜。所以请原谅所有你见过的人，好人或者坏人。

4. Perhaps some people are very despicable, and some are very mean. But when I put myself in their shoes and imagine, I realize: they are even more pitiful than I am. So please forgive all the people you have ever met, whether they are good or bad.

5. 如果你想要你从未拥有过的东西，那么你必须去做你从未做过的事。

5. If you want something you've never had, you must do something you've never done.

6. 人的出场顺序很重要陪你喝醉的人注定没办法送你回家。

6. The order of people's appearance is very important; those who accompany you to get drunk are doomed to be unable to send you home.

7. 感觉自己这几年成熟了，最好的方式就是跟着自己的心，希望大家都能够好好的调整自己的心态，我的人生需要改变，每天都让自己有一个改变。

7. I feel that I have matured over these years, and the best way is to follow my heart. I hope everyone can adjust their mindset well. My life needs change, and I want to make a change every day.

8. 有钱,把事做好!没钱,把人做好!蛇不知道自己有毒,人不知道自己有错。你的好,对别人来说就像一颗糖,吃了就没了。而你的不好,就像一道伤疤,会永远存在。这就是人性!

8. If you have money, do things well! If you don't have money, be a good person! Snakes don't know they are poisonous, and people don't know they are wrong. Your goodness is like a piece of candy to others, once eaten, it's gone. But your badness is like a scar, it will always exist. This is human nature!

9. 当醉时醒着，祸事不远;当醒时醉了，悔恨也迟。

9. When drunk, to be awake, disaster is not far away; when sober, to be drunk, regret comes too late.

10. 从剪头发开始，我也许学会了调整心态，爱与不爱，走与留，在我心中也许还是那么重要，但是如果一个女生连说走或留的资格都没有，那就应该好好反省自己是不是太没有自我了！

10. Starting from getting a haircut, perhaps I have learned to adjust my attitude. Whether to love or not to love, whether to leave or stay, these may still be very important in my heart. But if a girl doesn't even have the资格 to say "leave" or "stay," then she should seriously reflect on whether she is too selfless!

11. 有些人真的是一出生就赢在了你的终点线，你觉得怎么追都追不上，可是不追你只会越来越远，重要的是调整心态做好自己，让自己离自己的终点越来越近。此话是看到不需辛苦减肥的瘦子有感，每天辛苦锻炼不见肉减少，可是不锻炼却只会越来越胖

11. Some people are truly born at the finish line, and you feel like no matter how hard you chase, you can't catch up. However, not chasing will only make you fall further behind. What's important is to adjust your mindset and do your best, making yourself closer to your own finish line. This thought came to me while observing thin people who don't need to lose weight through hard work. They work hard every day, but their weight doesn't seem to decrease. Yet, not exercising will only make them gain more weight.

12. 有时候，不是对方不在乎你，而是你把对方看的太重。

12. Sometimes, it's not that the other person doesn't care about you, but rather that you place too much importance on them.

13. 1钱，让多少相爱的人不能在一起；钱，让多少不想爱的人睡在一起

13. 1 penny, how many lovers are kept apart; money, how many people who don't want to love are forced to sleep together

14. 永远对生活充满希望，对于困境与磨难，微笑面对。

14. Always be hopeful in life, and smile in the face of difficulties and trials.

15. 在爱的时候，你就要相信它;在离开的时候，你要相信自己。

15. When in love, believe in it; when leaving, believe in yourself.

16. 尽量充实自己。不要停止学习。不管学习什么，语言，厨艺，各种技能。

16. Strive to enrich yourself. Never stop learning. Learn whatever you can, whether it's languages, culinary arts, or various skills.

17. 人这一生谁还没遇到过几个人渣太正常不过了调整自己的心态活得自在些终会有更好的路在前方等着你加油

17. It's quite normal for anyone in this life to have encountered a few scoundrels. Adjust your mindset and live more freely; there will always be a better path waiting for you ahead. Keep going!

18. 你以为最酸的感觉是吃醋吗？不是，最酸的感觉是没权吃醋。

18. Do you think the most sour feeling is being jealous? No, the most sour feeling is not having the right to be jealous.

19. 我多害怕习惯了谁的好，然后又被无情的丢掉。

19. How afraid I am of getting accustomed to someone's kindness and then being mercilessly discarded.

20. 经历过高考的人生就改变了，人生总是会多姿多彩的呢，希望大家都能够好好的调整自己的心态，看上去真的很不错呢。

20. Life changes after experiencing the college entrance examination; life is always colorful and diverse. I hope everyone can adjust their mindset well; it really looks quite nice.

21. 吃自助餐的最高境界就是：扶着墙进去，再扶着墙出来。

21. The highest art of eating a buffet is: entering with support of the wall, and exiting with support of the wall.

22. 你知道打一巴掌再给一颗糖的感受吗，我太懂了。

22. Do you know the feeling of being slapped and then given a candy? I completely understand it.

23. 你的机会和发展来自历史记录。你的历史记录越漂亮，机会就越多。

23. Your opportunities and development come from your historical record. The better your historical record, the more opportunities you will have.

24. 15总有几分钟，其中的每一秒，你都愿意拿一年去换取。总有几段场景，其中的每幅画面，你都愿意拿全部的力量去铭记。

24. There are always a few minutes where you would trade every second for a year. There are always a few scenes where every single image is something you would memorize with all your strength.

25. 当你毫无保留地信任一个人,最终只会有这两种结果,不是生命中的那个人,就是生命中的一堂课。

25. When you trust someone without reservation, there will ultimately be only two outcomes: either that person in your life, or a lesson in your life.

26. 33时光偷走的，永远都是我们眼皮底下看不见的珍贵。

26. What the 33rd time steals away is always the precious things that we can't see under our eyelids.

27. 某人打了我一板又亲了我一口说这叫打一巴掌给一颗糖。

巴掌打一记，又亲一口，说这是“打一巴掌给一颗糖”。

28. 活在当下，别在怀念过去或者憧憬未来中浪费掉你现在的生活。

28. Live in the present and don't waste your current life by reminiscing about the past or yearning for the future.

29. 无论怎样，一切很快都会过去，太多失败，都是因为自以为是。世界无对错，有人说是就一定有人说否，好坏不重要，重要的是拥有心灵的宁静。

29. In any case, everything will pass quickly. Too many failures are due to arrogance. The world has no right or wrong; if someone says it is, there will definitely be someone who disagrees. Whether it's good or bad is not important; what matters is to have inner peace.

30. 沾有泪痕的衣枕幼稚的情书歪歪扭扭的字迹还有你也许很多年后我都会忘记。

30. The clothing and pillows stained with tears, the immature love letters with crooked and twisted handwriting, and perhaps many years later, I will forget them all.

31. 27虽然爱情会褪色，就像老照片，不过我知道，你却会在我的心中永远美丽。

31. Although love may fade, like old photographs, I know that you will remain forever beautiful in my heart.

32. 20不要再熬夜了别去想一些让自己不开心的事过不去的坎别再放在心上忘不掉的人也该告一段落新的征途上愿从今往后的你别爱的太满别睡得太晚

32. 20 Don't stay up late anymore. Don't dwell on things that make you unhappy or can't let go. Don't keep them in your heart. Let go of those unforgettable people, too. On the new journey ahead, may you not love too deeply from now on and not sleep too late.

33. 22曾经以为，离别是离开不爱的人。有一天，长大了，才发现，有一种离别，是离开你爱的人。有一种离别，是擦着眼泪，不敢回首。

33. 22 Once I thought that parting was about leaving someone I didn't love. One day, as I grew up, I realized that there is a kind of parting that is about leaving the one you love. There is a kind of parting that is accompanied by tears, and one dare not look back.

34. 学会思考，头脑清晰，明白自己的渺小，切忌自我陶醉。炮打出头鸟，凡事不要强出头，因为并没有想象中的强！

34. Learn to think clearly, keep your mind focused, and be aware of your own insignificance. Avoid self-indulgence. Just like a gun is fired at a bird that sticks its head out, do not try to be the first to take the lead in everything, because you are not as strong as you imagine!

35. 因为孤独是人的常态所以陪伴才显得格外珍贵。

35. Because loneliness is the norm for humans, companionship becomes particularly precious.

36. 善解人意没用，你得漂亮，这是个看脸的社会。

36. It's not enough to be understanding and kind-hearted; you have to be beautiful. This is a society that values appearances.

37. 但是打一巴掌再给一颗甜枣这个办法还是有一定的道理。

37. However, the method of slapping someone and then giving them a sweet candy is still somewhat justified.

38. 25生是分离的痛苦，死是永恒的厮守，幻想的充实来弥补现实的空虚

38. 25 cents is the pain of separation, death is eternal companionship, the richness of fantasy fills the emptiness of reality.

39. 心态不同，人生的境遇便会天差地别。生活就像一杯白开水，你每天都在喝，不要羡慕别人喝的饮料有各种颜色，未必有你的白开水解渴，人生不是靠心情活，而要靠心态去生活。你什么都舍不得扔，旧的不去新的不来，还谈什么生活质量。努力天天向上，懂知足，调整心态看生活，处处都是阳光。

39. Different attitudes lead to vastly different life circumstances. Life is like a glass of plain water, something you drink every day. Don't envy others for their colorful drinks; perhaps your plain water is what satisfies your thirst. Life is not lived based on mood but on attitude. If you can't let go of anything, then the old will never make way for the new, and what is there to talk about quality of life? Strive for daily improvement, learn to be content, adjust your attitude towards life, and you'll find sunshine everywhere.

40. 钱，让多少相爱的人不能在一起；钱，让多少不想爱的人睡在一起

40. Money, how many loving hearts cannot be together; money, how many people who don't want to be together end up sleeping in the same bed.

41. 置身事外,谁都可以心平气和,身处其中,谁还可以淡定从容,所以请不要轻易评论任何人,因为你不在其中。

41. Everyone can remain calm and composed from the outside, but who can remain indifferent and composed when they are in the midst of it? Therefore, please do not轻易 comment on anyone, as you are not in their situation.

42. 十年前,你周围的人会根据你父母的收入对待你。十年后,你周围的人会根据你的收入对待你的父母和你的孩子!这就是人性和人生,除了努力别无选择。记住:没有伞的孩子,必须努力奔跑!

42. Ten years ago, the people around you treated you based on your parents' income. Ten years later, the people around you will treat your parents and your children based on your income! This is humanity and life, and there is no other choice but to strive. Remember: children without an umbrella must run hard!

43. 15其实流泪不是懦弱，只是勇敢了太久，需要释放一下。

43. 15: In fact, shedding tears is not a sign of weakness; it's just that one has been brave for too long and needs to let go a little.

44. 打一巴掌给一颗糖，以为动物园里逗猴子呢，傻叉叉

44. Give a slap and a candy, thinking it's entertaining monkeys in the zoo, you're a moron!

45. 一成不变的人生太无趣了，人生真的能够因为每个人而改变了，不变的人生是没有意义的呀，希望大家都能够好好的调整自己的心态，不会向逆境屈服，我是通过做生意改变了我的生活质量，真心觉得特别的不错的样子，还是要看人的主观意愿，让自己变得更好。

45. A life without change is too boring. Life can truly be transformed by each individual, and a life without change is meaningless. I hope everyone can adjust their mindset well, not yielding to adversity. I have changed my quality of life through doing business, and I truly feel it's quite good. It still depends on one's subjective will to become better.

46. 打一巴掌给一颗糖并不是可以像什么都没发生一样。

46. Giving a slap and then a candy is not something that can be brushed off as if nothing had happened.

47. 时光偷走的，永远都是我们眼皮底下看不见的珍贵。

47. What time steals away is always the precious things that we can't see under our very eyes.

48. 人就是孤独的，缓解它带来的痛苦的唯一方式就是平静的接受它。

48. Human beings are inherently solitary, and the only way to alleviate the pain it brings is to calmly accept it.

49. 女生：我感冒了。男生：多喝点温水就好了。女生：我来姨妈了。男生：多喝点温水就好了。女生：我胃疼了。男生：多喝点温水就好了。女生：我们分手吧。男生：我会难过的。女生：多喝点温水就好了。

49. Girl: I have a cold. Boy: Just drink more warm water and it will be fine. Girl: I'm on my period. Boy: Just drink more warm water and it will be fine. Girl: I have stomach pain. Boy: Just drink more warm water and it will be fine. Girl: Let's break up. Boy: I will be sad. Girl: Just drink more warm water and it will be fine.

50. 以前我特别自卑，都不敢和女的一起玩，于是我每天激励自己：你行的！你是最棒的！一个月下来很有效果，现在的我已经觉得她们不配跟我玩了。

50. Before, I was particularly self-conscious and didn't dare to play with girls. So, I would motivate myself every day: You can do it! You're the best! After a month, it was very effective. Now, I already feel that they don't deserve to play with me.

51. 2人说抵挡不过时间其实是时间抵挡不住人的善变。

51. 2 people say they can't stand time, but it's actually that time can't withstand people's capriciousness.

52. 一个人如果能够控制自己的激情、烦恼和恐惧，那他就胜过国王。

52. If a person can control his passions, worries, and fears, he is greater than a king.

53. 年轻时候，拍下许多照片，摆在客厅给别人看；等到老了，才明白照片是拍给自己看的。

53. In my youth, I took many photos and displayed them in the living room for others to see; only when I grew old did I realize that the photos were taken for myself to see.

54. 我要减肥，我要变美，我要调整好心态，我要找对方向，我要好好的生活。

54. I want to lose weight, I want to become beautiful, I want to adjust my mindset, I want to find the right direction, I want to live well.

55. 要勇于承认自己所犯的错误，并承担其带来的责任。

55. Be courageous in admitting your own mistakes and take responsibility for them.

56. 看了看，似乎是有点明白，哄孩子的把戏，打一巴掌，给一颗糖，对吧，只是不明白，金融的开放，意味着什么，有点不大明白，全方位，大力度的开放，总令人不踏实，是想把中国彻彻底底融入世界，这是一场大赌，豪赌，令人兴奋，令人恐惧，中国在赌，也把世界人民拉拢，一起参与赌博，真的令人不踏实啊。

56. I took a look and it seems like I have a bit of an understanding; it's like the tricks of哄孩子的 (coaxing a child), give a slap and then a candy, right? But I'm not quite clear on what the opening up of finance means, I'm a bit confused. A comprehensive and vigorous opening up always makes one feel uneasy. It seems like it's an attempt to thoroughly integrate China into the world, which is a big bet, a bold bet, one that excites and terrifies. China is gambling, and it's also pulling the world's people into the betting game, really making one feel insecure.

57. 是我没有调整好心态，高估了自己。应该更多一些包容和体谅，还有行动，来表达自己。

57. It was me who didn't adjust my mindset properly and overestimated myself. I should have shown more tolerance and understanding, and taken more action to express myself.

58. 把你删了的人就没必要再加回来，存心躲避你的人就不要特地去缠着。

58. If someone has deleted you, there is no need to add them back. Don't go out of your way to纠缠 someone who deliberately avoids you.

59. 孤独从来就不会毁掉一个人。把自己的头奋命塞进一个不适合自己的圈子，佯装自己不孤独才会毁掉一个人。

59. Loneliness has never destroyed a person. Forcing one's head into a circle that does not fit, pretending to be not lonely, is what can destroy a person.

60. 所谓内心的快乐，是一个人过着健全的正常的和谐的生活所感到的快乐。

60. What is referred to as inner happiness is the joy one feels when leading a healthy, normal, and harmonious life.

61. 11爱情是什么？爱情就是在你快乐的时候，我和你一同分享；在你伤心的时候，我为你送上安慰；在你孤独的时候，我默默给你陪伴；在你迷惘的时候，我带你勇敢前行。不论你身处何地，都有我不变的情意相伴左右，祝愿你幸福平安。记得有一个人，爱你到永久！

61. What is love? Love is sharing your happiness with me; it is comforting you when you are sad; it is silently accompanying you when you are lonely; it is leading you bravely when you are confused. No matter where you are, there is my unchanging affection by your side, wishing you happiness and safety. Remember, there is someone who loves you forever!

62. 乐观是希望的明灯，它指引着你从危险峡谷中步向坦途，使你得到新的生命新的希望，支持着你的理想永不泯灭。

62. Optimism is the beacon of hope, guiding you from the perilous ravine to the smooth path, giving you new life and new hope, and supporting your ideals so that they never fade away.

63. 我靠我靠我靠！！！原本还对佐助新传失望的，没想到鸣人新传居然有糖阿啊啊啊啊啊啊啊！这是打一巴掌给一颗糖吗

63. Rely on me, rely on me, rely on me!!! I was originally disappointed with the new version of Sasuke's story, but I didn't expect that the new version of Naruto's story would have a sweet moment! Is this a slap in the face followed by a sweet treat?

64. “后来”这个词，概括了所有我们不想要改变，却又面目全非了的事。

64. The word "later" summarizes all the things we do not want to change but have changed beyond recognition.

65. 当时年纪小，喜欢装文艺，现在病好了，只喜欢钱。

65. Back then, being young, I liked to pretend to be artistic. Now that I'm better, I only like money.

66. 希望大家都能够好好的调整自己的心态，没有任何东西是改变不了的，人生必须每天都充满挑战，不一样的知识让自己变得更丰富。

66. Hope everyone can properly adjust their mindset, nothing is unchangeable, life must be filled with challenges every day, different knowledge makes oneself richer.

67. 等你的身体出了什么毛病,你就会意识到什么烦心事都是屁,都是吃饱了撑的,都是闲的,健康活着比什么都重要。

67. When your body encounters some problems, you will realize that all the烦心事 are mere trifles, all are caused by overindulgence, all are a result of idleness. Living a healthy life is more important than anything else.

68. 可以不美丽，可以不可爱，可以不温柔，但是一定要诚实和善良。

68. One can be unattractive, unlovable, or not gentle, but one must always be honest and kind.

69. 生气只会骂我，只会摔东西。那一瞬间，我真的想说，离婚好不好。我什么都不要你的，我只要带孩子离开。我开始厌倦你的小气，厌倦你的无理取闹，厌倦了你这种打一巴掌给一颗糖的脾性。我累了，真的累了。失望攒够了，很多很多。

69. He's only ever angry and curses at me, and he just throws things around. In that moment, I really wanted to say, is it okay to get a divorce? I don't want anything from you, I just want to take the kids and leave. I'm tired of your stinginess, tired of your unreasonable tantrums, tired of your habit of giving a slap and a candy. I'm exhausted, truly exhausted. I've gathered enough disappointment, so much, so much.