在家庭的沃土上，经营的艺术如同攀登高峰的壮举，成就男性最高荣誉的巅峰。

In the fertile soil of the family, the art of management is akin to the heroic act of scaling a peak, reaching the summit of the highest honor for males.

1. 接任何人的电话都说“你好”，你的微笑他们能听得到。

1. Say "hello" when answering anyone's phone call, and they can hear your smile.

2. 珍惜你身边的人-----哪怕他只肯为你做饭洗碗。

2. Cherish the people around you —— even if he is only willing to cook and wash the dishes for you.

3. 很多女人的“爱”都是睡出来的，也许一开始爱不到如火如荼，一旦献身，便生生死死念念不忘。

3. Many women's "love" is born out of sleep, perhaps it may not be as intense at first, but once committed, it becomes a lifelong memory, never forgetting the love that endures life and death.

4. 男人都是长不大的孩子，当他真的爱上一个女人时，会从心底里生出依赖感。

4. Men are all grown-up children; when they truly fall in love with a woman, they will feel a sense of dependence deep from their hearts.

5. 4每一个成功者都有一个开始。敢于开端，才干找到胜利的路。

5.4 Every successful person has a starting point. It is by daring to begin that one can find the path to success.

6. 女人，不害怕一段关系的结束，只害怕爱的结束。

6. Women are not afraid of the end of a relationship, but they are afraid of the end of love.

7. 人们眼里，男人的自私是种“坏”，女人的自私是种“可爱”。

7. In people's eyes, men's selfishness is considered "bad," while women's selfishness is seen as "cute."

8. 女人，永远只能心平气和地与比自己更倒霉的女人交往。

8. Women can only get along with those who are less fortunate than themselves in a peaceful and calm manner.

9. 二十岁时失恋不可怕，可怕的是三十岁之后才开始失恋。

9. It's not可怕 to experience a breakup at the age of 20, but what's可怕 is to start experiencing a breakup after the age of 30.

10. 即使没机会穿，也最好有一件晚礼服------哪怕在结婚纪念日的烛光里自己欣赏一下。浪漫不能当饭吃，偶尔总该有一次。

10. Even if there's no chance to wear it, it's still best to have a formal dress —— even if it's just to admire yourself in the candlelight on your wedding anniversary. Romance can't be eaten for dinner, but occasionally, there should be at least one chance.

11. 取悦男人不如取悦自己。只取悦自己的女人注定可以倾倒世人。

11. It's better to please yourself than to please men. A woman who only pleases herself is destined to captivate the world.

12. 爱一个人，不是一辈子的事。爱一个人，是一个阶段的事。

12. Loving someone is not a lifelong matter. Loving someone is a matter of a certain stage.

13. 让男人累心的女人必定美貌，让女人累心的男人一定多金。

13. The woman who makes men weary is always beautiful, and the man who makes women weary is always wealthy.

14. 在孝敬父母方面，孔子还说了两个字：色难。给父母饱暖的衣食容易，而随时对他们保持好脸色却很难。

14. In terms of filial piety, Confucius also mentioned two characters: "色难." It is easy to provide parents with ample food and clothing, but it is difficult to always maintain a good expression towards them.

15. 林黛玉其实代代常有，那是女孩子的通性。贾宝玉是可遇难求，那是男人们的神话。

15. Lin Daiyu is actually a common character throughout generations, which is a common trait among girls. Jia Baoyu is rare to find, which is a myth among men.

16. 最好不要背后乱评价别人，如果必要，只说好话。

16. It's best not to gossip about others behind their backs; if necessary, only speak well of them.

17. 【3】孝敬之道：把恭敬的态度给父母

17. 【3】The Path of Filial Piety: Show respect and reverence to one's parents.

18. 因为继母的夸奖，卡耐基和她建立了好感。并且在继母夸奖的影响下，卡耐基逐渐走出自卑的阴影，他相信自己的优秀，并为之努力，最终创立了28条成功的黄金法则，指导无数人走向了成功的彼岸。

18. Because of her stepmother's praise, Carnegie developed a fondness for her. Under the influence of the praise from her stepmother, Carnegie gradually overcame his shadow of inferiority, believed in his own excellence, and strived for it. Ultimately, he established 28 golden rules of success, guiding countless people to the shore of success.

19. 从负面去想人，热心肠也凉下来。从正面去想人，冷心肠也热起来。

19. When thinking about people negatively, even the warm-hearted can become cool. When thinking about people positively, even the cold-hearted can become warm.

20. 长期而不厌其烦的夸奖，就是给孩子一种“我其实很优秀”的暗示，强化他正确的行为，并提高他的自我期许。

20. Praise that is long-lasting and unceasing is a subtle hint to the child that "I am actually very good," reinforcing their correct behavior and enhancing their self-expectations.

21. 多情男人对一个女人的好，是建立在对另外一个女人的“坏”的基础上的。

21. The goodness a loving man shows to a woman is based on the "badness" he shows to another woman.

22. 男人最顶级的成功，不是出将入相，轰轰烈烈，而是拥有一个温暖、幸福和充满希望的家庭。

22. The ultimate success of a man is not to be a distinguished general or a great leader, making a great stir, but to have a warm, happy, and hopeful family.

23. 不要祈祷上帝和菩萨------菩萨都说求人不如求己。让自己强一些，胜过无路可走时的屈服命运。

23. Do not pray to God or the Bodhisattva——the Bodhisattvas all say that it is better to depend on oneself than to seek others. Make yourself stronger, which is better than submitting to fate when there is no way out.

24. 人都是思变的动物，天仙美眷也留不住完整一世的爱！

24. All humans are animals of thought and change, and even the most beautiful celestial partners cannot retain a complete and lasting love for a whole lifetime!

25. 遇见以前的男友，请首先伸手，让他知道你早就不在乎了。

25. When you meet your ex-boyfriend, extend your hand first to let him know you no longer care.

26. 人生最大一种痛，不是失败，而是没有经历自己想要经历的一切。

26. The greatest pain in life is not failure, but not experiencing everything one wants to experience.

27. 年轻不必言“悔”，但年轻时所有的“悔”都会赶在年老时上门收债的。

27. It is not necessary to speak of "regret" in youth, but all the "regrets" of youth will come to collect their debts when one is old.

28. 女人的一生不只是为婚姻而准备的，那个名叫“丈夫”的男人未必可保你一生的美满！

28. A woman's life is not solely prepared for marriage, and the man called "husband" may not necessarily guarantee your lifelong happiness!

29. 18没有金刚钻就别揽瓷器活 , 没有金箍棒就别穿小短裙。

29. If you don't have a diamond drill, don't take on porcelain jobs; if you don't have a golden staff, don't wear short skirts.

30. 如果有钱，考个驾驶证，去买辆车。需要外出时候，可以不再对男人低声下气，哪怕那人是你的老公。

30. If you have money, get a driver's license and buy a car. When you need to go out, you won't have to humble yourself to men, even if that person is your husband.

31. 聪明的女人被男人当成爱人，太聪明的女人被男人当成对手。

into English: 31. A smart woman is considered a lover by men, but a too smart woman is considered an adversary.

32. 青涩的女子，面对心仪的男子，会努力装得“复杂”，她用神秘感引他一探究竟。聪明的女人，面对心爱的男人，会变得“简单”，她明白了用爱还原最真实的本我。

32. A youthful girl, facing the man she admires, will try to act "complex," using mystique to draw him to uncover her true self. A wise woman, facing the man she loves, becomes "simple," understanding that love还原s the most authentic part of herself.

33. 杨澜曾拿这个问题问哲学家周国平，周国平承认自己有时也会这样。

33. Yang Lan once asked this question to the philosopher Zhou Guoping, and Zhou Guoping admitted that he too sometimes acts in this way.

34. 13除了亲情以外的感情，懒于维护就会渐行渐远。

34. 13 Feelings other than family affection, if not maintained diligently, will gradually grow apart.

35. 真喜欢一件衣服，不必在乎钱，买吧。衣厨里三季都没动过的衣服，最好赶快送人。

35. If you really love a piece of clothing, don't worry about the money, just buy it. If there's a piece in your closet that hasn't been worn for three seasons, it's best to give it away quickly.

36. 孩子是家庭的未来。经常把夸奖的话说给孩子听，能够帮助他们建立自信并实现优秀。同时亲子关系更加亲密，更有利于孩子的发展。

36. Children are the future of the family. Often giving praise to children can help them build self-confidence and achieve excellence. At the same time, it strengthens the parent-child relationship, which is more conducive to the child's development.

37. 19人越长大就越能明白，爱不爱是其次，相处不累才最重要。

37. The 19 people come to realize as they grow older that whether they love each other or not is secondary; what's most important is to get along without feeling exhausted.

38. 若有机会和时间，请看几本好书，慢慢积累，总有收获。

38. If you have the opportunity and time, please read a few good books, accumulate slowly, and you will surely reap the rewards.

39. 俗女总有俗女的可爱，雅气太过，市场前景总不可观。

39. Common women always have their own charm. Too much elegance is not conducive to market prospects.

40. 有时间去照几张艺术照，留住点青春的影子，即使照出来有点假，但毕竟是你。

40. Take some time to have a few artistic photos taken, capturing a bit of the essence of youth. Even if the photos come out a bit artificial, they are, after all, you.

41. 漂亮女人拥有天下是应当应分，不漂亮的女人夺取天下是实力超群。

41. It is natural and justified that a beautiful woman should possess the world, while an unattractive woman seizing the world demonstrates extraordinary ability.

42. 真诚微笑，别怕皱纹。这个岁数了，优雅比美丽更重要。

42. A sincere smile, don't be afraid of wrinkles. At this age, elegance is more important than beauty.

43. 诗人余秀华因为脑瘫的缺陷，嫁给了一个流浪汉为妻。

43. The poet Yu Xiaohua, due to her disability from cerebral palsy, married a beggar as her husband.

44. 孔子说：“今之孝者，是谓能养，至于犬马，皆能有养。不敬，何以别乎？”意思是老人不仅需要奉养，还需要被恭敬地对待。

44. Confucius said, "The act of filial piety today is to be able to support and care for one's parents. As for dogs and horses, they can also be cared for. Without respect, how can one distinguish between them?" This means that the elderly not only need to be supported and taken care of but also need to be treated with respect.

45. 把夸奖的话说给孩子听，让孩子成长得更好，未来就有了希望。

45. Speak praise into the child's ears, and let them grow better, and there will be hope for the future.

46. 一个好脸色，一颗恭敬心，才是父母最切实的需求。

46. A good appearance and a respectful heart are the most real needs of parents.

47. 女人的美，不是美给男人看的，是美给女人看的。

47. A woman's beauty is not for men to admire; it is for women to appreciate.

48. 对待异性，男人女人都是喜欢带有危险的情欲诱惑。对待同性，男人女人都不允许天下人有负他（她）的威胁！

48. When it comes to the opposite sex, both men and women are fond of passionate allure that carries danger. When it comes to the same sex, neither men nor women allow anyone in the world to threaten them!

49. 能够陪伴父母，使我们的福气。珍惜和父母相处的时光，切莫留下“子欲孝而亲不待”的遗憾。

49. Being able to accompany our parents is a blessing for us. Cherish the time spent with our parents, and do not leave behind the regret of "I wish to be filial but my parents are no longer around."

50. 生活中，我们习惯了把好脾气留给外人，而把坏脾气给家人。

50. In life, we are accustomed to showing our good temper to strangers while giving our bad temper to our family members.

51. 余秀华伤透了心。在拿到出版诗集挣来的第一笔稿费15万后，余秀华第一件事就是和丈夫离婚，为了能够离婚他愿意把15万全给他。

51. Yu Xiaohua was heartbroken. After receiving the first batch of royalties of 150,000 yuan earned from the publication of her poetry collection, Yu Xiaohua's first act was to divorce her husband. To secure the divorce, she was willing to give the entire 150,000 yuan to him.

52. 6人若是有勇气说再见，生活也会还我们一个崭新的开始。

52. If six people have the courage to say goodbye, life will also give us a brand new start.

53. 伤口深了，多了，关系也就越发淡漠了。尤其是爱人，和我们因缘分相逢，因欣赏相爱。

53. The deeper and more numerous the wounds, the more distant the relationship becomes. Especially with a loved one, who we meet due to fate and fall in love because of mutual appreciation.

54. 一个心中有爱的女孩子，能够把男人身上所有的“坏”都自我加工成“好”！

54. A girl with love in her heart can turn all the "bad" qualities in a man into "good" through her self-processing!

55. 3志坚者，功名之柱也。登山不以艰险而止，则必臻乎峻岭。

55. The resolute are the pillars of success and fame. If one does not stop at difficulties and dangers when climbing a mountain, one is bound to reach the summit.

56. 一个男人，有爱的时候是天使，无爱的时候是魔鬼。

56. A man is an angel when in love, and a devil when not.

57. 把恭敬的态度留给父母，家庭更和谐温暖。

57. Reserve a respectful attitude for your parents, and your family will be more harmonious and warm.

58. 青年毛泽东每次假期回家，都要搀着母亲走很远的山路到寺庙拜佛。他不信佛，但为了满足母亲拜佛的愿心，跋山涉水，任劳任怨。

58. Whenever young Mao Zedong returned home for holidays, he would accompany his mother to walk a long distance on a mountain path to visit a temple and worship the Buddha. Although he did not believe in Buddhism, he endured the hardships of traversing mountains and rivers, and did not complain, in order to satisfy his mother's wish to worship the Buddha.

59. 父亲还在继母的耳边说：“这是全县最差劲的男孩，可让我头疼死了。说不定他明天就会拿起石头仍向你，或者做出别的什么出格的事来，简直让人烦不胜烦。”

59. The father whispered in the stepmother's ear, "This is the worst boy in the whole county, and it's driving me crazy. Who knows, he might pick up a stone and throw it at you tomorrow, or do some other outrageous thing. It's just intolerable."

60. 继母听了满脸微笑地走到卡耐基身边，温和地说：“我相信他是一个非常聪明，乖巧的孩子，他之前的表现全是因为你教育无方。他如果找到了可以发挥热忱的地方，一定会成为一个了不起的人物。”

60. The stepmother, hearing this, smiled warmly and walked over to Carnegie, speaking gently, "I believe he is a very intelligent and well-behaved child. His previous behavior was all due to your improper upbringing. If he finds a place where he can channel his enthusiasm, he will surely become an extraordinary person."

61. 流浪汉在外受尽欺凌，从来不敢反抗，而回家后就把一肚子的怨愤发泄给爱人。他对余秀华动辄拳打脚踢，恶语侮辱。

61. The tramp has suffered all sorts of mistreatment outside, never daring to反抗, but at home, he vents all his grievances and anger on his beloved. He often beats and kicks Yu Xiuhua, and uses foul language to insult her.

62. 家人，永远是身后最坚强的后盾。有了一个安稳的家，就有了前行的底气。

62. Family members are always the strongest support at your back. With a stable home, you gain the confidence to move forward.

63. 胡适的老婆江采莲只是一个裹着小脚的农村女人。胡适不仅和她厮守终生，还从来没有对她发过坏脾气。

63. Hu Shi's wife, Jiang Cailian, was just a rural woman with bound feet. Hu Shi not only lived with her for life, but never lost his temper with her.

64. 有些东西，就是看上去挺美，比如昔日的恋人……

64. Some things, like an ex-lover, may look quite beautiful...

65. 感觉，是年轻人才玩得起的东西。男女之间，最昂贵的不是玩钱，是玩感觉。

65. Sensation is something that only the young can afford to indulge in. Between men and women, the most expensive thing is not playing with money, but playing with sensation.

66. 给自己和爱车买份保险。这份合同比婚书更可靠一点。

66. Insure yourself and your beloved car. This contract is a bit more reliable than a marriage certificate.

67. 15人生唯一不会落空的等待是注定的死亡，世间唯一保持恒久不变的就是变化。

67. The only waiting that will never fail in life is the predetermined death, and the only thing that remains constant in the world is change.

68. 如果离婚了，最好别为了找个男人而仓促再婚，如果不是为了爱情，草率结婚比单身更可怕。

68. If you get a divorce, it's best not to rush into another marriage just to find a man. Marrying hastily is scarier than being single if it's not for love.

69. 因为对外人发脾气，我们担心会遭到伤害或者损失，而家人则会选择容忍和宽容。殊不知，“利刀割肉疮犹合，恶语伤人恨不消。”哪怕是家人，也会因为你的脾气在内心留下伤口。

69. Because we lose our temper with outsiders, we worry about suffering harm or loss, while family members choose to tolerate and forgive. Little do we know that "even a sharp knife can heal a flesh wound, but harsh words can never erase the hurt in the heart." Even family members can leave emotional wounds in your heart due to your temper.

70. 老人尝试着发挥余热，为家里做点什么，于是不屑地让他们停不下，甚至还说，你们手脚不灵便，还是歇着吧。

70. The elderly person tried to contribute his remaining energy to do something for the family, and they couldn't stop him, even going so far as to say, "You're not agile with your hands and feet, just rest."

71. 一对没有血缘关系的男女，既然走到一起，就应全心相爱，而不应该把对方当做发泄脾气的垃圾桶。

71. A couple of men and women without blood relations, since they have come together, should love each other wholeheartedly and not treat each other as a trash can for venting their tempers.

72. 和密友保持联系，无话不谈的朋友最少有两个。

72. Maintain contact with close friends, and the least number of friends with whom you can talk about anything is two.

73. 爱一个不爱你的人就像抱着一盆仙人掌，你抱得有多紧，就会觉得有多痛。

73. Loving someone who doesn't love you is like holding a pot of cactus; the tighter you hold it, the more painful it will be.

74. 没有错误可以永垂不朽，永垂不朽的是人反反复复念叨错误的一颗心。

74. No mistakes can be immortal; what is eternal is the heart that repeatedly mentions mistakes.

75. 男人经营好家庭，就是给自己的事业赢得了稳定的后方。

75. Managing a family well is to secure a stable rear for one's own career.

76. 人一旦老了，生命逐渐枯萎，力量渐渐衰弱，越来越容易被忽视。而人们很少深入地去了解老人的心境，总是站在自己的立场，对老人充满了指责和抱怨。

76. Once people grow old, life gradually withers away, strength gradually weakens, and they become increasingly easy to ignore. However, people rarely delve deeply into the elderly's state of mind, always standing in their own perspective, filled with accusations and complaints towards the elderly.

77. 至少有一个高档的手包，里面永远有足够花的钱(卡)，一瓶品牌高档的护肤霜，一块备用的手机电池，驾驶证和行车证。

77. At least one high-end handbag, which is always well-stocked with enough money (cards), a bottle of high-end skincare cream, a spare mobile phone battery, a driver's license, and a vehicle registration certificate.

78. 男人都忘不掉那些差一点就得到但却始终没有真正得到过的女人。

78. Men can never forget those women they almost had but never truly got.

79. 14经历过大浪跌落过悬崖才感叹余生好难忘。

79. It was only after experiencing the big waves and falling off the cliff that I sighed and felt that the rest of my life is unforgettable.