真正的强者，远离内耗、避免透支与嘲讽。

The true strong are far from internal consumption, avoid overexpenditure and sarcasm.

1. 每次发朋友圈都会左思右想，索性不发。

2. 我就是一个典型的例子，不喜欢发朋友圈，也许是我还年轻，不怎么用微信，但是我感觉越大越不会发朋友圈，因为不想向别人吐露无用的感情，想封闭自己了。发朋友圈每个人想法不一样，我身边就有很多人每天记录生活，分享生活，我感觉也挺不错的。

1. Every time I think about posting something on my朋友圈, I end up not doing it. 2. I am a typical example; I don't like to post on my朋友圈. Maybe it's because I'm still young and not very active on WeChat, but I feel like the older I get, the less I want to post on my朋友圈. It's because I don't want to express useless emotions to others and I want to close myself off. People have different ideas about posting on their朋友圈, and I know many people around me who record and share their lives every day. I think that's quite nice as well.

3. 绚丽的烟花，仿佛是片花海挥霍着盛开。为这一次生命的炫耀，炫耀，铺天盖地。

3. The splendid fireworks seemed like a sea of flowers lavishly blooming. For this one-time display of life, they炫耀, covering the sky and the ground.

4. 如果你不相信努力和时光，那么时光会第一个就会辜负你。不要去否定你的过去，也不要用你的过去牵扯你的未来。不是因为有希望才去努力，而是努力了，才能看到希望。能够在这个世界上独领风骚的人，必是专心致志于一事的人。伟大的人从不把精力浪费在自己不擅长的领域中。

4. If you don't believe in effort and time, time will be the first to betray you. Do not negate your past, nor allow your past to entangle your future. It is not because of hope that one strives, but rather, it is through striving that one can see hope. Those who excel in this world are those who are focused and dedicated to a single endeavor. Great people never waste their energy in areas where they are not skilled.

5. 强势的人未必是强者。一个真正聪明的人，是懂得如何让自己委屈求全的人。刚者易折，柔则长存。曾有人说：任性是事业最大的敌人。伴随着年龄增长，我们应该学会完善自己的个性，控制自己的情绪，莫过度任性而为。虽然这有点痛苦，但如果想要成功，就要记住：成熟的人做该做的事，而非只做喜欢的事。

5. Powerful people are not necessarily strong. A truly intelligent person is one who knows how to compromise and make sacrifices for the greater good. The rigid can be easily broken, while the flexible endures. Someone once said: "Impulsiveness is the greatest enemy of success." As we grow older, we should learn to refine our personalities, control our emotions, and avoid acting too impulsively. Although this may be somewhat painful, if you want to succeed, remember: mature people do what needs to be done, not just what they like to do.

6. 我不聪明，但也不傻，我喜欢直来直去，不喜欢勾心斗角。

6. I'm not very intelligent, but I'm also not foolish. I prefer to be straightforward and don't like to engage in cunning tactics or intrigue.

7. 会有那个人爱你的，孑是还没到时候吧，那个好心人，可怜你的人，最疼你的那一位，一定会到你的身边的。

7. There will be someone who loves you, but it's just not time yet. That kind-hearted person, the one who pities you, and the one who loves you the most, will definitely come to your side.

8. 我哭了，谁心疼我，保护我，疼我的人已经走了，为什么老天这么任性，把我的人带走了，当真对我不公平啊！我好想我人啊！你的离去，我不甘心，我也没能力挽留住你，此时此刻，真的好想你呀，

8. I cried, who will care for me, protect me, and cherish me? The person who loved me has already left. Why is heaven so capricious, taking away my loved ones? It really seems unfair to me! I miss my loved ones so much! I'm not willing to accept your departure, and I don't have the power to stop you. At this moment, I really miss you so much.

9. 忘记一个人为什么要一辈子，因为，你根本没有试着去忘记，而是一直在怀念，在期待，在做梦!忘不掉的，不能忘的，就让它在心里占据一个位置，而不是全部。

9. Why should one forget a person for a lifetime? Because, you have never really tried to forget, but have always been reminiscing, anticipating, and dreaming! The unforgettable, the unforgettable, let it occupy a place in your heart, but not the whole of it.

10. 余华发现，连续几年来，除了浮躁和虚荣，自己一事无成，一无所得。他决定转身，远离喧嚣，在孤独中沉淀自己，在沉静中默默蓄力。几年后，作品《第七日》《文城》相继问世，再次惊艳文坛。

10. Yu Hua found that for several consecutive years, apart from being restless and vain, he had achieved nothing and gained nothing. He decided to turn around, distance himself from the hustle and bustle, and sink into solitude to沉淀 himself, quietly accumulating strength in stillness. Several years later, the works "The Seventh Day" and "Wen Cheng" were successively published, once again stunning the literary circle.

11. 如果不是相互喜欢，你的痴情就是别人的负担。

11. If there is no mutual liking, your devotion is a burden to others.

12. 人生最曼妙的风景，是内心的淡定，生命的自在，人生的安静。如此，岁月静好，我自峥嵘。

12. The most exquisite scenery in life is the calmness within, the ease of life, and the tranquility of one's journey. Thus, with the years passing quietly, I remain resolute.

13. 人生应该远离的九种人1、从来不会发自内心说谢谢的人。

13. Nine types of people one should distance oneself from in life: 1. People who never sincerely say "thank you."

14. 以前有种感觉，想让它成为永远。过了许多年，才发现它已渐渐消逝了。然后才懂：原来握在手里的，不一定就是我们真正拥有的;我们所拥有的，也不一定就是我们真正铭刻在心的!其实人生很多时候需要自觉的放弃!心情短语

14. There was a feeling before, wanting it to be forever. After many years, I realized it had gradually faded away. Then I understood: what we hold in our hands may not necessarily be what we truly possess; what we possess may not necessarily be what we truly etch in our hearts! In fact, life often requires us to consciously let go! Mood phrase

15. 我就那样迷乱地捡起。叶子是黄褐色的，弯曲的，像一只载着梦小船，而且在船舷上又长期着两粒美丽的梧桐子。每起一阵风我就在落叶的雨中穿梭，拾起一地的梧桐子。

15. I picked it up in a daze. The leaves were yellowish-brown, curved, resembling a small boat laden with dreams, and on the sides of the boat, there were two beautiful wutong seeds that had been there for a long time. With every breeze, I would weave through the rain of falling leaves, picking up a ground littered with wutong seeds.

16. 生活从来不会刻意亏欠谁，它给了我们一块阴影，必会在不远的地方撒下阳光。

16. Life never deliberately owes anyone anything; if it casts a shadow on us, it will also sprinkle sunshine somewhere not far away.

17. 看着大海，我们的心胸似乎也变得开阔了。在这种境界里，使人神清气爽，心旷神怡。海水涨潮了，海水中的波浪一个连着一个向岸边涌来。有的升上来，像一座座滚滚动的小山；有的撞了海边的礁石上，溅起好几米高的浪花，发出“哗……哗……”的美妙声音！

17. Looking at the sea, our hearts seem to broaden as well. In this state, it refreshes one's spirit and brings peace to the soul. As the tide rises, waves in the sea one after another surge towards the shore. Some rise up like rolling little mountains; some crash against the reefs by the sea, splashing up waves as high as several meters, emitting the wonderful sound of "hua... hua..."!

18. 人生就如沙漏，撒完了都回去不了。人生的秘诀，寻找一种最适合自己的速度，莫因疾进而不堪重荷，莫因迟缓而空耗生命;人生的快乐，走自己的路，看自己的景，超越他人不得意，他人超越不失志。

18. Life is like an hourglass; once the sand is poured out, it cannot be returned. The secret of life is to find a pace that suits you best, neither burdened by haste nor wasted by slowness; the joy of life is to walk your own path, see your own scenery, surpass others without envy, and remain determined when others surpass you.

19. 失去的东西，有必要去追讨吗失去的东西，其实从未曾真正地属于你，不必惋惜，更是不必去追讨。活着就是一种修行，修行就是修心。修得一颗平常心，无时不是快乐;修得一颗满足心，无处不是幸福。生活是平凡的叠影，生命是平淡的传奇。我们走在自己的心路上，一切喜怒哀乐都是根植于路边的风景。

19. Is it necessary to pursue what has been lost? The things that were lost never truly belonged to you in the first place, so there is no need to regret or pursue them. Living itself is a form of cultivation, and cultivation is the cultivation of the mind. Cultivate a calm heart, and there is always joy; cultivate a contented heart, and there is happiness everywhere. Life is a collage of the ordinary, and life is a legend of the mundane. We walk on our own path of the heart, and all joys, sorrows, delights, and sorrows are rooted in the scenery along the roadside.

20. 这种色彩，仿佛是作画时不小心打翻了颜料在蓝色宣纸上，再用妙笔随意挥洒几下，浑然一体，任凭哪位大师也画不出这样的图画。云霞中似有重重叠叠的天宫露出檐角亭台，又似是哪位仙女走过时飘落的七彩霓裳……

20. This coloration seems as if the painter accidentally knocked over the paint while painting, leaving a few strokes of magic brushstrokes on the blue rice paper, blending seamlessly together, something that no master could paint such a picture. In the clouds and rainbows, there seem to be overlapping palaces with eaves and pavilions peeking out, as if a fairy princess had walked by, leaving behind a colorful rainbow skirt...

21. 相爱的两个人不在一起并不是不适合或者不爱对方，也许是因为太爱对方了，所以对方无心的言语可能在不经意中刺伤了你，所以两个人故意说了一些伤害对方的话，甚至各奔东西，但是心里却有着万分不舍，只是碍于面子或者害怕被对方拒绝而放弃了给自己和对方一个重新相知相爱的机会。

21. When two people in love are not together, it is not because they are unsuitable for each other or do not love each other. Perhaps it is because they love each other too much that the unintentional words of one may accidentally hurt the other, leading to both deliberately saying hurtful things to each other, even going their separate ways. However, deep down, they are incredibly reluctant. It is only due to pride or fear of being rejected by the other that they give up on giving themselves and the other a chance to rediscover and fall in love again.

22. 人的差别在于闲暇时间，而一个人的命运决定于晚上8点到10点之间。每晚抽出两小时用来阅读、进修、思考或参加有意的演讲、讨论，你会发现，人生正在发生改变，坚持数年之后，成功会向你招手！

22. The difference between people lies in leisure time, and one's destiny is determined between 8 and 10 PM. If you can set aside two hours every night for reading, self-improvement, contemplation, or attending intentional lectures and discussions, you will find that your life is changing. After persisting for several years, success will beckon you!

23. 真正厉害的人，内心有稳定的秩序，不会为外物所惑，被他人所扰。他知道自己怎么活，自己的路怎么走。不疾不徐，从容不迫。

23. A truly formidable person has a stable inner order, is not swayed by external things, nor disturbed by others. They know how to live and how to walk their own path. They do not rush, nor do they act with haste; they are composed and untroubled.

24. 再黑的夜，都有一颗星星伴其左右。愿这点点星光，能伴你好眠。晚安

24. No matter how dark the night, there is always a star to accompany it. May these twinkling stars bring you a peaceful sleep. Good night.

25. 我感觉发朋友圈除非是过生日或者别人让我帮他宣传点赞、做问卷才会发，我一般都不会看朋友圈的，不过我在日常生活中过得还是非常开心的，因为我发QQ动态。

25. I feel like I only post on WeChat Moments on my birthday or when someone asks me to promote and like their post or fill out a survey. Generally, I don't look at WeChat Moments much. However, I still live a very happy life in daily life, because I post on QQ Moments.

26. 我朋友圈里面大部分都是亲戚和同学，我发朋友圈还不如发QQ动态。

26. Most of my friends circle consists of relatives and classmates; it's not as effective to post on my friends circle as it is to post on my QQ status.

27. 最难打开的是心门，最难走的路是心路，最难过的桥是心桥，最难调整的是心态。世界上最难干的工程是改造人的内心世界！手指脏了，大可不必把手指砍掉；帽子小了，大可不必把头削掉。当你抓住一件东西总不放时，或许你永远只会拥有这件东西，如果肯放手， 便获得了其它选择机会。

27. The hardest to open is the door of the heart, the hardest path to walk is the heart's path, the hardest bridge to cross is the heart's bridge, and the hardest to adjust is the mindset. The most difficult project in the world is to transform a person's inner world! If your fingers are dirty, there is no need to cut them off; if your hat is too small, there is no need to cut your head. When you hold on to something too tightly, perhaps you will only ever have that thing; if you are willing to let go, you gain the opportunity for other choices.

28. 如果爱上一个人，请不要炫耀，也不要宣扬，只管安安静静的去爱。誓言这东西无法衡量坚贞，其实最好的爱情，无非是几十年风轻云淡的在一起，时间是爱情最好的证明。

28. If you fall in love with someone, please don't炫耀, nor boast, just quietly go about loving. Vows are not a measure of fidelity, in fact, the best love is simply spending several decades together with ease and tranquility, and time is the best proof of love.

29. 爱情的开始总是甜蜜的。慢慢的就会有了厌倦，有了习惯，有了背弃，有了寂寞，有了绝望，有了冷笑。真心相待，才会长相厮守的未来!

29. The beginning of love is always sweet. Slowly, there comes fatigue, habit, betrayal, loneliness, despair, and sarcastic smiles. Only with sincerity can there be a future of eternal love!

30. 年轻时最烦每日积累，单调无趣，进步慢，就不耐烦。一学习瓶颈期，每天练就是进步不明显，这时最容易放弃。二事业低潮期，每天就是干杂事，很辛苦但无成就感。这时最容易发脾气闹。熬，最容易半途而废，但熬过了就顺利了。克服厌倦感是进步的基础。三日不弹，手生荆棘。想清楚再熬住。

30. When young, the most annoying thing is the daily accumulation, the monotony and the lack of interest, with slow progress, leading to impatience. During a learning bottleneck period, daily practice shows little progress, making it the easiest time to give up. During a career low point, it's just about doing menial tasks, which is hard but lacks a sense of achievement. This is when it's easiest to lose one's temper and cause a fuss. Endurance is the most likely to result in giving up halfway, but once you get through it, it becomes smooth sailing. Overcoming boredom is the foundation for progress. If you don't play for three days, your hands will grow thorns. Think clearly before enduring.

31. 人生的风景，其实都是心灵的风景，什么都可以错过，就是不能错失自己的心。

31. The scenery of life, in fact, is all the scenery of the soul. One can miss everything, but one cannot miss one's own heart.

32. 最让我难过的历来不是失去你，而是你口口声声都是我，最后你还是选了他人。

32. What has always been the most painful for me is not losing you, but that you kept saying it was me, and in the end, you still chose someone else.

33. 男人就好比洋葱，要想看到洋葱的心就需要一层一层去剥，但是你在剥的过程中会不断的流泪，剥到最后才发现洋葱是没有心的。女人就好比玫瑰，不到最后一瓣展开，你也看不到她的心。

33. Men are like onions; to see the heart of an onion, you have to peel off layer by layer, but in the process, you will keep shedding tears. Only at the end of the peeling do you find out that onions don't have a heart. Women are like roses; you can't see their heart until the last petal is unfurled.

34. 都被在乎过吧，也被紧张过，心疼过，你其实知道爱长什么样子的，所以很多事情、不必猜、不必问、不必等。

34. You've been cared for, been anxious, felt pain. You actually know what love looks like, so many things, there's no need to guess, no need to ask, no need to wait.

35. 经常不肯做出应有承诺，却又始终不愿放手的人。

35. People who are often unwilling to make the necessary commitments yet are always reluctant to let go.

36. 生活得最有意义的人，并不就是年岁活得最大的人，而是对生活最有感受的人。

36. The person who lives the most meaningful life is not necessarily the one who lives the longest, but rather the one who experiences life the most deeply.

37. 古话说：“世上本无事，庸人自扰之。”

37. As an old saying goes: "There is no trouble in the world, but the foolish ones make a fuss about it."

38. 做一个平静的人，做一个善良的人，做一个微笑挂在嘴边，快乐放在心上的人。弯得下腰，才抬得起头。在人生路上，不是所有的门都很宽阔，有的门需要你弯腰侧身才进得去。所以，必要时要能够弯得下自己的腰，才可能在人生路上畅通无阻。

38. Be a peaceful person, be a kind person, be someone whose smile is always on their lips and whose happiness is in their heart. Only by bending one's back can one lift one's head. On the path of life, not all doors are wide open; some require you to bend and sidestep to enter. Therefore, it is necessary to be able to bend one's own back so as to move freely on the path of life without hindrance.

39. 任何以透支身体为代价的收获，都不值得。因为透支身体就是戕害生命，而生命只有一次，一旦崩塌，永不可赎。

39. Any gain at the expense of overworking the body is not worth it. Because overworking the body is harming life, and life is only once. Once it collapses, it can never be redeemed.

40. 当每个人爱自己的同时，也要怀有一颗热情的心，做一些善良 的事。虽然不能以身报国，但能够路见不 平，赤诚之后。是无悔于他或她人，无愧于自己的心，才能使友谊之情持久永恒。

40. While loving oneself, one should also carry a passionate heart to do kind deeds. Although one may not be able to serve the country with one's body, one can stand up against injustice with sincerity. It is by not regretting towards others or oneself, and by not feeling ashamed in one's heart, that the friendship can last and remain eternal.

41. 有些人，变成相片，堆在角落，灰尘像雪一般冰冻。若真有真心相爱，千尺水流亦不过轻盈一跃的距离，随手可得。然，情人没有距离，是猜疑的心让距离渐渐拉出了无数光年。

41. Some people, turned into photographs, pile up in the corner, dust frozen like snow. If there truly is heartfelt love, even a thousand miles of flowing water is no more than a light leap away, easily within reach. However, without distance between lovers, it is the suspicious heart that gradually stretches the distance to countless light-years.

42. 习惯，失眠，习惯寂静的夜，躺在床上望着天花板，想你淡蓝的衣衫。习惯，睡伴，习惯一个人在一个房间，抱着绒绒熊，独眠。习惯，吃咸，习惯伤口的那把盐，在我心里一点点蔓延。习惯，观天，习惯一个人坐在爱情的井里，念着关于你的诗篇。你走吧，我总要习惯一个人。

42. Habit, insomnia, accustomed to the silent night, lying in bed looking at the ceiling, thinking of your light blue clothing. Habit, a sleep companion, accustomed to being alone in a room, holding a fluffy teddy bear, sleeping alone. Habit, eating salty, accustomed to the salt on the wound, spreading bit by bit in my heart. Habit, gazing at the sky, accustomed to sitting in the well of love alone, reciting poems about you. You go, I have to get used to being alone.

43. 一次次默默的放弃，放弃一个心仪却无缘份的朋友;放弃某种投入却无收获的感情;放弃某种心灵的期望;放弃某种思想。这时就会生出一种伤感，然而这种伤感并不妨碍自己去重新开始!

43. Time and again, silent abandonments occur – giving up a cherished friend who is beyond reach;放弃a relationship that requires investment but yields no return;放弃a certain emotional expectation;放弃a certain way of thinking. At this moment, a sense of sadness arises, yet this sadness does not hinder one from starting anew!

44. 余华因《活着》、《许三观卖血记》等作品走红后，一度有些飘飘然。他沉迷于各种采访，报道，讲座，接受众人的吹捧和镁光灯的闪耀。

44. After gaining popularity with works such as "To Live" and "Qiu Sanbao Selling Blood," Yu Hua became somewhat complacent. He indulged in various interviews, reports, lectures, and accepted people's flattery and the glare of flashlights.

45. 棒棒的身体，是享受所有幸福，打拼一切事业的基础。如果整个人在疾病的疼痛中煎熬，绵绵无力，没有精气神，那么活着也没有什么乐趣可言。

45. A strong body is the foundation for enjoying all kinds of happiness and pursuing all kinds of endeavors. If the whole person is suffering in pain from illness, feeling weak and lacking vitality, there's no real joy in living.

46. 有一个夜晚我烧毁了所有的记忆，从此我的梦就透明了；有一个早晨我扔掉了所有的昨天，从此我的脚步就轻盈了 。

46. On one night, I burnt all the memories, and from then on, my dreams became transparent; on one morning, I discarded all the yesterdays, and from then on, my steps became light.

47. 笑得有多开心承受的难过就有多大，但是每个人的相遇都是难得的，不要轻易发脾气，不要随意生气，让别人和我们相处起来舒服就是我们能够尽力去做到的。

47. The happier one laughs, the greater the sadness one endures, but every encounter is rare. Do not easily lose your temper, do not get angry at will. Making others feel comfortable in our presence is something we can strive to achieve.

48. 天也亮了些。天边的缤纷却被一层灿烂的金黄所点缀，从原来朝霞最红最浓处亮起，有几处特被亮，短短一刻间，竟将原来的主色红与蓝挤到了一边。远处的天，一丝丝，一抹抹，一片片，一层层，全是金黄的云霞，稀稀疏疏布满了半壁蔚蓝——不，还是灰蓝色的天空。

48. The sky has lightened a bit. The colorful hues at the horizon are adorned with a brilliant golden glow, starting from the originally deepest and brightest red of the dawn, with a few spots particularly bright. In just a short moment, it has pushed the original dominant colors of red and blue to the side. The distant sky, with its strands, smudges, patches, and layers, is all golden clouds and mists, sparsely scattered across the vast azure expanse — no, it's still a sky of gray-blue.

49. 我已经没有继续下去的勇气，爱情在此终结。我却无法释然，但我已经无可奈何。

49. I no longer have the courage to continue, and love ends here. I cannot let it go, but I am at my wits' end.

50. 原来心累到一定程度，是这种煎熬！不知道该去哪儿，不知道干什么？总看一些正能量的语录，可有什么用，再累也能转身就对人微笑，那是有多疼！心里的那种感觉没人知道，没人体会，更没人能理解！告诉我还要熬多久这样的煎熬！真的撑不住了！

50. It turns out that when the heart is exhausted to a certain extent, it's this kind of torment! Not knowing where to go, not knowing what to do? Always looking at some positive quotes, but what good are they, being able to smile at people with a turn even when exhausted, how much pain is that! The feeling in the heart is unknown to anyone, unappreciated by anyone, and even less understood by anyone! Tell me how much longer I have to endure this kind of torment! I really can't hold on anymore!

51. 幸福是每一个微小目标的达成。这些温暖明亮的小目标，一定也有你的。各位。

51. Happiness is the achievement of every small goal. These warm and bright little goals are surely among yours, everyone.

52. 你若是敢在任何时候，信我、陪我、懂我、爱我，把我放在心窝里疼。我就敢不顾一切在你身边，哪怕最后结果两败俱伤，我也心甘情愿。

52. If you dare to believe in me, accompany me, understand me, and love me at any time, and cherish me in your heart, I dare to be by your side regardless of everything, even if the final outcome is mutual harm, I am willing to do so with all my heart.

53. 站在这里一看，真怪，山简直变了样，它们的形状与在平原或半山望上来大不相同，它们变得十分层叠、杂乱，雄伟而奇特。往上仰望，山就是天，天也是山，前后左右尽是山，好像你的鼻子都可随时触到山。

53. Standing here and looking around, it's truly strange. The mountains have completely transformed their appearance. Their shapes are vastly different from what they look like from the plains or halfway up the mountain. They are now layered and chaotic, magnificent yet peculiar. When you look up, it seems like the mountains are the sky, and the sky is the mountains. All around are mountains, as if you can touch the mountains with your nose at any moment.

54. 不透支，爱惜身体是一切行动的前提。再大的诱惑，再多的利益，都不能丢掉这个前提。

54. Not to overindulge and to cherish one's body is the prerequisite for all actions. No matter how great the temptation or how much the interest, this prerequisite should never be abandoned.

55. 海，真的海，同北方高原那片苍茫的土地一样，凝聚着一种无法言说的神秘的生命力，给人一种超越自然的深刻。

55. The sea, truly the sea, like that vast, desolate land of the northern plateau, is imbued with an unutterable, mysterious vitality, which imparts a profound sense that transcends nature.

56. 人生没有绝对的公平，只有相对公平。得到的越多，也必定比别人承受得更多。

56. There is no absolute fairness in life, only relative fairness. The more you get, the more you will inevitably have to bear compared to others.

57. 莎士比亚说：“一个人思虑太多，就会失去做人的乐趣。”

57. Shakespeare said, "Too much thinking can make a person lose the joy of being human."

58. 相爱太早爱不起，相遇太晚等不起。缘分太少伤不起，桃花太多爱不起。真正的爱情，没有早到晚到，没有或多或少，是你，就是你。

58. Too early in love, it's not possible to love; too late in meeting, it's not possible to wait. Too little in destiny, it's not possible to bear the pain; too many in love, it's not possible to love. True love has no early or late, no more or less, it's just you, it's you.

59. 人生难免经受挫折，风雨过后就是彩虹；生活难免遭受苦难，雨过天晴终有阳光。

59. Life is bound to face setbacks; after the storm, there will always be a rainbow. Life is bound to encounter hardships; after the rain, there will be sunshine in the clear sky.

60. 很多人都是喜闹不喜静，喜众不喜独。因为喧闹会让人短时间驱散寂寞，获得归属感。但真正的归属感，在于生命的静定和内心的充实。

60. Many people prefer热闹而非宁静， prefer crowds to solitude. Because noise and bustle can temporarily dispel loneliness and provide a sense of belonging. However, true belonging lies in the tranquility of life and the richness of the inner self.

61. 其实对方不喜欢你，你再怎么追也没用，对方喜欢你，根本不需要挖空心思去追。或许真有一天他被你的诚意所打动，可最终大多还是会分手的。------ 因为爱情不是感动，你不是他心目中的理想伴侣，即使一时接受你，将来碰上他心仪的那一位，一样会离开你。

61. In fact, if the other person doesn't like you, no matter how much you chase them, it won't work. If they do like you, they don't need to go to great lengths to pursue you. Perhaps one day they might be moved by your sincerity, but in the end, most of the time, you will still break up. Because love is not about being moved, you are not the ideal partner in their eyes. Even if they accept you temporarily, when they encounter the one they truly like in the future, they will leave you as well.

62. 身体好，人生就有希望。身体坏，人生注定在痛苦里轮回。身体完蛋，生命也就灰飞烟灭。

62. Good health brings hope to life. Poor health is doomed to a cycle of suffering. When the body is destroyed, life itself turns to ashes and smoke.

63. 这一生的最爱，在下一世连一点痕迹也不会留下。爱着的人啊，好好握着她的手，下辈子，你的身边就不再是她了。到了来生，你是否还记得自己曾爱过谁

63. The beloved of this life will leave not a trace in the next. Oh, lover, hold her hand tightly, for in the next life, she will no longer be by your side. When you come to the next life, will you still remember who you once loved?

64. 无论怎样，一个人借故堕落总是不值得原谅的，越是没人爱，就越是要爱自己。马克思他老人家说错了，应该说：无产者只有先解放自己，才能解放全人类。

64. In any case, it is never justified to fall into degradation for no reason; the more unloved one is, the more one should love oneself. Grandpa Marx was wrong; it should be said: the proletariat can only liberate all of humanity by first liberating themselves.

65. 当你受到伤害的时候，你会很难过。但如果放不下，忍不住一遍遍咀嚼，每咀嚼一次就是又伤害自己一次。人生就这样在痛苦中沉沦，与迎面而来的美好擦肩而过。

65. When you are hurt, it is very difficult to feel happy. But if you can't let it go and can't help but chew on it repeatedly, each time you chew is another time you hurt yourself. Life is thus immersed in suffering, missing the beauty that comes along.

66. 五百年的翘首以盼，才能换来今生的擦肩而过，多少的世世轮回，才能相伴一生。

66. A wait of five hundred years is needed to exchange for a fleeting encounter in this life, and how many cycles of rebirths are required to be together for a lifetime.

67. 爱的最高境界是经得起平淡的流年。有时幸福就像手心里的沙，握得越紧，失去得越快;有时幸福就像隔岸的花朵，隐约可见，却无法触摸。淡定了生活，就不会那么戾气、急躁了，凡事都能追求个心平气和了。事儿在心平气和中进行了，还有什么不能解决的呢

67. The highest form of love is to endure the plain passage of time. Sometimes happiness is like the sand in the palm of one's hand, the tighter one grasps it, the faster it slips away; sometimes happiness is like the flowers on the other side of the river, visible faintly but unattainable. When one lives with calmness, there will be less bitterness and impatience. With a tranquil heart and a peaceful demeanor, one can pursue inner peace in all things. If matters are handled with a tranquil heart and a peaceful demeanor, what can't be resolved?

68. 《百年孤独》说：“生命中所有的灿烂，最终都要用孤独来偿还。”在孤独的安静中，我们享受生活，提升自己，把日子经营得笃定而从容。

68. "One Hundred Years of Solitude" says: "All the brilliance in life eventually has to be repaid with solitude." In the quiet of solitude, we enjoy life, elevate ourselves, and lead our days with certainty and composure.

69. 随着自己年龄的增长，很多东西也不想表现出来，自己的情绪别人也管不了，自己过得怎么样，也不想让别人知道，压力大想吐槽感觉没有必要，何必把负能量带给别人，以前屁大点事就要发朋友圈，现在几个月发不了一个。

69. As I grow older, I don't want to show off many things anymore. My emotions are none of others' business, and how I'm doing is something I don't want others to know. Feeling stressed and wanting to vent seems unnecessary; why should I bring negative energy to others? In the past, I would post on my朋友圈 for even the slightest things, but now I can't even post one in a few months.

70. 你不能决定生命的长度，但可以控制它的宽度；你不能左右天气，但可以改变心情；你不能改变容貌，但你可以展现笑容；你不能控制他人，但你可以掌握自己；你不能预知明天，但可以利用今天；你不能样样顺利，但可以事事尽力。

70. You cannot decide the length of life, but you can control its width; you cannot control the weather, but you can change your mood; you cannot change your appearance, but you can show a smile; you cannot control others, but you can master yourself; you cannot predict tomorrow, but you can make use of today; you may not always succeed, but you can always strive to do your best.

71. 小草碧绿极了，头上戴着一滴滴露珠，在骄阳似火的阳光下显得晶莹剔透、闪闪发光。小草像个高雅的舞蹈家，在微风中翩翩起舞，舞姿优美、迷人极了。

71. The little grass is incredibly green, adorned with droplets of dew on its head, appearing sparkling and radiant under the scorching sun. The grass resembles an elegant dancer, twirling gracefully in the breeze, its movements exquisite and captivating.

72. 没什么好发的

73. 我在大学期间，感觉在学校也遇不到特别想发的，风景照可以发给想发给的人，搞笑的事情可以分享给室友、闺蜜，有时候都已经编辑好了，想想还是算了吧！好像也不是很想发了，可能我没有那种想分享的欲望吧！不过分享欲确实挺好的！

72. There isn't much to post. 73. During my university years, I didn't feel like posting anything particularly special at school. Scenic photos can be sent to the people you want to send them to, and funny things can be shared with roommates or best friends. Sometimes I've already edited them, but then I think, maybe it's better not to post them! I guess I'm not very keen on posting, maybe I don't have that desire to share. However, the desire to share is indeed quite good!

74. 周国平说：“人生的使命就是把生命照看好，把灵魂安顿好。人生最好的境界是丰富的安静。”

74. Zhou Guoping said: "The mission of life is to take care of one's life and to settle the soul. The best state of life is a rich tranquility."

75. 她说，遗忘，未尝不是件好事，你只是失去一个不爱你的人，而他则是失去一个爱他的人，说到底，是他的损失，是他该难过，我想过了，早点忘记，早点解脱这段无望的爱情。

75. She said, "Forgetting is not necessarily a bad thing. You just lose someone who doesn't love you, while he loses someone who does love him. In the end, it's his loss, and he's the one who should feel sad. I've thought about it, and I want to forget this loveless relationship as soon as possible and free myself from it."

76. 请相信我，学会等待，迟早会有人举着戒指对你笑，说着余生请指教。

76. Believe me, learn to wait, someone will eventually hold a ring and smile at you, saying 'I ask for your hand in marriage for the rest of our lives.'

77. 我不好但是别很重实我，我不高尚，但是我要做诊实的自己，我也不是一班战土，我没有德，但我很着喜欢，我不没有文化，但我也不浮谁，我就是我，做好真实知己

77. I'm not good, but please don't be too harsh on me. I'm not noble, but I want to be the sincere version of myself. I'm not a soldier in the ranks, I don't possess virtue, but I am very fond of life. I may not be well-educated, but I'm not proud either. I am who I am, and I strive to be my truest self.