揭开成功人士的三大特质：渴望低、情绪稳、心态好——探寻卓越之路，从心出发。

Unveiling the three key traits of successful individuals: low desire, stable emotions, and good mindset——explore the path to excellence, start from the heart.

1. 俗话说：“吉人自有天相。”

1. As the saying goes, "A good person will always have divine protection."

2. 世间一切皆为因果，没有无缘无故的成果，也没有无缘无故的落魄。上天往往眷顾那些有福气的人，给予他们福报，让他们越过越好。

2. All things in the world are interconnected through cause and effect; there is no fruit without cause, nor any downfall without reason. The heavens often favor those who are blessed, bestowing upon them blessings, allowing them to improve and thrive.

3. 我们要不断修炼自己，让自己欲望少，情绪稳，心态好。提升自己的磁场，吸纳更多的正能量，才能增益自己的福气。

3. We need to continuously cultivate ourselves, reduce our desires, stabilize our emotions, and maintain a good mindset. By enhancing our own aura and absorbing more positive energy, we can increase our good fortune.

4. 欲望是人性的一种需要，本身无好坏之分。然而，正如老子所言：“物无美恶，过则为灾。”任何东西一旦过度，就是一场灾难。

4. Desire is a kind of need in human nature, which itself has no good or bad distinction. However, as Laozi said, "All things are not inherently good or bad, but excessive is a disaster." Once anything is overdone, it becomes a disaster.

5. 很多时候，人生不幸福的根源，就是不断追求更多更好的，没有终止。

5. Often, the root cause of unhappiness in life is the endless pursuit of more and better, without an end.

6. 明代朱载堉作《十不足歌》，讲述一个人不断追求欲望的状态。解决了衣食温饱，又想盖大房子，接着想娶美貌妻子，想骑高头大马，想做官掌权，想当皇帝，当神仙长生不老。很多人的一生，就这样被欲望牵引着，走向人生的迷途。

6. Zhu Zaiyu of the Ming Dynasty wrote the song "Ten Insufficiencies," which tells of a person's continuous pursuit of desires. After solving the issue of food and clothing and satisfying basic needs, they want to build a big house, then wish to marry a beautiful wife, desire to ride a majestic horse, aspire to hold office and wield power, dream of becoming an emperor, and wish to be an immortal god who never ages. Many people's lives are thus pulled along by desires, leading them into the labyrinth of life.

7. 人如果控制不了自己的欲望，就是被欲望捆绑着生活的囚徒。只有能管理欲望的人，才能掌控自己的生活。

7. If a person cannot control their desires, they are a prisoner bound by their own desires. Only those who can manage their desires can master their own lives.

8. 曾国藩是湘军统帅，手中掌握着巨大的财富。然而，他本人却十分清廉，对生活的要求很低。每天吃饭只要一个菜，并常以素食为主。一件天青缎的马褂，足足穿了三十年。

8. Zeng Guofan was the commander of the Xiang Army and held immense wealth in his hands. However, he himself was extremely frugal and had very low demands on life. He would only have one dish for each meal and often ate vegetarian food. He wore a dark blue silk jacket, which he had worn for thirty years.

9. 只有克制自己的欲望，做欲望的主人，才能专注于自己的事业，追求想要的人生。

9. Only by controlling one's desires and becoming the master of them can one focus on their own career and pursue the life they desire.

10. 杨绛说：“简朴的生活，高贵的灵魂，是人生的至高境界。”

10. Yang Jiang said: "A simple life and a noble soul are the highest境界 of life."

11. 真正的富有，不是物质的无限度堆垒，而是内心的从容，生命的高贵，精神的丰盈。

11. True wealth is not the limitless accumulation of material things, but the inner ease, the nobility of life, and the richness of spirit.

12. 拿破仑说：“一个能控制自己情绪的人，比拿下一座城池的将军更伟大。”

12. Napoleon said, "A person who can control their own emotions is greater than a general who conquers a city."

13. 世上有很多恶心人，糟心事，会让我们的情绪像波澜一样起伏变化。而负面的情绪，会破坏我们的心情，干扰我们的思维，把我们往消极的方向拉拽。

13. There are many disgusting people and unfortunate things in the world that can cause our emotions to fluctuate like waves. Negative emotions can破坏 our mood, disrupt our thinking, and pull us towards the negative.

14. 厉害的人，会稳定情绪，风雷不乱于心，喜怒不形于色，举止从容，进退自如。

14. The formidable person can stabilize their emotions, keeping calm in the face of storms and thunder, not showing their joy or anger on their face, moving with composure, and adapting freely to situations of advance or retreat.

15. 《三国演义》中，孙策和周瑜，都是风头无两的江东才俊。少年成名，功成名就，风流倜傥。然而，他们都是英年早逝，并且和情绪不稳定有很大关联。

15. In "Romance of the Three Kingdoms," Sun Ce and Zhou Yu were both outstanding talents in the Eastern States, renowned for their charm and talent. They became famous at a young age, achieving great success and fame, and were handsome and charismatic. However, both of them passed away prematurely, and this is closely related to their unstable emotions.

16. 孙策因为吴郡太守许贡，向朝廷上奏说自己的坏话，勃然大怒，将许贡杀死。许贡的门客复仇把孙策射伤。养伤中的孙策见道士于吉被百姓顶礼膜拜，愤恨不已，亲手杀死于吉。而自己也因怒气冲破伤口，气绝而死。

16. Sun Ce, because of the Wu Prefect Xu Gong, who spoke ill of him to the court, flew into a rage and had Xu Gong killed. Xu Gong's followers avenged his death by shooting Sun Ce. While recovering from his wounds, Sun Ce saw the Taoist Yu Ji being worshipped by the people and was filled with resentment, killing Yu Ji with his own hands. However, he himself died from the anger bursting through his wound and suffocating.

17. 周瑜的故事更是妇孺皆知，因为嫉妒诸葛亮的才华，并因被诸葛亮打败气愤不已，最后被活活气死。

17. Zhou Yu's story is well-known to all, both young and old. This is because he was envious of Zhuge Liang's talent and was extremely愤 about being defeated by Zhuge Liang, eventually dying of frustration.

18. 一个人情绪不稳定，不仅影响健康，还容易让理性缺席。一旦被情绪摆布，做出不理智的事情，后果不堪设想。

18. A person with unstable emotions not only affects their health but also tends to let reason be absent. Once manipulated by emotions, they may act irrationally, leading to unimaginable consequences.

19. 学会管理自己的情绪，做一个情绪稳定的人，才能始终保持清明的智慧，冷静的头脑，正确的态度，让人生有更多的胜算。

19. Learn to manage your own emotions and be a person of emotional stability. Only then can you always maintain clear wisdom, a cool head, and a correct attitude, making your life more likely to win.

20. 一个人处于什么境遇，未必是自己说了算。既然无力改变环境，那就改变自己。随遇而安，悦纳命运，把不顺遂的日子打磨得熠熠生辉。

20. One's circumstances are not necessarily determined by oneself. Since one is unable to change the environment, then change oneself. Embrace what comes along, accept one's fate, and turn days of adversity into something radiant.

21. 杨绛曾被安上“右派”的罪名，下放到农村劳动改造。每天干活时身上挂着木牌子，上面写着名字，身份和所犯罪行。吃饭时还要检讨，接受批斗。这对于清高惯了的知识分子来说，比死还难受。

21. Yang Jiang was falsely labeled as a "rightist" and sent to the countryside for labor reeducation. Every day, while working, she wore a wooden sign around her neck, which bore her name, identity, and the crime she was accused of. She was also required to make confessions during meals and face public criticism and persecution. For a scholarly person who was accustomed to maintaining a dignified demeanor, this was more painful than death.

22. 但杨绛却能随遇而安，她不怨，不悲，不怒，在苦难的岁月里制造快乐的微光。一次，她被要求和大伙一起建造厕所。造成后，杨绛觉得厕所不够美，于是约着女伴把秫秸秆剥皮，再用麻绳把秆芯编缀起来，做成一道别具一格的门帘。

22. However, Yang Jiang could adapt to any situation with ease. She did not complain, did not grieve, nor did she become angry. In the years of hardship, she created tiny sparks of happiness. Once, she was asked to build a toilet together with others. After it was built, Yang Jiang thought the toilet was not beautiful enough, so she invited her female companion to strip the chaff from sorghum秸秆 (sorghum stalks) and then used hemp rope to weave the cores together, creating a uniquely styled door curtain.

23. 事后，杨绛很得意地说：“挂在厕所门口，觉得这厕所与众不同。”

23. Afterward, Yang Jiang proudly said, "Hanging it at the entrance of the toilet, I felt that this toilet was different from others."

24. 杨绛说：“乌云蔽月的岁月是不堪回首的，可停留在我的记忆里不易磨灭的，倒是那一道含蕴着光和热的金边。”

24. Yang Jiang said, "The years when dark clouds veil the moon are unforgettable, but what remains indelible in my memory is not the darkness, but rather that golden rim that蕴含着光和热."

25. 人生不欢迎苦难，但如果苦难来临，我们也要摆正心态，从容应对，在黑暗的泥泞中寻找快乐的光辉。

25. Life does not welcome suffering, but if suffering comes, we should also maintain a positive attitude, calmly face it, and seek the brilliance of joy in the dark mire.

26. 以积极心看世界，以乐观心过生活，以欢喜心生情味。只要心态好了，心灵强大了，就没有过不去的坎，没有找不到的光。

26. View the world with a positive mindset, live with an optimistic heart, and cherish the flavors of life with joy. As long as you maintain a good mindset and a strong spirit, there are no insurmountable obstacles, and no light that cannot be found.

27. 想要有好的人生，先得有好的自己。

27. To have a good life, one must first have a good self.

28. 修炼自己，让自己变好，变强，拥有满满的正能量，才能吸纳福气，召唤成功。

28. Cultivate yourself, become better and stronger, and possess a full of positive energy, only then can you absorb blessings and attract success.

29. 控制欲望，不为欲望所迷，做清醒的自己。控制情绪，不为情绪所耗，做稳定的自己。控制心态，始终积极向上，永远乐观开朗，心中风调雨顺，人生必定花草芬芳。

29. Control your desires, do not let them entangle you, and be the清醒 yourself. Control your emotions, do not let them drain you, and be the stable yourself. Control your mindset, always be positive and optimistic, have the heart brimming with peace and prosperity, and your life will surely be filled with fragrant flowers and blooming blossoms.

30. 当你变好了，成功就会赶过来拥抱你。

30. When you become better, success will come and embrace you.

31. 学习的心态会掌握更多的知识，给予的心态会拥有宽广的胸怀。

31. The mindset of learning will acquire more knowledge, and the mindset of giving will possess a broad and open heart.

32. 一个人最大的魅力，是有一颗阳光的心态。心态，就是心大一点。心态好，人缘好，因为懂得宽容。心态好，做事顺利，因为不拘小节。心态好，生活愉快，因为懂得放下。别让脾气和本事一样大，越有本事的人越没脾气。心态好的人，处处圆融，处处圆满。

32. The greatest charm of a person is to have a sunny attitude. Attitude is about having a bigger heart. With a good attitude, one has good interpersonal relationships, because they know how to be宽容. With a good attitude, one's work goes smoothly, because they do not pay attention to trivial matters. With a good attitude, life is pleasant, because they know how to let go. Don't let your temper be as great as your abilities, the more capable a person is, the less temper they have. People with a good attitude are harmonious everywhere, and their lives are complete everywhere.

33. 很多时候，我们无心伤害别人，只是因为自己的性格，心直口快的说着想说的话，理所当然的做着想做的事。我们应该懂得去体会别人的感受，就像我们希望，别人在意我们的感受一样。也许你会说，我的脾气就是这样，不要让脾气成为伤害别人的借口。

左右 33. Many times, we unintentionally harm others not because we want to, but simply because of our personalities, speaking our minds freely and doing what we naturally want to do. We should learn to understand others' feelings, just as we hope that others will care about our feelings. You might say, "My temper is just like this, don't let my temper be an excuse to harm others."

34. 与其为了和别人攀比而苦恼，不如在自己自安好。只有那些幸福的人，才会把不关痛痒的事挂在心上，才会对鸡毛蒜皮的小事有感觉；那些正经历着大灾大难的人，是无暇顾及这些小事的。衡量一个人是否幸福，我们不应该看他拥有多少高兴的事而应看他是否正为一些小事烦恼着。

34. It's better to be content with oneself than to be troubled by the desire to compete with others. Only the happy ones will care about trivial matters and be sensitive to small things; those who are going through great disasters have no time to worry about such trivialities. When measuring whether a person is happy, we should not look at how many pleasant things they have, but rather whether they are troubled by small things.

35. 拥有一个好的心态是生活的关键。积极的人从挫折中得到经验教训，从生活的苦难中收获一种成熟的历练。

35. Having a good attitude is the key to life. Positive people gain experience and lessons from setbacks, and they harvest a mature experience from the hardships of life.

36. 没有生活带来的苦难和残缺，没有经历内心的挣扎与纠结，更不会造就他人生的感悟和成就。

36. Without the sufferings and deficiencies brought by life, without experiencing the inner struggles and dilemmas, it would be impossible to forge his insights and achievements in life.

37. 经历过苦难，才更明白人生的真谛，经历过伤痛，才更明白生活的意义，经历过风雨，才能见到彩虹的美丽。

37. Only after experiencing hardship can one understand the true meaning of life; only after experiencing pain can one comprehend the significance of living; and only after enduring the storms can one witness the beauty of the rainbow.

38. 世界上没有绝对幸运的人，每个人都有不同的烦恼，只是别人善于分析和消化。所以遇事首先从自己身上找原因，不要轻易迁怒于别人。

38. There is no one in the world who is absolutely lucky. Everyone has their own troubles, but some people are good at analyzing and digesting them. Therefore, when facing problems, it is best to look for the reasons within ourselves first and not easily blame others.

39. 生活总会是有一些委屈的，所以必须学会接受和忍耐现实中的残酷。多一份淡定，就会多收获一份从容。

39. Life will always have its injustices, so one must learn to accept and endure the harshness of reality. The more composed you are, the more serenity you will gain.

40. 好的心情，前提是必须有个好的心态，好心态就会有好的社会交往。你以为自己是一个人在奋斗，其实你所有的一切都与周围的人息息相关，你的好心情不仅影响着别人，同样影响着自己，好的心情不仅给自己带来愉悦，同样也感染着身边的人，如此，于健康于工作效率都有益，因为你永远对明天充满着期待，这就是生命的活力。

40. A good mood requires a positive mindset, and a good mindset leads to good social interactions. You may think you are struggling alone, but in fact, everything about you is closely connected to the people around you. Your good mood not only affects others but also influences yourself. A good mood not only brings joy to yourself but also infects those around you. This is beneficial for both health and work efficiency, as you are always filled with anticipation for tomorrow. This is the vitality of life.

41. 人生在世，一辈子不长，要有一颗平常心，活好当下，不要有太多的欲望，欲望越少，人生幸福越多。保持阳光般的心态，健康活好每一天！

41. In life, a lifetime is not long, so one should have a calm mind, live well in the present, and not have too many desires. The fewer desires, the more happiness in life. Maintain a sunny attitude, and live each day healthily and well!

42. 那些做不到的人并不是因为世界不允许他们成为巴菲特，而是因为他们自己的原因。"这个"自己的原因"，就是人的心态。

42. Those who cannot achieve it are not because the world does not allow them to become Buffett, but for their own reasons. "This" own reason refers to the mindset of individuals.