在这篇的开篇，让我们一同踏上探索非凡之路。在这个瞬息万变的时代，非凡的格局往往源于对自身特质的深刻理解和不断修炼。以下是我们将要揭示的四个关键特质，它们将引领我们迈向更高的成就。

At the beginning of this article, let us embark on a journey of exploration into the extraordinary. In this age of rapid change, extraordinary vision often originates from a profound understanding of one's own characteristics and continuous cultivation. Below are the four key traits that we will uncover, which will guide us towards greater achievements.

1. 他们内心蓄酿的那股像火山爆发一样渴望成功的动能可击垮一切阻力和障碍。

1. The powerful desire for success that they have been nurturing within themselves, akin to a volcanic eruption, can overcome any resistance and obstacles.

2. 他们练就的一身坚毅果敢、百毒不侵的钢筋铁骨和洞若观火敏如捷兔的判断力和行动力能摧毁一切消极不利因素。

2. They have cultivated a body of resolute courage, unyielding like steel and iron, and immune to all poisons, as well as a keen judgment and swift action like a swift rabbit, capable of destroying all negative and adverse factors.

3. 不怕荆棘，不惧雷雨，不畏生活的惊涛骇浪，勇毅前行，从容不迫。

3. Fear not thorns, nor dread thunder and rain, nor be afraid of the storms of life, courageously advance with composure and calmness.

4. 老住持问7个弟子：“你们谁拿了念珠，只要放回原处，我不追究，佛祖也不会怪罪。”弟子们都摇头。

4. The elder monk asked the seven disciples, "Who among you took the prayer beads? As long as you put them back in their original place, I will not pursue it, and the Buddha will not blame you either." All the disciples shook their heads.

5. 与人相处，随缘就好，不必强求。他要来，风里雨里也等着他。他要走，也不要强留。

5. In dealing with people, go with the flow is best, do not strive too hard. If he comes, I will wait for him in the rain or in the wind. If he wants to leave, I will not try to force him to stay.

6. 肩膀上扛得起责任，敢于身体力行，解决问题，才是一个人靠谱的表现。

6. Being able to bear the responsibility on one's shoulders, being willing to take action physically, and solving problems are the reliable qualities of a person.

7. 所以在组织考察、领导任命和朋友创业时被悄悄边缘化，常有生不逢时，怀才不遇的失落感，慢慢遁入了**的身子丫鬟命的尴尬和愤世嫉俗的怨恨。

7. Therefore, during the organization's investigation, leadership appointments, and when friends start businesses, one is quietly marginalized. There is often a feeling of being out of place, a sense of not being appreciated for one's talents, and eventually one gradually retreats into the awkwardness of being a servant-like figure and the resentful bitterness of being a cynic about the world.

8. 7天过去了，念珠依然不知去向。老住持又说：“只要承认了，念珠就归谁。”但又过去了7天，还是没人承认。

8. Seven days have passed, and the prayer beads have still not been found. The elder abbot said, "As long as it is admitted, the prayer beads belong to whomever." But another seven days passed, and still no one claimed them.

9. 一念执着，痛苦缠身。万般放下，风清云淡。

9. Clinging to a single thought, suffering ensnars you. Let go of all, and the wind is clear, the clouds are light.

10. 心中只装着自己的人，终生在自己的狭小天地里蹉跎，随波逐流，平庸至死。心中有他人，心怀善意，处处利他，才能兼容别人的世界，扩充自己的世界，让生命境界走向辽阔。

10. A person who only thinks of themselves will waste their entire life in their own narrow world, drifting with the currents, and remain平庸 until the end. But a person with others in their heart, who harbors good will, and is always considerate of others, can blend with the world of others, expand their own world, and elevate their life to a broader realm.

11. 只有关键时候有担当、肯吃亏、愿牺牲、顾大局、能坚持的人才能当此大任。

11. Only those who take responsibility in critical moments, are willing to endure hardship, are ready to make sacrifices, consider the overall situation, and can persist can fulfill such a great responsibility.

12. 对于遇到的事情，努力去做，去拼搏，去克服困难，创造新局。如果你已经竭尽全力仍然感到无能为力，或许该想想，这事适不适合自己做。如果不适合，勇敢放弃，寻找下一条赛道，才是明智的选择。

12. For the things you encounter, strive to do them, to strive, to overcome difficulties, and create a new situation. If you have exerted all your efforts and still feel helpless, perhaps you should consider whether this is a suitable task for yourself. If it is not suitable, be brave and give up, look for the next track, which is the wise choice.

13. 遇到困难和问题，我们要勇于承担，敢负责任，敢接受一切后果，不要把责任推给别人，更不要怕事。

13. When faced with difficulties and problems, we should be brave in taking responsibility, dare to be accountable, and dare to accept all consequences. Do not shift the blame onto others, and even less should we be afraid of things.

14. 修炼格局，必须走出狭小的自我，见自己，见天地，见众生，海纳百川，涵容万物，精进自己，不断前行。

14. Cultivating one's character and temperament requires stepping out of the narrow confines of the self, seeing oneself, seeing the heavens and earth, seeing all sentient beings, embracing the vastness of the oceans, containing all things, advancing oneself, and continuously moving forward.

15. 而那些看似并不十分优秀的人，由于他们资历平平或出生卑微，往往会卑躬屈膝礼贤下士的向身边人求教和学习，从而得到朋友的帮助或领导的赏识成就一番事业。

15. Those who appear not to be particularly outstanding, due to their average qualifications or humble birth, often kowtow and show humility to the people around them, seeking advice and learning from them. In this way, they receive help from friends or recognition from their leaders, and ultimately achieve great things in their careers.

16. 困惑老住持为什么要用这种非常的方法来选择衣钵传人，不惜牺牲弟子的名誉甚至挑起他们之间的猜忌和敌意，如果没人留下或承担怎么办？佛法广大，来去皆随缘。

16. Perplexed, the elderly abbot wondered why he had to resort to such an extreme method to choose his successor, risking sacrificing his disciples' reputations and even inciting suspicion and enmity among them. What if no one remains or takes on the responsibility? Buddhism is vast and all things come and go according to their own causes and conditions.

17. 这是法也是冥律哲学，现实生活中的干部任命，职场选拔又何尝不是如此。

17. This is both the law of karma and the philosophy of the law of the subconscious. In the reality of officer appointments and workplace selection, is it not the same?

18. 作家余秋雨说，人的生命格局一大，就不会在琐事中沉沦。

18. The writer Yu Qianyu said, "Once a person's life is on a grand scale, they will not sink into trivial matters."

19. 你把时间花在鸡零狗碎上，你就得到庸俗繁冗的生活。你把时间花在提升自己，成就自己的事情上，你就得到惊艳众人的辉煌。

19. If you spend your time on trivial matters, you will end up with a mundane and verbose life. If you invest your time in self-improvement and achieving your goals, you will gain a dazzling brilliance that amazes everyone.

20. 时间花在哪里，花就开在哪里。

20. Where time is spent, there flowers will bloom.

21. 李大钊说：“铁肩担道义，妙手著文章。”

21. Li Dazhao said, "With iron shoulders to bear righteousness, and with a masterful hand to write articles."

22. 愿你成为一个大格局的人，创造更加精彩而丰盛的人生。

22. May you become a person with a grand vision, creating a more vibrant and abundant life.

23. 老住持很失望：“明天你们就下山吧。拿了念珠的人，如果想留下就留下。”

23. The elder monk was very disappointed: "You will descend the mountain tomorrow. Those who have taken the prayer beads, if you wish to stay, then stay."

24. 作家余华说，现在的年轻人，才华横溢的很多，能扛事的很少。

24. The writer Yu Hua said, "Nowadays, there are many young people with talent, but very few who can bear the burden of things."

25. 学会修炼自己的格局，不断精进自己，提升自己，让自己变得更好，才能抵达崭新的生命高度。

25. Learn to cultivate your own vision and continuously improve yourself. Only by doing so can you elevate yourself and become better, thus reaching a new height in life.

26. 有个寺庙，因藏有一串佛祖戴过的念珠而闻名。念珠的供奉之地只有庙里的老住持和7个弟子知道。

26. There is a temple that is renowned for housing a string of prayer beads that were once worn by the Buddha. The location of the beads is known only to the elderly abbot of the temple and his 7 disciples.

27. 佛说，人生苦短，我们都是走在朝圣路上的行者。

27. The Buddha said, "Life is short, and we are all travelers on the path of pilgrimage."

28. 总之，他们会有一千个不愿意一万个不配合的理由和借口。

28. In summary, they would come up with a thousand unwilling reasons and ten thousand uncooperative excuses.

29. 老住持笑了，从怀里取出那串念珠戴在这名弟子手上。

29. The elder monk smiled and took out the rosary from his bosom, putting it on the hand of this disciple.

30. 不计较小事，人生才能走得更远。

30. Not to nitpick over trivial matters allows one to travel further in life.

31. 7个弟子都很有悟性，老住持觉得将来把衣钵传给他们中的任何一个，都可以光大佛法。不想那串念珠突然不见了。

31. The seven disciples were all highly intelligent, and the elder abbot felt that passing the robe and bowl to any one of them would be able to propagate the Dharma. However, to his surprise, the string of prayer beads suddenly disappeared.

32. 第二天，6个弟子收拾好东西，长长地舒了口气，干干净净地走了。只有一个弟子留下来。

32. On the second day, six disciples packed their belongings, took a deep breath, and left cleanly. Only one disciple remained.

33. 谨以此文献给那些正在创业路上或即将上路的行者

33. This dedication is offered to those who are on the path of entrepreneurship or about to embark on this journey.

34. 在试图解读这种现象之前，先给大家转述一个寓意深刻的故事：

34. Before attempting to interpret this phenomenon, let me first recount a story with profound meaning:

35. 一个人的格局有多大，他就能够有多远。

35. The scope of a person's vision determines how far they can go.

36. 其实，人生没有捷径，成功亦不分大小。成功于一个人的学历、资质天赋固然重要，但和韧性胆略、经验教训、修为德行、格局信仰相比，后者显然更不可或缺，也是人生和成功学的必修课程。

36. In fact, there is no shortcut in life, and success does not come in different sizes. While success in one's education, qualifications, and natural talents is indeed important, it is clearly less indispensable compared to resilience and courage, experience and lessons, cultivation of virtue and character, and perspective and faith. These latter aspects are the essential必修 courses in life and the study of success.

37. 有大格局的人，遇事有担当，不甩锅，不推责，不懈怠。前路再难，也要砥砺前行。担子再重，也要咬牙坚持。后果再大，也要坦然接受。

37. A person with a grand vision takes responsibility for their actions, does not shift blame, and does not procrastinate. Regardless of how difficult the path ahead may be, they must forge ahead with determination. Even if the burden is heavy, they must persevere with a firm bite. And regardless of the severity of the consequences, they must accept them calmly.

38. 他们把一己之利看得比集体重要，把一己之荣看得比团队重要；他们不敢冒险，因为不愿放弃既得利益而裹足不前或随时有选择的机会；他们不愿行动，因为平台不够大或资金不够多配不上他的才华；他们不愿做搭档，因为不能接受他认为不如他的人在他之上，或必须老子说了算。

38. They value their own interests more than the collective, and their own pride more than the team; they dare not take risks because they are unwilling to give up their existing interests and hesitate or always have the opportunity to choose; they are unwilling to take action because the platform is not big enough or there is not enough funding to match their talents; they are unwilling to be partners because they cannot accept someone they think is less capable being above them, or that they must defer to the opinions of the elder.

39. 不要在小事上斤斤计较，把时间和精力倾注在热爱的事情上，如此，才能抵达生命的灿烂，不负此生。

39. Do not be overly concerned with trivial matters. Invest your time and energy into what you love, for only then can you reach the brilliance of life and not waste this lifetime.

40. 弟子说：“这几天我们几个相互猜疑，有人站出来，其他人才能得到解脱。再说，念珠不见了，佛还在呀。”

40. The disciple said, "These past few days, we have been suspecting each other. Only when someone comes forward can the rest of us be relieved. Besides, the prayer beads are missing, but the Buddha is still here."

41. 他们身上通常具备以下特质：有担当，能把团队和集体利益放在个人利益之上，能牺牲小我换取集体荣誉或大众平衡；敢冒险，因为本来就一无所有，也无所谓失去，已经这么惨了，还能惨到哪去；能行动，因为没有更好的机会和平台让他们选择，所以撞破南墙是他们的秉性；能坚持，因为身先士卒、起早贪黑、苦中作乐早已是家常便饭。

41. They typically possess the following qualities: they are responsible, able to put the interests of the team and collective above their own, willing to sacrifice personal gain for collective honor or public balance; they dare to take risks, as they have nothing to lose in the first place, and it doesn't matter to lose anything; they are action-oriented, as there are no better opportunities or platforms for them to choose from, so hitting a dead end is in their nature; they are persistent, as leading the way, working hard from dawn to dusk, and finding joy in hardship has already become their daily routine.

42. 因为那些才华横溢的聪明之人在生活工作中往往自恃才高、桀骜不驯或不能容物。

42. Because those talented and intelligent individuals often rely on their talent, are rebellious, or cannot tolerate others in their life and work.

43. 心态决定状态，格局决定结局。

43. Attitude determines state, and structure determines outcome.

44. 人有善念，天必佑之。

44. If a person has good thoughts, heaven will surely bless them.

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45. --- Author: Wang Yifu, founder and CEO of the Hot Love Single Live Streaming platform

46. “格局这个东西，可大可小，主要看个人，毕竟物质基础决定上层建筑。我们要意识到，即便没有优渥的先天环境，眼界与心胸也是能够靠后天培养的，切忌故步自封还沾沾自喜、自以为是。”

46. "This thing called 'format' can be big or small, mainly depending on the individual. After all, the material foundation determines the superstructure. We need to be aware that even without a优越 initial environment, one's perspective and breadth of mind can be cultivated through later efforts. We should avoid being stuck in our old ways and becoming complacent and self-righteous."

47. 一个人沉溺于生活的鸡毛蒜皮和零零碎碎，就没有时间仰望星空，更不会去追逐梦想的星辰大海。

47. If a person gets caught up in the trivialities and mundane details of life, they will not have time to gaze at the stars in the sky, nor will they pursue the vast, dreamlike seas of the stars.

48. 山重水复疑无路，柳暗花明又一村。

48. Cliffs and mountains block the path, and I suspect there's no way through; then, by a hidden glen, another village appears.

49. 格局大的人，有一种根植内心深处的修养，无需提醒的自觉，处处考虑别人的善良。他们为人处世，总能想到别人，周全别人，照顾别人，予人方便，自己方便。

49. People of great character have a cultivation deeply rooted in their hearts, an unreminded self-awareness, and always consider others' kindness in every aspect. In their interactions with others, they always think of others, take care of others, provide convenience for others, and make things convenient for themselves as well.

50. 格局大的人，都有这四个特点。

50. People with a grand perspective all possess these four characteristics.

51. 一旦时机成熟，成就一番事业，也就是无数经验教训尸骨堆砌的丰碑一冢，看似偶然实则自然了，所谓天降大任于斯人必先苦其心志也。

51. Once the time is ripe and a great achievement is made, it is as if it were a monument or tomb piled high with countless experiences and lessons. It may seem accidental, but it is actually natural. As they say, great responsibilities are bestowed upon a person by heaven, and one must first endure the hardships of the heart.

52. 放下执念，换一个方向，人生就会出现新的风景。

52. Let go of your attachment to fixed ideas, change your direction, and a new landscape of life will emerge.

53. 格局大的人，心胸豁达，处世乐观，拥有转弯的思维和重新开始的勇气，不会在一个人，一件事上纠缠不清。

53. People with a grand character have an open-mindedness, are optimistic in dealing with life, possess the ability to think around corners, and have the courage to restart. They will not entangle themselves in one person or one event.

54. 在经历一些人和事之后，你会发现身边那些才高八斗、学富五车的绝顶聪明之人往往难成大事，而那些看似并不十分优秀的人往往能做出非凡的成就。

54. After experiencing some people and things, you will find that those incredibly intelligent individuals with a vast knowledge and exceptional talent are often unable to achieve great things, while those who seem not particularly outstanding are often able to accomplish extraordinary achievements.