胜者为王，无可置辩的你，才是真正的赢家。

Victory is the king, and there is no argument about it; you are the true winner.

1. 毕业让我明白。我们要的不是年少轻狂，而是胜者为王。

1. Graduation made me realize. What we seek is not youthful recklessness, but "the winner takes all."

2. 从此，我要以每天的成绩令世人惊叹。每天我要延长花在工作上的时间，让那多付出的汗水成为明天的投资。有了这种态度，这种在我们这个自私自利的世界上罕见的态度，我不会失败。

2. From now on, I will astonish the world with the achievements I make every day. Every day, I will extend the time I spend working, letting the extra sweat I pour become an investment for tomorrow. With this attitude, this rare attitude in our selfish and egocentric world, I will not fail.

3. 我真的不好，没有齐腰的长发，没有漂亮的脸蛋，没有完美的身材

3. I really am not good enough, without long hair that reaches my waist, without a pretty face, and without a perfect body.

4. 对于人到中年的女人，前半生碌碌无为，去还是希望自己在以后生活上和事业上都有新的突破。

4. For a woman in the middle of her life, she has been aimless and unproductive in the first half, and she still hopes to make new breakthroughs in both her personal life and career in the future.

5. 真正的朋友就是，当你蒙蔽了所有人的眼睛，也能看穿你真实的样子和心底的痛楚。

5. A true friend is one who can see through your facade and your true self, even when everyone else's eyes are deceived, and can also perceive the pain deep within your heart.

6. 也许爱情只是因为寂寞，需要找一个人来爱，即使没有任何结局，但自己坚持的幻觉，总让自己一痛再痛，渐渐变的自私，很多人不需要再见，因为只是路过而已，遗忘就是我们给彼此最好的纪念。一个人的一生可以有多少时间给另一个人，爱也许只是在一瞬间，这份爱，却也让人记忆了一辈子。

6. Perhaps love is just because of loneliness, the need to find someone to love, even if there is no ending, but the illusion you persist in, always causes you to hurt again and again, and gradually becomes selfish. Many people don't need to see each other again because they were just passing through. Forgetting is the best memory we give to each other. How much time can one person give to another in a lifetime? Love may just be a moment, but this love also makes people remember it for a lifetime.

7. 众人皆知，人心是自私的，人性是贪婪的。可是，我们总在纠结，明明知道，人要知足，才会常乐。但却，一次次在苦中作乐，谁都知道，那个不叫快乐。只是，苦于看不透，苦于舍不得，苦于输不起，苦于放不下

7. It is well-known to all that people are selfish and human nature is greedy. However, we are always纠结, knowing full well that people need to be content to be always happy. Yet, we keep finding joy in our hardships, and everyone knows that is not true happiness. But, we struggle to see through it, we struggle to let go, we struggle to bear losses, and we struggle to put it all behind us.

8. 这个社会，是赢家通吃，输者一无所有，社会，永远都是只以成败论英雄。

8. In this society, it's a win-win situation where the winners take all and the losers have nothing. Society always judges heroes solely based on their success or failure.

9. 谁知道洒脱的人用了多少时间才哭干了眼泪 ,

9. Who knows how much time the carefree person spent to dry up their tears,

10. 佛说：“一切有为法，如梦幻泡影，如露亦如电。”

10. The Buddha said, "All things that are done are like dreams, illusions, bubbles, and shadows, like dew and like lightning."

11. 单身不是自私的选择而是比和错的人在一起更明智的选择。

11. Being single is not a selfish choice, but a wiser decision than being with the wrong person.

12. 也许，太会隐藏自己的悲伤；也许，我太会安慰自己的伤痕；也许，你眼中的我，太会照顾自己。你以为，我可以什么都不在乎，那只是有些自私的以为。不是坚强就不需要关爱。

12. Perhaps, I'm too good at hiding my sadness; perhaps, I'm too adept at comforting my own wounds; perhaps, the me you see, is too good at taking care of myself. You think I can care about nothing, but that's just a self-centered misconception. Not being strong doesn't mean you don't need care and affection.

13. 或许我一直徒劳无功的执着 才知道之后该怎么洒脱,

13. Perhaps the futile perseverance I've always had is what taught me how to be carefree afterwards.

14. 有人虽然独处但心是浮躁的，有人虽处人群中依然是孤独的，真正的孤独是一种专注于自己的状态，既非自私亦不是自大，而是享有自己心灵的空间不被外界打扰，认知人生在世本质上是孤独的，许多人生的课题也是必须孤独的面对而无法让别人分担。---朱德庸

14. Some people may be alone but their hearts are restless, while others may be in a crowd yet still feel lonely. True loneliness is a state of focus on oneself, neither selfish nor arrogant, but enjoying the space of one's own soul without being disturbed by the outside world. Recognizing that life itself is essentially lonely, many life issues must be faced alone and cannot be shared with others. --- Chu De-yong

15. 生命中一道道仓促的划痕都会成为我们刻骨铭心的记忆。

15. Each hurried scratch in life will become an unforgettable memory etched in our hearts.

16. 人活一辈子，活的是一种感觉，一种体验，一个过程。生命非常短暂，放在宇宙长河，不过弹指一挥间。我们要享受生命好的感觉，努力摈弃不好的感觉。在美好、惬意、快乐的感觉体验中走完自己的一生。

16. A person lives a lifetime, living a kind of feeling, an experience, and a process. Life is very short, placed in the long river of the universe, it is just a fleeting moment. We should enjoy the good feelings of life and strive to discard the bad ones. Walk through life with a sense of beauty, comfort, and joy.

17. 原谅我的贪心，总是想留住身边每个对我好的人，最后才发现，有些人，无论怎样也留不住。

17. Forgive my greed, for I always wanted to keep every good person around me. In the end, I realized that some people cannot be held on to no matter what.

18. 自私怯懦的人常不快乐，因为他们即使保护了自己的利益和安全，却保护不了自己的品格和自信。

18. Selfish and cowardly people often are not happy, because even though they protect their interests and safety, they cannot protect their character and self-confidence.

19. 这么任性骄傲自私爱起来奋不顾身的我以后要怎么办

19. What should I do now, as someone who is so任性 (stubborn), 骄傲 (arrogant), 自私 (egoistic), and loves wholeheartedly to the point of ignoring everything else?

20. 你的名字 我写到顺手 念到顺口 i

20. Your name, I write it easily, pronounce it smoothly.

21. 唐伯虎说得好：

21. Tang Bohu said it well:

22. 如果爱是一种感觉，请把它变成信仰。如果爱是一种牵绊，请把它变成呵护。如果爱是一种付出，请把它变成增值的资本。如果爱是自私，我只要你来爱我。

22. If love is a feeling, turn it into faith. If love is a bondage, turn it into care. If love is a sacrifice, turn it into an increasing capital. If love is selfish, I only want you to love me.

23. 当一个男人能包容你的过去，请你心怀感激，感恩之心，只有深爱一个人，才能让对爱情自私的人有如此举动。

23. When a man can embrace your past, be grateful and show gratitude, for only by deeply loving someone can one make such a selfless gesture.

24. 只要人心中有了春气，秋风是不会引人愁思的。

24. As long as there is a springlike vitality in a person's heart, the autumn wind will not evoke melancholic thoughts.

25. 爱情的路途，不再有你的脚步，我的，付出却成了你的包袱

25. On the path of love, without your footsteps, mine have become a burden for you.

26. 先别急着爱我，如果你愿意，先来尝尝我的怪脾气和自私任性口是心非，过后若你还爱我，那我的世界就只有你。

26. Don't rush to love me just yet. If you're willing, first try my odd temper and selfishness, my insincere and stubborn ways. After that, if you still love me, then my world will be just you.

27. 吃亏吃到再也吃不进的时候，就不会吃亏了。苦多了，甜就大了。

27. When one has suffered enough to the point where they can no longer take it, they will no longer suffer. The more the bitterness, the greater the sweetness.

28. 人到中年才知道：攒钱大多是为了儿女，应酬完全是为了人情。

28. It is only in middle age that one realizes: saving money is mostly for one's children, and socializing is entirely for the sake of human relationships.

29. 喜欢你的人，要你的现在。爱你的人，会给你未来。

29. Those who like you want your present. Those who love you will give you a future.

30. 人生最宝贵的不是你拥有的物质，而是陪伴在你身边的人。

30. The most valuable in life is not the material possessions you own, but the people who accompany you.

31. 虚无是生命的归宿，死亡是宇宙的终点。既然无法改变，那就坦然接受命运的安排。

31. Nothingness is the destination of life, and death is the end of the universe. Since it cannot be changed, it is best to accept the arrangement of fate calmly.

32. 付出没有得到回报那很正常，就像食堂里吃饭，给的钱一样，别人碗里的肉比你多一样的道理。

32. It's normal to not receive a return on one's efforts, just like when eating at a canteen, you pay the same amount of money, but the person next to you might have more meat in their bowl.

33. 这个世界请谁都别说谁脏，卑劣的虚伪才是这个世界最认真的坦诚

33. In this world, let no one say that another is dirty. The most sincere honesty in this world is the cunning hypocrisy.

34. 曾经以为，那首歌只是单纯的好听。后来才知道，那首歌很像现在的自己。

34. Once, I thought that song was just plain good to listen to. Later, I realized that the song was quite like myself now.

35. 关系虽然不再一样 关心却怎么能说断就断

35. Although the relationship is no longer the same, how can one just arbitrarily cut off the concern?

36. 没有距离的相处是一种自私的表现，因为只想着自己，而没有顾及别人的感受。如果就算那是爱，自私的爱又能走多远？当我们最终在爱里失去了别人，又因此失去 了自己，在痛苦里最终失去了善良，又因此失去了世界的时候，你就会明白，距离原来是爱的翅膀。用距离来节制爱，才是最恰当的爱护与情谊。

36. Living in close proximity without any distance is a manifestation of selfishness, as it only considers oneself without taking into account the feelings of others. Even if that is love, how far can self-centered love go? When we eventually lose others in love and thereby lose ourselves, and in the end, lose our goodness in the midst of pain, and therefore lose the world, you will understand that distance is actually the wings of love. Using distance to regulate love is the most appropriate form of care and affection.

37. 不要轻易去依赖一个人，它会成为你的习惯，当分别来临，你失去的不是某个人，而是你的精神支柱。 无论何时何地都要学会独立行走，它会让你走得更坦然些。---宫崎骏

37. Do not easily depend on someone, as it may become a habit. When the time comes for separation, what you lose is not just a person, but your spiritual支柱. At all times and in all places, learn to walk independently, as it will make your journey more serene. --- Miyazaki Hayao

38. 欲望就是一种虚空的苦痛由它虚空 。

38. Desire is a suffering of emptiness, and it is from its emptiness that it arises.

39. 我可以忍受你的自私，包容你的个性，但我还没有成熟到可以原谅背叛。

39. I can tolerate your selfishness, tolerate your personality, but I have not matured enough to forgive betrayal.

40. 他纵有千个优点，但他不爱你，这是一个你永远无法说服自己去接受的缺点。一个人最大的缺点不是自私多情野蛮任性，而是偏执地爱一个不爱自己的人。暗恋是一种自毁，是一种伟大的牺牲。暗恋，甚至不需要对象，我们不过站在河边，

40. Even if he has a thousand virtues, but he doesn't love you, that is a flaw you can never convince yourself to accept. The greatest flaw of a person is not being selfish, passionate, wild, or任性, but being obsessed with loving someone who doesn't love you back. Secret love is self-destruction, a great sacrifice. Secret love doesn't even need an object; we are just standing by the river,

41. 现在你怨恨的，纠结的，苦恼的，兴奋的，自得的，都是暂时的，都会随着时间悄散，不复存在。

41. All the resentment, entanglement, distress, excitement, and self-satisfaction you feel now are temporary; they will all quietly fade away with time and no longer exist.

42. 很多时候我们不需要理性，理性让我们犹豫，让我们错失所爱。很多人彼此本来并不认识，可是无意中的认识又能怎么样，还是要面对分离。我在无限的白昼中，期待著黑暗的广阔无垠，而我在夜中选择哭泣，彻夜不眠。我知道只有夜色毫不嫌弃的收容著我的眼泪，而你们都自私的将我遗弃。我想把你忘掉，可是我知道我又在欺骗自己。所以，我的痛真的没人疼。

42. Many times, we don't need reason; reason makes us hesitate, causing us to lose what we love. Many people may not have known each other originally, but what's the point of accidental acquaintance, as we still have to face separation. In the endless daylight, I long for the vastness of the dark, and I choose to cry through the night, unable to sleep. I know that only the night, without any嫌弃, embraces my tears, while you all selfishly abandon me. I want to forget you, but I know I'm deceiving myself. Therefore, my pain truly has no one to comfort.

43. 人到中年的女人，少用一点美颜相机，多用一点智慧心思。

43. Middle-aged women, use less beauty camera and more wisdom and thoughtfulness.

44. 如果可以哭，我也不想忍；如果可以自私，我也不想退让；如果可以懦弱，我也不想坚强；如果可以放手，我也不想继续执着；如果可以再重新选择爱上一个人，我还是只想再好好爱你一次

44. If I could cry, I wouldn't want to endure; if I could be selfish, I wouldn't want to yield; if I could be weak, I wouldn't want to be strong; if I could let go, I wouldn't want to continue to cling; if I could choose to fall in love with someone again, I would still just want to love you well one more time.

45. 人到中年，男人不猥琐，讲卫生，女人不负能量，不整天嚷嚷着减肥，就是你们这辈子最好的德行了，这样就是世界合格好公民了

45. When one reaches middle age, for men, not to be shy and awkward, to maintain hygiene; for women, not to carry negative energy, not to constantly chatter about losing weight, is the best virtue you can have in this lifetime. This is how you become a qualified and good citizen of the world.

46. 去爱那些对你好的人，忘掉那些不知珍惜你的人。

46. Love those who are good to you, and forget those who do not cherish you.

47. 人到中年才知道：笑脸时为了别人高兴，痛苦只能自己品尝。

47. It's only in middle age that one realizes: a smiling face is for the happiness of others, while pain must be tasted alone.

48. 人到中年，许多恩怨都会变淡，但是把一个女人的钱拿去给另一个女人这种恶劣行径，恐怕过多少年都不会被原谅。

48. As one approaches middle age, many grievances may fade, but taking a woman's money to give to another is such a despicable act that it is unlikely to be forgiven no matter how many years pass.

49. 我们都应该愧疚，因为我们都爱自己胜过爱爱情！

49. We all should feel ashamed because we all love ourselves more than we love love!

50. 人到中年才知道：孤独、痛苦、失败是人生不可缺少的调味品。

50. It is only in middle age that one realizes: loneliness, pain, and failure are indispensable seasonings in life.

51. 满怀苦恼尽诉疏星残月，欲托东风不妥协，忆无限，叹惋中，日转星移又一春。

51. Filled with bitterness, I pour out my grievances to the sparse stars and waning moon, longing to entrust my thoughts to the east wind without compromise. In memory and deep sighs, the days turn and the stars shift, and another spring comes.

52. 原来幸福就是隐藏自己的伤，然后哭着唱儿歌。

52. Originally, happiness is about hiding one's wounds and then crying while singing children's songs.

53. 人生本来就没有相欠，别人对你付出，是因为别人喜欢，你对别人付出，是因为自己甘愿。情出自愿，事过无悔。

53. Life itself does not involve any debts. Others give to you because they like to, and you give to others because you are willing to. Emotions come from willingness, and once the matter is over, there should be no regrets.

54. 如果你改变不了世界，也不要让世界改变纯真的你。

54. If you cannot change the world, do not let the world change the innocent you.

55. 不要对不开心的事斤斤计较，因为任何事都不是事。

55. Do not nitpick over unpleasant things, because nothing is a big deal.

56. 把别人演得惟妙惟肖的是著名演员，把自己演得英明伟大的通常是官员。

56. It is famous actors who perform others vividly, and it is usually officials who portray themselves as wise and great.

57. 大概，每一个人都像星星痴守着这篇宇宙一样，深情而沉默地守护着自己所爱的人。

57. Perhaps, everyone is like stars guarding this universe, deeply and silently protecting the ones they love.

58. 我永远像个小丑，一个妆还没画完就被推入舞台的小丑。

58. I am forever like a clown, a clown who is pushed onto the stage before the makeup is even finished.

59. 眼睛为她下着雨，心却为她打着伞，这就是爱情

59. The eyes are raining for her, while the heart is holding an umbrella for her; this is love.

60. “别人笑我太疯癫，我笑他人看不穿。不见五陵豪杰墓，无花无酒锄作田。”

60. "Others laugh at me for being too crazy, but I laugh at them for not seeing through. I have not seen the tombs of the heroic figures of the five commanderies, where only the hoeing of the fields is in place without flowers or wine."

61. 最美不过悉尼 最爱不过巴黎 宝贝儿我要带你去

61. The most beautiful is Sydney, the most beloved is Paris, my dear, I will take you there.

62. 喜欢在迩身上留下属于我的‘印记’却不曾记起迩从未属于过我。

62. Enjoyed leaving my 'mark' on you, but never remembered that you never belonged to me.

63. 人到中年才知道：什么是缘，在上一辈子的宿命中，更多了几分这一生的珍惜和留恋。

63. It is only in middle age that one realizes: what is destiny, in the past life's predestined fate, there is more of a yearning and nostalgia for this life.

64. 我怀念的不是哪个人，而是我那回不去的曾经。

64. What I miss is not a particular person, but the past that I can no longer return to.

65. 唯有如此，生命体验感才会美好，我们才能生而快乐，拥抱人世间五彩缤纷的美好。

65. Only in this way can the experience of life be beautiful, and we can be happy from birth, embracing the colorful and wonderful aspects of the world.

66. 以前没想过会遇见你，遇见你之后没想过你会离开，你离开后我没想过我会忘不掉

66. I never thought I'd meet you, and after meeting you, I never thought you'd leave. After you left, I never thought I couldn't forget you.

67. 到四十的女人，韵味十足，风情万种，毫不羞涩，经过婚姻的洗礼和垂练，叫人着迷，叫人流连忘返。

67. A woman at the age of forty exudes charm and allure, not at all bashful. Having been through the baptism and tempering of marriage, she is captivating and leaves a lasting impression, making people yearn for more.

68. 最后当你离开我，忧愁拉着我，心让寂寞纠缠着胸口

68. Finally, as you leave me, sorrow pulls at me, and my heart is entangled with loneliness in the chest.

69. 人生就像在大海中航行的小船，最重要的是要辨清前进的方向，而奋斗则是它前进的动力。

69. Life is like a small boat sailing on the sea, and the most important thing is to discern the direction of progress, while struggle serves as its driving force.

70. 有时候，不是对方不在乎你，而是你把对方看得太重。

70. Sometimes, it's not that the other person doesn't care about you, but rather that you place too much importance on them.

71. 比诺言更真实的是誓言，比誓言更虚伪的是承诺。

71. Promises are more real than words, and commitments are more false than promises.

72. 距离，是用来考验爱情，可测出真爱能走多远 。

72. Distance is used to test love, and it can measure how far true love can go.

73. 你不理我，我也就不理你。这是不是就是我们最喜欢做的事情。

73. If you don't pay attention to me, I won't pay attention to you either. Is this perhaps the thing we like to do the most?

74. 人到中年才知道：人生有得一定有失，祸福相依。青春一定会离去，但智慧却可以跟你在一起。

74. It is only in middle age that one realizes: life brings gains with losses, and happiness and misfortune are intertwined. Youth will definitely leave, but wisdom can accompany you.

75. 你若来了，我对谁都微笑，对讨厌的人也有礼貌。

75. If you come, I will smile at everyone, and be polite even to those I dislike.

76. 人到中年时，我懂得了人生如梦往事如烟，离愁别绪时一切随缘。

76. In middle age, I have come to understand that life is like a dream and past memories are like smoke, and at times of parting and sorrow, everything should be left to fate.

77. 人们常以为犯小过无伤大雅，哪知更大的失败常是由小过导引而来的。

77. People often think that minor faults are trivial and not harmful, but little do they know that bigger failures often stem from these minor faults.

78. 当自私自利之心升起时候，就是离真理越来越远的时候，当欲望障碍了心灵，就是痛苦开始升级的时候，慢慢地放下自我，消弥欲望，让自己回到生命的本色里去吧！

78. When the desire for selfishness arises, it is when one is moving further away from the truth; when desires obstruct the mind, it is when suffering begins to escalate. Slowly let go of the self, diminish desires, and allow yourself to return to the essence of life!

79. 人到中年才知道：好听话只能给说给别人，自责唯有反悔时自己领受。

79. It is only when one reaches middle age that one realizes: Nice words can only be said to others; self-reproach is only to be endured by oneself when regretting.

80. “浪漫”是一袭美丽的晚礼服，但你不能一天到晚都穿着它。

80. "Romantic" is a beautiful evening gown, but you can't wear it all day every day.

81. 你的心跳侵蚀着我的灵魂，无法控制自己的感觉。

81. Your heartbeat侵蚀 my soul, I can't control my feelings.

82. 人到中年才知道：涂抹外观是为了给别人看到，修心是为了给自己用的。

82. It is only in middle age that one realizes: applying makeup is for others to see, while cultivating one's character is for oneself to use.

83. 用微笑装作不在意你的嘲笑，不关心你的离去。

83. Smile feigning indifference to your mockery, uninterested in your departure.

84. 最怕的七样东西 谎言 ,欺骗，虚伪，借口 背叛，离开，敷衍。

84. The seven things we fear the most: lies, deception, hypocrisy, excuses, betrayal, departure, and indifference.

85. 放下一点自私的执著，就会减轻一点痛苦；而放下了全部执著，就会获得最自在的快乐。因为，自私自利的执著，总是与痛苦绑在一起，不离不弃。

85. Let go of a bit of self-centered attachment, and a bit of pain will be alleviated; and by letting go of all attachments, the most carefree joy can be obtained. Because, self-centered attachment is always bound together with pain, never leaving or forsaking it.

86. 用一颗感恩的心去生活吧，你的生活会过得很快乐的。

86. Live with a heart of gratitude, and your life will be very happy.