在喧嚣的都市中，清醒者选择远离喧嚣，展现独立生活的智慧。

In the hustle and bustle of the metropolis, the清醒者 choose to distance themselves from the chaos, demonstrating the wisdom of independent living.

1. 做个独立的人，永远不要怪别人不帮你，也别怪他人不关心你。活在世上，我们都是独立的个体，痛苦难受都得自己承受。人生路上，我们都是孤独的行者，如人饮水冷暖自知，别等伤了再退，别等困了再睡，真正能帮你的，永远只有你自己。

1. Be an independent person, never blame others for not helping you, nor blame others for not caring about you. In this world, we are all independent individuals, and we have to bear our own pain and difficulties. On the path of life, we are all solitary travelers. As they say, one knows the taste of water and the warmth of the breeze. Don't wait until you are hurt to retreat, don't wait until you are exhausted to rest. The one who can truly help you is always yourself.

2. 当一个女人根本不在乎你的时候，你在她眼中就会变得一文不值，一无是处。当一个女人认为你的存在没有任何价值，你在她眼中完全是多余的，那么她就会选择远离你。

2. When a woman doesn't care about you at all, she will see you as utterly valueless and without any merit. When a woman believes that your presence holds no value, you will be completely redundant in her eyes, and she will choose to distance herself from you.

3. 圈子很重要，你的圈子的层次基本决定了你的层次，跟着牛叉圈子混，长时间耳濡目染也能学到点什么，当然前提是你足够有分量能混进去。

3. The circle you are in is very important; the level of your circle basically determines your own level. By mingling with an outstanding circle, you can learn something over time through constant exposure, of course, on the premise that you are sufficiently significant to gain entry.

4. 人生，多一分欢乐，就会少一分悲苦。世界上最富有的人，是跌倒最多的人。世界上最勇敢的人，是每次跌倒都能站起来的人。而世界上最牛逼的人，是那些站起来还能够坚持走下去的人。

4. Life, with an extra dose of joy, will have less bitterness. The wealthiest person in the world is the one who has fallen the most. The bravest person in the world is the one who can stand up every time they fall. And the most awesome person in the world is those who can stand up and continue to move forward.

5. 不管有没有柔软的内心，我们起码要具备坚强的外表。成年人的世界更多荆棘，披荆斩棘，全靠这一副肉身。若不小心应对，难保不满身伤痕。

5. Whether we have a soft heart or not, at least we should possess a strong exterior. The world of adults is filled with thorns, and it relies on this physical body to cut through them. If we are not careful in our approach, it's hard to avoid being covered in scars.

6. A 不尊重你的人

6. A person who does not respect you

7. 人这一辈子，似乎永远不可能脱离集体生存，可并不是所有人都心存善意，你难免会在人际交往中受到打击。

7. Throughout one's life, it seems that it is impossible to脱离 the collective for survival, but not everyone harbors good intentions. You are bound to face setbacks in interpersonal interactions.

8. 享受安静，在安静中洗去自己的浮躁之气，沉淀出优雅的气质，保持一颗善良的心。

8. Enjoy tranquility, wash away one's restlessness in the quiet,沉淀出优雅的气质, maintain a kind heart.

9. E 利用八卦的人

9. People who use the Bagua.

10. 不要去追一匹马，用追马的时间种草。明天春暖花开，就会有无数的马到来。

10. Do not chase after a horse; use the time to plant grass. When spring warms up and flowers bloom tomorrow, there will be countless horses coming.

11. 你相信男女之间能有真的友谊吗那种平静安定完全可以互信互靠的友谊吗我相信。因为惟有相信，才有可能。

11. Do you believe that there can be true friendship between men and women? The kind of peaceful and stable friendship that is completely trusting and reliant on each other? I do believe. Because only with belief is it possible.

12. 来和去，都是一个人，而在整个生命里我们也是花最多时间用自己相处，每一个人都带着自己的故事，不会成为谁，谁也不会成为自己，我们都是孤独的。

12. Whether coming or going, it is always just one person. Throughout our entire life, we spend the most time with ourselves. Everyone carries their own story, and no one can become someone else, nor can anyone become themselves. We are all alone.

13. 人活一世，最重要的事就是学会做减法，卸掉不必要的重担，留下对自己重要的人和事。

13. In one's lifetime, the most important thing is to learn how to subtract, remove the unnecessary burdens, and keep the people and things that are important to oneself.

14. 不得不说，人与人相比，女人确实要比男人更加富有感性的思维，处理情感关系也更为吃力。

14. It must be said that women indeed tend to have a more emotional and sensitive way of thinking compared to men, and they also find it more difficult to handle emotional relationships.

15. 无论是交友还是恋爱，都讲究将心比心，而不是你单方面的付出且得不到任何回应。

15. Whether it's making friends or dating, it emphasizes the importance of reciprocation rather than one-sided giving without any response.

16. 你可以畅所欲言，他们也乐意倾听，并且永远会给出回应，告诉你他们的见解。

16. You can speak freely, and they are happy to listen, and they will always respond, sharing their perspectives with you.

17. 其实我觉得，人，包括成年人，性格上最好的成长就是引导。爱伪装的人，会发现沉默和开朗是两种保护色，内向的人太多是还没弄明白这世界的规则，但是孤独的人永远孤独，聪明的人往往偏执，可是，这也没有什么不好。

17. In fact, I think the best growth in personality for people, including adults, is guidance. People who love to pretend will find that silence and cheerfulness are two types of camouflage. Introverts are often those who haven't yet figured out the rules of this world, but lonely people will always be lonely, and smart people are often obsessed, but that's not necessarily a bad thing.

18. 一个人最应该做的，是夯实自己的能力，全方位深层次强大自己，而不是一门心思经营人脉和圈子。

18. The most important thing a person should do is to strengthen their own abilities, to become powerful in all aspects and at a deep level, rather than focusing solely on cultivating connections and social circles.

19. 在你的背后，永远会有悉悉索索的声音响起，伴随着时起时落的辱骂，压得你喘不过气。

19. Behind you, there will always be a rustling sound, accompanied by intermittent curses, squeezing the breath out of you.

20. 每个人只有一个职责，那就是找到自己。聪明话没有任何价值，只能让人远离自己的内心。而远离自己是一种罪过。这是多么孤独的人，才能写出这么孤独的话，看来我还是比黑塞幸福的。

20. Everyone has only one responsibility, which is to find themselves. Smart sayings have no value; they can only distance one from their inner self. And being distant from oneself is a sin. How lonely must one be to write such lonely words? It seems I am still happier than Hermann Hesse.

21. 只有当一个女人真正在乎和重视你，她才会想要和你保持亲密的关系和距离。我们在感情中，需要保持相对的独立。可是，我们更需要目光放得长远一点，不要过多地考虑感情中的得失。如果你面对一段感情瞻前顾后，你将会因此与今生挚爱擦肩而过，留下一生的遗憾。

21. Only when a woman truly cares about and values you will she want to maintain an intimate relationship with you. In a relationship, we need to maintain a certain degree of independence. However, we need to think more long-term and not overthink the gains and losses in a relationship. If you are overly cautious and hesitant in facing a relationship, you will miss the love of your life, leaving behind a lifelong regret.

22. 总会有人在你的背后捅刀子，上演着当面一套背后一套的戏码。

22. There will always be someone stabbing you in the back, playing the double-dealing game of showing one face to the front and another to the back.

23. 马尔克斯在《百年孤独》中写道：

23. In "One Hundred Years of Solitude," García Márquez wrote:

24. 女人生来就是一件脆弱的艺术品，若不加以保护，这份美丽就会破碎支离。

24. A woman is born as a fragile piece of art; if not protected, this beauty will shatter and disintegrate.

25. 虽然，纯净美好的事物总会引来小人的觊觎，但只要你拥有坚定的信念和强大的内心，那么黑暗就无法笼罩你。

25. Although pure and beautiful things always attract the envy of the envious, as long as you have a firm belief and a strong inner self, darkness cannot engulf you.

26. 在清泉中成长吧，淤泥只会让你深陷进去，唯有培养干净的人和圈子，才能让你不断受益。

26. Grow in the spring water, for mud will only sink you deeper. It is only by cultivating clean people and circles that you can continuously benefit.

27. 世界上每一个人都是一座孤岛，在大海之中默默告白。没人愿意离开自己的大海，去远方看望朋友。我们都是孤独的，所有事都必须我们自己承受。愿你能坚强地熬过，愿我能不回头地继续告白下去，直到遇见那个能聆听我告白的岛屿。

27. Everyone in the world is an isolated island, silently confessing in the vast sea. No one wants to leave their own sea to visit friends far away. We are all lonely, and we must bear everything ourselves. May you be strong enough to endure, and may I continue to confess without turning back, until I meet that island that will listen to my confessions.

28. 想象自己是竹蜻蜓，只要张开双翅勇敢地迎着风去，便可以飞起来，自由地飞起来。

28. Imagine yourself as a bamboo dragonfly, as long as you spread your wings bravely and face the wind, you can take flight, flying freely.

29. 我们都是孤独的自己，固执且安静的，在夜幕下爱上自己的背影，纵使晨曦迟来，暗夜终将退散离去。耳朵里装满叹息声和呼吸声，眼睛里满是五光徘徊，十色陆离。任性不曾停下过脚步，从来都在阻止你的靠近，我留在原地，固执且安静的，守候没有你的世界。

29. We are all lonely individuals, stubborn and quiet, falling in love with our own silhouette under the night sky. Even if the dawn comes late, the darkness will eventually fade away. Our ears are filled with sighs and breathing sounds, and our eyes are filled with a myriad of colors, shimmering and brilliant. My任性 never stops, always pushing you away, I stay in place, stubborn and quiet, guarding the world without you.

30. 你自己不是人物，认识哪个人物都没用。你自己不能提供价值，就没有任何人愿意跟你分享价值。

30. You yourself are not a person of importance, knowing any influential person is useless. If you cannot provide value, no one is willing to share value with you.

31. 人群挤挤攘攘，道路堵塞不通，有太多的声音在我们的耳边环绕。

31. The crowd was bustling and jostling, the roads were blocked, and too many voices were swirling around in our ears.

32. 当一个人太聪明的同时；他拥有了巨大的能力。不怕他向善向好，就怕他所以北欧神话里，洛基的面具是他所有的神力的封印；太过于聪明的人是孤独的，而被动孤独的人是愤怒的，不甘会让他疯狂，所以众神剥夺了他的神力。

32. When a person is too clever, they possess immense power. It is not that we fear they will turn to good, but rather, we fear their potential for mischief. In the Norse mythology, Loki's mask is the seal of all his divine powers; overly clever individuals are lonely, and those who are passively lonely are angry. Their resentment can drive them mad, so the gods stripped him of his divine powers.

33. 在通往成功的道路上，有太多的人在负重前行，不如先整理好自己的关系，对于那些小人要趁早远离。

33. On the path to success, there are too many people carrying heavy burdens. It's better to first sort out your own relationships and stay away from those cunning people as soon as possible.

34. 分手后不能做朋友因为彼此伤害过,不能做敌人因为彼此深爱过,所以只能做最熟悉的陌生人爱情到底是吞噬还是回吐呢？有时候我想把你吞下去，永不分离，有时候我却想把你吐出来，还你自由也还我自由，原来人的心里可以放下两份爱情两份思念，两份痛苦和快乐

34. After a breakup, we can't be friends because we've hurt each other, and we can't be enemies because we've deeply loved each other. So, we can only be the most familiar strangers. Is love consumed or regurgitated? Sometimes, I want to swallow you up, never to be apart, and sometimes, I want to regurgitate you, giving you freedom and giving myself freedom. It turns out that a person's heart can hold two loves, two thoughts, two sorrows, and two joys.

35. 我们都是孤独的孩子，都在拼命的努力变好，生命里不管遇见了谁，你或喜或厌，他都教会了我们一些东西，他的存在，你抹不掉。但他们教会的东西，也同样存在，而我就是这样一点一点在成长。

35. We are all lonely children, striving desperately to improve ourselves. No matter who we meet in life, whether we like them or not, they have all taught us something. Their presence cannot be erased. But the things they teach us also exist, and that's how I grow little by little.

36. 余生，自立自强，自娱自乐，做最好的自己。

36. For the rest of my life, strive for self-reliance and self-improvement, entertain myself, and be the best version of myself.

37. 不知道为什么今晚听我们都是孤独的心里莫名的难过，尤其是拥抱过，生命中相遇又错失的人，悲伤。厌倦了，所以活在自己的世界里面，天真直接泪奔！可能在我心里已经错失的人让我难过，厌倦了，还是一个人天真的好！不想再为谁在我心里没有了而难过！致我多年后变陌生的老友，难过是感觉内心很强烈的失去！

37. I don't know why, but tonight we all feel a strange sadness in our hearts, especially for those who have embraced, those who have met and missed in life, it's sad. Tired of it, so living in my own world, innocent and straightforward, tears flowing! Maybe those who have been lost in my heart have made me sad, tired, and it's still good to be naive and alone! Don't want to be sad anymore for someone who doesn't exist in my heart! To my old friends who have become strangers years later, sadness is a strong feeling of loss inside!

38. 我们都是孤独的刺猬，只有频率相同的人才能看见彼此内心深处不为人知的优雅。我相信这世上一定有一个能够感受到自己的人，他未必是恋人，可能是任何人。横亘身份与地位的外在条件，跨越看似不可丈量的距离，在偌大的世界里，我们会因为这份珍贵的懂得而不再孤独。

38. We are all lonely hedgehogs; only people with the same frequency can see the hidden elegance deep within each other's hearts. I believe that there must be someone in this world who can feel themselves, and he may not necessarily be a lover, but could be anyone. Overcoming the external conditions of identity and status, crossing distances that seem insurmountable, in such a vast world, we will no longer be lonely because of this precious understanding.

39. 不去沾染那些与自己三观不合、利欲熏心的人和事，让自己始终做到善良干净。

39. Avoid associating with people and things that are incompatible with your own values, and those driven by greed and desire, always maintain a kind and pure heart.

40. 在一起的时候需要两个人做决定，分手的时候只需要一个人……

40. When together, decisions require two people, but when breaking up, it only takes one person...

41. C 不诚实的人

41. C Dishonest person

42. “低头的稻穗，昂头的稗子。”越成熟越饱满的稻穗，头垂得越低。只有那些果实空空如也的稗子，才会显得招摇，始终把头抬的老高。

42. "The rice ears bow their heads, while the millet sticks up its nose." The more mature and full the rice ears become, the lower they droop. Only the millet that has nothing but empty seeds will act ostentatiously, always holding its head high.

43. 无论在校园还是出社会，大家都要争取好的展现机会，不要只限于与同龄人交流，跟比自己优秀的前辈交流会学到很多处世之道并且有机会进入对方的圈子，当然，当自己能量不够的时候尽量要谦虚的学习，一个大佬给你的机会可能会让你少走五年弯道

43. Whether on campus or in society, everyone should strive for good opportunities to showcase themselves. Don't limit yourself to communicating only with peers. Interacting with senior colleagues who are better than you can learn a lot about life skills and have the chance to enter their circles. Of course, when you don't have enough energy, try to be humble and learn. An opportunity given to you by a big shot might save you five years of detours.

44. 有一技之长的女人走到哪里都不怕找不到工作，更不用担心万一男人抛弃自己之后会走投无路。靠自己的本事吃饭的女人，她从不担心男人背叛自己。她会把时间和精力都放在自己身上，不断鞭策和激励自己，让自己变得更好更强大。

44. A woman with a unique skill is never afraid of not finding a job anywhere, nor does she worry about being left with nowhere to turn if her man leaves her. A woman who earns her living through her own abilities never worries about betrayal from men. She will focus her time and energy on herself, constantly urging and motivating herself to become better and stronger.

45. 我们在这个世上，不可能永远都是热闹的，没有人会陪伴你一辈子，而大多时候，我们都是孤独的。我们习惯孤独，习惯成长，习惯世事变迁，而这正是生命赋予你的勇气。

45. It is impossible for us to always be bustling in this world, no one will accompany you for your entire life, and most of the time, we are alone. We get accustomed to solitude, to growing up, to the changes of the world, and that is exactly the courage life bestows upon you.

46. 女人要有自己独立的社交圈子，这样一来，你就多了很多退路，拥有很多的社交资源。在家靠父母，出门靠朋友。在感情中也是如此。当你在婚姻或爱情当中，受到了委屈，你可以找你的朋友或知己倾诉，寻求他们的安慰与帮助。

46. Women should have their own independent social circle. In this way, you will have many more escape routes and a wealth of social resources. As the saying goes, at home, you rely on your parents, and when you go out, you rely on your friends. This is also true in relationships. When you are wronged in marriage or love, you can turn to your friends or close acquaintances to vent your frustrations, seeking their comfort and assistance.

47. 容和的朋友圈子看起来广，交心的并不多，怎么说呢，其实容和是一个极聪明但有些孤独的人，有点遗世独立的意味，另外这么多年追求他的听过很多很多，但基本无绯闻，他想要的肯定不简单～

47. Ronghe's circle of friends seems wide, but there aren't many close relationships. How should I put it? In fact, Ronghe is extremely intelligent but somewhat lonely, with a touch of aloofness from the world. Moreover, over the years, many have pursued him, but there have basically been no scandals. What he wants must not be simple.

48. 经营好自己的世界，心无旁骛，赋能自己，才是真正的人间清醒。

48. Managing your own world with focus and dedication, empowering yourself, is the true enlightenment in the world.

49. A 不负责任的同事

49. An irresponsible colleague

50. 这个世界过于喧嚣吵闹，也有太多的污浊不堪。

50. This world is too noisy and chaotic, and there is also too much filth.

51. 不如就及时拔出那些杂草，让他们离开你的生活，不让他们轻易靠近。

51. It's better to pull out those weeds in time, letting them leave your life and not letting them come close easily.

52. 几年后，余华携《许三观卖血记》震动文坛，莫言更是以《蛙》获得诺贝尔文学奖。

52. Several years later, Yu Hua shook the literary world with "Xu Guanxian Sells Blood," and Mo Yan won the Nobel Prize in Literature with "Frog."

53. 你把时间花在经营人脉上，就得小心翼翼地在人情世故上腾挪辗转，疲惫不堪。你把时间花在沉淀自己上，深耕蓄力，养精蓄力，最后才能惊艳众人，吸引别人向你靠拢。

53. If you spend your time cultivating relationships, you must carefully navigate the complexities of social etiquette, which can be exhausting. If you spend your time on self-refinement, deeply cultivating your potential, and nurturing your energy, you will eventually amaze others and attract people to come closer to you.

54. 越孤独的人越聪明，因为他能和自己对话。时代太燥，从心则亡也叫忙。如果你觉得人生灰暗前途无光，来，请学哲学吧

54. The more solitary a person is, the smarter they are, because they can converse with themselves. In this era of restlessness, being overly busy is also referred to as "dying from the heart." If you feel that life is bleak and the future is dim, come on, learn philosophy!

55. 不妨做一个干净的人，同时也把自己的圈子清理干净。你要明白：近朱者赤，近墨者黑。

55. It's not a bad idea to be a clean person and also clean up your own circle. You should understand: those who associate with red will turn red, and those who associate with black will turn black.

56. 女人的柔弱只需体现在外表即可，内心必须强大坚韧，这样才能减少受到伤害的几率。

56. A woman's fragility should only be reflected on the outside; internally, she must be strong and resilient, which can reduce the likelihood of being hurt.

57. 圈子你自己找的，也是你自己吸引来的，物以类聚人以群分，你如果优秀圈子会好，圈子好了你更容易优秀

57. You chose your own circle and you also attract it. Things of like kind gather together, and people of like character are drawn to each other. If you are outstanding, your circle will be good, and a good circle will make it easier for you to be outstanding.

58. 我们都是孤独的角斗士，唯有胜者，才能优雅转身，在残酷的掌声和喝彩中华丽落幕。

58. We are all lonely gladiators, and only the victor can gracefully turn around, spectacularly concluding amidst the cruel applause and cheers.

59. 在恒久的星空下，我们都是孤独的夜行人。只要捧起你的慈悲心肠，又还有什么，不值得去原谅。

59. Under the eternal starry sky, we are all solitary nightwalkers. As long as you hold your compassionate heart, what else is there that is not worthy of forgiveness?

60. 所以，不如就去繁从简，做一个干净的人，留一个干净的圈子。

60. So, why not simplify from complexity and be a clean person, leaving a clean circle.

61. 情感的纷繁纠错：无需繁华。宽厚的包容当杯就是美好：只要真诚：喝出你一天的好心情和一生的幸福，再用刑诘娜惹槲！我们都是孤独的刺猬。也是不尽相同、人生！

61. The tangled mess of emotions: no need for grandeur. Broad tolerance, when it comes in a cup, is beauty: as long as it is sincere, drink out the good mood of the day and the happiness of a lifetime, and then enjoy it with Xing Na Ren He Hua! We are all solitary hedgehogs. Also, life is not the same!

62. 两个人因熟悉而结合，然后了解多了，不得不分手……如果不是太贪心，这样的人生应该是可以了

62. Two people come together because of familiarity, and then, as they get to know each other better, they have to part ways... If one isn't too greedy, such a life should be sufficient.

63. 在人生的长河里，我们都是孤独的时间旅人。共识、共鸣、靠近和了解成了奢望，你要明白，你所期待的东西或许一辈子也无法降临在你头上，然后你要学会如何坦然地接受这个事实，最终和自己达成共识、共鸣、靠近和了解，生命另一种意义上的大和解。

63. In the long river of life, we are all solitary time travelers. Commonality, resonance, proximity, and understanding have become a luxury. You must understand that what you anticipate may never come to pass in your lifetime. Then, you need to learn how to accept this fact calmly, and eventually reach a consensus, resonate, draw closer, and understand with yourself, achieving a great reconciliation in another sense of life.

64. B 控制欲过强的人

64. B People with excessive control欲望

65. 人们普遍对强者比较宽容，而即便弱者没做错什么，也会被苛刻对待。

65. People are generally more lenient towards the strong, and even if the weak have done nothing wrong, they are often treated harshly.

66. 不管我们身处何境都不要怪别人不帮你，也别怪他人不关心你。活在世上，我们都是独立的个体，痛苦难受都得自己承受。没人能真正理解你，人生路上，我们都是孤独的行者，如人饮水冷暖自知，真正能帮你的，永远只能是你自己。

66. Regardless of where we are, we should not blame others for not helping us, nor should we blame others for not caring about us. Living in the world, we are all independent individuals, and we must bear our own pain and distress. No one can truly understand you. On the journey of life, we are all lonely travelers. As the saying goes, only you yourself can truly know the warmth and coldness of drinking water. The one who can truly help you is always only yourself.

67. I 异性关系中应远离的人类型

67. Types of people to stay away from in heterosexual relationships