在浩瀚的社交网络中，探寻真知的足迹，无需刻意追求。

In the vast social network, seeking the footprints of truth does not require deliberate pursuit.

1. 如果你睚眦必报，斤斤计较，或者和一个讨厌的人纠缠不休，不仅浪费了大量的时间和精力，还败坏了心情。

1. If you are revengeful for every slight, meticulous in counting and计较, or endlessly纠缠 with a disliked person, it not only wastes a lot of time and energy, but also ruins your mood.

2. 一个身材矮小的女人除了炫耀她的伴侣之外，没有什么能让她满意的。

2. A short woman has nothing that can satisfy her except to boast about her partner.

3. 闭上你的嘴，对所有事情都保持一种看破不说破的态度，是一个人最好的修养。

3. Keeping your mouth shut and maintaining a composed attitude of seeing through things without saying them is the best cultivation of a person.

4. 每一个人都是有着自己的社交圈子的，也是会有归属于自己的特点，有几大星座一般不会去没问题的迎合他人的其他人，也不会去要想融入学生的相处范畴，不容易强制性。他们会觉得自己能自己在社交范畴中生活中的特别的好，和身边的朋友共处的十分的友好，基本上不会刻意去顺从一些人的思维，是可以十分惬意的。

4. Everyone has their own social circle and distinctive traits. Most of the zodiac signs generally do not go out of their way to迎合 others or try to fit into a student's social context, as they are not easily coercive. They feel that they can live very well in the social realm, and get along very well with their friends. They generally do not刻意 follow others' ways of thinking, and can be extremely comfortable.

5. 如果你不想惹人讨厌，这本书值得收藏和阅读。

5. If you don't want to be disliked, this book is worth collecting and reading.

6. 第三，定期约会。无论是男女朋友还是真正的好朋友，都是需要定期出来见个面，聊聊天，加强沟通与联系的。

6. Thirdly, regular appointments. Whether it be boyfriends and girlfriends or truly good friends, it is necessary to meet and chat regularly to strengthen communication and connection.

7. 无论一个人多么优秀，他也有缺点和优点。所谓天外外有天，人外有 人 ” 。一个人越优秀，他越懂得低调做事，把自己沉浸在自己的世界里，他就越快乐，越幸福。

7. No matter how outstanding a person is, they also have their shortcomings and strengths. As the saying goes, 'There is always a sky beyond the sky, and people beyond people.' The more outstanding a person is, the more they understand the importance of humility in their actions, immersing themselves in their own world. The more they do so, the happier and more contented they become.

8. 寻求友人或专业人士的建议：如果你有困惑或者需要帮助，可以向朋友、家人或心理健康专业人士寻求建议。

8. Seek advice from friends or professionals: If you are confused or need help, you can seek advice from friends, family, or mental health professionals.

9. 人生就是一辆有去无回的列车，每经过一个驿站，都会有人上车，有人下车。我们要心平气和地对待遇见的所有人，如果遇见喜欢的人，是你的福气，也是对方的福气。有缘分，你们总会在一起。没有缘分，咫尺天涯，也要各自心宽。

9. Life is like a train that only goes one way, without a return. At each stop, there are people getting on and others getting off. We should treat everyone we meet with calmness and peace. If we meet someone we like, it is both our fortune and the other person's fortune. If there is a connection between you, you will always be together. If there is no connection, even though you may be close, you should still maintain a broad heart.

10. 结婚后，一些女孩喜欢在朋友圈里炫耀自己的伴侣，希望能让全世界的人都知道嫁了一个最好的丈夫。

10. After marriage, some girls like to show off their partners on social media, hoping to let the whole world know that they have married the best husband.

11. 所以不管你有多成功，都不要在朋友圈里炫耀这些东西，小心别让别人嫉妒你。

11. So no matter how successful you are, don't boast about these things on your social media circle. Be careful not to let others feel jealous of you.

12. 发展自我：努力成为一个独立、自信、有趣的个体，吸引那些与你志趣相投的人。

12. Develop Yourself: Strive to become an independent, confident, and interesting individual, attracting those who share your interests.

13. 骨子里的孤独精，能得到一份真正的友情真的挺难的，所以大家还是好好珍惜吧。要想维系友情，我认为应该做到以下几点。

13. The essence of an lonely soul, to truly gain a friendship is quite difficult, so everyone should cherish it well. To maintain friendships, I believe one should do the following points.

14. 参与社交活动：参加各种社交活动，扩大社交圈子，增加认识新人的机会。

14. Participation in social activities: Attend various social events to expand your social circle and increase opportunities to meet new people.

15. 生活中，不管你多么喜欢一个人，也不管他多么优秀和耀眼，都要以正确的心态，姿态和状态，与他交往。不卑不亢，从容不迫，言语自如。即便错过了，也要顺其自然，放下执念。

15. In life, no matter how much you like someone, or how outstanding and dazzling they may be, you should interact with them with the right mindset, demeanor, and state. Be neither subservient nor haughty, composed and unforced, and express yourself naturally. Even if you miss out, let it be, and let go of your attachments.

16. 热播电视剧《生活家》中的李楚宁是一个富二代，她开着三百万的辆 汽车 上下班，她的朋友圈全是她的日常生活，一个迷恋她的同事知道她喜欢滑雪。

16. In the popular TV drama "Life Connoisseur," Li Chuning is a second-generation rich girl who drives a car worth three million yuan to and from work. Her social circle is filled with her daily life, and a colleague who is smitten with her knows she loves skiing.

17. 为了炫耀你的家庭背景，你可能只是分享你的日常生活，但在别人眼里，你是一个炫耀的人，炫耀自己有多好是很无聊的，它最终会从你身边消失。

17. To炫耀 your family background, you may only be sharing your daily life, but in others' eyes, you are a show-off, and it is very boring to show off how good you are; in the end, it will disappear from you.

18. 这个世界上，每个人的能量和频率都不同，显现出来的语言和表现也千差万别。你不喜欢或者讨厌，离开就好。

18. In this world, everyone has different energy and frequency, and the language and expressions they manifest are also diverse and varied. If you don't like or dislike, just leave.

19. 有些人爱炫耀，只是因为内心太稀缺，他们需要得到外界的肯定和奉承，才能支撑自己的未来。

19. Some people like to show off because they are too scarce inside. They need to receive external affirmation and flattery to sustain their future.

20. 尊重自己的感受：如果你感觉对方不符合你的需求或者价值观，要有勇气放下，不要勉强自己。

20. Respect your own feelings: If you feel that the other person does not meet your needs or values, have the courage to let go, do not force yourself.

21. 我们曾如此渴望命运的波澜，后来才发现，人生最曼妙的风景，是内心的淡定与从容。

21. We once yearned so much for the fluctuations of fate, only to later discover that the most enchanting scenery in life is the calmness and composure of the heart.

22. 古人说 ： “ 静水流深，智者无 言 ” 。聪明的人很少炫耀自己的成就，而是默默地做自己应该做的事，总是喜欢在朋友圈里，炫耀自己的人，很容易让别人感到无聊。

22. The ancients said: "The still water runs deep, and the wise have no words." Smart people seldom boast about their achievements; instead, they quietly do what they should do. Those who like to show off in their social circles often make others feel bored.

23. 不管你的家庭条件有多好，你最好懂得克制自己，尽量不要在朋友圈里炫耀你的家人，也许这只是你眼中的真实生活，但在别人眼中却是赤裸裸的炫耀，容易被人憎恨。

23. No matter how good your family's conditions are, it's best to know how to克制 yourself and try not to show off about your family in your social circle. Maybe this is the true life you see, but in others' eyes, it is a stark display of arrogance, which is easy to be disliked.

24. 内心真正强大的人不需要炫耀外在的东西来彰显自己存在的价值，他们从不好斗，但在保持实力的同时，他们也懂得如何给别人想要的自尊，他们不会刻意炫耀自己现在拥有的东西。

24. A truly strong person does not need to炫耀 external things to demonstrate the value of their existence. They are not quarrelsome, but while maintaining their strength, they also know how to give others the desired self-respect. They do not deliberately炫耀 what they currently possess.

25. 当朋友看到你出生在优越的家庭环境中，他们可以得到很多资源，他们的父母为你准备了一辆车和一套房子，甚至他们的工作也为你安排得很好，他们的内心难免会感到不平衡。

25. When friends see you born into a优越 family environment where they can gain many resources, with your parents preparing a car and a house for you, even arranging good jobs for you, their hearts cannot help but feel a sense of inequality.

26. 金牛座的人，光是从性格上来说，他们一向都不是会主动去迎合别人的一类人。他们性格大都比较沉默，比较独立，甚至可以说有些孤僻。因此很多时候，在面对一件事情的决断的时候，即便身边人给自己提出了意见，甚至是直接替自己做了决定，但这个时候金牛们并不会选择顺从。而是会保持自己独立且主观的判断和选择。任何人的干扰都没有可能扰乱他们的节奏，按照他们这种执着的性格来说，一根筋地坚持到底的可能性反而会比较大。牛牛们平日里虽然沉默了一点，话少了一点，但并不代表他们没有自己的想法和意愿，不会傻傻地顺从别人。对他们来说，不是一类人就不必有过多的接触，不属于自己的圈子，也不必强融。

26. People born under the sign of Taurus, in terms of character, are not usually the type to主动 go out of their way to please others. They tend to be quite reserved, independent, and even somewhat reclusive. Therefore, when it comes to making decisions about a matter, even if others around them offer their opinions or even make decisions for them directly, the Taureans will not choose to comply. Instead, they will maintain their independent and subjective judgments and choices. No one's interference can disrupt their rhythm. According to their tenacious character, the likelihood of stubbornly sticking to their guns is actually quite high. While the Taureans may be a bit silent and less talkative in their daily lives, this does not mean they have no ideas or desires of their own, and they will not blindly comply with others. To them, if they are not of the same type, there is no need for excessive contact. If they don't belong to a certain circle, they don't need to force themselves to fit in.

27. 李楚宁不是一个喜欢炫耀的女孩，否则她不会把车停在公司酒店旁边，然后走路去上班，她只是记录自己的日常生活，结果却被其他同事羡慕，说自己太花哨了。

27. Li Chuning is not a girl who likes to show off; otherwise, she wouldn't park her car next to the company hotel and walk to work. She is just recording her daily life, yet she ended up being envied by her colleagues, who said she was too ostentatious.

28. 真正清醒的人，看破不说破，知理不辩理。人与人之间有时就需要一层窗户纸，不捅破，心知肚明，各自安好。一旦捅破，水火不容，没有转圜的可能。

28. A truly awake person sees through but does not reveal, knows the truth but does not argue. Sometimes, there needs to be a layer of 'window paper' between people. If it's not pierced, both parties are aware in their hearts, and everyone can live in peace. Once it's pierced, like water and fire, they cannot coexist, and there is no possibility of reconciliation.

29. 这种行为容易让人羡慕，也会让人发现你的无助和不安，只能靠丈夫来填补内心的缺失。

29. Such behavior is prone to elicit envy, and it may also reveal your helplessness and unease, which can only be filled by your husband.

30. 柯林斯的行为总是让人觉得很累，别人会认为他太傲慢和愚蠢，最后，连伊丽莎白，他爱的女人，也拒绝了他的追求。

30. Collins' behavior always seems to be tiring, and people would think he is too proud and foolish. In the end, even Elizabeth, the woman he loves, rejected his pursuit.

31. 俗话说：有钱的时候不要自大，有真实家庭背景的人从不炫耀自己的家庭条件，并且知道如何保持低调。

31. As the saying goes: "When you have money, don't be proud; a person with a real family background never boasts about their family conditions and knows how to maintain a low profile."

32. 尝试网络交友：可以参与一些在线社交平台或者交友活动，但要保持谨慎，确保自己的安全。

32. Try online dating: You can participate in some online social platforms or dating activities, but be cautious and ensure your safety.

33. 建立真诚的沟通：与人交往时，保持真诚和开诚布公的交流，分享自己的想法和感受。

33. Establish sincere communication: When interacting with others, maintain honest and open communication, sharing your thoughts and feelings.

34. 和讨厌的人翻脸，会降低自己的能量，让生活更加狼藉。

34. Bickering with disliked people will drain one's energy, making life even more chaotic.

35. 即使你没有什么心机，也不要总是炫耀你在朋友圈里有多好。

35. Even if you are not cunning, don't always boast about how good you are in your social circle.

36. 古话说：看破世事休开口，阅尽人情但点头。

36. As the old saying goes: If you see through the world, don't open your mouth; if you have experienced all human feelings, just nod your head.

37. 做好自己，没必要在别人的问题上伤神费力，自取其辱。

37. Do your own thing. There's no need to waste your energy and effort on others' problems, only to humiliate yourself.

38. 第一，主动关心对方，不要总把眼光放在自己身上，应该换位思考，看看对方在做些什么。

38. First, take the initiative to care about the other person, don't always focus on yourself, and should think from the other person's perspective, to see what the other person is doing.

39. 有的男生为了吸引喜欢的女生，故意在朋友圈里展示自己目前的成绩。但这样的行为只会让人觉得你很无聊，让女生觉得很恶心。

39. Some boys deliberately showcase their current achievements on their social media circle to attract the girls they like. However, such behavior only makes people think you are boring and makes the girls feel disgusted.

40. 如果一个人放下所谓的面子和虚假的欲望攀比心理，就能体会到幸福的滋味。在生活中，懂得低调不仅对别人有好处，对自己也更多好处。

40. If a person lets go of the so-called face and the false desire for comparison, they can taste the flavor of happiness. In life, knowing how to be modest is not only beneficial to others but also brings more benefits to oneself.

41. 郑板桥说：难得糊涂。

41. Zheng Banqiao said: "It's rare to be foolish."

42. 他们为什么能低调？因为有人会嫉妒，虽然表面上看到你的成功，会给予支持和鼓励，但心里却开始议论你了。

42. Why can they maintain a low profile? Because there are people who would be envious. Although they may outwardly see your success and offer support and encouragement, they start to gossip about you in their hearts.

43. 在朋友圈里炫耀自己有个好老公，不仅容易让人羡慕，也会让人看到你格局太小，没有自己的事业和成就，你只能通过你的伴侣来填补内心的空虚。

43. Boasting about having a good husband on social media is not only easy to make others envious, but it also reveals that your mindset is too narrow, lacking your own career and achievements. You can only fill the emptiness within you through your partner.

44. 人的水平越高，就越不在乎别人的评价，也就越不与别人比较，即使他们在事业上取得了成功，他们也知道如何收敛自己的光芒。

44. The higher a person's level is, the less they care about others' opinions, and the less they compare themselves with others. Even if they achieve success in their careers, they know how to temper their brilliance.

45. 给予时间：不要急于将一段关系推向发展，让感情自然地成长和演变。

45. Give time: Do not rush to push a relationship forward; allow emotions to grow and evolve naturally.

46. 不要为了讨好别人委屈自己，也不要为了表现自己贬低别人。让自己做自己，让别人做别人。

46. Do not compromise yourself to please others, nor belittle others to show off. Be yourself, and let others be themselves.

47. 生活中，有人不懂人情世故，或者有这样那样的缺点，随他就好。如果把话挑明白，那他就会无地自容，恼羞成怒。

47. In life, some people may not understand the nuances of social etiquette or have various shortcomings; it's best to let them be as they are. If you clarify the issues, they will feel ashamed and become angry out of embarrassment.

48. 事实是，林云云只是家里的免费保姆，他们住的别墅里都是她自己一个人打扫。她丈夫对她的态度很不好，他从不尊重她，不管林芸芸做得再多，做的多好，他从不鼓励她，只有厌倦和攻击她。

48. The fact is, Lin Yunyun is just a free babysitter at home, and she is the one who cleans the villa they live in by herself. Her husband treats her very poorly, never respecting her. No matter how much or how well Lin Yunyun does, he never encourages her; he is only tired of her and attacks her.

49. 与恶龙缠斗，你也会变成恶龙。凝视深渊过久，深渊将回以凝视。

49. When you fight with a wicked dragon, you too may become a dragon. Gaze into the abyss for too long, and the abyss will gaze back at you.

50. 狮子座的心灵是很单独的，做很多的事情是比较简单直接地，不容易耍心眼，也是更也不会去迎合他人，不可能刻意的融入其他人社交圈子中，他们会觉得不属于自己社交圈不强融，讨厌别人为自己不太好的脸色看，学不懂溜须拍马，和有意顺从。

50. The heart of the Leo is very solitary. They tend to do things in a simple and direct manner, are not prone to cunning, and also will never try to cater to others. They are unlikely to deliberately integrate into other people's social circles, feeling that they do not belong if they are not welcomed into them. They dislike others judging them by their not-so-good looks, and they are unable to flatter or ingratiatingly obey.

51. 与人相处，睁一只眼闭一只眼，管住自己的嘴，很多事情只用在心里想，不必在嘴上说。

51. In dealing with people, keep one eye open and one eye shut, keep your mouth shut, many things are better left unsaid but just thought about.

52. 记住，真爱可能需要时间才能找到，不要急于求成。同时，也要保持对自己的尊重和爱护，不要为了寻找真爱而牺牲自己的幸福和价值观。

52. Remember, true love may take time to find, do not be in a hurry. At the same time, also maintain respect and care for yourself, and do not sacrifice your happiness and values for the sake of finding true love.

53. 对于讨厌的人，没有必要翻脸，潇洒转身，礼貌退场，从此不再来往，才是最好的解决方式。

53. There is no need to turn hostile towards someone you dislike. Gracefully turn around, exit with decorum, and from then on, avoid contact. This is the best way to resolve the situation.

54. 她丈夫的事业很好，她不必担心经济问题，林芸芸身边的一些朋友，包括女儿班上的其他妈妈，也会羡慕林芸芸嫁了个好丈夫。

54. Her husband's career is doing well, so she doesn't have to worry about financial issues. Some of Lin Yunyun's friends, including other mothers from her daughter's class, would also envy Lin Yunyun for having a good husband.

55. 世界是自己的，和他人毫无关系。在自己的世界里独善其身，在别人的世界里顺其自然。

55. The world is one's own, having nothing to do with others. Seek self-improvement in one's own world, and go with the flow in others' worlds.