在浩瀚的知识海洋中，独立自主之精神，如同破浪前行的航船，挣脱依赖的锁链，勇敢地驶向未知的天际。今日，让我们共同探讨“放下依赖，勇敢前行”的真谛，探寻自我成长的力量。

Amidst the vast ocean of knowledge, the spirit of independence and self-reliance is like a sailing ship forging ahead against the waves, breaking free from the chains of dependence, and bravely heading towards the unknown horizon. Today, let us together delve into the essence of "letting go of dependence and bravely moving forward," and explore the power of self-growth.

1. 非常喜欢的一段话：“你以为你失去一个为你撑伞的人，其实分开后才发现，你的世界根本没下雨，真正折磨你的，从来不是任何人的绝情，而是你心存幻想的期待和无法控制的想象力。

1. A very favorite passage: "You think you've lost a person who would shelter you from the rain, but in fact, after parting, you realize that your world never rained. What truly tortures you is never anyone's ruthlessness, but rather the expectant hopes you harbor and the uncontrollable imagination you cannot control."

2. 世间万物都在治愈你，唯独你自己不肯放过自己，与其思念成疾，不如把遗憾交给岁月，总有一天，那些你无法跨过的坎，走着走着就填平了。”

2. Everything in the world is healing you, but it is only you who refuses to forgive yourself. Instead of letting longing turn into illness, why not entrust your regrets to time? Someday, those obstacles you find insurmountable will be crossed and filled in as you walk along."

3. 当我们境遇不好的时候，总希望得到别人的帮助，其实锦上添花者不乏其人，雪中送炭者寥寥无几，别人能够帮助你，那是天大的福气，没有人帮助你，才是一种正常的现象。

3. When we are in a bad situation, we always hope to receive help from others. In reality, there are many people who are willing to add more splendor to the brocade, but there are very few who are willing to provide help in times of dire need. If someone is able to help you, that is a great blessing. The absence of help from others is actually a normal phenomenon.

4. 在下雨天奔跑，我们总想找到那个为你撑伞的人，个人都只会顾自己，只有自己背着伞才是最大的底气。

4. When running in the rain, we always want to find that person who will hold an umbrella over you. Individuals only think about themselves, and it's the greatest confidence to carry an umbrella yourself.

5. 在人世间行走，我们总想有一个人可以携手同行，相濡以沫，肝胆相照，口却因为一点蝇头小利而反目成仇，形同陌路。

5. In the journey through the world, we always wish to have someone to walk hand in hand with, to share life's sorrows and joys, to be as close as bosom friends. Yet, for a trivial gain, we may turn against each other, becoming as strangers as if we had never known each other.

6. 人性都是自私的。当你功成名就，荣华富贵，什么都不缺的时候，别人从你身上看到投资的价值，就会各种讨好你。当你穷困潦倒，一蹶不振，坠入低谷的时候，你本身就是麻烦和风险，别人把资本向你倾斜，大概率就是打水漂。

6. Human nature is inherently selfish. When you achieve success and become wealthy, with nothing lacking, others will see the value of investing in you and will do various favors to please you. But when you are in dire straits, unable to recover from a setback, and sinking into a低谷, you yourself become a burden and a risk. If others pour their capital into you in such situations, there is a high probability that it will be a waste.

7. 放下对别人的任何期待和指望，不是一种消极的悲观，而是看透人性之后的通透。

7. Letting go of any expectations or reliance on others is not a negative pessimism, but rather a clarity that comes from seeing through human nature.

8. 俗话说，龙游潜水遭虾戏，虎落平阳被犬欺。

8. As the saying goes, when the dragon潜水 swims in the depths, it is mocked by the shrimp; when the tiger falls to the plains, it is bullied by the dog.

9. 当龙在深渊的时候，他是王者，拥有最强大的力量，所有的生物都想要向他借力，他当然是那个被鲜花和掌声簇拥的人。当龙游潜水，落入浅滩的时候，他没有力量了，不成气候了，所有的生物都不需要它了，而人性最恶劣的一面就会显现出来。老虎也一样，人也一样。

9. When the dragon is in the deep abyss, he is the king, possessing the most powerful strength, and all creatures wish to borrow power from him. He is naturally the one surrounded by flowers and applause. When the dragon swims into the shallow waters, it loses its strength, and its status diminishes. All creatures no longer need it, and the worst aspects of human nature come to the fore. The same is true for tigers and humans.

10. 真正折磨你的，从来不是任何人的绝情和世态的凉薄，而是你心存幻想的期待以及不切实际的妄想。

10. What truly tortures you is never anyone's coldness or the indifferent nature of the world, but rather your unrealistic expectations and delusional daydreams.

11. 我们总想给自己找一座靠山，最后发现山上不是豺狼虎豹横行，就是荆棘野草丛生，只有自己才是想要的那座山。

11. We always seek a mountain to lean on, only to find in the end that the mountain is either teeming with wolves, tigers, and leopards, or bristling with thorny wild grasses; only ourselves are the mountain we truly desire.

12. 如果你是一个强大的人，那么不需要任何靠山。如果你是一个平庸甚至弱小的人，当务之急就是努力提升自己的实力，沉淀自己的价值，在岁月中打磨自己，砥砺自己，成全自己。

12. If you are a strong person, you do not need any backing. If you are an average person, or even someone who is weak, the most urgent task is to strive to enhance your own abilities, consolidate your own value, and refine and strengthen yourself through the passage of time.

13. 把时间花在床上，成就了体重。把时间花在玩上，成就了颓废。把时间花在阅读上，成就了聪慧的头脑。把时间花在运动上，成就了健硕的身体。把时间花在沉淀自己上，成就了日渐增长的实力。

13. Spending time in bed leads to weight gain. Spending time playing leads to decadence. Spending time reading leads to a wise mind. Spending time on exercise leads to a strong body. Spending time on self-reflection leads to an ever-growing strength.

14. 时间是最好的朋友，用好了时间，你就会成为生活的强者，成为自己最大的靠山。

14. Time is the best friend. Make good use of time, and you will become a strong individual in life, and your own biggest support.

15. 世间万物都在治愈你，唯独你自己不肯放过自己。与其在期待和失望之中辗转腾挪，不断轮回，不如放下期待，只靠自己，靠自己的力量和智慧，在波翻浪急的人世间，给自己趟出一条康庄大道。

15. All things in the world are healing you, but it is only yourself that you are unwilling to forgive. Rather than turning in circles between anticipation and disappointment, constantly revolving, it is better to let go of expectations and rely solely on yourself, on your own strength and wisdom, to carve out a broad and prosperous path for yourself in this world where waves are turbulent.

16. 做一个最坚强的人，放下期待，砥砺前行，在时间的河流上摆渡自己。

16. Be the strongest person, let go of expectations, forge ahead, and navigate yourself across the river of time.

17. 1爱旅行就去旅行，大不了有多少钱就走多远的路，有多大本事就靠本事混多远的天涯。

17. 1 If you love to travel, then travel. The further you go, the more money you have; the farther you can roam, the more talent you can rely on.

18. 2迷失了自己一次，是为了让自己以后更好的认清前方的路。

18. Losing oneself once is to better recognize the path ahead in the future.

19. 3你的每一个眼神都让我眷恋，你的每一个动作都让我着迷，你的每一个微笑都让我觉得幸福。天变冷了，有没有好好照顾自己记住，别让我担心了，我的宝贝。

19. 3 Every look of yours makes me nostalgic, every move you make fascinates me, and every smile of yours makes me feel happy. The weather is getting colder, have you taken good care of yourself? Remember, don't worry me, my dear.

20. 5葡萄香蕉红苹果，祝你想念有结果!萝卜黄瓜大白菜，愿你天天惹人爱!可乐清茶白开水，望你夜夜都好睡!

20. 5 Grapes, bananas, and red apples, wishing you to have fruitful thoughts! Radishes, cucumbers, and Chinese cabbage, may you be loved every day! Cola, green tea, and plain water, hoping you sleep soundly every night!

21. 6深夜，独自漫步在街上，落寞的心，无所依归，心中总是想着你，念着你，盼着你，好想大声对你说请我吃饭好吗

21. At midnight, wandering the streets alone, my lonely heart has nowhere to belong. My thoughts are always on you, thinking of you, longing for you. I wish I could shout out loud to you, "Would you like to invite me for a meal?"

22. 7送你芬芳玫瑰，伴你香甜入睡;送你菊竹兰梅，配你不俗之美;送你金银玉贝，为你把爱点缀;送你冬日光辉，让温暖把你围。亲爱的，天气凉了，记得添衣加被。

22. I send you fragrant roses to accompany you to a sweet sleep; I send you chrysanthemums, bamboo, orchids, and plum blossoms to complement your extraordinary beauty; I send you gold, silver, jade, and pearls to adorn your love; I send you the brilliance of winter, to envelop you in warmth. Darling, the weather is getting cold, remember to add clothes and covers.

23. 8所有的美丽都源于真挚与坦诚，虽然幸福会转瞬即逝，快乐却能持久，一份真诚的祝福，一声真挚的问候，愿你快乐每一天!

23. All beauty originates from sincerity and honesty. Although happiness may be fleeting, joy can endure. May a heartfelt blessing and a genuine greeting bring you joy every day!

24. 9我不知道月亮能不能代表我的心，但我告诉你我真的爱你!爱你有多深，我找不到标准来衡量，但我向你保证时间可以见证我爱你一生一世!

24. 9 I don't know if the moon can represent my heart, but I tell you that I truly love you! The depth of my love for you, I can't find a standard to measure, but I promise you that time can witness my love for you for a lifetime!

25. 10我的问候，很轻;我的祝福，很真;摘一颗星，采一朵云，装入平安的信封里送给您，让快乐好运时刻围绕着您!

25. My greetings, light; my blessings, sincere; pluck a star, gather a cloud, put them into the envelope of peace and send them to you, so that happiness and good luck may surround you at all times!

26. 11我看到和听到了各种人的故事。见得越多，听得越多，我越理解无常。

26. 11 I have seen and heard the stories of various people. The more I see and the more I hear, the more I understand the impermanence.

27. 12我们都不是很完美的人，但我们要接受不完美的自己。在孤独的时候，给自己安慰;在寂寞的时候，给自己温暖。学会自立，告别依赖，对软弱的自己说再见。

27. 12 None of us are perfect people, but we should accept our imperfect selves. Comfort ourselves in solitude; give ourselves warmth in loneliness. Learn to be self-reliant, bid farewell to dependence, and say goodbye to our weak selves.

28. 13笑容不一定能使世界绽放，却可放松紧绷的胸膛，开心就笑，让大家都感染到，悲伤就哭，然后一切归零，神清气爽，然后可以轻舞飞扬，生活，其实没有什么大不了。

28. 13 A smile does not necessarily bring the world to bloom, but it can relax a tense chest. Laugh when you are happy, and let everyone catch the infection. Cry when you are sad, and then everything resets, feeling refreshed and clear. Then you can dance lightly and joyfully. Life, in fact, is not a big deal.

29. 14雪花飘飘，白雾茫茫，有人在窗旁，目光远眺，思念飞向远方。心中祝福缠绕，希望亲爱的朋友开心快乐!

29. 14 Snowflakes fluttering, white mist enveloping, someone stands by the window, gazing into the distance, longing spreading far away. Heartfelt blessings缠绵，wishing my dear friend happiness and joy!

30. 15一日不见，如隔三秋。一周不见，如隔世纪。每个周末都是一个纪念日，一起去看星星吧，每一颗星星都刻着一个爱的故事，星星知我心，你知我心!

30. Not seeing you for a day is like a separation of three seasons; a week apart feels like an age. Every weekend is a memorial day, let's go watch the stars together, as each star is inscribed with a story of love. The stars know my heart, and you know my heart too!

31. 16遇见喜欢的人就像浩劫余生漂流过海终见陆地

31. Meeting someone you like is like a long journey at sea finally landing on land after a great disaster.

32. 17原本阴雨绵绵，忽然阳光初现;原本平静无波，忽然风急浪涌;原本生活苍白，忽然充满色彩。一切，都是因为你的出现，让我的世界瞬间充满活力和精彩!

32. Originally, it was overcast with continuous rain, but suddenly the sunshine appeared; originally, it was calm without waves, but suddenly the wind was fierce and the waves surged; originally, life was pale, but suddenly it was filled with color. Everything is because of your appearance, making my world burst into vitality and wonder!

33. 18重复在简单寂寞旳生活，有梦是坠落，无梦是沉默。

33. In the simple and lonely life, dreams are a fall, and no dreams are silence.

34. 19自己活得开开心心就是幸福，让别人过得开开心心也是幸福，幸福是丰富多采的，只你用心去体会，就会感觉到幸福!

34. Living a happy life is happiness, making others happy is also happiness. Happiness is rich and colorful; only by experiencing it with your heart can you feel the happiness!

35. 20纵然距离和云星，遮住了远望的视线;而我心的目光，却不受任何阻挡。此刻，你是否感到，我正倚窗凝望着你。你是否能体会到我爱你。

35. Even though distance and the clouds and stars have obscured the view from afar; the gaze of my heart is unobstructed. At this moment, do you feel that I am leaning against the window, gazing at you? Can you sense my love for you?

36. 1朋友就像片片拼图，结合后构成一幅美丽的图画，如果不见了一片，就永远都不会完整，你-就是我不想遗失的那重要一片。

37. 2茫茫人海就像一片戈壁滩，我们就是滩中的沙砾，不过有你的做伴使我不再感到渺小和孤独。

36. 1 A friend is like a piece of a puzzle, coming together to form a beautiful picture. If one piece is missing, it will never be complete. You are the important piece that I don't want to lose. 37. 2 The vast sea of people is like a vast desert, and we are the grains of sand in it. But with you by my side, I no longer feel small and alone.

38. 3风起，是我绵绵的牵挂;云涌，是我的柔柔的思念;雨来，是我细细的倾诉;阳光，是我暖暖的微笑!

38. The rise of the wind is my endless concern; the gathering of clouds is my tender longing; the coming of rain is my detailed confiding; the sunshine is my warm smile!

39. 4一丝真诚胜过千两黄金一丝温暖能抵万里寒霜一声问候送来温馨甜蜜一条短信捎去我万般心意

39. A thread of sincerity is worth more than a thousand pounds of gold, a touch of warmth can counteract ten thousand miles of frost, a greeting brings warmth and sweetness, and a text message conveys a thousand of my heartfelt intentions.

40. 5朋友是身边那份充实;是忍不住时刻想拨的号码;是深夜长坐的那杯清茶。

40. 5 friends are that fullness by your side; they are the numbers you can't help but dial at any moment; they are that cup of clear tea you sit and enjoy deep into the night.

41. 6许多的事情，总是在经历以后才会懂得，一如感情。痛过了，才会懂得如何保护自己;傻过了，才会懂得适时地坚持与放弃，在得到与失去中我们慢慢地认识自己。其实，生活并不需要这么些无谓的执着，没有什么就真的不能割舍。学会放弃，生活会更容易。

41.6 Many things are only understood after experiencing them, just like emotions. Only after feeling pain do we learn how to protect ourselves; only after being foolish do we learn to persist and give up at the right time, gradually getting to know ourselves in the process of gaining and losing. In fact, life doesn't require all this unnecessary attachment. Nothing is truly irreplaceable. Learning to let go makes life easier.

42. 7将心停泊在彩云升起的港湾，偷偷把幸福刻在你的心间，用一缕友谊的丝线，将你我紧紧绑在岁月变迁的终点!

42. 7 Anchor your heart in the harbor where colorful clouds rise, stealthily engraving happiness on the core of your heart, and with a strand of friendship's silk, tightly bind us together at the end of the changing years!

43. 8真正的友谊无论从正反看都应一样，不可能从前面看是蔷薇而从后面看是刺。

43. True friendship should be the same regardless of whether it is viewed from the front or the back; it cannot be roses seen from the front and thorns from the back.

44. 9真正的友谊是一种缓慢生长的植物，必须经历并顶得住逆境的冲击，才无愧友谊这个称号。

44. True friendship is a slowly growing plant, which must endure and withstand the冲击 of adversity in order to truly deserve the title of friendship.

45. 10锦上添花是哥们，雪中送炭是朋友，有福同享有难同当是兄弟，心有灵犀一点通的是知己，一生知己不多，你就是我的知己。

45. Adding flowers to the brocade is a comrade, sending charcoal in the snow is a friend, sharing happiness and enduring difficulties together is a brother, and being able to understand each other with a single touch of the heart is an intimate friend. There are not many intimate friends in a lifetime, and you are my intimate friend.

46. 11梦;总不够漫长可我们需要梦想。情;总让人受伤可我们还念念不忘。雨;下得再漂亮可我们还喜欢阳光。你;虽不在我身旁可我从未将你遗忘亲爱的朋友，最近好吗

46. 11 dreams; they're never long enough, yet we need to dream. Love; it always wounds us, yet we can't forget it. Rain; it may fall beautifully, yet we still love the sunshine. You; you're not by my side, yet I have never forgotten you, my dear friend. How have you been lately?

47. 12人的生活离不开友谊，但要得到真正的友谊却是不容易的。友谊需要用忠诚去播种，用热情去灌溉。

47. The lives of 12 people cannot be separated from friendship, but it is not easy to attain true friendship. Friendship requires loyalty to plant the seeds and enthusiasm to water them.

48. 13我不愿意把我们之间的友谊比作铁链;因为铁链也许会被雨水锈蚀，或被倒下来的树砸断。

48. 13 I do not wish to liken our friendship to iron chains; for iron chains might be corroded by rain or broken by falling trees.

49. 14虚伪的友谊有如你的影子;当你处在阳光下时，它会紧紧地跟着你，但你一旦走到阴暗处时，它立刻就会离开你。

49. 14 False friendship is like your shadow; when you are in the sunlight, it follows you closely, but the moment you step into a shadowy place, it leaves you immediately.

50. 15与时间相比，我们输了;正因为输了，所以，散了吧!人生的赌注越大，失落就越大。希望彼此都不会忘记，你我还能相约今生相遇今世，此生足已!

50. Compared to time, we have lost; and just because we have lost, let's disperse! The greater the stakes in life, the greater the disappointment. Let's hope that neither of us will forget, that we can still meet in this life and this world, which is enough for us!

51. 16曾经一起欢笑，一起玩耍，以为欢乐地在一起只是寻常，以为离别遥遥无期;转眼曲终人散，各奔东西。天天日升日落，年年花落花开，四季更迭，无言，无迹，一些事情慢慢淡忘，一些记忆渐渐加深。还记得在一起的快乐，记得你的美好，想起你的时候，却发现有很多相关的记忆已模糊。不知道你还会不会想起，曾经的我们，一起的快乐。

51. 16 once laughed and played together, thinking that joyfully being together was ordinary, believing that parting was far off. In a blink, the music ended and people scattered to their respective destinations. Day by day, the sun rises and sets; year by year, flowers bloom and wither; the seasons change, silent and traceless. Some things fade away slowly, and some memories deepen gradually. I still remember the joy we shared together, remember your beauty, and when I think of you, I find that many related memories have become blurred. I don't know if you will still remember, the us of the past, the joy we shared together.

52. 17当你孤独时，风儿就是我的歌声，愿它能使你得到片刻的安慰;当你骄傲时，雨点就是我的警钟，愿它能使你获得永恒的谦逊。

52. 17 When you are lonely, the wind is my song, may it bring you a moment of comfort; when you are proud, the raindrops are my alarm bell, may it lead you to eternal humility.

53. 18友谊是精神的融合，心灵的联姻，道德的纽结。

53. 18 Friendship is the fusion of the spirit, the marriage of the soul, and the knot of morality.

54. 19只有在患难的时候，才能看到朋友的真心。

54. 19 Only in times of trouble can the true nature of a friend be seen.

55. 21友谊也像花朵，好好地培养，可以开得心花怒放，可是一旦任性或者不幸从根本上破坏了友谊，这朵心上盛开的花，可以立刻萎颓凋谢。

55. 21 Friendship is also like a flower; with proper nurturing, it can bloom beautifully and exuberantly. However, once arrogance or misfortune fundamentally ruins the friendship, the flower that blossoms in the heart can wither and fade away immediately.

56. 22确保友谊常青的诸要素是：诚实朴实自然体贴和某些共同的兴趣。

56. The elements that ensure the longevity of friendship are: honesty, simplicity, naturalness, tenderness, and certain shared interests.