在浩瀚的生命哲学海洋中，探寻最深层的智慧，犹如在夜空中寻找最亮的星辰。本书将带领你踏上一段自我关爱的旅程，以艺术的方式诠释随缘生活的真谛。让我们一起，揭开“自我关爱与随缘生活”的神秘面纱，探寻生活的无尽可能。

In the vast ocean of life philosophy, seeking the deepest wisdom is like searching for the brightest stars in the night sky. This book will lead you on a journey of self-love, interpreting the essence of a life lived by chance in an artistic manner. Let's together unveil the mysterious veil of "self-love and living by chance," and explore the limitless possibilities of life.

1. 1一个人永远也无法预料未来，所以不要延缓想过的生活，不要吝于表达心中的话，因为生命只在一瞬间。有时间出去走走；退休后，我们就要好好享受一下。

2. 2记住，别让自己徒留为时已晚的空余恨。逝者不可追，来者犹未卜，最珍贵、最需要实时掌握的当下，往往在这两者蹉跎间，转眼错失。人生短暂飘忽，有一首小诗这样写：高天与原地，悠悠人生路；行行向何方，转眼即长暮。正是道尽了人生如寄，转眼即逝的惶恐。

1. 1 One can never predict the future, so do not delay living the life you wish to lead, and do not hesitate to express what is in your heart, for life is fleeting. Take the time to go out and explore; after retirement, we should fully enjoy ourselves. 2. 2 Remember, do not leave behind the empty regrets of "it's too late." The past cannot be pursued, and the future is yet to be determined. The most precious and most necessary to grasp in real-time is often lost between the two. Life is short and elusive, as a small poem writes: High sky and the original place, the leisurely journey of life; Where do you go, the next moment is the twilight. It truly expresses the anxiety of life being transient and fleeting.

3. 也不是不曾想过回头也不是没有设想如果但都只收获一把辛酸泪煲的酒。

3. Nor had I not thought of turning back, nor had I not imagined, but all I've gathered are a few bitter tears brewed into wine.

4. 人生说：眼里有快乐，手里有工作，心里有追求，家里有妻儿，这样的人生，别无他求！

4. Life says: with happiness in the eyes, work in the hands, aspirations in the heart, and a family with a wife and children, such a life is all that one could ask for!

5. 7不要再等待有一天你可以松口气，或是麻烦都过去了。生命中大部分的美好事物都是短暂易逝的，享受它们，品尝它们，去旅行吧趁活着

5. 7 Do not wait for a day when you can breathe a sigh of relief or when all the troubles are over. Most beautiful things in life are fleeting and transient. Enjoy them, savor them, travel while you are alive.

6. 酒，少喝开胃。事，多管遭罪。烟，多吸伤肺。茶，多饮火退。话，少说就对。做人，默默无闻最可贵。

6. Wine, when drunk in moderation, can stimulate the appetite. Matters, when over-managed, lead to suffering. Cigarettes, when inhaled excessively, harm the lungs. Tea, when drunk in abundance, can subdue the fire within. Words, when spoken sparingly, are just right. As for being a person, being modest and unassuming is the most valuable.

7. 饮料可以解身体的渴，阅读可以解精神的渴。一个精神饥渴的女人表情总是慌乱的，只有知书达礼，才能够优雅而从容。

7. Drinks can quench the thirst of the body, while reading can quench the thirst of the spirit. A woman who is spiritually thirsty always appears restless, and only one who is well-read and mannerly can be graceful and composed.

8. 只是一起走过一段路而已，何必把怀念弄得比经过还长。

8. It's just walking together for a while; why make the memories longer than the journey itself?

9. 如果我的玩笑刺痛了你;很对不起，我以为我们很熟。

9. If my joke hurt you, I'm very sorry. I thought we were close.

10. 看着你和她在一起的画面，我笑了，笑得很灿烂。

10. Seeing the image of you with her, I smiled, and I smiled brightly.

11. 我以为终有一天，我会彻底将爱情忘记，将你忘记。

11. I thought that one day, I would completely forget love, and forget you.

12. 翻开以前的照片，想着以前的回忆，望着我旁边，却是空空如也

12. Flipping through old photos, thinking of past memories, I looked beside me, only to find emptiness.

13. 时间是链子，快乐是珠子，用链子串上珠子，挂在胸前就可以幸福一辈子;幸福是石子，烦恼是沙子，时间是筛子，用筛子漏掉沙子，石子就会陪你一辈子!

13. Time is a chain, happiness is a pearl, string the pearls with the chain and hang it around your neck, and you can be happy for a lifetime; happiness is a pebble, worries are sand, and time is a sieve. Use the sieve to sift out the sand, and the pebbles will accompany you for a lifetime!

14. 真诚不是智慧，但它有时放射出比智慧更诱人的光芒。真诚，是一种心灵的开放，是一种晶莹剔透的高尚。

14. Sincerity is not wisdom, but it sometimes casts a more alluring glow than wisdom. Sincerity is an openness of the soul, a crystal-clear nobility.

15. 成熟是一种明亮而不刺眼的光辉，一种圆润而不腻耳的音响，一种不再对别人察言观色的从容，一种不理会闹哄的微笑，更是一种大气而并不陡峭的高度

15. Maturity is a bright but not dazzling glow, a round but not cloying sound, a composed demeanor that no longer watches others' expressions, a smile that ignores the hustle and bustle, and even a dignified height that is not steep.

16. 遵纪守法、敬老爱幼、助人为乐、宽仁待人，是塑造自我的素质品德。勤奋好学、吃苦耐劳，是打造自我的将来。永恒地坚持传统美德，是做人不败的制胜法宝。

16. Observing laws and regulations, respecting the elderly and loving the young, helping others with joy, and treating others kindly are the qualities and virtues that shape one's self. Being diligent and eager to learn, and being able to endure hardships, are the ways to build one's future. Perpetually adhering to traditional virtues is the timeless secret weapon for success in life.

17. 晚上笑一笑，睡个美满觉;早晨笑一笑，全天工作有情调;工作之余笑一笑，满堂欢喜又热闹;烦恼之时笑一笑，一切忧愁全忘掉--祝你每天都在笑笑笑!

17. A smile at night brings a sweet sleep; a smile in the morning fills the day with charm; a smile during work brings joy and lively atmosphere; a smile in times of trouble forgets all worries -- May you laugh every day!

18. 阳光温暖，风中自有花香，曾经的彷徨，偶尔还有淡淡的回忆，可是时光继续着，一切都好。生活在激情与平淡间辗转浮沉，人生在梦想与现实间和谐共存。

18. The sunshine is warm, and the fragrance of flowers can be felt in the wind. There are occasional faint memories of the confusion that once was, but time continues on, and everything is fine. Life flits between passion and tranquility, while existence harmoniously coexists between dreams and reality.

19. 31伪装不出的担心，是真诚；掩饰不住的思念，是感情。

19. The worry that cannot be concealed is sincerity; the longing that cannot be concealed is affection.

20. 6人生并未售来回票，失去的便永远不再得到。将希望寄予等到方便的时间才享受，我们不知失去了多少可能的幸福！

20. Life does not sell round-trip tickets; what is lost is never regained. By placing our hopes on enjoying things only when it is convenient, we do not realize how much possible happiness we have lost!

21. 因为心中有爱，才能被人爱。爱，它是创造奇迹的力量源泉!即使没有回报，也能温暖净化我们的心灵。

21. Because of the love in our hearts, we can be loved by others. Love, it is the source of power to create miracles! Even without return, it can warm and purify our souls.

22. 有时，懂得如何避开问题的人，胜过知道怎样解决问题的人。

22. Sometimes, knowing how to avoid problems is better than knowing how to solve them.

23. 快乐，不是因为拥有的多，而是因为计较的少。多是负担，是一种失去，少非不足，是另一种有余;舍弃不一定是失去，而是一种更宽阔的拥有。

23. Happiness is not because of having more, but because of less caring. Having more is a burden, a kind of loss; having less is not a deficiency, but a kind of abundance; giving up is not necessarily a loss, but a broader form of possession.

24. 23四季交替，有人惦念冷暖；心情多变，有人一直包容。

24. 23 The alternation of the four seasons, some people care about the warmth and cold; mood changes, some people always tolerate.

25. 如果说生活是大海，那么平凡琐事就是一滴滴的水;如果说人生是崇山峻岭，那么琐屑之事就是一颗颗沙砾。所以，要想懂得生活，就要学会品味平凡。

25. If life is the ocean, then the mundane matters are like drops of water; if life is the towering mountains, then trivial things are like grains of sand. Therefore, to understand life, one must learn to appreciate the ordinary.

26. 宠辱不惊，看庭前花开花落，去留无意，任天上云卷云舒。

26. Unperturbed by honors and insults, I watch the flowers bloom and wither in the courtyard, and am indifferent to comings and goings, letting the clouds roll in and out of the sky as they please.

27. 你愿意做俯贴大地的小草，还是要做高高在上的参天大树你愿意做默默无闻的啄木鸟，还是要做展翅翱翔的雄鹰要我说，做什么都是一种生活态度，只要认真去做，去努力，去探索，你会发现生活是多姿多彩的。

27. Would you rather be a lowly grass touching the ground, or a towering tree standing tall? Would you rather be a quiet woodpecker, or a majestic eagle soaring? I would say, being anything is a way of life. As long as you approach it with seriousness, effort, and curiosity, you will find that life is colorful and diverse.

28. 菩提本无树，明镜亦非台，本来无一物，何处惹尘埃。世界的本质不过一场空，名也空，利也空，财也空，事也空，恩也空，怨也空，短短几十年，熊熊烈火会毁灭你的肉体，一缕青烟将带走你的灵魂，你跟这个世界再也没有一丝半缕的关系，你又争什么，求什么，斗什么？在已有的条件之下，好好体验生活，让自己每天都感受到快乐，让每一个日子都翩翩起舞，精彩盎然，就是对生命最好的善待。

28. The bodhi tree itself is not a tree, the bright mirror is not a stand. Originally, there is nothing, where can dust ever settle? The essence of the world is merely an emptiness, names are empty, benefits are empty, wealth is empty, matters are empty, kindness is empty, resentment is empty. In the short span of a few decades, the fierce flames will consume your flesh, and a wisp of smoke will take away your soul. You have no more connection to this world, so what do you fight for, what do you seek, what do you struggle for? Within the conditions you have, enjoy life well, make yourself feel happy every day, let each day dance gracefully, filled with wonders, this is the best way to cherish life.

29. 学会物质低配，心情高配，灵魂顶配，不再渴望身外之物，放下对别人心怀期待的幻想和不切实际的妄想，知足常乐，难得糊涂，快乐自在，不问今夕何夕。

29. Learn to live with low material possessions, high spirits, and the ultimate soul. No longer crave external things, abandon the fantasy of expecting others with unrealistic delusions, be content with happiness, cherish the simplicity of life, be happy and carefree, without concerning oneself with the passage of time.

30. 告诉自己明天太阳依旧灿烂，生活却要华丽转身。

30. Tell yourself that tomorrow the sun will still be bright, but life needs to make a magnificent turn.

31. 17每个人都会有自己的想法、做法、活法。理念不同，做法不同，活法就不同，我们没必要去干涉别人，影响别人，甚至攻击别人。他好，不会嫉妒，不会报复；他不好，不去打击，不去鄙视。人人都有自尊，人人都有苦衷，生活中没有谁，不希望自己活得更好，走得更顺。学会理解、尊重与帮助，生活会更好、更美。

31. 17 Each person has their own ideas, ways, and ways of living. Different ideas lead to different ways and different ways of living. We have no need to interfere with others, influence them, or even attack them. When they are good, we do not envy or seek revenge; when they are not, we do not attack or look down upon them. Everyone has self-respect and everyone has their own hardships. In life, no one wishes to live a worse or less smooth life. Learning to understand, respect, and help will make life better and more beautiful.

32. 不是在最好的时光遇见了你，而是正因有你在，我才有了最好的时光。

32. It's not that I met you at the best time, but rather that because of you, I have the best time.

33. 一个人哭，你只需要给他一包纸巾，但是一颗心哭了，你却要做很多事情。

33. When a person cries, all you need to do is give them a pack of tissues, but when a heart cries, you have to do many things.

34. 有些伤口，无论过多久，依然一碰就痛;有些人，不管过多久，也还是一想起就疼。

34. Some wounds, no matter how long ago, still hurt when touched; some people, no matter how long ago, still ache when remembered.

35. 我不喜欢喝酒但是如果心痛了我愿意把它当水喝即使我酒量不好

35. I don't like drinking alcohol, but if my heart aches, I would be willing to drink it like water, even though I'm not good at holding my liquor.

36. 如果我们只是一味地放纵春天中蓬勃的自我，而不去固守秋天中应有的深沉，那我们很难越过生命的雨季和青春的泽沼地。

36. If we merely indulge in the vigorous self of spring without adhering to the应有的 depth of autumn, it will be hard for us to cross over the rainy season of life and the marshland of youth.

37. 26在意，却不刻意；珍惜，却不痴迷。若有若无的联系，是一份随意；或深或浅的交集，是一份默契。可肆意畅谈，也可默然相对；可紧密相连，也可疏于不见。

37. Pay attention without being overly deliberate; cherish without becoming obsessed. A connection that is there and not there is a form of spontaneity; an intersection that is either deep or shallow is a sign of默契. You can freely discuss, or silently confront each other; you can be closely connected, or distant without seeing each other.

38. 比较通透的一段话：“以前心心念念的东西，现在不想要了；以前较真的事情，现在也没那么在乎了。人一旦过了那股劲儿，很多事情并没有想象中那么重要。

38. A more transparent passage: "What used to be a constant thought in my heart is no longer desired now; what used to be a matter of contention is no longer a concern. Once a person passes that phase, many things are not as important as they seem."

39. 如果真的有人让你难以忘记，去找他，一颗心吊着，比一颗心死了还要难受。

39. If there really is someone who makes you unforgettable, go find them. Being constantly on your mind is worse than having a heart that's already dead.

40. 充实的思想不在于言语的富丽，它引以自傲的是内容，不是虚饰。这就需要多阅读，多交流，你我正在进行后者，所以此刻我感到充实!

40. Rich thoughts do not lie in the grandeur of words; what they boast is the content, not the embellishment. This requires extensive reading and communication, and we are engaged in the latter at this moment, which is why I feel so fulfilled!

41. 20时间回不到开始的地方，对于已经错过的，不用再试着去挽留，错过了就错过了。有些东西原本就是让我牵挂而不是获取的。难忘的人，做过的梦，有过的期待，走过的路，有一些自己认为该珍惜的，现在又如何呢！收拾一下心情扔掉旧的才能有地方放新的！一段情散了，就忘了吧！再美好的回忆也只是昨天。

41. It's impossible to return to the starting point in 20 years. For what has been missed, there's no need to try and hold on to it any longer; once missed, it's gone. Some things were meant to be cherished, not acquired. The unforgettable people, the dreams I've had, the expectations I've had, the paths I've walked, there are some things I think I should treasure. But what now? Tidy up your feelings and discard the old to make room for the new! If a relationship has ended, just let it go. No matter how beautiful the memories, they are just from yesterday.

42. 咱们最之后到以前憧憬的年纪，却发现已经有人订婚有人结婚有人出国有人生活顺利有人坚持梦想有人碌碌无为……就像是一个分水岭，毕业时的那个蓝天早已消失不见，那个和你在操场边说着要一齐走到未来的人，也早就不知道去了哪里。看着窗外的天，突然就黑了，感觉像咱们的青春，突然就没了。

42. We finally reached the age we had longed for, only to find that some have gotten engaged, some have married, some have gone abroad, some are living smoothly, some are pursuing their dreams, and some are aimlessly wandering... It's as if there's a dividing line, the blue sky at graduation is long gone, and the person who said they would walk into the future with you on the playground has long since disappeared. Looking at the sky outside the window, it suddenly got dark, and I felt like our youth just vanished overnight.

43. 在这个无理取闹的世界，连吃醋都是需要资格的。

43. In this unreasonable world, even being jealous requires qualifications.

44. 总在不经意的年生，回首彼岸，纵然发现光景绵长。

44. Always in the unexpected years, looking back to the other shore, even if I find the scenery endless.

45. 物尽其用不得浪费，人尽其才不得偷懒。节约成宝，勤劳致富。浪费是一种损失，偷懒等于埋葬了前程。

45. Make full use of things and do not waste them; make full use of talents and do not be lazy. Frugality turns waste into treasure, and diligence leads to wealth. Waste is a loss, and laziness is equivalent to burying one's future.

46. 18人生最难得心安二字。所谓心安,就是心里没有后悔的事、没有亏心的事、没有想不开的事，不为名所累，不为利所役，清清白白做人，干干净净做事。如果患得患失，心浮气躁，人生就会疲惫不堪、了无生气。唯有保持一颗宁静的心，不眼热权势，不艳羡富贵，活得纯粹、活得自然，才能求得一个心安。

46. The most difficult thing in life is to have peace of mind. What is meant by peace of mind is to have no regrets, no guilty feelings, and no unresolved issues in the heart. Not to be burdened by fame, not to be enslaved by wealth, to live cleanly and do things cleanly. If one worries about gains and losses, and is restless and impatient, life will become extremely weary and devoid of vitality. Only by maintaining a tranquil heart, not envying power and not coveting wealth, living purely and naturally, can one seek true peace of mind.

47. 33我问时间：怎样才能留住你？时间说：你走过的每一步路，爱过的每一个人，做过的每一件事，其实都有我的印记。

47. 33 I ask time: How can I keep you? Time says: Every step you've taken, every person you've loved, every thing you've done, all have my mark on them.

48. 真理往往简洁明了，也许一群蚂蚁，就诠释了生命和团结的伟大;也许一个微笑，就包含着自信和善良的力量;也许一抹云彩，就彰显了生活与自由的美好。

48. Truth is often concise and clear, perhaps a swarm of ants embodies the greatness of life and unity; perhaps a smile contains the power of confidence and kindness; perhaps a streak of cloud showcases the beauty of life and freedom.

49. 命运给予自己什么，自己就接受什么。如果自己的能力只能穷困潦倒，那就接受平凡的现状，安于恬淡的生活。

49. Accept what fate gives to oneself. If one's abilities can only lead to poverty, then accept the ordinary status quo and be content with a tranquil life.

50. 3有许多事，在你还不懂得珍惜之前，已成旧事；有许多人，在你还来不及用心之前，已成旧人。

50. 3 There are many things that become old before you have a chance to cherish them; there are many people who become old before you have time to invest your heart in them.

51. 和你在一起的每一秒都是快乐的，即便伤心也是心甘情愿的

51. Every second spent with you is joyful, even the moments of sadness are offered with willingness.

52. 命运不是放下，而是发奋。命运不是运气，而是选取。命运不是等待，而是把握。命运不是名词，而是动词。要改变命运，先改变观念。决定这天的不是这天，而是昨日对人生的态度；决定明天的不是明天，而是这天对事业的作为。咱们的这天由过去决定，咱们的明天由这天决定。

52. Fate is not about giving up, but about striving. Fate is not luck, but choice. Fate is not waiting, but seizing. Fate is not a noun, but a verb. To change fate, one must first change one's mindset. What determines today is not today itself, but yesterday's attitude towards life; what determines tomorrow is not tomorrow, but today's actions towards one's career. Our today is determined by the past, and our tomorrow is determined by today.

53. 该干时会干是一种能力，不该干时不干是一种智慧，知道什么时候该干什么时候不该干是一种成熟;该靠前时靠前是一种派头，不该靠前时不靠前是一种知趣，知道什么时候靠前什么时候不靠前是一种修炼;能当狮子是一种威仪，能当狐狸是一种谋略，知道什么时候该当狮子什么时候该当狐狸，是一种素养。

53. Being proactive when it's time to act is a skill, not acting when it's not appropriate is wisdom, knowing when to act and when not to is maturity; being forward when it's appropriate is a manner, not being forward when it's not is a sense of propriety, knowing when to be forward and when not to is a form of cultivation; being able to be a lion is a display of authority, being able to be a fox is a strategy, knowing when to be a lion and when to be a fox is a refinement of character.

54. 所谓最难忘的，就是从来不曾想起，却永远也不会忘记。

54. What is called the most unforgettable is that it is never remembered, yet it will never be forgotten.

55. 老是望着验证消息，想你回来认错了，却发现次次都是群消息。

55. Always staring at the verification message, hoping you'd come back to apologize, only to find out it's group messages each time.

56. 欣赏是一种给予、一种馨香、一种鼓励、一种赞赏、一种温暖、一种沟通与理解，一种信赖与祝福。用心欣赏生活，你会觉得更有乐趣!

56. Appreciation is a form of giving, a fragrance, an encouragement, a praise, a warmth, a communication and understanding, a trust and a blessing. Appreciate life with your heart, and you will find it more enjoyable!

57. 32人可以不美丽，但要健康；人可以不伟大，但要快乐；人可以不完美，但要追求。

57. Thirty-two people may not be beautiful, but they should be healthy; people may not be great, but they should be happy; people may not be perfect, but they should strive for it.

58. 16有时候哭泣不是因为难过。有一些东西错过了，就一辈子错过了。人是会变的，守住一个不变的承诺，却守不住一颗善变的心。有时候执着是一种负担，放弃是一种解脱，人没有完美，幸福没有一百分，知道自己没有能力一次拥有那么多，也没有权力要求那么多，否则苦了自己，也为难了对方。

58. Sometimes crying is not because of sadness. There are things that are missed and missed forever. People change, and while one can keep an unchanging promise, one cannot keep a heart that is prone to change. Sometimes, being执着 is a burden, and giving up is a release. People are not perfect, and happiness is not a hundred percent. Knowing that one does not have the ability to have so much at once, nor the right to demand so much, otherwise it will only make oneself suffer and also burden the other person.

59. 并不是只有眼泪才代表伤心并不是只有你才代表爱情。

59. It's not only tears that represent sadness, and it's not only you that represents love.

60. 我可以微笑面对，就当时是一场误会，失眠只怪罪喝过量咖啡。

60. I can smile and face it, considering it was just a misunderstanding; the insomnia is only to blame for the excessive coffee intake.

61. 4遗憾的事一再发生，但过后再追悔早知道如何如何是没有用的，那时候已经过去，你追念的人也已离开了你。

61. Unfortunately, the same mistakes keep happening over and over again, but it is useless to regret what could have been done differently after the fact. That time has passed, and the person you miss has already left you.

62. 结局和过程都有了，再去纠缠，连自我都觉得贪婪。

62. Both the outcome and the process are already there; to keep纠缠, even the self feels greedy.

63. 错过的已经够多了，如果爱过可不可以一辈子在一起

63. There have been too many missed opportunities. If we have loved each other, can't we stay together for a lifetime?

64. 21我们说过的话，做过的事，走过的路，遇过的人，每一个现在，都是我们以后的回忆。无须缅怀昨天，不必奢望明天，只要认真过好每个今天。说能说的话，做可做的事，走该走的路，见想见的人。脚踏实地，不漠视，不虚度，有缘无缘，一切随缘，保持一份好心情，就算心碎也要拥有最美的姿态。

64. The words we have said, the things we have done, the paths we have walked, and the people we have met, every moment now is a memory of our future. There is no need to yearn for yesterday, nor to indulge in the hope of tomorrow. Just live each today to the fullest. Say what you can say, do what you can do, walk the path you should, and meet the people you want to see. Be down-to-earth, not indifferent, not squandering time, and let everything be as it may. Maintain a good mood, even if your heart is broken, you should still own the most beautiful posture.

65. 不洗澡的人，硬擦香水是不会香的。名声与尊贵，来自真才实学--有德自然香。

65. For those who do not bathe, rubbing on perfume will not make them smell fragrant. Reputation and honor come from genuine talent and learning – virtue naturally brings fragrance.

66. 30很多时候，我们都是在寻找可以倾诉的人。有些话憋在心里会崩溃，需要出口；有些事扛在肩上是压力，需要分担。找一个畅所欲言的伴，让精神舒缓；守一份不离不弃的情，让心灵靠岸。

66. 30 Many times, we are searching for someone to confide in. Some words, when kept bottled up, can lead to a breakdown, and we need an outlet; some burdens, when carried alone, become stressful, and we need to share them. Find a companion with whom you can freely express yourself, to soothe your spirit; cherish a steadfast and unyielding affection, to find a haven for your soul.

67. 27所有的苦乐，有人懂；一切的努力有人知。

67. 27 All joys and sorrows have someone who understands them; all efforts are known to someone.

68. 学会适应，让你的环境变得明亮;学会调节，让你的心情不再忧伤;学会宽容，让你的生活没有麻烦;学会奉献，让你的生活充满阳光。

68. Learn to adapt, and let your environment become bright; learn to regulate, and let your mood no longer be sad; learn to be tolerant, and let your life be free of troubles; learn to be generous, and let your life be filled with sunshine.

69. 智慧是什么智慧是积极的人生态度，也是独立自主的人格;是宽容豁达的胸怀，也是坚韧不屈的品质;是对事业的追求，也是对家人的关爱;是激情中不乏沉静，也是平淡中不乏惊喜;是理智中不乏幽默，也是据理力争不乏计谋。

69. What is wisdom? Wisdom is a positive attitude towards life and an independent and self-reliant personality; it is a generous and open-minded bosom, as well as a tenacious and indomitable quality; it is the pursuit of one's career, as well as the care for one's family; it is calm amidst passion, and surprise amidst the mundane; it is humor amidst reason, and strategic arguing without lacking tactics.

70. 我知道无论我走到哪里，你都会陪在我身边。陪我哭，陪我笑，陪我等待，陪我开花。

70. I know no matter where I go, you will be by my side. Cry with me, laugh with me, wait with me, and bloom with me.

71. 我不知道人活在世上什么才是真正的快乐和幸福!但是我们往往把幸福定义在金钱和满足上，而往往忽略了另一方面。其实，与命运从容地抗争的过程也是一种幸福，这种幸福流光溢彩，让人感动!

71. I don't know what the true happiness and joy are in living on this earth! But we often define happiness in terms of wealth and satisfaction, while overlooking the other aspect. In fact, the process of calmly fighting against fate is also a kind of happiness, a happiness that is radiant and touching!

72. 感动，是一个扣人心弦的故事，是一场激烈无比的球赛，是一段迂回曲折的人间真情。学会感动，能让平凡人拥有生活的精彩，能让失败者拥有前进的动力!

72. Touching, it is a heart-wrenching story, an intense and unforgettable match, and a winding and winding path of human sincerity. Learning to be touched can give the ordinary person the brilliance of life, and can give the defeated the motivation to move forward!

73. 生命中令人悲伤的一件事是，你遇到了一个对你来说很重要的人，但却最终发现你们有缘无份，因此你不得不放手。

73. One of the saddest things in life is when you meet someone who is very important to you, but eventually you realize that you are not meant to be together, and thus you have to let go.

74. 幸福就像自来水，平日喝在口中没有特别的滋味，一旦失去却痛不欲生;当你用幸福的眼光来看待这个世界和自己的生活时，你会发现幸福竟然无处不在。

74. Happiness is like running water; when you drink it every day, it has no special taste, but once you lose it, it is painful to bear. When you view the world and your own life with the eyes of happiness, you will find that happiness is actually everywhere.

75. 孔子的学生颜回吃着粗茶淡饭，住在简陋的巷子里，身上没有钱财，别人忍受不了这样的痛苦，但颜回却不改其乐，这是因为他有一个丰富而强大的内心世界，只要有口饭吃，有张床睡，就可以把日子过得活色生香。

75. Confucius' student Yan Hui ate simple tea and coarse food, lived in a dilapidated alley, and had no money. Others could not bear such hardships, but Yan Hui did not change his joy. This is because he had a rich and strong inner world. As long as there was food to eat and a bed to sleep on, he could live a vibrant and colorful life.

76. 深蓝的不是天空不是海洋不是氧气是我的强词夺理不愿放弃你的决定

76. The deep blue isn't the sky, nor the ocean, nor oxygen; it's my stubborn argument, not wanting to give up your decision.

77. 在生命潮起的巅峰，享受它，让我知道自己的高度;在生命潮落的低谷，忍受它，让我知道自己的韧度;高潮和低谷，两者皆使我收获和喜悦!

77. At the peak of life's tide, enjoy it and let me know my height; at the low point of life's tide, endure it and let me know my resilience; both highs and lows, they both bring me harvest and joy!

78. 多想一不小心与你白头到老，只是我们相爱的时光太短暂

78. How I wish to grow old with you by accident, but the time we love each other is too short.

79. 29心若相知，无言也默契；情若相眷，不语也怜惜。

79. If hearts understand each other, words are unnecessary; if emotions are affectionate, silent words are also compassionate.

80. 善待自己，慢慢学会悲喜自渡，好好经营自己，好好爱自己，过好每一个当下，至于其他一切就随缘吧！”

80. Treat yourself kindly, gradually learn to navigate through joys and sorrows on your own, take good care of yourself, love yourself deeply, enjoy every moment, and let everything else be as it may!"

81. 不好说，离开以后还会想念；不好说，分手以后还是兄弟姐妹。离开一个地方，风景就不再属于你；错过一个人，那人便与你无关。

81. It's hard to say, but you'll miss it after leaving; it's hard to say, but you'll still be siblings after breaking up. Once you leave a place, the scenery no longer belongs to you; once you miss someone, that person will have no relation to you.

82. 择善人而交，择善书而读，择善言而听，择善行而从。

82. Choose good people to associate with, good books to read, good words to listen to, and good actions to follow.

83. 盲人为什么耳朵特别灵敏因为他们在用心听;耳聋者为什么注视你的嘴唇便知道你在说什么因为他们在用心看。做人之根本，在于用心。

83. Why are the ears of the blind especially sensitive? Because they listen with their hearts; why can the deaf understand what you're saying by watching your lips? Because they observe with their hearts. The essence of being a person lies in using one's heart.