1. 幸福是一种能力，你必须主动去寻找它。

1. Happiness is a skill that you must actively seek out.

2. 没有人有义务必须透过连你自己都毫不在意的邋遢外表去发现你优秀的内在。你必须精致。这是女人的尊严。

2. No one has an obligation to uncover your excellent inner self through a slovenly appearance that you yourself do not care about. You must be refined. This is a woman's dignity.

3. 你可以不成功，但你不能不成长。也许有人会阻碍你成功，但没人会阻挡你成长。

3. You may not be successful, but you cannot fail to grow. Maybe someone may hinder your success, but no one can prevent your growth.

4. 感情的事情并不是谁能把握得了，为什么要被一个男人而让自己陷入不愉快的心情中呢？一个不懂得欣赏你的男人，没有资格让你为他难过悲伤，每一个女孩都是美丽的，她在等待着一个懂她的男人出现，某个男人的离开，只能说那个懂你的男人还没有出现，男人不是女孩生活的全部。

4. Emotional matters are not something that anyone can control. Why let yourself be upset by a man? A man who doesn't appreciate you doesn't deserve to make you feel sad or down. Every girl is beautiful, and she is waiting for a man who understands her to appear. The departure of a man can only mean that the man who understands you has not yet appeared. Men are not the whole of a girl's life.

5. 找朋友聊天，但是我不喜欢跟别人在一块儿讨论恋情。原来在上海的时候，跟余秋雨和陈逸飞是特别好的朋友，隔一段，就想着约出来聊一聊。我还有一些企业家朋友，我很欣赏生意做得特别好的人。能把生意做大并强壮的人，一定是智商和情商都非常高的人。

5. I like to chat with friends, but I don't enjoy discussing relationships with others. When I was in Shanghai, I was particularly good friends with Yu Qianyu and Chen Yifei. After a while, I would think of inviting them out to chat. I also have some entrepreneurial friends; I admire people who do business exceptionally well. Those who can expand their business and make it strong must be people with very high IQ and EQ.

6. 一直以来他都很尊重我的选择，甚至为了我改变了自己的生活轨迹。当年我从美国回国内发展时，他毅然关掉了美国的公司跟我回来，而当我决定在北京工作后，他又为我定居北京。家庭幸福的关键，就是太太对的时候，丈夫要听，而太太介于对和错之间时，丈夫也要听。但是我也会参考他的意见。

6. He has always respected my choices, even changing his own life path for me. When I returned to China to develop my career, he resolutely closed down his company in the United States and came back with me. And when I decided to work in Beijing, he helped me settle down there as well. The key to family happiness is that when the wife is right, the husband should listen, and when the wife is between right and wrong, the husband should still listen. However, I will also take his opinions into consideration.

7. 我想给大家一句话，优秀的女人是没有好下场的，除非你找到一个好老公

7. I want to give you a phrase: An outstanding woman doesn't have a good ending, unless you find a good husband.

8. 怎么样经营一个幸福的家庭，首先要从思想上转变，既然已经结婚或准备结婚了，就不再是一个人单身生活或恋爱生活了，凡事都要以家庭大局为重，设身处地为家庭生活计划或事业规划着想。在经营家庭和婚姻关系中一定要树立家庭的长远目标和短期计划，这样夫妻就树立了共同的发展方向，在某种意义上讲经营婚姻家庭和企业经营大同小异，都需要一个发展方向和计划，这样夫妻才能统一思想，大家往一个方向努力。 比如，婚前没有买房的，想买一套房子，大家就应该树立共同努力做出一个买房的计划，除去每个月家庭生活基本开销，留多少来作为房子按揭款存在哪里不动，有了一种家庭购房计划，那么过不了几年，也可以将房子计划资金拿出来按揭一套房子了。所以夫妻经营家庭，在家庭规划方面非常关键啊！！

8. How to manage a happy family? First of all, there must be a change in thought. Since you are married or preparing for marriage, you are no longer living alone or in a romantic relationship. Everything should prioritize the overall situation of the family, and consider the family's living and career planning from the perspective of the family. In managing the family and marriage relationship, it is essential to establish long-term and short-term goals for the family. This way, the couple sets a common development direction. In a sense, managing a marriage and family is not much different from managing a business; both require a development direction and plan. Only in this way can the couple unify their thoughts and work towards a common goal. For example, if a couple did not buy a house before marriage and wants to buy one, they should establish a joint plan to buy a house. After deducting the basic family living expenses each month, they should decide how much to set aside as a mortgage payment and where to keep it. With a family home purchase plan, within a few years, they can take out the planned funds to finance the purchase of a house. Therefore, for a couple to manage a family, it is crucial to focus on family planning!

9. 女孩到了二十几岁后，就是正值青春年华，有着大把的青春可以放肆的崭放。女孩子可以适当的时候倔强一些，可以适当的时候骄傲一些，可以让那些美丽的嘴角微微的牵动着。二十几岁的女孩是最美的，可以肆意的笑，可以倔强的哭。

9. After reaching their twenties, girls are in the prime of their youth, with a wealth of youthful spirit to freely express. Girls can be a bit stubborn at appropriate times, can be a bit proud at appropriate times, and can allow those beautiful lips to slightly curve upwards. Girls in their twenties are the most beautiful, able to laugh freely, and able to cry stubbornly.

10. 有关幸福的一个公式是：幸福=当下快乐+未来价值，既不能只顾及时行乐，也不能为了未来目标而对自己过于严苛。

10. A formula for happiness is: Happiness = Present Joy + Future Value. One should not solely pursue immediate pleasure nor be overly harsh on oneself for future goals.

11. 就是这样一个嘈杂的时代，你的心情取决于你今天听到的声音来自的方向。面对海量信息的时代，有时你会无助地发现所有的声音劈头盖脸，毫无选择地将你淹没，让你没法搞清楚自己的心情究竟应该如何。

11. It is in such a noisy era that your mood depends on the direction from which the voices you hear today come. In the age of an overwhelming amount of information, you may sometimes feel helpless as all the voices come at you head-on, overwhelming you without giving you any choice, making it impossible for you to figure out how your mood should truly be.

12. 我经历过很多困惑，但我丈夫吴征就属于特别讲义气的那种，不管你怎么样，我就要跟你一块儿走。这种力量是蛮强大的。当你走过那段时，回过头你会特别感谢那个人。

12. I have experienced many confusions, but my husband Wu Zheng is particularly loyal and chivalrous; no matter what, I will follow you together. This kind of strength is quite powerful. When you pass through that period, looking back, you will especially be grateful to that person.

13. 兴趣是最好的老师，能做自己喜欢的事情是最幸福的。三十岁的时候，应该去想一想怎么样能够集中我的精力来做几件我自己最有兴趣去做、最愿意去做的事情。一旦烦心时也就多了一个可以释放的空间。

13. Interest is the best teacher, and being able to do what one likes is the happiest thing. At the age of thirty, one should think about how to focus one's energy on doing several things that one is most interested in and most willing to do. When feeling anxious, there will also be an additional space to release one's emotions.

14. 虽然我们一再强调，不要过分关注一个人的外表而忽视了其内在的品质，但我们也要认识到，一个人的名字，是一个品牌；一个人的形象，是一张名片。衣着得体，外表端庄是对他人的尊重，也是自我成熟的表现。没有人有义务必须透过连你i自己都毫不在意的邋遢外表，去发现你优秀的内在。

14. Although we have emphasized repeatedly not to pay too much attention to a person's appearance and neglect their inner qualities, we should also recognize that a person's name is a brand; a person's image is a business card. Dressing appropriately and looking presentable is a sign of respect for others and a manifestation of one's maturity. No one owes it to you to discover your excellent inner qualities through a disheveled appearance that you yourself pay no attention to.

15. ldquo;酷不仅仅是音乐和包装，更是一种生活态度。

15. "Cool is not just about music and packaging; it's more of a life attitude."

16. 经营一个幸福的家庭，夫妻之间要真诚对待对方，遇到什么事情要坦诚相待，用不着去遮遮掩掩的。因为有心要在一起，就应该让对方了解真实的自己，这样在家庭共同生活中更能了解彼此的性格，在婚姻磨合期中关系处理的的更好。在婚姻关系中要多体贴对方，关心对方的生活起居和饮食习惯。在夫妻生活中，生活习惯的磨合是非常重要的。比如夫妻生活在吃饭问题上，对方喜欢吃什么，不喜欢吃什么，这就需要彼此去综合这种饮食习惯了。并不是说，自己想吃什么，而对方又不喜欢吃，就不做对方喜欢的菜，这是不行的，关键还是看大家怎么去平衡了，再比如家务这些也是一样，也应该去平衡怎么做家务这些，是一方全包吗，还是共同承担吗，还是谁有时间谁做，轮流做吗等等，夫妻都可以共同沟通商量解决，切勿过于斤斤计较了。

16. To run a happy family, the couple should treat each other sincerely, and be honest in any situation without hiding things. Because if they have the intention to be together, they should let each other know the real self. In this way, they can better understand each other's characters in the common life of the family and handle the relationship better during the adjustment period of marriage. In the marital relationship, one should show more consideration for the other, care for their daily life and eating habits. In the life of a couple, it is very important to reconcile their habits. For example, in the issue of eating, what they like and dislike, this requires both to integrate these eating habits. It is not that if one likes to eat something while the other doesn't, one should not cook the dishes the other likes. This is not the way to go. The key is how to balance it. For example, household chores should also be balanced. Is it done entirely by one person, should it be shared, or is it done by whomever has time, in turns? Couples can communicate and discuss these issues together and should not be too meticulous about trivial matters.

17. 年轻时候最大的财富，不是你的青春，不是你的美貌，也不是你充沛的精力，而是你有犯错误的机会。如果你年轻时候都不能追随自己心里的那种强烈愿望，去为自己认为该干的事，冒一次风险，哪怕犯一次错误的话，那青春多么苍白啊！

17. The greatest wealth of youth is not your youth, not your beauty, nor your abundant energy, but the opportunity to make mistakes. If you cannot follow the strong desire in your heart, take a risk for what you believe should be done, even if it means making a mistake, then how pale is your youth!

18. 她知性，高贵，典雅的气质随着时间的积淀越发显现出特有的魅力。

18. She possesses an intellectual, noble, and elegant demeanor that becomes increasingly revealing of its unique charm with the passage of time.

19. 男人的帅不在脸蛋，而在岁月积淀下来的睿智与淡定。

19. The charm of a man does not lie in his facial features, but in the wisdom and composure that accumulate over the years.

20. 女人如果依附了一个男人，她就没有自己的思想。在这个个性使然的环境中，男人也都喜欢有个性有能力的女人。

20. If a woman depends on a man, she has no own thoughts. In this environment where personality is the norm, men all prefer women who are both independent and capable.

21. 女孩子可以在适当的时候倔强一些，骄傲一些，二十几岁的女孩是最美的，可以肆意的笑，可以倔强的哭。二十几岁的女孩要做最真的自己，最美的年华留给灿烂的微笑，敢爱敢恨，敢于追求。

21. Girls can be a bit stubborn and proud at the right time. Girls in their 20s are the most beautiful, able to laugh freely and cry stubbornly. Girls in their 20s should be the truest version of themselves, leaving the most beautiful years to radiant smiles, daring to love and hate, and daring to pursue.

22. 经营一个幸福的家庭，在夫妻发生不同意见或矛盾时，要尽可能地少吵架，采取协商解决的思想态度，这样一种良好的习惯养成后，许许多多问题或矛盾也会随之，大事化小，小事化了，忽略不计了。在夫妻发生矛盾时，切勿大吵大闹，甚至家暴这些不良行为，因为再吵再闹，事情已经发生了，也无济于事，重要的是迅速想出应对方案降低损失或弥补过失。

22. To run a happy family, when there are differences or conflicts between husband and wife, it is best to minimize arguments as much as possible and adopt a cooperative attitude to solve problems. Once this good habit is cultivated, many issues or conflicts will also be resolved, with major issues becoming minor and minor issues becoming negligible. Do not resort to loud争吵 or even domestic violence during conflicts, as further arguing will not change the situation that has already occurred and will not help. What is important is to quickly come up with a response plan to minimize losses or compensate for mistakes.

23. 现实总是不够完美，使得希望就象是一场**。输了很痛苦，那么宁可不追求吗？

23. Reality is always imperfect, making hope feel like a **game of chance**. If losing is so painful, should one not strive for it at all?

24. 女孩到了二十几岁后，就是一朵盛开最美丽的花，女孩的一季花期一定要记得只开给自己看，千万不要为了别人让自己的花期接受不必要的摧残。

24. After the girl reaches her twenties, she is like the most beautiful flower in full bloom. It is crucial to remember that the girl's flowering season should be cherished only for herself, and never let it suffer unnecessary harm for the sake of others.

25. 二十几岁的女孩不要怕输，青春才刚刚开始，我们有着输的资本，我们可以重新开始自己的追求。二十几岁的女孩要做最真的自己，最美的年华留给灿烂的微笑，让爱情都鲜明的呈现，要敢爱敢恨，敢于追求。

25. Girls in their twenties should not fear failure, for youth is just beginning, and we have the capital to lose. We can restart our pursuit. Girls in their twenties should be the most genuine version of themselves, leaving the most beautiful years to radiant smiles, allowing love to be vividly presented, and must be brave in both loving and hating, and bold in pursuing.

26. 爱是一颗心遇到另一颗心，而不是一张脸遇上另一张脸。

26. Love is a heart meeting another heart, not a face meeting another face.

27. 人生多变，你既不能只顾自己及时行乐，而忘了未来的未雨绸缪，也不能为了实现未来的目标，而从现在就开始做苦行僧，应该让两者适当相加，使自己更容易幸福。

27. Life is ever-changing. You cannot only focus on immediate enjoyment and forget about preparing for the future, nor can you start living like a hermit from now on to achieve future goals. It is appropriate to blend the two, making it easier for yourself to be happy.

28. 我很依赖我丈夫，不是生活，而是心理。我的感受对别人不会表现出来。只有对我丈夫，我会敞开。

28. I depend on my husband not for life but for psychological reasons. My feelings are not expressed to others. Only to my husband, I am open.

29. 辛辛苦苦，过舒服日子；舒舒服服，过辛苦日子。

29. Work hard to enjoy a comfortable life; live comfortably to endure hard times.

30. 幸福不是从天上掉下来的，而是从自己心里长出来的。

30. Happiness does not fall from the sky, but grows from within one's own heart.

31. 婚姻需要爱情之外的另一种纽带，最强韧的一种不是孩子，不是金钱，而是关于精神的共同成长，那是一种伙伴的关系。

31. Marriage requires a bond beyond love, the strongest of which is not children, not money, but the shared growth of spirit; it is a partnership.

32. 我认为婚姻最坚韧的纽带不是孩子，不是金钱，而是精神上的共同成长。爱情有时候也是一种义气，不光是说这个人得了重病，或者他破产了你仍然跟他在一起。

32. I believe that the most enduring bond in marriage is not children, not money, but the spiritual growth together. Love can also be a form of loyalty, not just the fact that you stay with this person when they are seriously ill, or when they go bankrupt.

33. 人生是很不定的，就像我乘热气球的经历。热气球的操作员能做的只是调整气球的高度以捕捉不同的风向，而气球的具体航线和落点，就只能听天由命了。这也正是乘坐热气球的魅力。

33. Life is unpredictable, just like my experience of riding in a hot air balloon. The operator of the hot air balloon can only adjust the height of the balloon to catch different wind directions, and the specific route and landing point of the balloon can only be left to fate. This is exactly what makes riding in a hot air balloon so charming.

34. 我记得有一次我先生飞到德国看世界杯，我决心跟孩子一起做次饭。我已经十年没有下厨了，那次我和孩子们一起讨论食谱、去超市，比较超市蔬菜和家门口的差价，给孩子灌输价格概念，跟儿子顺便做两道数学题，然后，回到厨房，三个厨房新手兴致勃勃地做了一次大餐。

34. I remember once when my husband flew to Germany to watch the World Cup, I decided to cook a meal together with the children. It had been ten years since I last cooked, so that time, I discussed the recipes with the kids, went to the supermarket, compared the prices of vegetables in the supermarket with those at our doorstep, instilled the concept of prices in the children, and also did two math problems with my son on the way. Then, back in the kitchen, the three kitchen novices enthusiastically prepared a grand meal.

35. 电视里的白马王子与灰姑娘都是生活里的男孩或女孩向往的，它并不是真的存在的，女孩子不应该再沉溺于这种造假的童话氛围里了，就会让它们直接影响自己的人生观与价值观，像一夜暴富或是一夜间一贫如洗在生活里或许会有，爱情与亲情也没有影片里的那样绝决与残忍。?>

35. The白马王子 and the Cinderella in the TV are the boys or girls in real life longing for, but they are not really existing. Girls should no longer be immersed in this artificial fairy tale atmosphere, as it could directly affect their outlook on life and values. In real life, there may be instances of sudden wealth or poverty, and love and family relationships are not as decisive and cruel as depicted in the movies.

36. 是什么让我们在不断的失望后继续前行？是一种叫做希望的东西。

36. What drives us to continue moving forward despite constant disappointment? It's something called hope.

37. 在夫妻共同生活中，难免会有双方父母长期同住或双方父母来小住耍的'情况，这里面就会有婆媳关系的处理或岳父母关系的处理，在处理双方父母关系中，夫妻都应该尊重对方的父母，这是夫妻经营好家庭的前提，比如男女一方父母来耍，或亲戚朋友来耍，若另一方就摆出一副不高不兴的样子，或表现出不欢迎的态度，那么在亲戚朋友走后，难免就会引起争论或吵架了，这些都是夫妻经营的关键之处，希望朋友们引起高度重视。要想双方都尊重对方父母，这就需要一方做好榜样，热情地接待对方父母，使其看到孝顺对方父母，这样自然而然另一方也会跟着孝顺父母。 如何经营一个幸福的婚姻家庭3 幸福婚姻需要经营 新东方创始人俞敏洪，曾经说过：“企业需要经营，婚姻同样需要经营。经营好了，才会家庭美满。” 其实，想要婚姻幸福，首先得学会经营。因为幸福是一种心情，是一种自我感受到的愉悦心情，幸福不是商品，并不是用金钱买来的。 正如一句话所说：婚姻是需要管理的，真诚相爱不一定就是幸福，只有激情也不一定会幸福。婚姻是需要用心经营的，幸福的婚姻是靠自己一点一滴地经营出来的。 那么，婚姻如何才能通过经营获得幸福呢？其实，经营婚姻需要做到5个方面。 经营婚姻需要坚守信任 信任是婚姻的基础，是夫妻俩走过婚姻旅程的通行证，没有信任的婚姻是不可能托付终身、相依相伴的。夫妻间的不信任导致婚姻破灭的例子并不少见。 英国作家莎士比亚《奥赛罗》的主人翁奥赛罗，因为发现自己第一次送给妻子苔丝梦娜的礼物——绣着草莓花样的手帕，在另一个男子的屋里，便断定妻子是“人尽可夫的娼妇”，并在谗言的挑拨下，被猜疑之火遮蔽了双眼，狂怒中亲手杀死、美丽贞洁的妻子苔丝梦娜，上演了一出千古悲剧。 实际上，在我们的现实生活中，也时时可见“奥赛罗”的悲剧上演。妻子与老同学聚会，丈夫怀疑妻子精神出轨；丈夫晚回家几个小时，妻子怀疑丈夫在外面是不是有了情人？丈夫出差在外，妻子怀疑丈夫行为不轨；妻子老家来人，丈夫怀疑妻子偷偷地给老家人钱等等。 可见，婚姻生活一旦丧失了信任这个基础，矛盾与冲突在所难免，最后闹得夫妻双方反目成仇，不得不离婚收场。 说到底，信任是幸福婚姻的基石，有了它，夫妻间就有了折不断的情愫。 经营婚姻需要真心付出 人的一生不能没有爱情，一份美好的爱情，不仅是浪漫的，更是让人感动的，它能让人学会如何去舍得真心，学会付出。 杨澜曾说过这样一段话：婚姻需要爱情之外的另一种纽带，最强韧的一种不是孩子，不是金钱，而是关于精神的共同成长，那时一种伙伴关系。在最无助和软弱的时候，有他托起你的下巴，挺直你的脊梁，命令你坚强，并陪伴你左右，共同承受命运。那时候，你们之间的感情除了爱，还有肝胆相照的义气，不离不弃的默契，以及刻骨铭心的恩情。 在婚姻生活中，爱与情的表现是多种多样的，但最重要的一点是，你舍得将自己的一片真心托付给对方，用真心付出才能换来真心，两个真心相待的人，才会将爱情坚持到底，才会为创造幸福的婚姻而努力。 经营婚姻需要学会包容 婚姻中的两个人在一起生活久了，难免会有磕磕绊绊。因此，日常生活琐碎细节中的宽容才更能体现爱的真挚。生活本来就是平淡的，在激情渐渐退去之后，接下来的便是更实际的生活。在实际的日常生活中，夫妻间的差异是客观存在的，需要彼此宽容地看待对方的不足，真诚地包容对方的不足，需要互相了解和体谅，才能为家庭创造和谐与幸福，这样的婚姻才是美好和长久的。 经营婚姻需要制造浪漫 在生活中，浪漫虽然不想柴米油盐那么实实在在，但是，也是婚姻中的小插曲，浪漫能够为平淡的生活带来惊喜，还能使夫妻间心与心的距离更近，钱钟书与杨绛夫妇对待婚姻生活的态度是很浪漫的。钱钟书与杨绛在“反右”的时候，曾经一起被下放到地方农场去劳动，当时，在那个偏僻的小山村里，他们分居于不同的男女集体宿舍，一周只能见一次面，但年过半百的他们依然浪漫如初，经常像年轻人那样悄悄去雪地约会探亲、隔溪幽会，偶尔聚拢在一起，犹如新婚燕尔。 浪漫不是用金钱买来的，不必非要用贵重的物品来赢得对方的惊喜，只要用心，一些不经意的小东西和小举动，一样也能达到制造浪漫和小惊喜的效果，都能让对方感受到暖暖的爱意。因此，经营婚姻需要制造浪漫，给平淡的婚姻增加点保鲜剂。 经营婚姻不需要无谓攀比 攀比的本质是嫉妒、虚荣，是欲望的永无止境。在婚姻上的盲目攀比是不可取的，它只能滋长人们的虚荣心，甚至嫉妒、嫉恨，导致心灵的扭曲，导致家庭的解体。 在生活中，很多人都喜欢拿自己的婚姻生活和别人比较，有时甚至还会向自己的另一半发牢骚：“隔壁小张的丈夫工资那么高，怎么你赚来的钱连养家都不够？”“老李的妻子每天连洗脚水都给打好了，可你却总是让我伺候你！”类似的攀比几乎无处不在。这样的无谓攀比，会破坏自己家庭的幸福生活。 其实，在婚姻生活中，我们不必对自己的婚姻太苛求，也不要把时间浪费在和别人的比较上，不要做无谓的攀比，应该与自己赛跑。从实际出发，以自己的家庭情况为基础，如果我们现在比过去有了进步，比昨天过得好，就是进步。与其羡慕别人的婚姻是多么完美，不如努力完善自己的婚姻，让它变得更加和谐美好。 婚姻不是爱情的坟墓，婚姻需要经营，幸福的婚姻家庭更需要用心地经营。

37. In the joint life of husband and wife, it is inevitable that both sets of parents may live together for a long time or visit for short stays. This involves handling relationships between in-laws or between parents-in-law. In dealing with the relationship between both sets of parents, both the husband and wife should respect their respective parents, which is a prerequisite for managing a good family. For example, if one party's parents visit, or relatives and friends come to visit, and the other party puts on an unenthusiastic attitude or shows an unwelcome demeanor, then after the relatives and friends leave, disputes or arguments are bound to arise. These are key points for managing a family. I hope friends give these issues great attention. To have both parties respect each other's parents, one needs to set a good example, warmly receiving the other party's parents, making them see the filial piety towards their parents, so that the other party will naturally follow suit. How to run a happy marriage and family 3 A happy marriage requires management. The founder of New Oriental, Yu Minhong, once said: "Business requires management, and marriage requires management as well. A well-managed marriage will lead to a happy family." In fact, to have a happy marriage, one must first learn how to manage. Because happiness is a state of mind, a pleasant state of self-perceived joy. Happiness is not a commodity, it cannot be bought with money. As a saying goes: Marriage requires management; sincere love is not necessarily happiness, nor is passion necessarily happiness. Marriage requires careful management, and a happy marriage is achieved through the continuous efforts of both parties. So, how can a marriage achieve happiness through management? In fact, managing a marriage requires five aspects. Managing a marriage requires maintaining trust. Trust is the foundation of marriage, the pass for the couple to traverse their marriage journey. A marriage without trust is impossible to commit to and depend on for life. It is not uncommon for the lack of trust between couples to lead to the collapse of the marriage. In Shakespeare's "Othello" by the British writer Shakespeare, the protagonist Othello, after discovering that the handkerchief he first gave to his wife, Tess Dreamna, embroidered with strawberry flowers, was in another man's room, concluded that his wife was a "common slut" and, under the provocation of malicious rumors, was blinded by suspicion, and in a fit of rage, killed his beautiful and chaste wife, Tess Dreamna, in a timeless tragedy. Actually, in our real life, we can often see the tragedy of "Othello" being acted out. The wife attends a gathering with old classmates, and the husband suspects that she has spiritually cheated on him; the husband comes home a few hours late, and the wife suspects whether he has a mistress outside; the husband is traveling on business, and the wife suspects his behavior is not proper; when the wife's relatives visit, the husband suspects she secretly gives money to her relatives, etc. As can be seen, once trust is lost in the foundation of marriage life, conflicts and conflicts are inevitable, and in the end, the couple may turn against each other and have to end the marriage. In the end, trust is the cornerstone of a happy marriage, and with it, couples have an unbreakable sentiment. Managing a marriage requires sincere dedication. One cannot live without love in one's life. A beautiful love is not only romantic but also moving, teaching one how to be willing to sacrifice sincerity and how to give. Yang Lan once said: "Marriage requires another bond beyond love, the most robust of which is not children, not money, but common spiritual growth, which is a kind of partnership. In the most helpless and weakest moments, he holds up your chin, straightens your back, commands you to be strong, and accompanies you, enduring destiny together. At that time, the feeling between you is not only love but also the brotherhood of the heart, the tacit understanding of not leaving each other, and the unforgettable love and kindness." In the life of marriage, the expression of love and affection is diverse, but the most important point is that you are willing to entrust your sincerity to each other, and only through sincere dedication can you earn sincerity, and only when two people with sincerity treat each other with sincerity can they persevere in love and strive to create a happy marriage. Managing a marriage requires learning to be tolerant. When two people live together in marriage for a long time, it is inevitable that there will be setbacks. Therefore, the tolerance in the trivial details of daily life is more able to reflect the sincerity of love. Life is originally平淡的, after the passion gradually subsides, the next is more realistic life. In the actual daily life, the differences between couples are objectively existing, which require mutual tolerance for each other's shortcomings, sincerely embracing each other's shortcomings, and needing mutual understanding and tolerance in order to create harmony and happiness for the family. Such a marriage is beautiful and long-lasting. Managing a marriage requires creating romance. In life, romance is not as tangible as rice, oil, salt, and sauce, but it is also an interlude in marriage. Romance can bring surprises to plain life, and it can also make the hearts of both parties closer. Qian Zhongshu and Yang Zhenbao had a very romantic attitude towards their marriage life. Qian Zhongshu and Yang Zhenbao were once sent to a local farm for labor during the "Campaign to Criticize and Purge Rightists". At that time, in that remote small mountain village, they lived in separate men's and women's collective dormitories, and could only see each other once a week, but they remained as romantic as young people over fifty, often going on secret dates in the snow or crossing a stream to meet each other, and occasionally gathering together, like newlyweds. Romance is not bought with money, and it is not necessary to use expensive items to win the surprise of the other party. As long as you put your heart into it, some unintentional little things and little actions can also achieve the effect of creating romance and small surprises, and can make the other party feel the warmth of love. Therefore, managing a marriage requires creating romance, adding some preservatives to the bland marriage. Managing a marriage does not require meaningless comparison. The essence of comparison is jealousy, vanity, and the endless pursuit of desires. Blind comparison in marriage is not advisable, as it can only foster people's vanity, even jealousy and resentment, leading to a distortion of the soul and the disintegration of the family. In life, many people like to compare their own marital life with others, sometimes even complaining to their other half: "Why doesn't your salary from next door's Xiao Zhang's husband even suffice to support the family?" "Old Li's wife even prepares the foot bath every day, but you always make me serve you!" Such comparisons are almost everywhere. Such meaningless comparisons will destroy the happiness of your own family life. In fact, in the life of marriage, we don't have to be too demanding of our own marriage, nor should we waste our time comparing ourselves to others. We should not engage in meaningless comparisons but should run a race with ourselves. Starting from reality and based on the conditions of our own family, if we have made progress from the past and lived better than yesterday, that is progress. It's better to strive to perfect your own marriage instead of envying others' perfect marriages. Marriage is not the graveyard of love; marriage requires management, and a happy marriage and family requires careful management.

38. 所有的感情，爱情、亲情、友情都不是个固定值，并且它们在嘴上说的都不算，一遇到事情立马见分晓。

38. All emotions, love, filial piety, and friendship, are not fixed values; what is said on the lips does not count, and they are immediately revealed upon encountering any issues.

39. 年轻的时候，当你一开始得到太容易了，你觉得那是自我努力的结果，只有回头了，当你更成熟了以后，你发现实际上是很多人托着你的。

39. When you were young, when you first received too easily, you thought it was the result of your own efforts. Only when you look back, and become more mature, do you realize that it was actually many people supporting you.

40. 如何经营一个幸福的婚姻家庭 如何经营一个幸福的婚姻家庭。家庭的和睦是多方影响的，只有互相尊敬爱护才会有良好的家庭关系，这样家庭的氛围才能好，下面和大家分享如何经营一个幸福的婚姻家庭。 如何经营一个幸福的婚姻家庭1 不管是情侣还是夫妻，这两者之间的感情都是相互的。 女人有时候会特别爱索取，结了婚老公工资都交给了你，还要求老公出钱陪你过各种节日，给你买礼物送惊喜，那就会有些无理取闹了。有时候我们也要回头想一想，我们为对方付出了多少？我们需要关爱呵护，同样对方也是需要这些情感需要的，所以，感情是相互的，不要一味的想着索取，也要给自己的爱人多一些关怀。 给彼此足够的空间。 很多婚姻就是受到了各种束缚才走向破裂的:同事聚餐的时间不得超过几点回家，朋友一起逛街一个又一个的电话催着回家，甚至和异性同事一起吃饭都要管着……，这不是爱，甚至算不上愚爱，这是自私的表现。可以给双方多些自己的空间，女人可以逛逛街，买买东西，男人可以和朋友一起吃点喝点，搓搓麻将……，这样两个人就不会因为一些鸡毛蒜皮的小事而争吵，导致感情受损。有些人的感情适合两个人在一起，有些人的感情就不能两个人见面，一见面就争吵，这样的话就要多给彼此一些空间，好好调整一下情绪，双方也都能反思一下。 要有包容心。 婚后生活争吵是在所难免的，而这种争吵多半是“公说公有理，婆说婆有理”，说的再多都解决不了问题。结婚前两个人原生家庭的生活环境和方式都不同，既然能结为夫妻，就各自多付出一些爱，互相包容，互相担待，时间会磨掉两个人的棱角，这就是婚姻需要的适应的过程。 提升自己的吸引力。 有一句话是这样说的:两个人本来是同时走的，但是当他已经走到10楼了，你才走到二楼，那么他看到了更好的风景，还愿意返回二楼去见看过的那点风景吗？所以婚姻中不要停止学习，要时刻充实自己，最起码自己要能看得起自己，要注重提升自己的能力，使人常看常新。 幸福的婚姻要靠两个人共同经营，夫妻在日复一日的感情生活中，之前所想要掩盖的缺点都会一一暴露出来，婚姻和恋爱不一样，婚姻需要各种感情的维持。也希望大家在婚姻中多一些相互之间的包容，给彼此多一些空间，不断提升自己，给自己制造惊喜，也给Ta个惊喜… 如何经营一个幸福的婚姻家庭2

40. How to Run a Happy Marriage and Family How to Run a Happy Marriage and Family. The harmony of a family is influenced by many factors. Only with mutual respect and love can there be a good family relationship, and only then can the atmosphere of the family be good. Below, I will share with everyone how to run a happy marriage and family. How to Run a Happy Marriage and Family 1 Whether it's a couple or a married couple, the feelings between them are mutual. Sometimes, women may be overly demanding. After marriage, if the husband hands over his salary to you and still expects him to spend money on various holidays, buying gifts, and surprising you, it might be a bit unreasonable. Sometimes, we also need to think about how much we have given to each other. We need care and protection, and so does the other person. Therefore, love is mutual. Don't just think about taking, but also give your lover more care. Give each other enough space. Many marriages break down because of various constraints: the time to return home after a colleague's dinner party should not exceed a certain point, friends calling to urge you home while shopping, even having to monitor meals with colleagues of the opposite sex... This is not love, even less so foolish love; it is a manifestation of selfishness. It is better to give each other more personal space: women can go shopping, buy things, and men can have a drink with friends, play Mahjong... In this way, the two of them will not argue over trivial matters, which may damage their feelings. Some people's relationships are better when they are together, while others cannot stand to see each other and argue as soon as they meet. In such cases, it is better to give each other more space, adjust emotions well, and reflect on each other. Be tolerant. It is inevitable to have arguments in married life, and most of these arguments are "each side has its own reason, and the other side has its own reason." No matter how much is said, it won't solve the problem. Both people come from different family backgrounds and lifestyles before marriage. Since they can get married, they should give more love to each other, be tolerant and bear with each other. Time will smooth out the edges of the two people, which is the process of adaptation needed in marriage. Enhance your attractiveness. There is a saying: originally, the two of them were walking together, but when he has reached the 10th floor, you are only on the second floor. He has seen better scenery, but is he willing to return to the second floor to see the scenery he has seen? Therefore, in marriage, don't stop learning, always enrich yourself, at least be able to respect yourself, pay attention to improving your abilities, and keep yourself fresh. A happy marriage requires the joint efforts of both parties. In the daily emotional life of marriage, the shortcomings that were once hidden will be exposed one by one. Marriage is different from romance; it needs to maintain various emotions. I also hope that everyone can show more tolerance in marriage, give each other more space, continuously improve themselves, create surprises for themselves, and also for each other... How to Run a Happy Marriage and Family 2

41. 二十几岁的女孩是一杯清茶，其中的清秀一定要留给懂得品尝的人，别让那些没有品味的人践踏了你的清纯气息。二十几岁的女孩是片蔚蓝色的天空，它可是悲伤的，也可以是宽敞的，但，请记住，它一定是有追求的。

41. A girl in her twenties is a cup of clear tea, and her elegance must be reserved for those who know how to appreciate it. Don't let those without taste trample upon your pure atmosphere. A girl in her twenties is a vast blue sky, which can be sorrowful, or it can be spacious, but remember, it must have aspirations.

42. 有时命运的戏谑就在于，你一直犹豫不决，等到终于下定决心，已经到了谢幕的时间。

42. Sometimes the joke of fate is that you keep hesitating, and by the time you finally make up your mind, it's already time for the curtain call.

43. 对于三十岁的女性来说，美丽需要升级。就像高露洁的那句广告词：全面升级到健白。三十岁女性追求的已经不只是外表，而应该更注重内在。健康的理念、健康的方式和健康的身心都会让美丽全面升级。

43. For women in their thirties, beauty requires an upgrade. As the Colgate advertisement goes: "Completely upgrade to a healthier white." Women in their thirties are no longer just pursuing external beauty; they should pay more attention to the inner self. The concept of health, the methods of maintaining health, and a healthy body and mind will all contribute to an overall upgrade of beauty.