揭开神秘幸运秘术：无畏、喜悦与健康共舞

Unveiling the Mysterious Art of Lucky Mysticism: Dancing Together in Bravery, Joy, and Health

1. 我爱你，才会向你袒露心灵的世界，向你展示所有的喜怒悲欢，只有对你不曾设防;我爱你，才会和你耍小脾气，无缘无故离你远远的，其实我只想走进你炙热的怀抱听你的心跳;我爱你，所以我给了你伤害我的权力，只要我能忍受，我会一直陪伴着你，你不能伤害我太多，冷了，会淡漠，痛了，会松手

1. I love you, that's why I reveal my inner world to you, showing you all my joys and sorrows, never having a defense against you; I love you, that's why I act childishly, arbitrarily keeping a distance from you, but actually, I just want to step into your warm embrace and listen to your heartbeat; I love you, so I gave you the power to hurt me, as long as I can bear it, I will always be by your side, you can't hurt me too much, for when it gets cold, I will become indifferent, and when it hurts, I will let go.

2. 一个曾经爱过你的人，忽然离你很远，咫尺之隔，却是天涯。曾经轰轰烈烈，曾经千回百转，曾经沾沾自喜，曾经柔肠寸断。到了最后，最悲哀的分手竟然是悄无声息。

2. A person who once loved you suddenly seems very far away, just a stone's throw yet as distant as the horizon. Once it was all passionate and tumultuous, once it was full of twists and turns, once it was smug, once it was heart-wrenching. In the end, the most tragic parting is one that happens without a sound.

3. “中国人相当多的不幸福感不是自己缺什么而造成的，而是看到别人比你多什么造成的。"

3. "A significant portion of the unhappiness among the Chinese is not caused by what they lack themselves, but by what they see others have more of."

4. 伤害让一个人成长，时间让一个人坚强，终了的爱情让两个人一夜之间都学会看透。

4. Injuries allow a person to grow, time makes a person strong, and the end of love teaches both to see through it overnight.

5. 最怕回忆突然翻滚绞痛着不平息，最怕听到你的消息

5. The most feared is the sudden surge of memories, aching and unrelenting, and the most feared is to hear your message.

6. 在仅有的一次生命中，只有两样东西，最值得珍视，就是心情和健康。

6. In the only life we have, there are only two things that are most worthy of cherishing: mood and health.

7. 不必害怕失败，大不了从头再来。如果彻底丧失了从头再来的本钱和机遇，那就随遇而安。

7. Do not fear failure; at worst, you can start over from scratch. If you have completely lost the capital and opportunities to start over, then just embrace what comes your way.

8. 我做梦都在奢求陪在你身边的那个人是我，而不是他

8. I dream of longing for the person who is by your side to be me, not him.

9. 选爱人的时候，选能力很重要，选态度更重要。但千万不要因为对方有态度能让你感动，就放弃了能力的选择。因为一个无能的人，可以感动你一时，却很难让你爱上一辈子。爱人不需要强大到让你崇拜，但至少也要有保护你的能力。

9. When choosing a partner, the ability is important, but the attitude is even more crucial. However, never give up the choice of ability just because the other person's attitude can move you. Because an incompetent person may move you for a moment, but it is very difficult to make you fall in love with them for a lifetime. A partner doesn't need to be so powerful that you admire them, but at least they should have the ability to protect you.

10. 曾经以为你是我的归属，到头来却发现，是我把心寄错了地址。现在，请你把它还给我!

10. Once I thought you were my place of belonging, only to find out in the end that I had sent my heart to the wrong address. Now, please return it to me!

11. 8自己和自己相处久了 原来缺点都就暴露出来了

11. After spending a lot of time with myself, I've realized that all my shortcomings have been exposed.

12. 有时候，我会好想拨通你的电话，只是想告诉你，我没有忘记你。有时候，我会好想紧紧的抱一抱你，那是因为难过，害怕永远不再有你。

12. Sometimes, I really want to pick up your phone just to tell you that I haven't forgotten you. Sometimes, I really want to give you a tight hug, and that's because I'm sad and afraid that I'll never have you again.

13. 10在某一刻，你有没有很想， 回到某年某月的某天。

13.10 At a moment, have you ever wished to go back to a specific year, month, and day.

14. 还会不会有一个人让我像个孩子一样，遇见了就勇敢去爱

14. Will there still be someone who makes me act like a child, loving bravely whenever I meet them?

15. 我喜欢生活充满挑战性，并自生活的每项经验中学习。

15. I enjoy a life full of challenges and learn from every experience in life.

16. 身体的健康、心理的健康和文化的健康，始终陪伴着着我成长，不断让我在成功的道路上奋勇前进。

16. Physical health, mental health, and cultural health have always accompanied my growth, constantly motivating me to press forward on the road to success.

17. 欢乐是长寿的妙药，勤奋是健康的灵丹，运动是健康的投资，长寿是健身的回报，相逢莫问留春术，淡泊宁静比药好！

17. Joy is the elixir of longevity, diligence the divine medicine for health, exercise the investment in health, and longevity the reward of fitness. When you meet, do not ask for the art of preserving spring, for tranquility and detachment are better than any medicine!

18. 爱情是灯，友情是影子，当灯灭了，你会发现你的周围都是影子。

18. Love is a lamp, friendship is a shadow. When the lamp goes out, you will find that all around you are shadows.

19. 人生的结局都是死亡，我们没有必要怕这怕那，喜欢的事情就勇敢的去做，在乎的人就好好的珍惜，全力以赴的追逐想要的星辰大海，中间可能发生的一切都无所畏惧。

19. The end of life is death for all, and there is no need to be afraid of this or that. Just courageously pursue the things you like, treasure the people who matter to you, and give your all in chasing the stars and the boundless sea you desire. Fear not any of the possibilities that may arise along the way.

20. 最大的幸福就是我起床睁开眼睛的时候，你还在甜美的熟睡着。

20. The greatest happiness is when I wake up and open my eyes, and you are still peacefully sleeping in a sweet slumber.

21. 人生只有一次，它提醒我要珍惜这易逝的时光。

21. Life is only once, and it reminds me to cherish this fleeting time.

22. 善待自己，幸福无比；善待别人，快乐无比；善待生命，健康无比！

22. Treat yourself kindly, and happiness is boundless; treat others kindly, and joy is boundless; treat life kindly, and health is boundless!

23. 孤独的时候，偶尔觉得孤单，寂寞地让人想发狂；但大多数时间还是会觉得安宁，安静让人觉得满足,心平气和的面对生活乐趣和压力。也许孤独更加孤独,更加地习惯和喜欢孤独。

23. When alone, I sometimes feel lonely, and the loneliness is so overwhelming it makes me want to go crazy. But most of the time, I still feel peaceful, and the tranquility satisfies me. I face the joys and pressures of life with a calm and composed heart. Perhaps loneliness is more lonely, but I am more accustomed to and prefer it.

24. 总有一种感动，叫做只有你懂。总有一种爱情，叫做只对你好。总有一种思念，叫做来到你身边。人生里会遇到许多人，有时候你会想将就一下算了，但将就意味错失你真正想要的。所以，你到底是想要尽快，还是想要美好。是想要立刻拥有，还是长长久久。没有等待，怎么有未来。

24. There is always a kind of touching, called "only you understand." There is always a kind of love, called "only good to you." There is always a kind of longing, called "being by your side." In life, you will meet many people, and sometimes you may want to compromise and just let it be, but compromising means missing out on what you truly desire. So, do you want it quickly or do you want it to be beautiful? Do you want to possess it immediately or do you want it to last a long time? Without waiting, how can there be a future?

25. 曾经也有一个笑容出现在我的生命里，可是最后还是如雾般消散，而那个笑容，就成为我心中深深埋藏的一条湍急河流，无法泅渡，那河流的声音，就成为我每日每夜绝望的歌唱。

25. Once, a smile appeared in my life, but in the end, it dispersed like mist. That smile has become a raging river deeply buried in my heart, one that I cannot cross. The sound of that river has become the despairing song I sing every day and night.

26. 爱上你纯属一个意外，但还是想一直就这样爱下去

26. Falling in love with you was purely by accident, but I still want to continue loving you this way forever.

27. 以学习成绩好的学生为例。如果他们将自己与那些学习成绩更好的人进行比较，那么他们就会有相对较低的和学业有关的自我评价；

27. Taking students with good academic performance as an example, if they compare themselves with those who have even better academic performance, they will have relatively lower self-evaluations related to their studies.

28. 时间久了，再深的感情也淡了，拒绝多了，再大的执念也放下了

28. Over time, even the deepest feelings fade, and after many refusals, even the strongest attachments are let go of.

29. 但愿有一天你会记起，我曾默默地，毫无希望地爱过你。我这扇门曾为你打开，只为你一人打开，现在，我要把它关上了。

29. May it be that one day you will remember, that I loved you silently, hopelessly. My door had been opened for you, only for you, and now, I am closing it.

30. 生活的美，来源于你对生活的热爱；友情的纯真，来源于你对朋友真诚相待。

30. The beauty of life comes from your love for it; the purity of friendship comes from your sincerity in treating your friends.

31. 被我们遗忘的，往往是最开心的。被我们记起的，往往是最痛苦的。

31. What we often forget is the happiest moments. What we remember are usually the most painful ones.

32. 说着放下，却总是在口是心非地挽留着，希望这一切不要消失的那么快，不要走得那么远。不是因为心太贪婪，也不是因为需要一直霸占，只是习惯着那些存在，习惯着那些温暖，也习惯了那些在身边，忽然的离去，总是措手不及，来不及转换新的生活。

32. Saying to put it down, yet always subconsciously holding on, hoping that all this does not disappear so quickly, nor go away so far. It's not because the heart is too greedy, nor because it needs to dominate indefinitely, but just getting accustomed to the presence, getting accustomed to the warmth, and also getting accustomed to having them around. The sudden departure always catches one off guard, not allowing enough time to transition to a new life.

33. 人生短短几十年，不要给自己留下了什么遗憾，想笑就笑，想哭就哭，该爱的时候就去爱，无谓压抑自己。人生的苦闷有二，一是欲望没有被满足，二是它得到了满足。

33. Life is short, only a few decades, don't leave any regrets for yourself. If you want to laugh, laugh; if you want to cry, cry. Love when you should, and don't suppress yourself unnecessarily. There are two sources of bitterness in life: one is unmet desires, and the other is when they are met.

34. 祝你好事多多！笑容多多！开心每一秒，快乐每一天，幸福每一年，健康到永远！

34. Wishing you many good things and plenty of smiles! Enjoy every second, have joy every day, happiness every year, and health forever!

35. 两个人在一起，大房子不是幸福，山珍海味不是幸福，家财万贯不是幸福，我在家等你，而你赶着回家看我，这才是幸福。

35. Being together, a big house is not happiness, delicacies are not happiness, being wealthy is not happiness. The happiness is me waiting for you at home, and you hurrying back to see me.

36. 快乐对于有的人是彩虹，而对于有些人只是白云。

36. Happiness is a rainbow for some, but just white clouds for others.

37. 如果有一天，不再喜欢你了，我的生活会不会又像从前那样堕落，颓废我不想再要那样的生活，所以，在我还没有放弃你之前，请你，至少要喜欢上我。

37. If one day I no longer like you, will my life fall into decline and decadence as it was before? I don't want to have that kind of life anymore, so before I give up on you, please, at least like me.

38. 养成好的习惯是储存健康，放纵不良陋习是透支生命，借口腾不出时间去健身的人，迟早会腾出时间去看病！

38. Cultivating good habits is saving health, while indulging in bad habits is spending one's life. Those who make excuses for not having time to exercise will eventually find time to see a doctor!

39. 很多时候，我们一边在懒贪，一边爱与人比较，偏偏不满足现状！整天让自己处于幸福感缺失状态！

39. Many times, we are lazy and greedy while loving to compare ourselves with others, yet we are never satisfied with the present! We spend our days in a state of lacking happiness!

40. 谈恋爱不是打擂台，不需要你去克服重重困难。当你遇到一堆困扰时，或许不是挑战，而是明白的告诉你不合适。别以为努力来的感情会更好，通常是越努力越糟糕。所以啊，感情要学会顺其自然，来了就开心享受，走了就淡然处之。爱上一个人，不是去拼命爱，而是拼命享受爱。

40. Falling in love is not like a boxing match; it doesn't require you to overcome numerous difficulties. When you encounter a bunch of troubles, it may not be a challenge, but rather a clear indication that it's not a good match. Don't think that the effort you put into a relationship will make it better; it's usually the more effort you put in, the worse it gets. So, when it comes to love, you should learn to go with the flow. Enjoy it when it's there, and take it easy when it's gone. Falling in love with someone is not about拼命 loving them, but about拼命享受这份爱。

41. 爱情一如人生，无法预料。一直以为：生命诚可贵，爱情价更高。一直想拥有一份可以让我铭记一生的爱情，无须太多繁华浪漫。于是我在佛前苦苦哀求。愿用一世换来今生与你的永恒。

41. Love, like life, is unpredictable. I have always believed: life is precious, and love is even more so. I have always wanted to have a love that I can remember for a lifetime, without needing too much splendor and romance. So, I have pleaded tirelessly in front of the Buddha. I am willing to trade a lifetime for the eternal love with you in this life.

42. 20最厌烦的不是成为陌生人，而是逐渐陌生的感觉。

42. The most annoying thing is not becoming a stranger, but the feeling of gradually becoming one.

43. 在网上看到一段话，引起了我强烈的共鸣：

43. I found a phrase online that resonated strongly with me:

44. 9连大姨妈都会在女人老了之后离你而去更何况男人

44. The nine-month menstrual cycle will leave you when women get older, let alone men.

45. 某年某月某日，我看了你一眼，并不深刻。某年某月某日，意外和你相识，无关心动。怎知日子一久，你就三三两两懒懒幽幽，停在我心上。

45. On a certain day in a certain month of a certain year, I cast a glance at you, but it was not profound. On a certain day in a certain month of a certain year, we unexpectedly met, without any stir of emotion. Little did I know that as time went by, you had slowly and lazily settled in my heart, a trinity or a pair, lingering there.

46. 每个人的青春，终逃不过一场爱情。在这里，有爱、有情、有喜、有乐，却单单没有永恒。

46. Everyone's youth eventually cannot escape a love story. Here, there is love, affection, joy, and happiness, but there is simply no eternity.

47. 人生的路上，我们都在奔跑，我们总在赶超一些人，也总在被一些人超越。人生的要义，一是欣赏沿途的风景，二是抵达遥远的终点。人生的秘诀，就在于寻找一种最适合自己的速度，莫因疾进而不堪重荷，莫因迟缓而空耗生命。人生的快乐，就是走自己的路，看自己的景，超越他人不得意，他人超越不失志。

47. On the journey of life, we are all running, constantly surpassing some people and being surpassed by others. The essence of life lies in two things: appreciating the scenery along the way and reaching the distant destination. The secret of life is to find a pace that suits us best, neither burdened by haste nor wasted by slowness. The joy of life is to walk on one's own path, to see one's own scenery, to surpass others without being disheartened and to remain determined when others surpass us.

48. 我愿意做在你后面为你撑伞的人，即使你不回头看看我也没关系，只要你开心就好。

48. I am willing to be the person standing behind you and holding an umbrella for you, even if you don't turn back to look at me, it doesn't matter, as long as you are happy.

49. 后来又被贬到海南，他依然每天过得自由自在，从没因自己被贬这事而影响自己的心情！

49. Later, he was demoted to Hainan, but he still lived a carefree life every day, never allowing the demotion to affect his mood!

50. 有些事，我们明知道是错的，也要去坚持，因为不甘心;有些人，我们明知道是爱的，也要去放弃，因为没结局;有时候，我们明知道没路了，却还在前行，因为习惯了。

50. There are things that we know are wrong but still insist on, because we are not willing to give up; there are people that we know we love but still have to let go, because there is no ending; and sometimes, we know there is no way forward but continue to move forward, because we are accustomed to it.

51. 伴侣生活的秘密，是每日的清欢，而不是终极的至乐。

51. The secret of companion life is the daily joy, rather than the ultimate bliss.

52. 爱一个人，并非他的优秀，而是一种感觉。他让我有这样的感觉，于是我爱他。同样，他不爱我，也并非我不优秀。优秀，不是爱的理由。所以，不能在一起就不能在一起吧，也许，一辈子也没有那么长。不如天各一方，两两相忘。

52. Loving someone is not about their excellence, but a feeling. It is the feeling they give me that makes me love them. Similarly, if they don't love me, it's not because I'm not excellent. Excellence is not a reason for love. So, if we can't be together, then let's not be together. Perhaps, a lifetime is not that long. It's better to be far apart, forgetting each other.

53. 人生中完全可以存在两种正义，而且彼此抵触，冰火不容。选择其中之一，正义同时就意味着不正义。而且，你绝对看不出，某些人在某一个特定的时机热烈主张某一个特定的正义，其中隐藏着深不可测的不正义。

53. There can be two forms of justice in life that are completely incompatible with each other, like oil and water. Choosing one means embracing the other, as justice is synonymous with injustice. Moreover, you would never suspect that certain individuals fervently advocate for a specific form of justice at a particular moment, which hides an immeasurable injustice.

54. 健康不是第一，而是唯一。当你功成名就之时，只有健康，才能安享快乐。当你落魄潦倒之时，只有健康，才能东山再起。

54. Health is not the first priority, but the only one. When you achieve success and fame, only health allows you to enjoy happiness. When you are at a low point, only health can help you rise again.

55. 这点小伤口，很快就愈合，留下浅浅疤痕作纪念

55. This minor wound will heal quickly, leaving only a faint scar as a memento.

56. 快乐总与宽厚的人相伴，财富总与诚信的人相伴，智慧总与高尚的人相伴，魅力总与幽默的人相伴，健康总与豁达的人相伴！

56. Happiness always accompanies the magnanimous, wealth the honest, wisdom the noble, charm the humorous, and health the open-minded!

57. 没有谁的人生会一帆风顺，很多人都是一边擦着眼泪，一边咬牙前行。我们会遭遇各种各样的委屈，挫折，心酸，无奈，痛苦，但是我们拥有对内心的主导权，不能决定什么事情会发生，但是能决定自己的反应和感受。学会让自己勇敢起来，坚强起来，无畏起来，哪怕命运把我们摁在地上摩擦，也要报以最灿烂的微笑。

57. No one's life is smooth sailing; many people have to wipe away tears while biting the bullet and pressing on. We will encounter all sorts of injustices, setbacks, heartache, helplessness, and pain, but we have control over our inner selves. We cannot dictate what happens to us, but we can decide our own responses and feelings. Learn to be brave, strong, and fearless. Even if fate presses us to the ground and rubs us raw, we should offer the brightest smile.

58. 越走越浅的是爱情；越走越急的是岁月，越走越慢的是希望；越走越多的是年龄，越走越少的是时间；越走越长的是远方，越走越短的是人生；越走越远的是梦想，越走越近的是坟墓；越走越深的是亲情，越走越明白的是道路，越走越糊涂的是方向。

58. Love grows shallower as we go along; time grows faster; hope grows slower; age grows; time grows less; the distance grows; life grows shorter; dreams grow distant; the grave grows near; kinship grows deeper; the path grows clearer; and the direction grows confused.

59. 所谓花心，就是有了爱情和面包，还想吃蛋糕的心情;所谓外遇，就是潜出围城，跌入陷阱;所谓浪漫，就是帮老婆买包心菜时，还会顺手带回一支玫瑰花;所谓厨房，就是结婚时红地毯通向的正前方。

59. What is meant by "being fickle" is the feeling of wanting to have cake even after having both love and bread; what is referred to as "having an affair" is sneaking out of the walled city and falling into a trap; what is called "romantic" is when, while buying cabbage for your wife, you also随手 bring back a rose; what is referred to as "the kitchen" is the very front where the red carpet leads to at the wedding.

60. 成功不是你认识多少人，而是在危难时有多少人来帮你

60. Success is not about how many people you know, but rather how many people come to help you in times of trouble.

61. 如果有下辈子，记得不要和我相隔太远，因为我怕和你没有机会碰见。如果下辈子你还没找到我之前，记得不要太早和别人结缘，要相信我们总会见。如果下辈子我们遇见，记得要让你先爱上我，那样你就可以包容我所有的任性。如果下辈子是你先爱上我，记得要多在乎我支持我。就像这辈子我爱你那样的爱我。

61. If there is a next life, remember not to be too far away from me, for I fear we may not have the chance to meet again. If by then you haven't found me, remember not to rush into relationships with others too early, and believe that we will meet eventually. If we meet in the next life, remember to let yourself fall in love with me first, so that you can tolerate all my capriciousness. If it's you who falls in love with me first, remember to take care of me and support me more. Love me as much as you love me in this life.

62. 早知道是这样，像梦一场，就不该把一个人放在心上

62. If I had known it would be like a dream, I shouldn't have cared so much about someone.

63. 23我们都在犯同一个错 和喜欢的人吵架 和陌生人讲心里话

63. 23 We are all making the same mistake: arguing with the ones we like and sharing our innermost thoughts with strangers.

64. 聪明人不会过多在乎别人的成就，而是把注意力放在自己眼前，专注自己，努力做到今天比昨天在进步！享受自己每一步成长的喜悦！

64. A wise person does not overly concern themselves with others' achievements, but instead focuses their attention on what is in front of them, concentrating on themselves, and striving to make progress from today compared to yesterday! Enjoy the joy of growth with every step you take!

65. 让你微笑的人，你尊重他。让你大笑的人，你喜欢他。而只有让你哭的人，你才爱他。所以爱上一个人的标准，不是谁让你开心，而是谁让你伤心。若从这个角度看。那么你以为自己在谈恋爱，实际上都是在谈伤害。爱情，就是打开了一扇门，引狼入室。然而你心甘情愿。

65. The person who makes you smile, you respect them. The person who makes you laugh, you like them. But only the person who makes you cry, do you truly love them. Therefore, the standard for loving someone is not who makes you happy, but who makes you sad. If we look at it from this perspective, then you might think you're in a love affair, but in reality, you're just dealing with pain. Love is like opening a door and inviting a wolf into the house. Yet, you do it willingly.

66. 身体健康是人生中最大的幸福！你的安康，牵挂所有朋友的心。祝你早日恢复，笑口常开！

66. Good health is the greatest happiness in life! Your well-being concerns the hearts of all your friends. May you recover soon and always have a smiling face!

67. 4你的承诺曾是一种不自觉的甜蜜 现在一划一笔 刺在我心里

67. Your promise once was a subconscious sweetness, now with a stroke, it stabs at my heart.

68. 不比较，自降期待值，不是让你安于现状，无欲无求，而是一种自我调节自己幸福感的按钮！

68. Not to compare, but to lower one's expectations is not to let you be content with the status quo, without desires or ambitions, but rather a button for self-regulating your sense of happiness!

69. 当你躺在病床上摇摇欲坠之时，才会真正悟透健康的可贵。失去健康的人，想吃什么，吃不动，吃进去也消化不了，消化了也拉不出来。想做什么，做不了，做了也会牵拉全身的疼痛。想去哪里，去不了，去了也不会有一份快乐的心情。

69. It is only when you are lying on the hospital bed, on the verge of collapse, that you truly understand the preciousness of health. When you lose your health, you want to eat whatever you like, but you can't, and even if you manage to eat, you can't digest it, and if you do, you can't excrete it. You want to do something, but you can't, and even if you do, it will cause pain all over your body. You want to go somewhere, but you can't, and even if you go, you won't have the joy of the journey.

70. 不要因为冲动说一些过激的话。没有人愿意拿热情换冷漠，拿体贴换伤害。冲动的话语，也许已经伤透了他的心。钉下一根钉子容易，但是拔起它，你是否能修复好栅栏上的洞呢如果你已经说了，那么请道歉，用你的温柔去尽量弥补，只是是否有用就无法确定了。

70. Do not say something extreme due to impulse. No one wants to trade passion for coldness, or consideration for harm. Impulsive words may have already deeply hurt his heart. It's easy to drive a nail, but can you also repair the hole in the fence when you pull it out? If you have said it, then please apologize, and try to compensate with your gentleness. However, whether it is effective can no longer be determined.

71. 官不在大小，能干就好；钱不在多少，够花就好；朋友不在多少，知己就好；子女不在多少，孝顺就好；年龄不在多老，健康就好！

71. It doesn't matter how big or small the official position is, as long as one is capable; it doesn't matter how much money there is, as long as it's enough to spend; it doesn't matter how many friends there are, as long as there are true friends; it doesn't matter how many children there are, as long as they are filial; it doesn't matter how old one is, as long as one is healthy!

72. 世界以痛吻我，我却报之以歌。以清净心看世界，以欢喜心过生活，以柔软心除挂碍。

72. The world kisses me with pain, yet I respond with song. To view the world with a pure heart, to live life with a joyful heart, and to remove obstacles with a soft heart.

73. 曾经，有这样一代人。他们不要存款，不要房产，不要汽车，只是彼此萌生了爱意，就一起推着自行车去登记，然后戴着红花一起回家。就这样，风风雨雨几十年，相亲相爱一辈子。老一辈儿的传统，如今，遍寻难见。

73. There was a generation once. They didn't seek savings, properties, or cars; all they needed was the blossoming of affection between them, and they would push their bicycles to the registry office, returning home together with red flowers in their hands. That way, through the ups and downs of life for several decades, they loved each other until the end. The traditions of the older generation, however, are now hard to find.

74. 但当你学会接受现实，自降期待值，你就像苏轼一样，不管遭遇多少艰难险阻，小人陷害，只要内心保持乐观，任何事都击退不了你内心的幸福感！

74. But when you learn to accept reality and lower your expectations, you are like Su Shi, regardless of how many hardships and obstacles you encounter, or how much you are betrayed by others, as long as you maintain an optimistic attitude in your heart, nothing can shake your inner happiness!

75. ​是啊，人的生命只有一次。这一辈子，房子，车子，票子，位子，孩子都会离你而去，能跟随你一辈子的，只有自己的心情和健康。”

75. Yes, human life is only once. In this lifetime, houses, cars, money, status, and children will leave you behind. The only things that can accompany you throughout your life are your own mood and health.

76. 不必害怕人生的无常，我们无法跟强大的命运抗衡，但可以把当下的每一个瞬间都掌握在自己的手里，每一个不曾起舞的日子，都是对生命的辜负。

76. Do not fear the impermanence of life. We cannot resist the powerful fate, but we can hold every moment of the present in our own hands. Every day that is not lived with dancing is a betrayal of life.

77. 这就像一条大鱼在小池塘里显得很大，而在大海里反而显不出什么优势。

77. It's like a big fish looking large in a small pond, but not showing any advantage in the ocean.

78. 当你感觉不到幸福指数的时候，那你可以试试开始这两个按钮！

78. When you don't feel the happiness index, you can try to start these two buttons!

79. 24时间真的会让人改变很多，包括我们的模样，我们的心。

79. 24 hours really can change a lot, including our appearance and our hearts.