在纷繁复杂的世界中，探寻最自在的生活方式，如同漫步在静谧的林间小道，我们选择沉淀心灵，拥抱社交的零负担，学会摆脱焦虑的束缚。让我们一同开启这趟心灵之旅。

In the intricate and complex world, seeking the most comfortable way of life is like taking a leisurely stroll along a tranquil forest path. We choose to settle our minds, embrace the zero burden of socializing, and learn to break free from the constraints of anxiety. Let us embark on this journey of the soul together.

1. 你是双鱼座，他/她是天秤座(双鱼座vs天秤座)

1. You are a Pisces, and they are a Libra (Pisces vs Libra)

2. 未来会怎么样，我们不知道。对于我们这样的平凡之人，大概率是机械的重复当下的生活。但是也可能会发生一些不测，比如猝不及防的意外，自己和家人可能发生的重特大疾病，社会突发因素导致的收入波动，等等。

2. We don't know what the future holds. For people like us, ordinary individuals, it is more likely that we will simply repeat the current way of life in a mechanical manner. However, unforeseen events may also occur, such as unexpected accidents, serious and catastrophic illnesses that may affect ourselves or our families, fluctuations in income due to sudden social factors, and so on.

3. “人和人交往还是要少说话，克制表达欲，平静温和就行，不自卑也别炫耀。别为了获得共鸣，讲起过往没完没了，无意间表现的品质，被对方发现才更招人喜欢，胜过千言万语，仔细想想，你哪次滔滔不绝后，带来的不是悔恨？”

3. "In interactions between people, it's still best to speak less, control your desire to express, and be calm and gentle. Don't be self-deprecating or boastful. Don't keep talking about the past in order to seek共鸣. The qualities you unintentionally show, only when discovered by the other person, are more endearing than a thousand words. Think carefully, when was the last time you rambled on and on, only to regret it?"

4. 如果你只是帮他找出一个大方向，等于没帮上忙。顾前思后，是天秤座的一大特性。再也没有人比他更周密了。但天秤座却常被自己想出来的一大堆旁枝末节，搞得烦躁不堪，到最后，什么决定也没做好，或者是，干脆随便做个决定。

4. If you only help him find a general direction, it's as if you haven't helped at all. Overthinking is a major characteristic of Libra. There's no one more meticulous than him. However, Libra is often driven crazy by a multitude of trivial details that come to mind, and in the end, no decision is made well, or, simply, just make a random decision.

5. 为什么越来越多的年轻人都不喜欢社交了？因为他们清醒的看到，社交得到的好处远远小于需要支付的成本。

5. Why are more and more young people not fond of socializing? Because they have clearly seen that the benefits gained from socializing are far less than the costs they have to pay.

6. 适合的具体职业有外交官、作家、艺术家、设计师、医生、法律专家、税务师，还适合旅游和服务行业。若在企业供职，则适合业务、贸易、总务等职务，只有多参加各种组织和团体才能开运，如果夫妻共同创业将获得较大成功。

6. Specific professions that are suitable include diplomats, writers, artists, designers, doctors, legal experts, tax accountants, as well as the tourism and service industries. If employed in a company, positions such as business, trade, and general affairs are suitable. Only by actively participating in various organizations and groups can one attract good fortune. If a couple starts a business together, they are more likely to achieve great success.

7. 他很强调知性的生活，喜欢阅读专业性的书籍。对有学问的好人，倾心不已。他不相信世界上有真理，却衷心希望有人找到真理时，拿来给他见识一番。

7. He emphasizes an intellectual life and enjoys reading professional books. He has a deep admiration for scholarly good people. He does not believe in the existence of absolute truth in the world, yet he sincerely hopes that when someone finds the truth, they will show it to him to see it for himself.

8. 你是美食家，容易过度摄取营养，25岁之后可能会发胖，所以要细心地对身体进行保养。应当注意神经系统、肾脏、泌尿系统疾病和糖尿病，以及过敏和偏头痛。

8. As a gourmet, you are prone to over-consume nutrition and may gain weight after the age of 25. Therefore, it is necessary to take good care of your body. Pay attention to diseases of the nervous system, kidneys, urinary system, diabetes, as well as allergies and migraines.

9. 说话的本质其实就是一种炫耀，说的越多，得罪的人就越多，就会跟自己的环境格格不入。

9. The essence of speaking is actually a form of showing off; the more one speaks, the more people one offends, and the more one will not fit in with one's environment.

10. 最理想的结婚对象是双子座、水瓶座女性，年龄最好相差6岁以下，在考虑与同龄者或年龄相差两三岁者结婚，或者早婚时，要充分听取周围的劝告。对你而言，供选择的异性非常之多，所以一定要加以慎重，不要操之过急。

10. The most ideal marriage partner is a female Gemini or Aquarius, preferably with an age difference of 6 years or less. When considering marriage with someone of the same age or a couple of years apart, or when getting married early, it is important to fully listen to the advice of those around you. As for you, there are a wide range of potential partners, so you must be cautious and do not rush into it.

11. 生活就是一个见招拆招的过程。兵来将挡，水来土掩，如果无力应付，那就只能听凭上天的意志裁夺了。顺其自然，不焦虑，我们才能活得轻松自在。

11. Life is a process of dealing with things as they come. When the enemy comes, we meet it; when the water comes, we cover it with earth. If we are unable to cope, we can only leave it to the will of heaven to decide. By going with the flow and not being anxious, we can live a carefree and comfortable life.

12. 因为敏感到顾虑别人感受，是天秤座人的优点。但是太顾虑别人的感受，会伤害到自己。不懂得拒绝的艺术，使天秤座人常吃闷亏。在困境中，天秤座人无法一展所长，久而久之，就变得胆小、怯懦，逃避现实。找寻属于自己的天空，在合适的环境中工作，才能让天秤座人得到正常的身、心成长。

12. Sensitivity to others' feelings is a virtue of Librans. However, being overly concerned about others' feelings can harm oneself. Lack of the art of saying no often leads Librans to suffer silently. In difficult situations, Librans are unable to showcase their talents, and over time, they become timid and cowardly, avoiding reality. Only by finding their own sky and working in an appropriate environment can Librans achieve normal physical and mental growth.

13. 他不爱做决定，却常摆出正在做某个重要决定的模样

13. He doesn't like making decisions, but often pretends to be making some important decision.

14. 他不会为了寻觅世人所谓的极乐世界」而千里跋涉，但会从一百种以上的角度来观察别人眼中的「极乐世界」，那是不是真的是一个「极乐」的世界。

14. He would not journey thousands of miles in search of the so-called 'utopia' that people speak of, but he would observe from over a hundred perspectives the 'utopia' seen in others' eyes, questioning whether it is truly a 'utopia' in reality.

15. 天秤座男性爱情运很好，散发着俘获女人芳心的魅力，总是在众多的女性当中进行选择。你喜欢美女，对你而言，美女的价值不仅在于漂亮的容貌和婀娜的身段，还在于教养和成熟的韵味。在恋爱方面，你倾向于凭感觉办事，而不是从现实出发考虑(对浪漫的气氛没有抵抗力)。你希望爱情浪漫且像梦境般美好，你具有令女性心旌摇曳的魅力。你能将精神爱和肉体的爱区分得一清二楚，从来都不主动提出分手。性生活和谐，热衷于变化，甚至会借助于器具，喜欢爱抚，但技巧不足。

15. The Libra man has a great love luck, exuding the charm to win a woman's heart and always selecting from among many. You like beautiful women, and to you, the value of a beautiful woman is not only in her pretty face and graceful figure, but also in her breeding and mature charm. In terms of love, you tend to act based on your feelings rather than considering practicalities (you have no resistance to romantic atmosphere). You hope for love to be romantic and as beautiful as a dream, and you possess the charm that can sway a woman's heart. You can clearly distinguish between spiritual love and physical love and never initiate a breakup. Your sex life is harmonious, you are enthusiastic about changes, and you might even use tools; you like caressing but lack skill.

16. 秤子是灵敏的，只要一阵微风，便足以使之轻颤不已。天秤座人的心思正是一座灵敏的秤子。他徘徊于正、反之间，摇摆于左、右之间；反复思索的频率极高，摆幅极小。不要说天秤座人是神经质的，连跟他在一起的人也会被感染得很神经质。千万别把秤座人的神经质，想成是言行上的“神经兮兮”。

16. The scales are sensitive, and just a light breeze is enough to cause them to tremble continuously. The thoughts of a Libran are like a sensitive scale. They oscillate between right and wrong, left and right; the frequency of反复 thinking is extremely high, but the amplitude is very small. Don't say that Librans are neurotic; even the people who are with them can become very neurotic. Never think of the neurosis of Libra people as being "nervous" in terms of their words and actions.

17. 再比如你想高攀别人，得到贵人的提携和高人的指点，那就必须融进他们的圈子，得到他们的认可。可是人际关系的本质就是利益交换， 你对别人没有足够的利用价值，别人是不愿意搭理你的。与其巴结讨好，自取其辱，不如认清自己的现状，扎实过好属于自己的生活。

17. For example, if you want to rise above others and receive the support of influential people and guidance from experts, you must integrate into their circle and gain their recognition. However, the essence of human relationships is the exchange of interests. If you do not have sufficient value for others to utilize, they are not willing to pay attention to you. It's better to recognize your current situation and live a solid life according to your own path, rather than flatter and讨好 others, only to bring shame upon yourself.

18. 他只是在精神上经常处于焦虑、不安，容易受惊，受不了在精神上被干扰。而这些，你大概只能从他的眼睛中找到蛛丝马迹。他会压抑自己真正的情感。

18. He is often mentally anxious and restless, easily startled, and cannot tolerate mental disturbances. These traits, you might only find hints of in his eyes. He will suppress his true emotions.

19. 住宅可以是新的也可以是旧的，但最好整体和谐，窗户宽大，各个房间以浴室为中心布置开来。从位置上看相对于坡地，更适合坐落于低洼地带，门窗宜朝西向或南向，室内要有充分的空间。你有很好的审美能力，喜欢和谐，所以最好亲自着手装修和设计。

19. The residence can be new or old, but it's best to be harmonious overall, with large windows, and rooms arranged around a central bathroom. In terms of location, it is more suitable to be situated in a low-lying area than on a slope, with doors and windows facing west or south, and with ample space inside. You have a good sense of aesthetics and prefer harmony, so it's best for you to take on the renovation and design yourself.

20. 在你看来你们之间的另一个问题是天秤座太钻牛角尖了。你比天秤座伴侣更相信自己的感觉，当对方要求你改变你的态度时矛盾就无可避免了，面对一个逻辑思维如此强的人，你要如何解释你的直觉呢另外，天秤座有点喜欢发号施令，还好，他会用一种有魅力而圆滑的方式做这件事。双鱼座能确切地知道他人的动机，虽然你能看透天秤座彬彬有礼的面纱下的真面目，但同时你也欣赏他们不会为了达到自己的目的而轻率无礼。所以，你总是放手让他做自己喜欢的事。即使你不同意他的决定，你也会顾及到旁人的立场，而天秤座伴侣也不会令你难堪。以天平为象征的天秤座，很在乎为解决问题找到公平的方法，这正中你下怀。

20. In your opinion, another issue between you two is that Libra is too pedantic. You believe in your own feelings more than your Libra partner, and conflicts are inevitable when they ask you to change your attitude. How do you explain your intuition to someone who is so logically-minded? Moreover, Libra has a tendency to like giving orders, but fortunately, he does it in a charming and smooth manner. Pisces can accurately discern others' motives. Although you can see through the polite facade of Libra, you also appreciate that they do not act rashly and rudely to achieve their goals. So, you always let him do what he likes. Even if you don't agree with his decisions, you will also consider the opinions of others, and your Libra partner won't make you feel embarrassed. The Libra, symbolized by the scales, cares deeply about finding a fair method to solve problems, which is exactly what you desire.

21. 身材与相貌，足以魅惑天秤座人。即使他明知你们的爱情有大问题，仍可能会迷恋你的身材和相貌，迟迟做不了分手的决定。

21. A person's physique and appearance are enough to enchant a Libran. Even if they know that there are major problems with your relationship, they might still be infatuated with your body and looks, delaying the decision to break up.

22. 天秤座总是热爱社交喜欢外出。但双鱼座却非常独立，并需要独自思考与冥想的时间;所以天秤座觉得双鱼座独处的时间未免太多了。只要重视与顺应对方的要求，你们的乐趣就会多得多。天秤座的人喜欢参加文化活动与吃好吃的餐厅，你可以跟他一起去。他也熟知最热门的俱乐部并且穿戴入时。相反相较于物质收获与社会竞争，双鱼座更能在情感与精神满足当中感到满意，是否赞同并跟随天秤座合群的生活，这就要看情况了。比如，双鱼座可能会享受在巴台一角静静品尝鸡尾酒，得益于天秤座为他带来的社交活动，但双鱼座并不会花像天秤座一样多的时间在交际上。辛苦工作一天后，在家看看书或电视，让身心完全放松，是双鱼座度过一个美好舒适的夜晚最佳的选择。

22. Libra is always sociable and enjoys going out, but Pisces is very independent and needs time for alone reflection and meditation; therefore, Libra finds that Pisces spends too much time alone. As long as you value and accommodate each other's needs, you will have much more fun. Librans enjoy cultural activities and delicious restaurants, so you can join them. They also know the most popular clubs and dress stylishly. On the other hand, compared to material gains and social competition, Pisces can find satisfaction in emotional and spiritual fulfillment. Whether Pisces agrees to and follows the gregarious lifestyle of Libra depends on the situation. For example, Pisces might enjoy quietly sipping cocktails in a corner of a bar, benefiting from the social activities brought by Libra, but Pisces will not spend as much time on socializing as Libra. After a hard day's work, staying home to read a book or watch TV, allowing the body and mind to fully relax, is the best choice for Pisces to spend a comfortable and pleasant evening.

23. 天秤座男性注重现实，追求理想和现实间的平衡，有敏锐的批判力和敏感的神经。头脑聪颖，希望自己出类拔萃，但缺乏竞争能力和开拓精神，不够沉着。性格内向谨慎，建议今后在事情上坦诚直率，培养胆量，确立明确的目标后一步步迈进。虽然才华横溢，但不善于应用。有易冲动的一面，厌倦束缚，向往自由奔放的生活。心地善良，不忍拒绝他人的嘱托，所以能与各类人友善交往。要求他人对自己坦率，自己却不肯摘下神秘的面纱，对任何人都不愿袒露自己的心迹。

23. Libra men are practical, pursuing a balance between ideals and reality, with a sharp critical sense and sensitive nerves. They are intelligent and aspire to excel, but lack competitiveness and pioneering spirit, and are not sufficiently composed. They are introverted and cautious, and it is recommended that they be honest and straightforward in their affairs in the future, cultivate courage, and make steady progress after setting clear goals. Although talented, they are not good at applying their skills. They have an impulsive side, are tired of束缚, and long for a free and unrestrained life. They are kind-hearted and reluctant to refuse others' requests, so they can be friendly with all sorts of people. They expect others to be straightforward with them, but they themselves are not willing to take off the mask of mystery and reveal their true feelings to anyone.

24. 诚实温和，富同情心而看重感情，处事力求公正与中庸，不愿偏激。擅长交际，渴望共享快乐幸福的伙伴，重视婚姻，不做无理的嫉妒。喜爱推理、辩论及美的事物，审美眼光很高，讨厌粗俗的东西。把一件事分析多次后，一定要下结论，莫再犹疑。意志薄弱，易导致犹豫不决。多问问伴侣的感受，以减少因疏忽而积下的怨尤。女性为艺术而努力时，记得回顾自己的家庭。

24. Honest and gentle, with a strong sense of sympathy and a value for emotions, strive for fairness and moderation in handling matters, and do not want to be extreme. Skilled in social interactions, yearning for companions to share joy and happiness, and placing importance on marriage, without indulging in unreasonable jealousy. Enjoys reasoning, debate, and beautiful things, with a high aesthetic sense, and dislikes vulgarity. After analyzing a matter multiple times, one must definitely come to a conclusion and stop hesitating. Weak in willpower, prone to hesitation and indecision. Often inquire about your partner's feelings to reduce accumulated grievances due to neglect. When a woman dedicates herself to art, remember to look back at your own family.

25. 天秤座男性善于积聚财产，但钱总是不能花到刀刃上，所以应尽量避免携带现金。绝不可尝试赌博，一旦痴迷于此，就会陷入无法挽回的境地，由于在恋爱方面当断不断，拖泥带水，又本性多情，应注意桃花劫。你是追求出类拔萃的绅士，自尊心强，虚荣心也很强，如果事事要求自己超过他人，会给自己带来祸端。

25. Libra men are good at accumulating wealth, but money is always not spent wisely, so it is best to avoid carrying cash. Never attempt gambling, as once obsessed with it, you will fall into an irretrievable situation. Due to being indecisive and hesitant in matters of love, and being naturally passionate, you should be aware of the 'love disaster'. You are a gentleman who strives for excellence, with a strong sense of pride and also a strong desire for recognition. If you always demand to outperform others in everything, it will bring you misfortune.

26. 天秤座男性尊重和睦和融洽，最适合从事高贵的职业，不适合从事不洁或无条理可言的职业。 不会过分地喧哗或与人争吵，在任何事情上都不会与人发生争执，秉性温和，不会被极端的事物所激怒，力图维持和睦。有合作精神，在需要合作的事情当中能够发挥才能，所以在社团或集会中会显得很活跃。对天秤座男性而言，需要不断地拓宽眼界，接近有身份有地位的高层人士会非常有利，也可以在异性的帮助下获得成功。

26. The Libra male respects harmony and amity and is most suitable for noble professions, not for professions that are unclean or lack order. He does not engage in excessive noise or arguments and never starts disputes in any matter. He is gentle in nature, not easily angered by extreme things, and strives to maintain harmony. He has a cooperative spirit and can demonstrate his abilities in cooperative endeavors, so he appears very active in clubs or gatherings. For the Libra male, it is beneficial to constantly broaden one's horizons and approach high-ranking individuals with status and influence, and he can also achieve success with the help of the opposite sex.

27. 刚与天秤座陷入情网时，你觉得一切都太浪漫、太华美了！但，他重实际的性格会慢慢跑出来，如果你们只能相爱，却不合适相处，他会比你更快一步去面对现实而提出分手的「建议」。

27. When you just fall in love with Libra, you find everything too romantic and too beautiful! However, their practical nature will gradually emerge, and if you can only love each other but are not suitable for cohabitation, they will propose to break up first, facing reality faster than you.

28. 如果他在外表上显出暴躁和歇斯底里的状态，便是他已经压抑到了尽头，那时他所做的和所说的，会像狂风暴雨向你扫来。即使你认为他不讲理，他也不会多做解释。

28. If he appears to be in a state of irritability and hystericism, it means he has been suppressed to the extreme. At that time, what he does and says will come at you like a storm of wind and rain. Even if you think he is unreasonable, he will not make many explanations.

29. 令人高兴的是，天秤座会点燃你的欲火，你们的性爱除了火热，还是火热。但他不会让性爱淹没你们的感情的其他领域。你需要一生感情伴侣，如果你生气勃勃的天秤伴侣能够放慢速度呵护你的需求，你们会是很好的一对。

29. Happily, Libra will ignite your passions, and your lovemaking will be fiery, yet fiery. But he won't let sex overwhelm other areas of your relationship. You need a lifelong emotional partner, and if your lively Libra partner can slow down to nurture your needs, you could make a great couple.

30. 一段很有道理的话：

30. A very reasonable statement:

31. 看破世界和人生的本质之后， 最舒服的活法就是，不说话，不社交，不焦虑。

31. After seeing through the essence of the world and life, the most comfortable way to live is to not talk, not socialize, and not worry.

32. 俩人表面看起来都很温和，喜欢迁就别人，其实性格各异，秤子喜交际应酬，而鱼儿则注重心灵的满足，俩人能互相欣赏彼此的个性，秤子只要拿出自然的优雅来就足以倾倒鱼儿，彼此也有相似的兴趣，鱼儿天生的艺术家气质就很让秤子欣赏。俩人都具有艺术天份，是最有创意的组合。

32. On the surface, both of them seem gentle and accommodating to others, but their personalities are actually quite different. Libra enjoys socializing and entertaining, while Pisces values spiritual fulfillment. They appreciate each other's personalities, with Libra's natural elegance being enough to captivate Pisces. They also share similar interests, and Pisces' innate artistic temperament is greatly admired by Libra. Both of them have artistic talent, making them the most creative of combinations.

33. 因此，天秤座的人不算是一个能尽情享受人生的人，但是他挺追求人生足堪享受的一面。

33. Therefore, Librans are not considered to be people who can fully enjoy life, but they do pursue the aspects of life that are truly worth enjoying.

34. 沉默是金，闭口不言，真的是一种顶级的社交自律。

34. Silence is golden; to keep one's mouth shut is truly a form of top-level social self-discipline.

35. 身体不够强壮，抵御严寒、湿气、暑气的能力较弱，要避免过饮过食和药物的过度使用。

35. Not sufficiently strong physically, with weaker ability to withstand extreme cold, dampness, and heat; it is important to avoid excessive drinking, eating, and overuse of medication.

36. 用建议这个字眼，是表示秤座人向往协议式的分手，那样比较平静。事实上，天秤座要与情人分手时所流露出来的神经质，已使得平静的场面成为空谈。

36. The use of the word "suggestion" indicates that Librans prefer a negotiated breakup, which is more peaceful. In fact, the nervousness that Librans show when breaking up with their lovers has already made the idea of a peaceful scene a mere talk.

37. 比如你要维持一些关系，就必须经常联络感情，隔三差五请客吃饭，有事没事串门拜访， 节假日至少要发一条信息互致问候， 朋友圈要时不时的点赞评论，花费的时间成本，精力成本，经济成本非常巨大。如果你骨子里面就不喜欢热闹和人情世故，那就是一种煎熬，一种受罪，一种折磨。并且这些关系也未必用得上，或者用上的可能性很少。

37. For instance, if you want to maintain certain relationships, you must frequently keep in touch, occasionally invite people out for meals, drop by for visits whether there's anything specific or not, send at least one message to each other on holidays to express greetings, and occasionally like and comment on each other's social media posts. The time, energy, and financial costs involved are very high. If you fundamentally dislike being around people and dealing with social niceties, it can be a torment, a form of suffering, and a折磨. Moreover, these relationships may not be very useful, or the likelihood of them being useful is very low.

38. 活到了一定的年纪，阅尽世事沧桑，经历人情世故，见证荣辱浮沉，深知生死无常，不再对人际关系有不切实际的期待，不再对前途或者升官发财，有什么妄想。接受自己作为一个平凡人的现实，踏踏实实过日子，舒舒服服取悦自己。

38. Having lived to a certain age, having experienced the vicissitudes of life and the complexities of human relationships, having witnessed the rise and fall of glory and disgrace, I deeply understand the impermanence of life and no longer have unrealistic expectations of interpersonal relationships. I no longer harbor any illusions about the future or the pursuit of wealth and promotion. Accepting myself as an ordinary person, I lead a stable life, comfortably pleasing myself.

39. 不管未来会如何，我们都无能为力，所有的焦虑都是自寻烦恼，所有的痛苦都是自找麻烦。如果可以改变未来，那我们就不是平凡之人了。我们唯一可以做的当下的生活，争取自己想要的日子，对于以后会发生什么，顺其自然，听天由命，如此而已。

39. No matter what the future may hold, we are powerless to change it; all the anxiety is self-inflicted, and all the pain is self-caused. If we could change the future, we wouldn't be ordinary people. The only thing we can do is live in the present, strive for the life we desire, and let fate take its course with what happens in the future, that's all.

40. 如此一来，决定与否，都深深苦恼着他。你也可以说，他是个不爱做决定的人。可是，说也奇怪，你却老看见他摆出正在做某个重要决定的慎重要模样。他喜欢皆大欢喜的场面，又忧虑和平的假象之下所潜伏的危机。

40. In this way, whether he makes a decision or not, it deeply troubles him. You might also say that he is not a person who likes to make decisions. However, strangely enough, you often see him acting with a serious expression as if he is making some important decision. He enjoys a happy ending for everyone, yet he is also worried about the potential dangers hidden beneath the illusion of peace.

41. 如果有个天秤座朋友有难题，要请你帮忙解决，你最好多提供他几个解决方案，让他自行选出适合他的。你先为他分析得失、利弊，愈详细愈好。

41. If you have a Libra friend who has a difficult problem and asks for your help to solve it, it's best to provide them with several solutions so that they can choose the one that suits them best. First, analyze the pros and cons for them, the more detailed, the better.

42. 凡事要求公平，也极力反对不公平的事，是天秤座最令人敬畏的地方。他对于不合理的事，采取激烈的态度，不是愤怒，便是冷漠以对。

42. The pursuit of fairness and a strong opposition to injustice are the most awe-inspiring aspects of Libra. When faced with unreasonable matters, they adopt a passionate stance, either expressing anger or remaining indifferent.

43. 60岁（在证券和房产之外的领域会有意外的收获）。

43. At the age of 60 (unexpected gains can be made outside of securities and real estate).

44. 一个平凡之人的可怕之处，就是拥有自己的观点。一旦有了独立的观点，就有了敌人。观点越清醒，越独特，越深刻，敌人就越多，你就越孤独。很多人都不喜欢你拥有深刻的见解，因为这样会揭下他们肤浅的面纱。很多人也不喜欢你侃侃而谈，头头是道，因为你抢夺了他们对话题的参与权，让他们失去了存在感。

44. The terrifying thing about an ordinary person is that they have their own opinions. Once they have independent opinions, they have enemies. The clearer and more unique, and the more profound their opinions are, the more enemies they will have, and the more isolated they will become. Many people don't like it when you have profound insights, because it peels off their veil of superficiality. Many people also don't like it when you talk eloquently and logically, because you seize the right to participate in the discussion, making them feel their presence is lost.