在纷繁复杂的世界中，掌握“幸福秘笈”犹如拨开迷雾，学会淡然面对。让我们开启这扇智慧之门，探寻内心的平和与喜悦。

In the complex world, mastering the "secret of happiness" is like peeling away the fog and learning to face life with serenity. Let us open this door of wisdom to explore the inner peace and joy.

1. 命运给你一个比别人低的起点，是要你用一生去奋斗，去创造一个绝地反击的故事!

1. If fate gives you a lower starting point than others, it is to challenge you to struggle throughout your life and create a story of a comeback from the brink!

2. 骏马能历险，力田不如牛；坚车能载重，渡河不如舟；舍长以求短，谋者难为全。魏徵

2. Gallant horses can venture on adventures, but they are not as strong as oxen in tilling the fields; sturdy wagons can carry heavy loads, but they are not as good as boats for crossing rivers; those who abandon their strengths to seek weaknesses find it difficult to achieve perfection. — Wei Zheng

3. 17别害怕梦想和现实的距离。如果你可以梦到，你就可以做到。

3. Don't be afraid of the distance between dreams and reality. If you can dream it, you can achieve it.

4. 努力了的才叫梦想，不努力的就是空想，你所付出的努力，都是这辈子最清晰的时光。

4. Dreams are called dreams only when you strive for them; those without effort are just pipe dreams. The efforts you put in are the clearest moments of your lifetime.

5. 放弃，是一种境界，是自然界发展的一种必由之路。

5. Giving up is a realm, a necessary path for the development of nature.

6. 4让我们将事前的忧虑，换为事前的思考和计划吧!

6.4 Let's replace our preoccupation with anxiety with preoccupation with thought and planning!

7. 15勤奋是天才的摇篮，耕耘是智慧的源泉。愿你做个品学兼优的好孩子。

7. Diligence is the cradle of genius, and hard work is the source of wisdom. May you grow up to be a good child with both excellent character and academic achievements.

8. 世界没有悲剧和喜剧之分，如果你能从悲剧中走出来，那就是喜剧，如果你沉缅于喜剧之中，那它就是悲剧。如果你只是等待，发生的事情只会是你变老了。人生的意义不在于拿一手好牌，而在于打好一手坏牌。

8. There is no distinction between tragedy and comedy in the world. If you can emerge from tragedy, then it is comedy. If you immerse yourself in comedy, it becomes a tragedy. If you merely wait, the only thing that will happen is that you will grow old. The meaning of life does not lie in being dealt a good hand of cards, but in playing a bad hand well.

9. 6积极思考造成积极人生，消极思考造成消极人生。

9.6 Positive thinking leads to a positive life, while negative thinking leads to a negative life.

10. 16奋斗者在汗水汇集的江河里，将事业之舟驶到了理想的彼岸。

10. The fighters have steered their ship of career to the ideal shore in the rivers of sweat they have gathered together.

11. 最美好的生活方式，不是躺在床上睡到自然醒，也不是坐在家里的无所事事。而是和一群志同道合充满正能量的人，一起奔跑在理想的路上。

11. The best way of life is not lying in bed waking up naturally or sitting at home doing nothing. Instead, it is running on the path of ideals with a group of like-minded people who are full of positive energy.

12. 18学问是异常珍贵的东西，从任何源泉吸收都不可耻。

12. 18. Knowledge is an extremely precious thing, and it is not shameful to absorb it from any source.

13. 13一份耕耘，一份收获。每个人都希望获得成功，但是要确定你是否付出了努力并认真的学习了英语！

13. As the saying goes, "With labor comes gain." Everyone hopes to achieve success, but you must determine whether you have put in the effort and seriously studied English!

14. 11能够岿然不动，坚持正见，度过难关的人是不多的。——雨果

14. It is not many who can remain steadfast, uphold the right view, and get through difficulties. - Hugo

15. 19明智的人决不坐下来为失败而哀号，他们一定乐观地寻找办法来加以挽救。

15. The wise person never sits down to lament failure; they are always optimistic in seeking ways to rescue it.

16. 人生，越努力，越幸运。别人可以替你开车，但不能替你走路;可以替你做事，但不能替你感受。人生的路要靠自己行走，成功要靠自己去争取。天助自助者，成功者自救。

16. Life becomes luckier with more effort. While others can drive for you, they cannot walk for you; they can do things for you, but they cannot feel for you. You have to walk your own path in life, and success must be pursued by yourself. God helps those who help themselves, and successful people save themselves.

17. 很现实的一段话：别喊穷，没人给你钱;别喊累，没人会帮你做;别想哭，大家不在乎;别认输，没人希望你赢;别靠人，只有自己最可靠;别乞求，别人等着看笑话;别落魄，一堆人等着落井下石;别低头，地上没有黄金只有石头!

17. A very realistic saying: Don't cry poor, no one will give you money; don't complain about being tired, no one will help you do it; don't think about crying, nobody cares; don't admit defeat, no one wants you to win; don't rely on others, only yourself is the most reliable; don't beg, others are waiting to laugh at you; don't be desperate, there are many waiting to take advantage of your misfortune; don't bow your head, there is no gold on the ground, only stones!

18. 生活有时会逼迫你，不得不交出权力，不得不放走机遇，甚至不得不抛下爱情。你不可能什么都得到，生活中应该学会放弃，就像清理电脑中的文件一样。

18. Life sometimes forces you to give up power, to let go of opportunities, and even to abandon love. You can't have everything, and in life, you should learn to let go, just like cleaning up files on a computer.

19. 当你成功了，怎么说都是对的。因为，大家看见你台上的风光、头顶的光环。没成功的时候，怎么解释都是错的，因为人们相信眼见为实。所以，别跟人谈情怀，他们只相信眼前。别对人说梦想，他们只关注现实。所以，你就埋头干吧，别把时间浪费在解释上。

19. When you succeed, it's always right to say. Because everyone sees the glory on stage and the halo on top of your head. When you don't succeed, no explanation can be right, as people believe what they see is the truth. So, don't talk about sentiments with others, as they only believe what's in front of them. Don't talk about dreams to people, as they only focus on reality. Therefore, just focus on your work and don't waste time on explanations.

20. 如果拥有了爱情，就别去碰暧昧。面对弥足珍贵的爱情，我们需要从一而终。经得起诱惑，耐得住寂寞，唯有这样，才能给予彼此最大的安全感，爱情之路才会走得平平坦坦。

20. If you have love, don't mess with ambiguity. In the face of the most precious love, we need to be faithful from beginning to end. Endure the temptation, bear the loneliness, only in this way can we give each other the greatest sense of security, and the path of love will be smooth and flat.

21. 花一般的年纪。却 早已经消逝了花的色彩。

21. At an age as delicate as a flower, yet the color of the flower has already faded away.

22. 14不管做什么，都不要急于回报，因为播种和收获不在同一个季节。中间隔着的一段时间，我们叫它为：坚持!

22. 14 Do not hurry for a return on anything, because sowing and reaping do not occur in the same season. The time that lies in between, we call it: persistence!

23. 岁月就象一条河，左岸是无法忘却的回忆，右岸是值得把握的青春年华，中间飞快流淌的，是年轻隐隐的伤感。世间有许多美好的东西，但真正属于自己的却并不多。

23. Time flows like a river, with the left bank being the unforgettable memories, the right bank the precious youth to be cherished, and in between, swiftly flowing, is the subtle sadness of youth. There are many beautiful things in the world, but not many truly belong to oneself.

24. 这个世界并不是公平的 要学着去习惯它。

24. This world is not fair; learn to get used to it.

25. 所有成功的背后，都是苦苦堆积的坚持;所有人前的风光，都是背后傻傻的不放弃。只要你愿意，并为之坚持，总有一天，你会活成自己喜欢的模样!

25. Behind every success lies the relentless accumulation of perseverance; all the splendor in front of others is the foolish determination behind the scenes. As long as you are willing to and persist in it, one day, you will live out the image of yourself that you like!

26. 有的原谅，不是我愿意，我只是还想，让你出现在我的生活里;所有的放弃，不是我愿意，我只是心疼，你为何那么不在意;所有的祝福，不是我愿意，我用假装的笑颜，掩饰雨般的泪迹。据说夜里睡不着的人，皆是醒在别人的梦里。走过百转千回，我们谁也不是谁的唯一，对于陪伴与懂得，爱情原只是一件外衣。

26. There are some forgiveness, not because I wish to, I just still want you to appear in my life; all the abandonments, not because I wish to, I just feel hurt, why do you care so little; all the blessings, not because I wish to, I use a feigned smile to conceal the tracks of tears like rain. It is said that those who cannot sleep at night are awake in others' dreams. After going through many twists and turns, none of us is the only one for the other, for companionship and understanding, love is just a piece of outer clothing.

27. 16现在磨砺就是将来成功的资本。愿你在新的一千年里，全面发展，学有所长。

27. 16 Sharpening oneself now is the capital for future success. May you fully develop and excel in your studies in the new millennium.

28. 从幻想和憧憬爱情到被深爱过，从离开到渴望更多的温暖，从找寻不到自己存在的意义到再次离开。这次，大概是真的失望了。为什么要总是谈爱情呢，我这就过一辈子给你看看。

28. From the fantasy and yearning for love to being deeply loved, from leaving to yearning for more warmth, from not finding the meaning of my own existence to leaving again. This time, it seems that the disappointment is genuine. Why always talk about love? I'll show you how I can spend my whole life.

29. 3每天接收一点正能量，拥抱积极向上的生活态度，或许未来的自己会变得闪闪发光。

29. 3 Receive a bit of positive energy every day, embrace a positive and upward life attitude, and perhaps the future you will shine brightly.

30. 放弃，既是遍历归来的路，又是重登旅程的路，又是对过去诱发深思的路，也是对未来满怀憧憬的路。千万朵智慧的灯火灿烂着温柔和明朗的天空，牵出生命音乐般轻柔的翅膀、牵出一生春光明媚的季节。

30. Renunciation is both the path returning from the journey and the path to embark on a new one, as well as the path that leads to profound contemplation of the past and a hopeful gaze into the future. Ten thousand lights of wisdom illuminate a gentle and clear sky, drawing out the delicate wings of life, like the soft music of existence, and ushering in a season of springtime brightness throughout one's life.

31. 2卓越的人一大优点是：在不利与艰难的遭遇里百折不饶。——贝多芬

31. A great virtue of an outstanding person is that they never give up in the face of adverse and difficult circumstances. - Beethoven

32. 有取有舍的人多么幸福，寡情的守财奴才是不幸。鲁达基

32. How happy is the person who knows when to take and when to leave, for the cold-hearted miser is truly unfortunate. - Rudaqi

33. 10不去耕耘，不去播种，再肥的沃土也长不出庄稼，不去奋斗，不去创造，再美的青春也结不出硕果。

33. If one does not till the land or plant seeds, even the most fertile soil will not grow crops. If one does not strive or create, even the most beautiful youth will not bear rich fruits.

34. 自己的伤痛自己清楚，自己的哀怨自己明白，自己的快乐自己感受。也许自己眼中的地狱，却是别人眼中的天堂;也许自己眼中的天堂，却是别人眼中的地狱。生活就是这般的滑稽，不要总怀疑春色在人家，关键在于自己心态的调整。不攀不比，过好自己的生活，才是最重要的。

34. One knows one's own pain, one understands one's own grievances, and one feels one's own happiness. Perhaps what one sees as hell is heaven in others' eyes; perhaps what one sees as heaven is hell in others' eyes. Life is just like this, comical and absurd. Don't always suspect that the spring is elsewhere; the key is to adjust one's own mindset. Don't compare or compete; living your own life well is the most important.

35. 患得患失，瞻前顾后，无病呻吟，都是因为你活得还不够精彩。

35. Being overly worried about gains and losses, looking back and forth with hesitation, and moaning unnecessarily when there is no illness; all of these are because you are not living a sufficiently精彩 life.

36. 19肉价上涨是为了让我们好好减肥，蔬菜上涨是为了让我们低碳生活，墓地上涨是为了让我们好好活着，工资不涨是为了我们努力奋斗。

36. The increase in meat prices is to motivate us to lose weight properly, the increase in vegetable prices is to encourage us to lead a low-carbon lifestyle, the increase in cemetery prices is to make us cherish life, and the lack of wage increase is to spur us to strive hard.

37. 选择与放弃，都有一个终极尺度，就是过后不怨恨、不后悔。生活从来都是波澜起伏的，命运从来都是峰回路转的，因为有了曲折和故事，我们的生命才会精彩。有时候，哭泣，不是屈服；后退，不是认输；放手，不是放弃；沉默，不是无话可说。

37. There is an ultimate criterion for both choices and abandonments, which is not to harbor resentment or regret afterward. Life is always full of ups and downs, and destiny is always winding and turning. It is because of the twists and tales that our lives become exciting. Sometimes, crying is not about yielding; stepping back is not about surrendering; letting go is not about abandonment; and silence is not about having nothing to say.

38. 2人的才华就如海绵的水，没有外力的挤压，它是绝对流不出来的。流出来后，海绵才能吸收新的源泉。

38. The talents of two people are like the water in a sponge; without external pressure, it will never flow out. Once it does flow out, the sponge can then absorb new sources.

39. 一切的痛苦都是因为执着，一切的烦恼都是因为在乎。你放不下什么，就会被什么所限制。当我们学会看淡，顺其自然，随遇而安，无所畏惧，云淡风轻，生活自然就会变得轻盈而自在，宁静而安好。

39. All suffering is caused by attachment, and all distress is due to caring too much. Whatever you cannot let go of, will restrict you. When we learn to take things lightly, go with the flow, adapt to whatever comes our way, and have no fear, life will naturally become light and free, peaceful and serene.

40. 17没有健康的身心什么都谈不上；健康是一切的基础，离开健康的身体，去说事业、金钱、爱情等事项，都是无源之水。好的心态决定好的命运，以积极的心态生活，就会发现许多美妙的东西；以消极心态生活，就会发现许多沮丧的东西；

40. 17 Without a healthy body and mind, there is nothing to talk about; health is the foundation of everything. Without a healthy body, discussing matters such as career, money, love, etc., is like drawing water from a dry well. A good mindset determines a good destiny. Living with a positive mindset will reveal many wonderful things; living with a negative mindset will reveal many things that are disheartening.

41. 人生里面总会有所缺失，你想得到一些，就要失去一些，重要的是你应该知道自己到底要什么。想同时追两只兔子的人，难免会一无所获。人生没有十全十美， 不要指望什么都能让自己满意。要敢于为自己的人生负责，错了就是错了，知错能改，善莫大焉，千万不要用一个错误去掩盖另一个错误!

41. In life, there is always something missing. If you want to gain something, you have to lose something else. What's important is that you should know exactly what you want. A person who wants to chase two rabbits at the same time is bound to get nothing. Life is not perfect, don't expect everything to satisfy you. Dare to take responsibility for your own life. If you make a mistake, it's a mistake. Knowing how to correct it is the best. Never try to cover up one mistake with another!

42. 世界没有两片相同的树叶，你再不堪，也是独一无二，无须自轻自贱。

42. No two leaves in the world are the same; even though you may be不堪， you are still unique and do not need to belittle yourself.

43. 5一个人的知识，通过学习可以得到;一个人的成长，就必须通过磨练。

43. One's knowledge can be acquired through learning; one's growth, however, must be achieved through hardship and refinement.

44. 梦放在梦里很安全，但当他要实现的时候，有很害怕要落空，如果他最后，终究还是一场梦，解散这么多年，我没人理也够久够习惯，我红过，不红过，现在生活也还算过得去，地摊的生意，也被炒作起来，如果这一次又失败我岂不是从天堂又掉到地狱。

44. Dreams are safe when they stay within dreams, but when it comes time to realize them, there is a great fear of coming up empty. If in the end, it turns out to be just a dream, then after all these years of no one paying attention, I've become used to it enough. I've been famous and not famous, and now my life is still relatively manageable. The street business has also been hyped up. If this time fails, wouldn't I just fall from heaven back into hell again?

45. 19很多事情不能自己掌控，即使再孤单再寂寞，仍要继续走下去，不许停也不能回头。

45. 19 Many things cannot be controlled by oneself. Even when feeling lonely and isolated, one must continue to move forward, without stopping and without looking back.

46. 人生的路上，我们都在奔跑，我们总在赶超一些人，也总在被一些人超越。人生的要义，一是欣赏沿途的风景，二是抵达遥远的终点;人生的秘诀，寻找一种最 适合自己的速度，莫因疾进而不堪重荷，莫因迟缓而空耗生命;人生的快乐，走自己的路，看自己的景，超越他人不得意，他人超越不失志。早安~

46. On the journey of life, we are all running, constantly surpassing some people while also being surpassed by others. The essence of life is to appreciate the scenery along the way and to reach the distant destination; the secret of life is to find a pace that suits oneself best, not to bear the burden of haste, nor to waste life in slowness; the joy of life is to walk one's own path, to see one's own scenery, to surpass others without being discouraged, and to not lose heart when others surpass us. Good morning~

47. 既然受不了对方的某些行为，怎么就那么快习惯了有人给你做饭洗衣既然受不了对方的脾气，怎么那么享受对方的关心爱意。放弃二人生活的同时，你放弃的不只是麻烦和烦恼，还有你追求了许久的幸福和甜蜜。麻烦和烦恼时时都存在着，而幸福，一旦失去，就不会保证再来了。

47. Since you can't stand certain behaviors of the other person, why do you get so used to someone cooking and doing your laundry so quickly? If you can't tolerate the other person's temperament, why do you enjoy their care and affection so much? By giving up the two-person life, you're not just giving up the hassle and烦恼, but also the happiness and sweetness you've been pursuing for so long. Trouble and烦恼 are always there, but once happiness is lost, it doesn't guarantee that it will come back.

48. 13一个人至少拥有一个梦想，有一个理由去坚强。心若没有栖息的地方，到哪里都是在流浪。

48. 13 A person must at least have one dream, and have a reason to be strong. If the heart does not have a place to rest, it will wander wherever it goes.

49. 人生最遗憾的,莫过于,轻易地放弃了不该放弃的,固执地,坚持了不该坚持的

49. The greatest regret in life is to easily give up what should not be given up and to stubbornly persist in what should not be persisted in.

50. 学会一个人生活，不论身边是否有人疼爱。做好自己该做的，有爱或无爱，都安然对待。

50. Learn to live alone, regardless of whether there is someone to cherish you around. Do what you should do, and face love or lack thereof calmly.

51. 20就算全世界都否定我，还有我自己相信我。

51. Even if the whole world denies me, there is still me who believes in myself.

52. 3人生没有如果，命运没有假设;不要尽力而为，而要全力以赴。想要不可替代，就必须与众不同!

52. There are no "what-ifs" in life, and fate has no assumptions; don't just do your best, but give it your all. To be irreplaceable, you must be different!

53. 当所有人都拿我当回事的时候，我不能太拿自己当回事。当所有人都不拿我当回事的时，我一定得瞧得上自己。这就是淡定，这就是从容。

53. When everyone takes me seriously, I cannot take myself too seriously. When no one takes me seriously, I must look upon myself with pride. This is composure, this is ease.

54. 看淡升职加薪，勇敢的做自己，不要为了一点不确定的蝇头微利，让自己遭受折磨和屈辱。

54. Disregard the pursuit of promotion and salary increase, and courageously be yourself. Do not allow yourself to suffer and humiliate over a trivial profit that is uncertain.

55. 13没有人会关心你付出过多少努力，撑得累不累，摔的痛不痛，他们只会看你最后站在什么位置，然后羡慕嫉妒恨

55. 13 No one will care how much effort you have put in, how tired or exhausted you are, or how painful the falls are. They will only look at where you end up standing, and then feel envy, jealousy, and resentment.

56. 3优于别人，并不高贵，真正的高贵应该是优于过去的自己。

56. Being superior to others is not noble; true nobility is to be superior to the past self.

57. 与其他人相处，无愧于他人就是最好的方式。我以前也很计较很多事。到头来还是自己内心收到伤害呀！现在学会了。

57. The best way to get along with others is to not owe them anything. I used to be very particular about many things. In the end, it was myself who got hurt in the end! Now I've learned.

58. 5只有自己变优秀了，其他的事情才会跟着好起来!

58. 5 Only when you become excellent yourself will other things follow suit and improve!

59. 有时候，一个建议你离开的人，可能是最爱你的。一个希望你放弃的人，可能是最关心你的。一个渴求不再联系的人，可能是最挂念你的。一个默默离开的人，可能是最舍不得你的。我们的人生，就是在这样矛盾而纠结里渡过。爱并不是一场在一起的游戏，爱恰恰是种挂念你而不得不离开的痛楚。

59. Sometimes, the person who suggests you leave might be the one who loves you the most. The one who wants you to give up might be the one who cares about you the most. The one who longs to no longer be in contact might be the one who misses you the most. The one who leaves silently might be the one who is the most reluctant to let you go. Our lives are spent navigating through such contradictions and entanglements. Love is not a game of being together; love is the pain of missing you so much that you have to leave.

60. 12命运永远无法打败一个白痴，它能打败的仅仅是那些自以为聪明的人。

60. 12 Fate can never defeat an idiot; it can only defeat those who think they are smart.

61. 一个老人在高速行驶的火车上，不小心把刚买的新鞋从窗口掉了一只，周围的人倍感惋惜，不料老人立即把第二只鞋也从窗口扔了下去。这举动更让人大吃一惊。老人解释说：这一只鞋无论多么昂贵，对我而言已经没有用了，如果有谁能捡到一双鞋子，说不定他还能穿呢！秘诀：成功者善于放弃，善于从损失中看到价值。

61. An old man accidentally dropped one of his newly bought shoes from the window of a high-speed train. The people around felt sorry for him, but to everyone's surprise, the old man immediately threw the second shoe out of the window as well. This action further shocked everyone. The old man explained: "No matter how expensive this shoe is, it's no longer of any use to me. If someone can pick up a pair of shoes, maybe they can still wear them!" Secret: Successful people are good at giving up and at seeing value in losses.

62. 我要积极地生活，没人会喜欢那个满身负能量的我，只能由我来爱自己，变得更加坚强，坚强到不惧任何事物，坚强到再坚强也没有人会爱。

62. I want to live actively, no one would like to be around the negative me. It's up to me to love myself, to become stronger, strong enough to fear nothing, and strong to the point where no one else will love me.

63. 有些人没有青春，从不懂事直接变老;有些人永远青春，青春期有一辈子那么长。始终觉得老这件事跟皱纹皮肤松弛毛发稀少体力不支是没有关系的，有没有冒险精神是判断人老不老的唯一标准。想做永远的少女，想保持一辈子青春期，就是当命运翻你牌子的时候，你记得告诉它你什么都不怕。

63. Some people never had youth, they went straight from innocence to old age; some people will always be youthful, with adolescence lasting as long as a lifetime. I always feel that being old has nothing to do with wrinkles, loose skin, thinning hair, and lack of strength. Whether one has the spirit of adventure is the only criterion for determining whether a person is old or not. To want to be a forever young girl, to keep the adolescence forever, is to remember to tell fate that you are not afraid of anything when it flips its card for you.

64. 我宁愿做我自己而被人厌恶，也不愿为了迎合别人而伪装自己。我，不会问，不会提，难过了，心痛了就一个人不停的走，用沉默代替一切。我，不会哭，不会笑，累了我就会消失一下。我知道，每条路都好难走。我知道，我的那条路就注定了要坎坷。我知道，我不可以去强求任何人。

64. I would rather be disliked for being myself than pretend to be someone else to please others. I wouldn't ask, wouldn't bring it up; when I'm sad or heartbroken, I would walk alone endlessly, using silence to replace everything. I wouldn't cry, wouldn't laugh; when I'm tired, I would just disappear for a while. I know that every path is difficult to walk. I know that my path is destined to be bumpy. I know that I can't force anyone to do anything.

65. 长知足，心安然;甘淡泊，乐无边;广交友，德为先;和邻里，解人难;烦恼事，抛云端;莫争吵，忍为先;无贪欲，心胸宽;家和睦，万事圆!

65. Long for contentment, the heart will be at ease; be content with simplicity, joy knows no bounds; cultivate broad friendships, virtue comes first; be harmonious with neighbors, helping others in need; cast worries into the clouds; do not quarrel, patience comes first; have no greed, the heart is broad; a harmonious home, all things are completed!

66. 要成功，就要时时怀着得意淡然、失意坦然的乐观态度，笑对自己的挫折和苦难，去做，去努力，去争取成功!

66. To succeed, one must always maintain an optimistic attitude of calm satisfaction in success and serene acceptance in failure, laughing at one's setbacks and hardships, and striving to act, to work hard, and to strive for success!

67. 4不管多么险峻的高山，总是为不畏艰难的人留下一条攀登的路。

67. 4 No matter how steep the mountain, there is always a path for those who do not fear difficulties.

68. 14不是所坚持都有结果，但是总有一些坚持，能从一寸冰封的土地里，培育出十万朵怒放的蔷薇。

68. Not all persistence leads to results, but there are always some forms of persistence that can cultivate a hundred thousand blooming roses from a land frozen over an inch thick.

69. 不管昨天拥有晴朗，还是阴霾，学会放弃，你将从自己的明天，获得更新的一轮太阳，获得任你驰骋的更大的一片蓝天！

69. Whether yesterday was bright and sunny or overcast, learn to let go, and you will obtain a new round of the sun in your own tomorrow, and a much larger expanse of blue sky for you to gallop across!

70. 事业无需惊天动地，有成就行;情意无需甜言蜜语，真诚就行;金钱无需取之不尽，够用就行;身体无需长命百岁，健康就行;朋友无需以数而论，知己就行!

70. The pursuit of a career does not need to be earth-shattering, as long as there is achievement; affection does not require sweet nothings, sincerity is enough; money does not need to be endless, as long as it is sufficient; health does not require longevity, as long as it is healthy; friends do not need to be counted by number, true friends are enough!

71. 是为了更好的实现你的理想。其实暂时的放弃也需要勇气。并不是所有人都有这个勇气的！很多人都是在取舍间浪费了很多宝贵的时间和机会，有的人甚至在取舍间渡过了一生，最后一无所得。因为他没有学会放弃。

71. It is to better realize your ideals. In fact, temporary giving up also requires courage. Not everyone has this courage! Many people have wasted a lot of valuable time and opportunities in the process of choosing between different options, and some have even spent their entire lives in this process, ending up with nothing. Because they have not learned to give up.

72. 9我最孤单最无助最难过的时候，都是我自己一个人熬过来的，你说我凭什么不坚强。

72.9 When I was the loneliest, most helpless, and saddest, it was all by myself that I endured. You tell me what right do I have to not be strong.

73. 我一直低头前行，后来有位姑娘，她使我抬起头带着阳光般的笑容陪伴在她左右一起前行，后来，我又低头前行了。

73. I have always walked with my head down, but then there was a girl who made me look up and accompany her with a smile as bright as the sun. Later, I went back to walking with my head down again.

74. 11有事者，事竟成；破釜沉舟，百二秦关终归楚；苦心人，天不负；卧薪尝胆，三千越甲可吞吴。

74. 11 If there is something to be done, it will be accomplished; breaking the cauldron and sinking the boat, the hundred-odd pass of Qin will finally belong to Chu; a person who toils with a sincere heart, heaven will not forsake; lying on the fire and tasting the bitterness, three thousand troops of Yue can swallow up Wu.

75. 我把最好的都呈现给你，你却觉得他烦人，想太多，不保留的人永远是输的那个人。

75. I present the best to you, yet you find him irritating, overthinking, and the one who does not hold back is always the one who loses.

76. 9努力的最大好处，在于你可以选择你想要的生活，而不是被迫随遇而安。

76. The greatest benefit of working hard is that you can choose the life you want, rather than being forced to settle for whatever comes your way.

77. 自身有价值了，才会像吸铁石，朋友甚至以前的陌生人都愿意转身过来与你为伴。不要怪罪世界现实，让自己强大才是给自己最好的安全感。

77. Only when you have self-worth will you be like a magnet, attracting friends and even strangers from your past to be by your side. Don't blame the reality of the world; making yourself strong is the best security you can give yourself.

78. 12崇高的理想就象生长在高山上的鲜花。如果要搞下它，勤奋才能是攀登的绳索。

78. 12 Noble ideals are like flowers growing on high mountains. To pluck them, diligence is the rope for climbing.

79. 4不要轻易用过去来衡量生活的幸与不幸!每个人的生命都是可以绽放美丽的，只要你珍惜

79. 4 Do not easily measure the happiness or unhappiness of life by the past! Everyone's life can bloom beautifully, as long as you cherish it.

80. 比你有钱的人，一定比你努力，比你努力的人，终有一天会比你有钱，生活本来就是平衡的，你不为赚钱付出辛苦，你就得为省钱烦恼，这不是鸡汤，是现实!

80. People who are richer than you must work harder than you, and those who work harder than you will eventually be richer than you. Life is inherently balanced; if you don't work hard for money, you'll have to worry about saving it. This isn't feel-good advice; it's reality!

81. 人要成功一定要有永不放弃的精神，当你学会放弃的时候，你才开始进步。阿里巴巴董事会主席，著名商界精英马云

81. To achieve success, one must have the spirit of never giving up. It is when you learn to let go that you begin to progress. Jack Ma, the Chairman of the Alibaba Group and a renowned business magnate.