在纷繁复杂的现实世界中，我们每个人都在追求达到最佳状态。然而，在这条道路上，却充满了隐退、沉寂与极端，如同逃离喧嚣世界的旅人，在心灵的荒野中探寻属于自己的宁静之所。

In the complex and intricate reality of the world, each of us is striving to achieve the best state. However, this path is filled with withdrawal, silence, and extremes, as if we are travelers escaping the hustle and bustle of the world, seeking our own haven of peace in the wilderness of the soul.

1. 有人说：“秋天真是太美了！”我听了特别想去寻找秋天。

1. Someone said, "Autumn is just too beautiful!" Upon hearing this, I felt particularly eager to go in search of autumn.

2. 忘记是更为深刻的记忆。所以，不要刻意的去忘记，每个人都有自己的路程，路程中会出现各种各样的过客，每段感情每段经历每个人都是生命留下的印记，不论回忆是美好的还是痛苦的，都是已经发生的，学会感谢生命中每个曾经相遇或离别的人。

2. Forgetting is a deeper form of memory. Therefore, do not刻意 strive to forget. Each person has their own journey, and along the way, they will encounter all kinds of passersby. Every emotion, every experience, and every person are imprints left by life. Whether memories are beautiful or painful, they have already happened. Learn to be grateful for each person who has ever met or parted ways in your life.

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4. 杨绛说：“人到了一定年纪，学会视而不见， 充耳不闻，把心情和脾气调成静音模式， 不动声色的淘汰一些人和一些事， 不动声色的打理好自己， 过好自己的每一天， 闲话一直有，闲人一直在， 不要让任何人影响你的情绪， 生命是自己的凭什么让他人挑逗， 从现在开始你只要在乎三件事: 你的健康，你的财富，你的情绪。”

4. Yang Jiang said, "As people reach a certain age, they learn to see without seeing, hear without listening, adjust their mood and temper to a silent mode, silently discard some people and some things, silently take care of themselves, live their own every day well, idle talk will always be there, idle people will always be there. Don't let anyone influence your mood. Life is your own, why let others provoke you? From now on, you only need to care about three things: your health, your wealth, and your mood."

5. 秋风结晶。“点秋江白鹭沙鸥，这种晶体的油漆。没有什么可担心的，是紧张的，持续性的。骄傲的谋杀万户侯，文盲烟波Diaosou。 “秋天是一尘不染。

5. The essence of autumn wind. "The Egret and Tern on the white sand of the autumn river, this is the lacquer of crystallization. There is nothing to worry about, it is tense and persistent. The proud murderer of the Marquis of Ten Thousand Families, the illiterate Diaosou amidst the smoke and waves." "Autumn is spotless. "

6. 诗人杨万里从另一个角度看，秋天的味道，一种别样的美，凉爽的秋天的夜晚步骤云：

6. From another perspective, the poet Yang Wanli saw the essence of autumn as a unique beauty, the coolness of autumn nights stepping through the clouds:

7. 不快乐的心秋也。如李白，“密集冷橙橘，秋色老梧桐。”贾岛“秋风吹渭水，落叶满长安。”柳永“是在Red下降翠减，，冉燃物华”。尹“霜飞晚秋阴不散，离开枯荷听雨声。”孟浩然“秋没有距离，去寒山寺萨刺5个独特的云”秋风秋白波鸣人打败了荷兰。平湖三十里，通过秋天的感觉。“唐代诗人马戴这个忧郁的推到了极致，”落叶远方的树，寒灯独夜人。“远离家乡，去寻找秋天落叶粉皮，香味独自一人坐在孤独的情思顿生，即使青少年蒂姆也老了。空的公园和塔，孤壁野和尚，非常非常清寒孤独沧桑的境界欲说还休。杜子美“爬”，“悲秋万里位旅客的数百年病单独上舞台。“诗人常年在外，突然每个秋天Yepiao灵，联想的苦生活经验，体弱多病的季节，在生活中失去，他的充满忧郁郫香港万里通”里数世纪以来，海的吗？？空间与流年，困难的恨，下降和新的停止，千万要中毒浊酒滔滔江水。“诗八首”写在大日历年（公元766年），居住夔州时期挥洒不可预知的生活经验，的流浪者Laojing对于经济受挫的没有桨国家的灾难秋季荒凉冷落的担心，无缝的，凄凉悲惨的，广大的忧郁，铺天盖地的，不断变化的，易挥发，河流之间的波和长天涌，塞上阴凉处FY地。“齐物品的名称”一书中，官方应该是老人和病人的“诗人之酬金智行不通的，只能游于江渚，当他经历了痛苦的根本精神的回归，“飘飘何像海鸥乔纳森利文斯顿”。

7. An unhappy heart in autumn. As Li Bai said, "Intensely cold, the orange and tangerine, the autumn color of the ancient wutong tree." Jia Dao wrote, "The autumn wind blows over the Wei River, leaves fall all over Chang'an." Liu Yong said, "It is when the red decreases and the green diminishes, and the splendor of things is reignited." Yin wrote, "Frost flies in the late autumn, the gloom does not disperse, leaving withered lotus to listen to the sound of rain." Meng Haoran said, "Autumn has no distance, to the Sa La of the Cold Mountain Temple with five unique clouds." The autumn wind and the white waves make people defeated, the peaceful lake of thirty miles, through the feeling of autumn. The Tang Dynasty poet Ma Dai pushed this melancholy to the extreme, 'The falling leaves of distant trees, the cold lamp of a solitary night person.' Away from home, seeking the autumn leaves and the peeled skin, the fragrance alone sitting in the solitude of thoughts, even the youthful Tim has grown old. Empty parks and towers, solitary walls and wild monks, a very, very cold and lonely, desolate, and weary realm that one wants to speak but cannot. Du Zi Mu "climbed," "Sorrowful autumn, for the centuries, the number of travelers, the illness alone on the stage." Poets often stay away from home, suddenly every autumn Yepiao spirit, the association of the bitter experience of life, the weak and sickly season, losing in life, his full of melancholy Shu Honggang over the miles" for centuries, the sea is? Space and the flow of years, the difficult resentment, the descent and the new stop, must be poisoned by the muddy river water. "The poem of eight" was written in the year of the Great Day (AD 766), during the period of living in Kuizhou,洒落不可预知的生活经验，的流浪者Laojing对于经济受挫的没有桨国家的灾难秋季荒凉冷落的担心，无缝的，凄凉悲惨的，广大的忧郁，铺天盖地的，不断变化的，易挥发，河流之间的波和长天涌，塞上阴凉处FY地。“The Book of Qi's Items” should be the official "Poet's Compensation for the Infeasibility, can only wander in the river banks, when he experienced the pain of the fundamental spiritual return, 'How does it flutter like the seagull Jonathan Livingston Seagull?'"

8. 一切观察心满意足。所谓的诗意，没有什么比季节和自然之美。只有欣赏的人，才明白这是一个奇妙的地方。秋天是最有诗意的。树木葱茏，鲜花飞行狼狈，茂密的灌木丛郁郁葱葱的植物和丰富多彩的自然之美给了我们一个更美好的世界。这是令人陶醉，让人流连忘返。林鸟，蝴蝶蜜蜂，蜻蜓在草地上的花朵，代表歌曲的生命。森林听蝉，池畔的商河县颜色，湖泛独木舟，这是最好的享受。一阵凉爽的秋风，吹在脸上，舒适的感觉，多么的惊人。中秋之夜繁星明月闪耀着灿烂的星空，微风，佛，带给人们的幻想忍不住多少心思，但为人们触景生情让人感慨万千。吸引了众多丹青妙手绘出多少美丽的画面，多少文人骚客写诗形容为美丽如画，令人着迷

8. All observers are content. What is called poetry, nothing is more beautiful than the beauty of the seasons and nature. Only those who appreciate it understand that this is a wonderful place. Autumn is the most poetic. The lush trees, the flowers flying in a disarray, the dense shrubs, and the vibrant plant life and colorful natural beauty give us a world even more beautiful. It is intoxicating, leaving a lingering impression. The birds in the forest, the butterflies, bees, dragonflies on the flowers in the grass, represent the life of songs. The forest listens to the cicadas, the Shanghe County by the pond, the solitary canoes on the lake, this is the best enjoyment. A cool autumn breeze blowing on the face, a comfortable feeling, how surprising. On the Mid-Autumn Festival night, the bright stars and the full moon shimmer in the brilliant starry sky, the breeze, the Buddha, evoke the fantasy of the people, can't help but think of many things, but the scenery moves the hearts of people, causing them to feel countless emotions. It has attracted numerous artists to paint countless beautiful pictures, and many literati and poets to write poems describing it as beautiful as a painting, captivating.

9. 懂得快乐、善于快乐实在是一种智慧、一种气度、一种气魄

9. Understanding and being good at being happy is indeed a kind of wisdom, a kind of temperament, and a kind of spirit.

10. 集中到秋天的寒意，一阵风，光秃秃的树干上镶着几片摇摇晃晃肯去枯叶，瑟缩，打着旋的孩子。简，落叶飘进我的本打开的书页，黑色和**的颜色，狂欢已经突破失败的，扭动着身体，我不知道是什么虫子咬的疮孔。我突然每当想到的担心，不完全的心搁在秋季呢？

10. Concentrated into the chill of autumn, a gust of wind, children shivering, with a few fluttering leaves hanging loosely from the bare trunks. Jane, the falling leaves drift into the open pages of my notebook, black and **colors**, the revelry has burst through the failure, writhing, and I don't know what bug has bitten the sore holes. Suddenly, when I think of it, is the unease not entirely settled in autumn?

11. 秋风不加修饰，是最纯净的风，让人耳目一新，路过花园，沙沙作响的落叶不必有的祝福 - 本赛季的季节，新陈代谢是生命的新陈代谢和死亡是生命和死亡，悲欢离合的悲欢离合。干预并不需要，不必流连忘返。

11. The autumn wind, unadorned, is the purest wind, refreshing the senses. Passing through the garden, the rustling of leaves without any necessary blessings — this season of the year, metabolism is the metabolism of life and death is life and death, the sorrow and joy of parting and reunion. Intervention is not needed, nor should one linger and forget to move on.

12. 自古以来，秋天的性能，寿命忧郁雨或闪耀的下降是一个悲哀的符号表。屈原说：“洞庭波来木叶卷曲来秋。”宋宇说，“悲哉，秋气也！惨淡来植被变差摆脱。”曹丕闫戈兴同一首诗“秋天的萧瑟天气凉爽，植被，摆脱了白露为霜。”抑郁症自然树木落叶纷飞，首先映入人们心目中的，自然的图像产生的常识的心灵，宇宙的四季自然会想到生命的四季，“数山僧不解甲子，一叶落知世界在秋，秋叶飘零，及物性和悲伤为”文傅莹说，“悲伤的落叶新鲜的秋天，喜软条于罚嗯春”的事枯荣引发心脏悲喜。

12. Since ancient times, the fall's performance, its lifespan, the melancholic rain or the resplendent descent has been a symbol of sadness. Qu Yuan said, "The waves of Dongting come, and the wood leaves curl with the arrival of autumn." Song Yu said, "How melancholic the autumn air is! Its bleakness comes with the vegetation's deterioration and departure." Cao Pi and Yan Ge Xing wrote in the same poem, "The autumn's bleak weather is cool, the vegetation has shed dew for frost." Depression naturally causes trees to shed their leaves, which first enter people's hearts, creating a natural image that generates common sense in the soul. The universe's four seasons naturally evoke the four seasons of life, "Countless mountains do not understand the Jiazi (the Chinese lunar calendar), but one leaf falling knows the world is in autumn. The falling autumn leaves, and the objectivity and sadness they represent" as Wen Fuying said, "The fresh autumn leaves are sad, but the soft strips are favored in spring" – the cycle of prosperity and decline evokes the heart's sorrow and joy.

13. 生活中有些人和你格格不入，有些事让你惴惴不安，有些处境让你备受折磨，我们不能决定这些不友好事物的存在，但是可以决定自己对待他们的态度。修炼一种屏蔽力和钝感力，把一切不喜欢的东西隔绝在自己的生活之外，不受影响，万事不扰，自得其乐。

13. In life, there are some people who do not fit in with you, some things that make you anxious, and some situations that torment you. We cannot decide the existence of these unfriendly things, but we can decide our attitude towards them. Cultivate a shielding ability and a钝感力, isolating all the things you don't like from your life, unaffected, undisturbed, and deriving joy from everything.

14. 如果他/她已经不再爱你，如果一切已经无法挽留，那么何妨让自己放手，就当放开他/她也放开你自己。也许有一天，你才会发现当初离开他是一个多么明智的选择，也只有离开他你才会找到原来丢失的那些快乐，才能做回当初的自己，没有什么是不能忘记的，时间会淡化一切。也没有什么人是值得你痛苦流泪的，因为，真正爱你的人他不会让你伤心。放弃那些不懂的珍惜你的人吧？这样，好让别人有机会爱你，也让你有机会爱别人。

14. If he/she no longer loves you, if all has been lost and cannot be retrieved, why not let yourself go, as if by letting go of him/her, you are also letting go of yourself. Maybe one day, you will realize that leaving him/her was a wise choice, and only by leaving him/her can you find the lost happiness again, and become the person you were once. Nothing is unforgettable, and time will fade away everything. There is no one who is worthy of your pain and tears, because, a person who truly loves you will not make you sad. Let go of those who do not cherish you? In this way, let others have a chance to love you, and let you have a chance to love others.

15. 来积极地暗示自己，提高自信往往可以激发潜力。

15. Actively remind yourself that building confidence often helps to unleash your potential.

16. 然后离开家，什么是可悲的，而现在离开异乡，但无数的渴望，偶尔出现的心脏小的想法和舒适性，面对这种无声的破坏，这将是火热的涅槃或生活的嬗变。

16. Then to leave the home, what is sad, but now to leave the alien land, filled with countless desires, occasional small heartwarming thoughts and comfort, facing this silent destruction, it will be a fiery rebirth or a transformation of life.

17. 代表秋天的枫之美，不仅在红霜黄金，勇敢的，但更多的是临风。

17. The beauty of maple trees representing autumn is not only in their crimson frost and golden hues, brave as they are, but more so in their grace as they sway in the wind.

18. 我枯叶弹出的窗口中，嵌进了一小片红色的枫树从山上页。

18. A small piece of red maple leaves from the mountain was embedded in the window that popped out from my dry leaves.

19. 南部和死亡的，当然，也有其特定的地方，如轮桥的明月，钱塘江的秋潮，普陀山，荔枝湾莲等，冷雾，但颜色不强，回味永久性的。比起北国的秋，黄酒馍馍，鲈鱼之与白干粥蟹，黄犬之与骆驼。

19. The south and the land of death, of course, also have its unique places, such as the bright moon over the wheel bridge, the autumn tide of the Qiantang River, Putuo Mountain, the lychee bay lotus, etc., cold mist, but the color is not strong, leaving a lasting aftertaste. Compared with the autumn in the north, the yellow wine steamed buns, the sea bream with white congee and crab, the yellow dog with the camel.

20. 微风秋风的吹秋天的美丽，年轻的心态，失去了野菊花飘香的季节

20. The gentle breeze and autumn wind blowing brings the beauty of autumn, a youthful mindset, and the loss of the season when wild chrysanthemums exude their fragrance.

21. 秋天的果园，果园的苹果，桔子，香蕉等水果的成熟。叔叔阿姨们拿着一篮水果一个一个摘下。这些谁没有采摘的水果，仿佛在说：“下车，他的来吧！买水果的人谁等着我们呢！“

21. The orchard in autumn, the apples, oranges, bananas, and other fruits ripening in the orchard. Uncles and aunts pick them one by one, holding a basket of fruits. These unharvested fruits seem to be saying, "Get off the bus, he's coming! Who is waiting for the buyers of fruits?"

22. 诗人的感觉幽远空山寂静，禅意十足，拥有由意大利可掬的秋天开放，宽松的弹簧之间的月亮，石头，竹子的嘈杂和低的女性，莲花的渔船。诗燕Draw是焉？是禅焉？似乎不是所有的，这是一个天堂归隐图沉迷于兹，心旷神怡，诗与禅精湛的秋天地方，甚至高贵的王子，足以陶然可乐，流连忘返。

22. The poet's feelings are distant and serene, filled with Zen-like tranquility, as if they are opening from the gentle autumn of Italy, with the moon between loose springs, the clamor of stones, bamboo, and the low, feminine voice, and the fishing boats of lotus flowers. Where is the Draw of the poetic swallows? Is it Zen? It seems not entirely either. This is a heavenly retreat that captivates one's heart, a place where the mind is refreshed and poetry and Zen are both exquisite in autumn. Even a noble prince is enough to be enchanted, enjoying himself to the fullest and reluctant to leave.

23. 我爱秋天，因为秋天收获的季节，秋天的大地到处洋溢着丰收的喜悦，处处散发着温暖的努力和回报，并始终欣赏这背后的辛勤汗水的欢乐和温馨，因此收获更多的味道。

23. I love autumn because it is the season of harvest, when the earth is filled with the joy of abundance, exuding warmth and effort, and always appreciating the happiness and warmth behind the hard work and sweat, thereby savoring more flavors.

24. 菩提本无树，明镜亦非台。本来无一物，何处惹尘埃。

24. The bodhi tree is not truly a tree, nor is the bright mirror a stand. Originally there is nothing at all, where could dust arise?

25. 慢慢地，我觉得搁在一个秋天的心脏不充满着烦恼。生命的春天是可爱的，但有没有必要离开现场杞人忧天，甚至秋天，仍然有炽热的枫叶，更何况春天背后的夏季英里。

25. Gradually, I felt that placing it in the heart of an autumn was not filled with worries. The spring of life is lovely, but is it necessary to worry about trivial things and even in autumn, there are still fiery maple leaves, not to mention the summer miles behind the spring.

26. 孩子的秋天也是家乡的秋天，总是蓝色的，迷人的，偶尔飘过的云，不断变化的图形，和任何遐想无限。然而，秋天的中年外国地上的人，总是看到时的想法。前几天，临沂，高速公路，看着窗外的蓝天和白云，仿佛回到他的童年和家乡。

26. The autumn of a child is also the autumn of his hometown, always blue, charming, with occasional passing clouds, ever-changing patterns, and boundless imagination. However, for those who are in the middle age and from abroad during the autumn, they always see the thoughts when they look at it. A few days ago, in Linyi, on the highway, looking out the window at the blue sky and white clouds, it seemed as if he had returned to his childhood and hometown.

27. 光又回来了，和大量涌入的任何温暖我的心 />

27. The light has returned, and with it, a flood of warmth that fills my heart.

28. 不论是多么伤的过去我觉得最好别刻意的去忘，刻意去忘记，会记的更深，让一切都趋于平淡，该做什么做什么，别让自己常常独处苦思，随着时间的推移，就会慢慢的忘记~

28. No matter how painful the past may be, I think it's best not to刻意去 forget it. Deliberately trying to forget will only make the memories deeper. Let everything become more mundane, do what needs to be done, and don't let yourself often be alone in deep thought. As time goes by, it will gradually fade away.

29. 存在了就有它自己的意义，每个人都有，并不可缺少，因为有太多的人在时刻关心着你

29. Existence itself has its own meaning, and each person has it, and it is indispensable, because there are so many people who care about you at every moment.

30. 秋园。园菊花盛开，红，黄，绿，白，橙这些菊花的花瓣一样薄萝卜。一些菊花瓣完全展开，露出明亮的**的花芯，有的菊花23，菊花带芽，仿佛即将展开的花瓣。

30. Autumn Garden. The chrysanthemums in the garden are in full bloom, with petals as thin as radish slices in red, yellow, green, white, and orange hues. Some chrysanthemum petals are fully unfurled, revealing bright yellow centers, while others have chrysanthemum buds, as if about to bloom into full petals.

31. - 江南春雨

31. - The spring rain in the South of the Yangtze River

32. 雅趣包括下棋、打牌、绘画、钓鱼等。从事你喜欢的活动时，不平衡的心理自然逐渐得到平衡。“不管面临何等样的目前的烦恼和未来的威胁，一旦画面开始展开，大脑屏幕上便没有它们的立足之地了。它们隐退到阴影黑暗中去了，人的全部注意力都集中到了工作上面。”伊丽莎白就是通过画画治好了忧郁症。

32. Hobbies include activities such as playing chess, card games, painting, and fishing. Engaging in activities you enjoy naturally leads to a gradual balance of the imbalanced psychology. "No matter what kind of current troubles and future threats one may face, once the scene begins to unfold, there is no room for them on the brain's screen. They fade into the shadows and darkness, and all of one's attention is focused on the work." Elizabeth cured her depression through painting.

33. 每个人如果懂得以下八条秘诀，自然有个快乐的人生。

33. If everyone understands the following eight secrets, they will naturally lead a happy life.

34. 一个小镇在本赛季的记忆应该是在地上的野菊花缀满诗意小斜坡品菊花与我，你还是人比黄花深深叹了口气悲痛欲绝相思激情薄？

34. The memory of a small town in this season should be the wild chrysanthemums scattered on the poetic little slopes, admiring the chrysanthemums with me. Are you still sighing deeply with a heavy heart, yearning passionately but feeling the thinness of time?

35. 我走的小广场，来到一个安静的，沉默的草，树，沉默的，但我似乎听到他们在窃窃私语。想说什么？大概不满秋季神头顶掠过的飞机，打破了这个美丽的沉默。月亮疯了，植被也狂躁。风也不是那么柔软，像一条巨龙长啸，龙唱歌。黑暗动摇星月是一个向导，而调皮的云遮住了，很快，极不情愿云渐行渐远。月儿笑了，光线更亮，飘然而去一个云的那一刻，地球正在由银都湿透了，仿佛在黑暗中撤退，他们看到了希望。

35. I walked through a small plaza, came to a quiet, silent grass, trees, silent, but I seemed to hear them whispering to each other. What do they want to say? Perhaps they were not pleased with the planes flying over the head of the autumn god, breaking the beautiful silence. The moon went mad, the vegetation was frenzied. The wind was not as soft either, like a dragon roaring, with the dragon singing. The darkness was shaken by the stars and the moon, which served as a guide, but playful clouds obscured them, soon drifting away reluctantly. The moon smiled, the light brighter, as it floated away at the moment a cloud passed, the Earth was drenched in silver, as if retreating in the darkness, and they saw hope.

36. 坚守信念。当你做任何事时，必须坚持个人的信念。

36. Hold fast to your beliefs. Whenever you do anything, you must adhere to your personal beliefs.

37. 四季四季特征春水满四泽，的WORKER多奇峰，月亮扬明辉，冬岭秀孤松。“但我独爱秋天，秋天是怀旧的。比春天的浓艳热闹的，秋天是庄严肃穆，与夏季相比，赶上了密集的，秋天是一个简单和透明的秋天和冬天的空灵虚幻厚的耐受性比较。秋天是富有个性的季节，秋天是枯藤老树昏鸦心情秋芸的静止和可再生伤心阴，秋天是充满激情的天才的故乡，秋天的薄雾背景颜色。当春天坚持武器懒惰致命的，悄悄地走了，当夏天充满了自豪，冬天的夜晚万籁俱寂一个陌生的梦乡时，只有秋天，面对的悲欢离合的心灵，看到雨苦乐参半的心脏休克，没有悔恨和惊恐不固执弱，细细品味淡淡的忧伤，浸泡一个满脸皱纹的宁静，广阔的大力消化春天的鲁莽轻浮和夏季，深秋的沉默是老人保持沉默，“此时无声胜”，眼泪感动写十四行诗，生活。

37. The four seasons have their characteristics: in spring, the waters overflow the four marshes, the worker's many peaks are striking, the moon shines with its brilliance, and in winter, the solitary pine on the岭 is beautiful. "But I love autumn alone, for autumn is nostalgic. More solemn and solemn than the bustling and vibrant spring, autumn is more dense and intense than summer. Compared to the simplicity and transparency of autumn and the ethereal, thick tolerance of winter, autumn is a season rich in personality. Autumn is the hometown of passionate geniuses, with a misty backdrop of colors. When spring persists with its lazy weapons and the fatal, it quietly departs; when summer is filled with pride, and the winter nights are silent, like a strange dreamland, only autumn faces the heart of joy and sorrow, seeing the heart's mixed pain and pleasure, without regret or fear of stubbornness, savoring a faint sadness, soaking in a serene face with wrinkles, a vast power digesting the recklessness and levity of spring and summer, the deep silence of late autumn is the silence of the elderly, 'This moment of silence is more than words,' tears move to write sonnets, life."

38. 既然无处可逃，不如放下，既然没有净土，不如静心，既然不能如愿，不如释怀。随遇而安的态度过与世无争的生活，清风明月，自在随心。

38. Since there is nowhere to escape to, might as well let go; since there is no pure land, might as well calm the mind; since one cannot achieve one's desires, might as well let go of attachments. Adopt an attitude of ease in all circumstances and live a life that disputes with the world. Bask in the fresh breeze and bright moon, living carefree and following one's heart.

39. 人生短暂，万事具应想得开，随时随地保持心理平衡，守平常心，处变不惊，笑口常开，潇洒走一回，自会快快乐乐地过一生！

39. Life is short, we should take everything lightly, maintain psychological balance at all times, keep a calm mind, stay composed in the face of changes, keep a smiling face, walk with elegance, and you will naturally live a happy life!

40. 忘却也是保待心理平衡的好办法。忘记烦恼、忘记忧愁、忘记苦涩、忘记失意、忘记昨天、忘记自己、忘记他人对你的伤害、忘记朋友对你的背叛、忘记脆弱的情怀。忘记你曾有的羞悔和耻辱…这样你便可乐观豁达起来。人生的道路是曲折坎坷的，对于荣辱、富贵、贫穷、诽谤、嫉妒、酸楚等社会附加物，一笑置之，那么你就得到解脱了，心理就平衡了。忘却有害无益的人和事吧，保持心理的平衡。

40. Forgetting is also a good way to maintain psychological balance. Forget worries, forget sadness, forget bitterness, forget disappointment, forget yesterday, forget yourself, forget the harm others have done to you, forget your friends' betrayal, forget fragile sentiments. Forget the shame and dishonor you once had... In this way, you can become optimistic and magnanimous. Life's path is winding and rugged. For the social附加 things like honor and dishonor, wealth and poverty, slander, jealousy, and bitterness, just laugh them off. Then you will be released, and your mind will be balanced. Forget about people and things that are harmful without any benefit, and maintain your psychological balance.

41. 一些批评人士说，中国的文人，特别是诗人，具有非常强的颓废色中国的诗歌，赞美秋天的文字，尤其如此。但外国的诗人，否则是它虽然不是外国诗歌阅读，不想开立帐户，做一个秋天的诗歌散文钞票，但如果你去一翻英德，法国，意大利，诗人的集合，或国家诗歌的，小鼠移植到永远是能到看到了很多好评和哭泣进入秋季。著名诗人漫长的田园诗般的四个季节诗歌，总是在秋天的一部分。写得最好的最有味。显示感觉的动物，有趣的人，秋天，它始终是相同的，尤其是造成深刻的，圆的，苛刻的，荒凉的感觉来。不仅是一个诗人是被关闭在监狱里的囚犯，到了秋天，我认为肯定会觉得有一个人可以没有自己的深情，秋天的人，是这个国家的，更何况是有人种阶级的区别呢？但在中国，“秋士”的成语，阅读的文本也有很普遍的欧阳“秋声“苏东坡的”赤壁赋“的感觉的中国文人秋天关系，特别是深刻的，但今年秋深的味道，特别是在北方的秋的深味，感觉太到底。

41. Some critics say that Chinese literati, especially poets, have a very strong decadent tone in their poetry, and the admiration for autumnal texts is especially so. However, foreign poets, otherwise known as those who do not read foreign poetry, do not wish to open an account or compile a collection of autumnal poetry, but if you turn to the collections of poets from England, Germany, France, and Italy, or national poetry, the transplantation of the little mouse is always able to see many positive reviews and tears entering autumn. The famous poet's long pastoral-style poetry of the four seasons always includes autumn as a part. The best and most flavorful pieces are written. It shows the feelings of animals, interesting people, autumn, which is always the same, especially causing deep, round, strict, and desolate feelings. Not only is a poet confined to a prison as an inmate, but when autumn comes, I believe that he would definitely feel that there is someone who can without his own deep feelings, the autumn person of this country, not to mention the distinctions of social classes? But in China, the idiom "autumn scholar" and the reading of texts also have a common feeling of Chinese literati towards autumn, especially a profound one. But this year, the deep taste of autumn, especially the deep taste of autumn in the north, feels too profound.

42. 我们曾如此渴望命运的波澜，后来才发现，人生最壮丽的风景，是内心的淡泊从容。我们曾如此期待别人的认可，后来才发现，世界是自己的，和其他人毫无关系。

42. We once so eagerly yearned for the vicissitudes of fate, only to discover later that the most magnificent scenery in life is the calmness and composure of the mind. We once so eagerly awaited others' recognition, only to find out later that the world is our own, having nothing to do with others.

43. 秋古都，啊，秋天是总是好的，但是，北方的秋天，但特别是明确的，是比较静态的，更凄凉。我远远落后，要赶上从青岛到杭州，青岛，赶上北京大学的原因，但也希望充分领略这“秋”，故都的秋味。

43. The ancient capital of autumn, oh, autumn is always good, but the autumn in the north, especially the distinct one, is more static and desolate. I am far behind, trying to catch up from Qingdao to Hangzhou, the reason for catching up with Peking University, but I also hope to fully appreciate this "autumn", the taste of autumn in the ancient capital.