拥抱平凡，承受孤独：当下即是生活之福报

Embrace the ordinary, endure solitude: the present is the blessing of life.

1. 如果有人伤害了你，如果有人辜负了你，请记住，爱是一种孤独的修行，你今日遭遇的一切，是人生中最可遇而不可求的东西而在噩梦惊醒遗忘他们之前，请好好的享受悲伤吧！要知道，人越老，悲伤就越少呀。

1. If someone has hurt you, if someone has disappointed you, remember that love is a solitary practice. Everything you are experiencing today is the most sought-after yet unattainable thing in life. Before you wake from a nightmare and forget them, enjoy your sadness well! You should know that as people grow older, they experience less sadness.

2. 你是我义无反顾撞过的南墙，是黄梁的空欢喜一场，你依然是我的软肋，却不再是我的铠甲。

2. You are the southern wall I have撞过 without hesitation, a hollow joy of the Yellow粱, you are still my weak spot, but no longer my armor.

3. 宁让清风笑我太孤独，也不想你我相遇；我不想和你相逢，宁让清风笑我太孤独。

3. I would rather let the breeze laugh at my loneliness than want us to meet; I don't want to meet you, and would rather let the breeze laugh at my loneliness.

4. 真像一场独角戏，而我就是那个孤独的小丑，表演这没人观看的哑剧，独自悲戚。

4. It's just like a one-man show, and I am the lonely clown performing this silent drama that no one watches, mourning alone.

5. 那个说永远不会离开我的人，早已离开了，那个说爱我的人，牵着的却是别人的手，那个说会等我的人，却跟另一个人走了。

5. The person who said they would never leave me has already gone, the one who said they loved me is holding someone else's hand, and the one who said they would wait for me has gone with someone else.

6. 错误令我萎靡不振，巨大的孤独感在我身后缓慢渗出，片片破碎的心上印着对不起。

6. Mistakes have left me feeling dejected, a sense of immense loneliness slowly seeping from behind me, each broken piece of my heart marked with "I'm sorry."

7. 最佳的报复不是仇恨，而是打心底发出的冷淡，干嘛花力气去恨一个不相干的人。

7. The best revenge is not hatred, but a coldness that comes from the heart. Why waste energy hating someone who has nothing to do with you?

8. 我们孤独地来到这个世界上，最后也会孤独的死去。

8. We come to this world alone and will also die alone.

9. 原来，每一个旅行者真的只是一颗孤独行星。原来，孤独是自由的另外一个名字。

9. It turns out that every traveler is actually just a solitary planet. It turns out that loneliness is another name for freedom.

10. 总有一个人，他的离开让你瞬间觉得自己一无所有。有些失望是不可避免的，但大部分的失望，都因为你高估了自己。

10. There is always someone whose departure makes you feel as if you have nothing at all. Some disappointment is inevitable, but most of the disappointment comes from overestimating yourself.

11. 你可曾知道我是世上最孤独的存在，沉睡于谷底，黑暗中，在心底默默的淌着泪。

11. Have you ever known that I am the most solitary being in the world, sleeping at the bottom of a valley, in the darkness, silently shedding tears in the depths of my heart.

12. ​前半生，从简单到复杂，这是阅历；后半生，从复杂到简单，这是修行。三两好友，相对无言已知心；一盏清茶，人间俗事无关我。

12. In the first half of life, from simple to complex, this is experience; in the second half, from complex to simple, this is cultivation. With a few close friends, we may not speak a word but know each other's hearts; with a cup of clear tea, I am unrelated to the mundane affairs of the world.

13. 当你感到孤独，沮丧时，请提醒自己，上帝对你的爱是无条件的，他永远都爱你。

13. When you feel lonely and despondent, remind yourself that God's love for you is unconditional; He always loves you.

14. 可以做朋友吗？是一段故事的开始；还可以做朋友吗？是一段故事的结束。

14. Can we be friends? It's the beginning of a story; Can we still be friends? It's the end of a story.

15. 带着希望上路，等待的时候不会彷徨，空虚的时候不会无助，快乐的时候不会孤独。

15. Set off with hope, and you will not be lost in waiting, will not feel helpless in emptiness, and will not be lonely in happiness.

16. 世界上不知道自己爱你的程度有多深，只知道在没有你的天空下是那么的害怕孤独。

16. In the world, I don't know how deeply I love you, but I only know that without you, I am so afraid of being lonely in the sky.

17. 爱情心理小贴士愈是在我们感觉孤独之时，我们便愈是怀有强烈的爱之渴望。

17. Love psychology tip: The more we feel lonely, the stronger our desire for love.

18. 这个城市是蓝色的有半透明的质感微风阵阵吹过孤独感被一阵子放大一阵子缩小。

18. The city is blue with a semi-transparent texture; the gentle breeze occasionally blows, amplifying and diminishing the sense of loneliness.

19. 风息是温柔的咒语，从平滑的夜色飘翔到黑暗的云顶。让世界瞬刻孤独地沉默。

19. The wind's breath is a gentle spell, drifting from the smooth night sky to the dark clouds' summit. It causes the world to fall into a momentary silence, alone.

20. 孤独是焦躁不安的，单独则泰然自若。孤独是有些滑稽的，而单独就有点幽默了。

20. Solitude is restless, while being alone is calm. Solitude is a bit comical, while being alone has a touch of humor.

21. 两人在一起，不要去想对方爱不爱你，你想得越多，伤就会越痛。也许你会受到伤害，有一天你会发现，原来爱情真没那么重要。一生中会有很多段爱情，其实真正需要强大的，是你的心。

21. When you are together with someone, don't worry about whether they love you or not. The more you think about it, the more painful it will be. Perhaps you will be hurt, and one day you will find out that love isn't as important as you thought. There will be many love stories in your life, but what you truly need is a strong heart.

22. 失去的东西，其实从来未曾真正地属于你，也不必惋惜。

22. The things you lose never truly belonged to you in the first place, and there is no need to regret them.

23. 是不是只有孤独的人才会在每一个喧哗的时候，偷偷伤感过去，悄悄忧郁未来？

23. Is it only the lonely who secretly feel sad about the past at every moment of noise and quietly melancholic about the future?

24. 人的孤独是因为他不接受自己的孤独。于是，孤独便成为了一面他无法穿透的墙。

24. Human loneliness is because he does not accept his own loneliness. Therefore, loneliness becomes a wall he cannot penetrate.

25. 感情都是一点点淡的，人心也都是一点点凉的，不是所有的人都能一直等待，也不是所有的爱都能失而再来。

25. Emotions fade gradually, and people's hearts also cool down a bit by bit. Not everyone can wait indefinitely, and not all love can be regained after it is lost.

26. 不管未来有多遥远，成长的路上有你有我； 不管相逢在什么时候，我们是永远的朋友。

26. No matter how distant the future may be, on the path of growth there is you and me; no matter when we meet, we are forever friends.

27. 享受这狂欢后的落寞，谁能保证下一秒不寂寞。

27. Enjoy the melancholy after this revelry, who can guarantee that loneliness won't strike in the next second.

28. 你有没有一个时刻，不想和任何人说话，只是觉得有些孤独，尽管身边的人很多。

28. Have you ever had a moment when you didn't want to talk to anyone, just feeling a bit lonely, even though there are many people around you?

29. 美丽的梦和美丽的诗一样，都是可遇而不可求的。我真喜欢那样的梦，明明知道你已为我跋涉千里，却又觉得芳草鲜美，好像你我才初次相逢！

29. Beautiful dreams, like beautiful poems, are something that can be encountered but not sought for. I truly cherish those dreams. Even though I know that you have traveled thousands of miles for me, I still feel that the grass is lush and fresh, as if we had just met for the first time!

30. 小时候，寂寞就是没有朋友。长大了，寂寞就是比没有朋友更寂寞。有时我在想，如果我们真的很爱一个人，我们能忍受有一天，我们可能会失去他吗。离别这种事，也是生命的一部分。但是我们真的能释怀吗？我们真的很爱一个人 ，不会害怕他离开我们而去吗？同时我又在想可能这样吗。如果不爱任何人，我们还能继续生活下去吗，就就是我所谓的寂寞，我这样已经五年了。 查基亚特萨克维拉库 《暹罗之恋》

30. When I was young, loneliness meant not having friends. As I grew up, loneliness became even lonelier than not having friends. Sometimes I wonder, if we truly love someone, can we bear the thought of possibly losing them one day? Separation is also a part of life. But can we really let it go? If we truly love someone, wouldn't we fear their departure? At the same time, I also think about the possibility of that. If we don't love anyone, can we still go on living, as I call it, loneliness? I have been in this state for five years. - Chakiat Saksirakul, "The Love of Siam"

31. 阳光照射着身体，把倒影印在地上，原来我并不孤独，因为我还有影子在陪着我。

31. The sun shone upon my body, casting my shadow on the ground, and it was then I realized I was not alone, for I had my shadow to accompany me.

32. 风华是一指流砂，苍老是一段年华。若此生，得不到，护不了，那吾宁愿百年孤独。

32. Youth is like flowing sands, and aging is a span of years. If in this lifetime, I cannot obtain it or protect it, then I would rather be alone for a century.

33. 我爱清风与孤独因为它可以让我清醒并不是我天生傲骨是因为我需要看清然后看轻

33. I love the breeze and solitude because it allows me to stay alert; it's not because I have an innate haughtiness, but because I need to see things clearly and then let them go lightly.

34. 酒杯里摇晃的液体，渐渐冒出的啤酒泡沫，孤独的气息，也缠绕住我消瘦的身体。

34. The liquid swaying in the glass, the gradually rising froth of beer, the sense of solitude, all enfolded my thin body.

35. 不要为过去的事情耿耿于怀，不依不饶，只会画地为牢。不要为未来的事情忧心忡忡，焦虑不安，一样徒劳无功。我们只要活在当下，取悦自己，沉淀自己，每一个日子都生动活泼，让每一个瞬间都翩翩起舞，让每一个时刻都精彩盎然。

35. Do not dwell on past matters, hold onto grudges, for it will only confine you within your own limitations. Do not worry or fret about future events, for anxiety serves no purpose. We should simply live in the present, please ourselves, and settle our minds. Each day should be full of vitality, and every moment should dance gracefully, making every second truly splendid.

36. 什么是孤独，就是有一天，你拍了一张很美很有意境的照片存在手机里，却不知道该发给谁分享，才突然想起这一路上除了自己，没人陪你一起看风景。

36. What is loneliness? It's like this: One day, you take a beautiful and poetic photo with your phone, but you don't know who to share it with, and it suddenly occurs to you that throughout this journey, no one has been with you to enjoy the scenery but yourself.

37. 很多人，因为寂寞而错爱了一人，但更多的人，因为错爱一人，而寂寞一生。

37. Many people fall in love with someone out of loneliness, but even more people spend their entire lives lonely because of a wrong love.

38. 血不断从手上的伤口中涌出来，我忘了痛，任新鲜的血液一滴滴地坠落在地板上。突然，我发现自己的血不是鲜红色的，它的颜色与寂寞相同。我已忘了寂寞的颜色。打开门，我闻到了冬天的气息，而我的心却无法冬眠，在寒风中，赤裸的心灵被撕裂，痛到麻木，失去了感觉。

38. Blood kept spurting from the wound on my hand, and I forgot the pain, allowing the fresh blood to drop one drop at a time onto the floor. Suddenly, I realized that my blood was not bright red; its color was the same as loneliness. I had forgotten the color of loneliness. Opening the door, I smelled the scent of winter, but my heart could not hibernate, exposed to the cold wind. My naked soul was torn apart, in pain to the point of numbness, and I lost all sensation.

39. 很多人的思想都会经历三个阶段：

39. Many people's thoughts will go through three stages:

40. 思虑多，善变，没定性，让你往东非往西典型者，耳根软，孤独感强烈，不会妥协。

40. Ponderous, changeable, lack of stability, a typical person who goes east when you say west, with a soft ear, a strong sense of loneliness, and unwilling to compromise.

41. 单无助，连一个人看出戏都即时想起孤身只影，而无法从孤单寂寞中发掘出孤独的好处，包括自由，自在，难得一个人可以独自思考，无须任何人交待情绪的享受，就是没有破除世俗觉得一个人在餐馆吃饭很尴尬的魔障。 林夕 《原来你非不快乐》

41. Alone and without anyone, even if someone notices the play, they immediately think of being all alone, and cannot find the benefits of loneliness from the loneliness and loneliness, including freedom, ease, and the rarity of being able to think alone, without needing to account for anyone's emotions, which is to break through the illusion that it is embarrassing for a person to eat at a restaurant alone. - Lyrics by Lin Xi, "原来你非不快乐" (The fact that you are not unhappy)

42. 随着时间的围困，我的步伐越来越沉重缓慢，时间仿佛把我逼到了死角，让我陷入了绝地，我无力挽回些什么，只有忍着痛，步履维艰地一步一步往前走。

42. As time trapped me, my steps grew increasingly heavy and slow. It seemed as if time cornered me into a dead end, leaving me in dire straits. I had no power to turn back, and could only bear the pain, shuffling forward with difficulty, step by step.

43. 这么说吧，别人稍一注意你，你就敞开心扉，你觉得这是坦率，其实是因为孤独。

43. To put it this way, as soon as others pay a little attention to you, you open up your heart, and you think it's honesty, but in fact, it's because of loneliness.

44. 或许，其实每个人都在寻找自己的分身，而正因为找不到，所以每个人都是孤独的。

44. Perhaps, in fact, everyone is searching for their doppelgänger, and it is precisely because they cannot find it that everyone is lonely.

45. 是缘分将我们带到一起，是友情将我们紧紧地相连。

45. It is fate that brings us together, and it is friendship that tightly binds us.

46. 什么是浪漫？就是明知她不喜欢你，依然送99朵玫瑰花给她。什么是浪费？就是明知她喜欢你，还送99朵玫瑰花给她。

46. What is romance? It's knowing that she doesn't like you and still sending her 99 roses. What is waste? It's knowing that she likes you and still sending her 99 roses.

47. 路灯没有了温度，昏暗的灯光掩饰不了我的孤独，一个人的夜晚，真的想放声大哭。

47. The streetlights lack warmth, and the dim light cannot hide my loneliness. On a night spent alone, I really want to let out a loud cry.

48. 这个日子你享受孤独，畅饮芬芳，感受曼妙的音符瓯羽般的飘落，心旷神怡

48. On this day, revel in solitude, imbibe the fragrance, feel the enchanting notes gently fall like feathered wings, and let your heart and mind soar with joy.

49. 如果一滴水代表一个祝福，我送你一个东海；如果一颗星代表一份幸福，我送你一条银河；如果一棵树代表一份思念，我送你一片森林。

49. If a drop of water represents a blessing, I give you the East China Sea; if a star represents a piece of happiness, I give you the Milky Way; if a tree represents a thought of you, I give you a forest.

50. 我们总会经历坎坷，我们总会迎接风雨，我们总会分手在下一个路口，我们也会从下一个路口牵手结伴一起走向太阳的方向。走过了悲伤，走过了欢乐，我们经历了风雨的洗礼，经历了岁月的变迁，我们总会与人争、与人闹，继而怀念初见时的完整，可我们再也找不到初见时的心如止水和怦然心动的感觉了。

50. We will always encounter difficulties, we will always face the storms and rains, we will always part at the next crossroads. We will also hold hands and walk together towards the direction of the sun from the next crossroads. Having gone through sadness and joy, we have been washed by the storms and tested by the vicissitudes of time. We will always have disputes and quarrels with others, and then long for the wholeness of our first encounter. However, we can no longer find the serene and heart-stirring feelings of our first encounter.

51. 不要怪自己太重感情，你只是太没出息，所以才连个不爱你的人都放不下。

51. Don't blame yourself for being too emotional, you're just too lacking in ambition, which is why you can't let go of someone who doesn't love you.

52. 心情不好的时候就抬起头来，那样眼泪就不会掉落在地上。

52. When you're feeling down, lift up your head, so that your tears won't fall to the ground.

53. 我只是舞台上哪个没人注意的配角、用孤独衬托别人的爱情、而表演的却是他们。

53. I am just a forgotten supporting actor on the stage, using my loneliness to highlight others' love, while performing their roles.

54. 孤独是一种态度，寂寞是一种想法，寂寞是武器，有时候致命。寂寞和孤单的区别我认为在与心灵和形式的区别。孤单只是个体和集体的区别。寂寞则是心灵上的孤单，缺少心灵上的共鸣。有的人，没有知己，同样也没感觉到寂寞，而且生活还挺美。

54. Solitude is an attitude, loneliness is a thought, loneliness is a weapon, sometimes deadly. The difference between loneliness and solitude, I believe, lies in the distinction between the soul and the form. Solitude is just the difference between the individual and the collective. Loneliness, on the other hand, is a spiritual loneliness, a lack of spiritual resonance. Some people may not have close friends but still don't feel lonely, and their lives can be quite beautiful.

55. 我微笑着走向生活， 无论生活以什么方式回敬我。 报我以平坦吗？ 我是一条欢乐奔流的小河。 报我以崎岖吗？ 我是一座庄严思索的大山。 报我以幸福吗？ 我是一只凌空飞翔的燕子。 报我以挫折吗？ 我是一根劲竹经得起千击万磨。 生活里不能没有笑声， 没有笑声的世界该是多么寂寞。 什么也改变不了我对生活的热爱， 我微笑着走向火热的生活！ 汪国真 《我微笑着走向生活》

55. I smile as I approach life, regardless of how life repays me. Does it offer me smoothness? I am a joyful river flowing. Does it offer me ruggedness? I am a majestic mountain pondering. Does it offer me happiness? I am a swift swan soaring in the sky. Does it offer me setbacks? I am a resilient bamboo that withstands a thousand beats and a thousand grinds. Laughter cannot be absent from life, and a world without laughter would be so lonely. Nothing can change my love for life, and I smile as I walk towards the fiery life! Wang Guozhen, "I Smile as I Approach Life"

56. 我就是那种不会处理人际关系也不会主动联络感情，还整天嚷嚷着孤独的失败者。

56. I am the kind of person who can't handle interpersonal relationships, doesn't initiate contact with others, and yet constantly抱怨孤独的失败者.

57. 柳阴下别百般惆怅，同窗数载少年情长，望征程千种思绪，愿友情化为奋进的力量！

57. Beneath the willow shade, parting brings a myriad of melancholy; years of companionship with schoolmates, the youthful emotions enduring, gazing at the journey ahead with a thousand thoughts, may our friendship become the driving force for our progress!

58. 渐渐的知道了，很多东西可遇而不可求，不属于自己的，何必拼了命去在乎。

58. Gradually I have come to understand that many things can be encountered but not pursued, and if something does not belong to you, why go to such lengths to care about it?

59. 马头琴的悠扬，很孤独，也很宽广。这是牧人的情怀，也是心里有爱的人的情怀。

59. The melodious sound of the horsehead fiddle is both lonely and vast. It embodies the sentiments of a herdsman, as well as the feelings of those who have love in their hearts.

60. 生命中有许多你不想做却不能不做的事，这就是责任；生命中有许多你想做却不能做的事，这就是命运。

60. There are many things in life that you don't want to do but cannot avoid, that is responsibility; there are many things in life that you want to do but cannot, that is fate.

61. 世间最孤单的路，就是我该走的路。无论我选择什么样的路，那条路，注定孤独。

61. The loneliest road in the world is the one I am supposed to take. No matter what path I choose, that road is doomed to be lonely.

62. 谁都以为自己会是例外：在后悔之外。谁都以为拥有的感情也是例外：在变淡之外。谁都以为恋爱的对象刚巧也是例外：在改变之外。然而最终发现：除了变化，无一例外。

62. Everyone thinks they will be the exception: beyond regret. Everyone thinks the love they have is an exception: beyond fading. Everyone thinks the person they are in love with is an exception: beyond change. However, in the end, they discover: with the exception of change, there is none.

63. 也许别人给得了你安慰，也给的了劝慰、告诫，却永远不知道你心底是多么的万箭穿心，不论有多少的委屈，多么的难受，记得最终能治愈自己的还是自己。

63. Perhaps others can offer you comfort and advice, but they will never know how deeply you are pierced by a thousand arrows in your heart. No matter how many grievances or how much pain you may feel, remember that ultimately, the one who can heal yourself is yourself.

64. 生活很累，别让心灵再累；生命不长，别让自己硬扛。

64. Life is tiring, don't let your soul be burdened anymore; life is short, don't bear it all alone.

65. 不要为了寂寞去恋爱，时间是个魔鬼，天长日久，如果你是个多情的人，即使不爱对方，到时候也会产生感情，最后你怎么办？

65. Don't fall in love just to alleviate loneliness; time is a devil. After a long time, if you are a passionate person, even if you don't love the other person, you will eventually develop feelings for them. What will you do then?

66. 我知道，当你不顾我的感受时，我永远都是孤独的望着天空，期盼着一场雨的到来。

66. I know that when you disregard my feelings, I am forever alone, gazing at the sky, longing for the arrival of a rainstorm.

67. 快乐与痛苦都是自己选择的，上苍不会给我们快乐，也不会给我们痛苦，它只会给我们幸福。你可以选择一个快乐的角度去看待它，也可以选择一个痛苦的角度去看待它。

67. Joy and suffering are both choices we make ourselves. The heavens will not give us joy or suffering; it only gives us happiness. You can choose to see it from a joyful perspective, or you can choose to see it from a painful one.

68. 如果孤独是自由的副作用，那我爱极了，没有非见不可的人，没有非说不可的话。

68. If loneliness is a side effect of freedom, I love it to bits. There's no one I absolutely have to see, no words I absolutely have to say.

69. 对0说，我除了你，一切都没有意义；0对1说，我除了你，就是孤独的自己。

69. To 0, I say that everything is meaningless without you; 0 says to 1, I am just an isolated self without you.

70. 她无力的划落在孤独的墙角，像一头受伤的小兽，却只是硬生生的将哽咽狠狠咽下。

70. She helplessly fell against the lonely corner of the wall, like a wounded little beast, but merely forced herself to swallow the stifled sobs.

71. 从不喜欢孤单一个可惜偏偏孤独一个我不懂得跟我独自对坐让我面对无止尽的冷落。

71. I never liked being alone, but unfortunately, I am alone. I don't know how to sit alone with me, facing endless loneliness.

72. 人生不要轻易妥协将就，有一种单身，叫做宁缺毋滥。不介意孤独，比爱你舒服。

72. Do not compromise easily in life; there is a kind of singlehood called "preferring to be without rather than to be with." I'm not bothered by loneliness; it's more comfortable than loving you.

73. 死亡跟他没有什么关系，而生命对他才有意义。加西亚马尔克斯《百年孤独》

73. Death has nothing to do with him; it is life that has meaning for him. From "One Hundred Years of Solitude" by Gabriel García Márquez.

74. 孤独是在午后，一个人在空荡荡的房子里，坐在阳台上和在阳光与微风里看一本书。

74. Solitude is when, in the afternoon, one sits alone in an empty house, on the balcony, reading a book in the sunshine and with the breeze.

75. 在珍惜着某个人时，有时候会很难过，有时候会感到寂寞，但是，有时候也会觉得非常快乐 =) 花岛惠 《水果篮子》

75. When cherishing someone, sometimes it's hard to feel sad, sometimes it's lonely, but sometimes it's also incredibly happy =) Kaze Hanae, "Fruits Basket"

76. 没人有义务了解你的苦难，也没人有必要分享你的欢欣。孤独是快乐，陪伴最难得。

76. No one is obligated to understand your suffering, nor is there anyone who needs to share your joy. Solitude is happiness, and companionship is the most difficult to attain.

77. 当我与别人之间没有联系的时候，我感到孤独，但是当我存在的时候，我感到单独。

77. When I am not in contact with others, I feel lonely, but when I exist, I feel alone.

78. 真正爱的人，哪怕再看一眼都想拥有，你以为说了分手就能不见面，你以为说了再见就能不想念，深爱过的哪里说忘就能忘。

78. A true lover would want to possess even just one more glance, you think saying goodbye would prevent seeing each other, you think saying goodbye would make you stop missing them, but deep love is not something that can be easily forgotten.

79. 人最大的魅力，是有一颗阳光的心态。心无所求，便不受万象牵绊；心无牵绊，坐也从容，行也从容，故生优雅。一个优雅的人，养眼又养心，才是魅力十足的人。容貌乃天成，浮华在身外，心里满是阳光，才是永恒的美。

79. The greatest charm of a person lies in having a sunny attitude. With no desires, one is not bound by the myriad things; without attachments, one can sit comfortably and walk comfortably, thus exuding elegance. An elegant person is pleasing to both the eyes and the heart, and is truly charming. Appearance is given by nature, and ostentation lies beyond the body. It is the heart filled with sunshine that is the eternal beauty.

80. 三寸气在千般用，一旦无常万事休。我们不知道明天和意外哪一个先来，所以不要为还没有发生的事情而提前铺设，人生不过是一个兵来将挡，水来土掩，见招拆招的过程，如果实在无能为力，那就顺其自然。把当下的时间经营好，就是把生命的主动权把握在自己的手中。

80. There are a thousand uses for three inches of breath, but once the time of change comes, all things cease. We do not know whether tomorrow or an accident will come first, so we should not prematurely plan for things that have not yet occurred. Life is merely a process of meeting each challenge as it comes, whether it be an army advancing or water rising, dealing with each situation as it arises. If there is truly nothing we can do, then we should go with the flow. Managing the present time well is to hold the reins of life in our own hands.

81. 我们的孤独就像天空中漂浮的城市，仿佛是一个秘密，却无从述说。《天空之城》

81. Our loneliness is like a city floating in the sky, as if it's a secret that cannot be told. "The Castle in the Sky"

82. 每一个人都要经历掏心掏肺的付出，然后换来撕心裂肺的结果，从此以后就会发现没心没肺的好处。

82. Everyone has to go through the heart-wrenching effort of giving everything, only to receive a heart-breaking outcome, and from then on, they will realize the benefits of being indifferent to one's heart.

83. 我不怕感到孤独，现在我要把它弃之一旁，因为世界上还有其它的感情让我去体验。

83. I am not afraid of feeling lonely, now I am going to set it aside, because there are other emotions in the world for me to experience.

84. 一段清醒通透的话：“年龄越大越会明白，人生的长度，长不过春夏秋冬；人生的宽度，宽不过南北西东；人生的高度，高不过蓝天白云；人生的无常，无非是悲欢离合。

84. A lucid and transparent statement: "The older we get, the more we understand that the length of life is no longer than the four seasons of spring, summer, autumn, and winter; the width of life is no broader than the four cardinal directions of north, south, east, and west; the height of life is no higher than the blue sky and white clouds; and the impermanence of life is merely the ups and downs of joy and sorrow, parting and reunion."

85. 黑夜的孤独里没有声音，黑夜的灵魂站在千里之外，黑夜的视野里早已没有了等待。

85. In the solitude of the night, there is no sound; the soul of the night stands a thousand miles away, and in its field of vision, there is already no waiting.

86. 不管你在不在，我究竟会慢慢老去，只是你不在，我怎宁愿宁愿就如许孤独的老去。

86. Whether you are here or not, I will inevitably grow old slowly, but without you, how much I would rather prefer to grow old alone.