在纷繁复杂的探寻人生之道中，我们当避免空谈，不涉他人私隐，不争一时之短长。

In the complex and intricate pursuit of the path of life, we should avoid empty talk, not intrude on others' privacy, and not quarrel over short-term gains and losses.

1. 当我痛苦地站在你的面前，你不能说我两手空空，你不能说我一无所有。

1. When I stand before you in pain, you cannot say that I come with empty hands, you cannot say that I have nothing.

2. 有些烦恼是我们凭空虚构的，而我们却把它当成真实去承受。

2. Some troubles are imaginary, yet we endure them as if they were real.

3. 1“ 我们把欲望写在脸上

3.1 "We write our desires on our faces"

4. 生活不可能一帆风顺，总会有波折，总会有险阻。生活是个爱开玩笑的孩子，也许今天给你所有，明天又会让你一无所有，无需烦恼，该来的总会来，再黑的夜晚也会有黎明到来的那一刻。不管生活有多么曲折，只要拥有幸福的态度就能挺过漫漫长夜 ，就能迎来美好的明天。~

4. Life is never smooth sailing, it's always full of twists and turns, and there will always be obstacles. Life is a playful child, who may give you everything today and take it all away tomorrow. There's no need to worry; what's meant to be will come, and even the darkest night will have its moment of dawn. No matter how winding life may be, as long as you have a positive attitude, you can get through the long night and welcome a beautiful tomorrow. ~

5. 如果和怎样，是两个毫无威胁的词，但是把它们连着放到一起，它们就能让你余生都魂牵梦萦。如果这样了又会怎样，你要做的就是勇敢的听从自己的心。《给朱丽叶的信》

5. "And," and "how," are two words without any threat, but when put together, they can haunt you for the rest of your life. If that's the case, all you need to do is bravely follow your heart. - Letter to Juliet

6. 女人在爱情中挣扎；男人在婚姻中挣扎；第三者在外遇中挣扎。

6. Women struggle in love; men struggle in marriage; the third party struggles in affairs.

7. 有一段很智慧的话：“少说狂话。天狂有雨，人狂有祸。爱说狂话的人不知道天高地厚，做事喜欢张扬，做人高调，总想着高人一等，最后反倒不如别人混的，所以做人一定要低调，不说狂话才能够站得稳，走得远。”

7. There is a wise saying: "Lessen the boastful talk. The heavens are overcast with rain when the sky is boastful, and misfortune befalls when humans are boastful. Those who love to talk boastfully do not know the limits of the sky and the earth, and they like to show off in their actions and be ostentatious in their demeanor, always thinking they are superior to others. In the end, they are not as successful as others, so one must be modest in life and refrain from boasting to maintain stability and achieve long-term success."

8. 人生就像爬山，本来我们可以轻松登上山顶去欣赏那美丽的风景，但由于身上背负了太重包袱，带着没有止境的索求上路，我们不但越爬越累，甚至连沿途的美丽风景也会忽略掉，空留一身的疲惫。学会成长，学会感激，但别活得太累。。~

8. Life is like climbing a mountain. Originally, we could easily reach the summit and enjoy the beautiful scenery, but burdened with too heavy a load and driven by endless desires, we not only become more and more tired as we climb, but also neglect the beautiful scenery along the way, leaving only our own exhaustion. Learn to grow, learn to be grateful, but don't live too tired...~

9. 14，初恋的人大多都不懂爱，所以初恋失败的多，成功的少。结婚应该找个未婚的，因为谁都喜欢原装。

9. 14, Most people in their first love don't really understand love, so there are more failed first loves than successful ones. Marriage should be with an unmarried person, because everyone likes the original package.

10. 谢谢爸妈遥远的挂念，让我知道自己有依靠的港湾；谢谢朋友的了解，让我能展露倔强面具下的柔软；谢谢同事的照顾，让我健健康康安心工作；谢谢老板的严格，让我看到自己的上升空间；谢谢这个城市的温柔，让我在异乡有家一般的感动；谢谢自己这么久的坚持，让未来的路一点一点清晰。

10. Thank you, Mom and Dad, for your distant concern, for letting me know that I have a harbor of support; thank you for your friends' understanding, for allowing me to show the softness behind my stubborn mask; thank you for your colleagues' care, for letting me work healthily and peacefully; thank you for your boss's strictness, for showing me the space for my growth; thank you for the gentleness of this city, for giving me a sense of home away from home; thank you for your own persistence for so long, for making the path ahead clearer little by little.

11. 人的一生，都是在对与错、爱与恨、欢乐与痛苦中徘徊。当我们历经挫折，饱受许多痛苦和忧伤之后，抚摸着昔日的伤痕，回忆着曾经的伤痛，未免怅然。多少年以后，当年少的浮燥与轻狂，被从容与沉稳所取代，再度面对纷扰的世界 滚滚红尘的时候，对所有的一切都已显得淡然。

11. Throughout one's life, there is a constant oscillation between right and wrong, love and hate, joy and pain. After enduring setbacks and suffering many hardships and sorrows, we may find ourselves gently touching the scars of the past, reminiscing about the pain that once was, and feeling a sense of melancholy. After many years have passed, the youthful impetuosity and recklessness have been replaced by composure and stability. When we once again face the chaotic world and the bustling dust of life, we seem to have become indifferent to everything.

12. 有些事，我们明知道是错的，也要去坚持，因为不甘心;有些人，我们明知道是爱的，也要去放弃，因为没结局;有时候，我们明知道没路了，却还在前行，因 为习惯了。在这个世间，总有一些我们无法完成的事情， 一些无法靠近的人，无法占有的感情，一些无法抵达的地方，无法修复的缺陷。~

12. There are some things we know are wrong, but we still choose to persist because we're not willing to accept defeat; there are some people we know we love, but we have to let go because there's no happy ending; sometimes, we know there's no way forward, yet we continue to move because we're accustomed to it. In this world, there are always things we cannot accomplish, people we cannot reach, feelings we cannot possess, places we cannot reach, and flaws we cannot fix. ~

13. QQ是联系朋友的工具，可以是交朋友的工具但是别轻易相信QQ上的友谊更别轻易幻想QQ上朋友的样子。

13. QQ is a tool for connecting with friends, it can be a means of making friends, but don't easily believe the friendships you find on QQ, nor should you easily fantasize about the appearance of your QQ friends.

14. 我很耐心的在等你，等着等着你竟然不来了，草你母亲。

14. I was so patient, waiting for you, but then you didn't come. F**k your mother.

15. 有些人脸上有太多的笑容，是因为他们心中有太多的泪水。

15. Some people have too many smiles on their faces because they have too many tears in their hearts.

16. 不要过分信赖别人，即便是你的影子，也会在黑暗中离开你。

16. Don't over-rely on others, even if it's your shadow, it will leave you in the darkness.

17. 26，浪漫是什么？是送花？雨中漫步？楼前伫立不去？如果两人彼此倾心相爱，什么事都不做，静静相对都会感觉是浪漫的。否则，即使两人坐到月亮上拍拖，也是感觉不到浪漫的。

17. 26, What is romance? Is it sending flowers? Walking in the rain? Standing still in front of the building? If two people are deeply in love with each other, even without doing anything, just sitting quietly together can feel romantic. Otherwise, even if the two sit on the moon to date, they will not feel romantic.

18. 最讨厌的是，在我努力试着放下的时候，你又出现在我面前。

18. The worst part is, when I am trying my best to let go, you appear in front of me again.

19. 最安静的活法就是，不说狂话，不管闲事，不争高低。平心静气的过自己的生活，不惊不扰，云淡风轻。

19. The quietest way to live is to avoid saying absurd things, to stay out of other people's business, and to refrain from arguing about superiority. Live a peaceful life with a calm mind, undisturbed and serene, like clouds drifting and the wind blowing gently.

20. 人生来 就注定彼此不一样

20. People are born to be different from each other.

21. 你也曾被感动过，因为一人漂洋过海千山万水的来看你，因为一人递过来的一杯热茶，因为一人隔着电话唱的那首歌，因为一人所说的动人情话。可是不知道怎么回事，在岁月里走着走着，就不容易动人了。

21. You have also been touched because someone crossed oceans and mountains to see you, because someone handed you a cup of hot tea, because someone sang a song to you over the phone, and because someone said touching words of affection. But for some reason, as time goes by, it becomes more difficult to be touched.

22. 你可以要求自己守信，但不能要求别人守信;你可以要求自己对别人好，但不能期待人家对你好。你怎样对人，并不代表人家就会怎样对你。如果看不透这一点，你只会徒添不必要的烦恼。

22. You can ask yourself to be trustworthy, but you cannot demand that others be trustworthy; you can ask yourself to be kind to others, but you cannot expect them to be kind to you. How you treat others does not necessarily mean they will treat you the same way. If you don't see this, you will only add unnecessary烦恼 to yourself.

23. 17，不要为了寂寞去恋爱，时间是个魔鬼，天长日久，如果你是个多情的人，即使不爱对方，到时候也会产生感情，到最后你怎么办？

23. 17, Don't fall in love out of loneliness. Time is a devil; over time, if you are a sentimental person, even if you don't love the other person, you will develop feelings at that time. What will you do at the end?

24. 金城武独白：我们最接近的时候，我跟她之间的距离只有001公分，57个小时之后，我爱上了这个女人。

24. Takeshi Kaneshiro's monologue: At our closest, the distance between us was just 0.01 cm. 57 hours later, I fell in love with this woman.

25. 林青霞独白：“其实了解一个人并不代表什么，人是会变的，今天他喜欢凤梨，明天他可以喜欢别的。”

25. Brigitte Lin monologue: "Actually, understanding someone doesn't mean anything, people change. Today he likes pineapple, and tomorrow he might like something else."

26. 或文或武，我是说你要有一样能行得地方，样样通样样松是为人之禁忌。样样通几样更通方是境界。

26. Whether in literature or in martial arts, I mean you should have a skill that you excel at. The taboo is to be proficient in everything but skilled in nothing. To be proficient in several things is a higher level of accomplishment.

27. 愿你，此后做的每一个选择都是为了自己，愿你，每天那么忙，做的都是自己喜欢的；愿你，将来的婚姻，真的是因为爱情，愿你，少一些何必当初，多一些暗自庆幸，愿你，以后的所有泪水，都是喜极而泣！

27. May every choice you make from now on be for yourself; may you be busy every day doing what you love; may your future marriage truly be because of love; may you have fewer "why did I start in the first place" and more "secretly be grateful"; may all your future tears be tears of joy!

28. 眼泪是女人最原始的武器，也是男人唯一无法抵抗的最厉害的武器。

28. Tears are the most primitive weapon of women, and also the most formidable weapon that men can never resist.

29. 生活之道，应该多一点爱，少一点恨。多一点微笑，少一点忧愁。多一点阅读，少一点嘀咕。多一点运动，少一点美容。生活本来平淡如水，放一点盐它就会是咸的，放一点糖它就会是甜的，放一点咖啡它就会是苦的，放一点茶它就会是香的，想调成什么味道，全凭你自己。

29. The way of life should have more love and less hate, more smiles and less sorrow, more reading and less grumbling, more exercise and less beauty care. Life is originally as plain as water. Add a little salt, and it becomes salty; add a little sugar, and it becomes sweet; add a little coffee, and it becomes bitter; add a little tea, and it becomes fragrant. How you tune the taste is entirely up to you.

30. 和聪明的人一起，你就得聪明;和优秀的人一起，你就得优秀。 善于发现别人优点，并把它转化为自己的长处，你就会成为聪明人;善于把握人生机遇，并把它转化成自己的机遇，你就会成为优秀者。学最好的别人，做最好的自己。和不一样的人一起，就会有不一样的人生。

30. When you associate with intelligent people, you become intelligent; when you associate with outstanding individuals, you become outstanding. If you are good at discovering others' strengths and transforming them into your own, you will become a wise person; if you are good at seizing life's opportunities and turning them into your own, you will become an excellent individual. Learn from the best others, and be the best version of yourself. When you spend time with different people, you will have a different life.

31. 别人告诉你地球是正方形的，你可以提醒他是圆形的，如果他不同意，那你就没有任何纠正和争执的必要。他认为地球是圆形的还是正方形的，对你没有任何影响，对世界也没有任何影响。

31. If someone tells you the Earth is square, you can remind them it is actually round. If they don't agree, there is no need for correction or argument. Whether they believe the Earth is round or square has no impact on you, and it has no impact on the world either.

32. 为什么你不够自信呢是因为不好看能力不够强其实常看到，很出色的人也会不自信。美女因此整容，聪明人因此颓废，这不是能力的问题，而是内心不够 强大。不自信，是因为你太在乎别人说什么。老琢磨人家怎么看你，当然不会有信心。所以，做好自己就可以，自信的人，首先要学会不在乎。

32. Why aren't you confident? It's because you're not attractive or you're not strong enough, but it's a common sight even among very outstanding people. Beautiful people resort to plastic surgery, and intelligent people may become despondent, but this isn't an issue of ability; it's a matter of insufficient inner strength. Lack of confidence stems from being too concerned about what others say. If you constantly ponder how others perceive you, you won't have any confidence. So, just do your best and be yourself. For a confident person, the first thing to learn is to not care about others' opinions.

33. 8，离婚率高至少反映了好坏不同的两点：好的一点是人们的观念已经趋向人性化，不再为封建思想而禁锢自己；坏的一点是对于婚姻的轻率。没想好结什么婚？

33.8, The high divorce rate reflects at least two different aspects: a good one is that people's concepts have tended to be more humane, no longer bound by feudal thoughts; a bad one is the casual attitude towards marriage. Haven't thought about what kind of marriage to get into?

34. 人生经典说说：和不一样的人一起，就会有不一样的人生

34. A classic saying about life: Being with different people will lead to a different life.

35. 对陌生人，或者把对方当做一张白纸，或者把对方当你的朋友，总之别当做敌人，即使你听到再多的关于他（她）的不好的传闻。

35. With strangers, either treat them as a blank page or as your friend, in any case, don't treat them as enemies, even if you hear more bad rumors about them.

36. 世界是一本书，不旅行的人只看到其中的一页。出去走走，看看不同的风景，接触不同的人和事，你会发现，你的烦恼原来是那么微不足道。世界，会让你更加热爱生活。

36. The world is a book, and those who do not travel see only one page of it. Go out and explore, see different landscapes, meet different people and things, and you will find that your troubles are actually so insignificant. The world will make you love life even more.

37. 不说狂话，谨言慎行，任何时候都不要表现出胜人一筹，平静的做自己想做的事情。

37. Do not speak in boasting words, be cautious in your speech and actions, and never show off that you are better than others. Remain calm and do what you want to do at any time.

38. 有道理的治愈长说说：人生来 就注定彼此不一样 不一样 不一样的

38. Reasonable healing long talk: Life is born, destined to be different, different, different.