在拥抱平凡与自由之间，我感受到了生活的粗糙与世界的轻蔑。

Between embracing the ordinary and the free, I feel the roughness of life and the disdain of the world.

1. 不用怕，不要愁，十年后，所有的事，都只是下酒菜。

1. Don't be afraid, don't worry; ten years from now, all things will just be side dishes to the wine.

2. 相似的人适合一起欢闹，互补的人适合一起变老。

2. People who are similar are suited for joyous togetherness, while those who complement each other are meant for growing old together.

3. 在这个艰难的世界里啊，与众不同都会被人瞧不起，但如果你与众不同，又何必怕孤独，艰难路，只好艰难着行走。

3. In this tough world, being different is often looked down upon, but if you are different, why should you fear loneliness or the tough journey? You just have to walk through it toughly.

4. 深夜，是一个人心灵最脆弱的时候，也是想念最疯狂的时候。

4. At night, it is the time when a person's heart is most fragile, and when longing is most intense.

5. 感情里最心酸的是，有那么一瞬间，你突然不确定是不是就是他了。

5. The most heart-wrenching part of love is that there is a moment when you suddenly doubt whether he is the one.

6. 我执一盏灯等你来，说起深夜里的思念。李商隐此诗写给滞留他乡的妻子，虚写“共剪西窗烛”回忆从前的共度良宵美景的时分，然而此刻我却在另一边表达我的想念。感情细腻如此，令人对这样的爱情向往不已。

6. I hold a lamp waiting for you, talking about the longing in the deep of the night. Li Shangyin wrote this poem to his wife who was stranded in a foreign land. He uses the metaphor of "to share the candlelight by the west window" to recall the beautiful moments they spent together in joyous nights in the past, but at this moment, I am expressing my own longing from the other side. The delicacy of the emotions is such that it makes one yearn for such love immensely.

7. 若我化作黄土，长出的青草是为你而绿，开出的黄花是为你而香；若我化作一溪清泉，鱼儿是为你而舞，泉响是为你而唱。

7. Should I turn into loess, the green grass that grows is for you to be green, the yellow flowers that bloom are for you to be fragrant; should I become a stream of clear spring water, the fish that dance are for you, the sound of the spring is for you to sing.

8. 我不想因为钱去谈恋爱，去讨好一个人，这就是我的爱情观。面包我自己挣，我只要你的爱情。势均力敌的爱情大概是，你有面包，我也有，我们交换着吃，顺便谈谈恋爱。我不用因为钱去爱一个人，也不用因为爱上一个人而觉得自己太卑微，这就是作为一个女生的我需要努力的原因。

9. 姑娘，你那么努力，不是为了嫁给世俗传说的如意郎君；你那么优秀，不是为了给娃当个娘就算了，你从不欠别人一段恋爱，也不欠任何人一个孩子，你只欠自己一个幸福的模样 。

8. I don't want to date or flatter someone for money; that's my love philosophy. I'll earn my own bread, and I just want your love. An equal love is probably one where you have bread, I have bread too, and we share it while enjoying each other's company. I don't need to love someone because of money, nor do I feel too humble for loving someone. This is why I need to strive as a woman. 9. Girl, your hard work is not for the sake of marrying the ideal man of the world's fairy tales; your excellence is not just to be a mother for a child. You don't owe anyone a relationship, nor do you owe anyone a child. You only owe yourself the image of happiness.

10. 请你记得时刻都要快乐着，幸福着。有一种追求，明明是失望，却不愿回头。有一种努力，明明是失败，却不愿停止。有一种喜欢，明明是错误，却不愿松手;有一种美好，明明是幻想，却不愿醒悟。

10. Remember to be happy and contented at all times. There is a pursuit that is clearly a disappointment, yet you are unwilling to turn back. There is an effort that is clearly a failure, yet you are unwilling to cease. There is a liking that is clearly a mistake, yet you are unwilling to let go; there is a beauty that is clearly a fantasy, yet you are unwilling to wake up.

11. 天高，地阔，悠悠白云一朵；山青，水长，松涛树影婆娑；穿越中，我看见诗香，墨扇，缠绵于轻纱袖舞；恍惚中，还有那花灯，人潮，演绎着美丽的传说。辗转千年，想必是曾经的你我；梦入轮回，谁恋这今宵一刻？

11. The sky is high, the earth vast, a leisurely cloud floating by; the mountains are green, the waters endless, pine trees swaying in their shadows; In the midst of my journey, I see the fragrance of poetry, the ink fan, entwined in the dance of the gauzy sleeves; In a daze, there are also those lanterns, the bustling crowd, telling beautiful legends. Drifting through a thousand years, perhaps it is the us of the past; Dreaming into the cycle of rebirth, who cherishes this moment of tonight?

12. 有一种目光，总在分手时，才看见是眷恋；有一种心情，总在离别后，才明白是失落；有一种感觉，总在难眠时，才承认是相思；有一种缘分，总在梦醒后，才相信是永恒

12. There is a gaze that only becomes evident in the moment of parting, revealing a deep affection; there is a feeling that only becomes apparent after parting, signifying a sense of loss; there is a sensation that is only acknowledged in sleepless nights, revealing a yearning; and there is a kind of destiny that only becomes believable after waking from a dream, that it is eternal.

13. 有时候想找人说说话，于是一遍遍翻着手机里的电话簿，却不知道可以给谁发个短信或打个电话，最后还是按下了“清除”。其实很想找个人倾诉一下，却又不知从何说起，最终的最终是什么也不说，告诉自己，明天就好了。

13. Sometimes I want to talk to someone, so I keep flipping through the phonebook in my phone, but I don't know whom to send a text message or make a phone call to. In the end, I press "clear." Actually, I really want to pour out my feelings to someone, but I don't know where to start. In the end, I say nothing at all, telling myself that tomorrow will be fine.

14. 那一月，我转过所有经轮，不为超度，只为触摸你的指纹。

14. That month, I turned all the prayer wheels, not for the sake of liberation, but just to touch your fingerprint.

15. 不要用温柔的呼唤使我着迷，不要用婷婷的倩影使我心动，不要用含情的目光使我受尽苦刑。

15. Do not captivate me with gentle calls, do not stir my heart with your graceful silhouette, and do not subject me to cruel tortures with your affectionate gaze.

16. 恰恰是实现梦想的可能性，才使生活变得有趣。

16. It is the possibility of realizing dreams that makes life interesting.

17. 有时人与人之间的相遇就像是流星，瞬间迸发出令人羡慕的火花，却注定只是匆匆而过。

17. Sometimes, the encounter between people is like a shooting star, bursting into an enviable spark in a flash, yet destined to pass by in a hurry.

18. 人生，就是一边拥有，一边失去;一边选择，一边放弃。今天陌生的，是昨天熟悉的;现在记住的，是以后淡忘的。不是人生选择了你，而是你选择了人生。

18. Life is about having while losing, choosing while giving up. What is strange today was familiar yesterday; what is remembered now will be forgotten in the future. It's not that life chooses you, but that you choose life.

19. 有些人注定是等待别人的，有些人是注定被人等的。

19. Some people are destined to wait for others, while some are destined to be waited for by others.

20. 想念这两个字，无论如何都难以说出口。就像在喉咙挣扎着试图蹦出来却又硬生生咽了回去。总觉得太矫情。然而太过理性的背后时常想要感动到热泪盈眶。事实是并非如此。时刻保持清醒，但有时觉得冲动的感觉也许不错。

20. The words "miss you" are hard to utter no matter how much one tries. It's like struggling in the throat to let them out, only to force them back down. It always feels too sentimental. However, behind the overly rational facade, there's often a desire to be moved to tears. The truth is not that simple. I always stay清醒, but sometimes, I think the feeling of impulse might be quite nice.

21. 工作遇到挫折，你退缩了，说难;生活遇到困难，你抱怨了，说苦;总是怨天尤人，整日的唉声叹气，羡慕别人的成就，悲观了自己的路。其实工作不如意，可以慢慢来，因为经验需要积累;生活不开心,别着急,生活本就是大杂烩别人今天成功,是他的过去所成就的,你今天虽不如意，但是你年轻，你还有未来。

21. When you encounter setbacks at work, you retreat and say it's hard; when life throws difficulties at you, you complain and say it's bitter. You always blame others and sigh all day long, envying others' achievements and being pessimistic about your own path. In fact, if you're not satisfied with work, take it slowly, because experience needs to be accumulated. If life isn't making you happy, don't rush, because life is inherently a potluck. Today's success of others is the result of their past efforts. Even if you're not doing well today, you're young and you still have a future.

22. 我们的相遇，于相知，想来，原本就是依着一份云心，或许，也必定会有百转千回的柔情，拼成今夜最绵长的温馨。只是，我俩的名字，注定分离，偏要我踟蹰独行，与你以遥遥无期。

22. Our encounter, in the process of getting to know each other, seems to be based on a heart as serene as the clouds. Perhaps, there will also be a hundred twists and turns of tenderness that weave together the longest warmth of this night. However, our names are destined for separation, forcing me to hesitate and walk alone, leaving us with an indefinite distance.

23. 虽然虽然，和我期待的那个世界，还有一段距离，但是每次每次都觉得好珍贵啊，逛一逛你的微博，我就知道，依旧还是热泪盈眶，满血复活。

23. Although there is still a distance from the world I had expected, I feel it is incredibly precious each time. By browsing your Weibo, I realize that I am still moved to tears and fully rejuvenated.

24. 欣赏别人是一种境界；善待别人是一种胸怀；关心别人是一种品质；理解别人是一种涵养；帮助别人是一种快乐；任何一个人，包括我自己在内，以及任何一个生物，从本能上来看，总是趋吉避凶的。因此，我没怪罪任何人，包括打过我的人。

24. Appreciating others is a state of mind; treating others kindly is a breadth of spirit; caring for others is a quality; understanding others is a refinement; helping others is a joy. Any person, including myself, and any living being, by instinct, always tends to seek happiness and avoid misfortune. Therefore, I do not hold any grudge against anyone, including those who have hurt me.

25. 先变成更喜欢的自己，然后遇到一个不需要取悦的人。

25. First become the person you like more, and then meet someone who doesn't need to be pleased.

26. 这是我第一次追星，也是第一次追这么久。喜欢你的时候你还不是巨星，看着你一点点成长蜕变，现在发专辑，真的热泪盈眶。努力的人都不会被辜负。毛不易你是油菜花！

26. This is my first time being a fan, and also my first time being a fan for such a long time. When I liked you, you weren't a superstar yet. Watching you grow and transform step by step, and now releasing an album, I'm really overwhelmed with tears. Those who work hard will not be disappointed. Mao Yibing, you are a sunflower!

27. 与你相识是一种缘，与你相恋是一种美，与你相伴是一种福，我愿和你相伴到永远！

27. Meeting you is a destiny, falling in love with you is a beauty, being with you is a blessing. I wish to be with you forever!

28. 时间玩得起我们，我们却玩不起时间，在吃得起苦的岁月里，别太安逸。在吃不起苦的日子里，别太逞强。

28. Time can play with us, but we cannot play with time. In the years when we can bear hardships, don't be too complacent. In the days when we can no longer bear hardships, don't be too stubborn.

29. 北大教授周国平说，绝大多数人都会经历三个阶段。第一个阶段，自以为是世界中心的时候，第二个阶段，无论怎么努力也感到无能为力的时候，第三个阶段，终于接受了自己的平凡，并且享受平凡的时候。

29. Professor Zhou Guoping from Peking University said that the majority of people go through three stages. The first stage is when one believes oneself to be the center of the world. The second stage is when, no matter how hard one tries, one feels helpless. The third stage is when one finally accepts one's ordinariness and enjoys it.

30. 可进可出，若即若离，可爱可怨，可聚而不会散，才是最天长地久的一种好朋友。

30. Being able to come and go, maintaining a delicate balance between closeness and distance, being both lovable and deserving of complaints, able to gather but never disperse, is the most enduring kind of good friend.

31. 成熟的重要标志，不是学会了“表达”，而是学会了“咽下”。明明很多时候委屈得想要爆发，火到嘴边，却无奈的笑了。其实人间好多爱，都是溺爱。爱的另一种说法，是“忍”。一个人一直忍你，也就是爱你。评判爱有多深，就看忍了多久。——苏芩

31. An important sign of maturity is not learning to "express," but learning to "swallow." Often, when one feels unfairly wronged and is about to burst into anger, they are helplessly amused instead. In fact, much of the love in this world is overindulgence. Another way to say love is "tolerance." If someone continues to tolerate you, it means they love you. The depth of love can be measured by how long one endures. — Su Qin

32. 时间，不一定能证明许多东西，但一定会看透许多东西。

32. Time may not always prove many things, but it will certainly see through many things.

33. 有些人，深深记住，未必不是幸福。有些痛，淡淡看开，未必不是历练。坎坷路途，给身边一份温暖，风雨人生，给自己一个微笑。生活，就是体谅和理解，把快乐装在心中，静静融化，慢慢扩散!

33. Some people, deeply remembered, may not be unhappy. Some pain, calmly let go, may not be a trial. On the rugged path, give warmth to those around you; in the stormy journey of life, give yourself a smile. Life is about understanding and tolerance; keep happiness in your heart, let it melt quietly, and slowly spread!

34. 用你的名字和我的姓氏成就这故事，从此以后无忧无愁，故事平淡但当中有你已经足够！

34. Achieve this story with your name and my surname, and from then on, there will be no worries or worries. The story is plain, but having you in it is already enough!

35. 你是我挣扎过放弃过后悔过，但现在还是很爱很爱的人。

35. You are the one I have struggled with, given up on, and regretted, but I still love you very much now.

36. 十年转瞬而去，我还是忘不掉你，纵使你已离开我，但在我心里始终记得你。多少个日子里，我都把你念念不忘。久而弥笃的感情，不可轻易一笔抹去。

36. Ten years have passed in a blink, yet I still cannot forget you. Even though you have left me, you have always been remembered in my heart. On many days, I have been thinking about you constantly. The deep affection that has lasted so long cannot be easily erased with a stroke of a pen.

37. 看到一段很有道理的话：女人的老去，是从她着急嫁人开始的吗？当然不是，一个女人的老去，是从她越来越宅，越来越不想出门开始的。所以有些人到六十岁还没老，有些人才毕业就开始老了。年轻是一种孜孜不倦的心态，就是要不断地探索和不断地变更好。女人永远新鲜的唯一秘诀，就是在不断地改变。

37. Saw a very sensible statement: Does a woman's aging begin when she starts to hurry up to get married? Of course not, a woman's aging starts from when she becomes increasingly reclusive and less willing to go out. Therefore, some people don't feel old until they reach sixty, while others start to feel old as soon as they graduate. Youth is a tireless attitude, which is to continuously explore and improve oneself. The only secret for a woman to always be fresh is to keep changing.

38. 没有不会谢的花，没有不会退的浪，没有不会暗的光，没有不会好的伤，没有不会停下来的绝望。那么，你在烦恼什么？

38. There is no flower that never fades, no wave that never recedes, no light that never dimms, no wound that never heals, and no despair that never stops. Then, what are you worrying about?

39. 曾经我也深以为能和你在一起很久。但是那日，你不挽留，我没回头。我没有饮过最烈的酒但我放弃了曾最爱的人。我给你全部自由，当作我最后的温柔。从此，我也学做：一沾着枕头就能安睡的人和那些决心放手之后就从不回头的人。

39. Once, I deeply believed that I could be with you for a long time. But on that day, you didn't hold on, and I didn't turn back. I haven't tasted the strongest wine, but I gave up the one I loved the most. I gave you all the freedom, as if it were my last gentleness. From then on, I also learned to be like: people who can fall asleep as soon as they touch the pillow, and those who never turn back after making a decision to let go.

40. 从来没有人为了读书而读书，人们只会在书中读自己、发现自己或检查自己。

40. No one has ever read books just for the sake of reading them; people only read themselves, discover themselves, or examine themselves in books.