在浩瀚的自我宇宙中，我，独自航行。远离尘嚣的喧嚣，专注于内心的宁静，探寻自我之所在。

In the vast universe of the self, I sail alone. Far from the hustle and bustle of the world, I focus on the tranquility within, seeking the place of the self.

1. 心理学家阿德勒提出了一个著名的课题分离理论。

1. The psychologist Adler proposed a famous theory of topic separation.

2. 人们的一切烦恼，都源于对他人的课题过多干涉，对自己的课题不够尽心。或者说，一切矛盾都在于侵犯别人，或者守不住自己的边界，被别人所侵犯。

2. All the troubles of people arise from over-interfering in others' issues and not being diligent enough in their own. Or, all conflicts stem from infringing upon others, or failing to maintain one's own boundaries and being violated by others.

3. 一个人想要活得轻松幸福，就要明确自己和别人的分界，让花成为花，让树成为树，允许别人做别人，允许自己做自己。

3. To live a carefree and happy life, one must clearly define the boundaries between oneself and others, let flowers be flowers, let trees be trees, allow others to be others, and allow oneself to be oneself.

4. 莫言说：“别去操心他人之事，哪怕是至亲之人也不例外。要知道，他人历经多年所形成的认知观念，又怎会仅凭你寥寥数语就能轻易被唤醒呢？人啊，大多是难以被他人轻易说动而醒的，往往唯有亲身经历了苦痛，才会真正有所觉悟。你若对他人之事多管一分，没准人家心里就会对你生出一分恨意，所以啊，还是莫要过多去管他人之事，多把心思放在管好自己身上吧。”

4. Mo Yan said, "Don't worry about others' affairs, even if they are your closest relatives. You must know that the cognitive ideas formed by others over many years will not be easily awakened by just a few words from you. People are usually not easily swayed by others and awakened; often, only through experiencing suffering firsthand will they truly awaken. If you meddle in others' affairs too much, they might just develop a grudge against you in their hearts. So, it's best not to meddle too much in others' affairs and instead focus more on taking care of yourself."

5. 你永远也叫不醒一个装睡之人！

5. You can never wake up a person who is pretending to sleep!

6. 能够说服别人的从来不是观点，只是有些时候，你的观点正好迎合了一个想要觉醒的人。如果他骨子里面就会认同你的说法，无论你如何口若悬河，滔滔不绝，他都不会有一丝一毫的改变。

6. It is never the opinions that persuade others; sometimes, it's just that your views happen to resonate with someone who wants to wake up. If he fundamentally agrees with your arguments, no matter how eloquent or fluent you are, he will not change by the slightest bit.

7. 每个人都有自己的因果和命运，有些罪不得不受，有些苦不得不吃，有些恩怨不得不纠缠，有些南墙不得不撞，有些弯路不得不走。如果苦口婆心的道理能够轻易唤醒一个人，那么这个世界也太简单了。

7. Everyone has their own karma and destiny. There are some sins that one must endure, some hardships that one must bear, some grievances that one cannot avoid entanglement with, some walls that one cannot help but collide with, and some detours that one must navigate. If the solemn and persuasive truth can easily awaken a person, then this world would be too simple.

8. 不要操心他人之事，是一种顶级的清醒。

8. Not worrying about others' affairs is the highest level of clarity.

9. 孔子说，君君臣臣，父父子子。

9. Confucius said, "The ruler should be a ruler, the subject a subject; the father a father, the son a son."

10. 意思就是，我们在世界上扮演着不同的角色，每个人都要把自己的角色尽心尽力的做好。做君主的就要为民请命，开创太平，做臣子的就要公忠体国，老成谋国，做父亲的就要抚养子女，威严慈爱，做儿女的就要敬爱父亲，光宗耀祖。

10. This means that we play different roles in the world, and everyone should do their best to fulfill their role. As a ruler, one should advocate for the people and strive for peace; as a subject, one should be loyal and devoted to the country, mature in planning for the nation; as a father, one should nurture their children with authority and kindness; as a son or daughter, one should honor and love their father, and bring glory to the family name.

11. 做好自己的分内之事，是一种责任，一种担当，一种自律。

11. Doing one's own job well is a responsibility, a sense of responsibility, and a form of self-discipline.

12. 我们应该努力让自己变得越来越好，因为唯有如此，才有能力照顾亲人，做好工作，拥有更好的生活。

12. We should strive to become better and better, because only in this way can we have the ability to take care of our family, do well in our work, and have a better life.

13. 哪一种成功的背后，都是苦行僧一样的自律。我们不必操心别人的事，但要把绝大多数时间聚焦在自己的提升上。

13. Behind every form of success lies the self-discipline of a monk. We don't need to worry about others' affairs, but we should focus the majority of our time on our own improvement.

14. 把时间花在床上，成就了体重，把时间花在吃上，成就了大肚腩，把时间花在玩上，成就了颓废。相反，把时间花在读书上，得到了知识，把时间花在运动上，得到了健康，把时间花在历练上，得到了见识，把时间花在奋斗上，得到了光明锦绣的人生。

14. Spending time in bed results in weight gain, spending time on eating leads to a potbelly, and spending time on play leads to decadence. Conversely, spending time on reading brings knowledge, spending time on exercise brings health, spending time on experiences brings insight, and spending time on striving brings a bright and splendid life.

15. 没有谁的人生是容易的，成年人的世界，谁不是一边擦干眼泪，一边努力奔跑。

15. No one's life is easy. In the world of adults, who isn't running hard while wiping away tears?

16. 网上有人说：管自己是神，管别人是神经病。

16. Some people say on the internet: To control yourself is to be a god, to control others is to be a疯子 (crazy person).

17. 世界是一个草台班子，人生就是一场戏，我们是自己人生的制片人和导演，却不是其他任何人的主导者。不必操心别人的事情，不必把自己的能量浪费在别人身上，只需要全力以赴提升自己，扮演好自己的角色，努力绽放属于自己的精彩。

17. The world is a makeshift stage, and life is a play. We are the producers and directors of our own lives, but not the directors of anyone else's. There's no need to worry about others' affairs, nor waste our energy on others. All we need to do is to give our all in self-improvement, play our roles well, and strive to shine with our own brilliance.

18. 我曾经很长一段时间都在问自己一个问题，究竟什么样的生活才是自己想要的？直到疫情在家里两个多月，才真正明白了。

18. For a long time, I have been asking myself a question: What kind of life do I really want? It was not until the pandemic kept me at home for over two months that I truly understood.

19. 抛除杂念，远离喧嚣，每天专注于自己喜欢的事情。

19. Set aside distractions, distance yourself from the hustle and bustle, and focus each day on what you enjoy.

20. 青山绿水，鸟语花香，暖阳高照；一杯茶，一本书，宁静又自然。

20. Green mountains and clear waters, birds chirping and flowers blooming, the warm sun shining; a cup of tea, a book, tranquility and nature.

21. 不断的创作出新作品；父母健康，儿女环绕，这就是我想要的生活。

21. Continuously creating new works; parents in good health, surrounded by children, this is the life I want.

22. 想象都是美好的，可现实很残酷，一切结果都源自于努力拼搏，而自己才是自己最大的创造者。除此之外，谁都给不了你想要的生活。

22. Imagination is always beautiful, but reality is cruel. All results come from hard work and perseverance, and you are your own greatest creator. Apart from that, no one can give you the life you want.

23. 你聪明，坚强，勤奋，自律，自信，有毅力，你完全可以打破自身的局限，活出更精彩的人生。

23. You are intelligent, strong, diligent, self-disciplined, confident, and persistent. You are fully capable of breaking through your limitations and living a more vibrant life.

24. 你可以用时间塑造自己，可以源源不断的创造出新的作品。

24. You can shape yourself with time, and can continuously create new works.

25. 这个事情很不公平，有些人的起点，也许是你终其一生都无法达到，但那又怎么样，依然有很多人不断的向命运发起挑战，找到那个属于自己的舞台。

25. This matter is very unfair, as some people have starting points that you might never be able to reach in your entire life. But what's the point? There are still many people who continuously challenge fate and find that stage that belongs to them.

26. 2012年9月，被评为阿里巴巴全球十大网商；

26. In September 2012, was selected as one of the top ten online merchants globally by Alibaba.

27. 2015年04月27日做客《超级演说家》崔万志《我为网商代言》残疾掌柜网店一年进账五千万；

27. On April 27, 2015, Cui Wanzhi, a guest on the show "Super Speaker," spoke about "I Represent E-commerce Merchants." Despite being disabled, the owner of an online store earned 50 million yuan in one year.

28. 2016年01月01日，参加央视财经频道《创业英雄汇》，带来的“旗袍+”项目获得导师一律通过，并获得了3900万意向融资，创造了节目开播以来的最高记录。

28. On January 1, 2016, participated in the "Entrepreneur Hero Gathering" on the CCTV Finance Channel, the "Qipao+" project was approved by all the mentors and secured 39 million yuan in意向 financing, setting a new record since the program's launch.

29. 他就是获得中国旗袍“十大****”“十大魅力旗袍人”荣誉 的崔万志。

29. He is Cui Wanzhi, who has been honored with the title of "Top Ten **** of Chinese Qipao" and "Top Ten Charming Qipao People."

30. 然而，他在出生时，由于脐带绕颈，导致脑部缺氧，造成腿脚不灵活，说话不流畅。

30. However, due to the umbilical cord being wrapped around his neck at birth, he suffered from brain hypoxia, resulting in uncoordinated limbs and incoherent speech.

31. 早年的崔万志，因残疾，受尽了无数委屈，被周围人瞧不起，考上重点高中仍然被拒绝。

31. In his early years, Cui Wanzhi, due to his disability, endured countless injustices, was looked down upon by those around him, and was still rejected despite being admitted to a key high school.

32. 1995年，考上新疆石河子大学经济管理专业，上学期间就很有生意头脑，通过倒卖“随身听”、磁带等赚取生活费。

32. In 1995, I was admitted to the Department of Economics and Management at Xinjiang Shihezi University. During my studies, I already possessed a business acumen and earned my living by reselling items such as portable radios and cassettes.

33. 1999年大学毕业，因身体残疾，找工作，接连投了200份简历都石沉大海。

33. Graduated from university in 1999, due to physical disabilities, struggled to find a job, and after sending out 200 resumes, none of them received any response.

34. 其中一个HR毫不避讳的说：“你这样的身体状况会严重影响公司整个团队的形象。”

34. One HR person bluntly said, "Your current physical condition will severely affect the overall image of the entire team in the company."

35. 最后就自己创业：在天桥上摆地摊儿，之后开过书店，网吧。

35. Finally, starting my own business: I sold things on the street at the footbridge, then opened a bookstore and an internet cafe.

36. 创业期间，书被烧过，超市被人偷过，网吧被拆了一次又一次，不甘失败的他，还是坚持自己的梦想。

36. During the entrepreneurial period, the books were burned, the supermarket was robbed, and the internet café was dismantled time and time again. Despite the setbacks, he refused to give up and persevered in his dream.

37. 2001年，崔万志用攒来的钱开了一个网吧，开始接触到“电子商务”，淘宝网上线后，他立即就注册了网店。

37. In 2001, Cui Wanzhi used the money he had saved to open an Internet cafe, and began to get in touch with "e-commerce." After Taobao went online, he immediately registered a store on the website.

38. 2005年初，他的网店“亦心家园”开张。崔万志第一个在网上卖掉的商品，不是自己进的货，而是一个当时很紧俏的6位数QQ号。

38. In early 2005, his online store "Yi Xin Garden" opened. The first item Cui Wanzhi sold online was not something he had purchased himself, but a then highly sought-after 6-digit QQ number.