珍惜相遇，缓缓书写——别绪伴随的长短篇章

Treasure the encounter, write slowly—pages long and short accompanied by farewells.

1. 感恩所有来过你生命中的人吧！无论是短暂的邂逅，还是长久的相伴。因为他们，带给了你很多的欢声笑语，留给了你无数珍贵的回忆，足以慰藉你往后余生的温暖。

1. Be grateful for everyone who has come into your life! Whether it's a brief encounter or a long-lasting companionship. They have brought you many joyful moments and laughter, left you with countless precious memories, and provided enough warmth to comfort you in the years to come.

2. 正如弘一大师所说：相逢的意义在于照亮彼此。不然的话，一个人喝茶也很浪漫，一个人吹风也很清醒。缘分本来就稀薄寡淡，相伴一程已是万分感激。没有什么东西是一成不变的，没有谁能一直陪着谁。只要同行的时候是快乐的，就是好的相遇，至于怎么走散的并不重要。缘起，我在人群中看见你,缘散，我看见你在人群中。

2. As Master Hongyi said: The significance of meeting is to illuminate each other. Otherwise, it's also romantic to drink tea alone, and it's also refreshing to blow the wind alone. Fate is originally thin and faint; being together for a while is already a great gratitude. Nothing is unchanging, and no one can always accompany someone else. As long as we are happy while walking together, it is a good encounter, and it doesn't matter how we part ways. When the cause of the meeting arises, I see you in the crowd; when the cause of the parting arises, I see you in the crowd.

3. 每每在我觉得一切慢慢好起来的时候，生活就朝我放了支冷枪，有点佩服自己的承受能力，反反复复一次又一次，都快被整成神经衰弱了，可我仍然好好的，会哭会笑会悲伤。

3. Whenever I thought things were slowly getting better, life would take a cold shot at me. I'm a bit impressed with my own ability to endure. It's been a back-and-forth, over and over again, almost driving me to nervous exhaustion, but I'm still in good shape. I can cry, laugh, and feel sad.

4. 缘来天注定，缘去人自夺。种如是因，收如是果，一切唯心造。笑言面对，不去埋怨。悠然，随心，随性，随缘。

4. Fate is predetermined by the heavens, and the severing of fate is in one's own hands. Sow such a cause, reap such a result; everything is created by the mind. Face life with a smile, do not complain. Be at ease, follow one's heart, nature, and fate.

5. 在男生的世界里，你爱我就不会走；在女生的世界里，你爱我就会来找我。

5. In the world of boys, if you love me, you won't leave; in the world of girls, if you love me, you will come to find me.

6. 我们痛苦来源于爱；但我们的幸福也来源于爱。

6. Our pain originates from love; yet, our happiness also comes from love.

7. 虽未曾谋面，远隔山海，但有缘在此遇见，我便心存温暖。

7. Although we have never met and are far apart over mountains and seas, but having the opportunity to meet here, I feel warmth in my heart.

8. 人和人，要将心比心，心和心，要越靠越近，只要你真，我就更深，只要你诚，我会更浓。再美的花言巧语，都是浮云，唯有关键时刻伸出的手，才最实际。

8. Among people and between hearts, we should put ourselves in each other's shoes. The hearts should draw closer to each other. As long as you are sincere, my feelings will deepen; as long as you are honest, my affection will grow stronger. No matter how beautiful the sweet talk may be, it is all ephemeral clouds. Only the hand extended at critical moments is the most practical.

9. 强者征服今天，懦夫哀叹昨天，懒汉坐等明天。

9. The strong conquer today, the cowards sigh for yesterday, and the lazy wait for tomorrow.

10. 其实我想要的是一个格局比我大，能力比我强，眼光比我长远，教我人情世故，护我天真如初，带我看尽这世间繁华的人。

10. In fact, what I want is someone whose vision is broader than mine, whose abilities are stronger than mine, whose perspective is longer-sighted than mine, someone who can teach me the ways of the world, protect my innocence as if it were new, and take me to see the splendor of this world.

11. 无论你遇见了谁，有过什么样的遗憾，都不必太过执着和介怀，也没有什么好后悔的。因为所有的一切，都源于前世的亏欠。无论是相见还是别离，都是逃不开的命数，不必纠结于心，耿耿于怀。缘起缘灭，无需强求；若不相见，因缘已尽。

11. No matter who you meet or what regrets you have, do not be too obsessed or concerned, and there is nothing to regret. Because everything stems from the debts of the past life. Whether it's meeting or parting, they are all unavoidable destinies, which you should not be fixated on or carry deep in your heart. The arising and ceasing of causes and conditions do not require forceful pursuit; if you do not meet, the cause and condition has run its course.

12. 随缘不是随波逐流，而是珍惜当下；当下不在他方净土，而是内心一念。我们要珍惜当下的每一个因缘，当下所遇到的每一位都可能是我们生命里最重要的人，所以善缘好运。

12. Following one's destiny is not about drifting with the current, but about cherishing the present moment; the present moment is not in some distant pure land, but in a single thought within the heart. We should cherish every cause and condition of the present moment, for each person we meet in the present moment may be the most important person in our lives. Therefore, we should cultivate good causes and good fortune.

13. 如果爱上，就不要轻易放过机会，莽撞，可能使你后悔一阵子，怯懦，却可能使你后悔一辈子。

13. If you fall in love, do not easily let go of the opportunity. Being impulsive might make you regret for a while, but being cowardly might make you regret for a lifetime.

14. 谁都曾是那个被人捧在手心的姑娘，谁也都是那个不被人珍惜的姑娘，爱情啊，有时候顺序颠倒一下就好了，或者角色互换一下就好了。

14. Everyone has been the girl cherished in someone's hands, and everyone has also been the girl not valued by anyone. Love, sometimes it just requires reversing the order or swapping roles.

15. 朋友也好，恋人也罢，都是上天赐给我们最好的礼物，能陪你走一程，让彼此成为更好的人，已是真幸运，没必要纠结他能陪你多久，既然转身是到了他离开的时候。

15. Whether it's a friend or a lover, both are the best gifts bestowed upon us by heaven. To have someone accompany you on a journey and to become a better person together is already true fortune. There's no need to be fixated on how long they will stay by your side, since the moment of their departure has already arrived.

16. 男人爱女人的最好方式，就是不让自己的女人觉得无聊。

16. The best way for a man to love a woman is to ensure that she does not feel bored.

17. 每个人心底都有那么一个人，已不是恋人，也成不了朋友。时间过去，无关乎喜不喜欢，总会很习惯地想起你。然后希望你一切都好。

17. Deep down in everyone's heart, there is someone who is neither a lover nor a friend. As time passes, it's not about whether one likes or not, but one will always remember you very naturally. Then one hopes that everything is well with you.

18. 离去的终要离去，哪怕靠得很近很近；相依的总会相依，哪怕心之路万里迢迢。

18. Those who are to leave will eventually leave, even if they are very close; those who are meant to be together will always be together, even if their hearts are separated by a distant road of a thousand miles.

19. 但是，因为有了遇见，我们的人生得以变得更加精彩。让我们在遇见中学会成长，在遇见中学会感恩，在遇见中学会珍惜。

19. However, because of encounters, our lives have become more wonderful. Let us learn to grow in encounters, learn to be grateful in encounters, and learn to cherish in encounters.

20. 贫穷和财富同样会促使工作者和他们的作品退步。——柏拉图

20. Both poverty and wealth can lead to the decline of workers and their works. — Plato

21. 其实生活也不是完全残酷无力，只是往往不是我们所想的，我不是一个信命的人，却被这张大网纠缠，我想逃，可是我逃不掉，你，是不是也一样呀。

21. In fact, life is not completely cruel and helpless; it's just often not what we expect. I'm not a believer in fate, but I'm entangled in this big net. I want to escape, but I can't seem to break free. Are you the same, too?

22. 白头并非雪可替遇见即是上上签全诗是︰白头并非雪可替,遇见已是上上签。风吹雪散故人离,陌路只当忆往年。

22. White hair cannot be replaced by snow; meeting is the best lottery. The whole poem is: White hair cannot be replaced by snow; meeting is already the best lottery. The wind blows the snow away, and the old friend departs; on the unfamiliar path, just remember the past years.

23. 目标确实制定容易实现难，但是如果不去行动，连实现的机会都没有。

23. It is indeed easy to set goals but difficult to achieve them, but if you do not take action, you won't even have the opportunity to achieve them.

24. 身边都是人模人样的人，怎么相处起来会累到不行呢？

24. Surrounded by people who look and act like decent human beings, how come it's so exhausting to get along with them?

25. 没能力把眼前的苟且过好，就先别向往诗和远方。拿你有的，换想要的，世界向来如此，残酷却公平。

25. If you're unable to make the best of what's in front of you, don't yearn for poetry and distant lands. Use what you have to exchange for what you desire. The world has always been like this, cruel yet fair.

26. 这样的局我真的很难受又尴尬，坐在角落手机都玩到没电了，你呢？

26. I really feel uncomfortable and embarrassed in such a situation. I've been sitting in the corner playing with my phone until it's dead. How about you?

27. 人，切莫自以为是，地球离开了谁都会转；古往今来，恃才放肆的人都没有好下场。所以，即便再能干，也一定要保持谦虚谨慎，做好自己的事情。

27. People, do not be self-righteous. The Earth will keep turning without anyone. Throughout history, those who rely on their talents and act freely have never had a good end. Therefore, even if one is very capable, one must always maintain modesty and caution, and do one's own things well.

28. 累过，扛过，才知道生活的不易。哭过，笑过，才明白感情的意义。伤过，痛过，才看清人心的假意。吃过一次亏，就懂得了防备；上过一次当，就学会了深沉；受过一次伤，就做到了冷漠。

28. Having toiled and carried heavy loads, one learns the hardships of life. Having cried and laughed, one understands the meaning of emotions. Having been hurt and in pain, one sees through the insincerity of others. Having suffered a loss once, one learns to be cautious; having been deceived once, one learns to be profound; having been wounded once, one learns to be indifferent.

29. 每天被闹钟吵醒，证明我还活着；衣服越来越紧，那表示我吃得很好；有阴影陪伴我的劳动，那表示我明亮的阳光下。人生不过如此，保持乐观积极地情绪，逆着阳光，一路向前吧。

29. Being woken up by an alarm clock every day proves that I am still alive; clothes that are getting tighter indicate that I am eating well; shadows accompanying my labor mean I am in the bright sunlight. Life is no more than this. Keep an optimistic and positive mood, face the sun, and move forward along the way.

30. 生活中有些事情，我们不想发生，却不得不接受，不想知道，却不得不知道，就像有的人，我们不想离，却不得不放手。

30. There are some things in life that we do not want to happen but have to accept, things we don't want to know but have to find out, just like some people, we don't want to part from, but have to let go.

31. 愿用世间最美好的文字，陪伴你一起度过所有开心或不开心的日子，让我们成为彼此温暖的那一道光……

31. May the most beautiful words in the world accompany you through all the happy or unhappy days, becoming the warm light that warms us both...

32. 等你出现的这些年，我把该学的不该学的都学的差不多了，你还没有出现。你……是卡住了嘛？呃呃呃，需要救一下不？我这会儿还挺闲的。

32. All these years waiting for your appearance, I've more or less learned what I should and shouldn't, but you still haven't shown up. Are you... stuck? Huh huh huh, do you need saving? I'm pretty free right now.

33. 不要纠结她能陪你多久，或者能不能走到最后，因为今生能够遇见已是上上签。遇见是因为有债要还，离开是因为还清了。好好珍惜所有的遇见，下一世，不会再见。善待所有的真情，无论陪你多久，这辈子不再遗憾。感恩所有的缘份，无论聚散都是成全。

33. Do not worry about how long she can accompany you or whether you can walk to the end together, because being able to meet in this life is already the best luck. The meeting is because of debts to be repaid, and the departure is because the debts have been cleared. Treasure all encounters, for in the next life, we will not meet again. Treat all true feelings kindly, no matter how long they accompany you, there will be no regrets in this life. Be grateful for all the fates, for whether they gather or disperse, it is a fulfillment.

34. 人生最大的幸福，是发现自己爱的人正好也爱着自己。——张爱玲

34. The greatest happiness in life is to find that the one you love also loves you back. - Zhang Xieying

35. 在这红尘中，我们都是匆匆的过客。

35. In this mortal world, we are all fleeting passersby.

36. 不是在等一个得不到的人，也不是在等谁回头，而是在等和自己的回忆和解的那一天。

36. It's not waiting for someone who can't be obtained, nor waiting for someone to come back, but waiting for the day when I can reconcile with my own memories.

37. 你是什么样的人，就会遇见什么样的人。你的朋友是什么样的人，你就会成为什么样的人。你的爱人是什么样的人，你也就会过什么样的人生。护好了他们，也就是成全了自己。

37. The kind of person you are will determine the kind of people you will meet. The kind of friends you have will shape the kind of person you become. The kind of lover you have will determine the kind of life you will live. Taking care of them is also taking care of yourself.

38. 让我们珍惜每一次不期而遇的缘分，无论它在何时降临。不要为过去的错过而懊悔，因为真正属于我们的美好，或许就在下一个转角等待着。相信缘分的指引，心怀感恩与期待，去拥抱那些即将到来的温暖与惊喜，让生命因为相遇而更加绚丽多彩。

38. Let us cherish every unexpected encounter of destiny, regardless of when it comes. Do not regret the missed opportunities in the past, for perhaps the truly beautiful things that belong to us are waiting around the next corner. Believe in the guidance of destiny, hold gratitude and anticipation in your heart, embrace the warmth and surprises that are about to come, and let life become more colorful and vibrant because of the encounters.

39. 天道酬勤，凡事感恩。滴水之恩，当涌泉相报。

39. Effort is rewarded by the Tao, and gratitude is due for all things. For a drop of kindness, a torrent of gratitude should be returned.

40. 谢谢父母给我的一却，我让你们操心了!我长大了，我会好好的和她一起生活，一起孝敬你们，不会在让你们操心了!我爱你们，爸爸妈妈!

40. Thank you for everything you have given me, and for the worries you have caused me! I am grown up now, and I will live well with her, and together we will honor you, not causing you any more worries! I love you, Mom and Dad!

41. 此生如若不是你，何愁青丝配白衣。为你明灯三千，为你花开满城，朝暮不依长相思，白首不离长相守！

41. If not for you in this life, what to worry about the black hair matching with white robes? For you, I light a thousand lamps, for you, the flowers bloom all over the city, neither in the morning nor in the evening can I rely on constant longing, and in my old age, I will never leave you for constant guarding!

42. 在你的生命中最荒谬的一天，就算你有一台电动的骗人机器，你也骗不过你的母亲。

42. On the most absurd day in your life, even if you have an electric deception machine, you cannot deceive your mother.

43. 林徽因曾说：当你什么都经历了，才会发现，人生无论怎么精心策划，都抵不过一场命运的安排，命里有时终须有命里无时莫强求。不是盲从命运，而是尽力后顺其自然，过好当下。强求的都是痛，要学会随缘而行。

43. Lin Huiyin once said: When you have experienced everything, you will find that no matter how meticulously life is planned, it can never surpass the arrangement of fate. There is a time for everything in life, and there is a time when one should not strive too hard. It is not about blind submission to fate, but about striving to the best of one's ability and then going with the flow, living well in the present. Striving too hard only brings pain. One must learn to go with the flow.

44. 好讨厌一喝点酒就开始吹牛逼的人啊，感觉上天入地无所不能，可惜就是没钱，

44. How讨厌 those people who start boasting after just a little bit of alcohol, feeling like they can do anything from heaven to earth, but unfortunately, they just don't have any money.

45. 我们都说怕妖魔鬼怪，可是他们却未能伤到人半分。我们看似不怕人，可却往往总是人能把我们伤的遍体鳞伤…

45. We all say that we are afraid of demons and ghosts, but they haven't hurt anyone at all. It seems that we are not afraid of people, but it is often the case that people can injure us all over.

46. 因为经历过失去的遗憾，才想要一段很长很长时间的单身，换一个可以在一起很久很久的人……

46. Because of the regret of having lost, one wants a very, very long period of being single, in order to find someone who can be together for a very, very long time...

47. 我字典里最重要的三个词就是意志、工作、等待，我要利用这三块基石建立起成功的金字塔。

47. The three most important words in my dictionary are willpower, work, and waiting. I intend to use these three cornerstones to build the pyramid of success.

48. 人没有什么配不配的，一块钱的打火机，可以点燃不同价位香烟，喜欢你的人，你做什么他都觉得喜欢，不喜欢的你的人，你就算做什么他都觉得你不顺眼。

48. People have nothing to do with whether they are suitable or not. A matchbox costing a yuan can light up cigarettes of different prices. If someone likes you, no matter what you do, they will find it appealing. If someone doesn't like you, even if you do everything right, they will still find fault with you.

49. 爱情不应该只被限制在年轻和美貌上，而是应该超越这些表面的东西，更多地关注人的内在和情感世界。在爱情中，相遇和相爱本身就已经是一种极大的幸福，即使年华已逝，身体已老，但依然有着真诚的爱，也是值得珍惜和追求的。

49. Love should not be confined to youth and beauty; instead, it should transcend these superficial things and focus more on a person's inner self and emotional world. In love, the act of meeting and falling in love is already a great happiness. Even as the years pass and the body grows old, if there is still sincere love, it is something worth cherishing and pursuing.

50. 所有的遇见，都是上天的安排。它们或许短暂而匆匆，或许漫长而持久，但每一次的遇见都为我们的人生增添了丰富的色彩和深刻的体验。珍惜每一次的遇见，感恩上天的安排，用心去感受、去体验、去领悟生命中的每一个美好瞬间。

50. Every encounter is arranged by heaven. They may be brief and fleeting, or long and enduring, but each encounter adds rich colors and profound experiences to our lives. Cherish every encounter, be grateful for heaven's arrangement, and use your heart to feel, experience, and understand every beautiful moment in life.

51. 这世间，从来没有无缘无故的遇见。每一个遇见，都有一个未了的情缘。前世有了相欠，今生才会相遇，用来偿还。世间万物皆有因果，人与人之间的相欠与相见亦是如此。每一次的相欠与相见，都是一种因果的轮回，一种生命的约定。无论你遇见谁，他都是你生命该出现的人，绝非偶然。该你遇到的人，你躲不掉；该你经历的劫，你也逃不掉。

51. In this world, there is never an encounter without a reason. Every encounter is the residue of an unfulfilled romance. Because of past debts, we meet in this life to repay them. Everything in the world has its cause and effect, and the debts and encounters between people are no exception. Every debt and encounter is a cycle of cause and effect, a life-long appointment. Whoever you meet, they are the people who should appear in your life, not by chance. The people you are supposed to meet, you cannot avoid; the hardships you are supposed to experience, you cannot escape either.

52. 不管你曾经被伤害得有多深，总会有一个人的出现，让你原谅之前生活对你所有的刁难。——宫崎骏

52. No matter how deeply you were once hurt, there will always be someone who comes along to forgive all the hardships life has put you through before. — Miyazaki Hayao

53. 长大前，笑是真的，痛是装的。长大后，笑是装的，痛是真的。

53. Before growing up, laughter is real and pain is feigned. After growing up, laughter is feigned and pain is real.

54. 我们苦苦追寻着幸福，但其实幸福离我们很近。柔和的阳光，清爽的凉风，温馨的世界，尽在这个清晨我为你敞开心扉，早安。

54. We苦苦 seek happiness, but in fact, happiness is very close to us. Gentle sunshine, cool breeze, a warm world, all are here in this morning as I open my heart to you. Good morning.

55. 一瞬擦肩，一辈子没见， 谁也不愿意主动，于是就都错过了……

55. A moment's brush past, and for a lifetime we've never seen each other again. Neither is willing to take the initiative, and so they both missed out on it...

56. 无论什么关系，情分被消耗殆尽，缘分便走到了终点。没有谁对谁错，最后所有的错，都应该归咎在自己身上，然后礼貌地退场。把自己还给自己，把别人还给别人，让花成花，让树成树，从此山水一程，再不相逢，愿来生，不欠，不见，不念。

56. No matter what kind of relationship, when the affection is almost exhausted, the fate has reached its end. There is no right or wrong between anyone, and in the end, all mistakes should be attributed to oneself, then politely withdraw. Give yourself back to yourself, and others back to others, let the flowers be flowers, and the trees be trees. From this moment on, let the mountains and rivers part ways, never to meet again. May there be no debts, no encounters, and no memories in a future life.

57. 文/ Lucky锾

57. Text / Lucky Zhen

58. 儿子是爸爸的眼睛，妈妈的心跳女儿是妈妈贴心的小棉袄，今天小棉袄终于长大了。穿着婚纱，要去叫幸福的地方，新郎，新娘有多少感恩的话要讲——我永远爱你，爸爸，我永远爱你妈妈。

58. The son is the father's eyes and the mother's heartbeat; the daughter is the mother's beloved little sweater. Today, the little sweater has finally grown up. Wearing a wedding dress, she is going to call the place of happiness, and the groom, the bride have so many words of gratitude to say—Forever I love you, Dad, forever I love you, Mom.

59. 浑身全是刺，别人才会照顾你的感受。你软绵绵的，是人都想揉一把，多舒服。

59. You need to be all thorny to make others care about your feelings. If you're soft and squishy, everyone would want to squeeze you, how comfortable that would be.

60. 有一些人的出现，就是来给我们开眼的。所以，人一定要禁得起假话，受得住敷衍，忍得住欺骗，忘得了承诺，放得下一切，百炼成精，淡定从容。

60. Some people come into our lives just to open our eyes. Therefore, one must be able to withstand lies, endure deception, bear with neglect, forget promises, let go of everything, refine oneself through trials, and remain calm and composed.

61. 被人民日报这段话暖到了：“不管你有多么喜欢一个人，都不要纠结她能陪你多久，或者能不能走到最后。因为我们来到这个世界上，朋友也好，爱人也罢，都是上天赐给我们最好的礼物，拥有过就好。”

61. I was warmed by this sentence from People's Daily: "No matter how much you like someone, don't be纠结 about how long they can accompany you or whether you can walk to the end together. Because we come to this world, whether it's friends or lovers, they are the best gifts bestowed upon us by heaven, and it's enough to have had them."

62. 无论结果如何，我们都应该欣然接受。

62. We should accept it willingly regardless of the outcome.

63. 如果有个人，因为你的一点好，就原谅你所有的错，那要特别珍惜！因为太多人，只因为你的一点错，而忘记你所有的好！

63. If there is someone who forgives all your faults because of a bit of goodness in you, it is something to cherish especially! Because too many people, because of a bit of fault in you, forget all the good you have done!

64. 不满怀期待，不心存猜想，不问也不索取。只是顺其自然，因为注定的事情，它必然会发生。

64. Without expectation, without speculation, without asking or seeking. Just let it be natural, because what is predetermined will inevitably happen.

65. 纸上得来终觉浅，绝知此事要躬行。（陆游：《冬夜读书示子聿》）

65. Knowledge gained from books is always superficial, and one can truly understand a matter only by experiencing it firsthand. (Lu You: "Teaching My Son Yu on Reading on a Winter Night")

66. 人生不要被安逸所控制，决定你成功的，是奋斗；人生不要被过去所控制，决定你前行的，是未来；人生不要被别人所控制，决定你命运的，是自己。

66. Do not let comfort control your life; what determines your success is struggle. Do not let the past control your life; what determines your progress is the future. Do not let others control your life; what determines your destiny is yourself.

67. 爱可以简简单单，但不能随随便便，我的微笑可以给任何人，但我的心只能给一个人。

67. Love can be simple, but it should not be casual. My smile can be given to anyone, but my heart can only be given to one person.

68. 不管有没有遇见爱情，朋友圈子呀，还是要做减法的。

68. Whether or not you encounter love, your circle of friends should still be reduced in size.

69. 征服畏惧，建立自信的最快嘴确实的方法就是去做你害怕的事，直到你获得成功的经验。

69. The quickest and surest way to conquer fear and build self-confidence is to do the things you are afraid of until you gain successful experience.