警！分享过度，误人子弟，笑谈成痴。

Warning! Over-sharing, misleading young people, and becoming obsessed with jokes.

1. 1巷子里的猫很自由却没有归宿，屋檐下的狗有归宿却始终低着头，人生这道选择题怎么选都有遗憾。

1. The cats in the alley are free but have no place to call home, while the dogs under the eaves have a home but always keep their heads down. Life's choice is full of regrets no matter which way you go.

2. 所以，当你的个人危机和失恋、婚外情等发生时，你最好不要到处诉苦，当你的工作中出现了危机，做事不顺心，对上司、对同事有意见、有看法，你也千万不要在办公室里向人袒露心迹。

2. Therefore, when personal crises such as breakups and affairs occur, it's best not to complain everywhere. When you face crises at work, when things don't go smoothly, or when you have opinions or grievances against your supervisor or colleagues, you should also never reveal your feelings in the office.

3. 人的一生真希望有这样的几个朋友:想打电话的时候就打电话不用犹豫，想说什么就说什么不用顾忌，吃饭聚会的时候酣畅淋漓不带面具，需要帮忙的时候直接了当不用客气。---这是一个人最值得骄傲的成功之一。

3. In one's life, it is truly hoped to have a few friends like this: one can call them without hesitation, say what one wants without concern, enjoy meals and gatherings without wearing a mask, and when help is needed, give it directly without any politeness. --- This is one of the greatest successes one can be proud of.

4. 永远不要高估你在别人眼中的分量，不希望，不期望，就不会有失望！

4. Never overestimate your importance in others' eyes; if you don't expect or hope for it, there will be no disappointment!

5. 42梦想从这刻起，并不只是个幻想，靠自己它能成为现实中的一部分。

5. From this moment on, the dream of 42 is no longer just a fantasy; with one's own efforts, it can become a part of reality.

6. 这些耳语，比如领导喜欢谁，谁最吃得开，谁又有绯闻等等，就像噪音一样，影响人的工作情绪。聪明的你要懂得该说的就勇敢地说，不该说就绝对不要乱说。

6. These whispers, such as who the leader likes, who is most popular, and who is involved in scandals, etc., are like noise, affecting people's work mood. The wise among you should know to speak boldly when you should, and never to speak carelessly when you shouldn't.

7. 有理有气，志在事自成；要求学的，就别胡思乱想。一心一意，功到名自至；要爱情的，就别顾虑太久。全身投入，心入情自专；要打工的，就别磨蹭偷懒。踏踏实实，汗尽福自来；要尽孝的，就别忙碌推脱。大小平常，诚有孝自显。 人生只有三天：昨天今天明天！所以必须珍惜。

7. With reason and courage, one's aspirations will naturally come to fruition; those who seek knowledge, do not indulge in idle thoughts. Wholeheartedly dedicated, success and recognition will naturally come; those who seek love, do not hesitate too long. Devote oneself entirely, the heart will naturally become engaged in love; those who seek employment, do not procrastinate or shirk work. Work diligently, when one's sweat is exhausted, blessings will naturally come; those who wish to fulfill filial piety, do not be busy or shirk responsibilities. With equanimity towards all, sincerity will naturally manifest filial piety. Life only has three days: yesterday, today, and tomorrow! Therefore, one must cherish it.

8. 「梦想」和「妄想」不一样。如果一想到就怨怼就不甘就掉进无力感，那个称不上梦想，充其量只是一个和我们实际人生无关的妄想。如果一想到就来劲，就迫切感到有事要做的，有东西要学，有障碍要排除的，那才叫「梦想」吧。

8. "Dreams" are not the same as "daydreams." If the thought of it makes you resentful,不甘, and fall into a sense of powerlessness, that does not qualify as a dream; at most, it's just a daydream that has nothing to do with our actual lives. If the thought of it energizes you, if you feel an urgent need to do something, to learn something, to overcome obstacles, then that is truly a "dream."

9. 不是每个擦肩而过的人都会相识，也不是每个相识的人都让人牵挂。我们在今生，在那个地方，在一转身时，你说过我出现在错的时间里，但是都忘不了那份真挚的情。只是有一段感情再也不可能继续，有一个人再也不能依偎，有一个声音再也不能的在耳边响起，有一双手再也握不住那手心的温度。

9. Not everyone who passes by will meet, and not everyone who meets will be cherished. In this life, at that place, at a turn, you said I appeared at the wrong time, but we can't forget that sincere affection. It's just that a certain love can no longer continue, someone can no longer rely on, a voice can no longer resonate in the ears, and a hand can no longer hold the warmth of that palm.

10. 当一个小小的心念变成成为行为时，便能成了习惯；从而形成性格，而性格就决定你一生的成败。

10. When a small thought becomes an action, it can become a habit; thus, it shapes your character, and character determines the success or failure of your entire life.

11. 81改变之所以难，是因为内心推动力不够。不是非做不可，于是能拖就拖；还过得下去，于是得过且过。我们都太擅长安慰自己，把麻木说成成熟；我们都太擅长假装，无能为力也是顺其自然。生活像打怪升级，需要时间收集金币。收集所有能刺激你的东西，直到自己可以激励起那天，热血也可以不止三秒。

11. The difficulty in changing is due to the insufficient inner drive. It's not a must-do, so we tend to procrastinate; if it's bearable, we just live with it. We are all too good at comforting ourselves, turning numbness into maturity; we are all too good at pretending, and even when we are unable to do anything, we just go with the flow. Life is like playing a game, where you need time to collect gold coins. Collect all the things that can stimulate you, until you can inspire yourself on that day, and the passion can last more than just three seconds.

12. 所以，收起自己的分享欲，成功的事和值得开心的事，自己关起门来，偷着乐，没必要宣扬的人尽皆知。失败的事，学会默默让自己安静下来，在夜深人静时独自疗伤，慢慢学会自愈。

12. Therefore, put away your desire to share, and for the successful things and things that are worth being happy about, keep them to yourself and enjoy them in secret; there is no need to publicize something that is known to everyone. For the things that are failures, learn to quietly calm yourself down, and heal alone in the quiet of the night, gradually learning to heal yourself.

13. 上帝公平地给了每个人每天三个8小时。第一个8小时大家都在工作；第二个8小时大家都在睡觉；人与人的区别大多是在第三个8小时创造出来的。

13. God has fairly given each person three 8-hour days every day. The first 8 hours are spent working; the second 8 hours are spent sleeping; most of the differences between people are created during the third 8-hour period.

14. 你可以选择这样的三心二意：信心，恒心，决心；创意，乐意。

14. You may choose such a dual-hearted and double-mindedness: faith, perseverance, determination; creativity, willingness.

15. 4把懒惰放一边，把丧气的话收一收，把积极性提一提，把矫情的心放一放，所有想要的，都得靠自己的努力才能得到。早安!

15. Put aside laziness, keep negative remarks to yourself, boost your enthusiasm, and put away your sentimentality. All the desires you have can only be achieved through your own efforts. Good morning!

16. 59或轻、或淡、或深、或浅，在心的流离之处，存放安然。我一直在等一个你，希望那天，不早不晚，风景刚好。

16. Whether light or faint, deep or shallow, in the wandering places of the heart, there is a peacefulness stored. I have been waiting for a you, hoping that on that day, neither too early nor too late, the scenery is just right.

17. 把尘事看轻些，把人际看浅些，把得失看淡些，把成败看开些。不和别人计较，不和自己较真，下心去做人，埋头去做事，脚踏实地的走，顺其自然的活。做人如饮酒，半醉半醒最适宜；做事如执笔，半紧半松最自然。

17. Take mundane matters lightly, view human relationships superficially, treat gains and losses with detachment, and have an open mind about success and failure. Don't argue with others, don't nitpick with yourself, focus on being a person, immerse yourself in work, walk firmly on the ground, and live in harmony with nature. Being a person is like drinking wine, half drunk and half awake is most appropriate; doing things is like holding a pen, half tight and half loose is the most natural.

18. 人生最大的失败不是跌倒，而是从来不敢向前奔跑。你要么出众，要么出局，活出耀眼且丰盛的自己。

18. The greatest failure in life is not falling, but never daring to run forward. You will either excel or be eliminated; live out a brilliant and abundant life.

19. 70成功的路上，没有终点，但总有危险；没有满足，但总有不足；在成功的道路上，最基本的是：学习是出路

19. On the road to success, there is no end, but there are always dangers; there is no satisfaction, but there is always something lacking; the most fundamental aspect on the path to success is: learning is the way out.

20. 与人相处最怕的就是：你不相信你看到的我，却相信别人口中说的我。

20. The scariest thing about getting along with people is: You don't believe the me you see, but you believe the me others say.

21. 那段时间我也曾一度崩溃过，我也听从医生的建议，从饮食，作息，心态，锻炼各方面调整自己，中间的难过和坚持只有自己知道，家人也跟着提心吊胆，那段经历真的让我刻骨铭心，每次吃完中药去复诊的时候，心里忐忑不安，终于历时7个月，中医号完脉以后给我说，可以停药了，以后多加强锻炼！

21. During that period, I also experienced a breakdown and I followed the doctor's advice to adjust myself in various aspects, such as diet, sleep, mindset, and exercise. The difficulties and perseverance I went through were known only to myself, and my family was also worried about me. That experience truly left a deep impression on me. Every time I went for a follow-up visit after taking traditional Chinese medicine, I was always restless. Finally, after 7 months, the Chinese medicine practitioner, after feeling my pulse, told me that I could stop taking the medicine and should strengthen my exercise in the future!

22. 20幻想一步成功者突遭失败，会觉得浪费了时间，付出了精力，却认为没有任何收获；

22. Those who fantasize about achieving success overnight, upon encountering failure, would feel that their time and efforts were wasted, yet they believe that they have gained nothing.

23. 当一个人在看天空的时候,并不是想寻找什么,只是寂寞。

23. When a person looks at the sky, it's not to seek anything; it's just loneliness.

24. 我把这个好消息第一时间想分享给我这个朋友，从中医那儿出来，顾不上回家就给他发了微信：我有一个特别好的消息想分享给你，他马上就给我回了三个问号，我就把我可以停药的事说给他，刚开始人家回复：那挺好的！我由于太激动，一直自顾自的说：以后我要更加爱惜我自己，天涯海角等着我去踏足，世间美好等着我去拥抱，我的快乐时光又回来啦！我本想的是他和我一样激动开心，谁知我接连发了好几条微信，他都没有回，我也理解，可能他正在忙，可到了第二天，他依然什么都没有回！

24. I wanted to share this good news with my friend as soon as possible. After leaving the traditional Chinese medicine clinic, I didn't even go home and sent him a WeChat message: "I have some great news to share with you." He replied with three question marks immediately. So, I told him about my decision to stop taking medication. Initially, he replied: "That's really good!" Overwhelmed with excitement, I kept talking to myself: "From now on, I will cherish myself even more, and I will step on every corner of the world, embrace all the beauty in the world, and my happy days are back!" I thought he would be as excited and happy as I was, but to my surprise, despite sending several WeChat messages, he didn't reply at all. I understood that he might be busy, but even the next day, he still didn't reply to anything!

25. 我喜欢在夜里，翻起过去，那些被自己深埋心底的往事，拥有的，失去的，有种恍然如梦的感觉。

25. I like to revisit the past at night, those deeply buried memories within me, the ones I had and lost, giving me a feeling of being lost in a dream.

26. 我有一个关系特别好的人，经常在一块吃饭，聊天，逛街，吐槽，自己感觉是无话不谈的那种，我把他拿真心朋友对待，可一件事儿让我看清了！

26. I have someone I get along with very well; we often eat together, chat, go shopping, complain, and I feel like we can talk about anything. I treat him as a true friend, but one incident made me see the truth!

27. 3把一切失望和沮丧都抛弃，成功之路就在你的脚下。

27. 3. Abandon all despair and frustration, and the path to success lies beneath your feet.

28. 千万千万要提醒自己，要控制你的分享欲，快乐分享错了人就成了炫耀，难过分享错了人就成了笑话，只有频率相同的人才理解你的山河万里，在这个世界上，发自内心希望你好的人并不多，这个世界上真正希望你快乐的人，除了父母，几乎没几个，你好可以，但你不能比我好，这就是人性，所以别傻傻的什么都和人家分享，谨记！

28. By all means, remind yourself to control your desire to share. Sharing joy with the wrong person can become showing off, and sharing sadness with the wrong person can become a joke. Only people with the same frequency can understand your vast landscapes. In this world, there aren't many people who sincerely wish you well. The world truly wants you to be happy, apart from your parents, there are hardly any others. It's fine if you're doing well, but you can't be better than me, this is human nature. So, don't be naive and share everything with others. Remember this!

29. 高峰只对攀登它而不是仰望它的人来说才有真正意义。

29. The peak only has true meaning for those who climb it rather than just gaze at it.

30. 为人要诚实，但不要太老实，你把自己摆得低了，别人就会爬到你的头上；做事要认真，但不要总较真，无须用自己的不完美，去苛求他人的完美；欲成大事，必重细节，但不必拘于小节，只要方向没错，你终会抵达终点；可以不满足现状，但不能脱离现实，再曼妙的美梦，醒来后亦不过是一枕黄粱。

30. Be honest, but not too honest; don't put yourself down too much, or others will climb over you. Be serious about your work, but don't always be picky; there's no need to demand perfection from others with your own imperfections. To achieve great things, pay attention to details, but don't be overly concerned with trivial matters; as long as you're on the right track, you will eventually reach your destination. You can be dissatisfied with the current situation, but you cannot脱离 reality; even the most beautiful dream, upon waking, is nothing more than a dream of a golden pillow.

31. 没有什么决定是可以两全的，如果总是这样，你永远做不出什么决定。

31. There is no decision that can be a win-win situation; if you always do this, you will never be able to make any decision.

32. 6从心里看你，是爱，是爱的诗章，是用贝多芬所有的交响乐也演奏不了的爱的诗章。

32. 6 In your heart, it is love, a poem of love, a poem of love that even all of Beethoven's symphonies cannot play.

33. 人生在世，个个人的悲欢并不相通，立场不同，角度不同，看问题的方式就不同，不要期望人人都能理解你，世间皆苦悲喜自度。不要对别人有着心怀幻想的期待，没有人真正希望你过的比他好，你跟他分享喜悦，显得自己是炫耀，他只会心生嫉妒，你跟他分享痛苦，显得自己装可怜，他只会不屑一顾！

33. In life, each person's joys and sorrows are not interconnected. With different stances and perspectives, the way of looking at things is also different. Don't expect everyone to understand you. In this world, everyone has their own suffering and happiness to endure. Don't have unrealistic expectations of others. No one truly wishes for you to live better than them. When you share joy with them, it seems like you are showing off, and they will only feel envious. When you share your pain with them, it seems like you are trying to look pitiful, and they will only look down on you!