在智慧的中国，独立生活，告别惰性，走出自我——这是新时代青年成长的必经之路。在这个充满机遇与挑战的时代，让我们携手共进，书写属于自己的精彩篇章。

In the wise China, independent living, saying goodbye to idleness, and stepping out of oneself – this is the essential path for the growth of the youth in the new era. In this era full of opportunities and challenges, let us join hands and move forward together, writing our own wonderful chapters.

1. 当你到这个年龄阶段，就意味着要承担很多的责任。但同时，你也要清除掉一些不属于你的圈子，要学会让自己变得更优秀，来巩固自己的人脉圈。每天忙忙碌碌中，不知不觉就有了白发；不知不觉眼角就多了皱纹；不知不觉孩子快和自己一样高了。在事业和家庭的双重压力下，很多人都陷入了迷茫和彷徨。却没了拼命的能力，一边在遗憾梦想未竟，一边却有感慨激情不再。

1. When you reach this age stage, it means that you have to take on many responsibilities. At the same time, you also need to get rid of some circles that do not belong to you, learn to become better, and consolidate your network of contacts. In the hustle and bustle of everyday life, you may not notice that you have white hair; you may not realize that crow's feet have appeared around your eyes; you may not notice that your child is almost as tall as you. Under the double pressure of career and family, many people have fallen into confusion and hesitation. However, they have lost the ability to struggle, feeling regret over unfulfilled dreams on one hand, and on the other, they are感慨 passion is no longer there.

2. 什么样的生活才能活出自我精彩，你若感觉生活幸福自如，能知足，人生活跃踌躇满志，活出有价值意义，不恬淡无为，不碌碌无为，不枉此生，达到能了却抱负，没有遗憾，问心无愧，不成累赘。既使没有轰轰烈烈的人生，也不为人后。则是人生自我精釆。

2. What kind of life allows one to live with self-worth and vibrancy? If you feel that your life is happy and free, able to be content, with an active and ambitious spirit, living a life of value and meaning, not indifferent and doing nothing, not aimless and purposeless, not squandering your life, and achieving your ambitions without regrets, feeling no guilt, and not becoming a burden. Even if your life is not full of grandeur, nor do you lag behind others. This is where life becomes truly精彩 (self-expressive and vibrant).

3. 所以，女人最好的活法，就是独立，只有独立自强，才不会依赖他人，才能安稳走完自己想要的人生。

3. Therefore, the best way for a woman to live is to be independent. Only by being independent and self-reliant can one avoid dependence on others and securely walk through the life they want to lead.

4. 在生活中，每个人都有适合自己的生活轨迹，每个人都有不同的秉性，使命和觉悟，每个人都是独立的个体，想要活出自我，一定要保持好自己的独立性，都需要顺势而为，干自己得心应手的事，沿着适合自己的生活轨迹前行，应该根据自己的特长，能力和性格来选择自己喜欢的工作和生活。只有这样，大家各尽其才，各负其责，各尽其职，才能使我们每个人在这个 社会 上发挥最大的作用，才能最有效的完成我们每个人来到这个世界的使命，才能保证整个 社会 的顺利有序运转。把你自己最喜欢，最擅长的事做到极致，就是活出了自我，热切地追求并坚持适合自己的生活，你就活得精彩。

4. In life, everyone has their own suitable path, everyone has different dispositions, missions, and awakenings. Each person is an independent individual. To live out one's true self, one must maintain their independence, follow the current trends, do what they are good at, and progress along the path that suits them. People should choose their work and life according to their special talents, abilities, and personalities. Only in this way can everyone make the best use of their abilities, take responsibility, and fulfill their duties, enabling each of us to play the greatest role in society. Only by doing what you are most passionate about and excel in to the fullest extent can you truly live out your true self. By eagerly pursuing and persistently following a life that suits you, you can live a fulfilling life.

5. 人到中年，有些东西不是我们想怎么样就能怎么样的，我们即使再怎么尽力，再怎么全心全意，再怎么希望它能成，到最后却发现还是无力改变，任何事尽力之后就选择随缘吧，凡事与其强求，还不如让一切顺其自然，随遇而安。

5. As we reach middle age, there are some things that are not within our control, no matter how hard we try or how wholeheartedly we wish them to be. In the end, we may find ourselves helpless to change them. After making our best effort, why not just go with the flow? It's better to let things unfold naturally than to strive for the impossible, and to adapt to whatever comes our way.

6. 毕竟，人生在世，能为自己而活，才是一件真正值得幸福的事。

6. After all, to live for oneself is truly something that is truly worth being happy about in life.

7. 而不是因为一点所谓的小挫折，就一蹶不振。一个人成熟的标志往往都是他内心足够的强大，自身也有一定的潜力可以去挖掘。坦白说，人生并没有那么多的贵人，只有自己优秀了，你才会有足够多的机会，遇到你人生中的贵人。人活一世，不如意之事十有八九。不就是说明，人就是在痛苦和烦恼中生活的嘛。，会决定你成为什么样的人。如果你结交奢靡的酒肉之徒，早晚坐吃山空，把家底败光。如果你亲近作奸犯科的小人，即便自己不惹是生非，终有一日会遭到连累。

7. It is not because of a trivial setback that one should be utterly defeated. The sign of a mature person is often their inner strength and the potential within themselves to be explored. To be honest, life does not have that many VIPs; only when you become outstanding will you have enough opportunities to encounter the VIPs in your life. In one's lifetime, there are nine out of ten things that are not as one wishes. Isn't it just a proof that people live in pain and worries? What you choose will determine the kind of person you become. If you befriend those who indulge in luxury and gluttony, sooner or later you will be living beyond your means and squander your family's wealth. If you get close to those who commit crimes, even if you yourself do not cause trouble, you will eventually be dragged into trouble.

8. 女人要明白的是，在这个世界上，不会有人一生一世都宠你，也鲜少有人能陪你一辈子。

8. What women should understand is that in this world, no one will always pamper you for a lifetime, and it is also rare for someone to accompany you throughout your entire life.

9. 你可以随意去想去的地方，来一场说走就走的旅行，也可以随意买想买的东西，而不必担心爱人的埋怨，还可以去见想见的人，去做想做的事，那时的你才是真正自立自由的。

9. You can go anywhere you want with a spontaneous trip, buy whatever you wish without worrying about your lover's complaints, and meet whoever you wish, do whatever you want to do. It is then that you are truly self-reliant and free.

10. 人生要活出自我精彩，也不得任性，很重要一点要懂得他人感受，自已一人活着，直接关系牵扯着你所爱的人，以及爱你的人，你的成功与挫折，牵动着他们的欢乐与悲伤，期待与关怀。所以要自我活出人生精釆，抱负心可得做到能了却，自我没有遗憾，这样你了却抱负，对人没亏欠，没背负，不内疚，乃至感觉问心无愧，不成累赘，心满意足觉得自我很幸福，心情舒服了，心态好，没有遗憾所埋汰，能这样就是人生活出的精彩享受，不枉此生来过，活得不逊色，自豪自若。

10. Life must be lived in a way that is self-expressive and精彩, but one must also not be任性. It is very important to understand others' feelings. When you live alone, it directly affects the people you love and those who love you. Your success and setbacks affect their joy and sorrow, their expectations and care. Therefore, to live a life of self-expressive 精彩, you should strive to fulfill your ambitions without regrets, so that you have no debts to others, no burdens, no guilt, and even feel guilt-free. This is not a burden, and you feel content, thinking that you are very happy. When your mood is comfortable, your mindset is good, and you have no regrets to hold you back, this is the enjoyment of living life to the fullest. It is not in vain to have come to this world, and you live without any disgrace, with pride and composure.

11. 你的独立，完全可以让自己获得一份想要的安全感

11. Your independence can fully allow you to gain the sense of security you desire.

12. ，这份安全感，会让你逐渐变得有底气、有魄力，一切随心，如影随行。

12. This sense of security will gradually give you confidence and courage, allowing you to live according to your heart's desires, as if it follows you in your shadow.

13. 当你拥有了独立的经济基础，你不向人伸手，你会发现，别人看你的眼神都是尊重和欣赏的。

13. When you have an independent economic foundation, you do not have to reach out to others, and you will find that others look at you with respect and appreciation.

14. 她们不会成为男人的拖累，相反，在他需要的时候，她还能以自己的方式去安慰和拉他一把。

14. They will not be a burden to men; on the contrary, they can comfort and support him in their own way when he needs it.

15. 一个真正经济独立的女人，一定会活出风范，活得精致，也有自己的自由。

15. A truly economically independent woman will live with style, live elegantly, and also have her own freedom.

16. 生命里，任何一段时光、一寸岁月，女人都要懂得独立、自强，因为它最终会让你变得强大，变得精致，活成自己最喜欢的样子。

16. In life, any period of time, any moment, a woman must learn to be independent and self-reliant, as it will ultimately make you stronger, more refined, and live the way you like best.

17. 具体到我们的工作生活中，我们每个人都应该根据自己的特长、能力和性格来选择自己喜欢的工作和生活。

17. Specifically in our work and daily life, each of us should choose our favorite work and lifestyle according to our own special talents, abilities, and personality.

18. 比如，她们可以读一部好本，充实自己的智慧，也可以去健身让自己更有精神，保持好的身材，而不是像别的女人那样想吃就吃，想睡就睡没有一点节制。

18. For example, they can read a good book to enrich their wisdom, or go to the gym to stay energetic and maintain a good physique, instead of eating and sleeping without any self-control like some other women.

19. 无论遇到什么事，不向别人诉苦，不向别人抱怨，日子是自己的，就看自己怎么去过，在自己的世界里独善其身，在别人的世界里顺其自然，不在意别人的眼光，生活一定会越来越好！

19. No matter what happens, don't complain to others or complain about others. The days are your own, and it depends on how you live them. Be good to yourself in your own world, and let things take their natural course in others' worlds. Don't care about others' opinions, and your life will definitely get better and better!

20. 好的心态，会促使一个人变得勇敢，也会让自己更加清楚自己想要的是什么，并为之去努力。

20. A positive attitude can encourage a person to be brave and also make it clearer what they want and strive for it.

21. 因此，女人最好的活法，是独立。独立，不仅仅会让你有面对生活的勇气，也会让你有解决生活里困境的能力，它会让你强大，并具有魅力和魄力。

21. Therefore, the best way for women to live is to be independent. Independence, not only gives you the courage to face life, but also the ability to solve the difficulties in life. It makes you strong, and endows you with charm and determination.

22. 路途中总有一些不顺心的人和事，为了一些鸡毛蒜皮事情就纠结，不仅不能解决问题，还会让自己深陷其中不能自拔。缺少人生志向，但为人父以后，他找到了自己努力的目标，中年发奋，虽历经挫折，但还是成就了自己的一番事业。这种存在是微乎其微的。当你有一定的价值，能够给他人带来好处，那么别人也愿意去帮你。毕竟这个社会上熙熙攘攘皆是利，只有你强大了，靠近你的人就更多。

22. During the journey, there are always some people and things that go against the grain. People often get entangled in trivial matters, which not only fails to solve the problem but also causes them to be deeply immersed and unable to extricate themselves. Despite lacking a life direction, after becoming a father, he found the target of his efforts, striving hard in middle age, although he encountered setbacks, he still achieved a piece of his own career. Such existence is extremely rare. When you have some value and can bring benefits to others, then others are also willing to help you. After all, this world is bustling with people seeking benefits; only when you are strong will there be more people around you.

23. 所以，当你懂得独立后，人才会拥有了让你应对这一切的能力，才会将生活过得更好。

23. Therefore, when you understand independence, you will possess the ability to cope with everything, and only then will you be able to live a better life.

24. 所以说，把你自己最喜欢、最擅长的事做到极致，就是活出了自我，热切地追求并坚持适合自己的生活，你就活得精彩。

24. Therefore, to excel in what you like most and are best at is to live out your true self. To eagerly pursue and persist in a life that suits you is to live a vibrant and精彩 life.

25. 如果你感觉与家人相处，享受天伦，其乐无穷，你就老实呆在家里吧；如果你感觉喧嚣的城市，人来人往，其乐无穷，你就努力生活在城市吧；如果你感觉宁静的乡村，清新自然，其乐无穷，你就努力生活在农村吧。

25. If you feel that spending time with your family, enjoying the joy of family life, is endlessly delightful, then stay home; if you feel that the bustling city, filled with people coming and going, is endlessly enjoyable, then strive to live in the city; if you feel that the serene countryside, with its fresh and natural beauty, is endlessly delightful, then strive to live in the countryside.

26. 人到中年，让我们放平心态，不要活在别人的世界里，更不用去讨好别人，生活是自己的，在自己的世界里独善其身，在他人的世界里顺其自然，无需与他人攀比，也无需在意别人的眼光，自己过好自己的日子，在自己的世界里，独自生长，微笑前行，去遇见那个更勇敢，更美好的自己。

26. At middle age, let us keep a calm attitude, do not live in others' world, and even less so to please others. Life is our own, to cultivate ourselves in our own world, and let things take their course in others' worlds. We don't need to compare with others, nor should we worry about others' opinions. Live your own life well, grow independently in your own world, smile as you go, and meet that braver, better version of yourself.

27. 总而言之，你所选择的生活，是你喜欢、你愿意、你快乐的，而不是为世俗和别人的看法所左右，强求自己过不愿意、不喜欢、不适合的生活。

27. In summary, the life you choose is the one you like, are willing to live, and are happy with, rather than being influenced by the opinions of society and others, forcing yourself to live a life that you do not like, are not willing to live, or is not suitable for you.

28. 你可以做自己，不必看任何人的眼色，在自己供养自己的日子里，那种快乐和充实感，是足够能让自己安稳和安心的。

28. You can be yourself without having to cater to anyone's gaze. During the days when you support yourself, the happiness and fulfillment you experience are more than enough to make you feel secure and at ease.

29. 成年人的世界,嘴上一言不发,眼里看尽人间沧桑;何以言,何能言,与谁言..有些事情除了自己,谁也不会懂,有些无奈除了沉默,谁也不能说！

29. In the world of adults, they may not say a word with their mouth, but their eyes have seen the vicissitudes of life; What to say, how to say, to whom to say... Some things, no one but oneself can understand, and some helplessness, no one but silence can express!

30. 她不会在深夜里矫情地想要别人的关心和保护，不会无缘无故熬夜，不会参加那些无用的社交。

30. She would not indulge in sentimentality for others' concern and protection at night, would not stay up late for no reason, nor would she participate in those futile social gatherings.

31. 心态是最重要的，很多女人之所以过得焦虑，就是心态没有做到平和，生活也跟着浮躁不安。

31. Attitude is the most important factor. Many women live in anxiety because they haven't achieved a peaceful mindset, and their lives follow suit, becoming restless and unstable.

32. 其实，想要在生活活出自我，活得精彩就要能够学会很好的享受生活，懂得享受才会更加的爱生活，才能够有用力有能力给出岁月真心真意的全部，这样的人生才是最为美好的。

32. In fact, to truly live life to the fullest and live an exciting life, one must learn to enjoy life well. Understanding how to enjoy life will make one love life even more, and only then can one give all of one's sincerity and true intentions to the years, making such a life the most beautiful.

33. 往往这样的女人，是男人最会去珍惜和深爱的人。

33. Often, such women are the ones that men are most likely to cherish and deeply love.

34. 管理好自已，不强求，不抱怨，不计较，不争名夺利，顺其自然，人生路上事与愿违是常态，事事如意是偶然，那就过一种宁静而恬淡的生活吧，心态平静，洒脱点，不委屈自己，活出一个幸福快乐的自已，安心快乐过好每一天。

34. Manage yourself well, do not seek too much, do not complain, do not grudge, do not strive for fame and wealth, go with the flow. In life, things not going as planned is the norm, and everything going smoothly is an accident. So why not live a tranquil and unpretentious life? Keep a peaceful mind, be carefree, do not put yourself in a position of suffering, and live out a happy and joyful life. Enjoy a peaceful and happy day every day.

35. 她们懂得独立的活法，也是一场精彩时光 ，是能让自身变得更加美好和具有内涵的。

35. They understand the way of living independently, which is also a wonderful time, and one that can make themselves more beautiful and profound.

36. 人到中年，最明智的活法，过好自己的日子，不向别人诉苦，不向别人抱怨，生活是自己的，照顾好自己，学会享受孤独，会发现生活如此美好。

36. When one reaches middle age, the wisest way to live is to live well for oneself, not to complain to others, not to抱怨 to others. Life is one's own, take care of oneself, learn to enjoy solitude, and one will find that life is so beautiful.

37. 只有过适合自己的生活才能活出自我，让人生精彩。

37. Only by living a life that suits oneself can one truly express oneself and make life colorful and exciting.

38. 当你真正拥有了独立的心态以后，你才会有勇往向前的勇气和坚强，你会发现，原来曾经那些失意和困境，并不是什么可怕的事。

38. It is only after you truly embrace an independent mindset that you will have the courage and strength to move forward. You will find that those past failures and difficulties were not as daunting as they seemed.

39. 如果你感觉当官高高在上，其乐无穷，你就努力过当官的生活吧；如果你感觉当老百姓逍遥自在，其乐无穷，你就努力过老百姓的生活吧；如果你感觉交朋友谈天说地，其乐无穷，你就过广交朋友的生活吧。

39. If you feel that being an official is a delightful experience with a sense of superiority, then strive to live the life of an official; if you feel that being a common citizen is carefree and infinitely enjoyable, then strive to live the life of a common citizen; if you feel that making friends and chatting about the world is endlessly delightful, then live the life of making friends widely.

40. 但人性的本质是慕强踩弱，怕你有，笑你无，现实终究是残酷的，不要将自己的苦难说给别人听，说出口的委屈，你以为找到了知心人，人家未必能听进去，也未必能感同身受，也许有一天会成为别人茶余饭后的谈资，在你不知道的时刻成为别人嘲笑你的点！

40. But the essence of human nature is to admire the strong and trample on the weak, to fear what you have and laugh at what you don't. Reality is ultimately cruel. Don't share your suffering with others. The grievances you speak out may seem like you've found a close friend, but they may not necessarily listen or empathize. Perhaps one day, they could become the gossip at others' tea breaks, or the point of others' laughter at you when you are unaware!

41. 。她们会把时间用在提升自我的事情上，而不是白白浪费了许多时间，最后在再来后悔。

41. They will spend their time on things that enhance themselves, rather than waste a lot of time in vain and regret it later.

42. 如果你感觉当官高高在上最好，那你就努力过当官的生活，如果你感觉当老百姓逍遥自在，其乐无穷，你就过老百姓的生活，如果你感觉交朋友谈天说地也其乐无比，你就广交朋友，如果你感觉与家人相处，其乐融融，你就常陪伴家人享受天伦之乐。总而言之，你所选择的生活，是你喜欢，你愿意，让你你快乐的，而不是为世俗和别人的看法所左右，强求自己过不愿意，不喜欢，不适合的生活。适合你的生活就是你最精彩的生活。

42. If you feel that being an official is the best way to feel high and mighty, then strive to live the life of an official. If you feel that being a common citizen brings you great freedom and endless joy, then live the life of a common citizen. If you feel that making friends and chatting with them is无比 enjoyable, then widely make friends. If you feel that spending time with your family is harmonious and full of joy, then often accompany your family to enjoy the warmth of family life. In short, the life you choose should be one that you like, that you are willing to live, and that brings you happiness, not something that is influenced by the opinions of society and others, forcing yourself to live a life that you don't want, don't like, or is not suitable for you. The life that suits you is the most wonderful life you can lead.

43. 这就是现实生活中，少数人活出了自我，活得精彩，而大多数人注定浑浑噩噩、平平庸庸、碌碌无为生活的原因所在。

43. This is the reason why, in real life, a few people live out their true selves and lead exciting lives, while the majority are destined to live a life of confusion, mediocrity, and aimlessness.

44. 有的人在单位里干了十几年，干得好好的，但看到别人在外面自己创业，一年两年赚很多，眼红了，嫉妒了，听说有什么项目来钱快，于是一冲动，而放弃自己的生活，等到孩子长大成人之时，无心可操的自己会陷入尴尬的境地。你会遇到形形色色不同的人，有的是你人生中的贵人，而有的则是危害你的小人。有人认为钱越多就会过得越好，有人认为身体健康就会过得很好，有人认为儿女有出息就会过得很好，也有人认为真真实实地活出自我才是真的好

44. Some people have worked in their units for a decade or more, doing well, but seeing others start their own businesses outside and earn a lot in a year or two, they become envious and jealous. When they hear about some projects that can make money quickly, they impulsively give up their own lives. By the time their children grow up, they find themselves in an embarrassing situation with nothing to do. You will encounter all kinds of people, some of whom may be your life's benefactors, while others may be cunning people who harm you. Some people believe that the more money they have, the better their lives will be. Some believe that good health will lead to a good life. Some think that having successful children will bring happiness, while others believe that truly living out one's self is the true essence of a good life.

45. 这个物欲横流的社会中，为了能吃穿住行跟别人一样，个个卯足了劲地加班加点去赚钱，生活中，我们会不自觉地去迎合他人的期待。如果不懂得退让，很容易因此得罪别人。君子喻于义，小人喻于利。越是看重利益的人，往往道德水平越低。有个缺口让福气流向别人是很美好的事，你不需要，也不可能拥有所有的东西，只有选择合适自己的生活，才能拥有真正的幸福。

45. In this materialistic society, everyone is striving hard to work overtime to earn money so that they can eat, wear, live, and travel like others. In life, we often unconsciously cater to others' expectations. If one doesn't know how to compromise, it's easy to offend others. A gentleman is concerned with righteousness, while a small person is concerned with profit. The more one values profit, the lower their moral level tends to be. It is a beautiful thing to let the flow of blessings reach others. You don't need, and cannot possess, everything. Only by choosing the appropriate lifestyle for yourself can you truly achieve happiness.

46. 当你坦然面对深夜里的孤独时，你再也不会因为身旁无人而觉得觉得失落和孤单，相反，你会觉得那是一种让自己可以真正安静下来享受的美丽时光。

46. When you calmly face the loneliness of the night, you will no longer feel lost and lonely because there is no one beside you. On the contrary, you will find that it is a beautiful time for you to truly settle down and enjoy some quiet moments.

47. 只有这样，大家各尽其才，各负其责，各尽其职，才能使我们每个人在这个 社会 上发挥最大的作用，才能最有效的完成我们每个人来到这个世界的使命，才能保证整个 社会 的顺利有序运转。

47. Only in this way can each person contribute their talents, take responsibility, and fulfill their duties, allowing each of us to play the greatest role in society, to most effectively complete the mission each of us has come to this world for, and to ensure the smooth and orderly operation of the entire society.

48. 一个没有经济自立的女人，往往是苦日子的开始，

48. A woman without economic independence often marks the beginning of hard times.

49. 要怎么样才能活出自我，让人生精彩？是我们每个人都需要思考，用自己的一生来做出回答的问题。

49. How can one live out one's true self and make life colorful? This is a question that each of us needs to ponder and answer with our entire life.

50. 只可惜，我们大多数人，似乎一生都没能找到和发现自己的特质、擅长和兴趣所在，或者被生存、现实和条件所迫，不能做自己擅长和感兴趣的事，不能过自己想要的生活。

50. Alas, it seems that most of us have never found or discovered our own qualities, skills, and interests in life, or have been compelled by survival, reality, and circumstances to do things that we are good at and interested in, and to live the life we want.

51. 最高级的惩罚就是沉默，最矜持的报复就是无视。少在烂事上纠缠，少为不值得的人生气，让自己活得高贵一点，学会放下，才能更好的前行。这个世界看似纷繁复杂，其实本质，却还是你一个人的世界。

51. The highest form of punishment is silence, and the most reserved form of revenge is to ignore. Spend less time entangled in trivial matters, and less time getting angry over lives that don't deserve it. Allow yourself to live with a touch of nobility, learn to let go, and you will be able to move forward better. This world may appear complicated and chaotic, but at its core, it is still your own world.

52. 独立的女人，一定有着独立的心态，她会让内心更加成熟，也会以更好的方式去面对生活。

52. An independent woman must have an independent mindset, which will make her inner self more mature and also enable her to face life in a better way.

53. 有时候，躺在床上好好想想，一辈子能相信谁，又能依赖谁，一路走来，行囊里装满了酸甜苦辣，当有一天你尝尽了社会的无情，金钱的压力，爱情的不堪，你终会明白，别人的屋檐再大，都不如自己有把伞，不要指望着别人来宽慰自己，不要向别人抱怨自己，不要向别人诉苦，别人给你解决不了什么，更帮不了你什么，经历多了以后，你会发现，到最后能依靠的只有自己！

53. Sometimes, when lying in bed and thinking deeply, you might ponder over who you can believe in and depend on throughout your life. As you journey along, your backpack is filled with a mix of sweet, sour, bitter, and spicy experiences. When the day comes that you have tasted the ruthlessness of society, the pressure of money, and the unworthiness of love, you will eventually realize that no matter how big the eaves of others' houses are, they are never as good as having an umbrella of your own. Don't expect others to comfort you, don't complain to others about yourself, and don't pour out your sorrows to them. Others can't solve much for you, nor can they help you much. After experiencing a lot, you will find that, in the end, the only one you can rely on is yourself!

54. 只有这样，你才会得到尊重，不会担心爱人离你而去，因为你有将生活独立过好的能力，不必依赖他人。

54. Only in this way will you earn respect and not worry about your loved one leaving you, because you have the ability to live independently and well, and do not need to rely on others.

55. 生活，是需要直面的，过得好不好，最关键的是看经济。

55. Life is something that needs to be faced, and whether it is lived well or not, the most critical factor is economic status.

56. 对于智者而言，对自己的情绪要有节制，喜怒不形于色。人在愤怒和大喜时，情绪起伏波动很大，容易影响自己的判断。更有甚者，在极端情绪下，很容易一时激动，做出令自己后悔莫及的行为。只会让自己的精神日渐疲惫，纠结过去的事情，对当下没有半点意思，只会换来痛苦。掌握主动的关键在于做出自己的生活规划，找到属于自己的一块自留地，耕耘自己的后半生。

56. For the wise, self-restraint over one's emotions is necessary, not allowing joy or anger to show on one's face. When people are angry or extremely joyful, their emotional fluctuations are great, which is easy to affect their judgment. Moreover, under extreme emotions, one is prone to be impulsive and act in ways that one deeply regrets later. This only leads to one's mental fatigue,纠结 over past events, which has no meaning for the present, and only brings pain. The key to taking the initiative lies in making one's own life plan, finding a piece of land that belongs to oneself, and cultivating the latter half of one's life.

57. 我们不要生活在别人的眼中，而是要生活在自己的心里。 你的生活你做主 。

57. Let's not live in the eyes of others, but in our own hearts. Your life, you decide.

58. 生活中，再好的感情，也会从浓烈趋向平淡，再深爱你的人，也会有悄然离去的时候。与其期望别人成为你生命里的保护神，不如趁早让自己活出独有的风彩。

58. In life, even the best relationships will transition from intense to mundane, and even the person who loves you deeply will have times when they quietly leave. It's better to focus on making yourself shine uniquely in life rather than expecting others to be the guardian angels in your life.

59. 上天在造人的时候，赋予了每个人不同的秉性、使命和觉悟。我们每个人都需要顺势而为，干自己得心应手的事，沿着适合自己的生活轨迹前行，这个世界才会有条不紊的运行。

59. When heaven created humans, it bestowed upon each person different temperaments, missions, and enlightenment. Each of us needs to act in accordance with the times, do what we are good at, and move forward along a life path that suits us, so that this world can run smoothly and orderly.

60. 一个人的生活精采，境界在于人生有作为，能体现自我价值，不抱负于人，不成 社会 累赘，思想尚进，生命在活力，能融入到 社会 中去，充分发挥自我潜力，争取人生至高效率，体现出自我人生信念与使命，尽力而为，不逞能好胜，踏踏实实，不虚伪，不妒心自卑微，活出自信自若，现实看视，为人是道，做人厚道，良心赚钱，规矩做人，恩泽于人。经营好自我家庭经济实力，充实生活素质，做好对 社会 有利，多参与 社会 公益。搞好人际关系，亲缘直属亲密，提升自我形象素质涵养，精神文明素质。同时自我充实人生生活质量，活跃人生。调整知足常乐好心态，有着乐观尚进的热劲。这些则是活出自我人生精彩的妙处。

60. The essence of a person's life lies in having achievements, being able to embody one's own value, not being a burden to others, and not becoming a social liability. One's thoughts are progressive, life is full of vitality, and one can integrate into society, fully tapping into one's own potential, striving for the highest efficiency in life, and reflecting one's own beliefs and mission in life. One does one's best without showing off or competing for victory, being down-to-earth, sincere, and not envious or feeling inferior. One lives with confidence and composure. In terms of reality, one behaves morally, treats others kindly, earns money with a good conscience, conducts oneself according to rules, and bestows kindness on others. Manage one's own family's economic strength well, enrich one's quality of life, do what is beneficial to society, and participate more in social public welfare. Cultivate good interpersonal relationships, maintain close ties with relatives, enhance one's image and quality of character, and spiritual civilization quality. At the same time, enrich one's life quality and make life vibrant. Adjust one's attitude of contentment and joy, and maintain an optimistic and progressive spirit. These are the wonderful aspects of living a life full of personal excellence.

61. 想要活出属于自己的精彩，那么在生活中一定要坚持好自己做人做事的原则和底线，这样才会被别人所尊重，也才能够更好的做好自己。

61. If you want to live out your own brilliance, you must always adhere to your own principles and bottom lines in life and work. This is the only way to gain respect from others and to better do yourself.

62. 每个人都经历过很想找人倾诉的时刻，尤其是遇到挫折和苦难，当自己的压力大到快要崩溃的时候，总希望有一个人能倾听自己，让自己倾诉一下，发泄自己心中的不满和委屈！

62. Everyone has experienced moments when they desperately want to confide in someone, especially when faced with setbacks and hardships. When one's stress becomes almost overwhelming, there is always a hope that someone will listen to them, allowing them to vent their discontent and grievances!

63. 你会看到，原来经济独立，是可以在每一个平常的日子里，自己走路都能带风，那么潇洒。

63. You will see that originally, economic independence can bring about a graceful and carefree lifestyle, where simply walking down the street feels like you're carrying a breeze with you.

64. 她们不依赖别人，无论恋爱或是婚姻，都能做好自己，既保持良好的感情，也能活出自我。

64. They are independent of others, whether in a romantic relationship or marriage, and they can do well for themselves. They maintain a good relationship while also living out their true selves.

65. 因为不会有人会永远去照顾你一生的。毕竟，在现实里，什么都需要钱，没有人会一直给予你。

65. Because no one will take care of you for your entire life. After all, in reality, everything requires money, and no one will keep giving to you indefinitely.

66. 拥有独立的心态，你的内心才会强大，才不会因为一点失意而使生活变得暗淡。

66. With an independent mindset, your inner self will be strong, and you will not let a bit of setback dim your life.

67. 只有真正成熟的人才会明白，前行的路上，与其焦虑和内耗，不如与自己和解，人这一生，要经历很多事情，遇见很多人，走许多弯路。但无论经历了什么事情，都不要忘记和自己和解。只有这样，才能让自己获得真正的成长和进步，才能让自己变得更加强大。才能在人生路上越走越远。

67. Only truly mature individuals understand that on the path of life, it's better to reconcile with oneself than to be anxious and internally exhausted. Throughout one's life, one must experience many things, meet many people, and take many detours. But no matter what experiences one goes through, one should never forget to reconcile with oneself. Only in this way can one truly grow and progress, and become stronger. It is only then that one can move further and further along the path of life.

68. 少一些抱怨，少一些诉苦，取悦自己，充实自己，让自己变得丰盈，知足常乐，会越活越阳光！

68. Less complaining, less complaining, please yourself, enrich yourself, make yourself abundant, contented with what you have, and you will live more joyfully and positively!

69. 在生活中每个人都有自己的生活方式，有平淡的，也有很轰动的，那么什么样的生活才能活出自我，活得精彩呢？

69. In life, everyone has their own way of living, some are plain, and some are quite spectacular. So, what kind of life can truly express oneself and live it vividly?

70. 不求此生精彩纷呈，但求安然度过漫长的人生。

70. Not seeking a life filled with colorful events, but only wishing to safely navigate through the long journey of life.

71. 人到中年，不与任何人去争，也不干预别人的生活！接纳现实，保持平和。不要沉迷于过去的遗憾，也不强求未来的理想。活在当下，做好自己该做的事，不抱怨、不诉苦，心态自然会平和，生活也更轻松。

71. At middle age, do not argue with anyone or interfere in others' lives! Accept reality and maintain inner peace. Do not be immersed in regrets from the past or strive for an ideal future. Live in the present, do what you should do, without complaining or lamenting. Your mindset will naturally become peaceful, and life will also become easier.

72. 自律的女人，都会懂得合理利用时间，可以自己管理自己，可以活得更加精致

72. A self-disciplined woman will always know how to make rational use of time, can manage herself, and can live a more refined life.