1. 父母热爱阅读，不断汲取知识拓宽视野，孩子自然会对书本产生好奇与亲近之感；父母积极参与公益活动，展现出对社会的关怀与责任，孩子也会逐渐培养起同理心和奉献精神。

1. Parents who love reading and continuously seek knowledge to broaden their horizons naturally spark a sense of curiosity and affinity towards books in their children; parents who actively participate in public welfare activities and demonstrate care and responsibility towards society will also gradually cultivate empathy and a spirit of dedication in their children.

2. 流水般的滋润。父母的言传身教就是那汩汩的水流，对孩子进行入眼入心的滋润，引导孩子发展的方向、前行的路径。

2. A continuous, flowing nourishment. The teachings and role models of parents are like a gurgling stream, providing deep and heartwarming nourishment to children, guiding their direction of development and the path they should take in life.

3. 真正觉醒的家庭：只改变自己，不改变孩子，用自己的行动去影响孩子。”

3. A truly awakened family: Only change yourself, not your child, and influence your child through your own actions.

4. 民主。成功的家庭教育首先应该是民主的，家庭教育中，孩子也享有家庭成员权利，专制培养不出优秀的孩子。

4. Democracy. Successful family education should first and foremost be democratic. In family education, children also enjoy the rights of family members, and autocratic upbringing cannot produce outstanding children.

5. 不断学习的习惯。不断学习，是持续发展的源泉，活到老，学到老，当家庭中充满终身学习的氛围，就会在潜移默化中培养孩子热爱学习的习惯，孩子会变得爱书籍，勇于尝试。

5. The habit of continuous learning. Continuous learning is the source of sustained development. As the saying goes, "Learn until the end of your life." When a family is filled with an atmosphere of lifelong learning, it will subtly cultivate the habit of loving to learn in children, making them fond of books and brave in trying new things.

6. 帮助孩子养成自律。自律是路径，是长远发展的“蓄电池”，行稳方能致远，儿童时期养成优秀的习惯，能指引孩子向阳生长。

6. Help children develop self-discipline. Self-discipline is the path, the "battery" for long-term development, and only by walking steadily can one go far. Developing excellent habits during childhood can guide children to grow towards the light.

7. 勉励关怀，不断向前。当孩子学习退步时，学会勉励孩子，并帮助孩子找到失败的原因，再朝着目标行动起来；当孩子和同学相处不融洽时，讲一讲自己的与人相处之道，让孩子从真实事例中收获解决问题的办法，鼓励他直面问题，解决问题。

7. Encourage and care, and keep moving forward. When a child's studies regress, learn to encourage the child and help them find the reasons for their failure, and then take action towards their goals; when a child is not getting along with their classmates, share your own ways of dealing with others, allowing the child to learn problem-solving methods from real-life examples, and encourage them to face the problem and solve it.

8. 改变自己。在教育孩子的过程中，家长最应该努力的地方是提升自己，要与孩子共同成长。

8. Change yourself. In the process of educating children, the most effort parents should make is to improve themselves, and to grow together with the child.

9. 平等。家长与孩子交流时不以成人自居，不以家长自居。特别是当讨论某些问题，孩子在见解上出现偏差时，家长决不能武断，要有条不紊地分析疏导，让孩子感受到挚友般的真诚。

9. Equality. When parents communicate with their children, they should not assume an air of superiority as adults or as parents. Especially when discussing certain issues and the child holds biased views, parents must not act arbitrarily. They should analyze and guide the child systematically, allowing the child to feel the sincerity of a close friend.

10. 陪伴沟通。善于和孩子进行沟通交流的家长，能及时知道孩子的思想动态、人生三观、心理诉求和疑惑点，亲子间就会化解矛盾，减少冲突。家长的陪伴，会让孩子有安全感。

10. Accompany and Communicate. Parents who are good at communicating with their children can timely understand their children's thoughts, values, psychological needs, and doubts, which will help to resolve conflicts and reduce confrontations between parents and children. The presence of parents will give children a sense of security.

11. 了解孩子。孩子更像是一片森林，而不是一辆汽车，因此不能通过机械化的手段打磨孩子，否则，我们最后得到的就是一部考试机器。

11. Understand the child. Children are more like a forest than a car, so we cannot machine-polish them. Otherwise, what we end up with is just an examination machine.

12. 帮助孩子收获自强。自强是马达，是追求优秀的“强心针”，父母陪伴的只是孩子人生的一小段，路怎么走，走多远，取决于孩子的内驱力。

12. Help children cultivate self-reliance. Self-reliance is the engine, the "stimulant" for pursuing excellence. Parents accompany only a small part of a child's life; how they go about their journey and how far they go depends on the child's internal drive.

13. 用心培养。父母对教育的态度，决定了孩子未来的高度。教育不是放任，更不是包办一切，而是培养良好的行为学习习惯，用包容的心态去面对孩子。

13. Cultivate with care. The attitude of parents towards education determines the height of their children's future. Education is not about indulgence, nor is it about taking over everything, but about nurturing good behavior and learning habits, and facing children with a包容 mindset.

14. 和谐 平等 善学善导

14. Harmony, Equality, Good at Learning and Guidance

15. 好的学习氛围——如果家长是不断学习的人，那么孩子也会耳濡目染，成为热爱学习的人。

15. A good learning atmosphere — if the parents are people who are constantly learning, then the children will be influenced by them and become people who love learning.

16. 讲卫生。家里物品分类有序摆放，养成饭前洗手，每天刷牙两次等良好卫生习惯，经常拖地抹灰，全家人一起动手。

16. Maintain hygiene. Keep household items neatly categorized and organized, develop good hygiene habits such as washing hands before meals and brushing teeth twice a day, regularly sweep the floor and dust, and have the whole family participate in the cleaning.

17. 善学善导。作为家长，要根据自家孩子的年龄段学习相应的教育和心理知识。这样引导孩子时才能循循善诱，达到预期目的。

17. Be good at learning and guiding. As parents, it is necessary to learn the corresponding educational and psychological knowledge according to the age of your own children. Only in this way can you guide your children with patience and wisdom, achieving the desired goals.

18. 看了人民日报这段话，感触颇深：“别把劲儿都使在孩子身上，如果自己充实、快乐、有责任感，有情绪管理能力，孩子会模仿你的，教育从来不是要求，而是影响，教育之道无他，唯爱与榜样而已。

18. Reading this passage from the People's Daily deeply touched me: "Don't put all your energy into your children. If you are content, happy, responsible, and have the ability to manage your emotions, your children will imitate you. Education is never a demand, but an influence. The way of education is not about anything else but love and example."

19. 呵护精神成长。家长应注重引导孩子与书为友，在阅读与探究中形成孩子的兴趣爱好，奠定孩子的精神底色，影响孩子的终生成长。

19. Nurture spiritual growth. Parents should focus on guiding children to make books their friends, forming their interests and hobbies through reading and exploration, laying the spiritual foundation for children, and influencing their lifelong growth.

20. 好的家庭成员——成功的家庭教育需要良好的家庭氛围，如果妈妈情绪稳定平和，爸爸参与孩子成长，孩子主动参与家庭事务，孩子的成长过程就会充满安全感，就能成为一个自信阳光的人。

20. Good Family Members - Successful family education requires a positive family atmosphere. If the mother maintains emotional stability and peace, if the father is involved in the child's growth, and if the child actively participates in family affairs, the child's growth process will be filled with a sense of security, and they will be able to become a confident and sunny person.

21. 用心尊重。所谓尊重孩子，是在与孩子的意见发生冲突时，父母能认真地倾听理解孩子的感觉及需求。尊重不应是父母的一言堂，要尽可能给孩子充分的自主权，尊重孩子的选择，培养孩子的独立自主性。

21. Pay attention to respect. What is meant by respecting children is that when parents have conflicts with their children's opinions, they can seriously listen and understand the feelings and needs of their children. Respect should not be a one-way street for parents; they should give children as much autonomy as possible, respect their choices, and cultivate their independence and self-reliance.

22. 良好的行为习惯。例如敢作敢当，做事有责任感，有始有终，不怕困难。

22. Good behavioral habits. For example, being brave and taking responsibility, being responsible and persistent, and not fearing difficulties.

23. 1以身作则，榜样垂范。父母是孩子第一任教师，孩童时期，孩子喜欢模仿父母言行。所以，好的家庭教育一定重视垂范作用。希望孩子彬彬有礼，父母也应该谦恭有礼；希望孩子喜好阅读，父母也应该手不释卷；希望孩子好学上进，父母也应该不断学习。

23. 1 Set an example and serve as a role model. Parents are the first teachers of their children. During childhood, children tend to imitate the behavior and words of their parents. Therefore, good family education must place emphasis on the role of setting an example. If parents hope their children to be polite and courteous, they themselves should also be humble and polite; if they wish their children to enjoy reading, they should also keep their hands on books; if they hope their children to be eager to learn and progress, they themselves should also continue to learn.

24. 而且，改变自己的父母会更加尊重孩子的个性与选择。他们不会强行干预孩子，更不会用打骂的方式去吓到孩子，他们会遇到问题时循循善诱的引导孩子，孩子也会在碰到问题时首先想到的是父母怎么做，父母在自我提升中领悟到每个生命都有其独特的成长轨迹，从而给予孩子充分的自由发展空间，鼓励孩子勇敢地去探索自我、发现世界。

24. Moreover, changing one's own parents will lead to greater respect for the child's personality and choices. They will not forcibly intervene in their child's affairs, nor will they use corporal punishment to scare the child. Instead, they will guide the child with patience when they encounter problems. The child will also first think about what their parents would do when faced with problems. As the parents improve themselves, they come to understand that each life has its unique path of growth, thus providing the child with ample space for free development and encouraging the child to bravely explore themselves and discover the world.

25. 父母要改变自己，去影响孩子才是最可取的！

25. It is most advisable for parents to change themselves and influence their children!

26. 首先要改变自己，当父母专注于自身成长时，家庭氛围会悄然发生积极的转变。他们不再一天天唠唠叨叨，不再将焦虑与压力，负能量无端地传递给孩子，而是用自身的平和与乐观为孩子营造出稳定且温馨的家庭氛围，饭桌上有说有笑，和孩子能相互尊重的去交流，在这种轻松愉悦的环境中，孩子也会悄悄的发生改变，变得更阳光，更开朗，更有包容心，更有责任感，心态变得平和，放下了思想包袱，身心也能健康发展。

26. First and foremost, one must change oneself. When parents focus on their own growth, the family atmosphere will quietly undergo a positive transformation. They no longer constantly nag, nor do they pass on anxiety, pressure, and negative energy to their children unnecessarily. Instead, they use their own calmness and optimism to create a stable and warm family atmosphere, filled with laughter and joy at the dinner table, where they can communicate with their children in a mutually respectful manner. In this relaxed and pleasant environment, the children will also quietly change, becoming more sunny, more open, more tolerant, and more responsible. Their mindset becomes peaceful, and they put down the burden of thought, allowing both their mind and body to develop healthily.

27. 真正觉醒的家庭：不做无谓的言语数落，要求自己，改变自己，言传身教，去影响孩子！

27. A truly awakened family: do not engage in meaningless verbal criticism, demand yourself, change yourself, teach by example, and influence your children!

28. 好的品格引导——孩子犯了错，家长不应一味包庇或者抱怨，要先让孩子感受到父母的爱，然后引导孩子学会承担责任，可以使用“非暴力沟通”方式：观察—感受—需求—请求。

28. Good Character Guidance - When a child makes a mistake, parents should not simply indulge in protection or complain. Instead, they should first let the child feel their parents' love, and then guide the child to learn to take responsibility. The "Nonviolent Communication" approach can be used: Observe - Feel - Needs - Requests.

29. 每个孩子都有成为优秀人的潜质，是父母不同的教育方式，赋予了孩子不一样的人生。

29. Every child has the potential to become an outstanding person, and it is the different educational methods of parents that endow children with different lives.

30. 开放、创新的思维习惯。父母做人做事能勇于开拓进取，不墨守成规，孩子耳濡目染，更容易保持强烈的好奇心、丰富的想象力和无穷的探索精神，这是成功的推进器。

30. Open and innovative thinking habits. When parents are brave in exploring and making progress, not adhering to conventions, children, influenced by this, are more likely to maintain a strong curiosity, rich imagination, and endless spirit of exploration, which serves as a propeller for success.

31. 2重视品格，热爱生活。有些家长只关注孩子学习成绩的进退，对孩子品格的养成却不是很重视。有些孩子学习上是学霸，但与人相处很是紧张，情商有明显不足。好的家庭教育一定重视品格超过知识，并引导孩子成为热爱生活的人。为人父母，为孩子计深远，有品格走得更远，有热爱走得更稳健。

31. 2. Place importance on character and love for life. Some parents only pay attention to their children's academic progress and regression, but not enough emphasis is placed on cultivating their character. Some children excel in their studies but are very tense when interacting with others, showing a significant lack of emotional intelligence. Good family education must prioritize character over knowledge and guide children to become people who love life. As parents, when planning for the future of your children, those with character can go further, and those with a love for life can walk more steadily.

32. 积极向上，榜样示范。不管家长在教育孩子的过程中遇到多大的阻碍，都要及时调整自己的情绪，用积极乐观的心态来解决问题，让孩子学会如何面对生活中的挫折和困境。

32. Be positive and set a good example. No matter what obstacles parents encounter in the process of educating their children, they should adjust their emotions in time, use a positive and optimistic attitude to solve problems, and teach their children how to face setbacks and difficulties in life.

33. 自律。每个人都有偷懒的时候，家长除了适时地提醒孩子外，还要自己加强自律，身先士卒做孩子的榜样。

33. Self-discipline. Everyone has times when they feel like slacking off, and parents should not only remind their children at the right time but also strengthen their own self-discipline, leading by example for their children.

34. 刚，指的是有原则。先让孩子知道做事的基本准则在哪，如果犯了错，将会有什么样的惩罚，做得好也会有适当的奖励，做到奖罚分明，绝不因为一时的心软而放纵孩子。

34. "刚"， refers to having principles. First, let the child know the basic rules for doing things, and what kind of punishment there will be if they make a mistake, as well as appropriate rewards for doing well. Be firm in distinguishing between rewards and punishment, and never indulge the child due to momentary leniency.

35. 爱读书。大人经常读书看报，或者读故事给孩子听，定好每天饭后的读书时间，设有书房，置有书架，营造良好的读书氛围。

35. Enjoys reading. Adults often read books and newspapers, or read stories to their children, set a specific reading time after each meal, have a study room, and a bookshelf, creating a good reading atmosphere.

36. 在这样的家庭中，父母一块分担家务，大事小事，有商有量，饭后各自在各自的领域里汲取知识，而不是每天拿着手机刷着手机，同时要求孩子好好学习！这样对孩子不公平！

36. In such a family, parents share household chores together, discussing both big and small matters, and after meals, they each absorb knowledge in their respective fields rather than spending the whole day swiping through their phones. They also demand that their children study hard! This is unfair to the children!

37. 榜样的力量是无穷的，言传身教永远胜于无休止的唠叨，嘴上数落孩子一百次，不如亲自带孩子去做一次！

37. The power of example is limitless; teaching by word and deed is always better than endless nagging. One hundred times of scolding a child with words is not as good as taking the child out to do it together!

38. 相信孩子。要允许孩子用自己的方式成长，你能给予的是陪伴和耐心。

38. Believe in your child. Allow them to grow in their own way. What you can give them is companionship and patience.

39. 空气般的自由。当孩子面临困难或挑战时，父母适当地隐身、让位，给孩子锻炼和体验的机会，这是孩子拔节需要的自由。

39. The freedom of air. When children face difficulties or challenges, it is appropriate for parents to step back and make room, giving children the opportunity to exercise and experience, which is the freedom they need to grow and flourish.

40. 父母是孩子的第一任老师，也是终身和永远的老师。成功的家庭教育，能够激发孩子自身的动力，发现孩子独特的天赋，为孩子指明未来发展的方向。只有家庭教育与学校教育相互配合，才能培养出优秀的孩子。

40. Parents are the first teachers of their children, and also lifelong and eternal teachers. Successful family education can inspire the children's own motivation, discover their unique talents, and point out the direction of their future development. Only when family education and school education work together can excellent children be nurtured.

41. 我们都希望孩子好，家长每每谈论起来，好像衡量好孩子的标准是，学习成绩好，不让人操心，听话，懂事，可我们有没有想过，自己优秀吗？如果自己不优秀，凭什么要求孩子一定优秀？如果自己不优秀，孩子在这样的环境中长大，他又怎么能优秀？哪个孩子愿意看到一天无所事事的父母，整天唠唠叨叨，把焦虑的心情和负能量传递给孩子，又拼命的要求孩子要好好学习，要变优秀？

41. We all wish for our children to be well, and when parents talk about it, it seems as if the standard for a good child is having good academic performance, not causing worry, being obedient, and being sensible. But have we ever thought about our own excellence? If we are not excellent ourselves, then on what grounds do we demand that our children must be excellent? If we are not excellent, how can our children excel in such an environment? Which child would want to see their parents doing nothing all day, constantly nagging, passing on anxious feelings and negative energy to their children, yet frantically urging them to study hard and become excellent?

42. 3尊重孩子，尊重规律。好的家庭教育或许有很多不同点，但他们一定能做到“爱如他所是而非我所想”。尊重孩子，真正从孩子感受出发，而不是将自己的意愿强加给孩子；尊重规律，教育孩子从孩子的身心特点出发，而不是揠苗助长提出苛刻要求。如此，孩子才能发挥所长茁壮成长。

42. 3 Respect the children and respect the laws of nature. Good family education may have many differences, but they must definitely be able to achieve "love them as they are, not as I imagine." Respect the children, truly starting from their feelings, not imposing our own wishes on them; respect the laws of nature, educating children based on their physical and psychological characteristics, not trying to hasten their growth by making excessive demands. In this way, children can develop their strengths and grow robustly.

43. 拓宽眼界。孩子除了从书本上汲取知识，还要接触外面的世界，开阔眼界。优秀的父母不会局限于培养“书呆子”，而是会带着孩子到处走。长见识的同时，孩子也会更热爱生活。旅行的途中，父母要注重锻炼孩子的生活能力。

43. Broaden horizons. Children should not only gain knowledge from books but also be exposed to the outside world to broaden their horizons. Excellent parents will not be confined to nurturing "bookworms" but will take their children everywhere. While broadening their horizons, children will also develop a greater love for life. During travel, parents should pay attention to cultivating their children's life skills.

44. 关注人格养成。家长应更多地关注孩子的情商与生活能力的培养，培养孩子自强自立的能力，而不是片面强调智商与分数。

44. Pay attention to personality development. Parents should pay more attention to the cultivation of their children's emotional intelligence and life skills, fostering their children's ability to be self-reliant and independent, rather than overly emphasizing intelligence and grades.

45. 欣赏鼓励。孩子的言行往往是稚嫩的、不尽完美的，家长欣赏的目光、鼓励的话语，会给予莫大的鼓舞。父母懂得赏识孩子，孩子会逐步自信、自立、自强。

45. Appreciation and Encouragement. Children's words and actions are often naive and not perfect. The admiring gaze and encouraging words from parents can give them great encouragement. When parents know how to appreciate their children, the children will gradually gain confidence, self-reliance, and self-improvement.

46. 家庭布置。家庭环境的布置，体现的是一个家庭的教育理念。家长可以通过温馨的布置打造家庭文化，比如以一面书墙取代电视墙，建设家庭阅读角、家庭图书馆，让孩子爱上阅读，享受阅读。

46. Family decoration. The arrangement of a family environment reflects the educational philosophy of the family. Parents can create a family culture through warm and cozy arrangements, such as replacing the TV wall with a bookshelf, establishing a family reading corner and library, to encourage children to love reading and enjoy the pleasure of reading.

47. 柔，指的是陪伴。家长不缺席孩子的每个成长阶段，从引导到慢慢放手，做他们最坚实的后盾。允许他们有犯错的机会，允许他们去探索世界，允许他们发表自己的观点。可以无言，但一定要在场，做孩子身边最有底气的存在。

47. Gentle refers to accompaniment. Parents should not be absent from any stage of their children's growth, from guidance to gradually letting go, serving as their most solid support. Allow them the opportunity to make mistakes, to explore the world, and to express their own views. While silence is acceptable, it is crucial to be present and be the most confident presence by the child's side.

48. 爱运动。家长是孩子的教练，将自己儿时玩过的适合孩子的传统游戏教给他们，让孩子在运动中增强体质，树立信心。

48. Love sports. Parents act as coaches for their children, teaching them traditional games they played as kids that are suitable for them. This allows children to strengthen their physical fitness and build confidence through exercise.

49. ​​然而，培养子女并非易事，需要父母以身作则，用自身的言行去潜移默化地影响孩子。在孩子迷茫时给予正确的引导，在他们犯错时耐心地教导纠正，在他们取得成绩时给予鼓励与肯定。给予孩子足够的爱与陪伴，让他们在温暖的家庭环境中茁壮成长，同时也要学会适时放手，让他们在风雨中历练，培养坚韧不拔的毅力。

49. However, raising children is not an easy task. It requires parents to set an example through their own actions and words, subtly influencing their children. Provide the right guidance when they are confused, patiently teach and correct them when they make mistakes, and encourage and affirm them when they achieve success. Give children enough love and companionship, allowing them to thrive in a warm family environment. At the same time, also learn to let go at the right time, letting them experience the storms and cultivate an indomitable perseverance.

50. 用心陪伴。每个人从孩童时代起，最需要的两个礼物，就是安全感和确认自己的重要性。父母对孩子的影响，不在于挣了多少钱，给孩子买了多少东西，而在于对孩子的陪伴有多少。父母陪孩子共同度过的每个瞬间里，都藏着他的未来。

50. Devote heartful company. From childhood, the two most needed gifts for everyone are a sense of security and the confirmation of their own importance. The influence of parents on children does not lie in how much money they earn or how many things they buy for their children, but in the amount of time they spend accompanying them. Every moment spent together by parents and children hides his future.

51. 身体力行。家长的言行是对孩子品格教育的“亲身示范”，能潜移默化地影响、感染和陶冶孩子的品格。家长的敬业精神和强烈的进取心，会给子女起到榜样示范作用，影响子女对待自己学业和为人处世的态度。

51. Practice what you preach. Parents' words and actions serve as a "personal demonstration" in the character education of their children, which can subtly influence, infect, and refine their children's character. Parents' dedication to their work and their strong drive for progress can serve as a role model for their children, influencing their children's attitudes towards their studies and their approach to life.

52. 爱总结。每隔一个星期、半个月或一个月，召开家庭会议，家庭成员各自总结自己的成绩和不足，在总结中成长。

52. Fond of summarizing. Every other week, every half month, or every month, hold a family meeting where each family member summarizes their own achievements and shortcomings, and grows through the summary.

53. 讲礼貌。家长带头与邻居打招呼，主动礼让他人，微笑待人，大方招待客人。孩子耳濡目染，自然就学会了。

53. Be polite. Parents should take the lead in greeting neighbors, actively give way to others, treat people with a smile, and generously entertain guests. Children will naturally learn from this through constant exposure.

54. 父母若能有效管理情绪，冷静应对生活中的挑战，孩子便会学习到如何在困境中保持镇定，而非动辄慌乱或暴躁。他们以自身的自律和坚持为示范，让孩子明白持之以恒追求目标的意义，而非空洞地催促孩子努力。

54. If parents can effectively manage their emotions and calmly face the challenges of life, their children will learn how to remain composed in difficult situations rather than being prone to panic or anger. By setting an example of self-discipline and perseverance, they teach their children the value of pursuing goals consistently, rather than merely urging them to work hard in a hollow manner.

55. 讲规矩。家长要以身作则，做好孩子的示范引领，同时要结合孩子的年龄，制定相应的规矩，让孩子有规可依，有矩可行。

55. Set rules. Parents should lead by example and be role models for their children. At the same time, they should consider the child's age and establish corresponding rules, so that the children have guidelines to follow and boundaries to respect.

56. 这种家庭里的亲子关系也会更加和谐与平等，这种孩子就没有叛逆期，父母与孩子在相互尊重与欣赏，鼓励的基础上共同成长，孩子不再是被管教的对象，父母也不再是高高在上，孩子成为与父母并肩前行的伙伴，相互鼓励，相互加油，共同成长，一起在人生的道路上分享感悟、共同书写家庭成长的美好篇章。

56. In such families, the parent-child relationship will be more harmonious and equal. These children do not go through a rebellious phase. Parents and children grow together on the basis of mutual respect and appreciation, encouragement. The child is no longer an object of discipline, and the parents are no longer superior. The child becomes a companion walking side by side with the parents, encouraging each other, cheering each other on, growing together, and sharing insights on the road of life, jointly writing a beautiful chapter of family growth.

57. 帮助孩子树立自信。自信是基石，是健康成长的“定心丸”，让孩子在学习、生活、合作中体验成功，信任父母、教师、同伴，让孩子在属于自己的花期自信绽放。

57. Help children build self-confidence. Confidence is the foundation, a "counselor" for healthy growth, allowing children to experience success in learning, life, and cooperation, trusting their parents, teachers, and peers, and letting them confidently bloom in their own bloom time.

58. 自由。虽然孩子年龄小，自控能力弱，但在家庭教育中，家长也应该给予孩子充分的自由。优秀的家长都会适当给孩子一些私人空间，让他们学会自己选择。

58. Freedom. Although children are young and have weak self-control, in family education, parents should also give children sufficient freedom. Excellent parents will appropriately provide children with some private space, allowing them to learn to make their own choices.

59. 促进个性发展。家长应真正树立“找唯一而不是争第一”的教育理念，帮助孩子找到不同于别人的、真正属于他们自己的独特优势，陪伴孩子做最好的自己。

59. Promote individual development. Parents should truly establish the educational philosophy of "seeking uniqueness rather than competing for first place," helping children find their own unique strengths that differentiate them from others, and accompanying them in becoming the best version of themselves.

60. 和谐。父母要共同营造和谐的家庭氛围，孩子犯错，不大声苛责，心平气和与孩子谈心，助力孩子形成健全的人格和健康的心理。

60. Harmony. Parents should jointly create a harmonious family atmosphere. When children make mistakes, they should not scold them loudly, but talk to them calmly and peacefully, helping children to form a sound personality and a healthy psychology.