拥抱生活，感受余生：十四句善待自己的话语

Embrace life, cherish the remainder of your days: Fourteen sayings to treat yourself kindly.

1. 我每天都在数着你的笑，可是你连笑的时候，都好寂寞。

1. I count your smiles every day, but even when you're smiling, you're still lonely.

2. 32习惯孤独不是渴望孤独只是喜欢孤独带给我集体所不能给我的踏实和舒服似乎我比较喜欢一个人的狂欢，懂得享受孤独的人是幸福的！

2. The habit of solitude is not a longing for it, but a liking for the sense of security and comfort it brings, which seems to be something that I prefer in a solitary celebration. Those who know how to enjoy solitude are truly blessed!

3. 38有那么几天会对身边的人事物感到无比的厌倦和乏力会想要独处，想要安静，想要随心所欲。

3.38 There are some days when one feels an immense exhaustion and boredom towards the people and things around, desiring solitude, quietness, and the freedom to do as one wishes.

4. 35你有没想过，有一天突然惊醒，发现自己在高一的课堂上睡着了。

4. 35 Have you ever thought about waking up suddenly and finding yourself asleep in a first-year high school class?

5. 13遇见你之前，感觉很孤单，虽然一个人很自由，很清淡，很天然。

5. Before meeting you, I felt very lonely, although being alone is very free, very light, and very natural.

6. 10日子日复一日，年复一年，在平平淡淡从从容容之中流过，生活是什么人为什么要生活我好象从没思考过这个问题。回头想想，生活真的太复杂了，它的内容千变万化，让人捉摸不透，正如有首歌唱得好：生活是一团麻，生活是一杯酒……

6. On the 10th day, day after day, year after year, life flows by in a plain and relaxed manner. What is life, and why should one live? I seem to have never thought about this question. Looking back, life is indeed very complex, its content changing endlessly, making it hard to grasp. Just as a song goes, "Life is a bundle of troubles, life is a cup of wine..."

7. 30有一种感觉总在失眠时，才承认是“相思”;有一种缘分总在梦醒后，才相信是“永恒”;有一种目光总在分手时，才看见是“眷恋”;有一种心情总在离别后，才明白是“失落”。

7. 30 There's a feeling that only surfaces during sleepless nights, when it's acknowledged as "yearning"; there's a kind of fate that only becomes believable after waking from a dream, as "eternal"; there's a gaze that only reveals "affection" at the moment of parting; and there's a mood that only makes sense after a farewell, as "loss."

8. 物是人非，知交零落，但消磨过、享受过的美好时光真实存在，于纸端，我曾拥有一个静谧的世界。

8. People change, friends scatter, but the beautiful moments that were spent and enjoyed are truly existent. On the paper, I once possessed a tranquil world.

9. 36爱的时候不辜负人，玩的时候不辜负风景；睡觉时不辜负床，一个人时不辜负自己。

9. When in love, do not disappoint others; when at play, do not disappoint the scenery; when sleeping, do not disappoint the bed; when alone, do not disappoint yourself.

10. 39我想要的未来，有房子住，不用多大，最好窗外有阳光。

10. 39 The future I want is one where I have a house to live in, not too large, ideally with sunlight streaming through the windows.

11. 17你看秋天来了是不是凉凉的可是不冷正好是思念的温度我把所有一点一点的回忆都归还给天空等熟悉了气候才知道其实那并不是我最想要的情绪。

11. 17 You see, autumn has arrived, isn't it cool? But it's not cold, just the temperature of longing. I return all the little bits of memory to the sky. Only after getting accustomed to the climate do I realize that it's not the emotion I most want.

12. 10时光悠然，不快不慢，其实是对人生的一种提醒。把握自己的力量，活一场适合自己的人生，让心态慢下来。

12. The leisurely pace of 10 o'clock is neither too fast nor too slow, which is actually a reminder of life. Seize your own strength, live a life suited to you, and slow down your mindset.

13. 45懂得享受生活的过程，人生才会更有乐趣。忘记一个人，并非不再想起，而是偶尔想起，心中却不再有波澜。

13. Understanding and enjoying the process of living makes life more enjoyable. To forget someone is not to never think of them again, but to occasionally think of them, yet without any ripples in one's heart.

14. 不好吃，但不耽误心情愉悦，狂风暴雨天总是能让我心情舒畅，享受慢生活。

14. Not very tasty, but it doesn't hinder my pleasant mood. On stormy days, it always makes me feel at ease, enjoying the slow pace of life.

15. 54生活中的许多苦难，让我们学会了承受，学会了担当。

15. Many hardships in life have taught us to endure and to take responsibility.

16. 偶尔，让生活慢下来，时钟滴答滴答，很慢很慢，光晕一圈一圈，很慢很慢。

16. Occasionally, let life slow down, the clock ticking away, very slowly, very slowly, the light晕染一圈又一圈，very slowly, very slowly.

17. 很享受自己独处的慢时光，可以头脑清晰的思考人生，可以安安静静地想自己的心事。

17. I greatly enjoy my solitary slow moments, where I can think about life with a clear mind and quietly ponder my own thoughts and concerns.

18. 43人生最大快乐，是自己的劳动得到了成果。农民劳动得了收获工人劳动出了产品医生劳动治好了病教师劳动教好了学生，其他工作都是一样。——谢觉哉

18. The greatest joy in life is to see the fruits of one's own labor. Farmers reap their harvest, workers produce goods, doctors heal the sick, teachers educate students, and other professions are the same.- Xie Juezhai

19. 30人生并非游戏，因此我们没有权利随意放弃它。

19. Life is not a game, so we do not have the right to give it up at will.

20. 28只要我们的心灵之舟还漂荡在生活之海的那片蔚蓝里，她就会摇篮般地使我们的生命享受着生活中每一刻美妙的时光。

20. 28 As long as our soul's boat continues to drift in the vast blue expanse of the sea of life, it will cradle our life, allowing us to enjoy every moment's wonderful time in life.

21. 48做一个温暖的女子，不求大富大贵，只求生活简单快乐。

21. 48 Be a warm-hearted woman, not seeking wealth and status, but only seeking a simple and happy life.

22. 44木棉花开，谁与谁执手相看？木棉花开，谁为谁依然守候？

22. When the kapok trees bloom, with whom do they hold hands and gaze at each other? When the kapok trees bloom, who is still guarding for whom?

23. 16漫天星星是浪费的，为你换一盏灯才是浪漫的。

23. 16 stars in the sky are a waste, but replacing them with a single light for you is romantic.

24. 14人的生活象广阔的海洋一样深，在它未经测量的深度中，保存着无数的奇迹。

24. The lives of 14 people are as deep as the vast ocean, and in its uncharted depths, countless wonders are preserved.

25. 27再苦再累，只要坚持往前走，属于你的风景终会出现。

25. No matter how hard or tired you are, as long as you keep moving forward, the scenery that belongs to you will eventually appear.

26. 女人最享受是这一段（恋爱期）时光，责任尚未上身，身边又有个可靠的人。

26. Women most enjoy this period (the dating stage), where they have not yet taken on responsibilities and have a reliable person by their side.

27. 让生活慢下来吧，你会发现很多风景差点就错过了。

27. Slow down life, and you'll find that you almost missed many landscapes.

28. 46心归何处，迷醉红尘误。真情难舍甘承苦，谢君陪一段路。缘深深惟己知，份渺渺切领悟。不求世人能解，宁自享受孤独。

28. Where does the heart belong, lost in the intoxication of the world's dust? True feelings are hard to let go, glad to bear the bitterness. Thank you for accompanying me a journey. The profoundness of destiny is known only to oneself, and the faintness of fate is deeply understood. Not seeking the world's understanding, I prefer to enjoy solitude.

29. 37你原以为自己会和他的余生紧紧绑在一起，可他最终还是在你的生命里，随便走了一遭。

29. 37 You once thought you would be tightly bound to him for the rest of your life, but in the end, he just wandered through your life at his own will.

30. 6生活时常和我们开着玩笑你期待什么什么就会离你越远你执着谁就会被谁伤害得最深所以做事不必太期待坚持不必太执着要学会放放下不切实际的期待放下没有结果的执着什么都在失去什么都留不住唯有当下的快乐与幸福。

30. Life often plays jokes on us. The more you anticipate, the farther it seems to move away from you. The more you cling to someone, the deeper you will be hurt by them. Therefore, do not expect too much, do not be too persistent. Learn to let go of unrealistic expectations and the执着 that has no result. Everything is lost, nothing can be retained. Only the joy and happiness of the present moment matter.

31. 13我相信每一只雄鹰，都是在享受着云天万里的辽阔中练就了自己的一双有力的翅膀。

31. 13 I believe that every eagle has honed its pair of strong wings while enjoying the vastness of the sky and clouds.

32. 43在我路过的风景里，有你陪伴，我亦不曾孤单。

32. In the landscapes I pass by, with you by my side, I have never felt alone.

33. 29缘来是你，只要余生都是你，以前遇到的问题都不是问题。

33. It's been you all along, and as long as the rest of my life is with you, the problems I've encountered before are no longer problems.

34. 25慢生活是有底气的自给自足而不是好吃懒做得过且过。

34. Slow living is self-sufficiency with confidence, not merely living carelessly from day to day with no ambition.