在纷繁的世界中，我们每个人都是一半清醒，一半宽容。清醒地审视自己，宽容地接纳他人，这样的生活，健康而充满活力。十二句箴言，道尽健康生活的真谛。

In the complex world, each of us is half awake and half tolerant. Being awake to examine ourselves and tolerant to accept others, such a life is healthy and full of vitality. Twelve proverbs, explaining the essence of a healthy life.

1. 因为不想再被人看穿，于是学会了掩藏。因为不想再被人刺伤，所以学会了伪装。

1. Because I didn't want to be seen through anymore, I learned to hide. Because I didn't want to be wounded by others anymore, I learned to pretend.

2. 人之所以痛苦，在于追求错误的东西。与其说是别人让你痛苦，不如说自己的修养不够。如果你不给自己烦恼，别人也永远不可能给你烦恼。因为你自己的内心，你放不下。你永远要感谢给你逆境的众生。认识自己，降伏自己，改变自己，才能改变别人。每一种创伤，都是一种成熟。

2. The reason why people suffer is because they pursue the wrong things. It is more accurate to say that the pain comes from one's own lack of cultivation, rather than from others. If you don't give yourself烦恼 (distress or trouble), others can never give you any either. Because it is your own heart that you cannot let go of. You should always be grateful to all beings that bring you adversity. By knowing yourself, overcoming yourself, and changing yourself, you can change others. Every wound is a form of maturity.

3. 13大家都认为我没什么朋友，事实上我确实没什么朋友。

3. 13 Everyone thinks I don't have many friends, and in fact, I really don't have many friends.

4. 时时刻刻都要擦亮眼睛看清楚身边谁是人谁是鬼，人性的黑暗面并不是那么容易看透的。尤其是职场中，不要太骄傲得意忘形，偶尔某些人糖衣炮弹足以让你粉身碎骨，可要时刻小心哦！

4. At all times, you must keep your eyes sharp to discern who is a person and who is a ghost among those around you. The dark side of human nature is not easy to see through. Especially in the workplace, don't be too proud and get carried away. Sometimes, certain people's sweet words and gifts can be enough to shatter you into pieces, so always be careful!

5. 14要怎么说呢，要承认生活里失望和错序是正常的，欢喜与顺遂才是意外。

5. 14 How should one put it? It is normal to admit that disappointment and disorder are part of life, while joy and smooth sailing are the exceptions.

6. 有些路注定是要孤身一人走的，想要到达繁华，必经一段荒凉。

6. Some paths are meant to be walked alone; to reach the bustling and vibrant, one must first traverse through desolation.

7. 16但行好事莫问前程，这是老板希望员工恪守的准则。

7. "Do good deeds without concerning yourself with the future, this is the principle that the boss hopes the employees will adhere to."

8. 17有些决定，只需要一分钟，可是，却会用一辈子，去后悔那一分钟。

8. 17 Some decisions can be made in just one minute, but yet, they can lead to a lifetime of regret for that one minute.

9. 对一个人的挑剔越多，说明爱得越肤浅，即便分开也没什么好遗憾。因为，真正的爱人都抢不走，能够被抢走的，要么爱得不够，要么不爱，变心了。有些事看不透，有些人放不下，不是你蠢，是太过善良。因为善良，所以才不要等不该等的人，不能伤不该伤的心。感谢负心人，让你早早看透一个人一颗心。

9. The more critical one is of a person, the shallower the love, and even if they part, there is nothing to regret. Because, a true loved one cannot be taken away, and what can be taken away is either not loved enough, or not loved at all, or has changed their mind. Some things are not transparent, and some people are not easy to let go of, and it's not because you're foolish, but because you are too kind. Because of kindness, one should not wait for those who should not be waited for, and should not hurt those hearts that should not be hurt. Thank you to the unfaithful person, for allowing you to see through a person and a heart early on.

10. 我不想为任何人改变，我只想好好的。如果可以，我宁愿找一个爱自己多一点的，那样就不会有伤心，更不会有失落。我已经被伤过，但我不允许再发生第二次。我想我已经没有多大的勇气，去全面的投入另外的一份感情。

10. I don't want to change for anyone; I just want to be fine. If possible, I would rather find someone who loves me more, so there wouldn't be any heartache, let alone disappointment. I have been hurt before, but I don't allow it to happen again. I think I no longer have much courage to fully commit to another relationship.

11. 4如果永远不去做你能力以外的事，你就永远无法进步。

11. 4 If you never do things beyond your capabilities, you will never be able to make progress.

12. 人不要太骄傲，不要以为你很了不起，就不把别人当人看，随便的使唤人，比你了不起的人多了去，迟早有一天你也会如此的不堪

12. People should not be too proud. Don't think you are exceptional and not treat others as human beings, using them casually. There are many people more exceptional than you, and sooner or later, you will also be so不堪。

13. 5人生不过是午后到黄昏的距离，茶凉言尽，月上柳梢。

13. Life is merely the distance from afternoon to dusk, tea gets cold, and the moon rises over the willow branches.

14. 12每件赏心悦目的东西背后，总有一段悲哀的隐情，连最不起眼的小花要开放，世界也得经历阵痛。

14. Behind every delightful thing, there is always a hidden sorrow. Even the most insignificant little flower has to go through a period of pain to bloom, and the world itself has to endure distress in order to progress.

15. 17醉过才知酒浓，爱过才知情重。你不能做我的诗，正如我不能做你的梦。

15. Only after getting drunk do you know the richness of wine, and only after loving do you understand the depth of affection. You cannot write my poem, just as I cannot weave your dream.

16. 始终不忍心，不舍得，将一切天长地久变成斑驳在记忆里的荒凉。

16. Always reluctant to let go, not willing to part, turning everything that was meant to last forever into a desolate landscape etched in memory.

17. 15某些东西，明明知道没有意义，但依然很在意，谁都会有这样的东西。

17. 15 There are certain things that, even though we know they don't have any meaning, we still care deeply about them. Everyone has such things.

18. 刚开始的时候，他什么都不介意。不介意你的过去，不介意你的坏脾气。然后有一天，他开始介意，他不是那么情深地说过不介意吗？谁知道，时日过去，他忘记了自己所说的一切。人在得不到的时候，什么都可以不介意。得到之后，什么都有点介意。这是爱情，希望你不要太介意。

18. In the beginning, he didn't mind anything. He didn't mind your past, and he didn't mind your bad temper. Then one day, he started to mind. He hadn't said so deeply that he didn't mind, had he? Who knows, as time went by, he forgot everything he had said. When people can't get what they want, they can't mind anything. After getting it, they start to mind a little bit about everything. This is love, and I hope you won't be too particular about it.

19. 52逢场作戏和终身不渝之间的区别只在于逢场作戏稍微长一些。

19. The difference between playing along for the fun of it and being faithful forever is just that the former lasts a bit longer.

20. 23对于忠告，你所能做的，就是把它奉送给别人，忠告从来就不是给自己准备的。

20. 23 As for advice, what you can do is offer it to others; advice is never meant for oneself.

21. 不要活在别人的嘴里，不要活在别人的眼里，而是把命运握在自己手里。

21. Do not live in the mouth of others, do not live in the eyes of others, but grasp your destiny in your own hands.

22. 3无底线的迎合，只会让自己站在大雾里，连自己都看不清自己。

22. 3. Catering to others without limits will only leave you standing in a thick fog, where you can't even see yourself.

23. 11我把自己的幸福藏在黑暗里，心里的甜蜜却肆无忌惮地开出了花。

23. 11 I hide my happiness in the darkness, but the sweetness in my heart blooms unrestrainedly.

24. 16人一旦悟透了就变得很沉默，不是没有与人相处的能力，而是没有了与人逢场作戏的兴趣

24. Once 16 people have realized the truth, they become very silent. It's not that they lack the ability to interact with others, but rather they no longer have the interest in playing along with others.

25. 12世界上大部分事，都没有太大意义。真理与热爱除外。

25. 12 Most things in the world don't have much meaning. Truth and love excepted.

26. 在生命之中最快乐的是拼搏，而非是成功，在生命之中最痛苦的是懒散，而非是失败。

26. The greatest happiness in life is striving, not success, and the greatest pain in life is laziness, not failure.

27. 57体重不过百，不就是平胸就就是矮。说的好像就是过百就就是大胸好身材。

27. If someone weighs less than 100 pounds, it's like saying they either have flat breasts or are short. It sounds as if crossing the 100-pound mark automatically means having a big bust and a good figure.

28. 听人说品味秋的滋味必须人到中年，可能是历经了年少轻狂，春风得意，惆怅困顿，悲欢离合，五味杂陈，无所不有。品秋，已然不是纯粹的秋色秋意，还有种种对人生的感悟在里面。

28. It is said that one must be middle-aged to truly appreciate the taste of autumn. This may be because it involves having experienced youthful recklessness, prosperity in the spring, melancholy and distress, joy and sorrow, parting and reunion, a blend of all five flavors, and having encountered everything. Appreciating autumn is no longer just about the pure autumn color and mood; it also encompasses various insights about life.

29. 心里最崇拜谁，不必变成那个人，而是用那个人的精神和方法，去变成你自己。---蔡康永

29. It is not necessary to become the person you admire the most in your heart; instead, use their spirit and methods to become yourself. --- Tsai Kang-yung

30. 不要觉得你了不起，也不要太骄傲，麻烦你学会尊重别人，也是尊重你自己，说别人的时候想想自己是怎样的人。谢谢你今天的教育，以后必定报答你。

30. Don't think you are extraordinary or too proud. Please learn to respect others, which is also a way to respect yourself. When talking about others, think about what kind of person you are yourself. Thank you for today's teaching, and I will definitely repay you in the future.

31. 6女生所说的看着干干净净的男生，其实就就是指长的帅。

31. What the 6 girls said about the boys looking clean and tidy is actually just a reference to being handsome.

32. 4听到一些事，明明不相干的，也会在心中拐几个弯想到你。

32. 4 Even when hearing something unrelated, it will take a few detours in my heart and lead me to think about you.

33. 喜欢偶像很好，为他们做事也很好。请态度不要太骄傲，一副高高在上的感觉让人不舒服。或许不会的东西比你们多，前线资料比你们少。但，喜欢的心并不会输。不是懂了什麼就可以高姿态对人。谢谢付出的很多每个团队。

33. It's great to like idols and to do things for them. Please don't be too proud and come across as condescending, as it makes people uncomfortable. Perhaps there are things you don't know that are more than what you do, and you might have less front-line information. But, the heart that loves will not lose. Not everything you understand gives you the right to be haughty towards others. Thank you very much to all the teams for your dedication.

34. 我看着划过天边的流星，那么的美，美的只是那一瞬间，却依旧芳华耀人。

34. I watched the shooting star划过天空，so beautiful, beautiful just for that moment, yet still shining brightly.

35. 与你走过的世界，留下了一份抹不去的回忆。虽没有真正爱过，但已然成为了世上熟悉的陌生人。或许一般人都能拿得起放的下，而我，没有几个人能轻易走进我心里，一旦走进，就要费十倍的力气忘记。花开花落，云卷云舒，唯愿你安好。

35. The world you've walked through has left an unforgettable memory that can't be erased. Although I haven't truly loved, you have become a familiar stranger in the world. Perhaps most people can pick up and put down things easily, but for me, there are very few who can easily enter my heart. Once they do, it takes ten times the effort to forget. With the blooming and falling of flowers, the rolling and unfolding of clouds, I only wish you well.

36. 无论这个世界对你怎样，都请你一如既往的努力、勇敢、充满希望。

36. No matter how this world treats you, please continue to work hard, be brave, and be full of hope as always.

37. 友情和爱情一样，也是有保鲜期的，想一想，有多少已经不联系的朋友，默默地存在于你的通讯录中。 不是不想联系，实在是人生残酷，时空变幻，你我再无交集，与其相见，不如怀念，与其攀缘，不如随缘。人生不过是一场旅行，你路过我，我路过你，然后，各自修行，各自向前。

37. Just like love, friendship also has an expiration date. Think about it, how many friends have you not been in touch with for a while, quietly existing in your contact list. It's not that we don't want to get in touch, it's just that life is cruel and the passage of time changes everything. There's no intersection between us anymore. It's better to remember than to meet, better to let go than to struggle. Life is just a journey; you pass by me, I pass by you, and then, we each continue on our own paths.

38. 20如果婚姻是爱情的坟墓，那模范夫妻充其量，不过是‘示范公墓’罢了。

38. If marriage is the graveyard of love, then模范夫妻 (model couples) at best are just 'demonstration cemeteries'.

39. 两个相爱的人最初走在一起，对方为自己做一件很小的事情，我们也会很感动。后来，他要做很多的事情，我们才会感动。再后来，他要付出更多更多，我们才肯感动。在爱情里，一定要学会知足，因为能遇到对的人，已经不容易，他能对你好，就更应该珍惜。爱，由不得贪婪！

39. When two lovers first start to walk together, if the other person does something small for them, they can be deeply moved. Later, they need to do many things for them to feel touched. And even later, they need to give even more, then they will be willing to feel moved. In love, one must learn to be content, because it's not easy to meet the right person, and even more so when they are good to you, which is even more reason to cherish. Love does not allow greed!

40. 22男女之间不可能存在友谊，有的只是爱恨情仇。

40. There can be no friendship between men and women; what exists is only love, hate, and enmity.

41. 再长的路，一步步也能走完，再短的路，不迈开双脚也无法到达。

41. No matter how long the road, it can be walked step by step; no matter how short the road, it cannot be reached without taking a step.

42. 41人生的首要责任是尽量虚伪。至于第二责任是什么，至今尚无人发现。

42. The primary responsibility in life is to be as deceptive as possible. As for what the second responsibility is, no one has discovered it yet.

43. 25垃圾食品都特别好吃，人渣也都特别有魅力。

43. 25 Fast food is particularly delicious, and scoundrels are also particularly charming.

44. 失去多少不要太在意，或许它根本就不属于你。得到的，也不要太骄傲，因为兴奋会让人忘我。

44. Don't be too concerned about how much you have lost; perhaps it never belonged to you in the first place. Don't be too proud of what you have gained either, because excitement can make one self-centered.

45. 幸福，是用来感觉的，而不是用来比较的。生活，是用来经营的，而不是用来计较的。

45. Happiness is meant to be felt, not compared. Life is meant to be lived, not to be accounted for.

46. 15过去的事情唯一可爱之处就在于它已经过去。

46. The only charm of things that have happened in the past is that they are over.

47. 心有多软，壳就要有多硬；否则漫漫人生路如何走得下去。

47. The softer the heart, the harder the shell must be; otherwise, how can one navigate the long journey of life?

48. 我们的失败，一是错给了时间，二是败给了距离，三是输给了自己。我们总感觉一生很长，明天很远，可梦想永远不会在等待中实现；我们艳羡别人的成功，总认为离自己遥不可及，殊不知，只要你愿意走，就会慢慢地接近目标；对于错失的，我们喜欢寻找为自己开脱的借口，结果是，我们在心安理得中欺骗着自己。

48. Our failures are due to three reasons: first, we gave away our time; second, we were defeated by distance; and third, we lost to ourselves. We always feel that life is long and tomorrow is far away, but dreams will never be realized through waiting. We envy others' success and always think it is unreachable, yet we don't realize that as long as you are willing to move forward, you will gradually approach your goals. For the things we missed, we like to find excuses to justify ourselves, and as a result, we deceive ourselves with a sense of peace and reason.

49. 有时，爱也是种伤害，残忍的人，选择伤害别人，善良的人，选择伤害自己。

49. Sometimes, love can also be a form of harm. The cruel ones choose to harm others, while the kind-hearted ones choose to harm themselves.

50. 人生不可能总是顺心如意，但持续朝着阳光走，影子就会躲在后面。刺眼，却是对的方向。

50. Life is not always as one wishes, but by continuously walking towards the sunlight, the shadow will hide behind. It may be blinding, but it's in the right direction.

51. 亲切可爱型，待人亲切、支持照顾、孝顺父母；

51. Amiable and adorable type, friendly and supportive to others, caring for family, filial to parents.

52. 18别人对你好，你要争气，图有朝一日，可以有所报答，别人对你不好，你更要争气，图有朝一日，扬眉吐气。

52. 18 If others are kind to you, you should strive to do well, hoping to repay their kindness one day. If others are unkind to you, you should be even more determined to succeed, aiming to rise above their ill treatment and feel proud.

53. 9梦想这东西和经典一样，永远不会因为时间而褪色，反而更显珍贵。

53. 9 Dreams are like classics; they will never fade with time but instead become more precious.

54. 有些人在问题出来之前就把问题消灭掉了，这是智慧者；

54. Some people eliminate problems before they even arise, which is the mark of a wise person.

55. 3失败不是告诉你你没出息，而是在提醒你你真的该努力了。

55. 3 Failure is not telling you that you're no good, but rather reminding you that you really should start trying harder.

56. 8不要轻易拒绝问题和困难，因为你拒绝的不是麻烦，而是你成长的机会。

56. 8 Do not easily reject problems and difficulties, because what you are rejecting is not trouble, but an opportunity for your growth.

57. 拥抱是最疏离的姿势，因为你永远都看不到对方的表情。

57. Hugging is the most distant posture, because you can never see the other person's expression.

58. 1月：白色紫罗兰，纯洁的爱；2月：雏菊，单纯。3月：栀子花，欢乐。4月：兰花，优美。5月：蒲公英，娴静。6月：康乃馨热情。7月：蔷薇温暖的心。8月：菊花，天真无邪。9月：梅花，高尚。10月：丁香，幸福。11月：百合，庄严。12月：薰衣草，期待。

58. January: White Violet, Pure Love; February: Daisies, Innocence. March: Jasmine, Joy. April: Orchid, Grace. May: Dandelion, Serenity. June: Carnation, Passionate. July: Rose, Warm Heart. August: Chrysanthemum, Innocence. September: Plum Blossom, Noble. October: Lilac, Happiness. November: Lily, Majesty. December: Lavender, Anticipation.

59. 9你并不就是一无所有，你还有一身矫情和病。

59. 9 You are not truly destitute; you still have a sense of pretension and illness within you.

60. 19想一千次，不如去做一次。华丽地跌倒，胜过无谓的徘徊。

60. Thinking a thousand times is not as good as taking action once. A grand fall is better than aimless wandering.

61. 人就是很容易被驯化，但不会被百分百驯服。小王子不要太骄傲，弃狐狸也会长出锋利的牙齿。再也不会瘦成那副鬼样子，肉肉的脸会旺夫。

61. People are easily tamed, but they can never be completely subdued. The Little Prince shouldn't be too proud; even if the fox is abandoned, it will grow sharp teeth. He will never be as thin as that eerie figure again; his chubby face will be lucky for his spouse.

62. 命运一半掌握在上帝手中，另一半掌握在自己手中。成功就是用自己手中的一半去赢得上帝手中的另一半。

62. Half of fate is in God's hands, and the other half is in our own. Success is to win the other half in God's hands with the half in our own.

63. 今生，遇一生缘，守一段情，注定，与文字结缘，与禅心相恋。奈何，落花有意，清风无情。缘初不相识，缘尽不相认，执笔封心思，只为曾有的那段碎碎恋。

63. In this life, meeting a lifelong connection, cherishing a lasting affection, it is predetermined that I should be fated to be connected with words and fall in love with Zen-like mindfulness. However, the falling blossoms have intention, while the cool breeze has no emotion. The initial meeting of fate was a stranger, and the end of fate is not recognized. Holding the pen to seal my thoughts, it is only for that once-upon-a-time scattered love.

64. 女人需要书房，我觉得其重要程度不亚于女人需要衣橱。一个养内，一方安外，缺了哪个都会令人遗憾。

64. Women need a study room, and I believe its importance is no less than the need for a wardrobe. One to cultivate the inner self, the other to secure the outer world; the absence of either would be regrettable.

65. 爱了，就要去学会珍惜，痛了，就要去学会努力，伤了，就要去学会安慰自己，累了，就要去学会好好休息，相信自己别动怒，和自己说声对不起也没有难度，加油超过你自己，努力，努力，努力。

65. When in love, learn to cherish; when in pain, learn to strive; when hurt, learn to comfort yourself; when tired, learn to rest well; believe in yourself and don't lose your temper; it's not difficult to apologize to yourself; keep striving and exceed yourself; effort, effort, effort.

66. 7容颜会老去，四季不会停。那些散碎在笔尖的光阴，寂静欢喜。

66. 7 The face will age, but the seasons never pause. The scattered moments on the tip of the pen are quiet and joyful.

67. 一个人的成就，与一个人的本事，没多大关系。而与一个人的福报有关。我骨子里非常认同他说法，所以我时刻提醒自己，一个人，有点成就不要太骄傲，这是上天给的。有不堪也不要太气馁，老天给予你什么命运你就接受什么命运。世间不幸的人太多了，他们不还是无条件去接纳它？

67. A person's achievements have little to do with their abilities, but rather with their blessings. Deep down, I strongly agree with this perspective, so I constantly remind myself that one should not be too proud of a bit of achievement, as it is given by heaven. And one should not be too discouraged by adversity either, as whatever fate heaven bestows upon you, you should accept it. There are too many unfortunate people in the world; aren't they still willing to accept it unconditionally?

68. 做人啊不要太骄傲了，你儿子考了幼师是比我好，前途可能比我好很多，但是请不要低估每一个年轻人，专业再好，学的烂，也就只是个烂专业。

68. You shouldn't be too proud, okay? Your son passing the kindergarten teacher exam is better than me, and his future might be much better than mine. But please don't undervalue every young person. No matter how good the major is, if you don't study well, it's just a lousy major.

69. 每天晚上疲劳的睡在床上时，才感觉真真切切地过了一天。人生最重要的不仅是努力，还有方向。压力不是有人比你努力，而是比你牛叉几倍的人依然比你努力。即使看不到未来，即使看不到希望，也依然相信，自己错不了，自己选的人生错不了。

69. Only when lying exhausted in bed every night do I truly feel that I have lived through the day. The most important thing in life is not just hard work, but also direction. Stress is not about someone working harder than you, but about people who are several times more excellent than you still working harder. Even if I can't see the future, even if I can't see hope, I still believe that I can't be wrong, and the life I have chosen can't be wrong.

70. 有一种失落，不能说，只能靠感受；有一种悲凉，不能说，只能靠敛藏；有一种喜欢，只能靠欺骗来隐瞒；有一种心痛，叫做爱不能语。--- 张爱玲

70. There is a kind of loss that cannot be expressed, but can only be felt; there is a kind of melancholy that cannot be expressed, but can only be concealed; there is a kind of liking that can only be hidden through deception; there is a kind of heartache called "love that cannot be put into words." --- Eileen Chang

71. 19在我们懵懂的时分，总会有这么小我，让我们为他犯贱良多年。

71. When we are naive, there is always such a person who makes us suffer for him for many years.

72. 人生若只如初见 可是，只如初见，也就没有而今的甜蜜。爱情是一场冒险，也许我会碰得焦头烂额，也许我会重又变成孤单一人；但是，为了那么优秀的可爱的你，我心甘情愿冒险。假使错了，那不是你的错，是我看错了。

72. If life were only like the first encounter, but if it were only like the first encounter, there would be no sweetness today. Love is an adventure, and perhaps I might end up a mess, or perhaps I might once again be alone; however, for such an excellent and lovely you, I am willing to take the risk. If it goes wrong, it's not your fault, it's my mistake.

73. 不是所有的人都能迁就你，今天卖的最差的一天，所以不要太骄傲。

73. Not everyone can accommodate you; today is the worst day for sales, so don't be too proud.

74. 世界上总是有那么几个傻瓜，一直在等那些没有结局的结局。

74. There are always a few fools in the world who keep waiting for endings that have no resolution.

75. 10不要到处诉说世界有负于你，世界不欠你什么，因为它先你而存在。

75. 10 Do not go around complaining that the world has let you down, for the world owes you nothing, as it existed before you.

76. 当你长大，你慢慢学会几件事情；有些人不必理会，无论他说什么做什么，多么幼稚又多么讨厌，真的不需要在乎。有些人永远成不了你的敌人，不必抬举他，这种人太看得起自己了，以为拼命攻击你伤害你，就能够被你所恨。有些人不必等待，你心里其实清楚得很，这个人不必再等了，只是你放不下。

76. As you grow up, you gradually learn a few things; some people don't need to be paid attention to, no matter what they say or do, how childish and讨厌 they are, it's really not necessary to care. Some people will never become your enemies, so there's no need to elevate them; these people are too self-righteous, thinking that by fiercely attacking and hurting you, they can be disliked by you. Some people don't need to wait; in your heart, you are actually very clear that this person doesn't need to be waited for anymore, but it's just that you can't let go.

77. 16真正的爱情需要等待，谁都可以说爱你，但不是每个人都能等你。

77. True love requires patience, everyone can say they love you, but not everyone can wait for you.

78. 9爱情是平淡而持久的，越是真，就越安静;越是久，就越平淡。

78.9 Love is plain and enduring; the more sincere it is, the quieter it becomes; the longer it lasts, the more plain it becomes.

79. 真爱，不会因为伤害而有怨言；不会因为艰难而放手；也不会因为放手而去憎恨。

79. True love will not harbor resentment due to hurt; it will not let go because of hardship; nor will it turn to hatred upon letting go.

80. 28念念不忘，必有回响。得了吧，别人早就把你忘了。

80. 28 Keep thinking about it, and there will be an echo. Come on, others have long forgotten about you.

81. 得意时不张扬，挫败时不气馁！记住你好的时候不一定有人替你高兴，你不好的时候更没有人替你伤心！永远不要太骄傲，低调做人，认真做事！

81. Do not boast when you are successful and do not get discouraged when you face setbacks! Remember that when you are doing well, not everyone will be happy for you, and when you are not, no one will be sad for you! Always be modest, live a humble life, and do your work with seriousness!

82. 与文字静守，与音乐相伴，不张扬，不喧哗，不夺目，于静默处悄然绽放。

82. In harmony with the tranquility of words, accompanied by music, unpretentious, not noisy, not dazzling, blooming quietly in the silence.

83. 15每次只要我开始喜欢什么，就会马上面临结束，我并不是期待他们偶尔出现在我的生活中才喜欢的。

83. 15 Whenever I start to like something, it's immediately faced with an end, and it's not that I like them only when they occasionally appear in my life.

84. 7成熟不是为了走向复杂，而是为了抵达天真。天真的人，不代表没有见过世界的黑暗，恰恰因为见到过才知道天真的好。

84. Maturity is not about moving towards complexity, but about reaching simplicity. A simple person does not mean they have never seen the darkness of the world; on the contrary, it is precisely because they have seen it that they know how truly good simplicity is.